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Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, it's not heading up Palm Springs.

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Speaker 3: Time they get there, they have to sleep and then

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Speaker 1: It's pretty insane, but you know this is what they did. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: It was good, first time going in February, so that

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Speaker 2: We did have to go down to the beach and

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Speaker 2: but a good trip. A little tired today. Got in

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Speaker 3: I was thinking because I was really raining at one

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Speaker 2: No, I was already. Would you do it? Yeah, because

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Speaker 1: This is really what I want to know about. Did Yeah,

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Speaker 3: The skies skies made it so they can't live without her.

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Speaker 3: So I was really a list of where everything is, toothbrushes.

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Speaker 2: So I was shocked by this reaction. I was like, wow,

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Speaker 2: That's not a solo vacation.

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Speaker 1: Bro, I would This is tricky because you guys don't

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Speaker 1: I want this solo time for me, blah blah blah. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: But I have the time. Yeah, but I was thinking

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Speaker 1: that something else? Well, we'll see if this happens there

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Speaker 2: Happen, So I'm just gonna him go with her, and

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