Speaker 1: Mojo in the Morning eight four to four Mojo Live
Speaker 1: eight four four six five four eight all Right, War
Speaker 1: the Roses and a wife who catches her wife being
Speaker 1: very friendly with another woman, and the woman is the
Speaker 1: person that she goes and has to do her hair,
Speaker 1: her hairstylist. I got a couple of questions, and I'm
Speaker 1: intrigued by this. And let me tell you why. I'm
Speaker 1: intrigued because whenever we have had War the Roses, where
Speaker 1: you have a guide cheating with a woman who he
Speaker 1: claims is his friend, like in the topic comes up
Speaker 1: all the time of can somebody a guy be a
Speaker 1: friend with another woman, okay, without it being sexual, without
Speaker 1: it being sexual? I asked that question. I think you
Speaker 1: know where I'm going to go, right Shannon Yep. I
Speaker 1: asked that question, Can a woman, a gay woman, be
Speaker 1: friends with another woman without potentially you worrying that they
Speaker 1: might have interest in each other? Eight four four Mojoe Live.
Speaker 1: I'm just going to throw that out there for what
Speaker 1: it's worth.
Speaker 2: I feel like I have to share my two cents
Speaker 2: of they sounded much more than just friends, and I.
Speaker 1: Wonder if that's the case in some other relationships, that
Speaker 1: that may be listening to the show or maybe dealing
Speaker 1: with that. I was interesting.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would love to hear because you got a
Speaker 3: different type of lesbians, right, you got the films, then
Speaker 3: you got the studs, and I will wonder if it's
Speaker 3: if it's different, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Do you know what I'm saying?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I wonder if it becomes a situation where you go,
Speaker 1: I'm a little worried because I know that they seem
Speaker 1: like they're very, very close and they spend a lot
Speaker 1: of time together.
Speaker 3: If they walking around with you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 3: they got it all them. Yeah, you know what it
Speaker 3: is what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I do have to say this, guys guys get a
Speaker 1: bad They get a bad look all the time. Guys
Speaker 1: get a bad look all the time. Where guys are
Speaker 1: always taking you know, men are scum, they're cheaters and
Speaker 1: all that sort of stuff. It's nice to see women
Speaker 1: also cheating. You like the les I do. I like
Speaker 1: I like to see it. Mike, what's up, it's Mojo
Speaker 1: in the morning. What's your comment. Let's y'all.
Speaker 5: Nah, that girl being manipultive though, broh, she's trying to
Speaker 5: she's trying to trick that girl, play.
Speaker 1: Games with that girl.
Speaker 6: Gas lady.
Speaker 5: Yeah, man, what she's saying, they're talking about songs.
Speaker 1: Listen here listening to my conversations like that. She's sound
Speaker 1: just like that. But she's like, you sit here listening
Speaker 1: to my conversations.
Speaker 5: She's like, we're just two friends hanging out.
Speaker 3: You want to act?
Speaker 6: I would tell you, like, what do you mean, Like
Speaker 6: that's your wife. You don't like if you're going to
Speaker 6: hang out, be like, yeah, I'm want to hang out.
Speaker 7: My girlfriend, not Oh, I'm going to see my hairdresser.
Speaker 1: We'll get my hair done.
Speaker 6: Is she clearly so you're not getting your hair done?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm the worst excuse to me and it comes
Speaker 2: up all the time. If you would have asked, I
Speaker 2: would have told you.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Uh, Cindy, Hi, it's Mojo in the morning.
Speaker 6: Hey, I just wanted to say, did you notice that
Speaker 6: they said I've been thinking about you and I'm always
Speaker 6: thinking about you right off the bat. Yeah, so yeah,
Speaker 6: there's definitely something.
Speaker 1: George, Uh yes, I do say that to him. Actually
Speaker 1: we were very close. George, is my uh my hair
Speaker 1: do you call it a hairdresser or a hairstylist. I
Speaker 1: like to call him my guru, my guy George. What's
Speaker 1: going on? Be hi there?
Speaker 5: I actually am a lesbian who has had struggles with
Speaker 5: straight friends who when we had a conflict, instead of
Speaker 5: like a knowing that we weren't friends because of the conflict,
Speaker 5: they just say, oh, well, she's just in love with me,
Speaker 5: when there's no mutual attraction there whatsoever.
Speaker 3: So they'll blame it on your sexuality as opposed to
Speaker 3: taking accountability.
Speaker 1: Yep, when you when I hear this, and uh being
Speaker 1: I'm going to ask you a couple of questions if
Speaker 1: you don't mind. When I hear this, I wonder how
Speaker 1: many people in your life in relationships? Have you ever
Speaker 1: been jealous of like other female friends when they're around
Speaker 1: your you know, either I don't know, have you been
Speaker 1: married or are you dating?
Speaker 5: I have a girlfriend yet?
Speaker 1: Okay? Have you Have you ever had that happen where
Speaker 1: you got jealous of other women around your girlfriend?
Speaker 5: Honestly, no, not really. We're in an open relationship, so
Speaker 5: oh well, there you go.
Speaker 1: That's a different story altogether. You guys are bringing them
Speaker 1: all in and enjoying it together, right, Are there only?
Speaker 3: Are there only women allowed in this open relationship to
Speaker 3: get it because I mean, did she say she has
Speaker 3: a husband. Yeah, Because because if the conversation is around
Speaker 3: jealousy or who your antennae spark up around, you opened
Speaker 3: up the whole pool.
Speaker 1: It's not just closed off to one population. Hey, NASA,
Speaker 1: what's up Nasa?
Speaker 6: Hey, good morning guys.
Speaker 7: First of all, the wife, what's her name?
Speaker 3: Kayla?
Speaker 7: She gas lit the miss out of her wife, like,
Speaker 7: that's that's ridiculous.
Speaker 4: Their tones changed as soon as they.
Speaker 6: Realized who each other were on the phone.
Speaker 5: Hey, I ain't you knowing everybody?
Speaker 1: Everybody? I love it.
Speaker 6: So friendships like men and women can definitely be friends
Speaker 6: without it being sexual, and it would have to be
Speaker 6: the same I'm assuming as humans.
Speaker 1: I'm going to go back for a second there. I
Speaker 1: don't think you can blanket statement that either way, because
Speaker 1: I think that there are certain people that can't like
Speaker 1: there's certain people that cannot like I know certain guys
Speaker 1: that cannot be around women without thinking that they want
Speaker 1: to have sex with them. I just I know that
Speaker 1: for a fact. I know that there are others that
Speaker 1: can do that. But I think that there's definitely not
Speaker 1: a blanket statement on either side. Rebecca, how you doing?
Speaker 3: IM good?
Speaker 1: Good? What's going on?
Speaker 4: First time time?
Speaker 1: I want to revisit this.
Speaker 4: My best friend is lesbian and we have been friends.
Speaker 4: I'm thirty five. We've been friends since high school. And
Speaker 4: I think that someone who is straight can be friends.
Speaker 1: With someone who is I'm not saying they can't, I'm
Speaker 1: asking the question, has anybody ever had this happen to
Speaker 1: them where you're like, lesbian friend is in a relationship
Speaker 1: and one of her girlfriends that she's dating or married to,
Speaker 1: her wife is uncomfortable with her being around other women
Speaker 1: that she might be attracted to. Yeah, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean.
Speaker 3: Have you been in relationships where they question if it
Speaker 3: was only a friendship between you and your friend?
Speaker 4: No, because anybody, like my husband, when she's around, he
Speaker 4: can tell that it's just two friends having a talk
Speaker 4: or never any of that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's never crossed the line. She's never admitted
Speaker 2: to you that she's had feelings for you over the years.
Speaker 1: Nope, she never tried. Never, not even that once on.
Speaker 4: Never, we've gone out to bars, we've partied together.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you're not a lesbian though, right, you don't.
Speaker 1: That's not something that you are are into. So I
Speaker 1: get it.
Speaker 4: No, that's just that's my best friend, that's my four lifer,
Speaker 4: my writer.
Speaker 1: That everything I listen, I got. I'm friends with with
Speaker 1: gay guys, and I got to tell you I've never
Speaker 1: had sex with them. I'm going on record to say that,
Speaker 1: but they showed me enough attention. You never know, right
Speaker 1: what's going on? Taylor? Hi?
Speaker 8: Hey, how's it going. So I'm I'm a mask lesbian.
Speaker 8: I'm married to a f a mask like a masculine lesbian.
Speaker 1: Okay, not not a stud.
Speaker 8: But I'm a more masculine lesbian. There's a difference in
Speaker 8: studs and masks. Okay, but I'm married.
Speaker 7: It's really about trust.
Speaker 8: I don't put myself in a position that could potentially
Speaker 8: make my wife uncomfortable. Because lesbians are crazy.
Speaker 1: Other lesbians are crazy.
Speaker 8: Single lesbians don't have boundaries. So I don't put my
Speaker 8: I don't. I don't put myself in a position that
Speaker 8: can make my wife uncomfortable. Now, I have straight female friends,
Speaker 8: and my wife is best friends with my best friend
Speaker 8: who's a straight female, And it's it's.
Speaker 7: Just about trust. And you have to if your wife
Speaker 7: put yourself in stupid position if.
Speaker 1: Your wife was going to this hairstylist of that that
Speaker 1: Kayla goes to, would you tell her she can't go
Speaker 1: to that stylist anymore.
Speaker 7: No, my wife's a grown woman.
Speaker 8: She can make her own decisions. But her decision and
Speaker 8: then from that are.
Speaker 1: If you're hairdresser.
Speaker 4: My wife's hairdresser is a gay man.
Speaker 1: So I know I'm giving a hypothetical if you were
Speaker 1: if you were Brianna and just heard this conversation, would
Speaker 1: you ever allow your your wife to go back to
Speaker 1: this uh woman?
Speaker 8: I think there's other conversations that need to be had
Speaker 8: if that's it's not about letting somebody do something else.
Speaker 8: I mean, people make their own decisions.
Speaker 7: I can't control what somebody else does.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't stay I had the situation. I wouldn't be
Speaker 1: comfortable if if I was Brianna and Kayla was going
Speaker 1: back to this uh this woman que because they are
Speaker 1: hanging out with each other, She's not. She hung up.
Speaker 1: What did you want to ask her?
Speaker 3: She made a hell of a statement by saying you
Speaker 3: can't trust uh single lesbians. I wanted to get more
Speaker 3: information if on that and how that's played out in
Speaker 3: her relationship.
Speaker 2: She just said, have no boundaries, have no boundaries.
Speaker 1: That's interesting, isn't it.
Speaker 8: Steve?
Speaker 1: What's up? Steve?
Speaker 6: Hey, what's good? Mojo? First time I got a lot
Speaker 6: of I worked in the gay community for about three years.
Speaker 6: Mambau straight man, What was your job?
Speaker 1: Real quick? We said, you work in the community.
Speaker 6: I was at that got a dancer when I was younger. Okay,
Speaker 6: I work from.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, you weren't anybody talking about Danny's in Forever.
Speaker 1: You weren't the guy putting the candle out with your penis,
Speaker 1: were you?
Speaker 5: No, No, that was not me.
Speaker 6: That was my We did a lot of I had
Speaker 6: another guy that we danced with. We did a lot
Speaker 6: of uh, a lot of bachelorette parties and shows, and
Speaker 6: then a brands come from there.
Speaker 1: Okay, what's you're coming at?
Speaker 6: A manager down a tubes out and my dog?
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 6: But now, so I have a lot of stud friends,
Speaker 6: and I find them actually cheating more than most of
Speaker 6: my Most of the female friends that they'll go and
Speaker 6: hang out with all their guy friends are going to
Speaker 6: play basketball, hanging out watching the game, and they're out
Speaker 6: there sleeping with men. They ain't even sleeping with women.
Speaker 6: They're cheating down their wives and their girlfriends with other guys.
Speaker 1: They strap to the side that that's amazing. I didn't realize.
Speaker 6: I've actually been kind of surprised over the years of
Speaker 6: how quick they'll turn around. And I don't like men,
Speaker 6: I don't like nine but yet they're sleeping with them.
Speaker 5: Wow.
Speaker 1: Well you know what, Uh, love is love? Thank you
Speaker 1: for the call, Steve. Nice to uh reconnect Tim. What's
Speaker 1: going on?
Speaker 6: Tim?
Speaker 7: Good question for you guys, So what you're in a
Speaker 7: great relationship or you know, a gay relationship. How many
Speaker 7: of you guys actually leave the house without.
Speaker 5: Telling your spouse Where you guys are going on? What
Speaker 5: you're doing?
Speaker 4: Uh?
Speaker 1: Well, it depends, but that why is that? What are
Speaker 1: you assuming?
Speaker 5: Well, because you know, she keeps going to see her
Speaker 5: hairdresser every week and keeps telling her, Hey, I'm going
Speaker 5: to go see my hairdresser, so it just doesn't make
Speaker 5: any sense.
Speaker 1: To the hairdresser. Yes, that might be the better question, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: who's why do they keep going back? Which some guys
Speaker 1: get haircuts every week. I don't know if it's the
Speaker 1: same as well. Yeah, guys, I guess it is a
Speaker 1: little different.
Speaker 2: But unless like Anna said, you're getting a blowout every week?
Speaker 1: What's up, Mariana? Hi, Hi Mariena.
Speaker 7: So my best friend is a lesbian and we have
Speaker 7: been accused of being together for years. No matter how
Speaker 7: many guys I have dated or anything, we have been
Speaker 7: accused of dating. And what she always says is everyone
Speaker 7: assumes that I've turned you into a lesbian, but no
Speaker 7: one assumes that you have.
Speaker 1: Turned me straight. Huh.
Speaker 2: That's interesting and truly, nothing's ever happened between you two.
Speaker 1: No, nothing. Why do you get accused? Are you? Is
Speaker 1: there something that you're doing is sending off a signal? No?
Speaker 7: I mean I don't think so. I believe that people
Speaker 7: or maybe jealous of our friendship.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what it is.
Speaker 2: That's a great reference.
Speaker 7: Yeah, and first time, long time, thank.
Speaker 1: You brand on the phone, thank you.
Speaker 7: For the call from Arkansas.
Speaker 1: I that accent was from somewhere. Is it nice in Arkansas?
Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever thought of Arkansas as a
Speaker 1: place i'd ever go visit. Is a place we should
Speaker 1: go visit?
Speaker 5: Well?
Speaker 7: Yeah, some places are if you stay up north Central
Speaker 7: to north Arkansas is absolutely beautiful. Lower Arkansas is just
Speaker 7: flatlands and farmland.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Well, thank you for the call. I
Speaker 1: appreciate it. Brandon, come back, comes with us out there.
Speaker 1: Uh one last call? What's up? Justin?
Speaker 5: Hey, what's up y'all?
Speaker 1: Justin?
Speaker 4: First off, first time all the time?
Speaker 7: Uh yeah, so uh, I go through this all the time.
Speaker 4: Uh.
Speaker 6: I've had friends in my life.
Speaker 5: I'm a gay meal by the way. But every time I.
Speaker 6: Get cool with somebody or like, we'll be and not
Speaker 6: to say, I don't know what their intentions are, but
Speaker 6: I always get the stereo, the stereotype.
Speaker 1: Of like, oh, are you guys more than that? Are
Speaker 1: y'all more than this?
Speaker 3: And then all of a sudden it gets too much
Speaker 3: for the one they can't identify, and then I lose friends.
Speaker 1: Lose relationships, whatever. Everybody's all of my business and we'll
Speaker 1: just be friends.
Speaker 5: We won't do anything, have any contact or anything.
Speaker 1: You're not being flirty around these.
Speaker 6: Guys, I'm not. I'm not being flirty around them.
Speaker 1: I'm usually just being a good one. That's simness always
Speaker 1: like oh I'm noticing stuff, and it's like, okay, what
Speaker 1: do you notice? Well, that's that's somebody that's insecure with him.
Speaker 3: To be honest, any of these dudes, y'all, what's the
Speaker 3: furthest you done got one of your so called friends
Speaker 3: that was straight, He says.
Speaker 5: There doesn't.
Speaker 7: I mean if this was in the morning show.
Speaker 1: Wait a second now, Liar Liard fire and I heard
Speaker 1: it's Oh my god.