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Speaker 2: So these would be our cheat code of DOWNA B

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Speaker 1: I want you to plan the full date. And also

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like your the internet exists, your phone is in

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Speaker 4: This Texas just pack the diaper bag. Don't ask what

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay. We did something very interesting yesterday. We were

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Speaker 2: There were a bunch of these that we came up with.

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Speaker 3: There's no hidden message behind that.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people said who have kids, like, it's

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Speaker 3: I don't know, Bailey, am I missing?

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Speaker 4: I know it's like a mental workload and everything stop

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Speaker 2: Well, today we're turning the tables and we're like, you know,

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Speaker 2: you know what, here's what I would like you to do.

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Speaker 2: I would say, our minds work differently, but we're not stupid,

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Speaker 3: Because I'll be honest with you.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes Susan talks to me like I'm a five year old,

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Speaker 3: And it's like, I know you're not four, and but but.

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Speaker 2: I would say one thing, don't treat us like a child,

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Speaker 5: I'll kind of kind of go off of that one.

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Speaker 5: Trust us to take care of stuff. Like there was

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Speaker 5: what do you as a guy? What is your cheat

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Speaker 5: with you, I don't know that we have a whole lot.

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 5: I said, men are simple creatures. I feel like, you know,

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Speaker 5: I feel like to please a man. Not every man

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Speaker 5: sure you want this? Are you sure you want that?

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Speaker 5: I promise I will like it. I'm glad you're feeding me.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to think if there's like a little thing

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Speaker 2: you acknowledge our birthday, we do like, you know, yeah,

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Speaker 2: thirty four years old. You don't need an acknowledgement on

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Speaker 2: if you run down to like buyer Ley's and bias

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Speaker 1: Do you guys want that reciprocated? Do you want to

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Speaker 2: Yes, because honestly it's true. It is true because we

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Speaker 2: Let us know that we are attractive. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I think that goes back to like the you know,

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Speaker 3: We have no problem as men leading and the relationship.

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Speaker 5: But I think you know, tell us that you you

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Speaker 5: that you want to intimate, initiate intimacy. I think I

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Speaker 5: know yesterday you guys said like, oh, you don't want

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Speaker 5: And don't test us. Don't be like, oh I was

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Speaker 5: waiting to see if you would do this, they use

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Speaker 1: Okay, I just in defense of that one. It's not

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not like reading our minds.

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Speaker 1: It's like, hey, can you please just do the things

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Speaker 1: I've already told you a million times to do this.

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Speaker 2: Here's a text message. We're asking like, what is a

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Speaker 2: cheat code for a guy? Because we did ones yesterday

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Speaker 3: Here's one.

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Speaker 2: If a guy says he's going to do something, give

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Speaker 2: But as long as you do it, I think sometimes

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Speaker 2: women will get annoyed because you have a habit of

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Speaker 2: saying you're going to do something and not doing it like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm going to clean out the garage. I am going

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Speaker 2: to finish that whatever that I project. Well, you've been

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Speaker 2: saying that for two years.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Sen says, let me know your power. Let them

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Speaker 1: know you're proud of them for completing in difficult things

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Speaker 1: you think you might have needed Profession four, and like

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Speaker 1: praise them about it.

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Speaker 3: Oh, it goes a long way. Definitely true a lot. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: If he puts in a new garbage disposal and he

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Speaker 2: seals it and it doesn't drip into the under the counter,

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Speaker 2: under the sink, that's a big he's proud of himself. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so make sure you say hey, I mean, you know,

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Speaker 2: it's like a child that brings you a macaroni necklace.

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Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, we want to hear that. It's a

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Speaker 3: good thing. This text says cheek code for women.

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Speaker 4: If you're venting or complaining to us, try to preface

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Speaker 4: with what you want the outcome to be, because you

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Speaker 4: know we're going to try to fix it. But if

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Speaker 4: all you want is moral support, tell us ahead of time.

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Speaker 5: And that kind of goes back Yesterday, Jenny and Bailey

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Speaker 5: all were saying when you vent to us about something,

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Speaker 5: ask if you want a solution or comfort?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 3: Is that what you said? Sometimes I think as.

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Speaker 5: Men, we just want to make sure that you're feeling good,

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Speaker 5: so we jump to try to finding solutions.

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Speaker 2: Here's another one that we'll take a break here and

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Speaker 2: see what you come up with. Vaughn said, men are

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Speaker 2: easy to please. I think that a little bit of

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Speaker 2: appreciation goes a long way. My wife told me today

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Speaker 2: thank you, and I said for what she said, for everything.

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Speaker 2: That little bit made my day. So if the man

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Speaker 2: is doing something, well, let them know instead of just

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Speaker 2: assuming that's what should have been done.

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Speaker 3: That's true. Okay, that's so true.