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Speaker 1: I said, do you ever want to go to the doctor.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry your belly hurts. Have you ever taken a knife.

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Speaker 1: you know, I mean, an off the beaten path.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean you can say like, yeah, I went to Greece.

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Speaker 1: I mean that's cool. I've never been to Greece, right,

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Speaker 1: But maybe you went to let me think of somewhere, Zimbabwe,

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Speaker 1: Zimbabwe good example. Or you went to Finland and you're

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Speaker 1: like that was really cool, or Belarus, which I don't

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Speaker 1: even know where that is. A friend of mine, I

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Speaker 1: think went to Lithuania with a choir group that she's

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Speaker 1: in and she said it was gorgeous and just beautiful,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, I have no desire to go to Lithuania,

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Speaker 1: but she really liked it. So where did you go

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Speaker 1: and what did you sell us on where you went?

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Speaker 1: Tell us I would love to hear your story. Send

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Speaker 1: an email to Ryan's show at ktiwb dot com. That's gone.

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Speaker 1: Do it for the Minnesota. Goodbye,