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Speaker 1: We're live on ninety three three FLZ. By the way,

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Speaker 1: Joe Show's left on Red. Daniel got in contact with

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Speaker 1: us because he was trying to figure out why Mia.

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Speaker 1: They went on a good date, at least he thought

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Speaker 1: it was a good date, and she just has not

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Speaker 1: been talking to him since now. Daniel, the whole entire time,

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Speaker 1: the whole entire time, Mia, you said he was bringing

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Speaker 1: up the gym.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely, human of all times.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you took it as basically like he's telling

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Speaker 1: me I need to lose weight and that's making me uncomfortable.

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Speaker 1: He's basically calling.

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Speaker 2: Me fat, as he has said on the show multiple.

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Speaker 1: Times, which at the end he did definitely call you

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Speaker 1: a chunky and said that your personality is good and

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Speaker 1: you could afford to lose some weight. And Daniel, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're unapologetic about it.

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Speaker 3: I mean, if you want me to say fat, I

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Speaker 3: could say fat. I was just being polite.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, okay, before before paid out loud for everyone

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Speaker 2: to hear, Daniel, just so you know you're on rate.

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Speaker 2: By the way, like all the girls out there, all

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Speaker 2: the girls listening, do not date Daniel.

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Speaker 1: I think calling someone fat definitely can't do that. Now,

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Speaker 1: there is a debate to be had about if you

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Speaker 1: feel a certain way about someone and feel like you

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Speaker 1: could better them. See actually, no, that that sounds super wrong.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how I could put this. But if

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Speaker 1: your significant other, if you see your significant like I've

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Speaker 1: gained weight over the past couple of months, Alyssa hasn't

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Speaker 1: said anything. My fiance hasn't said a single word. I

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Speaker 1: wish she would, though, because at least did it from her.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, hold these people accountable?

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Speaker 1: Man, No, I actually don't. It would kill though.

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Speaker 5: What do you want?

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Speaker 1: My mom?

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Speaker 4: She told me this was when we first started the show.

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Speaker 4: I was freaking fat, man. I was probably forty fifty

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Speaker 4: pounds of a year than what I actually was. But

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Speaker 4: if I didn't get that kick in the pants from

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Speaker 4: somebody who knew and loved me, then I wouldn't have

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Speaker 4: been able to change anything. So this guy actually cares

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Speaker 4: about you. He's saying oh and subliminal ways like hey,

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Speaker 4: you need to lose a few pounds Like that.

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Speaker 2: Is such a completely different situation about fiance significant other.

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Speaker 6: That is where you're in a relationship where you're supposed

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Speaker 6: to say, yeah, this.

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Speaker 4: Is a very good Okay, So he's showing right off

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Speaker 4: He's showing right off the bat. So he's showing right

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Speaker 4: off the bat that he cares. And you take issue

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Speaker 4: to that, all right.

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Speaker 3: Not only is saying.

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Speaker 2: That you're wrong, he hates the way I am.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, guys, real quick, Darien, you agree with me,

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Speaker 1: You agree with Ashley, and I agree with you guys too.

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Speaker 1: Jad's in the right.

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Speaker 7: I cannot even believe the words that are coming out

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Speaker 7: of just not this morning.

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Speaker 1: What do you mean?

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Speaker 7: I am genuinely shocked. You don't tell someone there's fat.

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Speaker 7: If your girl brings it up and says, hey, I'm

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Speaker 7: gaining a few pounds, maybe I should lose some weight.

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Speaker 7: You say, no, baby, you're gorgeous the way you are.

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, sir, that's not love.

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Speaker 4: No, it's yeah, exactly. She she is bring it. She's

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Speaker 4: the one who's bringing it up.

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Speaker 7: So maybe she's looking to you the confirm that she's like.

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Speaker 6: Still going, but you don't agree with her.

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Speaker 5: What is the problem?

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Speaker 2: Why are we so hung up on looking some physical

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Speaker 2: standard anyway?

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Speaker 6: Why can't someone be able to and.

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Speaker 2: They still be physically attractive and loving, especially to the

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Speaker 2: person that they're planning on spending the rest of their life,

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Speaker 2: by the way.

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Speaker 3: Marie, go ahead, Hey, listen, Mia, get rid of this guy.

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Speaker 5: It has nothing to do with your weight, has nothing

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Speaker 5: to do with that much.

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Speaker 3: He cares about you.

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Speaker 5: All this man cares about is controlling you.

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Speaker 3: Listening to the words he's using.

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Speaker 6: He is a control freak.

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Speaker 4: Forget about it.

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Speaker 5: Don't even lose a diamond, sleep over it. Goodbye, mister Daniel.

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Speaker 5: So so let's unpet this really quick. Please listen, let's

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Speaker 5: unpack it. We definitely got some insecurities going.

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Speaker 1: On, right real quick, hold on before Night gets into this.

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Speaker 1: Actually he brings up a great point. Let me reset

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Speaker 1: this for everyone so they know what's going on. Daniel

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Speaker 1: calls us four left on Red, wants to know why

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Speaker 1: Mia hasn't called him back after he thought the date

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Speaker 1: was awesome. Mia says, hey, right right off the jump,

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Speaker 1: he kept on bringing up the gym he's bringing up

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Speaker 1: to Jim. I think he's calling me big. I think

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Speaker 1: that he's trying to get me to work out. I

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Speaker 1: don't want to be with a guy like that. Daniel,

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Speaker 1: You right right, we could play it. You said, hey,

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Speaker 1: you could afford to lose a little bit, Nitro take

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Speaker 1: it away.

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Speaker 5: All right, perfect? So MEA definitely have some insecurities going on, right, No,

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Speaker 5: I don't.

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Speaker 2: I'm happy that I am. The problem is that Daniel

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Speaker 2: is an ass for trying to make me be something

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Speaker 2: that I'm already o. I'm okay with how I am.

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Speaker 2: He's trying to make me something different.

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Speaker 5: I'm totally agree with you. I'm gonna agree with you

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Speaker 5: on that, Daniel, way too soon, right bringing up the

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Speaker 5: gym way too. This is the first date, Like, that's

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Speaker 5: unbelievable to me. I think there's some kind of underlying

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Speaker 5: issue there, Like I'm almost thinking that he has like

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Speaker 5: an X at the gym that he wanted to make

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Speaker 5: jealous or something like why are you trying to force

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Speaker 5: her to go to the gym?

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Speaker 3: Like was excited I met Mia and I was like, man,

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Speaker 3: if she could just get fit, she'd be perfect because

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Speaker 3: I haven't met a girls in a while.

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Speaker 2: You know, you're such a disgusting human, Daniel. You're gonna

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Speaker 2: get old one day and got what, You're gonna get

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Speaker 2: fat too. But guess what, one thing is always going

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Speaker 2: to stay the same size, and that's unfortunate for you.

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Speaker 5: M M Daniel. Wait wait, wait, we're taking it too far, Uh, Daniel,

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Speaker 5: I do understand that perspective. Also, like you see something

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Speaker 5: in her, you say, she has a great personality and

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Speaker 5: you actually want to date me up. But you're just like, hey,

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Speaker 5: you know, just come work out with me a little bit,

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Speaker 5: you know, so you'll be more aesthetically pleasing.

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Speaker 1: But you're saying, is crazy, this is crazy, this is crazy.

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Speaker 5: It is crazy. But it's a way that you do that, Dan,

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Speaker 5: y'all can tell you probably it's a way that you

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Speaker 5: do that, like, and it's not on the first date.

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Speaker 5: It can be something over time, Like if you're spending

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Speaker 5: time together, you're gonna gravelly, you're gonna automatically gravitate towards

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Speaker 5: each other's hobbies. Right, So she's gonna see that you're

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Speaker 5: working out a lot, and I'm.

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Speaker 8: Like, hey, you know you're going to the gym, Boddy, like, hey.

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Speaker 5: You know, just come with me a few times like that.

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Speaker 5: You don't just you don't just tell her no, no, no,

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Speaker 5: It kind of do work out that way, are you.

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Speaker 4: Let's just put it this way. If he was trying

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Speaker 4: to make an ex jealous, he clearly wouldn't be bringing

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Speaker 4: her to the gym right away.

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Speaker 8: Oh, come on, and.

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Speaker 1: Me and me and me and me and MEA thank you, Daniel,

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Speaker 1: thank you mia I. I am so sorry that these

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Speaker 1: guys are a holes, and I wish I could say

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Speaker 1: the whole thing they're asses.

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Speaker 2: But at least they've they've said it for themselves on radio.

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Speaker 1: There you go exactly. You're beautiful. I hope you know

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Speaker 1: that you are. And we'll talk to you. Yep, we'll

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Speaker 1: talk to you later