WEBVTT - Evan & Tori's Easy Date Ended with a Hard Ghost

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<v Speaker 1>More variety from the two thousands of the nineties and

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<v Speaker 1>today it's Star one on one three, it's Marcus in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. Down to your second date update. Let's bring

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<v Speaker 1>our guy, Evan on. Evan, are you there?

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<v Speaker 2>Good morning, Hey morning, how you doing.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good, I'm good man. I want to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>your date. Obviously we're talking about Tory.

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks for the DM, so let's talk about it. What

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<v Speaker 3>did you guys do?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I realized you met online and everything, but

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<v Speaker 1>tell me about this dinner.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>To be honest, I'm really surprised because it was an

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<v Speaker 2>amazing dinner. I thought the connection was good, and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>confused about why she ghosted.

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<v Speaker 3>Sure.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, Curtin all the way back, Evan did

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<v Speaker 1>confess to me off the air. He's not a morning person,

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<v Speaker 1>so it took every ounce of energy to make this

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<v Speaker 1>phone call.

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<v Speaker 3>So now I have to come through. Yeah, what did

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<v Speaker 3>you guys talk about?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, she was just really funny and we shared this

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<v Speaker 2>similar like a sense of humor, and she was really

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<v Speaker 2>real and we connected on you know, we're both stressed

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<v Speaker 2>about work and we watch all the same shows and

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<v Speaker 2>it was just nice to have a date that didn't

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<v Speaker 2>feel like an interview, like we were actually connecting and

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<v Speaker 2>sure I had a nice time.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's see if we can get her on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to see if we can get you a

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<v Speaker 1>second date. Obviously, I'd love to figure out why she ghosted, but,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, thinking positively, let's see if we can

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<v Speaker 1>move this forward.

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<v Speaker 3>Evan, you ready to do this. I'm a little nervous,

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<v Speaker 3>but yeah, I was gonna ask you, are you nervous?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you get nervous?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, go ahead and meet your phone. She won't be

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<v Speaker 1>able to hear you, but you can listen in. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hell e, hi, is this toy than toy?

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<v Speaker 1>It's Marcus calling from Star one to one three.

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<v Speaker 3>Good morning. Uh, it's a I do a morning radio show.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you listen a radio show?

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<v Speaker 3>It is? You've never you've never heard of it. That's okay,

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<v Speaker 3>it's all right, it's okay. They're just my feelings. I

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<v Speaker 3>have more. It's fine, this is fine. Hey, do you

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<v Speaker 3>have a second to be on the air? Let me Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I guess, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, Sorry to wake you. So we do a

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<v Speaker 1>segment on the show called second Date Update. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>a dating segment, and we talk to people who have

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<v Speaker 1>been on our first date. Maybe there was a misunderstanding.

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<v Speaker 1>Trying to salvage something here. I guess you went on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with a guy named Evan and he sent

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<v Speaker 1>me your phone number, and he's feeling like you ghosted.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'd like to try to figure out, I'll be blunt,

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<v Speaker 1>what did Evan do wrong? Or have you just been busy?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, did you ghost a little? Okay, how did

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<v Speaker 1>it go for you?

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<v Speaker 4>Like it started ouh good, but it kind of went

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<v Speaker 4>off the rails for me a little bit. Uh. He

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<v Speaker 4>just he had some like works.

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<v Speaker 1>This has been a theme all this week. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>well tell me about evans strange quirks.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, So first of all, like this is a small thing,

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<v Speaker 5>but it's just kind of hard to ignore. He kept

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<v Speaker 5>like wiping his hands on his pants instead of using

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<v Speaker 5>his napkin, and not just after eating, like after touching

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<v Speaker 5>the menu, picking up his phone, he shook hands with

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<v Speaker 5>the server. He just kept like wiping his pants over

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<v Speaker 5>and over.

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<v Speaker 3>Again and did not use the napkin at all.

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<v Speaker 4>No, it was just like on his lap the entire time.

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<v Speaker 4>It was like he didn't trust his hands. That like

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<v Speaker 4>they were clean, but he also kind of like didn't

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<v Speaker 4>believe in napkins and both of them, like both for

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<v Speaker 4>reasons are weird. Sure, So that was the first thing.

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<v Speaker 4>The second thing is midway through dinner, he mentioned to

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<v Speaker 4>me that he doesn't wash his water bottle and I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, uh, never ever wash it, and he was

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<v Speaker 4>like laugh and he's like, it's just water. Like that

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<v Speaker 4>was the end of the conversation, Like, I like, you

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<v Speaker 4>have to wash your water bottles.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, I mean, there is bacteria in water, right, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>like it gets moldy. Sure. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's the other half of this is that I've got

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<v Speaker 1>I've got Evan listening right now, and so hopefully we're

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<v Speaker 1>learning some things.

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<v Speaker 3>I'd like to bring him on. Evan.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you there, Hey, yeah, I'm here, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Evan, toy toy, Evan, do you Evan. Let's let's let's

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<v Speaker 1>peel this back a little bit. Do you, legit not

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<v Speaker 1>wash your water bottle?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I don't wash my water bottle. But I'm really shocked. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't think that was a big deal at all.

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<v Speaker 2>It's my bottle, it's just water. It's I mean, people

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<v Speaker 2>over think germs I'm healthy always.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you wash your hands like you obviously you have

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<v Speaker 1>a hand wiping thing, you wash your hands right, like regularly.

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<v Speaker 2>Of course I wash my hands all the time. I

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<v Speaker 2>just don't like my hands to feel greasy. And I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not even thinking about it. Like when I wipe my

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<v Speaker 2>hands on my pants, it's not that big of a deal.

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<v Speaker 4>You just like you touched like everything in the restaurant

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<v Speaker 4>and then wipe your hands on your pants and have

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<v Speaker 4>your napkin, which was right there.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean my my pants are clean, so you know,

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<v Speaker 2>if the pants start clean, then it's fine. I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>rolling around on the floor.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's but that's just like kind of not how

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<v Speaker 4>it works.

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<v Speaker 2>I just feel like people have different thresholds for germs

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<v Speaker 2>and this is really a non issue. It's really surprising.

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<v Speaker 4>It was just yeah, I mean it was just kind

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<v Speaker 4>of gross, Like do you ever use a napkin? And

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<v Speaker 4>to be honest, the water bottle thing, like I really

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<v Speaker 4>can't with that, like you have to wash your water uttle.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just like it's not the one or two things.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just like a pattern, like the contant hand wiping,

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<v Speaker 4>the unused napkin, and the cherry on top was the

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<v Speaker 4>water uttle, and I just kind of feel like I

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<v Speaker 4>couldn't unsee, like I got the egg and I couldn't

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<v Speaker 4>an ache.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a pattern. I mean that, that's so dramatic. These

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<v Speaker 2>are two little, tiny, small things, and we had a

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<v Speaker 2>really nice time.

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<v Speaker 4>So I just don't want to feel like sticky and

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<v Speaker 4>gross sitting across from someone.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't realize either of those things were serious at all.

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<v Speaker 1>So guys, I'm not sure if this is a match. Tori,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to try a second date, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know why I'm asking. No, I'm good, sure, hang on,

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<v Speaker 1>kind of grossed out right now. I'm not gonna lie,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm not a German folk. My second date update