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Speaker 1: his wife potentially hooking up with his best friend. We

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Speaker 1: Later that day, Jed got a call from Mayor the

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Speaker 1: man who contacted us and wanted us to call his wife,

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Speaker 1: Cassidy he wanted to come on the air and apologize

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Speaker 1: for cheating. So, if you're keeping square at home, the

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Speaker 1: man who wanted to catch his wife cheating on his himself,

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Speaker 1: he was cheating the whole entire time. Am I explaining

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Speaker 1: Let's hear from everyone else and see what we thought.

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Speaker 1: Sarah out in Brooksville, Sarah, how long have you been

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Speaker 3: A while?

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Speaker 2: Did you?

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Speaker 1: Did you ever think we would find ourselves in this position?

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Speaker 1: Because I gotta be anesw with you. I've been listening

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Speaker 4: Yeah. You know what's funny is that every time we

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Speaker 4: listen to one of these, it's like, but aren't the

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Speaker 2: She?

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Speaker 4: Are you doing it? Because and like just to this,

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Speaker 4: this one is wild. This is wild. It's like my

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Speaker 4: I've been in a similar situation, and so sitting here listening,

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Speaker 4: fan again, you want to fix it. I mean, he said, oh, well,

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Speaker 4: I why am I going to do the work if

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Speaker 4: they looked at me and said, mommy, let me know

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Speaker 4: because unfortunately they have been through the situation with me.

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Speaker 4: I've gotten a divorce. They've been through it. They know

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Speaker 4: So they're like, tell me, tell me how it goes.

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Speaker 4: And I looked at him, I was like, he cheated.

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Speaker 4: He's calling he cheated. He did it first, he thought

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Speaker 4: out of spite. The whole thing is just crazy.

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Speaker 1: Take him back.

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Speaker 4: No, Nope, no, because it's he did it first. She

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Speaker 4: of therapy that this would take does not make it

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Speaker 1: Thank you for saying, yeah, he had He's had days

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Speaker 4: Sarah.

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Speaker 5: I mean, Katie, yes, I thought it was a terrible

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Speaker 1: He needed to be excuse.

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Speaker 3: Me, confirm that we'll get back together to do any work.

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Speaker 5: No, do the work and you know we'll see if

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Speaker 1: No thoughts on Cassidy though, which is pissing Maddie off. Maddie,

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Speaker 1: What do you think, Maddie.

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Speaker 4: No, I mean the girl is saying that. I mean,

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Speaker 4: the girl's daughter was calling the best friend daddy. But

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Speaker 4: Yet the guy, the guy.

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Speaker 2: Is not wrong.

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Speaker 4: I mean, he's completely wrong.

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Speaker 2: They're both wrong.

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Speaker 4: But I mean, you're calling the best friend daddy. Does

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Speaker 4: no one see what's wrong with that? That's like a

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Speaker 3: They're both toxic.

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Speaker 1: They should and I I don't know are they wasting

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Speaker 3: Maybe based off that apology, therapy for the daughter exactly,

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Speaker 1: Thank you for calling in, James. You say that this

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Speaker 6: Yes, yeah, this is narcissism. One on one, I believe

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Speaker 6: If they were to go to therapy.

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Speaker 6: You have to find someone that has specialized in narcissistic abuse,

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Speaker 1: Well. Thank thank you, James, and thank you for sharing

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Speaker 1: When we're time, if you're just turning your radio, we

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Speaker 1: this wife his husband's concern. He's concerned because his daughter

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Speaker 1: was pointing at a picture of another man saying data.

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Speaker 1: but his daughter is involved in victoria. You do want

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Speaker 2: Yeah, good morning, y'all. Yeah, at the end of the day, regardless,

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Speaker 2: the thing is, when at first listening, I'm like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: But at the same time, regardless of if this is

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Speaker 2: Trying to Yeah, he's just trying to get the you know,

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Speaker 1: So Victorias, but thank you for bringing up something that's

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Speaker 1: super important, which is the daughter. I appreciate you, Victoria.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, of course you'all have a great thing. Hope for

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Speaker 1: Will we hear from them again? I don't know, but

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Speaker 1: I never thought that we'd hear from them a second time.

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Speaker 5: Could happen some counseling, Yeah, circle back around.

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Speaker 1: We'll see what happened. Maybe we Are they anyone that

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Speaker 1: together for Valentine's counseling? Yes, no, I wish all right,

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Speaker 1: we'll figure it out. That's a little bit of school.

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Speaker 1: We're done, though, So check everything out your podcast this

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Speaker 1: And actually, why would I say that when I've got

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Speaker 1: the person in the afternoon who's going to be talking Katie.

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Speaker 1: What's coming up with the show?

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Speaker 5: Well, we've got more chances to win one thousand dollars

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Speaker 5: with cash Burrilla, so that's going to be at ten

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