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Speaker 4: Really Hi you guys, doing today? Good Thursday. Until about

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Speaker 4: a minute ago, what happened well?

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Speaker 6: Let's double in the age of double verification, don't send it.

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Speaker 4: You can't move forward.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, okay, so you're not able to log onto

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Speaker 7: I was wondering because then I tried to reopen my

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Speaker 4: No no, send the email all right? Now does it

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Speaker 4: It doesn't log us out. But I'm not even getting

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Jack, I think I told you about it. Still happening,

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Speaker 3: three one. Have you guys had to get Thursday today?

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Speaker 5: It's you know, I'm a little sore spent.

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Speaker 4: Really what happened? Oh no, yeah, it was a shower

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Speaker 4: talk yesterday. Yeah no, no, I wish what kind of sore?

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Speaker 7: If you're watching us on our YouTube channel, what happened?

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Speaker 7: Might be able to see some of the did you fall?

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Speaker 7: Gaping wounds on the ice no ice, Now what did

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Speaker 4: Did you find a bobcat? A cat?

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Speaker 5: You got the cat part right?

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Speaker 7: Tangled with the new cat this morning, new new Remember

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Speaker 7: the new cat Christopher that we adopted.

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Speaker 7: It's hard to yellow Christopher without them both responding.

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Speaker 5: And uh yeah me, no, Lakey.

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Speaker 7: Oh no, I went to go pick him up, to

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Speaker 7: he gets real squirrely or real quick. The thing is,

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Speaker 7: I can't show you all the scratches.

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Speaker 4: Oh, because you sleep naked.

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Speaker 7: Wait, I was wearing his shirt. But that doesn't stop

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Speaker 5: I am totally serious.

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Speaker 4: Booed up.

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Speaker 5: Humph, he boomed me up.

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Speaker 3: Damn dude, I will not have a I will not

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Speaker 3: voluntarily have an animal that can scratch my fudge.

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Speaker 7: Got to protect him, right, protect you gotta protect those fudgies.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Lord of Mercy, that's crazy. You had a much

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Speaker 4: I spent my.

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Speaker 5: Morning cat scratched fever at your house.

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Speaker 3: I spent my morning warning people to live up in

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, well you've got family and your wife is traveling.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, man, you know I got some Uh, I got

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Speaker 8: Now.

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Speaker 3: My father in law is not a news guy. He's

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Speaker 5: And it's kind of scary, isn't it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a gnarly storm coming that way. It needs

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Speaker 3: Anything north of that is really bad, right, And I said, yeah,

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Speaker 3: they're expecting uh, you know, maybe a you know, a

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Speaker 4: Above freezing up there for like three straight.

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Speaker 7: Days, which means if you lose power because of all

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Speaker 4: For quite a while.

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying, is like, if he has a fireplace,

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Speaker 4: What a hero you are? Not a hero?

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Speaker 8: Jack?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Do you talk to your family up there. They're

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Speaker 4: gonna get kicked there. You have a.

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Speaker 3: Kid, you have a daughter or a sister of New York.

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Speaker 3: They're expecting more snow in New York than they've seen

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Speaker 4: Dude him, Okay, dude, this guy. They're grown up. This guy.

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Speaker 3: If there was a hurricane coming your way, and if

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Speaker 3: a call, you'd appreciate that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, they call it. Oh by the way, I hear

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Speaker 5: We're fine, Jersey love man.

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: With a friend like Jack exactly, don't enemies all right?

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Speaker 3: Four oh seven nine one six one four one Again,

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Speaker 3: Bonus is your keyword? Collect fair coming in today? You

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, so this is my first first experience

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Speaker 7: Yeah, no, without a doubt, you know, still one of

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Speaker 7: my proudest. Brought broadcasting moments to Gank, one of Tom

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Speaker 4: Air in front of Tom and Dad.

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Speaker 5: It felt pretty good. Yeah, hey, you don't mind if

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Speaker 3: A lot of people don't do this anymore. But you know,

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Speaker 3: I don't know her. We would have only met her

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Speaker 3: maybe once a month or something like that. I called,

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Speaker 3: you know, text Daniel as a hey, are you guys

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Speaker 3: cool with this?

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Speaker 10: Mean?

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah?

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Speaker 4: And uh I just felt like, yeah, yeah, absolutely, that's

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Speaker 4: why you're a hero. Oh my god, this guy.

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Speaker 5: Don't give him the nerve that he knows to.

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Speaker 4: It's three h nine. It's three to nine and twice

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Speaker 4: already we have a theme.

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Speaker 5: I could give you my cat scratch.

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Speaker 4: We won't do that.

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Speaker 3: Got a good case today from Glenn Clausman for Corbert Court.

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Speaker 3: Danny will be in for Date Night done right. We

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Speaker 3: do have the Froggers football forecast. Had Froggers lunch today.

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Speaker 3: I tried their Cuban sandwich. Was absolutely wonderful.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I think they make their pickles in the house.

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Speaker 4: I may have to try that next week.

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Speaker 3: I'm serious running out of football games. I think for lunch,

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Speaker 7: I'm had but to follow your lead and try the

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Speaker 7: Cuban sandwich.

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Speaker 4: It is now not that another band has taken that over.

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Speaker 3: The Eagles Greatest Hits is now the greatest selling American

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Speaker 3: Everybody knows that Hotel California on that out on that album,

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Speaker 3: But yeah, man, they were all inducted in the Hall

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Speaker 3: I had that CD back in the age. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 7: mortgage guy don. A sprawling snowstorm is set to slam

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Speaker 4: In winter Garden.

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Speaker 5: In Winter Garden, I know exactly where that is.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, the building would be repurposed into art and retail shops, restaurants,

451
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Speaker 7: and business offices. I think that's like one of the

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Speaker 7: last historic buildings really in Winter Garden, isn't that.

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Speaker 3: I believe that's part of the complex where I used

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Speaker 3: to do business. You know that the guy had the

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Speaker 3: continuous form shop. I think it's a whole brick building.

456
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Speaker 3: It's just a storage where house are centrius if I

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Speaker 3: remember right.

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Speaker 7: While a natural history museum is also a part of

459
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Speaker 7: the plan, which I think is really cool as well.

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Speaker 7: Construction could wrap up by the summertime.

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Speaker 5: Now.

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Speaker 7: On the flip side, Daytona Beach officials are asking questions

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Speaker 7: about the city's plans to spend millions of dollars. City

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Speaker 7: Commission met yesterday to discuss buying the Cruising Cafe at

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Speaker 7: Main Street and a NA for almost four and a

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Speaker 7: half million dollars.

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Speaker 8: Nothing.

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Speaker 4: He's been there forever, hasn't it.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, And then the building would be demolished as part

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Speaker 7: of this city's plans to then build an entertainment district.

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Speaker 7: City Commissioner Stacey Canto says her research shows that property

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Speaker 7: is only worth about half of what the city is

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Speaker 7: offering to pay for it.

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Speaker 4: Really, yeah, interesting, So.

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Speaker 7: The commission voted to get the property appraised again and

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Speaker 7: to get the city to release more details on its plans.

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Speaker 7: You know, with FAFO running around the state of Florida,

478
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Speaker 7: you want to watch your p's and q's.

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Speaker 3: That's a desired effect, right, Hey, yeah, you better double check.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, absolutely, you know, yeah.

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Speaker 5: Absolutely absolutely all right.

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Speaker 7: A man hurt in a murder suicide in Orange County

483
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Speaker 7: is marking a milestone in his recovery. This is the

484
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Speaker 7: only bit of good news out of this story. But

485
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Speaker 7: he was released from the hospital yesterday after he was

486
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Speaker 7: stabbed Monday in Winter Park and an office building on

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Speaker 7: Lee Road. The Sheriff's office says Michael Smith, who had

488
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Speaker 7: spent several years in prison for rape and for using

489
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Speaker 7: a knight, stabbed his former therapist, Rebecca White and a

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Speaker 7: patient of hers ten times before taking his own life.

491
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Speaker 7: White died unfortunately, but her patient did survive and is

492
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Speaker 7: now home recovering. His father tells New Six his son

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Speaker 7: feels bad because he couldn't do more to save White.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, awful, It is awful.

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Speaker 7: But in that story, I learned about the different levels

496
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Speaker 7: of therapy and how some like Ms White, you know,

497
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Speaker 7: literally gave her life to work with troubled offenders. She

498
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Speaker 7: was specialty, one of her specialties, so she worked with

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Speaker 7: the court system. She worked with defendants in court cases.

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Speaker 7: And I believe from what I heard on local news

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Speaker 7: stations her website described her work as as a no

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Speaker 7: judgment zone, like she because she worked with a troubled individuals.

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Speaker 5: Absolutely, Man, I don't know about that.

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Speaker 3: That's like, could you imagine being married to a woman

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Speaker 3: who is doing that, like, you know, every single day

506
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Speaker 3: or every other day in their office there's a violent

507
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Speaker 3: offender in could be?

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Speaker 7: I mean, they do normally have some safety you know, uh,

509
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Speaker 7: steps in play, there's a doorbell you have to ring,

510
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Speaker 7: the business goal you look through this right. Yeah, And

511
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Speaker 7: this guy had just finished his therapy session and was

512
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Speaker 7: leaving when this whole altercation ensued. All right, Florida Democrats

513
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Speaker 7: are once again trying to restore abortion access by launching

514
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Speaker 7: the Reproductive Freedom Act in both the State House and Senate.

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Speaker 7: On this fifty third anniversary of the Supreme Court's Row

516
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Speaker 7: versus Way decision.

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Speaker 12: Restrictions are dangerous when a woman, a family, or you know,

518
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Speaker 12: each pregnancy requires a different type of care, all of

519
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Speaker 12: which should be decided between a woman in consultation with

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Speaker 12: her physician, her faith, and her family, not politicians.

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Speaker 7: House Democratic Leader Fantries Driscoll calls the current six week

522
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Speaker 7: abortion ban dangerous. Along with abortion access, the bills would

523
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Speaker 7: ensure access to birth control and IVF and protect those

524
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Speaker 7: who help people receiving reproductive care. All right, well, we

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Speaker 7: know over in Bivard County, or actually in Orange County,

526
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Speaker 7: they're planning to close possible up to seven schools. Yes,

527
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Speaker 7: Bervard County they've closed the only school over in Cape Canaveral.

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Speaker 7: Duval County is also looking at closing at least six schools.

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Speaker 7: And now you can add Broward County, which also plans

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Speaker 7: to close six schools. This is going on all over

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Speaker 7: in the state of Florida.

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Speaker 5: It really, really is.

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Speaker 7: The school board in Broward voted yesterday to close four

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Speaker 7: elementary schools, a middle school, and a high school due

535
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Speaker 7: to low enrollment. You wouldn't think that would be the case, really,

536
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Speaker 7: anywhere in Florida when you see all the construction going

537
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Speaker 7: under right, right, you.

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Speaker 6: Know, unless it's all migrat school choice, school choice, charter

539
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Speaker 6: charter schools, Yep, exactly, they're defunding public education and they

540
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Speaker 6: can't keep buildings open if it's under what FI enrollment

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Speaker 6: or yeah, believe is the number.

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Speaker 7: Exactly, which is what specifically is going on in Bervardel.

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Speaker 7: These changes will go into effect for the twenty twenty

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Speaker 7: six twenty seven school year and the district.

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Speaker 6: And don't let it be a surprise. This is a

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Speaker 6: desired outcome for so oh well, they want to privatize. Say,

547
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Speaker 6: they've been trying to privatize the public school system for

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Speaker 6: a while. So, yes, that's the end, that's that's what

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Speaker 6: they're trying to do.

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Speaker 7: Well, the district expects to save how much money a

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Speaker 7: year by closing these these six schools three million?

552
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Speaker 4: Seven eight?

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Speaker 7: Oh wow, yeah, eight million. But still, yeah, what we

554
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Speaker 7: save today we might lose in tomorrow.

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Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: Go find yourself an employee with an education bill.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, good luck with that.

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Speaker 7: Florida firefighters face more than flames when they battle a blaze.

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Speaker 7: Florida CFO and State Fire Marshall Blaze and Golia. What

560
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Speaker 7: a cool name when you're the fire marshal Right, Blaze,

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Speaker 7: Blaze and Golia in Hialea today to combat cancer among

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Speaker 7: firefighters with a one and a half million dollar grants.

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Speaker 5: They breathe it in, they're contaminating their lungs.

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Speaker 1: It is much much different.

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Speaker 4: We have found links between certain cancers and specifically fighting

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Speaker 4: the fires because of those chemicals and those carcinogens.

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Speaker 7: So he says, the money is going to go to

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Speaker 7: purchase equipm and to decontaminate firefighters who are exposed to

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Speaker 7: chemicals and plastics. Because keep in mind, you know, they say,

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Speaker 7: you know, part of what makes fighting home fires so

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Speaker 7: much more dangerous now is because of all of the

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Speaker 7: treated fabrics on our couches, the treated woods that burn.

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Speaker 5: I mean, it's so much.

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Speaker 7: More dangerous to fight a house fire these days than

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Speaker 7: it was in the past. And unfortunately, all of those

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Speaker 7: carcinogens cling to their gear and their trucks which they've

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Speaker 7: been bring back to the firehouse and everyone gets exposed

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Speaker 7: to it. So and we hear a lot of cases

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Speaker 7: of firefighters being diagnosed with cancers from fighting the fires

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Speaker 7: on the job.

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Speaker 4: Yeah for sure.

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Speaker 7: So while also he says PTSD and suicide are just

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Speaker 7: as destructive for those first responders as cancer. I believe,

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Speaker 7: like down in Brower County they've lost their third active

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Speaker 7: firefighter in seventeen months.

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Speaker 5: Due to suicide.

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Speaker 4: Am damn.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I did not realize in the fire fighting field

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Speaker 7: that suicide was so prevalent.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, me either. I knew in the you know, obviously

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Speaker 4: with police officers, we have known of that because you know,

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Speaker 4: you know, talking to Detective Barb for so many years

593
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Speaker 4: and her saying that you just simply don't understand what

594
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Speaker 4: cops have to take home every single day. You just

595
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Speaker 4: see a couple couple stories on TV, but you don't

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Speaker 4: see ninety eight percent of them. And you know it

597
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Speaker 4: was specially to handle it. Even if we did well,

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Speaker 4: all first responders are exposed to that.

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Speaker 5: Paramedic Yeah, yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 4: Of course.

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Speaker 7: Military, Yeah, so I mean talk about the stressors of

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Speaker 7: the job.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, all right.

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Speaker 9: Uh.

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Speaker 7: And NASA astronaut Sonny Williams is retiring after a twenty

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Speaker 7: seven year career. According to an announcement from NASA, Williams's

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Speaker 7: retirementic effect at the end of December, and it follows

608
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Speaker 7: a career filled with record setting achievements, even if she

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Speaker 7: didn't plan to make some of them. Because do you

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Speaker 7: remember the name Sonny Williams.

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Speaker 4: Oh, yeah, she was the she's the diaper lady. No,

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Speaker 4: she was the diaper lady. Okay, Sonny Williams was stuck.

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Speaker 4: Sonny and Butch were oh yeah, yeah, yeah, ye station yeah.

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Speaker 7: Imagine going to college, becoming an astronaut, making it to space,

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Speaker 7: and then you're known as the diaper lady.

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Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, yeah, some stars, how they fall?

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Speaker 3: Well now, I mean no, I mean lisaid noahk. I

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Speaker 3: mean she kind of earned the tes she did. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: she cuckoo for cocoa puffs.

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Speaker 4: As a matter of fact, that ABC, they're doing a

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Speaker 4: documentary about it. They really and they interviewed Russ this

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Speaker 4: week for it. Oh did they really? Yeah? Yeah? For

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Speaker 4: what though? That's interesting. They were going back.

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Speaker 6: They wanted, Uh the director of it was a UCS

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Speaker 6: student and he remembers hearing about okay, yeah, that's being

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Speaker 6: discussed on real radio, and so he wanted to kind

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Speaker 6: of get some uh let's.

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Speaker 4: Kind of be back. That's bad. Ask you for him?

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Speaker 7: Well, Williams has logged six hundred and eight days in

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Speaker 7: space since joining NASA in nineteen ninety eight, which is

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Speaker 7: the second most by a NASA astronaut, and she holds

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Speaker 7: the record for the most spacewalk time by a woman,

633
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Speaker 7: with sixty two hours across nine spacewalks. Her final mission

634
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Speaker 7: with the agency was on that test flight of Boeing Starliner,

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Speaker 7: which also showcased the astronaut's resilience as it was only

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Speaker 7: intended to last over a week and was extended to

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Speaker 7: more than nine months due to technical issues.

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Speaker 5: Unbelievable, man, I know.

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Speaker 7: And then finally, real quick, A Canadian man accused of

640
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Speaker 7: posing as a pilot or flight attendant to get hundreds

641
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Speaker 7: of free flights is pleading not guilty because honestly, that

642
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Speaker 7: just takes Cojon's. Thirty three year old Dallas Perkrnick was

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Speaker 7: in court Tuesday in Honolulu on federal criminal charges. Prosecutors

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Speaker 7: say he managed to lie his way onto flights managed

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Speaker 7: by Hawaiian Airlines, United Airlines, American Airlines, and Air Canada

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Speaker 7: over the course of how long.

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Speaker 4: I think I saw a blurb on this, like seven

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Speaker 4: years or something, maybe maybe even longer than I'll go

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Speaker 4: seven years.

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Speaker 7: Oh Jack shot him the wrong way, Jacke. It was

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Speaker 7: over the course of about four years, four years.

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Speaker 3: Still, I wonder if they're gonna they're trying to if

653
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Speaker 3: they're going to try to get him for restitution. I

654
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Speaker 3: don't like every one of those flights hitting for like

655
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Speaker 3: that four eight hundred dollars or whatever.

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Speaker 7: It's amazing because these aren't like low cost airlines that

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Speaker 7: you think would make the mistake of not noticing a

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Speaker 7: pilot was credentialed or a flight attendant for four years unreal.

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Speaker 7: If convicted, he faces up to twenty years in prison.

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Speaker 3: Shocking when you think, no, well, I think somebody's gonna

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Speaker 3: lie their way on an airplane like I'm a pilot,

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Speaker 3: Like I guess you got me?

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Speaker 4: Okay, come on board. You want to send first class

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Speaker 4: free drink.

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Speaker 7: And he's the one flying your plane just so he

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Speaker 7: can get on for free.

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Speaker 8: Almighty damn.

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Speaker 5: And that makes it think twice, doesn't it?

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Speaker 7: And either way that concludes your JCS news.

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Speaker 4: More specifically, we're talking.

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Speaker 6: Ovido, Mount Dora, a Popka and I'll com on Springs.

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Speaker 4: Thanks for lunch today.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, it was great.

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Speaker 4: I had that Cuban sandwich which was absolutely delicious. I did.

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Speaker 6: I got ross and you got me onto these boneless

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Speaker 6: chicken wings and you just they're like popper, Yes.

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Speaker 4: You know, you're like, this is so easy, yeah yeah,

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Speaker 4: yeah yeah, and they're tasty as well. So thanks again,

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Speaker 4: best blue ches. He's in the business.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I got a tub of it today.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I could actually eat it with a spoon today.

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Speaker 4: That bas for ext revolutes.

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Speaker 3: All right, So we are going to do it a

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Speaker 3: little bit differently this week because we do have we

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Speaker 3: only have the two games that we're trying to pick.

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Speaker 3: So not only are we going to pick the winners

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Speaker 3: and losers, we're also going to pick the total points

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Speaker 3: for each game as well.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and we'll see who's closer. We'll take it all,

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Speaker 6: not just for diebreaker. We'll just added all up and

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Speaker 6: then we'll see who's closest with the point differential. And

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Speaker 6: I have Ross's picks. He has sent them to me,

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Speaker 6: so he is now log I have made my picks.

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Speaker 4: But there's only two games.

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Speaker 6: You got Patriots taken on the Denver Broncos in Denver, Denver,

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Speaker 6: and then you have Seattle Seahawks hosting your Los Angeles.

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Speaker 3: All right, let's go with the Denver Patriots game first.

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Speaker 3: Remember Denver's quarterback is out.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, point Patriots, Yeah, they're.

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Speaker 3: Going with the backup quarterback. It is going to be

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Speaker 3: I don't know how the weather's going to be up there

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Speaker 3: this Sunday.

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Speaker 8: It can't be.

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Speaker 5: Great, no, but Patriots are used to that.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, whether it won't be a factor for them,

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Speaker 7: You're right, altitude could be.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: What what's been the uh what's been their history with

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Speaker 7: Denver this season?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 3: I do the Patriots have a real weird thing with

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Speaker 3: Denver at if I remember right, Brady went in there

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Speaker 3: twice during the playoffs during his run, like in that

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Speaker 3: last and he lost. I think he's only one for

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Speaker 3: three against the Broncos. So the Patriots have a weird

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Speaker 3: thing with the Broncos. I don't know what it is,

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Speaker 3: but they do. All Right, weather should not be a factor.

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Speaker 3: We are looking at high around forty nine the day.

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Speaker 4: That's piece cake. Yeah, all right, very good.

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Speaker 5: Who'd you go with? Jack?

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Speaker 4: I have Patriots. Yeah, I'm also taking the Patriots.

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Speaker 3: I think if bo Nix was in the game, it

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Speaker 3: would probably make this decision a little harder. I'm not

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Speaker 3: saying this guy stid him as any bad is not good.

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Speaker 3: Matter of fact, everything I've heard about him, he's supposed

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Speaker 3: to be a pretty good player. But this is the

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Speaker 3: you know, this is the championship game, and you know,

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Speaker 3: guy hasn't played a snap in a while, so you

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Speaker 3: can't expect him to go out there and run the

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Speaker 3: full blown off and deal with this team, the Patriots

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Speaker 3: that are on one a little bit.

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Speaker 4: I like the Pats.

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Speaker 3: Yeah scores, what do you think deb total points?

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Speaker 4: Thirty eight? Ooh lo, that's a low scoring game, right

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Speaker 4: The line is forty two and a half. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh,

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Speaker 4: it just means you're under It's a big deal. Yeah yeah, I'm.

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Speaker 5: Gonna going between forty three and thirty eight.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna go fifty four.

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Speaker 7: Jack, I'm gonna go forty three. I'm changing for my

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Speaker 7: thirty all right.

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Speaker 3: I'm going fifty four. Debs going forty three, copy me, right, alright,

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Speaker 3: Let's go to the other game, the Rams and the Seahawks.

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Speaker 3: I'm taking the Seahawks. It's not even close. I think

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Speaker 3: they are going to absolutely blow the Rams completely out

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Speaker 3: of that place. I think it's gonna be gross. Yes,

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Speaker 3: the Seahawks are unbelievably good. That defense is crazy in

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Speaker 3: The Rams literally stumbled through both of their games in

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Speaker 3: the playoffs, to get to where they are now. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: so I think the I think the Seahawks are going

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Speaker 3: to beat the complete hell out of them. I think Seahawks.

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Speaker 3: I'll go, I'll go, uh, I'll go. I'll go fifty

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Speaker 3: four in that game as well.

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Speaker 7: Nice, I am going Seahawks and I will go fifty two.

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Speaker 9: Nice.

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Speaker 5: What's the line on that game.

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Speaker 4: That is forty six and a half.

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, I'm feeling comfortable.

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Speaker 6: And I will say, between me and Ross, one of

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Speaker 6: us as the Seahawks.

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Speaker 4: The other one took the rams no way.

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Speaker 5: Really really really he took the Rams? Didn't he did?

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Speaker 4: Why would he take the Rams against that team? Did

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Speaker 4: you see them play?

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Speaker 10: No?

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Speaker 5: The Vegas. He always goes with those Vegas odds.

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Speaker 4: It's in Seattle, is it not? It is there. They

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Speaker 4: can't be a dog at home against this football team.

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Speaker 4: Not a dog.

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Speaker 5: Do we know what the what Vegas is saying about

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Speaker 5: the game.

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Speaker 4: It's gonna be like three and a half or something

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Speaker 4: and a half.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, Seattle, obviously it's gotta be.

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Speaker 6: Now, Patriots are minus four and a half and Seattle's

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Speaker 6: minus two and a half.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Wow, that's crazy that that don't that spread is

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Speaker 3: only like that.

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Speaker 9: God.

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Speaker 4: Did anybody says he I'll play.

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Speaker 3: God, Oh, Budy Maybe they said Sean McVay and the

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Speaker 3: Rams will have their number.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe, so I guess. Well, there you go. That's

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Speaker 4: all picked up.

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Speaker 3: And of course next Tuesday we'll do the Froggers football

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Speaker 3: follow up and that's where somebody will win a twenty

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Speaker 3: can choose the member of the show that not only

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Speaker 3: picked the winners correctly but also had had the points

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Speaker 3: correctly as well.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, crazy business man.

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Speaker 7: Thanks don't follow my lead from last week when it

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Speaker 7: comes to points.

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Speaker 4: Thanks Rogers. We appreciate that. Again.

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Speaker 3: For those locations to serve you, I mean they have

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Speaker 3: Danny Meering in next from Orlando Date Night Guide to

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Speaker 3: find out what's going on in Orlando this weekend.

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Speaker 5: She's already downstairs working. That's working, Shoure.

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Speaker 3: We had a meeting with her today one o'clock. Here,

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Speaker 3: we get done in the meeting, We're like, we'll see

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Speaker 5: She's probably been downstairs working the whole time.

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Speaker 4: Jack, you have plans to watch games anywhere? Just at

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Speaker 4: the house. Oh yeah, Sunday Championship Sunday.

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Speaker 3: I'm usually right on my couch and it's a it's

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Speaker 3: a late game in the night game, right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it at the three o'clock and then the six

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Speaker 4: or whatever. Yeah, yeah, for sure.

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Speaker 5: Where are you going?

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Speaker 3: I'll be at home. I mean, I'm not gonna I'll

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Speaker 3: be at home watching football. I think some of the

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Speaker 3: and watch football.

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Speaker 4: That's what I think. Probably gonna cook playing golf that morning.

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Speaker 5: This is the second to last weekend.

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Speaker 4: I can't wait.

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Speaker 5: Heart's already breaking for you.

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Speaker 7: Guys, except for you Jack, because you're going to be

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Speaker 7: hearing the crack of a bat soon.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. So oh when the spring printing.

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Speaker 5: Start February, pitchers are called in.

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Speaker 4: Wow, really already? God it's it's always late February.

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Speaker 3: The catchers report, Yeah, yeah, there you go, all right

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Speaker 4: I'm Jim. There's Deba. Hello, Jack's here as well. Let's

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Speaker 14: Ah, yes, yeah, thirty extra minutes.

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Speaker 3: of Orlando Date Night Guide. And if you didn't hear

891
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:45,640
Speaker 3: something you like, just go over to the site. Plenty plenty,

892
00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:48,000
Speaker 3: plenty of choices. We're just highlighting some stuff that Danny

893
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Speaker 3: likes herself. What you got for us this week?

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Speaker 14: Yeah, So it is an exciting time in Orlando as

895
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:56,120
Speaker 14: we get ready to kick off Orlando Beer Week. So

896
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:58,360
Speaker 14: that kicks off this weekend and then goes all the

897
00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:01,239
Speaker 14: way into next week and and so different breweries are

898
00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:04,880
Speaker 14: doing all kinds of things. So it's a cool social time.

899
00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 14: I guess it's time to throw dry January out the

900
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:08,920
Speaker 14: windows last week of January.

901
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Speaker 15: Scirit.

902
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:12,840
Speaker 3: That's so interesting seen the news on social. On social,

903
00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 3: I have seen a lot of breweries, like their presence

904
00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:17,319
Speaker 3: has been a lot bigger. I didn't know that there

905
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:19,279
Speaker 3: was quote an Orlando Beer Week, but I know ten

906
00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:21,719
Speaker 3: ten has been very active. They have their their rib

907
00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:23,480
Speaker 3: fest like a couple of weeks ago, but they've been

908
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:25,880
Speaker 3: on doing a lot of stuff on social. So and

909
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 3: that's a legit og like Orlando Brewery, you know, and

910
00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:30,319
Speaker 3: the hottest spot in town.

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00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 14: Like yeah, yeah, that's definitely a good one, one one

912
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:36,200
Speaker 14: of our favorites. So one of the things that's happening

913
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:39,080
Speaker 14: is Saturday from six pm to eight pm is the

914
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:43,520
Speaker 14: Orlando Beer Week meet up at Zymerium Metery. So this

915
00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:46,759
Speaker 14: is Orlando's first metory. They've been around two or three

916
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Speaker 14: years now. Such a cool, cool place and if you

917
00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:54,120
Speaker 14: haven't tried mead, it's not like just sipping on honey,

918
00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:59,640
Speaker 14: Like there's different flavors, different nuances, and it's gluten free.

919
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:03,080
Speaker 14: So of people that can't do gluten appreciate this option.

920
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Speaker 14: So Saturday six pm to eight pm an evening of conversation,

921
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Speaker 14: connection and craft beverages and just kind of sets the

922
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Speaker 14: tone for the full beer week that'll be coming up

923
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Speaker 14: and kicking off. We do have a plethora of events.

924
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Speaker 14: We'll talk about some when I'm on next week, but

925
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Speaker 14: you can go to Orlando Date nightguide dot com and

926
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Speaker 14: and you can check out this month's guide so you

927
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Speaker 14: can see some of the upcoming stuff happening. Also, Saturday,

928
00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:38,439
Speaker 14: eleven am to eight thirty pm is Starry Starry Night,

929
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:43,319
Speaker 14: a celebration of art and science at Bachtower Gardens. You know,

930
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Speaker 14: I love mentioning Backtower Gardens. It is a heck of

931
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:49,080
Speaker 14: a drive, but once you get there, it's it is

932
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Speaker 14: paradise on Earth.

933
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Speaker 4: Yes, corgeous and the Santas just mentioned building they're about

934
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Speaker 4: to build a build something new at Bog Tower, Like

935
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Speaker 4: they're building like a two hundred and fifty year memorial

936
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Speaker 4: for the US or something out there.

937
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Speaker 14: Good yeah, yeah, okay, you were going to mention a

938
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Speaker 14: toll road.

939
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:07,880
Speaker 4: No no, no, no, no, no, it's they're adding stuff

940
00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:09,880
Speaker 4: to Bock Tower. And again, if you haven't been there.

941
00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:11,160
Speaker 5: It is gorgeous.

942
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:13,239
Speaker 3: Everybody I know there's ever been out there says it's great.

943
00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:15,680
Speaker 3: They do luncheons out there sometimes there's all kinds of

944
00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:17,080
Speaker 3: cool events going on, and of course it's just a

945
00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:18,120
Speaker 3: beautiful spot to begin with.

946
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Speaker 14: Yeah, So this particular event, it starts off at eleven,

947
00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:24,239
Speaker 14: but the key highlight is that they're going to be

948
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:27,160
Speaker 14: open till eight thirty pm, which is rare. They're going

949
00:41:27,239 --> 00:41:30,080
Speaker 14: to have telescopes and so when you're out there, you know,

950
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:32,600
Speaker 14: even with the urban sprawl, it's still one of the

951
00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:35,759
Speaker 14: best places with a nice dark sky, So you're gonna

952
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:39,360
Speaker 14: have astronomers there. They're going to have space themed presentations,

953
00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:42,880
Speaker 14: which is pretty cool considering we've got Artemis two on

954
00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:45,960
Speaker 14: the horizon. So it's a neat time to kind of

955
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 14: get your nerd on and be into that space stuff. Happening.

956
00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:55,759
Speaker 14: Also Saturday at noon is Science on Tap at the

957
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 14: Orlando Science Center. So this is their huge annual craft

958
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:04,520
Speaker 14: beer nomenon helps raise money for the Orlando Science Center itself.

959
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:07,480
Speaker 14: VIP if you get that is at noon. If you

960
00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:10,160
Speaker 14: do general admission, it's from one pm to four pm.

961
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:13,360
Speaker 14: They're gonna have lawn games and food trucks. Thirty different

962
00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:16,040
Speaker 14: breweries are participating again, another cool way to sort of

963
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:20,279
Speaker 14: kick off Orlando Beer Week. They do say miners sixteen

964
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 14: years or older must have a valid designated driver, no

965
00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:28,880
Speaker 14: alcohol ticket, and b with a paying twenty one in

966
00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:32,160
Speaker 14: up guest to enter. Sounds like they might have something

967
00:42:32,239 --> 00:42:32,800
Speaker 14: go down.

968
00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:37,040
Speaker 5: One way to keep the kids away.

969
00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:42,560
Speaker 4: That sounds like we learned a lesson rules old.

970
00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:45,520
Speaker 16: Let's see.

971
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Speaker 14: So another Saturday event seven pm to two am is

972
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Speaker 14: the Electric Dog Carnival. So this is eedc with dogs

973
00:42:57,040 --> 00:43:01,160
Speaker 14: at bark Haven, which is near Mills and Ivanhoe area.

974
00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:04,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, what are they doing.

975
00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:05,600
Speaker 14: It's like a dog race.

976
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:08,760
Speaker 5: So that's all you need is your dog tripping.

977
00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:11,800
Speaker 4: So we're just gonna see dogs with pasties and jean shorts.

978
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 14: You might they might be a matching dog and owner

979
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:18,280
Speaker 14: costume situation.

980
00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 5: That's scary.

981
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:23,720
Speaker 14: So they describe it as an ed M fueled dog

982
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:29,200
Speaker 14: friendly carnival, high energy, electric treknonic music, electronic music. Let

983
00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 14: me try that again, immersive lights and a foam filled

984
00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:37,440
Speaker 14: atmosphere for a one of a kN I can't do it.

985
00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:41,920
Speaker 14: I'm losing it. A one of a kind night built

986
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:45,840
Speaker 14: for dogs and they're humans with a live DJ set

987
00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:47,200
Speaker 14: by Chasten Space.

988
00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 4: Okay, so there you go, all right. That sounds yeah,

989
00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:58,640
Speaker 4: it sounds lonely sounds.

990
00:43:59,520 --> 00:43:59,719
Speaker 8: You know.

991
00:44:01,080 --> 00:44:03,319
Speaker 3: Maybe I'll go up there and take my dog and

992
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:07,200
Speaker 3: get him a doctor Seus's had or something amazon.

993
00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:11,840
Speaker 4: A glow necklace and let him rip it. Someone getting

994
00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 4: Apollo out of the foam pit.

995
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:19,640
Speaker 14: You might want to wear long sleeves and long pants

996
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:19,800
Speaker 14: for this.

997
00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:23,440
Speaker 7: When that's all yeah, I can't imagine putting a foam

998
00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:25,200
Speaker 7: covered dog back in your car.

999
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 14: All right, moving right along the I want to go

1000
00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:32,040
Speaker 14: just to watch, don't.

1001
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:34,120
Speaker 4: I want to go as well a little bit.

1002
00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 14: I hope they have a webcam or something. Happening. Saturday

1003
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Speaker 14: and Sunday is the Orange City Blue Spring Manatee Festival.

1004
00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:49,240
Speaker 14: So last weekend Crystal River had their huge Manatee festival.

1005
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:52,480
Speaker 14: We're having our own, smaller one Saturday and Sunday in

1006
00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:56,279
Speaker 14: Orange City. This is at Valentine Park, which I think

1007
00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:59,240
Speaker 14: is a cute name considering the time of year. Yeah,

1008
00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:02,400
Speaker 14: it is twelve dollar for adults, three dollars for kids,

1009
00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:08,759
Speaker 14: and obviously family friendly stuff happening there. Wildlife education, environmental exhibits,

1010
00:45:09,160 --> 00:45:14,080
Speaker 14: local vendors, food and live entertainment, and then something for

1011
00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:18,040
Speaker 14: wellness or for you know, happy wife, happy life situation.

1012
00:45:18,640 --> 00:45:22,200
Speaker 14: Or Lando Girls Walk Club is happening on Sunday at

1013
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:25,879
Speaker 14: nine a m. At Harbor Park in Baldwin Park.

1014
00:45:25,960 --> 00:45:26,719
Speaker 4: Okay, that's cool.

1015
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:29,920
Speaker 14: So this will be a two point five mile walk

1016
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:30,680
Speaker 14: around the lake.

1017
00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:31,960
Speaker 16: It's free.

1018
00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:34,960
Speaker 14: It's just a great option for you know, girls to

1019
00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:38,120
Speaker 14: have a moment, to have some time. You know, I

1020
00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:41,080
Speaker 14: always am a better wife when I get a little

1021
00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:44,239
Speaker 14: bit of self care time. So this is a good

1022
00:45:44,280 --> 00:45:45,399
Speaker 14: suggestion for that.

1023
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:46,120
Speaker 4: Cool walk too.

1024
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:48,080
Speaker 3: By the way, I mean that we live there, you

1025
00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:50,040
Speaker 3: shed walk around that lake all the time. It's a

1026
00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:52,319
Speaker 3: really nice stroll, to be honest with you. Yeah, the

1027
00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:54,440
Speaker 3: last part of it, if you start right there at

1028
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:56,799
Speaker 3: that park and go right the last part of it.

1029
00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:58,160
Speaker 4: Kind of goes through these trees.

1030
00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:00,000
Speaker 3: It's almost like a tunnel of trees, which is actually

1031
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:03,200
Speaker 3: very cool, but it is. It's really nice out there,

1032
00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:04,799
Speaker 3: and of course there are plenty of places once you're

1033
00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 3: done you can pop in for some food or drink

1034
00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:07,239
Speaker 3: whatever you want to do.

1035
00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:09,400
Speaker 14: Yeah, I'm a sucker for a good tree cannic.

1036
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:10,120
Speaker 4: Oh, Yeah, for.

1037
00:46:10,080 --> 00:46:12,520
Speaker 14: Sure, I'm an old lady in that regard.

1038
00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:14,920
Speaker 5: I'm with you, total tree hugger right over here.

1039
00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:19,720
Speaker 14: And lastly, I want to mention something that my husband

1040
00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:22,279
Speaker 14: and I did earlier this month, a little bit of

1041
00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:25,600
Speaker 14: a day trip. So we went to the Marine Science

1042
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:32,320
Speaker 14: Center and pons And yeah, that'll be a later segment

1043
00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:37,399
Speaker 14: maybe sometime, maybe I'll partner with its Collette is.

1044
00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, there you go, will collab.

1045
00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:41,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's a collab.

1046
00:46:42,719 --> 00:46:46,560
Speaker 14: So the Marine Science Center and ponts Inlet is is

1047
00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:48,200
Speaker 14: a really cool place. I don't know if you guys

1048
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:50,400
Speaker 14: have heard of it. It's near the lighthouse.

1049
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:50,480
Speaker 16: That's out there.

1050
00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:51,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, I haven't heard that.

1051
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:54,239
Speaker 14: And it's a real like community kind of spot. But

1052
00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:57,239
Speaker 14: you included in your admission, which is like I don't know,

1053
00:46:57,360 --> 00:46:59,880
Speaker 14: ten bucks, you can feed stingray.

1054
00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 9: Uh.

1055
00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:03,920
Speaker 14: There's sea turtle rescues, so you can see like the

1056
00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:05,840
Speaker 14: cool things that they're doing to help the sea turtles

1057
00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:08,399
Speaker 14: out there. They have a birds of prey area and

1058
00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:12,440
Speaker 14: a water birds area like with rescued pelicans and stuff.

1059
00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:14,520
Speaker 14: And then what we did is we went to Tiki

1060
00:47:14,600 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 14: Ducks in Port Orange, which is it's not like traditional

1061
00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:24,359
Speaker 14: tiki's like Beach Florida tiki double decker building with kind

1062
00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:27,960
Speaker 14: of a rooftop vibe on the water, So definitely recommend

1063
00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:30,080
Speaker 14: that if somebody is looking for kind of a one

1064
00:47:30,160 --> 00:47:31,360
Speaker 14: two punch nice.

1065
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Speaker 4: Little good man.

1066
00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:35,040
Speaker 3: Kids love animals like that. I mean anytime you go

1067
00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:37,960
Speaker 3: to like my kids used to love to feed the

1068
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:40,640
Speaker 3: stingrays at Sea World. That was like their thing. They

1069
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:41,239
Speaker 3: loved it.

1070
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:43,640
Speaker 16: Kids at heart, Yeah exactly.

1071
00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:48,120
Speaker 14: Yeah, I mean it's pretty great that it's included in

1072
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 14: a mission and it's a small, you know, intimate spot

1073
00:47:51,120 --> 00:47:54,120
Speaker 14: so you're not like overwhelmed with crowds. And we put

1074
00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:56,680
Speaker 14: a reel up on Orlando Date Night Guides Instagram with

1075
00:47:56,760 --> 00:47:58,440
Speaker 14: tiki ducks, so you can take a look at it.

1076
00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:02,120
Speaker 14: Uh and if you comment uh Waterfront on that one,

1077
00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:05,279
Speaker 14: then our cool little tool will automatically send you our

1078
00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:08,239
Speaker 14: Waterfront Restaurant's guide. Because this is going to be a

1079
00:48:08,239 --> 00:48:09,960
Speaker 14: good weekend to eat out all.

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

1081
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:12,239
Speaker 14: Yeah, we're going to be the envia of the rest

1082
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Speaker 14: of the country.

1083
00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:16,000
Speaker 3: Yes, it's actually me very warm this weekend. Yeah, I

1084
00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:19,880
Speaker 3: mean I'm sposed to I'm playing golf a Sunday and

1085
00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:21,879
Speaker 3: I think it's supposed to get to like eighty three

1086
00:48:22,000 --> 00:48:24,399
Speaker 3: degrees this weekend, and then of course we dive right

1087
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:26,960
Speaker 3: back down next week. We're the high I think Tuesdays

1088
00:48:27,000 --> 00:48:28,799
Speaker 3: like fifty one degree, so we'll go from eighty three

1089
00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:30,800
Speaker 3: to fifty one and forty eight hours.

1090
00:48:30,840 --> 00:48:33,320
Speaker 5: Yep, that's Lura, Yeah right, exactly.

1091
00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:35,440
Speaker 4: Well, good job man, this is awesome stuff.

1092
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:37,960
Speaker 3: So again, if you missed any of this, it's schimpcover

1093
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Speaker 3: Live dot com, or you can go to Orlando Date

1094
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:42,480
Speaker 3: Nightguide dot com. It's all there, plus other stuff you want,

1095
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:45,800
Speaker 3: some family stuff Orlando hyphen Parenting is there as well.

1096
00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:48,120
Speaker 3: That includes a lot of family friendly stuff that you

1097
00:48:48,160 --> 00:48:50,440
Speaker 3: can enjoy and make that a normal part of your

1098
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:53,280
Speaker 3: repertoire when it comes to the weekend, you know, around Thursday,

1099
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Speaker 3: start perusing the pages, kind of find some things to do.

1100
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Speaker 3: Valentine's Day's coming up, Mother's Day's coming up. Have great

1101
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Speaker 3: opportunities for you to find stuff that's kind of out

1102
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Speaker 3: of the box. If you get into that rut of

1103
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Speaker 3: doing the same thing over and over again, break that

1104
00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:10,440
Speaker 3: because that's very good for you to do, and the

1105
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Speaker 3: Date Night Guy can help you do that for sure.

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Speaker 14: Yeah, that's part of why we have our weekly email

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Speaker 17: this Hawaiian jumping around, flying all over.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 9: Interesting to know.

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Speaker 17: don't even go through regular security at TSA. If you

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Speaker 17: have proper credentials and you dressed the part, you start

1139
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Speaker 17: places you could skate through.

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Speaker 8: Obviously, not forever.

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Speaker 9: Aloha Aloha.

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Speaker 5: Fireworks aren't scary enough for dogs.

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Speaker 18: Now they have to add in flashing lights and techno

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Speaker 18: music too.

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00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:05,440
Speaker 4: I think I found Jim's category on grinder. It was

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Speaker 4: called cuball Curious, easy nice.

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Speaker 8: Did you figure that out?

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Speaker 4: Friend?

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Speaker 3: the word.

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Speaker 4: Guys, good luck get it. I'm Jim. There's dead Hello,

1155
00:51:25,440 --> 00:51:28,640
Speaker 4: Jack is here as well. Yeah. I talk to my

1156
00:51:28,680 --> 00:51:32,479
Speaker 4: wife this morning. How she faring well.

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00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:34,080
Speaker 3: She's doing all right. She's trying to get the hell

1158
00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:35,920
Speaker 3: out of Dallas as quickly as possible. She doesn't want

1159
00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:38,960
Speaker 3: to get stuck there because they are anticipating some pretty

1160
00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:41,200
Speaker 3: nasty weather up there, and she's trying to get out

1161
00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:42,840
Speaker 3: as quickly as possible. She tried to get even a

1162
00:51:42,880 --> 00:51:46,120
Speaker 3: red eye Thursday night tonight because her business is really

1163
00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:49,280
Speaker 3: done today. She's up there for a thing called WISA,

1164
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:53,279
Speaker 3: which is a Western ware kind of what are they

1165
00:51:53,280 --> 00:51:57,239
Speaker 3: called convention, So that's what her company does, or part

1166
00:51:57,239 --> 00:51:59,240
Speaker 3: of what her company does with a company called Legendary

1167
00:51:59,239 --> 00:52:02,000
Speaker 3: White Tails, and they're up there trying to sell into

1168
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:04,440
Speaker 3: different vendors all throughout the US and stuff. So that's

1169
00:52:04,520 --> 00:52:06,680
Speaker 3: kind of what her job is out there. But she's

1170
00:52:06,719 --> 00:52:08,120
Speaker 3: just trying to get the hell out of Dodge because

1171
00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:10,160
Speaker 3: she doesn't want to get stuck in Dallas. She even

1172
00:52:10,160 --> 00:52:13,200
Speaker 3: told her boss, she goes, if if our flight gets canceled,

1173
00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:16,479
Speaker 3: we're renting a car and we're driving. Her boss actually said,

1174
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 3: just rent the car and let's go, Like, let's just

1175
00:52:18,719 --> 00:52:20,279
Speaker 3: drive through the night and go. And I told her,

1176
00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:23,360
Speaker 3: I said, Tori, I said, driving maybe just as dangerous

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Speaker 3: as fine.

1178
00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:24,839
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I said, I.

1179
00:52:24,760 --> 00:52:26,880
Speaker 3: Mean, I don't know if you understand it's supposed to

1180
00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:29,240
Speaker 3: be like really really really bad, and.

1181
00:52:29,480 --> 00:52:31,720
Speaker 5: Especially if you've never driven in snow.

1182
00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:32,440
Speaker 4: Or ice.

1183
00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:36,040
Speaker 7: You can't underestimate just how dangerous that can be.

1184
00:52:36,120 --> 00:52:36,680
Speaker 4: It's brutal.

1185
00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:36,799
Speaker 5: Man.

1186
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Speaker 3: When we live in West Virginia, even for that short

1187
00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:40,520
Speaker 3: period of time that I lived up there, I was

1188
00:52:40,520 --> 00:52:43,200
Speaker 3: old enough to be cognizant enough to know that. You know,

1189
00:52:43,280 --> 00:52:45,919
Speaker 3: it's dangerous. And it's so funny because the storm that's

1190
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Speaker 3: soppos to be coming through, or it will be coming through.

1191
00:52:48,680 --> 00:52:51,520
Speaker 4: They're worried because it's ice. It's not that it's just snow.

1192
00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:52,120
Speaker 4: It's ice.

1193
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Speaker 3: And of course it's gonna put a they said, if

1194
00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:55,680
Speaker 3: it could put a quarter to a half an inch,

1195
00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:59,560
Speaker 3: you know, coat of ice over everything. I've actually experienced

1196
00:52:59,600 --> 00:53:02,120
Speaker 3: a small version of that when I lived in West Virginia.

1197
00:53:02,480 --> 00:53:04,680
Speaker 3: We did have an ice storm. Now it only put

1198
00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:07,440
Speaker 3: like an eighth of an ench, just to barely a codium,

1199
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Speaker 3: but it's over everything, like loose gravel. It doesn't matter

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Speaker 3: if it has a surface yep, and rain can get

1201
00:53:14,520 --> 00:53:16,600
Speaker 3: to it. It has a coating of ice over it.

1202
00:53:16,640 --> 00:53:19,360
Speaker 3: And it's a nightmare. I mean, we even with I

1203
00:53:19,400 --> 00:53:21,959
Speaker 3: remember what we had to go do something that day

1204
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:26,719
Speaker 3: and my dad had the spikes in the in the tires, right, yeah,

1205
00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:29,800
Speaker 3: not the chains, but the tires actually had these little

1206
00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:34,680
Speaker 3: spikes like golf shoes. Even with that, we as we

1207
00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:36,400
Speaker 3: were going up this one hill that the truck just

1208
00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:39,200
Speaker 3: gave loose and just slid down sideways down the hill

1209
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Speaker 3: until it came to the bottom.

1210
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Speaker 4: It just would not stop it.

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Speaker 3: And imagine that over a swath of you know what,

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Speaker 3: nine ten twenty five states. Actually, yeah, I don't know

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Speaker 3: if it's gonna get that bad in all thirty three though, But.

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Speaker 7: I mean, it doesn't have to get that bad, especially

1215
00:53:54,080 --> 00:53:56,759
Speaker 7: those states that aren't used to right, dealing with that

1216
00:53:56,880 --> 00:53:59,319
Speaker 7: kind of winter weather. You know, they don't have the snowplows,

1217
00:53:59,320 --> 00:54:01,480
Speaker 7: they don't have this s machines, they don't have this

1218
00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:04,640
Speaker 7: stuff to even get the first responders back out on

1219
00:54:04,680 --> 00:54:05,040
Speaker 7: the roads.

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Speaker 3: And it's already a fifteen hour drive. And I said,

1221
00:54:07,600 --> 00:54:10,439
Speaker 3: at fifteen hours at highway speeds, tour, you're not gonna

1222
00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:12,319
Speaker 3: be able to go highway speeds with all that.

1223
00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:14,319
Speaker 4: Mess out there. So I'm praying to God that she

1224
00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:14,880
Speaker 4: doesn't do that.

1225
00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:17,040
Speaker 3: I begged her last night not doing She ain't having it.

1226
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Speaker 3: I don't know if you guy, I don't know if

1227
00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:21,600
Speaker 3: you guys know anything. She didn't listen to me, we know, yeah,

1228
00:54:21,640 --> 00:54:25,240
Speaker 3: she she just wasn't having it. But anyway, I called

1229
00:54:25,239 --> 00:54:28,799
Speaker 3: to talk about this yesterday. We talked about the sleep divorce, yes,

1230
00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:31,000
Speaker 3: because I text her and I was like, I was like,

1231
00:54:31,040 --> 00:54:32,799
Speaker 3: I just sleep, and she's a oh god, so good

1232
00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:36,160
Speaker 3: all exclamation points, and then I said away from you, yeah,

1233
00:54:36,239 --> 00:54:38,759
Speaker 3: yeah yeah. Then I said, oh my god, you know

1234
00:54:38,760 --> 00:54:42,240
Speaker 3: we're gonna wind up getting two different beds. Lol, you know, joking,

1235
00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:45,279
Speaker 3: Joki joke she and she typed back the lowercase.

1236
00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:47,560
Speaker 5: Lol, right, the equivalent of huh.

1237
00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:50,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. This morning, asked her first thing, It's like,

1238
00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:53,720
Speaker 3: how'd you sleep last night? And I almost stopped myself

1239
00:54:53,760 --> 00:54:56,200
Speaker 3: because I didn't want to hear the answer before I

1240
00:54:56,320 --> 00:55:01,520
Speaker 3: even got the damn question outt great all. Didn't want

1241
00:55:01,520 --> 00:55:04,960
Speaker 3: to get up, head, hit the pillow, fell straight asleep.

1242
00:55:05,680 --> 00:55:08,600
Speaker 3: Why don't you I'm gonna tell you, buddy, if she

1243
00:55:08,719 --> 00:55:11,040
Speaker 3: comes home and she starts pitching this thing.

1244
00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:14,479
Speaker 4: Before you go to that extreme, unless it's something you want,

1245
00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:17,880
Speaker 4: it might be a good thing, But why don't you

1246
00:55:17,920 --> 00:55:23,800
Speaker 4: investigate the pillows and the blankets, have her take pictures

1247
00:55:23,880 --> 00:55:24,520
Speaker 4: of the tags.

1248
00:55:24,880 --> 00:55:28,200
Speaker 3: Maybe it's the betting, Oh wow, maybe it's the mattress.

1249
00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:29,800
Speaker 3: But we have a really nice mattress.

1250
00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:32,560
Speaker 4: Sure you do, we do that. Apparently she's not sleeping

1251
00:55:32,680 --> 00:55:34,440
Speaker 4: as well. It's got nothing to do with the mattress.

1252
00:55:34,480 --> 00:55:35,160
Speaker 9: I know what it is.

1253
00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:36,319
Speaker 4: It's me or the dog.

1254
00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:38,560
Speaker 3: And I told her the dog is the worst because

1255
00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:41,479
Speaker 3: when the when she leaves, of course the dog, dog said,

1256
00:55:41,480 --> 00:55:42,000
Speaker 3: you're the worst.

1257
00:55:42,040 --> 00:55:42,440
Speaker 4: The dog.

1258
00:55:42,680 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 3: The dog, because you have to understand, the dog is

1259
00:55:44,600 --> 00:55:46,960
Speaker 3: imprinted on her. It's I mean, if my wife had

1260
00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:50,080
Speaker 3: a pouch, the dog would never come out of it.

1261
00:55:49,600 --> 00:55:54,160
Speaker 3: It's it's like that, right, very clingy. And when she sleeps,

1262
00:55:54,160 --> 00:55:57,440
Speaker 3: the dog cramms herself like in the crease that she

1263
00:55:57,480 --> 00:56:01,000
Speaker 3: creates between her body and the and the man. Well,

1264
00:56:01,080 --> 00:56:02,640
Speaker 3: it's a pain in the ass. And I tell her,

1265
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:04,040
Speaker 3: I said, one of the reasons you probably don't sleep

1266
00:56:04,080 --> 00:56:06,640
Speaker 3: well here at the house is because of this damn dog.

1267
00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:09,400
Speaker 3: So you know she's been gone and I'm sleeping with

1268
00:56:09,440 --> 00:56:12,080
Speaker 3: this dog, and let me tell you it sucks. The

1269
00:56:12,160 --> 00:56:15,960
Speaker 3: dog does not have boundaries, dude. The dog does not understand.

1270
00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:18,359
Speaker 3: Get the blank away from me, because your body took

1271
00:56:18,440 --> 00:56:21,360
Speaker 3: dog's temperatures already hotter than us covered in fur. So

1272
00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:23,719
Speaker 3: I wake up and I've got this sweat patch on

1273
00:56:23,840 --> 00:56:25,880
Speaker 3: my side from when she's sleeping next to me, and

1274
00:56:25,960 --> 00:56:27,800
Speaker 3: she doesn't understand go away.

1275
00:56:28,200 --> 00:56:29,240
Speaker 4: She thinks you're playing.

1276
00:56:29,520 --> 00:56:30,759
Speaker 3: So in the middle of the night, when I grab

1277
00:56:30,760 --> 00:56:32,040
Speaker 3: her by her stomach and I push her to the

1278
00:56:32,080 --> 00:56:34,920
Speaker 3: other side of the bed, that's a game, like I

1279
00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:36,799
Speaker 3: can see her playing around, then jumping back in and

1280
00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:37,560
Speaker 3: doing the same thing.

1281
00:56:37,640 --> 00:56:40,760
Speaker 4: So then now it's two forty am and I'm fighting

1282
00:56:40,800 --> 00:56:43,760
Speaker 4: with my dog. She thinks I'm playing. I'm not playing.

1283
00:56:43,800 --> 00:56:45,600
Speaker 4: I just wanted to get away from me. She ain't

1284
00:56:45,640 --> 00:56:49,279
Speaker 4: having it, you know, eh, cat scratch you.

1285
00:56:49,440 --> 00:56:51,000
Speaker 6: I can't put her on the grate that you can

1286
00:56:51,080 --> 00:56:53,920
Speaker 6: run a household and not pay for it, and just.

1287
00:56:53,880 --> 00:56:57,239
Speaker 4: You know, kind of a game. I'd just be the

1288
00:56:57,320 --> 00:57:00,160
Speaker 4: one in charge. We'll just do everything you want. I'm

1289
00:57:00,160 --> 00:57:02,640
Speaker 4: microwave for food. What her in another room?

1290
00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:03,160
Speaker 8: Dude?

1291
00:57:03,239 --> 00:57:06,440
Speaker 4: She would glued.

1292
00:57:06,520 --> 00:57:08,759
Speaker 3: I told Tory before this all started, I said, we're

1293
00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:10,520
Speaker 3: not letting the dogs sleep in the bed with us.

1294
00:57:10,880 --> 00:57:13,319
Speaker 3: And the reason why it is because once the dog

1295
00:57:13,320 --> 00:57:15,040
Speaker 3: gets a taste of sleeping in the bed with us,

1296
00:57:15,320 --> 00:57:17,360
Speaker 3: it's never going to want to sleep anywhere else. Right,

1297
00:57:17,400 --> 00:57:19,320
Speaker 3: I said, let's make the dog sleep in a kennel,

1298
00:57:19,720 --> 00:57:21,360
Speaker 3: just like everybody else. Put her in the kennel, go

1299
00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:23,960
Speaker 3: to sleep. Once she gets used to it, she'll actually

1300
00:57:24,000 --> 00:57:26,240
Speaker 3: want to go in the kennel. She lets the dog

1301
00:57:26,280 --> 00:57:32,640
Speaker 3: sleep with us one time as a puppy. Done done, done, dude.

1302
00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:34,520
Speaker 3: I guess what you said at the start of the

1303
00:57:34,560 --> 00:57:37,320
Speaker 3: segment is true. What my wife doesn't listen to me,

1304
00:57:38,960 --> 00:57:42,480
Speaker 3: the dog doesn't either, all right, four seven nine one six.

1305
00:57:42,800 --> 00:57:45,720
Speaker 3: It's funny because there was a hotel once. It's when

1306
00:57:45,760 --> 00:57:49,640
Speaker 3: we went to back in two thousand and one trip

1307
00:57:49,680 --> 00:57:50,680
Speaker 3: to Los Angeles.

1308
00:57:51,640 --> 00:57:53,600
Speaker 4: I remember we stated at an hotel. I had a

1309
00:57:53,640 --> 00:57:56,280
Speaker 4: pillow in that hotel, and this is our rage trip.

1310
00:57:56,600 --> 00:57:58,680
Speaker 4: I had a pillow and I've been thinking about that

1311
00:57:58,760 --> 00:58:01,680
Speaker 4: pillow for the next twenty years. I finally found the

1312
00:58:01,680 --> 00:58:04,160
Speaker 4: pillow I like, but I would always think of all

1313
00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:04,600
Speaker 4: that pillow.

1314
00:58:04,840 --> 00:58:06,919
Speaker 3: Jack and I wondered what these people did to make money,

1315
00:58:06,920 --> 00:58:08,440
Speaker 3: because they put us up at one of the nicest

1316
00:58:08,440 --> 00:58:11,560
Speaker 3: hotels in downtown LA. And by the way, downtown La sucks.

1317
00:58:12,320 --> 00:58:15,080
Speaker 3: It is it is crazy, and it's actually not much

1318
00:58:15,080 --> 00:58:17,600
Speaker 3: bigger than Orlando's downtown, which is kind of wild. It

1319
00:58:17,640 --> 00:58:20,880
Speaker 3: really isn't. But we got a really nice hotel in there,

1320
00:58:20,880 --> 00:58:23,080
Speaker 3: and Jackie one hundred percent right. The sheets and the

1321
00:58:23,120 --> 00:58:25,240
Speaker 3: pillows in the bed were like next level.

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Speaker 7: It's like staying at a Ritz Carlton, between the carpet

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Speaker 7: and the robes on the mattress and the sheets and

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Speaker 7: the duvet.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you just don't want to leave.

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Speaker 3: All right, seven seven zero three one. That's how you

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Speaker 3: dot FM and send that away for your chance in

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Speaker 3: one thousand bucks. Or Budd Glenn Closmo with the corporate

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Speaker 3: court is next.

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Speaker 19: So here I am again, at least in Maldora. We're

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Speaker 19: gonna be toasty warm, with the highs in the eighties.

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Speaker 19: By Monday morning, we're looking around thirty eight, which isn't

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Speaker 19: quite freezing. You don't need to worry about your plants

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Speaker 19: because the wind will be about twenty miles an hour.

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Speaker 19: You'll be fine. And then we get past that and

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Speaker 19: it starts going up again. We're gonna be good. Everybody

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Speaker 19: north of us that's screwed.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I did lose a couple of flowering plants during

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Speaker 3: the cold. No, nothing bad, nothing, expensive, easy to replace.

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Speaker 6: I had a win. All the weeds in my yard.

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Speaker 6: It cooked down?

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Speaker 4: Did it really?

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Speaker 10: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, so it was good. I guess I can

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Speaker 4: wait another month before I have to kinda.

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Speaker 3: The roaches of the plant word right, yeah, sorry, Welcome

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Speaker 3: back to the jimp Over Show. Real Radio one or

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Speaker 3: chance in one thousand bucks.

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Speaker 4: I'm Jim. There's deb Hello, Jack is here as well.

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Speaker 4: Let's do Cobra Court.

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Speaker 1: When you are listening to is real? Well sort of?

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Speaker 2: The participants are not actors as a fact. This is, however,

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Speaker 2: a real case that will be decided here in our forum.

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Speaker 1: It's not cole mart Court.

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Speaker 17: Nober Court.

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Speaker 3: Brought to you by were good Friend, Glynn Closman and

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Speaker 3: Klasman Law. That's k l A U s m A

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Speaker 3: four oh seven nine one seven seventeen eighteen car crash

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Speaker 3: call Klawsman, guys good in Low for mister Glenn Clawsman.

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Speaker 4: They're my man. You're all dressed up today at court

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Speaker 4: stuff today.

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Speaker 8: What do you got, No, but I've got We've got

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01:00:33,240 --> 01:00:36,320
Speaker 8: an event with judges and lawyers after this, so I

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01:00:36,560 --> 01:00:37,280
Speaker 8: dress up for it.

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Speaker 4: That's interesting to me.

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Speaker 3: You know, every time that we've had a personal conversation

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Speaker 3: about relationships with judges, I would think that that would

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01:00:44,040 --> 01:00:48,760
Speaker 3: be heavily discouraged because of the the idea of bias

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Speaker 3: that would every time that we talk about this alike,

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01:00:51,200 --> 01:00:54,920
Speaker 3: that's wild that judges would have conversations and dinners and

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Speaker 3: social time with attorneys that they'll have cases in front of.

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Speaker 8: That's true, that's true. It's groups. It's a group of

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Speaker 8: judges and a group of lawyers. And I mean I

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Speaker 8: have lunch every now and then with certain judges that

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Speaker 8: I know. Not a problem.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And that's never brought up in the in the

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Speaker 3: sense that it's never used like, hey, this guy has

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Speaker 3: lunch with this judge. How can we guarantee this judge

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01:01:18,560 --> 01:01:20,960
Speaker 3: isn't you know, looking on him favorably?

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Speaker 8: Well hopefully, hopefully here she.

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Speaker 3: Is stuff playing the game right, all right?

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Speaker 9: All right?

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Speaker 3: Glenn is a personal injurytorney here in Central Forida and

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Speaker 3: has been for years. Actually we were just talking practicing

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Speaker 3: in this area for over fifty years.

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Speaker 4: Not yet fifty quite though close.

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Speaker 8: But you know, I am what's called the judicial liaison,

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01:01:41,960 --> 01:01:44,000
Speaker 8: so I do have an obligation to be able to

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01:01:44,800 --> 01:01:47,800
Speaker 8: meet with judges every now and then for the organization

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Speaker 8: that Central Fund of Trial or so.

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Speaker 4: And you just got another accommodation, did you.

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Speaker 8: Know, accommodation like where I stay?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, like you got another aimation a commendation

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01:01:58,760 --> 01:01:59,919
Speaker 3: there you can I say it wrong?

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Speaker 8: Yeah I did?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, what'd you get?

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01:02:03,160 --> 01:02:06,280
Speaker 8: I got a notification again? Am a super lawyer?

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01:02:06,640 --> 01:02:09,080
Speaker 4: Nice? That means it can fly.

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01:02:09,680 --> 01:02:13,240
Speaker 8: It's better than not. Ye put it that way. It's reviewed,

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Speaker 8: so it's a good thing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Do that stuff work out? I mean when you tell

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Speaker 4: clients that, do they you know, do they give it weight?

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Speaker 8: I don't know. You know, I have it on my website.

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Speaker 8: Maybe they look at it, maybe they don't. I give

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Speaker 8: them a copy in my resume. But they never say,

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Speaker 8: you know, what kind of super lawyer stuff can you do?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you don't. You don't apply for this, right,

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Speaker 3: it's just to apply for it. They just apply for

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Speaker 3: They just nominate you, and you're in.

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Speaker 8: They nominate you. They question other lawyers they question judges,

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Speaker 8: and that's how they claim that they come up with

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Speaker 8: who's going to be a super lawyer?

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Speaker 4: Very nice?

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Speaker 3: Well, congratulations again, congratulations. Glenn always brings a case in.

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Speaker 3: That's part of the bit that we do here. We'll

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Speaker 3: read this case. It's usually a case that Glenn is

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Speaker 3: either arguing or is considering arguing. We will kind of

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Speaker 3: go around the room trying to figure out exactly what

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Speaker 3: we think should happen, and then Glenn can give us

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Speaker 3: an idea of what actually does happen. One of the

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Speaker 3: reasons we do this segment is just so you can

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Speaker 3: get a better idea of how things actually work when

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Speaker 3: it comes to the legal nature of arguing cases. Sometimes

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Speaker 3: you think you've got a case, and maybe you don't.

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01:03:12,720 --> 01:03:16,280
Speaker 3: Sometimes you think you're innocent, maybe you aren't. And sometimes

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Speaker 3: it works out really well in your favor if you

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Speaker 3: just pay.

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Speaker 4: Attention to the facts and stuff. So you guys, ready, yeah,

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Speaker 4: here we go.

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Speaker 3: Jeff and Susie are friends and two months ago were

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Speaker 3: in Jeff's car when another car blew through a stop

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Speaker 3: sign and t boned Jeff's car. Jeff and Susie are

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Speaker 3: both injured and both went to an emergency room, and

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Speaker 3: both are continuing to get medical treatment from doctors for

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Speaker 3: their neck and back injuries from the crash. Both hired

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Speaker 3: lawyer X. So they both hired the same attorney.

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Speaker 5: Okay, all right.

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Speaker 3: Two passengers that were in the other car were also

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Speaker 3: injured and have made claims. The driver of the vehicle

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Speaker 3: that ran the stop sign has insurance with a limit

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Speaker 3: to pay twenty thousand dollars for all of the injuries

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Speaker 3: he caused. Lawyer X is telling Jeff and Susie they

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Speaker 3: should each agree to accept five thousand dollars as their

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Speaker 3: final settlement. Susie wants another option. What would you advise

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Speaker 3: her to do? So there's twenty k for the injuries

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Speaker 3: and for some reason, this all you're saying you should

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Speaker 3: abcept five each? Was only ten total?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, because there's four claimings. So she wanted a second

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Speaker 8: opinion as to what you know. That's the question. She

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Speaker 8: wants the second opinion. What do you suggest for.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So, hold on, Does Jeff have insurance on his car?

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Speaker 8: Jeff has insurance on his car with no uninsured motors, car.

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Speaker 4: With no uninsured motor. Does she have uninsured motors?

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Speaker 8: She does not have an inture motive, she doesn't own

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Speaker 8: a car. They're both college kids, are they really? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I was going to say, how deep into this case

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Speaker 5: are they?

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Speaker 8: Because not much the action happened two months ago.

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Speaker 7: Then I say, hire another attorney. That's what I would say.

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Speaker 7: This is one of those cases where folks don't need

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Speaker 7: to believe they need to stick with someone just because

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Speaker 7: they've started the paperwork necessarily.

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Speaker 4: And that's interesting.

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Speaker 3: I don't know that we've had a case where it

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Speaker 3: mentioned in the case that the two people involved or

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Speaker 3: two the people involved hired the same attorney.

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Speaker 4: And this is even more unique because it was the

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Speaker 4: two people that were in the same vehicle. Is that rare?

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Speaker 4: And do you recommend that?

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Speaker 8: It just depends? And that's a real good question. That's

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Speaker 8: where you know this case is kind of going. I

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01:05:16,520 --> 01:05:18,280
Speaker 8: don't know, if you want to want me to expound

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01:05:18,320 --> 01:05:19,840
Speaker 8: on an hour, let Jack jump in, Well.

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Speaker 4: No, yeah, we let Jack jump in.

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Speaker 3: But I just wanted to kind of make it around

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Speaker 3: like I don't remember us ever experiencing a situation like

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Speaker 3: that where both people in the car hired the same

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Speaker 3: exact attorney, And I don't know if that's an advantage

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Speaker 3: or not.

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Speaker 4: Jack, what do you think?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we've done this so many times. I don't remember

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Speaker 6: if we've done it before or not like this specific scenario.

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Speaker 6: But I do believe you have to look for alternate

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Speaker 6: ways to get money, and you also don't have to settle.

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Speaker 6: You can go for a bigger piece of the twenty

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Speaker 6: thousand dollars. You don't have to agree to split it

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Speaker 6: with the two shlubs in the other car. You know

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Speaker 6: what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the other thing is like, you know, the

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Speaker 3: two passengers in the other car, the guy caused the accident.

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Speaker 4: But they didn't. They were passengers. Yeah, yeah, they're also victims. Yeah, yep,

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Speaker 4: they're also victims in this. But I think you also

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01:06:06,560 --> 01:06:09,400
Speaker 4: have to look at where else can you get money?

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01:06:09,440 --> 01:06:12,200
Speaker 4: Where is he coming from, what's a relationship, who owns

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Speaker 4: the car? And see if there's another opportunity out there

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01:06:17,320 --> 01:06:19,360
Speaker 4: more than the twenty k that's on the table. Do

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01:06:19,400 --> 01:06:21,000
Speaker 4: we know that? Do we know? How?

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Speaker 8: I mean?

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Speaker 4: How much Jeff and Suzie's medical bills are right now?

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Speaker 4: I mean the emergency root trip alone is like fifteen hundred,

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Speaker 4: isn't it.

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Speaker 8: Well, you know they've got ten thousand dollars each to

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Speaker 8: pay towards their own medical bills. I don't know that

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Speaker 8: they've used ten thousand dollars each. This was a call

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Speaker 8: I got where I didn't delve deep into it at

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Speaker 8: this point because I saw there was other problems I

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01:06:41,080 --> 01:06:43,360
Speaker 8: needed to talk to this young lady about who called,

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Speaker 8: and I didn't delve deep into it yet.

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Speaker 4: Hmmm. So they have the opportunity to split the other

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Speaker 4: ten as well, the people who are who were run into.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, here's the way it works. They have their Jeff

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01:06:56,480 --> 01:06:59,520
Speaker 8: has his car insurance that will pay ten thousand dollars

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01:06:59,520 --> 01:07:04,040
Speaker 8: towards his medical bills. Susie doesn't have any car insurance,

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01:07:04,040 --> 01:07:06,400
Speaker 8: doesn't live with a relative, she's not on appearance policy,

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01:07:06,800 --> 01:07:09,720
Speaker 8: but she gets ten thousand dollars in medical bills paid

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Speaker 8: for under Jeff's insurance. Also. So then there are two

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Speaker 8: of them and the two passengers in the other car,

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Speaker 8: the four victims. There's twenty thousand dollars to pay all

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Speaker 8: four claims. And the insurance company is saying we'll get

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Speaker 8: the twenty thousand dollars. You all figure out how to

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01:07:25,280 --> 01:07:29,040
Speaker 8: split it up, and Susie saying, I want another opinion.

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Speaker 3: Okay, do we know if the other people. It says

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Speaker 3: the other people were also injured and have made claims.

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Speaker 3: Do we know the depth of the injuries for the

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Speaker 3: other two We do not. Yeah, but they're only entitled.

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Speaker 3: So if they did these split evenly four ways, each

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Speaker 3: of those people would get the five where it would

1537
01:07:47,680 --> 01:07:51,240
Speaker 3: be fifteen in Susie's car for both people.

1538
01:07:51,000 --> 01:07:53,400
Speaker 4: Right, exactly. That's what I was saying earlier, his insurance

1539
01:07:53,880 --> 01:07:55,720
Speaker 4: that the driver who was not at fun.

1540
01:07:55,800 --> 01:07:57,280
Speaker 3: But it leads me to believe the way the question

1541
01:07:57,440 --> 01:08:00,360
Speaker 3: is asked, though, is that there's a possibility that Susie

1542
01:08:00,360 --> 01:08:04,480
Speaker 3: and Jeff are actually that they should get more of

1543
01:08:04,520 --> 01:08:07,200
Speaker 3: the other money, Because I mean, if Susie's looking for

1544
01:08:07,200 --> 01:08:09,640
Speaker 3: an option, this wouldn't even be a question if there

1545
01:08:09,680 --> 01:08:12,040
Speaker 3: was no problem. So what they're basically saying is they

1546
01:08:12,040 --> 01:08:13,920
Speaker 3: don't think the twenty should be split evenly.

1547
01:08:14,200 --> 01:08:17,280
Speaker 6: You can negotiate that based on the injuries and say, listen,

1548
01:08:17,439 --> 01:08:20,960
Speaker 6: you know they were in the other vehicle, they were

1549
01:08:20,960 --> 01:08:23,719
Speaker 6: with the person, And I don't know if it makes

1550
01:08:23,720 --> 01:08:26,000
Speaker 6: one that the people in the other cart more of

1551
01:08:26,040 --> 01:08:31,000
Speaker 6: a victim because they had no connection with the person. Again,

1552
01:08:31,120 --> 01:08:33,760
Speaker 6: I don't know if there was any where they were

1553
01:08:33,800 --> 01:08:38,160
Speaker 6: coming from, or any other factors of other sources of income. Yeah,

1554
01:08:38,160 --> 01:08:40,799
Speaker 6: with money available would be playing.

1555
01:08:40,880 --> 01:08:42,920
Speaker 8: Yeah, it's always good to look at other sources of income.

1556
01:08:42,960 --> 01:08:45,240
Speaker 8: And Susie did not know whether the other people went

1557
01:08:45,280 --> 01:08:47,800
Speaker 8: to the emergency room and ambulance didn't come for any

1558
01:08:47,840 --> 01:08:51,559
Speaker 8: of them. But you know, she doesn't know. She just

1559
01:08:51,680 --> 01:08:54,960
Speaker 8: thinks that she's getting the short end of it. She's

1560
01:08:54,960 --> 01:08:57,040
Speaker 8: still hurting, and she doesn't think she should have to

1561
01:08:57,040 --> 01:08:58,200
Speaker 8: take five grand and walk away.

1562
01:08:58,320 --> 01:09:01,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, the lawyer X could say, I'm sorry Susie and

1563
01:09:01,479 --> 01:09:04,479
Speaker 4: the other prey, they're more injured and deserve more of

1564
01:09:04,479 --> 01:09:07,000
Speaker 4: that twenty thousand. It's not an even split. They weren't

1565
01:09:07,080 --> 01:09:10,040
Speaker 4: injured evenly. Yeah, that's that's kind of what I would say.

1566
01:09:10,080 --> 01:09:11,880
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm serious, That's kind of what I was

1567
01:09:11,920 --> 01:09:14,040
Speaker 3: thinking that initially, is like I think they just needed

1568
01:09:14,040 --> 01:09:17,240
Speaker 3: to renegotiate the split because maybe the other two aren't

1569
01:09:17,240 --> 01:09:18,679
Speaker 3: injured as bad because they were.

1570
01:09:18,600 --> 01:09:21,680
Speaker 6: You know, and was the t boning on the passenger

1571
01:09:21,720 --> 01:09:22,679
Speaker 6: side on susie side.

1572
01:09:22,720 --> 01:09:24,720
Speaker 3: T bone was on a passenger side sushi. Yeah, so

1573
01:09:24,760 --> 01:09:27,360
Speaker 3: she took the brunt of it. Hey, Yeah, that's what

1574
01:09:27,400 --> 01:09:30,599
Speaker 3: I say. I say that you you know, obviously Susie

1575
01:09:30,600 --> 01:09:34,720
Speaker 3: needs to renegotiate the twenty thousand dollars split and use

1576
01:09:34,800 --> 01:09:37,720
Speaker 3: the severity of her injuries to negotiate a bigger cut

1577
01:09:37,720 --> 01:09:39,720
Speaker 3: of that pie because she was the one that had

1578
01:09:39,760 --> 01:09:41,320
Speaker 3: took the brunt of the crash.

1579
01:09:41,920 --> 01:09:43,599
Speaker 8: That's what I think, right right, And here a lawyer

1580
01:09:43,680 --> 01:09:46,880
Speaker 8: is saying, the insurance company says, here's the twenty thousand

1581
01:09:46,920 --> 01:09:50,120
Speaker 8: dollars pot. You four people, split it up. We don't

1582
01:09:50,120 --> 01:09:52,040
Speaker 8: have anything else to do with it. And Susie's saying,

1583
01:09:52,520 --> 01:09:54,920
Speaker 8: I want another opinion from the other than what lawyer

1584
01:09:54,920 --> 01:09:56,479
Speaker 8: Rex is telling me that I need to take five

1585
01:09:56,479 --> 01:09:58,960
Speaker 8: grand and walk away, because of course she doesn't get

1586
01:09:59,000 --> 01:10:01,240
Speaker 8: five grands, she's got to pay it. Lawyer right, yeah, yeah,

1587
01:10:01,520 --> 01:10:03,479
Speaker 8: one third? And you know, right right right.

1588
01:10:03,320 --> 01:10:06,080
Speaker 4: What do you deb or what's your final answer on this?

1589
01:10:06,320 --> 01:10:09,559
Speaker 7: Well, I go back to, you know, the example of Patrick,

1590
01:10:10,000 --> 01:10:12,760
Speaker 7: a client that Glenn had, you know, a listener to

1591
01:10:12,800 --> 01:10:15,599
Speaker 7: the show, you know, had gone to someone else who

1592
01:10:15,680 --> 01:10:19,280
Speaker 7: had said, Yep, nope, your policy doesn't cover this. We're

1593
01:10:19,320 --> 01:10:21,040
Speaker 7: so sorry, you're not going to be able to have

1594
01:10:21,080 --> 01:10:25,160
Speaker 7: any restitution. Patrick brings the case to Glenn. Glenn knows

1595
01:10:25,240 --> 01:10:27,519
Speaker 7: you need to look here, here, and here in someone's

1596
01:10:27,520 --> 01:10:31,720
Speaker 7: insurance policy and ended up finding that place for his

1597
01:10:31,840 --> 01:10:34,680
Speaker 7: injuries to be covered. So I think, to me, it

1598
01:10:34,800 --> 01:10:38,360
Speaker 7: sounds like lawyer X is just taking the easiest way out. Yeah, yeah,

1599
01:10:38,360 --> 01:10:41,440
Speaker 7: there should be and probably is. More money is available,

1600
01:10:41,640 --> 01:10:44,719
Speaker 7: They just don't have the legal representation to know where

1601
01:10:44,720 --> 01:10:47,240
Speaker 7: to look. So I say, fire lawyer X, go to

1602
01:10:47,280 --> 01:10:49,080
Speaker 7: Glenn Clausman and get the money that you need.

1603
01:10:49,160 --> 01:10:51,280
Speaker 4: Plot twist. What if Glenn was lawyer X.

1604
01:10:51,680 --> 01:10:56,760
Speaker 5: Not possible? Not possible, and you would do too much work.

1605
01:10:56,880 --> 01:10:57,519
Speaker 5: He wouldn't do this.

1606
01:10:57,640 --> 01:11:00,559
Speaker 3: And haven't we heard arguments that that when this does happened,

1607
01:11:00,680 --> 01:11:04,120
Speaker 3: that there is like a sliding scale that the person

1608
01:11:04,160 --> 01:11:07,040
Speaker 3: that received the most injuries does get most of the

1609
01:11:07,120 --> 01:11:07,760
Speaker 3: money out of it.

1610
01:11:07,800 --> 01:11:09,800
Speaker 4: I mean even after the fact.

1611
01:11:09,920 --> 01:11:12,120
Speaker 8: Yeah, well the person with the most damages should get it.

1612
01:11:12,160 --> 01:11:14,559
Speaker 8: And you know, another factor we don't know is the

1613
01:11:14,640 --> 01:11:16,240
Speaker 8: two people in the other card that A heard is

1614
01:11:16,240 --> 01:11:18,479
Speaker 8: their uninsured MOTI strategies that can fall back on. Right,

1615
01:11:18,600 --> 01:11:20,840
Speaker 8: So she doesn't know or it didn't give her all

1616
01:11:20,840 --> 01:11:21,920
Speaker 8: that information. She doesn't know.

1617
01:11:22,200 --> 01:11:24,120
Speaker 5: Layer X isn't interested in finding it out.

1618
01:11:24,200 --> 01:11:26,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, so obviously you would advise her to at least

1619
01:11:26,160 --> 01:11:28,080
Speaker 3: get another returney and to get another opinion because you

1620
01:11:28,080 --> 01:11:29,439
Speaker 3: think there's money being left on the table.

1621
01:11:30,040 --> 01:11:32,479
Speaker 8: Here's what I would advise, This is what I said

1622
01:11:32,479 --> 01:11:36,320
Speaker 8: to her. First of all, when two people are in

1623
01:11:36,360 --> 01:11:39,160
Speaker 8: an accident and you're going after someone else, if it's

1624
01:11:39,240 --> 01:11:41,160
Speaker 8: husband and wife, there's no problem. They don't have a

1625
01:11:41,160 --> 01:11:43,760
Speaker 8: conflict with each other. Here. As soon as the other

1626
01:11:43,840 --> 01:11:46,960
Speaker 8: lawyer found out. As soon as lawyer finds out, there's

1627
01:11:47,000 --> 01:11:49,920
Speaker 8: only one pot of money. And now I've got two

1628
01:11:50,000 --> 01:11:53,759
Speaker 8: clients that potentially are fighting over the same pot of money.

1629
01:11:54,120 --> 01:11:57,160
Speaker 8: At that point, that lawyer's got a conflict. And unless

1630
01:11:57,160 --> 01:12:01,200
Speaker 8: he has Susie and Jeff agreeing under standing, there's a conflict.

1631
01:12:01,439 --> 01:12:04,120
Speaker 8: Both of us are going after the same pot. Jeff's

1632
01:12:04,120 --> 01:12:08,200
Speaker 8: interests and Susie's interest don't necessary are not necessarily the same.

1633
01:12:08,520 --> 01:12:11,760
Speaker 8: Jeff may not be willing to say Susie gets more

1634
01:12:11,800 --> 01:12:13,599
Speaker 8: money than me, and Susie's not going to say Jeff

1635
01:12:13,600 --> 01:12:16,400
Speaker 8: gets more money than Susie. So at that point, the

1636
01:12:16,479 --> 01:12:19,120
Speaker 8: lawyer's got a problem. He's representing two clients that have

1637
01:12:19,120 --> 01:12:21,000
Speaker 8: a he's got a conflict of interest with both.

1638
01:12:21,040 --> 01:12:22,519
Speaker 3: They're trying to get money out of the same pot

1639
01:12:22,640 --> 01:12:24,240
Speaker 3: and one thinks they deserve more than the other, and

1640
01:12:24,280 --> 01:12:26,519
Speaker 3: there's no way he could represent both of them equally

1641
01:12:26,640 --> 01:12:27,719
Speaker 3: and be fair, right.

1642
01:12:27,600 --> 01:12:29,639
Speaker 8: Right, I mean, how are you going to zealously represent

1643
01:12:29,760 --> 01:12:32,320
Speaker 8: Jeff and jealously represent Susie when they're both going after

1644
01:12:32,320 --> 01:12:34,439
Speaker 8: the same pot of money. So at that point, that

1645
01:12:34,520 --> 01:12:37,720
Speaker 8: lawyer's got a problem. And if Susie and Jeff had

1646
01:12:37,800 --> 01:12:40,360
Speaker 8: not agreed once they knew that there's one pot of

1647
01:12:40,400 --> 01:12:42,400
Speaker 8: money that they've got to go after and it's limited,

1648
01:12:43,880 --> 01:12:47,400
Speaker 8: then he's got a problem continuing to represent both of them.

1649
01:12:47,520 --> 01:12:47,960
Speaker 4: Wow.

1650
01:12:48,479 --> 01:12:51,880
Speaker 8: So you know, I explain to her, you know the situation.

1651
01:12:52,400 --> 01:12:54,439
Speaker 8: You know, I don't know very much about it, but

1652
01:12:54,479 --> 01:12:56,759
Speaker 8: I explained, you know, you need to have a discussion

1653
01:12:56,800 --> 01:13:01,240
Speaker 8: with him about this. And I think the lawyers at

1654
01:13:01,240 --> 01:13:04,040
Speaker 8: the point where he's got to say, you know, if

1655
01:13:04,120 --> 01:13:06,559
Speaker 8: Jeff and Susie don't agree, I'm gonna have to get

1656
01:13:06,560 --> 01:13:07,719
Speaker 8: out of this skyah yeah. Yeah.

1657
01:13:07,840 --> 01:13:10,160
Speaker 3: And they called you after the fact, so they already

1658
01:13:10,240 --> 01:13:12,360
Speaker 3: knew this was the case. So they've already talked to.

1659
01:13:12,320 --> 01:13:14,719
Speaker 8: One lawyer about this, right right, So well, they hired

1660
01:13:14,720 --> 01:13:16,639
Speaker 8: this guy, they hired him, Yeah, they hired him.

1661
01:13:16,720 --> 01:13:18,680
Speaker 3: Oh, Wow, so this is just not an opinion. They

1662
01:13:18,720 --> 01:13:20,920
Speaker 3: actually they hired him.

1663
01:13:21,000 --> 01:13:23,360
Speaker 8: Yeaheah, they hired him in The insurance company saw, there's

1664
01:13:23,360 --> 01:13:25,240
Speaker 8: only twenty grand ago around. We got four people that

1665
01:13:25,280 --> 01:13:27,840
Speaker 8: are injured. They too went to the emergency room. I

1666
01:13:27,880 --> 01:13:29,960
Speaker 8: don't know what the others did, but here's the twenty

1667
01:13:29,960 --> 01:13:32,880
Speaker 8: thousand dollars. The insurance company's position is, we're done with it,

1668
01:13:32,880 --> 01:13:34,920
Speaker 8: don't We only have to pay twenty here it is

1669
01:13:35,200 --> 01:13:36,240
Speaker 8: you four split it up.

1670
01:13:36,479 --> 01:13:38,360
Speaker 3: So Susie should just lawyer up and go for the

1671
01:13:38,479 --> 01:13:40,200
Speaker 3: entire thing then, or go for the biggest chunk of

1672
01:13:40,200 --> 01:13:42,120
Speaker 3: it and there because you're right, we don't know that

1673
01:13:42,120 --> 01:13:43,640
Speaker 3: that's the only money, because we don't know that the

1674
01:13:43,680 --> 01:13:47,360
Speaker 3: other passengers have auto insurance that includes uninsured, which would

1675
01:13:47,360 --> 01:13:48,840
Speaker 3: also up the pot as well.

1676
01:13:48,880 --> 01:13:51,000
Speaker 8: Well, it wouldn't up to the pot for Susie, but they

1677
01:13:51,080 --> 01:13:53,280
Speaker 8: may not need to get the five grand if they

1678
01:13:53,320 --> 01:13:55,479
Speaker 8: got one hundred thousand dollars in under Sure motors coverage

1679
01:13:55,479 --> 01:13:56,360
Speaker 8: and are not hurt that bad.

1680
01:13:56,479 --> 01:13:57,920
Speaker 4: Right, Yes, Susie could have it all at that point.

1681
01:13:58,000 --> 01:13:58,400
Speaker 8: Yeah.

1682
01:13:58,400 --> 01:14:00,479
Speaker 4: Are Susi and Jeff Susie and Jeff sure? Yeah? Yeah?

1683
01:14:00,520 --> 01:14:01,839
Speaker 4: Are they romantically involved?

1684
01:14:01,880 --> 01:14:01,960
Speaker 10: No?

1685
01:14:02,160 --> 01:14:05,800
Speaker 8: Just college kids that were going downtown and you know,

1686
01:14:05,920 --> 01:14:06,639
Speaker 8: had an accident.

1687
01:14:06,680 --> 01:14:09,120
Speaker 4: Wow, yeah, how big? I mean how fast were they

1688
01:14:09,120 --> 01:14:09,679
Speaker 4: going to the impact?

1689
01:14:09,720 --> 01:14:12,799
Speaker 8: I mean, you know what, her airbags did not deploy

1690
01:14:12,880 --> 01:14:14,760
Speaker 8: on the side, so I don't know, if you know,

1691
01:14:14,840 --> 01:14:17,519
Speaker 8: she didn't know the car whether it had a side

1692
01:14:17,560 --> 01:14:20,960
Speaker 8: airbag or not. It was a side on her side,

1693
01:14:21,000 --> 01:14:22,840
Speaker 8: but more toward the front right fender.

1694
01:14:22,920 --> 01:14:24,920
Speaker 4: Oh I see, so yeah, yeah, so she just got

1695
01:14:24,960 --> 01:14:26,040
Speaker 4: jostled around quite a bit.

1696
01:14:26,160 --> 01:14:28,120
Speaker 8: Yeah, she good neck and back problems. And you know

1697
01:14:28,240 --> 01:14:31,320
Speaker 8: she's young. Yeah, absolutely, college kid. Yeah, yeah, went to

1698
01:14:31,400 --> 01:14:33,600
Speaker 8: the emergency room. Most college kids when you get an

1699
01:14:33,600 --> 01:14:35,120
Speaker 8: action that they're not going to the emergency room, that's

1700
01:14:35,160 --> 01:14:35,800
Speaker 8: it hurt pretty bad?

1701
01:14:35,840 --> 01:14:36,479
Speaker 4: No, no, no, yeah.

1702
01:14:36,520 --> 01:14:36,720
Speaker 8: Yeah.

1703
01:14:36,760 --> 01:14:38,840
Speaker 4: And what does this stop sign runner have to say

1704
01:14:38,880 --> 01:14:40,479
Speaker 4: for himself? Glenn who knows?

1705
01:14:41,760 --> 01:14:44,240
Speaker 8: Who knows, probably say, I'm sorry, I didn't notice that

1706
01:14:44,280 --> 01:14:45,000
Speaker 8: stop signed well.

1707
01:14:44,960 --> 01:14:47,880
Speaker 4: Kind of vigor theian, uh like a little car or something.

1708
01:14:49,080 --> 01:14:51,240
Speaker 8: Yeah, I didn't go into if she told me, I

1709
01:14:51,240 --> 01:14:52,160
Speaker 8: didn't make a difference.

1710
01:14:52,479 --> 01:14:53,519
Speaker 4: Is this where you went down today?

1711
01:14:53,600 --> 01:14:56,120
Speaker 8: Is this the no? No, yeah, it's just that's another accident.

1712
01:14:56,120 --> 01:14:57,920
Speaker 8: I went and looked at the sequence of the lights.

1713
01:14:57,960 --> 01:14:59,439
Speaker 3: That's kind of wild, right that you have to do

1714
01:14:59,479 --> 01:15:01,040
Speaker 3: all that stuff. You have to go and look at

1715
01:15:01,080 --> 01:15:03,800
Speaker 3: lights to make sure the timing is changes at the

1716
01:15:03,800 --> 01:15:04,360
Speaker 3: same time so.

1717
01:15:04,320 --> 01:15:05,080
Speaker 4: It matches up with it.

1718
01:15:05,240 --> 01:15:08,519
Speaker 8: In this other case, I got person saying I turned

1719
01:15:08,560 --> 01:15:10,880
Speaker 8: on a green arrow, and the other person says I

1720
01:15:10,920 --> 01:15:13,880
Speaker 8: had a solid green. So my thinking is probably the

1721
01:15:13,920 --> 01:15:15,640
Speaker 8: person that turned in front of the person with the

1722
01:15:15,640 --> 01:15:18,080
Speaker 8: solid green also had a solid green, didn't realize it

1723
01:15:18,400 --> 01:15:20,160
Speaker 8: and turned in front of the person with the solid green.

1724
01:15:20,240 --> 01:15:22,479
Speaker 8: So I was looking at a timing sequence on the

1725
01:15:22,600 --> 01:15:25,200
Speaker 8: You know when it turns green arrow, when it stops

1726
01:15:25,200 --> 01:15:27,080
Speaker 8: the green arrow, how much of a pause there is

1727
01:15:27,120 --> 01:15:28,639
Speaker 8: before the other car comes.

1728
01:15:30,200 --> 01:15:31,679
Speaker 6: You would have to do it at the same time

1729
01:15:31,720 --> 01:15:34,840
Speaker 6: in the day, I presume, because they glare.

1730
01:15:35,479 --> 01:15:37,000
Speaker 4: Well, no, like at night.

1731
01:15:37,400 --> 01:15:41,559
Speaker 6: It might be a different timing power the congestion level.

1732
01:15:41,600 --> 01:15:46,040
Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you do. It's not much different daytime.

1733
01:15:47,560 --> 01:15:50,280
Speaker 8: At night it might be different, but ere was, they're

1734
01:15:50,320 --> 01:15:51,360
Speaker 8: not much difference.

1735
01:15:51,760 --> 01:15:53,519
Speaker 3: It's funny because I thought you were going to say

1736
01:15:53,520 --> 01:15:55,840
Speaker 3: the glare there are a number of lights out by

1737
01:15:55,880 --> 01:15:58,559
Speaker 3: where I live. The right time of day, you can't

1738
01:15:58,600 --> 01:16:00,280
Speaker 3: see it at all. I mean when I say you

1739
01:16:00,320 --> 01:16:01,920
Speaker 3: can't see it at all. Even if you put your

1740
01:16:01,960 --> 01:16:03,759
Speaker 3: hand up and try to block the sun, you cannot

1741
01:16:03,840 --> 01:16:06,000
Speaker 3: see the light. Yeah, you have to wait for the

1742
01:16:06,040 --> 01:16:08,320
Speaker 3: other vehicles to move and just hope they got it right.

1743
01:16:08,520 --> 01:16:10,880
Speaker 8: I've had plenty of cases where someone turns in front

1744
01:16:10,920 --> 01:16:12,639
Speaker 8: of someone and they said the sun was in my eyes.

1745
01:16:12,680 --> 01:16:14,920
Speaker 8: I couldn't see the light. You know, I turned in

1746
01:16:15,000 --> 01:16:16,680
Speaker 8: front of them, and you know I didn't see the

1747
01:16:16,720 --> 01:16:19,160
Speaker 8: light because of the sun. To blame the sun, Yeah,

1748
01:16:19,240 --> 01:16:19,800
Speaker 8: blame the sun.

1749
01:16:19,880 --> 01:16:20,920
Speaker 3: You have to go back and look at it, though,

1750
01:16:20,920 --> 01:16:22,000
Speaker 3: I mean, you have to go back and see them.

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Speaker 3: Does that hold up in court?

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Speaker 8: Yeah? Well no, I had one not that long ago

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Speaker 8: where this that exact thing happened downtown on a church street,

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01:16:28,400 --> 01:16:29,760
Speaker 8: on a little bit on the west side, and I

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01:16:29,800 --> 01:16:32,800
Speaker 8: went and took a look at it, and yeah, you know, yeah,

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01:16:32,880 --> 01:16:35,280
Speaker 8: and at that time of morning, the sun was in

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01:16:35,360 --> 01:16:37,240
Speaker 8: the person's eyes. But you don't turn when you don't

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Speaker 8: see you don't turn, do you see you oncoming car?

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Speaker 3: And also in rural areas that happened sometimes. I believe

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Speaker 3: there's at least one of these out where we live.

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Speaker 3: That vegetation can grow in front of a sign, whether

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Speaker 3: it be a speed speed limit sign and a stop sign,

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Speaker 3: whatever the case may be, and of course it's the

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Speaker 3: county's responsibility to keep that clear.

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Speaker 4: Do those cases hold up?

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Speaker 3: Like if you were to go through a stop sign

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01:16:57,400 --> 01:16:59,120
Speaker 3: and say, well, man, I didn't even see the thing.

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01:16:59,160 --> 01:17:01,920
Speaker 3: The vegetation for from the from the you know, the

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01:17:02,040 --> 01:17:04,120
Speaker 3: road covered up the sign and I didn't see it

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Speaker 3: at all.

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Speaker 8: I don't know where you live, I don't. I've never

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01:17:06,400 --> 01:17:08,840
Speaker 8: seen that. I've never serious. I've never seen vegetation covering

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Speaker 8: up stop signs.

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Speaker 3: Overhanging trees that's in a four stock corner, overhanging trees,

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01:17:14,280 --> 01:17:16,720
Speaker 3: limb grows too far and grows down and grows in

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Speaker 3: front of the sign.

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Speaker 8: Maybe. I mean, I just haven't had a case like that.

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Speaker 8: I mean, you know, it's uh, I just have an

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01:17:22,520 --> 01:17:25,439
Speaker 8: ad a case that I've had cases where, of course,

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01:17:25,520 --> 01:17:27,640
Speaker 8: the vegetation We've talked about this before. Somebody will have

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01:17:28,040 --> 01:17:31,040
Speaker 8: shrubs or vegetation where you pull up to turn and

1782
01:17:31,400 --> 01:17:33,439
Speaker 8: you can't see what's going on because all the hedges

1783
01:17:33,560 --> 01:17:34,360
Speaker 8: are vegetation.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we had that little thing in publics that happened

1785
01:17:37,200 --> 01:17:38,639
Speaker 3: there where you pull out there you had to stuck.

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01:17:38,760 --> 01:17:40,320
Speaker 3: You have to stick your car so far out in

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01:17:40,360 --> 01:17:42,639
Speaker 3: the intersection to see from MAT's coming because the vegetation.

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Speaker 3: And then somebody hit you on their bicycle on the

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Speaker 3: on the on the on the bike trail.

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Speaker 8: Yep, yep. And I remember Sean when he was over

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Speaker 8: on the you know, the public's on seventy ninety two.

1792
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Speaker 8: He said they were accidents there all the time because

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Speaker 8: the shrubs are too high and you can't see. Didn't see.

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Speaker 3: You have to pull out too far to be able

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Speaker 4: Call that man right there, mister Glenn Clausman. Good loud guys,

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Speaker 4: yay allrybody. We will see you next week. Good job,

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Speaker 4: have a good weekend.

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Speaker 3: us seven seven zero three one Back in a second

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Speaker 3: with more of the Jym Covert show.

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Speaker 11: Good afternoon, COVID the company's concrete mike. So a woman

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Speaker 11: walked into the house and as she came into the

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Speaker 11: kitchen found her husband stalking around with a flyswater.

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Speaker 9: She said, what are you doing? He said, I'm hunting.

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Speaker 9: She said hunting flies? He said yes.

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Speaker 11: She said you catch any and he said yeah, five.

1812
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Speaker 11: I got three males, two females. She said, how can

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Speaker 11: you tell the male flies from the female flies? She said,

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Speaker 11: figure on a beerd can to her on the phone.

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Speaker 3: away for your chance at one thousand bucks. Pay guys,

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Speaker 3: that is you're a five o'clock keyword.

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Speaker 4: Good luck. We hope you win that money.

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Speaker 3: Welcome back. I'm Jim, there's Deb Hello, Jack is ear

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Speaker 3: as well. Hey, it's Mike coming in with jokes that

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Speaker 3: four oh seven nine four one. You can always text

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Speaker 3: us seven seven zero three one. Our frienk cleube Frere

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Speaker 3: is out in the lobby. She'll be with us next segment.

1826
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Speaker 3: She's a couple's therapist relationship expert. She's actually done some

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Speaker 3: time with you, guys. I first time I met her

1828
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Speaker 3: was just outside. I know she's uh started a podcast

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Speaker 3: with Tom and Dan called I say with Tom and Dan,

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Speaker 3: it's actually not it's with their kind of network.

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Speaker 4: It's called Love Thy Neighbor.

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Speaker 5: Not only that, she just authored another book called The

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Speaker 5: Cost of Christ.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's the book I was talking about earlier,

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Speaker 3: and I had to tell you article it is as

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Speaker 3: on point as you can imagine. Absolutely, that is one

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Speaker 3: of the truest relationship statements of all time. And of

1838
01:19:55,840 --> 01:19:58,599
Speaker 3: course we'll let Collette explain that a little bit later

1839
01:19:58,640 --> 01:19:59,960
Speaker 3: when she's in this's a few minutes from now.

1840
01:20:01,040 --> 01:20:01,880
Speaker 4: So quick question.

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01:20:03,080 --> 01:20:04,439
Speaker 5: Let me get a Google tab open.

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Speaker 4: You're fine, You're fine. I've got all the answers on

1843
01:20:09,240 --> 01:20:09,439
Speaker 4: this one.

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Speaker 5: Okay, let me get another Google tab open? All right,

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01:20:14,120 --> 01:20:15,080
Speaker 5: two Google tabs?

1846
01:20:15,200 --> 01:20:19,960
Speaker 4: Shoot, Google tab, Google tab, three Google tabs. So we

1847
01:20:20,240 --> 01:20:25,160
Speaker 4: all occasionally will imbibe in a fast for fast food burger,

1848
01:20:25,200 --> 01:20:25,560
Speaker 4: will we not?

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Speaker 10: Yeah?

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01:20:26,720 --> 01:20:29,600
Speaker 4: Now, do you have your favorite fast food burger? Is

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01:20:29,640 --> 01:20:31,439
Speaker 4: its Culver's? Yeah?

1852
01:20:31,439 --> 01:20:32,280
Speaker 5: I do like a Culver.

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01:20:32,439 --> 01:20:34,760
Speaker 4: You get the butter burger like a true Wisconsin girl.

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Speaker 4: You need to ask some cheese kurts to go along.

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Speaker 5: No, all right, No, I like my cheese kurts fresh jack.

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Speaker 4: What is your go to when you're gonna cheat? You're

1857
01:20:44,680 --> 01:20:46,720
Speaker 4: gonna have that that fast food burger. Who is it

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01:20:46,800 --> 01:20:49,320
Speaker 4: for you? It would probably be a big Mac. A

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01:20:49,400 --> 01:20:49,840
Speaker 4: big Mac.

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01:20:49,920 --> 01:20:50,120
Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I mean there's places I'll go for a burger that

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01:20:53,479 --> 01:20:56,160
Speaker 6: you know that I have a really good bugger.

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Speaker 4: But you couldn't call I couldn't call them fast food.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, man, I gotta tell you, it's a

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01:21:00,520 --> 01:21:03,640
Speaker 3: couple for me. I actually did not have any relationship

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01:21:03,720 --> 01:21:06,800
Speaker 3: with the Culver's Burger until they built one, not even

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01:21:06,880 --> 01:21:09,439
Speaker 3: two miles from my house. And the Culvers Burger is

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01:21:09,479 --> 01:21:14,280
Speaker 3: a good burger. But to me, the Culver's experience, it

1869
01:21:14,479 --> 01:21:17,400
Speaker 3: really does kind of hinge on the fact of how

1870
01:21:17,479 --> 01:21:20,000
Speaker 3: they cook their fries, because sometimes you can get the

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01:21:20,040 --> 01:21:22,040
Speaker 3: fries and are cooked a lot, so they're real crispy,

1872
01:21:22,320 --> 01:21:25,679
Speaker 3: and sometimes they're not that crispy, and that does change

1873
01:21:25,760 --> 01:21:27,479
Speaker 3: the texture of that entire experience.

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Speaker 5: To me, without a doubt, it used to be.

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Speaker 3: It used to be Steak and Shake. The problem with

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01:21:32,600 --> 01:21:34,479
Speaker 3: Steak and Jay burgers is the flavor is great. I

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01:21:34,520 --> 01:21:37,160
Speaker 3: can eat one in three bites because they're not they're

1878
01:21:37,200 --> 01:21:39,800
Speaker 3: really not that big, but they're so good. Here's the

1879
01:21:39,920 --> 01:21:42,800
Speaker 3: question of the burgers that we like. I would say

1880
01:21:42,840 --> 01:21:46,000
Speaker 3: that my my guilty pleasure burger is probably a quarter pounder,

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Speaker 3: which I get one about every two weeks. I'll get

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01:21:49,040 --> 01:21:51,360
Speaker 3: a quarter pounder with cheese and a ten piece nugget,

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Speaker 3: and that is my you. You are a terrible person meal.

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Speaker 3: And I'm not saying because the food's bad. It's just

1885
01:21:56,360 --> 01:21:58,960
Speaker 3: because it 't the best for you. But I love

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01:21:59,040 --> 01:22:00,720
Speaker 3: the taste of a quarter pound when I do that.

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01:22:00,800 --> 01:22:03,120
Speaker 3: And occasionally Wendy's right, I'll do like a Wendy's dollar.

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01:22:03,240 --> 01:22:07,200
Speaker 7: Yeah, And sometimes there is that burger hangar that only

1889
01:22:07,240 --> 01:22:08,519
Speaker 7: a McDonald's product can.

1890
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Speaker 5: Tell you, or the quarter pounds or.

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Speaker 4: Something about that.

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01:22:12,560 --> 01:22:13,200
Speaker 8: All right, yep.

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Speaker 3: Now, the reason I asked this is who do you

1894
01:22:16,160 --> 01:22:20,439
Speaker 3: think makes the most healthy fast food hamburger? And by

1895
01:22:20,479 --> 01:22:23,799
Speaker 3: the way, some of the ones mentioned today are definitely

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Speaker 3: on the list. There are seven burgers they tried, and

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01:22:26,520 --> 01:22:27,880
Speaker 3: I'll give them to you real quick, and you can

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Speaker 3: tell me which one you think.

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Speaker 9: This is, in no.

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Speaker 3: Particular order, all right, the Wopper Junior, right, Wendy's Junior, Hamburger, Classic,

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Speaker 3: McDonald's Burger in and Out Burger, Culver's Burger, what Burger Junior,

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01:22:43,640 --> 01:22:47,720
Speaker 3: or the shake check Hamburger not cheeseburger Hamburger because we're

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01:22:47,760 --> 01:22:49,200
Speaker 3: going for healthy here, so we're trying to cut the

1904
01:22:49,200 --> 01:22:52,120
Speaker 3: calories as much as possible, so they nicked the cheese.

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01:22:52,760 --> 01:22:54,840
Speaker 4: I guess. Seeing I think there are two on the

1906
01:22:54,920 --> 01:22:57,000
Speaker 4: list that I think are near the front end.

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Speaker 3: It would be Culver's and Wendy'sing Culvers, I'll go Burger

1908
01:23:05,520 --> 01:23:07,160
Speaker 3: King very interesting.

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01:23:07,520 --> 01:23:09,200
Speaker 4: Culvers is next to last.

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01:23:09,760 --> 01:23:12,679
Speaker 3: Really, Culver's, out of seven burgers, comes in number six,

1911
01:23:13,040 --> 01:23:13,919
Speaker 3: but their butter.

1912
01:23:13,760 --> 01:23:16,320
Speaker 4: Burger butter but burger.

1913
01:23:16,600 --> 01:23:17,880
Speaker 5: But this stuff of life.

1914
01:23:18,200 --> 01:23:21,720
Speaker 3: The highest calorie count without extra toppings is the is

1915
01:23:21,800 --> 01:23:26,160
Speaker 3: the Culver's Butterburger at almost four hundred calories without any

1916
01:23:26,280 --> 01:23:27,519
Speaker 3: cheese or any extra toppings.

1917
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Speaker 5: Explains why I'm a butter ball.

1918
01:23:28,920 --> 01:23:33,200
Speaker 3: The shake check Hamburger is the worst, really, it says,

1919
01:23:33,520 --> 01:23:36,439
Speaker 3: piled with toppings, special sauce, it isn't your best option

1920
01:23:36,920 --> 01:23:39,800
Speaker 3: to change. Classic Hamburger is a healthier choice for a

1921
01:23:39,880 --> 01:23:43,000
Speaker 3: fast food burger. We're talking twenty four grams of carbs,

1922
01:23:43,080 --> 01:23:46,600
Speaker 3: eight grams of saturated fat, eight hundred and fifty milligrams

1923
01:23:46,800 --> 01:23:47,960
Speaker 3: of sodium.

1924
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Speaker 9: Not good.

1925
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Speaker 3: The number one burger, the healthiest burger out there, is

1926
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Speaker 3: the Wendy's Junior Hamburger. Really, Yeah, that's right. The Wendy's

1927
01:23:59,120 --> 01:24:02,640
Speaker 3: Junior Hamburger had a two hundred and thirty count calories,

1928
01:24:03,479 --> 01:24:07,919
Speaker 3: low salt, four grams of saturated fat, twelve grams of protein,

1929
01:24:08,040 --> 01:24:10,479
Speaker 3: and just twenty four grams of carbs. So, if you're

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Speaker 3: getting a fast food burger and you want to keep

1931
01:24:12,240 --> 01:24:15,800
Speaker 3: it as healthy as possible, the Wendy's Junior Hamburger is

1932
01:24:15,920 --> 01:24:16,559
Speaker 3: the best one.

1933
01:24:16,720 --> 01:24:20,040
Speaker 5: Well, it's probably just you know, ketchup mustard and pickles.

1934
01:24:19,760 --> 01:24:21,880
Speaker 4: And you picked out the number two. The Burger King

1935
01:24:21,920 --> 01:24:24,160
Speaker 4: Wopper Junior is the second healthiest burger.

1936
01:24:24,400 --> 01:24:26,840
Speaker 5: That's the meal I get as a Whopper Junior meal.

1937
01:24:26,960 --> 01:24:29,240
Speaker 4: That's funny. My wife a little My wife only eats

1938
01:24:29,320 --> 01:24:32,080
Speaker 4: kids meals well, same year, Yeah, because she can't eat

1939
01:24:32,120 --> 01:24:33,759
Speaker 4: the whole thing, and she can tell you she barely

1940
01:24:33,800 --> 01:24:35,080
Speaker 4: finishes the kids meal. Yeah.

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01:24:36,160 --> 01:24:39,920
Speaker 3: The classic McDonald's burger is the third healthiest. The In

1942
01:24:40,080 --> 01:24:43,679
Speaker 3: and Out Burger is the fourth, Waburger Junior is the fifth,

1943
01:24:43,760 --> 01:24:46,360
Speaker 3: and then of course going into the Butterburger and then

1944
01:24:46,439 --> 01:24:48,080
Speaker 3: into the shake check Hamburger.

1945
01:24:48,280 --> 01:24:50,400
Speaker 4: I think you just say shake check and it's automatically

1946
01:24:50,479 --> 01:24:50,840
Speaker 4: bad for you.

1947
01:24:52,920 --> 01:24:54,560
Speaker 3: That way, I don't need to I don't think you

1948
01:24:54,840 --> 01:24:57,960
Speaker 3: could be the shake check napkin is his worst for you.

1949
01:24:58,840 --> 01:25:02,840
Speaker 4: And anytime you walk asked a like a, what's the

1950
01:25:03,000 --> 01:25:04,040
Speaker 4: really five guys?

1951
01:25:04,280 --> 01:25:04,439
Speaker 8: Oh?

1952
01:25:04,560 --> 01:25:07,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, man, there's a five guys on an end cap

1953
01:25:07,280 --> 01:25:09,519
Speaker 3: in that in a shopping center that we have near

1954
01:25:09,640 --> 01:25:12,720
Speaker 3: us Jack. And when you drive by that thing, you

1955
01:25:12,960 --> 01:25:15,400
Speaker 3: just drive by it and you're like, how do people

1956
01:25:15,439 --> 01:25:18,479
Speaker 3: even go inside? Like it just smell just because the

1957
01:25:18,560 --> 01:25:21,040
Speaker 3: frying oil of the fries and everything, it just and

1958
01:25:21,160 --> 01:25:23,680
Speaker 3: it smells unbelievable. I mean, but you just know when

1959
01:25:23,680 --> 01:25:25,680
Speaker 3: you walk in there what you're getting. Yeah, because I

1960
01:25:25,720 --> 01:25:27,479
Speaker 3: think that triple burger or whatever is one of the

1961
01:25:27,560 --> 01:25:29,839
Speaker 3: worst ones for you, right, one of the worst fat.

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01:25:29,720 --> 01:25:31,599
Speaker 5: Ones, which means it's the most delicious.

1963
01:25:31,680 --> 01:25:32,599
Speaker 4: It is the most delicious.

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Speaker 3: I haven't had a five guy since I lived in

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01:25:34,160 --> 01:25:36,639
Speaker 3: Baldwin Park. Yeah, it's one hundred calories just the park.

1966
01:25:41,880 --> 01:25:44,400
Speaker 3: And it's funny, Like I read this list, I was like, man,

1967
01:25:44,400 --> 01:25:46,120
Speaker 3: I gotta tell you, I think every one of these

1968
01:25:46,160 --> 01:25:49,280
Speaker 3: burgers holds up. They don't none of them have cheese, Like, well,

1969
01:25:49,320 --> 01:25:51,679
Speaker 3: there's not cheese, and they're all hamburgers, and I don't

1970
01:25:51,720 --> 01:25:52,600
Speaker 3: eat hamburgers.

1971
01:25:52,920 --> 01:25:56,240
Speaker 7: Well that and that lends itself to the question, if

1972
01:25:56,280 --> 01:25:59,559
Speaker 7: you're gonna cheat with a burger, a fast food burger

1973
01:25:59,600 --> 01:26:03,760
Speaker 7: in the first place, just get the cheeseburger and skip

1974
01:26:03,840 --> 01:26:06,880
Speaker 7: the other toppings. But I don't if it's not really

1975
01:26:07,000 --> 01:26:09,479
Speaker 7: that healthy for you in the end, then just have

1976
01:26:09,560 --> 01:26:10,479
Speaker 7: a little bit of fun with it.

1977
01:26:10,600 --> 01:26:12,839
Speaker 3: What is your what is your your fast food experience?

1978
01:26:12,920 --> 01:26:15,360
Speaker 3: Like when when you guys do crave something, is it?

1979
01:26:16,439 --> 01:26:17,760
Speaker 3: Do you have a favorite fast food?

1980
01:26:17,840 --> 01:26:17,880
Speaker 14: Is?

1981
01:26:18,000 --> 01:26:20,880
Speaker 4: Is it always the Big mac Jack if I'm going

1982
01:26:20,880 --> 01:26:21,960
Speaker 4: to McDon no, it's not.

1983
01:26:22,320 --> 01:26:26,040
Speaker 6: Sometimes I mean like my uh my daughter turns me

1984
01:26:26,120 --> 01:26:29,360
Speaker 6: onto some of the special meals where it's like these

1985
01:26:29,400 --> 01:26:32,599
Speaker 6: five dollars specials, or you can do like hey, it's

1986
01:26:33,040 --> 01:26:36,559
Speaker 6: a burger. It's like four nuggets and a drink and stuff,

1987
01:26:36,680 --> 01:26:39,160
Speaker 6: and it's like it's like, ah, I never would have

1988
01:26:39,160 --> 01:26:39,560
Speaker 6: looked at that.

1989
01:26:39,840 --> 01:26:43,560
Speaker 4: Really, she speaks, well, you always, I always, you know,

1990
01:26:44,120 --> 01:26:45,479
Speaker 4: you get what you know.

1991
01:26:45,880 --> 01:26:49,160
Speaker 6: And they when they change around those value I don't

1992
01:26:49,240 --> 01:26:51,840
Speaker 6: delve into the value menu so much. And I know

1993
01:26:52,080 --> 01:26:55,439
Speaker 6: that's one of the things that the fast food places

1994
01:26:55,520 --> 01:26:59,639
Speaker 6: have been focusing on, is trying to get more attention

1995
01:26:59,800 --> 01:27:02,600
Speaker 6: back to their value meal because they it kind of

1996
01:27:02,920 --> 01:27:03,360
Speaker 6: went away.

1997
01:27:03,439 --> 01:27:06,160
Speaker 4: They used to have, like I think they did away

1998
01:27:06,200 --> 01:27:07,479
Speaker 4: with it, the dollar stuff, right.

1999
01:27:07,479 --> 01:27:08,960
Speaker 5: They did. Now they're bringing it back.

2000
01:27:09,160 --> 01:27:11,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, but because they saw that drop off.

2001
01:27:11,560 --> 01:27:13,360
Speaker 3: Well, one of the things that happened, like about three

2002
01:27:13,400 --> 01:27:15,200
Speaker 3: or four months ago is people started kind of posting

2003
01:27:15,280 --> 01:27:18,360
Speaker 3: the cost of eating at fast food restaurants when we

2004
01:27:18,439 --> 01:27:21,160
Speaker 3: are feeling this crunch of you know, food costs, and

2005
01:27:21,240 --> 01:27:23,040
Speaker 3: people are like, you know, it just cost me seventeen

2006
01:27:23,120 --> 01:27:25,920
Speaker 3: dollars for a number two at McDonald's people were like,

2007
01:27:25,960 --> 01:27:28,559
Speaker 3: what for burger and fries and to drink seventeen bucks

2008
01:27:28,680 --> 01:27:30,800
Speaker 3: or whatever? And that was when the big blowback, and

2009
01:27:30,880 --> 01:27:32,920
Speaker 3: then all the fast food places started kind of catching

2010
01:27:33,000 --> 01:27:36,160
Speaker 3: on that that, you know, sales were down because their

2011
01:27:36,320 --> 01:27:38,960
Speaker 3: their food prices were expensive. And I believe McDonald's was

2012
01:27:39,000 --> 01:27:40,320
Speaker 3: the first company to kind of reach out and do

2013
01:27:40,680 --> 01:27:43,120
Speaker 3: a ten dollars meal or eight nine ninety nine or whatever.

2014
01:27:43,160 --> 01:27:45,240
Speaker 3: That's what brought Chili's back to life, by the way, Yeah,

2015
01:27:46,439 --> 01:27:49,880
Speaker 3: was it Chili's not Chili's, No, it was Chili's. Chili's

2016
01:27:49,920 --> 01:27:53,519
Speaker 3: did that nine to ninety nine burger deal right, drink

2017
01:27:53,520 --> 01:27:56,439
Speaker 3: for nine and they turned that entire franchise around with

2018
01:27:56,520 --> 01:27:59,320
Speaker 3: a damn Hamburger because it was such a good deal

2019
01:27:59,360 --> 01:28:00,080
Speaker 3: and you couldn't even get a.

2020
01:28:00,120 --> 01:28:01,760
Speaker 4: Better deal at a at a drive through.

2021
01:28:01,920 --> 01:28:04,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, to go in and sit down at a you know,

2022
01:28:04,240 --> 01:28:08,120
Speaker 6: a restaurant, what fast casual? Yeah right, yeah, yeah, get

2023
01:28:08,280 --> 01:28:10,280
Speaker 6: a meal for under ten buns and some service. Only

2024
01:28:10,320 --> 01:28:12,720
Speaker 6: problem is you have to tip it. Don't tip it

2025
01:28:12,800 --> 01:28:14,160
Speaker 6: drive throughs. I mean that's the only thing.

2026
01:28:14,240 --> 01:28:17,439
Speaker 4: But still, oh wait, they're gonna start asking paying nine

2027
01:28:17,520 --> 01:28:20,000
Speaker 4: dollars for who cares? All right, four oh seven nine

2028
01:28:20,040 --> 01:28:23,720
Speaker 4: one again. Pay is your five o'clock keyword, that's pay.

2029
01:28:24,120 --> 01:28:25,800
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2030
01:28:25,840 --> 01:28:27,680
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2031
01:28:27,720 --> 01:28:30,160
Speaker 3: friend call that fairs. Next here on the Jim Colbert Show,

2032
01:28:41,360 --> 01:28:43,120
Speaker 3: I'll be back to the Jim Colbert Show, Real Radio

2033
01:28:43,120 --> 01:28:43,880
Speaker 3: one oh four point one.

2034
01:28:44,080 --> 01:28:44,240
Speaker 8: Pay.

2035
01:28:44,760 --> 01:28:47,320
Speaker 3: That is your five o'clock keyword, p a y. Slide

2036
01:28:47,360 --> 01:28:48,920
Speaker 3: over to real Radio dot of him and and then

2037
01:28:48,920 --> 01:28:51,120
Speaker 3: I'll fi your chance at one thousand bucks. And remember, guys,

2038
01:28:51,120 --> 01:28:53,280
Speaker 3: if you're playing the game phone on phone up, answer

2039
01:28:53,360 --> 01:28:55,840
Speaker 3: it when it rings. That's how they tell you've won.

2040
01:28:56,479 --> 01:28:57,120
Speaker 3: Pays the word.

2041
01:28:57,160 --> 01:28:58,920
Speaker 4: Guys, go get it, get that money.

2042
01:28:59,120 --> 01:28:59,479
Speaker 8: I'm Jim.

2043
01:28:59,520 --> 01:29:01,720
Speaker 4: There's deb Hello. Jack is here as well.

2044
01:29:01,920 --> 01:29:02,120
Speaker 9: Yeah.

2045
01:29:02,479 --> 01:29:04,400
Speaker 3: Uh, this young lady came in to talk to you

2046
01:29:04,520 --> 01:29:06,439
Speaker 3: guys when I wasn't around, and I think that was

2047
01:29:06,479 --> 01:29:09,400
Speaker 3: the reason, because I wasn't around. Yeah, that happens for sure,

2048
01:29:09,439 --> 01:29:11,080
Speaker 3: you guys give it up. Good laugh for Collette Fair.

2049
01:29:11,120 --> 01:29:18,960
Speaker 4: What do you say, couples therapist and relationship expert.

2050
01:29:18,880 --> 01:29:21,280
Speaker 16: Here to do therapy on you, to know expert?

2051
01:29:21,560 --> 01:29:24,519
Speaker 5: She says, Wow, she can spot a case from a blocker.

2052
01:29:24,640 --> 01:29:25,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, she is.

2053
01:29:25,520 --> 01:29:27,040
Speaker 3: She's one of these people when you say her name

2054
01:29:27,200 --> 01:29:28,960
Speaker 3: and then you there, you know, you get the comma

2055
01:29:29,120 --> 01:29:32,280
Speaker 3: and then there's just letters. Right, It's just so many letters.

2056
01:29:32,320 --> 01:29:37,160
Speaker 3: It's like your name, comma alphabet. Can you explain some

2057
01:29:37,280 --> 01:29:39,400
Speaker 3: of the professional accolades that you have so we can

2058
01:29:39,520 --> 01:29:41,080
Speaker 3: kind of justify you being here, young lady.

2059
01:29:41,160 --> 01:29:43,200
Speaker 16: Sure to prove myself.

2060
01:29:43,360 --> 01:29:46,040
Speaker 18: It's so true though, and it means nothing to other people,

2061
01:29:46,120 --> 01:29:48,400
Speaker 18: but you work so hard for these damn letters.

2062
01:29:48,560 --> 01:29:48,680
Speaker 9: Right.

2063
01:29:48,800 --> 01:29:49,000
Speaker 4: Yeah.

2064
01:29:49,320 --> 01:29:53,720
Speaker 18: So, in Florida, the typical licenses for mental health counselors

2065
01:29:53,840 --> 01:29:56,360
Speaker 18: or people who practice therapy. You can be a psychologist,

2066
01:29:56,439 --> 01:29:58,120
Speaker 18: you can be a social worker, you can be a

2067
01:29:58,200 --> 01:30:01,160
Speaker 18: licensed mental health counselor you can be a licensed marriage

2068
01:30:01,200 --> 01:30:04,280
Speaker 18: and family therapist. I am the two latter, okay, And

2069
01:30:04,600 --> 01:30:07,519
Speaker 18: all of those things allow you to sit with clients

2070
01:30:07,600 --> 01:30:10,040
Speaker 18: the privilege and honor, and I really do believe that

2071
01:30:10,240 --> 01:30:13,600
Speaker 18: it's very much a mission driven career. I think of

2072
01:30:13,760 --> 01:30:17,000
Speaker 18: sitting with people and helping them with whatever they're going through.

2073
01:30:17,320 --> 01:30:19,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, it's interesting. I do want to ask

2074
01:30:19,720 --> 01:30:20,320
Speaker 4: you a quick question.

2075
01:30:20,439 --> 01:30:22,000
Speaker 3: This has nothing to do what we're going to talk about,

2076
01:30:22,000 --> 01:30:24,479
Speaker 3: but I do find your opinion of it interesting. Here recently,

2077
01:30:24,560 --> 01:30:27,720
Speaker 3: there was a therapist that had an unfortunate encounter with

2078
01:30:27,920 --> 01:30:31,080
Speaker 3: a former client of hers, and it was you know,

2079
01:30:31,160 --> 01:30:35,080
Speaker 3: it was a tragic story in your job because you

2080
01:30:35,240 --> 01:30:38,799
Speaker 3: do deal with so many volatile situations between couples, between

2081
01:30:39,160 --> 01:30:42,040
Speaker 3: you know, anybody that has a relationship issue like that.

2082
01:30:42,479 --> 01:30:44,519
Speaker 3: I mean, do you ever run into situations where it

2083
01:30:44,560 --> 01:30:46,840
Speaker 3: gets so heated you have to kind of like do

2084
01:30:47,040 --> 01:30:48,639
Speaker 3: something to kind of cool the room a bit.

2085
01:30:48,840 --> 01:30:51,800
Speaker 18: Yes, absolutely, And I used to have more of that

2086
01:30:52,120 --> 01:30:55,360
Speaker 18: earlier in my career. I don't know if like I've

2087
01:30:55,479 --> 01:30:59,599
Speaker 18: just gotten more seasoned or my client population has changed,

2088
01:30:59,640 --> 01:31:03,439
Speaker 18: but I definitely have had some difficult situations early on

2089
01:31:03,800 --> 01:31:06,800
Speaker 18: where even something kind of explosive, remember anything where I

2090
01:31:06,880 --> 01:31:10,120
Speaker 18: feared for my life. But I have had clients that

2091
01:31:10,240 --> 01:31:12,880
Speaker 18: I've worried about safety a little bit in the past

2092
01:31:13,040 --> 01:31:16,320
Speaker 18: and not wanted to work at night or be alone

2093
01:31:16,360 --> 01:31:19,560
Speaker 18: in the building. Wow, yeah, not so much anymore. But

2094
01:31:19,840 --> 01:31:23,400
Speaker 18: your point is valid. It is a really fraught situation.

2095
01:31:23,960 --> 01:31:26,880
Speaker 18: I work mostly with couples, so sometimes someone is there

2096
01:31:27,000 --> 01:31:31,160
Speaker 18: to end a relationship and people get very upset and

2097
01:31:31,280 --> 01:31:33,639
Speaker 18: it's triggering and anything can happen.

2098
01:31:33,520 --> 01:31:35,760
Speaker 3: And can you tell immediately when a couple comes in

2099
01:31:36,040 --> 01:31:38,560
Speaker 3: and the entire goal of at least one part of

2100
01:31:38,640 --> 01:31:43,040
Speaker 3: the couple is to use you as a tool as

2101
01:31:43,080 --> 01:31:44,160
Speaker 3: a tool to I.

2102
01:31:44,240 --> 01:31:47,679
Speaker 18: Think most people think their partner is more a fault

2103
01:31:47,760 --> 01:31:49,960
Speaker 18: than they are. I know I did in my first marriage.

2104
01:31:50,000 --> 01:31:51,240
Speaker 16: Actually I do even now in.

2105
01:31:51,320 --> 01:31:52,240
Speaker 4: My current marriage.

2106
01:31:54,600 --> 01:31:58,000
Speaker 16: I think that's how we work and nature.

2107
01:31:58,600 --> 01:32:00,760
Speaker 18: But I do think a lot of people come in

2108
01:32:01,040 --> 01:32:04,080
Speaker 18: with this, even if they wouldn't say it so explicitly.

2109
01:32:04,240 --> 01:32:05,639
Speaker 16: Can you fix my partner?

2110
01:32:06,120 --> 01:32:08,960
Speaker 18: And part of my job is to help people realize

2111
01:32:09,040 --> 01:32:11,840
Speaker 18: that they can only turn the lens around and look

2112
01:32:11,880 --> 01:32:14,679
Speaker 18: at and work on themselves, because no matter what, even

2113
01:32:14,720 --> 01:32:17,920
Speaker 18: if your partner's ninety percent. Let's just say of the problem,

2114
01:32:18,000 --> 01:32:21,280
Speaker 18: there's always something, it's a system, and there's always.

2115
01:32:21,040 --> 01:32:23,320
Speaker 16: Something you're contributing, and you can do better at.

2116
01:32:23,400 --> 01:32:25,559
Speaker 4: Right right right now. I know that you wrote a book,

2117
01:32:25,600 --> 01:32:28,040
Speaker 4: and I do find it fascinating. What's the name of

2118
01:32:28,080 --> 01:32:28,439
Speaker 4: your book?

2119
01:32:28,760 --> 01:32:30,000
Speaker 16: The Cost of Quiet?

2120
01:32:30,160 --> 01:32:34,040
Speaker 18: How to have the hard conversations that create secure, lasting love.

2121
01:32:34,320 --> 01:32:34,519
Speaker 9: Yeah.

2122
01:32:34,600 --> 01:32:37,880
Speaker 3: Now, I have a little bit of experience in a

2123
01:32:38,000 --> 01:32:40,760
Speaker 3: situation of this nature, you know, from past relationships, and

2124
01:32:40,960 --> 01:32:43,519
Speaker 3: my whole thing is this. I am not You're probably

2125
01:32:43,560 --> 01:32:45,519
Speaker 3: gonna find this little odd, guys, but I'm not really

2126
01:32:45,560 --> 01:32:46,679
Speaker 3: a confrontational person.

2127
01:32:46,760 --> 01:32:49,280
Speaker 4: I do not enjoy it at all. And I do

2128
01:32:49,520 --> 01:32:51,280
Speaker 4: know people who are very good at it and they

2129
01:32:51,400 --> 01:32:52,600
Speaker 4: lean into it. I do not.

2130
01:32:52,840 --> 01:32:54,720
Speaker 3: If I have to do it, I will, but it

2131
01:32:54,840 --> 01:32:56,600
Speaker 3: is not my favorite thing to do. I am a

2132
01:32:56,680 --> 01:32:59,479
Speaker 3: person who likes to placate for the sake of peace,

2133
01:33:00,040 --> 01:33:02,680
Speaker 3: and that is a real date I learned that is

2134
01:33:02,800 --> 01:33:08,000
Speaker 3: a very very dangerous trait to have. And the thought

2135
01:33:08,080 --> 01:33:11,719
Speaker 3: process is, well, if I bring up this very difficult scenario,

2136
01:33:12,200 --> 01:33:14,320
Speaker 3: it's going to cause a giant argument that's going to

2137
01:33:14,360 --> 01:33:16,439
Speaker 3: cause a rift in my relationship. That's going to be

2138
01:33:16,479 --> 01:33:20,439
Speaker 3: irrepaarable when the whole time, it's the quiet that's causing

2139
01:33:20,560 --> 01:33:22,400
Speaker 3: the rift that winds up being irreparable.

2140
01:33:22,760 --> 01:33:24,080
Speaker 16: You hit the nail on the head.

2141
01:33:24,120 --> 01:33:26,439
Speaker 18: That's really the central thesis of my whole book. I

2142
01:33:26,560 --> 01:33:29,639
Speaker 18: use quiet as a euphemism for avoiding conflict. And what's

2143
01:33:29,720 --> 01:33:32,360
Speaker 18: interesting I've noticed over my career. I mean, I have

2144
01:33:32,439 --> 01:33:35,400
Speaker 18: a lot of clients who are trial attorneys and in

2145
01:33:35,520 --> 01:33:38,880
Speaker 18: these jobs that are let's say, the most confrontational job

2146
01:33:38,960 --> 01:33:41,439
Speaker 18: you could have, and they still don't want to address

2147
01:33:41,479 --> 01:33:45,759
Speaker 18: conflict at home. And it's because our primary romantic partner

2148
01:33:45,880 --> 01:33:49,439
Speaker 18: in adulthood, that is our closest attachment bond, and exactly

2149
01:33:49,520 --> 01:33:52,599
Speaker 18: what you said, we're reluctant to do anything that could

2150
01:33:52,680 --> 01:33:55,800
Speaker 18: jeopardize that bond. But at the same time we have

2151
01:33:56,040 --> 01:33:58,879
Speaker 18: to deal with those issues because that's where emotional intimacy

2152
01:33:58,960 --> 01:34:02,080
Speaker 18: comes from a deeper connection. Otherwise, you either have a

2153
01:34:02,160 --> 01:34:05,600
Speaker 18: surface marriage and all this quiet quitting where people passively

2154
01:34:05,720 --> 01:34:09,000
Speaker 18: disengage because they don't know each other anymore, or you

2155
01:34:09,160 --> 01:34:11,960
Speaker 18: have this rise of gray divorce now in particular that

2156
01:34:12,080 --> 01:34:15,200
Speaker 18: people are just a strange for years, that there's no

2157
01:34:15,360 --> 01:34:18,360
Speaker 18: connection left anymore. And the reason I wrote the book,

2158
01:34:18,520 --> 01:34:21,599
Speaker 18: is that most people are not fighting and yelling. They're

2159
01:34:21,640 --> 01:34:24,640
Speaker 18: really not Most people are not saying much at all, right,

2160
01:34:24,840 --> 01:34:27,680
Speaker 18: and they're filled with resentment or they're passive aggressive. So

2161
01:34:27,720 --> 01:34:30,479
Speaker 18: I'm really giving an actionable roadmap for how to do

2162
01:34:30,640 --> 01:34:33,160
Speaker 18: it diplomatically and constructively.

2163
01:34:33,240 --> 01:34:35,640
Speaker 3: And would you agree that, Like, I think maybe the

2164
01:34:35,680 --> 01:34:37,840
Speaker 3: other guys can chime in here with their parents and

2165
01:34:37,880 --> 01:34:42,720
Speaker 3: stuff and their own relationships. But it is kind of

2166
01:34:42,760 --> 01:34:46,479
Speaker 3: a it's a unique thing because you don't want to

2167
01:34:46,640 --> 01:34:48,800
Speaker 3: upset that person. But in the same sense, what you're

2168
01:34:48,840 --> 01:34:51,760
Speaker 3: doing is is actually making the issue bigger because you're not.

2169
01:34:52,000 --> 01:34:56,519
Speaker 3: And again it's culturally. I think we've been programmed to think, well,

2170
01:34:56,560 --> 01:34:59,000
Speaker 3: that couple fights all the time, got it, They're they're

2171
01:34:59,000 --> 01:35:01,040
Speaker 3: probably on the verge of de as opposed to seeing

2172
01:35:01,080 --> 01:35:02,880
Speaker 3: a couple go into church every day, blah blah blah.

2173
01:35:03,080 --> 01:35:04,760
Speaker 3: But you watch them at dinner and they don't talk,

2174
01:35:04,880 --> 01:35:05,639
Speaker 3: they don't engage.

2175
01:35:05,720 --> 01:35:06,559
Speaker 16: The dining dead.

2176
01:35:06,760 --> 01:35:09,400
Speaker 4: They look great, the dining dead.

2177
01:35:09,760 --> 01:35:12,559
Speaker 16: That's not my own term, that comes from Eternal Sunshine.

2178
01:35:13,760 --> 01:35:15,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, but you look at them and you go, oh,

2179
01:35:15,760 --> 01:35:16,760
Speaker 4: look at them, They're so cute.

2180
01:35:17,120 --> 01:35:20,519
Speaker 3: But in reality, their relationships and shambles, and the people

2181
01:35:20,520 --> 01:35:23,439
Speaker 3: who are arguing are actually learning more about each other

2182
01:35:23,680 --> 01:35:26,720
Speaker 3: and they're hashing those issues out. Therefore the relationships are

2183
01:35:26,720 --> 01:35:28,599
Speaker 3: actually stronger, even though it doesn't seem that way.

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01:35:28,680 --> 01:35:29,479
Speaker 16: You are spot on.

2185
01:35:29,640 --> 01:35:32,640
Speaker 18: This is so true, and I think we confuse conflict

2186
01:35:32,760 --> 01:35:36,920
Speaker 18: with contentiousness and arguing and yelling and blaming and all

2187
01:35:37,000 --> 01:35:39,000
Speaker 18: this kind of stuff that isn't really great.

2188
01:35:39,160 --> 01:35:40,760
Speaker 5: That just means you're not Italian.

2189
01:35:41,200 --> 01:35:46,200
Speaker 7: Well, so you know, a loud arguing household is I mean,

2190
01:35:46,280 --> 01:35:47,400
Speaker 7: that's a sign of love.

2191
01:35:47,560 --> 01:35:49,400
Speaker 16: Exactly, and the sign that you're engaged.

2192
01:35:49,479 --> 01:35:52,479
Speaker 18: I will say, when people are arguing, it does mean

2193
01:35:52,560 --> 01:35:55,560
Speaker 18: they're invested. But we've got to really come from the

2194
01:35:55,640 --> 01:35:58,800
Speaker 18: place of getting that internal clarity first about what you're

2195
01:35:58,840 --> 01:36:02,439
Speaker 18: actually feeling, why matters, what's bothering you, and then you

2196
01:36:02,520 --> 01:36:06,800
Speaker 18: can come forward when you're emotionally regulated and actually say

2197
01:36:06,920 --> 01:36:09,680
Speaker 18: the truth. This is just about revealing more of your

2198
01:36:09,760 --> 01:36:12,280
Speaker 18: inner world to somebody. It's scary, we're all scared to

2199
01:36:12,320 --> 01:36:16,440
Speaker 18: be vulnerable, but it does. It does sap the relationship

2200
01:36:16,720 --> 01:36:18,760
Speaker 18: of all of its strength if you don't do it,

2201
01:36:18,840 --> 01:36:20,600
Speaker 18: and it's a matter of learning how it really is

2202
01:36:20,600 --> 01:36:21,559
Speaker 18: an emotional muscle.

2203
01:36:22,040 --> 01:36:24,360
Speaker 4: Talking to call it fair. She is a relationship expert

2204
01:36:24,439 --> 01:36:26,160
Speaker 4: here in Central Florida. Deb Yeah, clete.

2205
01:36:26,160 --> 01:36:30,320
Speaker 7: I wanted to ask how much does differing styles of

2206
01:36:30,479 --> 01:36:34,800
Speaker 7: communication way in on helping couples find their way back

2207
01:36:34,840 --> 01:36:38,240
Speaker 7: to each other, because you know, I'm a strong personality,

2208
01:36:38,400 --> 01:36:41,920
Speaker 7: my fiance is not, and it's finding that balance where

2209
01:36:42,000 --> 01:36:45,280
Speaker 7: I'm not that overpowering perfume in the room, you know

2210
01:36:45,280 --> 01:36:48,840
Speaker 7: what I'm saying, and taking all of the all of

2211
01:36:48,920 --> 01:36:51,200
Speaker 7: the air out of the room, you know, from him.

2212
01:36:51,360 --> 01:36:54,200
Speaker 7: So how do you how do you help couples balance

2213
01:36:54,960 --> 01:36:57,840
Speaker 7: just being two different weirdos?

2214
01:36:58,120 --> 01:37:00,840
Speaker 16: And you're right, that should be my tagline.

2215
01:37:01,000 --> 01:37:03,639
Speaker 18: This is where you could be happiest to different weirdos

2216
01:37:03,960 --> 01:37:05,000
Speaker 18: because it's so true.

2217
01:37:05,240 --> 01:37:08,839
Speaker 16: So I'm more like you, which side note is also why.

2218
01:37:08,840 --> 01:37:11,519
Speaker 18: It's so interesting that I was so conflict avoidant in

2219
01:37:11,560 --> 01:37:14,240
Speaker 18: such a people pleaser, like I'll say a lot, I'm Italian,

2220
01:37:14,320 --> 01:37:17,679
Speaker 18: I'm outspoken. It's ironic that my book is called anything

2221
01:37:17,760 --> 01:37:20,439
Speaker 18: with Quiet in it because I'm never quiet. But when

2222
01:37:20,479 --> 01:37:23,280
Speaker 18: I'd get a signal that someone wasn't happy with me,

2223
01:37:23,640 --> 01:37:25,680
Speaker 18: or that it could really take the relationship into a

2224
01:37:25,760 --> 01:37:28,000
Speaker 18: bad place, then all of a sudden, I wanted to

2225
01:37:28,040 --> 01:37:30,800
Speaker 18: play Kate and appease. So I think we can still

2226
01:37:30,920 --> 01:37:35,560
Speaker 18: have that forceful personality but represent both sides. Now, I

2227
01:37:35,640 --> 01:37:38,240
Speaker 18: don't think there's anything wrong with being that way. You're

2228
01:37:38,320 --> 01:37:41,200
Speaker 18: probably with your partner in part, you too, are attracted

2229
01:37:41,240 --> 01:37:44,200
Speaker 18: to one another because of that oppositeness. So I would

2230
01:37:44,240 --> 01:37:47,280
Speaker 18: be more curious, you know, does he feel like you're

2231
01:37:47,360 --> 01:37:50,000
Speaker 18: taking all the oxygen in the room. He might not,

2232
01:37:50,720 --> 01:37:54,280
Speaker 18: you know, he might be perfectly content with that balance

2233
01:37:54,360 --> 01:37:56,439
Speaker 18: and the dynamic. Now if he feels like he can't

2234
01:37:56,479 --> 01:37:59,200
Speaker 18: get a word in edgewise, and that would be really

2235
01:37:59,320 --> 01:38:02,200
Speaker 18: up to him, then that's something we would talk about

2236
01:38:02,360 --> 01:38:04,800
Speaker 18: in therapy to make sure that there's space for both

2237
01:38:04,880 --> 01:38:07,040
Speaker 18: people to be heard. But a lot of times, like

2238
01:38:07,120 --> 01:38:09,639
Speaker 18: my husband doesn't talk and he's perfectly happy that way,

2239
01:38:10,520 --> 01:38:11,000
Speaker 18: I am too.

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01:38:13,000 --> 01:38:15,320
Speaker 6: Collect Do you ever have a couple in therapy and

2241
01:38:16,000 --> 01:38:19,040
Speaker 6: the husband, for you know, just to pick one makes

2242
01:38:19,080 --> 01:38:22,080
Speaker 6: a really good point and you kind of give him

2243
01:38:22,120 --> 01:38:24,080
Speaker 6: credit and you just see it on his face.

2244
01:38:24,160 --> 01:38:26,800
Speaker 4: So that was the first time in its relationship he

2245
01:38:26,880 --> 01:38:28,120
Speaker 4: might have just won an argument.

2246
01:38:28,520 --> 01:38:31,400
Speaker 16: Yes, yes, And you know it's funny.

2247
01:38:31,560 --> 01:38:33,960
Speaker 18: Some people don't like this, but the type of therapy

2248
01:38:34,080 --> 01:38:37,479
Speaker 18: I do, which is called emotionally focused couples therapy, and

2249
01:38:37,600 --> 01:38:40,920
Speaker 18: it is the gold standard and evidence space treatment for couples,

2250
01:38:41,240 --> 01:38:43,479
Speaker 18: so it's got the highest efficacy rates and it's all

2251
01:38:43,560 --> 01:38:47,639
Speaker 18: based on attachment science, meaning that we really do need people,

2252
01:38:47,800 --> 01:38:50,920
Speaker 18: we need relationships to feel safe and secure, and that

2253
01:38:51,080 --> 01:38:53,519
Speaker 18: most of the time, what we're skipping over in conflict

2254
01:38:53,600 --> 01:38:56,840
Speaker 18: and why it goes bad is that we get dysregulated,

2255
01:38:56,960 --> 01:38:59,559
Speaker 18: we get signals of danger and we go into fight

2256
01:38:59,680 --> 01:39:02,120
Speaker 18: or fly and we forget to address the need for

2257
01:39:02,240 --> 01:39:06,160
Speaker 18: reassurance and comfort. Right, most things aren't so much about

2258
01:39:06,160 --> 01:39:08,719
Speaker 18: the issues as that, and in this type of therapy,

2259
01:39:08,840 --> 01:39:10,040
Speaker 18: we do not take side.

2260
01:39:10,160 --> 01:39:17,000
Speaker 16: So I really validate peop. That was a long way

2261
01:39:17,080 --> 01:39:18,519
Speaker 16: to answer, I don't take that.

2262
01:39:18,840 --> 01:39:21,639
Speaker 18: But it's more like I'm putting myself in your shoes

2263
01:39:21,800 --> 01:39:25,240
Speaker 18: and helping to get at what's important about what you're

2264
01:39:25,280 --> 01:39:27,080
Speaker 18: trying to say and that it doesn't come out in

2265
01:39:27,160 --> 01:39:31,840
Speaker 18: a way that's destructive, because if you're blaming or criticizing,

2266
01:39:32,080 --> 01:39:34,240
Speaker 18: or what most people do is they'll say, well, I

2267
01:39:34,520 --> 01:39:37,880
Speaker 18: feel like you don't care, I feel like you don't

2268
01:39:37,920 --> 01:39:40,000
Speaker 18: listen to me, I feel like you don't do anything

2269
01:39:40,320 --> 01:39:43,840
Speaker 18: that's really your interpretation, those are not your feelings. If

2270
01:39:43,880 --> 01:39:47,720
Speaker 18: you say I'm hurt, and the story I tell myself

2271
01:39:48,280 --> 01:39:51,360
Speaker 18: is that you don't care, right, and then there you

2272
01:39:51,560 --> 01:39:54,400
Speaker 18: leave room for that other person to hear you more

2273
01:39:54,479 --> 01:39:56,120
Speaker 18: easily and then to say, you know what, I really

2274
01:39:56,240 --> 01:39:56,760
Speaker 18: do care.

2275
01:39:56,960 --> 01:39:59,160
Speaker 16: I can see why you thought that, but that's not true.

2276
01:39:59,240 --> 01:40:00,479
Speaker 16: And now we've got to discussion.

2277
01:40:00,800 --> 01:40:02,360
Speaker 3: And I think that's super important because a lot of

2278
01:40:02,400 --> 01:40:05,000
Speaker 3: time it is just a perception. And you know, deb

2279
01:40:05,160 --> 01:40:06,920
Speaker 3: made a very good point, like if you have somebody

2280
01:40:06,960 --> 01:40:08,840
Speaker 3: and they're very quiet, they don't really share a lot.

2281
01:40:09,200 --> 01:40:11,559
Speaker 3: You know, you can perceive what you think they're thinking

2282
01:40:11,680 --> 01:40:13,760
Speaker 3: because they're not really sharing that with you, and then

2283
01:40:13,760 --> 01:40:16,160
Speaker 3: you build a perception of that of him being upset

2284
01:40:16,280 --> 01:40:18,479
Speaker 3: or being in you know, you're constantly hey, are you okay?

2285
01:40:18,520 --> 01:40:18,600
Speaker 9: Oh?

2286
01:40:18,640 --> 01:40:20,880
Speaker 4: You are okay? And that drives people crazy. I've been there.

2287
01:40:21,240 --> 01:40:21,639
Speaker 4: It's good.

2288
01:40:21,720 --> 01:40:23,760
Speaker 16: Like nine percent of what goes wrong. I call it

2289
01:40:23,880 --> 01:40:25,479
Speaker 16: the negative partner story.

2290
01:40:26,040 --> 01:40:28,640
Speaker 18: You will the brain's and meaning making machines, so you

2291
01:40:28,800 --> 01:40:31,599
Speaker 18: will interpret and the brain runs negative, right, yea, yeah,

2292
01:40:31,640 --> 01:40:33,040
Speaker 18: so you're exactly right, and.

2293
01:40:33,080 --> 01:40:34,599
Speaker 4: You never go to the best case scenario.

2294
01:40:34,760 --> 01:40:34,920
Speaker 11: Never.

2295
01:40:35,080 --> 01:40:37,120
Speaker 3: For the record, you will never, ever, ever go you

2296
01:40:37,160 --> 01:40:38,840
Speaker 3: know what, I bet, I bet she just loves me

2297
01:40:38,960 --> 01:40:40,360
Speaker 3: so much. She just caught up in it and it's

2298
01:40:40,360 --> 01:40:42,240
Speaker 3: got her tongue tied. You can't tell me at all

2299
01:40:42,320 --> 01:40:44,000
Speaker 3: how she loves me. That's got to be it one

2300
01:40:44,080 --> 01:40:46,680
Speaker 3: of the four agreements. Don't assume yeah, yeah, yeah, you

2301
01:40:46,760 --> 01:40:47,599
Speaker 3: always go negative.

2302
01:40:47,680 --> 01:40:47,840
Speaker 4: Yeah.

2303
01:40:48,560 --> 01:40:51,960
Speaker 18: It's so true, and it applies to all things in life, right,

2304
01:40:52,000 --> 01:40:53,840
Speaker 18: which is why it's one of the four agreements, which

2305
01:40:53,880 --> 01:40:56,519
Speaker 18: I love, by the way, But it really comes up

2306
01:40:56,600 --> 01:41:00,680
Speaker 18: in our romantic relationships a lot, because there's so much

2307
01:41:00,720 --> 01:41:02,600
Speaker 18: at stake, they're so important to us.

2308
01:41:02,760 --> 01:41:05,479
Speaker 16: We get a signal of danger so easily. All it

2309
01:41:05,560 --> 01:41:07,080
Speaker 16: takes is a ton of voice.

2310
01:41:06,880 --> 01:41:10,360
Speaker 18: To change an expression to harden right, and all of

2311
01:41:10,439 --> 01:41:11,599
Speaker 18: a sudden, you're off to the races.

2312
01:41:11,680 --> 01:41:14,320
Speaker 3: And especially if you need the if you have the need,

2313
01:41:14,680 --> 01:41:17,000
Speaker 3: like you know, to be loved and liked, like you know,

2314
01:41:17,080 --> 01:41:19,200
Speaker 3: my need for my wife is like you.

2315
01:41:19,360 --> 01:41:20,479
Speaker 4: I need you to desire me.

2316
01:41:20,600 --> 01:41:22,160
Speaker 3: I need you to look at me like you know,

2317
01:41:22,280 --> 01:41:24,439
Speaker 3: like I'm the only dude out there. And I don't

2318
01:41:24,439 --> 01:41:25,480
Speaker 3: mean that superficially.

2319
01:41:25,760 --> 01:41:27,120
Speaker 4: I need to feel it. I don't need you to

2320
01:41:27,200 --> 01:41:29,120
Speaker 4: pawn all over me and everything like I just need.

2321
01:41:29,160 --> 01:41:31,400
Speaker 3: To feel in the house that you know, true, that

2322
01:41:31,479 --> 01:41:33,200
Speaker 3: I that you know, I got you, you know, and

2323
01:41:33,600 --> 01:41:36,880
Speaker 3: sometimes we you know, we've lost a couple of times

2324
01:41:36,920 --> 01:41:39,559
Speaker 3: around relationship, We've lost that vision and had to kind

2325
01:41:39,600 --> 01:41:41,599
Speaker 3: of readjust to get back in there. The one thing

2326
01:41:41,600 --> 01:41:43,400
Speaker 3: I answer I wanted to ask you is this, when

2327
01:41:43,439 --> 01:41:45,719
Speaker 3: you go into relationship issues, how.

2328
01:41:45,680 --> 01:41:46,320
Speaker 4: Deep do you go?

2329
01:41:46,680 --> 01:41:48,879
Speaker 3: Because I kind of believe that one of the reasons

2330
01:41:49,040 --> 01:41:51,200
Speaker 3: I'm the way I am is because how my dad was.

2331
01:41:51,320 --> 01:41:55,360
Speaker 3: My dad was an incredibly overbearing, borderline kind of abusive

2332
01:41:55,400 --> 01:42:00,280
Speaker 3: personality where he was just so dominant in there no

2333
01:42:00,320 --> 01:42:02,560
Speaker 3: ever the way to say it without getting real deep overbearing,

2334
01:42:03,040 --> 01:42:06,000
Speaker 3: and it was constant contact or conflict in our house.

2335
01:42:06,280 --> 01:42:08,560
Speaker 3: There was never a good moment. There was never like

2336
01:42:08,720 --> 01:42:11,080
Speaker 3: every time he walked through the door, it was immediate

2337
01:42:11,200 --> 01:42:13,880
Speaker 3: tension and anxiety because he was never in a good mood,

2338
01:42:14,160 --> 01:42:17,519
Speaker 3: never had anything good to say, never was positive about anything.

2339
01:42:17,680 --> 01:42:20,160
Speaker 3: It was perpetually negative. And then he was like that

2340
01:42:20,200 --> 01:42:22,960
Speaker 3: toward my mother as well. So I think maybe my

2341
01:42:23,080 --> 01:42:25,519
Speaker 3: defense mechanism is I don't want to be that way.

2342
01:42:25,600 --> 01:42:27,479
Speaker 3: I don't want to ever be perceived that way that

2343
01:42:28,439 --> 01:42:31,400
Speaker 3: I'm that that person and I think that drove some

2344
01:42:31,479 --> 01:42:33,920
Speaker 3: of the issues I had in my former relationship and

2345
01:42:34,080 --> 01:42:36,200
Speaker 3: some of the ones that we would have sprinkled into

2346
01:42:36,200 --> 01:42:36,920
Speaker 3: the one I am in now.

2347
01:42:37,400 --> 01:42:41,880
Speaker 18: Absolutely, I relate to that so much because these childhood

2348
01:42:41,960 --> 01:42:45,920
Speaker 18: patterns are so formative. You know, my parents are wonderful people,

2349
01:42:46,000 --> 01:42:48,760
Speaker 18: but they fought a lot before they got divorced. And

2350
01:42:48,960 --> 01:42:52,040
Speaker 18: I remember lying there listening to them argue and thinking,

2351
01:42:52,160 --> 01:42:53,919
Speaker 18: I am going to grow up and have the happiest

2352
01:42:53,960 --> 01:42:55,880
Speaker 18: marriage and we're never gonna ark right, right, right.

2353
01:42:56,040 --> 01:42:58,400
Speaker 16: And my first marriage was like that. I mean, I

2354
01:42:58,880 --> 01:43:02,160
Speaker 16: it does condition to say, uh oh, people are getting upset.

2355
01:43:02,240 --> 01:43:03,000
Speaker 16: What can I do?

2356
01:43:03,240 --> 01:43:05,639
Speaker 18: I was that played that role in the family, which

2357
01:43:05,720 --> 01:43:08,799
Speaker 18: no surprise, I'm a therapist of trying to okay mom's upset,

2358
01:43:09,200 --> 01:43:11,519
Speaker 18: Let me make her feel better, let me help dad

2359
01:43:11,640 --> 01:43:14,000
Speaker 18: understand what mom really meant. You know, I was doing

2360
01:43:14,080 --> 01:43:16,640
Speaker 18: that as a child, right right. And I was a

2361
01:43:16,720 --> 01:43:18,919
Speaker 18: child in some cases, I was nine years.

2362
01:43:18,720 --> 01:43:23,560
Speaker 16: Old doing this. So you know, it's not ideas I

2363
01:43:23,720 --> 01:43:25,840
Speaker 16: was born for this or I was made into it.

2364
01:43:26,400 --> 01:43:29,200
Speaker 18: But in my first marriage I picked somebody who really

2365
01:43:29,600 --> 01:43:32,360
Speaker 18: we never argued, I mean we never Everybody thought we

2366
01:43:32,439 --> 01:43:34,920
Speaker 18: were the perfect couple. We had a great what I

2367
01:43:35,040 --> 01:43:38,519
Speaker 18: call surface marriage. It's wonderful from the outside. We had

2368
01:43:38,520 --> 01:43:42,479
Speaker 18: a nice life, lifestyle, friends, the kiss, the whole thing,

2369
01:43:42,520 --> 01:43:44,280
Speaker 18: but there was no connection.

2370
01:43:44,240 --> 01:43:44,880
Speaker 4: None I felt.

2371
01:43:44,920 --> 01:43:49,680
Speaker 3: That is exactly when we told her mom that we

2372
01:43:49,800 --> 01:43:52,439
Speaker 3: were getting divorced, she did not believe us. She thought

2373
01:43:52,439 --> 01:43:54,519
Speaker 3: it was a joke because we had never showed a

2374
01:43:54,600 --> 01:43:56,760
Speaker 3: fisher in a relationship at all.

2375
01:43:56,880 --> 01:43:58,559
Speaker 4: No one saw us get at each other. All they

2376
01:43:58,640 --> 01:44:00,760
Speaker 4: saw was the good stuff. We never argued. There was

2377
01:44:00,840 --> 01:44:03,200
Speaker 4: never any strife, none of that. It was completely fake.

2378
01:44:03,200 --> 01:44:04,480
Speaker 4: The entire thing was completely.

2379
01:44:04,240 --> 01:44:05,799
Speaker 16: Fake, exactly exactly.

2380
01:44:06,000 --> 01:44:09,040
Speaker 18: And you know, now I don't have a flawless relationship,

2381
01:44:09,120 --> 01:44:10,680
Speaker 18: but I have a real relationship.

2382
01:44:10,800 --> 01:44:11,240
Speaker 4: I'm in it.

2383
01:44:11,760 --> 01:44:14,439
Speaker 16: I say how I feel. My husband has come a

2384
01:44:14,520 --> 01:44:14,960
Speaker 16: long way.

2385
01:44:15,040 --> 01:44:18,479
Speaker 18: I mean, he's an accountant, CPA, he works as a CFO, so.

2386
01:44:18,560 --> 01:44:20,840
Speaker 16: This is like way out of his comfort zone.

2387
01:44:20,880 --> 01:44:24,000
Speaker 18: But he's done so much work to learn to communicate

2388
01:44:24,200 --> 01:44:27,200
Speaker 18: and share more about what he feels, be more vulnerable.

2389
01:44:27,240 --> 01:44:28,120
Speaker 16: It's really hard for.

2390
01:44:28,280 --> 01:44:31,320
Speaker 18: Men too, because society has not done men any favor,

2391
01:44:32,120 --> 01:44:35,240
Speaker 18: and how we've conditioned men to be strong and silent.

2392
01:44:35,360 --> 01:44:37,960
Speaker 16: We have to change that. Men feel just as much

2393
01:44:38,000 --> 01:44:38,439
Speaker 16: as women.

2394
01:44:38,560 --> 01:44:39,240
Speaker 9: And what you.

2395
01:44:39,360 --> 01:44:42,640
Speaker 18: Described about being desired and knowing your wife loves you,

2396
01:44:42,760 --> 01:44:43,759
Speaker 18: that felt sense.

2397
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Speaker 16: That's an attachment need. We do need to feel that.

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01:44:47,200 --> 01:44:51,840
Speaker 16: We need to feel safe. We need to feel secure, loved, valued, accepted, desired.

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Speaker 18: When those things are good, the little arguments, the little stuff,

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01:44:57,000 --> 01:44:59,519
Speaker 18: it gets figured out. Sixty nine percent of a couple's

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01:44:59,560 --> 01:45:02,400
Speaker 18: problems are not even solvable, meaning you'll argue about the

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01:45:02,520 --> 01:45:02,920
Speaker 18: same for.

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Speaker 4: The remainder of your life.

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01:45:04,000 --> 01:45:04,880
Speaker 16: Yes, and that's.

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01:45:04,960 --> 01:45:08,400
Speaker 18: Research based, longitudinal research from the Gotmans, who are at

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01:45:08,400 --> 01:45:11,200
Speaker 18: the top of the food chain in couples therapy. So

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01:45:11,439 --> 01:45:15,480
Speaker 18: it's really more about having a conversation about your feelings,

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01:45:15,840 --> 01:45:19,280
Speaker 18: feeling heard, feeling accepted and understood, and then the solvable

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01:45:19,360 --> 01:45:21,519
Speaker 18: problems will get addressed and they'll get worked out.

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01:45:21,600 --> 01:45:23,280
Speaker 3: Col A Fair here with us. We'll tell you more

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01:45:23,280 --> 01:45:25,040
Speaker 3: about her book in a second, so stay tuned. We'll

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01:45:25,040 --> 01:45:26,840
Speaker 3: tell you where you can get it. It actually hasn't

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01:45:26,840 --> 01:45:28,840
Speaker 3: even dropped yet, so people are asking about the book.

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01:45:29,160 --> 01:45:31,360
Speaker 4: Uh, you can pre order. Yeah, the release is coming

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01:45:31,439 --> 01:45:32,960
Speaker 4: up soon and you can pre order real quick.

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01:45:33,040 --> 01:45:33,200
Speaker 8: Jack.

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01:45:33,360 --> 01:45:35,640
Speaker 3: People in the Texan service are asking you, know you

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01:45:35,840 --> 01:45:38,680
Speaker 3: being in a relationship as a therapist is that a

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01:45:38,840 --> 01:45:41,720
Speaker 3: unique thing. You've already mentioned your husband, you know, not

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01:45:41,840 --> 01:45:44,320
Speaker 3: being such a you know, not chiming in a whole bunch.

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01:45:44,720 --> 01:45:47,479
Speaker 3: Do you do you find that you analyze your own

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01:45:47,600 --> 01:45:50,600
Speaker 3: relationship too much to be in your own relationship.

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01:45:51,120 --> 01:45:52,360
Speaker 16: I would not say too much.

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01:45:52,479 --> 01:45:53,559
Speaker 4: I think it's just right.

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01:45:54,080 --> 01:45:56,240
Speaker 18: But I mean this is like I live and breathe

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01:45:56,320 --> 01:45:59,519
Speaker 18: this stuff, so I am definitely always thinking about it.

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01:45:59,640 --> 01:46:02,760
Speaker 18: But I also own my own stuff, and I try

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01:46:02,800 --> 01:46:05,040
Speaker 18: to be really real about the fact that I also

2429
01:46:05,200 --> 01:46:07,479
Speaker 18: can be reactive or say the wrong thing, and this

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01:46:07,600 --> 01:46:08,519
Speaker 18: is why we have repair.

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01:46:08,720 --> 01:46:10,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's beyond your education, right, that's who you are

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01:46:10,920 --> 01:46:12,479
Speaker 3: as a person. That's beyond your education, and.

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01:46:12,520 --> 01:46:13,160
Speaker 16: It's being human.

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01:46:13,360 --> 01:46:17,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, that was my question. Oh are you serious?

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01:46:18,400 --> 01:46:22,320
Speaker 6: I was like in conversation with your husband there you

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01:46:22,400 --> 01:46:24,600
Speaker 6: get to a point where it's like, that's what the

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01:46:24,680 --> 01:46:25,679
Speaker 6: therapists would say.

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01:46:26,000 --> 01:46:27,920
Speaker 4: I have to not do that.

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01:46:28,160 --> 01:46:30,560
Speaker 16: I don't do that. I really try not to do that.

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01:46:30,640 --> 01:46:32,040
Speaker 4: Well, does your husband say that to you?

2441
01:46:32,160 --> 01:46:33,920
Speaker 3: That's the thing, like you saying to yourself is one thing,

2442
01:46:33,960 --> 01:46:36,640
Speaker 3: but your husband going, hey, you're getting all therapy on me.

2443
01:46:37,040 --> 01:46:40,160
Speaker 18: I don't think so, it's interesting he's listening, right, now

2444
01:46:40,280 --> 01:46:42,640
Speaker 18: I think from work, so I wonder what.

2445
01:46:42,840 --> 01:46:43,479
Speaker 16: He would say.

2446
01:46:43,600 --> 01:46:46,919
Speaker 18: But I think for the most part, maybe at the beginning,

2447
01:46:47,000 --> 01:46:49,800
Speaker 18: when I first became a therapist, I was really into

2448
01:46:49,880 --> 01:46:51,800
Speaker 18: always trotting out everything I learned.

2449
01:46:52,280 --> 01:46:55,840
Speaker 16: But I think now I'm sure it permeates because it is.

2450
01:46:55,920 --> 01:46:56,320
Speaker 9: What I do.

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01:46:56,600 --> 01:46:59,560
Speaker 18: But for the most part, I'm bringing my own vulnerability.

2452
01:46:59,560 --> 01:47:02,200
Speaker 18: I have my own in securities, my own fears, my

2453
01:47:02,320 --> 01:47:03,000
Speaker 18: own doubts.

2454
01:47:03,040 --> 01:47:05,160
Speaker 16: So I'm just reacting like a human being.

2455
01:47:05,720 --> 01:47:07,800
Speaker 18: And this is where and why I wrote the book

2456
01:47:07,880 --> 01:47:09,880
Speaker 18: to give you a process because it's not.

2457
01:47:10,720 --> 01:47:13,120
Speaker 16: But this is not fixed how you communicate.

2458
01:47:13,200 --> 01:47:16,200
Speaker 18: You have your personality and you'll have your instinctive reaction

2459
01:47:16,439 --> 01:47:20,679
Speaker 18: based on your personality. But then overriding that and being

2460
01:47:20,800 --> 01:47:23,920
Speaker 18: more evolved and being more emotionally mature, everyone can do.

2461
01:47:24,040 --> 01:47:25,840
Speaker 16: I mean, I am a New York Italian. I used

2462
01:47:25,840 --> 01:47:27,320
Speaker 16: to throw things and scream.

2463
01:47:27,520 --> 01:47:28,040
Speaker 1: I don't do that.

2464
01:47:29,000 --> 01:47:32,000
Speaker 4: I should start it again. That's a different angle for therapy.

2465
01:47:32,120 --> 01:47:34,759
Speaker 5: I got the next book that's screen therapy.

2466
01:47:35,800 --> 01:47:38,080
Speaker 3: Have you ever had a couple in and while the

2467
01:47:38,160 --> 01:47:40,200
Speaker 3: session is going on, you know for a fact it's

2468
01:47:40,240 --> 01:47:41,639
Speaker 3: not going to work, Like you know for a fact

2469
01:47:41,680 --> 01:47:44,880
Speaker 3: that there's so far apart that just the ideology that

2470
01:47:44,960 --> 01:47:48,400
Speaker 3: they have as people is so far apart. There's really

2471
01:47:48,560 --> 01:47:51,960
Speaker 3: no shared space where they can have enough room in

2472
01:47:52,000 --> 01:47:52,960
Speaker 3: there for a relationship.

2473
01:47:53,080 --> 01:47:54,200
Speaker 4: And if so, what do you do?

2474
01:47:55,280 --> 01:47:56,559
Speaker 16: Oh, it's such a good question.

2475
01:47:56,800 --> 01:47:59,280
Speaker 18: So the way I really approach it, and I think

2476
01:47:59,360 --> 01:48:02,360
Speaker 18: most good therapists approach it, is I will definitely have

2477
01:48:02,520 --> 01:48:05,360
Speaker 18: my own kind of instinctive opinion about, well, maybe this

2478
01:48:05,479 --> 01:48:07,320
Speaker 18: one's not going to work, or this is tough, or.

2479
01:48:07,320 --> 01:48:10,280
Speaker 16: There's so many issues. But if a couple, if both.

2480
01:48:10,160 --> 01:48:13,320
Speaker 18: Parties want it and they're willing to work at it,

2481
01:48:13,720 --> 01:48:16,080
Speaker 18: to me, that's where the hope lies. I have seen

2482
01:48:16,160 --> 01:48:19,160
Speaker 18: situations where there's so much damage, there's been so many

2483
01:48:19,240 --> 01:48:22,719
Speaker 18: betrayals and injuries, but both people want it. In fact,

2484
01:48:22,760 --> 01:48:25,799
Speaker 18: I got a text message last night from a former

2485
01:48:25,920 --> 01:48:29,280
Speaker 18: client saying, it's our ten year anniversary. They've moved out

2486
01:48:29,280 --> 01:48:32,840
Speaker 18: of state. We're renewing our vals. Thank you so much

2487
01:48:32,920 --> 01:48:35,200
Speaker 18: for what you did. You saved our marriage. We were

2488
01:48:35,280 --> 01:48:37,120
Speaker 18: on the brink of divorce, and of course I didn't

2489
01:48:37,160 --> 01:48:39,840
Speaker 18: do it. They did the work I facilitated. But there

2490
01:48:39,920 --> 01:48:42,240
Speaker 18: are times when I think this is a hot mess,

2491
01:48:42,400 --> 01:48:45,559
Speaker 18: and then it comes back what I cannot do anything

2492
01:48:45,680 --> 01:48:49,040
Speaker 18: with is when one person is really really checked out

2493
01:48:49,640 --> 01:48:52,040
Speaker 18: and they're kind of dragged to therapy because they think

2494
01:48:52,080 --> 01:48:54,720
Speaker 18: they should or their partners made them come and this.

2495
01:48:54,840 --> 01:48:57,400
Speaker 4: Happened, or they just want to be able to say

2496
01:48:57,439 --> 01:48:58,439
Speaker 4: they did it yes.

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01:48:58,800 --> 01:49:02,240
Speaker 7: Or even worse, they're just going because they're waiting for

2498
01:49:02,400 --> 01:49:04,800
Speaker 7: you to get fixed because it's not me.

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01:49:05,040 --> 01:49:07,120
Speaker 5: I'm not the problem, right, And that doesn't work.

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01:49:07,280 --> 01:49:07,960
Speaker 16: That doesn't work.

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01:49:08,040 --> 01:49:10,599
Speaker 18: Both people have to really say, Okay, I think you're

2502
01:49:10,680 --> 01:49:12,439
Speaker 18: the problem, but okay, I'm willing to look at me,

2503
01:49:12,560 --> 01:49:14,439
Speaker 18: but no, you're the Probably it's a messy process, but

2504
01:49:14,840 --> 01:49:17,479
Speaker 18: if you're not really wanting the really you don't have

2505
01:49:17,600 --> 01:49:18,840
Speaker 18: to be sure it will work.

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01:49:18,880 --> 01:49:21,320
Speaker 16: I think most people feel some ambivalence, but you have

2507
01:49:21,400 --> 01:49:23,320
Speaker 16: to be willing to really try. And I think you

2508
01:49:23,439 --> 01:49:25,479
Speaker 16: still have to love your spouse.

2509
01:49:25,560 --> 01:49:28,439
Speaker 18: This is why emotional connection and why I'm saying lean

2510
01:49:28,520 --> 01:49:31,959
Speaker 18: into conflict, but do it well, because that's what creates

2511
01:49:32,120 --> 01:49:36,000
Speaker 18: the emotional connection. When the connection's gone, it's very hard

2512
01:49:36,040 --> 01:49:36,720
Speaker 18: to resuscitate.

2513
01:49:37,160 --> 01:49:40,400
Speaker 4: What's your schedule like today? My schedule yea, yea yeah.

2514
01:49:40,240 --> 01:49:42,519
Speaker 16: Oh I only saw one client today.

2515
01:49:42,640 --> 01:49:44,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, are you open for a little bit I mean,

2516
01:49:44,720 --> 01:49:46,240
Speaker 3: what I'm saying is we have trivia, but I would

2517
01:49:46,240 --> 01:49:47,760
Speaker 3: love to keep you around for another segment because we're

2518
01:49:48,040 --> 01:49:49,479
Speaker 3: we're out of the time that we have allotted for you.

2519
01:49:49,640 --> 01:49:49,800
Speaker 9: Yeah.

2520
01:49:49,840 --> 01:49:51,599
Speaker 16: Yeah, I thought you meant am I going back to therapy?

2521
01:49:52,160 --> 01:49:52,320
Speaker 2: Yeah?

2522
01:49:52,360 --> 01:49:54,960
Speaker 3: No, if you can you stick around little bit totally okay,

2523
01:49:54,960 --> 01:49:56,200
Speaker 3: So we do trivia and then we come back at

2524
01:49:56,200 --> 01:49:57,559
Speaker 3: the top of the hourard six o'clock and we can

2525
01:49:57,600 --> 01:49:58,160
Speaker 3: do a little bit more.

2526
01:49:58,360 --> 01:50:00,000
Speaker 4: Are you okay with that? Thanks for hanging out.

2527
01:50:00,000 --> 01:50:01,760
Speaker 3: I appreciate that. Call up fair here with us. She's

2528
01:50:01,800 --> 01:50:03,200
Speaker 3: gonna do another segment at the top of the hour.

2529
01:50:03,240 --> 01:50:05,240
Speaker 3: If you have a question, man, shoot it over seven

2530
01:50:05,400 --> 01:50:07,840
Speaker 3: seven zero three one. That's our texting service. We're getting

2531
01:50:07,880 --> 01:50:09,880
Speaker 3: tons of them, so I'm gonna review these during the

2532
01:50:09,920 --> 01:50:11,559
Speaker 3: break and then we'll ask call it some questions. Because

2533
01:50:11,560 --> 01:50:13,880
Speaker 3: I want to get into sex, okay, all right, And

2534
01:50:14,000 --> 01:50:15,680
Speaker 3: I mean, you know, not with anybody in the room,

2535
01:50:16,640 --> 01:50:19,840
Speaker 3: but I want to get into the physical nature relationships

2536
01:50:19,960 --> 01:50:22,479
Speaker 3: and the impact of that when it's there too much

2537
01:50:22,600 --> 01:50:24,920
Speaker 3: and they're not enough. And if you, as a therapist,

2538
01:50:25,000 --> 01:50:28,000
Speaker 3: can tell if somebody still has a physical relationship, if

2539
01:50:28,040 --> 01:50:30,840
Speaker 3: their emotional relationship, can make it through and vice versa.

2540
01:50:31,120 --> 01:50:32,240
Speaker 4: I love it all right, we'll do that in just

2541
01:50:32,240 --> 01:50:33,200
Speaker 4: twenty minutes. Load them up.

2542
01:50:33,200 --> 01:50:42,599
Speaker 3: Thugh Trivia's next. All right, welcome back to the Jim

2543
01:50:42,680 --> 01:50:45,120
Speaker 3: Culper Show. We're all Radio one four point one. Your

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Speaker 3: five o'clock keyword is pay. That's pay. Go to real

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Speaker 3: Radio dot FM and send that away for your chance

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Speaker 3: at one thousand dollars.

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Speaker 9: Pay.

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Speaker 4: Guys, that is your five o'clock keyword. Good luck.

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Speaker 3: We hope you win. Faux show, Welcome back. I'm Jim,

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Speaker 3: there's deb Hello, Jack is here as well. Yep has

2551
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Speaker 3: the Jackie Sack. My man, what's in it all?

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Speaker 4: Aboard? Chuck a chugu, look at a gleck, We at

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Speaker 4: a glack A couple of.

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna be there for a good part of the day,

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Speaker 6: are you really?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: gonna be a Zach Brown cover band, yep. A Red

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Speaker 3: Hot Chili's cover band, yep, a Queen cover band, a

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Speaker 3: Santana cover band. Yeah, and I think some Taylor Swifton

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Speaker 3: personator as well.

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2576
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Speaker 6: now for JCS trivia and.

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Speaker 5: That's what's in the Jackie sacks. So back to you,

2578
01:52:17,320 --> 01:52:19,040
Speaker 5: clickity claim one, two, three or five.

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Speaker 4: Let's go. One One is Harold, Harold. How you doing hey?

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Speaker 4: Pretty good?

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01:52:25,120 --> 01:52:26,280
Speaker 9: How you guys doing doing good?

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01:52:26,320 --> 01:52:29,760
Speaker 4: Boss? Want to play a little game with us? Let's

2583
01:52:29,800 --> 01:52:34,960
Speaker 4: do it a game, all right, Harold? This is a

2584
01:52:35,000 --> 01:52:35,680
Speaker 4: real easy game.

2585
01:52:35,680 --> 01:52:37,760
Speaker 3: Boss got a question here for you. Four answers. One

2586
01:52:37,800 --> 01:52:41,280
Speaker 3: of these answers is not true. What trying to fool you, buddy?

2587
01:52:41,280 --> 01:52:42,680
Speaker 3: But if you can find it, I will send you

2588
01:52:42,720 --> 01:52:44,600
Speaker 3: over to see Jack and he's got something nice. You

2589
01:52:44,640 --> 01:52:45,920
Speaker 3: can pick something out for yourself.

2590
01:52:45,960 --> 01:52:48,800
Speaker 4: Are you ready? Here we go, buddy.

2591
01:52:48,840 --> 01:52:53,519
Speaker 3: On this day in nineteen sixty eight, celebrity chef, author,

2592
01:52:54,360 --> 01:52:55,880
Speaker 3: television personality and.

2593
01:52:56,040 --> 01:52:58,639
Speaker 5: Host Guy Fieria has his own.

2594
01:52:58,479 --> 01:53:00,479
Speaker 4: Distinct look and he's the mayor of Flavor Town. Guy

2595
01:53:00,560 --> 01:53:03,960
Speaker 4: Fieri was born on this day. Here are three fun

2596
01:53:04,040 --> 01:53:07,680
Speaker 4: facts about Guy and one triple fried lie. All right,

2597
01:53:07,800 --> 01:53:09,960
Speaker 4: so we're talking about Guy Fieri. Which one of these

2598
01:53:10,160 --> 01:53:10,760
Speaker 4: is not true?

2599
01:53:10,840 --> 01:53:13,960
Speaker 3: Number one, he used to raise peacocks on his California

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01:53:14,040 --> 01:53:18,040
Speaker 3: ranch to handle the rattlesnak population. Number two, guy Fieri

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01:53:18,200 --> 01:53:20,680
Speaker 3: used to compete in the rodeo. He actually broke his

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01:53:20,920 --> 01:53:23,639
Speaker 3: arm after being thrown off of a bowl. Number three,

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01:53:24,120 --> 01:53:26,479
Speaker 3: his first shot at the food business was a pretzel cart.

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01:53:26,520 --> 01:53:30,439
Speaker 3: He started at just ten years old. Or lastly, he

2605
01:53:30,600 --> 01:53:33,640
Speaker 3: does not eat eggs or sushie, which of those is

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01:53:33,680 --> 01:53:39,720
Speaker 3: a lie? Number three, No, that's absolutely true. He did

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01:53:39,840 --> 01:53:41,599
Speaker 3: take the first shot of his food business. At ten

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01:53:41,720 --> 01:53:45,320
Speaker 3: years old, he had his very own pretzel cart, smart

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01:53:45,640 --> 01:53:46,040
Speaker 3: and did.

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Speaker 4: Quite well with it. I'll tell you more about that

2611
01:53:47,439 --> 01:53:49,720
Speaker 4: a little bit later. All right, One or excuse me, two?

2612
01:53:49,880 --> 01:53:54,280
Speaker 4: Three or five? Let's go to two. Is John John

2613
01:53:54,320 --> 01:53:57,599
Speaker 4: How you doing, Buddy good? Jim good, buddy.

2614
01:53:57,640 --> 01:53:59,519
Speaker 3: We're talking about Guy Fieri here. Which one of these

2615
01:53:59,600 --> 01:54:00,640
Speaker 3: is not true? Route number one?

2616
01:54:00,680 --> 01:54:02,840
Speaker 4: He used to raise peacocks on his California ranch to

2617
01:54:02,880 --> 01:54:04,200
Speaker 4: handle the rattlestink population.

2618
01:54:04,320 --> 01:54:06,800
Speaker 3: Number two, Guy Faery used to compete in rodeos. He

2619
01:54:06,840 --> 01:54:09,080
Speaker 3: actually broke his arm after being thrown off a bull.

2620
01:54:09,200 --> 01:54:11,920
Speaker 3: Or lastly, he does not eat eggs or sushi.

2621
01:54:13,680 --> 01:54:14,519
Speaker 20: Let's go number two.

2622
01:54:15,160 --> 01:54:18,120
Speaker 3: No, that's absolutely true. As a kid, he rode in

2623
01:54:18,200 --> 01:54:20,760
Speaker 3: the rodeo and actually defied his parents to do it

2624
01:54:20,800 --> 01:54:22,360
Speaker 3: because he wanted to do it. And when he went

2625
01:54:22,439 --> 01:54:24,200
Speaker 3: to the rodeo, he wrote a bull, the bull throw

2626
01:54:24,320 --> 01:54:26,040
Speaker 3: him off, and it broke his arm. And then he

2627
01:54:26,160 --> 01:54:27,920
Speaker 3: hid the broken arm from his parents for as long

2628
01:54:27,920 --> 01:54:28,360
Speaker 3: as he could.

2629
01:54:28,400 --> 01:54:30,120
Speaker 5: He gonna say, don't want to tell mom and dad

2630
01:54:30,120 --> 01:54:30,439
Speaker 5: about that.

2631
01:54:30,680 --> 01:54:34,200
Speaker 4: He showed them. Yeah, all right, deb three or five?

2632
01:54:34,800 --> 01:54:35,560
Speaker 5: Let's go three.

2633
01:54:35,720 --> 01:54:37,640
Speaker 4: Three is Chris Chris how you doing.

2634
01:54:38,880 --> 01:54:41,280
Speaker 3: Man, good, buddy, you got a fifty to fifty shot

2635
01:54:41,360 --> 01:54:42,600
Speaker 3: here going to the Jackie Sack.

2636
01:54:42,640 --> 01:54:45,360
Speaker 4: We're talking about Guy Fieri. Which one of these isn't true?

2637
01:54:46,080 --> 01:54:49,000
Speaker 3: Number one he used to raise peacocks on his California

2638
01:54:49,120 --> 01:54:50,879
Speaker 3: ranch to handle the rattlestink population.

2639
01:54:51,040 --> 01:54:53,720
Speaker 4: Or lastly, he doesn't eat eggs or sushi.

2640
01:54:56,080 --> 01:54:56,680
Speaker 8: Was first one.

2641
01:54:57,000 --> 01:55:02,120
Speaker 3: No, that's absolutely true. Yeah, yeah, So that means, Lynnette,

2642
01:55:02,120 --> 01:55:02,640
Speaker 3: how you doing.

2643
01:55:03,600 --> 01:55:04,600
Speaker 12: I'm doing great.

2644
01:55:04,960 --> 01:55:06,680
Speaker 4: You're doing great. Now tell me if it's true he

2645
01:55:06,720 --> 01:55:08,120
Speaker 4: does not eat eggs or sushi.

2646
01:55:10,600 --> 01:55:11,120
Speaker 5: That's a lot.

2647
01:55:11,240 --> 01:55:11,880
Speaker 17: That is a lot.

2648
01:55:14,760 --> 01:55:16,560
Speaker 4: It's funny. That's a bit of a swerve. But for

2649
01:55:16,760 --> 01:55:19,040
Speaker 4: years that was part of his thing. He did not

2650
01:55:19,200 --> 01:55:19,720
Speaker 4: eat eggs.

2651
01:55:19,800 --> 01:55:22,760
Speaker 3: He actually does eat egs occasionally now, and he eats

2652
01:55:22,760 --> 01:55:24,840
Speaker 3: sushi all the time, so it's definitely not true. A

2653
01:55:24,880 --> 01:55:26,520
Speaker 3: couple other things you may not know about Guy Faery

2654
01:55:26,520 --> 01:55:27,480
Speaker 3: before we get at the top of the hour and

2655
01:55:27,480 --> 01:55:29,600
Speaker 3: a little bit more time with Collette Fair Here, he

2656
01:55:29,760 --> 01:55:32,280
Speaker 3: saved all of his money from the pretzel cart for

2657
01:55:32,720 --> 01:55:36,960
Speaker 3: six years so that he could pay for his own

2658
01:55:37,080 --> 01:55:38,920
Speaker 3: trip to Paris, France.

2659
01:55:38,600 --> 01:55:41,920
Speaker 4: To go to cooking school at sixteen years old.

2660
01:55:42,280 --> 01:55:44,800
Speaker 5: Wow, that's when you know, you know your life's passion.

2661
01:55:44,920 --> 01:55:47,600
Speaker 3: If anybody ever crashes on Guy Faery in front of you,

2662
01:55:47,720 --> 01:55:50,160
Speaker 3: you let him know. Yeah, he may be a little goofy,

2663
01:55:50,240 --> 01:55:52,680
Speaker 3: but that dude has got mad respect in the food business.

2664
01:55:52,720 --> 01:55:54,680
Speaker 4: It didn't start out that way though, but.

2665
01:55:54,760 --> 01:55:56,400
Speaker 3: A bunch of people came around on him and realized

2666
01:55:56,400 --> 01:55:58,600
Speaker 3: what a good person he was and then really kind

2667
01:55:58,640 --> 01:56:00,960
Speaker 3: of doubled down on, you know, helping him out. Guy

2668
01:56:01,080 --> 01:56:03,320
Speaker 3: owns and operates how many restaurants worldwide?

2669
01:56:05,720 --> 01:56:08,280
Speaker 5: Eighty six, one hundred and twenty four?

2670
01:56:08,480 --> 01:56:08,960
Speaker 8: What do you think?

2671
01:56:09,000 --> 01:56:11,040
Speaker 16: What like twenty two?

2672
01:56:11,200 --> 01:56:11,360
Speaker 4: Yeah?

2673
01:56:11,440 --> 01:56:14,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, Jackson closest ninety what Yeah, he's actually got a

2674
01:56:14,440 --> 01:56:15,320
Speaker 3: bunch on cruise ships.

2675
01:56:15,480 --> 01:56:15,640
Speaker 4: Wow.

2676
01:56:15,680 --> 01:56:16,720
Speaker 16: Okay, see I didn't even think that.

2677
01:56:17,560 --> 01:56:20,440
Speaker 3: And the funny thing is Carnival wanted him as part

2678
01:56:20,480 --> 01:56:22,880
Speaker 3: of their brand so bad. They wanted to do a

2679
01:56:22,920 --> 01:56:25,240
Speaker 3: barbecue restaurant. But that's where he started. Actually, he's a

2680
01:56:25,280 --> 01:56:28,160
Speaker 3: championship barbecue guy, right, And he said, I won't do

2681
01:56:28,240 --> 01:56:29,400
Speaker 3: it because you're not gonna be able to do it

2682
01:56:29,400 --> 01:56:31,760
Speaker 3: the way it's supposed to be done. So they say, well,

2683
01:56:31,840 --> 01:56:34,600
Speaker 3: we'll build a smoker on our boat, something we've never

2684
01:56:34,680 --> 01:56:35,160
Speaker 3: done before.

2685
01:56:35,360 --> 01:56:36,480
Speaker 4: He goes, well, now, I'm interested.

2686
01:56:36,600 --> 01:56:38,640
Speaker 3: Toured out there with him, met with Carnival, told him

2687
01:56:38,680 --> 01:56:41,600
Speaker 3: exactly what they should do, and they built a smoker

2688
01:56:41,720 --> 01:56:43,920
Speaker 3: on a cruise ship so that Guy Fiery could have

2689
01:56:44,080 --> 01:56:45,560
Speaker 3: actual smoke food in.

2690
01:56:45,600 --> 01:56:48,320
Speaker 4: His cruise ship barbecue joint. How about that and keep

2691
01:56:48,360 --> 01:56:48,640
Speaker 4: it real?

2692
01:56:48,680 --> 01:56:52,800
Speaker 3: And then lastly here his name is not Guy Fieri, really,

2693
01:56:52,920 --> 01:56:55,680
Speaker 3: his name is Guy Ramsey Ferry.

2694
01:56:55,680 --> 01:56:57,000
Speaker 4: Fe r r Y.

2695
01:56:57,240 --> 01:56:59,120
Speaker 5: I see why he changed He changed.

2696
01:56:58,880 --> 01:56:59,080
Speaker 9: It to.

2697
01:57:00,560 --> 01:57:03,720
Speaker 4: To honor his grandfather's Italian heritage.

2698
01:57:03,760 --> 01:57:05,000
Speaker 5: I'm just sure that was why.

2699
01:57:06,120 --> 01:57:06,520
Speaker 12: I like it.

2700
01:57:06,680 --> 01:57:07,080
Speaker 9: I like it.

2701
01:57:07,200 --> 01:57:10,400
Speaker 3: I've heard it pronounce it's actually d if you read

2702
01:57:10,480 --> 01:57:11,720
Speaker 3: how he says it, it's fetti.

2703
01:57:12,080 --> 01:57:13,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's pronounced like.

2704
01:57:13,800 --> 01:57:14,800
Speaker 11: F E D d y.

2705
01:57:15,000 --> 01:57:17,520
Speaker 7: Why don't we ask the Italian New Yorker in the

2706
01:57:17,640 --> 01:57:19,080
Speaker 7: room how it should be pronounced.

2707
01:57:19,360 --> 01:57:22,760
Speaker 4: We got her name, right, Well, yeah you did.

2708
01:57:22,960 --> 01:57:27,480
Speaker 18: And I have my husband's German name, but my maiden

2709
01:57:27,560 --> 01:57:30,760
Speaker 18: name was Yako Bellis with an I, and people don't

2710
01:57:30,760 --> 01:57:33,160
Speaker 18: even believe it's Italian, but it's one hundred percent Italian.

2711
01:57:33,360 --> 01:57:35,440
Speaker 18: I mean, I think once if you really were to

2712
01:57:35,600 --> 01:57:37,920
Speaker 18: say it with the Italian accent there, it would be

2713
01:57:38,080 --> 01:57:41,640
Speaker 18: more like that, right, But we tend to americanize everything.

2714
01:57:41,920 --> 01:57:43,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, change the names.

2715
01:57:43,520 --> 01:57:46,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right for seven nine, I got another keyword

2716
01:57:46,360 --> 01:57:48,880
Speaker 3: for for you now and a little bit more time

2717
01:57:48,920 --> 01:57:49,440
Speaker 3: of coll that fair.

2718
01:57:49,480 --> 01:57:50,120
Speaker 4: We'll do that next.

2719
01:57:54,680 --> 01:57:58,920
Speaker 5: How do you get a cyclone name Harry to wipe

2720
01:57:58,960 --> 01:57:59,480
Speaker 5: out her?

2721
01:57:59,600 --> 01:57:59,880
Speaker 8: Damn it?

2722
01:58:00,120 --> 01:58:00,560
Speaker 4: Sicily?

2723
01:58:01,600 --> 01:58:01,720
Speaker 8: You know?

2724
01:58:02,080 --> 01:58:05,560
Speaker 13: Does I don't know anything about Harry being Italian?

2725
01:58:06,200 --> 01:58:06,360
Speaker 1: You know?

2726
01:58:06,480 --> 01:58:07,640
Speaker 5: Maybe a anthony?

2727
01:58:07,840 --> 01:58:08,360
Speaker 8: Why you why?

2728
01:58:08,440 --> 01:58:10,800
Speaker 4: Why you want to? Why you want to mess with Sicily?

2729
01:58:11,040 --> 01:58:11,680
Speaker 5: Forget about it.

2730
01:58:12,680 --> 01:58:17,320
Speaker 4: You're doing the wrong thing there, but Harry, forget it.

2731
01:58:21,000 --> 01:58:23,400
Speaker 5: That's a little taste of weird for you on a Thursday.

2732
01:58:23,680 --> 01:58:26,360
Speaker 3: Read the news that cyclone name Harry, and that's it

2733
01:58:26,400 --> 01:58:30,320
Speaker 3: with simply happy is your sixth buck? You word, HJ

2734
01:58:30,480 --> 01:58:32,880
Speaker 3: P p Y go to real Radio dot FM and

2735
01:58:32,920 --> 01:58:34,760
Speaker 3: send that a way for your chance in a thousand bucks.

2736
01:58:34,840 --> 01:58:37,920
Speaker 4: Happy is the word? Oh, come mind, you guys, get

2737
01:58:38,000 --> 01:58:38,760
Speaker 4: up on your carn event.

2738
01:58:40,800 --> 01:58:43,440
Speaker 7: I'm trying my best to avoid Welcome back on Jen,

2739
01:58:43,480 --> 01:58:44,440
Speaker 7: there's deb Hello.

2740
01:58:44,960 --> 01:58:45,800
Speaker 4: Jack is here as well.

2741
01:58:45,920 --> 01:58:50,120
Speaker 3: Yeh and Collette Farris stuck around kindly for another segment.

2742
01:58:50,200 --> 01:58:53,320
Speaker 3: As we hang out, a couple's therapists and relationship expert

2743
01:58:53,400 --> 01:58:54,600
Speaker 3: talk about your book Real Quick.

2744
01:58:55,840 --> 01:58:58,440
Speaker 5: The Cost of Quiet Cost of Quiet.

2745
01:58:58,840 --> 01:59:01,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, if you go to the real radio slash watch,

2746
01:59:02,600 --> 01:59:04,200
Speaker 3: I have it up right now. It's called the Cost

2747
01:59:04,280 --> 01:59:07,760
Speaker 3: of Quiet. And the entire idea of this is how

2748
01:59:07,840 --> 01:59:11,080
Speaker 3: to have hard conversations to create secure, lasting love. I

2749
01:59:11,120 --> 01:59:13,560
Speaker 3: can tell you from experience that is absolutely the truth.

2750
01:59:14,000 --> 01:59:15,640
Speaker 3: The easy path is never the right one.

2751
01:59:16,040 --> 01:59:16,240
Speaker 20: Yep.

2752
01:59:16,400 --> 01:59:19,240
Speaker 16: Short term discomfort for long term gain.

2753
01:59:19,480 --> 01:59:19,720
Speaker 8: Yeah.

2754
01:59:19,760 --> 01:59:21,920
Speaker 18: And the whole mission with the book is really to

2755
01:59:22,040 --> 01:59:25,120
Speaker 18: show people that we're all kind of conflict avoid at

2756
01:59:25,200 --> 01:59:27,440
Speaker 18: most of us, right, even if we're like hot tempered

2757
01:59:27,800 --> 01:59:29,880
Speaker 18: when it comes to it, we don't really want to

2758
01:59:29,920 --> 01:59:32,240
Speaker 18: be vulnerable because it's scary, it's uncomfortable.

2759
01:59:32,280 --> 01:59:32,960
Speaker 16: We're not used to it.

2760
01:59:33,120 --> 01:59:37,560
Speaker 18: Almost nobody grew up with parents who modeled healthy, constructive

2761
01:59:37,640 --> 01:59:39,920
Speaker 18: conflict right right. But it would either sweeping under the

2762
01:59:39,960 --> 01:59:42,480
Speaker 18: rug and avoid it, or like lose your temper and

2763
01:59:42,520 --> 01:59:44,920
Speaker 18: then not talk for three days. So I really want

2764
01:59:45,000 --> 01:59:48,200
Speaker 18: to make this easy for people and for people to

2765
01:59:48,280 --> 01:59:51,840
Speaker 18: realize that once you start to learn the formula for how,

2766
01:59:51,920 --> 01:59:54,880
Speaker 18: and it starts with your internal connection to yourself, I

2767
01:59:54,960 --> 01:59:59,000
Speaker 18: call it self connected communication. You need that clarity about

2768
01:59:59,040 --> 02:00:03,000
Speaker 18: what you're actually to name your emotions, not your story,

2769
02:00:03,160 --> 02:00:03,919
Speaker 18: not your projection.

2770
02:00:04,440 --> 02:00:05,840
Speaker 16: And really get clear about what you.

2771
02:00:05,920 --> 02:00:09,040
Speaker 18: Might need in the moment, often comfort, reassurance, to know

2772
02:00:09,120 --> 02:00:11,000
Speaker 18: that your value, to know that you're desired, to know

2773
02:00:11,120 --> 02:00:13,560
Speaker 18: that you're loved. Then you can come forward to your

2774
02:00:13,600 --> 02:00:16,760
Speaker 18: partner in a way that feels safe, that creates connection

2775
02:00:17,160 --> 02:00:18,800
Speaker 18: instead of more problems.

2776
02:00:18,880 --> 02:00:21,440
Speaker 3: So let me ask then, because that all sounds great,

2777
02:00:21,560 --> 02:00:24,680
Speaker 3: and I agree it does, right, Yeah, but what happens

2778
02:00:24,760 --> 02:00:27,320
Speaker 3: when that instant doesn't work out? Like the book reads?

2779
02:00:27,400 --> 02:00:29,680
Speaker 3: Like you read the book, you go, you know what,

2780
02:00:29,840 --> 02:00:31,200
Speaker 3: this is hundred percent right, and by the way, it

2781
02:00:31,320 --> 02:00:34,760
Speaker 3: is okay. And then I take all the things I've

2782
02:00:34,840 --> 02:00:37,840
Speaker 3: learned from the book and I approach my loved one

2783
02:00:38,280 --> 02:00:40,040
Speaker 3: and I go, hey, listen in and talk for a second.

2784
02:00:40,120 --> 02:00:42,160
Speaker 3: You know, I've read this book and it's opened my eyes.

2785
02:00:42,400 --> 02:00:44,440
Speaker 3: I have been quiet about some things that you do

2786
02:00:45,120 --> 02:00:47,200
Speaker 3: that have really caused some problems with me that I

2787
02:00:47,240 --> 02:00:48,800
Speaker 3: think you need to know. It's not fair for me

2788
02:00:48,880 --> 02:00:51,240
Speaker 3: to keep quiet because I think this is going to

2789
02:00:51,280 --> 02:00:52,560
Speaker 3: cause a long term issue.

2790
02:00:52,760 --> 02:00:53,680
Speaker 4: And I want you to know this.

2791
02:00:54,640 --> 02:00:57,520
Speaker 3: That person shares and then the other person does not

2792
02:00:57,680 --> 02:01:00,520
Speaker 3: take it well, they react what we call a versely.

2793
02:01:01,440 --> 02:01:01,880
Speaker 8: What do you do?

2794
02:01:02,040 --> 02:01:02,160
Speaker 20: Then?

2795
02:01:02,840 --> 02:01:06,800
Speaker 18: Yeah, tell you, well, I do address this very thoroughly

2796
02:01:06,840 --> 02:01:08,680
Speaker 18: in the book, because this is the reality. You know,

2797
02:01:08,800 --> 02:01:10,960
Speaker 18: you can't guarantee even if you tee it up really

2798
02:01:11,040 --> 02:01:12,960
Speaker 18: well and you're saying, hey, I'm coming to you because

2799
02:01:12,960 --> 02:01:16,320
Speaker 18: I really care about the relations the world. Yes, and

2800
02:01:16,440 --> 02:01:18,840
Speaker 18: your your tone of voices even and you're talking about

2801
02:01:18,840 --> 02:01:21,760
Speaker 18: your own feelings. People are complicated, right they We all

2802
02:01:21,800 --> 02:01:25,520
Speaker 18: have triggers. You might say something that inflames the other person. Yes,

2803
02:01:25,600 --> 02:01:28,840
Speaker 18: I call it the bad communication report card in the book.

2804
02:01:28,880 --> 02:01:36,000
Speaker 18: The most common responses that derail communication defensiveness, dismissiveness, distancing

2805
02:01:36,160 --> 02:01:38,680
Speaker 18: and fixing, three d's and an F. That's why I

2806
02:01:38,760 --> 02:01:41,320
Speaker 18: call it a bad orport card. Right, it's the most

2807
02:01:41,400 --> 02:01:44,080
Speaker 18: common thing. You try to share something immediately the person

2808
02:01:44,120 --> 02:01:44,920
Speaker 18: gets defensive.

2809
02:01:45,360 --> 02:01:48,200
Speaker 16: So this is going to happen right now. What I

2810
02:01:48,240 --> 02:01:49,600
Speaker 16: will say is that if.

2811
02:01:49,520 --> 02:01:52,400
Speaker 18: You're really vulnerable and clear, you have a much better chance.

2812
02:01:52,480 --> 02:01:55,200
Speaker 18: Because vulnerability does invite vulnerability.

2813
02:01:55,360 --> 02:01:56,720
Speaker 16: We have mirror neurons.

2814
02:01:57,000 --> 02:01:59,480
Speaker 18: So if you're really coming to someone without any armor

2815
02:01:59,560 --> 02:02:01,640
Speaker 18: and saying, you know, this hurt my feelings, it's a

2816
02:02:01,720 --> 02:02:04,120
Speaker 18: lot harder to be like F you and right, it's

2817
02:02:04,200 --> 02:02:07,360
Speaker 18: just not natural. But if your partner gets triggered right.

2818
02:02:07,400 --> 02:02:11,000
Speaker 18: First of all, that's their responsibility. It doesn't feel good,

2819
02:02:11,120 --> 02:02:14,600
Speaker 18: it's not ideal, and it is part of mature adult life.

2820
02:02:14,960 --> 02:02:17,320
Speaker 18: And in that case, you would say to your partner,

2821
02:02:17,360 --> 02:02:19,480
Speaker 18: you know, you might take a pause if they're triggered,

2822
02:02:19,600 --> 02:02:21,360
Speaker 18: and I don't mean triggered like a big trauma, I

2823
02:02:21,480 --> 02:02:24,200
Speaker 18: just mean activated in the moment, and say, you know, listen,

2824
02:02:24,240 --> 02:02:26,680
Speaker 18: I'm really trying to express this very clearly, but it

2825
02:02:26,760 --> 02:02:29,320
Speaker 18: seems like I've hit a nerve. Let's take a break

2826
02:02:29,440 --> 02:02:32,480
Speaker 18: and we'll try again. And if you're repeatedly this is

2827
02:02:32,520 --> 02:02:33,960
Speaker 18: part of the mission of the book too. If you

2828
02:02:34,040 --> 02:02:36,880
Speaker 18: are repeatedly doing everything on your side of the street,

2829
02:02:37,280 --> 02:02:40,280
Speaker 18: to be clear, to be fair, to be honest, you're

2830
02:02:40,280 --> 02:02:43,000
Speaker 18: not blaming, you're not criticizing, and your partner cannot or

2831
02:02:43,480 --> 02:02:47,280
Speaker 18: will not meet you there, then that's valuable information with

2832
02:02:47,440 --> 02:02:48,640
Speaker 18: which to make decisions.

2833
02:02:48,720 --> 02:02:50,200
Speaker 16: Yeah, it's not going to be any different if you

2834
02:02:50,240 --> 02:02:50,800
Speaker 16: don't say it.

2835
02:02:50,920 --> 02:02:52,240
Speaker 4: Right, it won't change it all.

2836
02:02:52,320 --> 02:02:53,600
Speaker 3: That's the one thing that's kind of I think that

2837
02:02:53,760 --> 02:02:56,880
Speaker 3: maybe is the hardest lesson to learn is either way,

2838
02:02:57,520 --> 02:02:59,200
Speaker 3: it's going to wind up in the same spot. So

2839
02:02:59,320 --> 02:03:01,240
Speaker 3: you might as well go ahead and take your shot,

2840
02:03:01,400 --> 02:03:04,040
Speaker 3: because you know where that road ends to begin with. Yeah,

2841
02:03:04,360 --> 02:03:06,440
Speaker 3: this is the only opportunity to create a fork that

2842
02:03:06,560 --> 02:03:08,040
Speaker 3: one of you, you know, that you can take and

2843
02:03:08,160 --> 02:03:10,080
Speaker 3: you know, and move toward a different path.

2844
02:03:10,120 --> 02:03:11,360
Speaker 16: I believe exactly.

2845
02:03:11,640 --> 02:03:15,320
Speaker 18: And you know, it's really hard to face that reality

2846
02:03:15,480 --> 02:03:18,840
Speaker 18: if somebody just isn't emotionally available at all. Some people

2847
02:03:18,960 --> 02:03:23,240
Speaker 18: aren't they've been too wounded. You know, there are personality factors.

2848
02:03:23,680 --> 02:03:27,280
Speaker 18: Some people are so scared of conflict. They just you know,

2849
02:03:27,400 --> 02:03:29,280
Speaker 18: no matter what you say or how you say it,

2850
02:03:29,440 --> 02:03:31,000
Speaker 18: they don't feel good about themselves.

2851
02:03:31,200 --> 02:03:33,000
Speaker 3: And let me tell you something else too. What I've noticed,

2852
02:03:33,160 --> 02:03:35,240
Speaker 3: and you know we're not talking about the reciprocal action

2853
02:03:36,080 --> 02:03:39,200
Speaker 3: that happens with that. Here, this is what I've learned.

2854
02:03:39,520 --> 02:03:42,040
Speaker 3: Like women like strong men. I know that women do

2855
02:03:42,160 --> 02:03:45,360
Speaker 3: like men that are decisive and they have and they're strong, right,

2856
02:03:45,960 --> 02:03:48,120
Speaker 3: And I think what happens is this is because this

2857
02:03:48,200 --> 02:03:49,120
Speaker 3: has happened to me before.

2858
02:03:49,440 --> 02:03:50,200
Speaker 4: And I'll tell you that.

2859
02:03:50,240 --> 02:03:52,720
Speaker 3: And obviously in my life I've done things that you

2860
02:03:52,800 --> 02:03:55,360
Speaker 3: can look at and go okay, well, relatively decisive, can

2861
02:03:55,400 --> 02:03:57,200
Speaker 3: make decisions, can move through in life, can do the

2862
02:03:57,280 --> 02:03:58,680
Speaker 3: things that need to be done to get the job done.

2863
02:03:58,680 --> 02:04:00,440
Speaker 3: Blah blah blah blah. Right, I've got I've got the

2864
02:04:00,520 --> 02:04:01,920
Speaker 3: receipts to show that I can do that.

2865
02:04:02,160 --> 02:04:02,280
Speaker 9: Right.

2866
02:04:02,720 --> 02:04:06,160
Speaker 3: But in that same sense, if I don't want conflict

2867
02:04:06,200 --> 02:04:08,200
Speaker 3: with my wife and she's doing something that I don't

2868
02:04:08,280 --> 02:04:11,080
Speaker 3: care for, the more that I don't say it and

2869
02:04:11,200 --> 02:04:14,080
Speaker 3: I and then I simp to it, the less respect

2870
02:04:14,200 --> 02:04:16,520
Speaker 3: you get from that woman because she kind of feels

2871
02:04:16,600 --> 02:04:19,240
Speaker 3: that something isn't right, but she wants you to say it.

2872
02:04:19,360 --> 02:04:21,760
Speaker 3: If you don't say it, she's going to lose respect

2873
02:04:21,800 --> 02:04:23,760
Speaker 3: for you. She was not going to look at you

2874
02:04:23,840 --> 02:04:25,040
Speaker 3: the same way if you don't do that.

2875
02:04:25,480 --> 02:04:27,360
Speaker 16: I love that. It's so true. It is one You

2876
02:04:27,600 --> 02:04:28,760
Speaker 16: feel it instinctively.

2877
02:04:28,920 --> 02:04:29,760
Speaker 4: You know it for a fact.

2878
02:04:29,800 --> 02:04:31,920
Speaker 3: I could, and every dude out there listening to me

2879
02:04:32,040 --> 02:04:34,560
Speaker 3: knows it. You ignore it, you know it for a fact.

2880
02:04:34,560 --> 02:04:36,000
Speaker 3: It's the way she talks to you as she looks

2881
02:04:36,000 --> 02:04:38,560
Speaker 3: at you, the way she reacts when when something happens

2882
02:04:38,600 --> 02:04:40,800
Speaker 3: in the house that it doesn't it isn't the way

2883
02:04:40,840 --> 02:04:44,040
Speaker 3: it's supposed to be, and what's happening is is the

2884
02:04:44,200 --> 02:04:48,840
Speaker 3: more that you ginflect to that mindset of not being

2885
02:04:49,000 --> 02:04:52,040
Speaker 3: confrontational for the sake of peace. What you're doing is

2886
02:04:52,200 --> 02:04:54,760
Speaker 3: is you're showing a great weakness that women can't stand.

2887
02:04:55,120 --> 02:04:58,160
Speaker 18: It's so true, and it builds resentment. It does all sides,

2888
02:04:58,200 --> 02:05:01,960
Speaker 18: which is poison. It's drinking poison and expecting someone else

2889
02:05:02,080 --> 02:05:04,680
Speaker 18: to die. I mean one thing that I would say,

2890
02:05:04,960 --> 02:05:07,960
Speaker 18: I see in therapy that men really don't believe until

2891
02:05:08,000 --> 02:05:11,840
Speaker 18: they experience it. But every time, even if it's a criticism,

2892
02:05:12,000 --> 02:05:15,920
Speaker 18: a complaint, and dissatisfaction, every time, in fourteen years I've

2893
02:05:15,960 --> 02:05:18,480
Speaker 18: been doing this a man, I can help someone get

2894
02:05:18,600 --> 02:05:22,960
Speaker 18: underneath all the stuff, the thoughts that the surface stuff,

2895
02:05:23,000 --> 02:05:25,880
Speaker 18: and get into their feelings and they actually turn to

2896
02:05:25,960 --> 02:05:29,200
Speaker 18: their partner, let's say their wife, and share what they're feeling,

2897
02:05:29,320 --> 02:05:30,200
Speaker 18: and they're vulnerable.

2898
02:05:30,760 --> 02:05:31,440
Speaker 16: Every time.

2899
02:05:31,600 --> 02:05:34,600
Speaker 18: The wife loves it, even if it's a criticism of

2900
02:05:34,680 --> 02:05:36,280
Speaker 18: her or something they're upset.

2901
02:05:36,520 --> 02:05:38,720
Speaker 16: They are like, oh my god, I've been waiting for

2902
02:05:38,880 --> 02:05:39,800
Speaker 16: this my whole life.

2903
02:05:39,880 --> 02:05:42,200
Speaker 4: You actually told me something.

2904
02:05:42,000 --> 02:05:43,240
Speaker 16: About your inner world.

2905
02:05:43,800 --> 02:05:46,080
Speaker 4: They're so excited, you can't imagine.

2906
02:05:46,200 --> 02:05:48,200
Speaker 3: I've had a couple of epiphanies like that over the

2907
02:05:48,280 --> 02:05:50,800
Speaker 3: last couple of years in my relationship. As you know,

2908
02:05:50,960 --> 02:05:52,360
Speaker 3: as you get together and you've been at it, for

2909
02:05:52,440 --> 02:05:55,520
Speaker 3: twenty years, you grow and learn. Mixed Mixed families aren't

2910
02:05:55,560 --> 02:05:58,600
Speaker 3: easy either. So all of these things create stress points

2911
02:05:58,640 --> 02:06:00,760
Speaker 3: that you have to deal with. And again, you you

2912
02:06:01,040 --> 02:06:04,720
Speaker 3: you're I think your nature sometimes is to run and

2913
02:06:04,800 --> 02:06:07,520
Speaker 3: hide and protect yourself. Yes, you know, and and of

2914
02:06:07,600 --> 02:06:09,280
Speaker 3: course you can't do head in a marriage.

2915
02:06:09,320 --> 02:06:11,680
Speaker 4: And if you want to, where are you gonna run

2916
02:06:11,720 --> 02:06:12,040
Speaker 4: and hide?

2917
02:06:12,080 --> 02:06:15,000
Speaker 3: You're in a marriage. Man, you know you've made the commitment.

2918
02:06:15,120 --> 02:06:18,000
Speaker 3: So yeah, all that stuff is completely valid, one hundred percent.

2919
02:06:18,040 --> 02:06:19,080
Speaker 3: I've experienced most of it.

2920
02:06:19,280 --> 02:06:20,400
Speaker 16: So me too, Me too.

2921
02:06:20,960 --> 02:06:23,360
Speaker 18: You know, I lived this myself, and my first marriage

2922
02:06:23,520 --> 02:06:26,600
Speaker 18: was a disaster. And I looked at the role I played,

2923
02:06:26,640 --> 02:06:29,080
Speaker 18: which is that I didn't communicate. I didn't do my part.

2924
02:06:29,160 --> 02:06:31,400
Speaker 16: And that's why I became a couple therapist to help people.

2925
02:06:31,440 --> 02:06:32,880
Speaker 16: And really this is why I wrote the book.

2926
02:06:33,120 --> 02:06:34,840
Speaker 3: Well, I did want to get into the physical aspect

2927
02:06:34,840 --> 02:06:36,560
Speaker 3: of relationships, and we do get We did get a

2928
02:06:36,560 --> 02:06:37,120
Speaker 3: bunch of questions.

2929
02:06:37,160 --> 02:06:40,080
Speaker 4: When you ask me, careful because you will receive it.

2930
02:06:40,120 --> 02:06:40,480
Speaker 4: Says here.

2931
02:06:40,520 --> 02:06:43,400
Speaker 3: My husband and I've been married for five years. We

2932
02:06:43,480 --> 02:06:45,880
Speaker 3: haven't been intimate. We've only been intimate for about three

2933
02:06:45,960 --> 02:06:49,320
Speaker 3: times since then. He says, he just hasn't.

2934
02:06:49,000 --> 02:06:49,839
Speaker 4: Really have a libido.

2935
02:06:50,160 --> 02:06:51,600
Speaker 3: I've asked him to go the doctor and get his

2936
02:06:51,640 --> 02:06:54,600
Speaker 3: testosterone check and it was very low. He's been trying

2937
02:06:54,680 --> 02:06:56,560
Speaker 3: some stuff, but it isn't really working, and it's very,

2938
02:06:56,680 --> 02:06:59,320
Speaker 3: very frustrating. Do you want to break it to her?

2939
02:07:00,360 --> 02:07:02,000
Speaker 16: What were you going to break to her?

2940
02:07:02,640 --> 02:07:08,760
Speaker 4: What would she say to that? I don't I don't

2941
02:07:08,880 --> 02:07:11,160
Speaker 4: know if it's a libido thing. Like I think what

2942
02:07:11,360 --> 02:07:12,040
Speaker 4: happens is this.

2943
02:07:12,280 --> 02:07:14,720
Speaker 3: I know that you can get into a relationship that

2944
02:07:14,880 --> 02:07:18,440
Speaker 3: gets so dysfunctional that you don't find the person attractive anymore.

2945
02:07:19,280 --> 02:07:22,120
Speaker 16: That's very true, and I can happen, and I.

2946
02:07:22,160 --> 02:07:25,280
Speaker 3: Think it can happen to the severity of being incapable

2947
02:07:25,880 --> 02:07:29,080
Speaker 3: of physically having a physical relationship that you are so

2948
02:07:29,360 --> 02:07:33,360
Speaker 3: turned out or off by your loved one because of whatever.

2949
02:07:33,440 --> 02:07:34,000
Speaker 4: It doesn't matter.

2950
02:07:34,120 --> 02:07:36,240
Speaker 3: Maybe you fell out of love, maybe you just found

2951
02:07:36,320 --> 02:07:38,640
Speaker 3: something you don't care for, maybe you have stresses. But

2952
02:07:39,080 --> 02:07:41,320
Speaker 3: sometimes it does happen that way.

2953
02:07:41,600 --> 02:07:43,320
Speaker 16: Oh, absolutely that does happen.

2954
02:07:43,640 --> 02:07:46,720
Speaker 18: But I will say this might not be that, like,

2955
02:07:46,840 --> 02:07:49,200
Speaker 18: it really could be a physical issue. I mean, one

2956
02:07:49,240 --> 02:07:52,880
Speaker 18: thing I've learned is that there's so many factors to

2957
02:07:53,040 --> 02:07:54,440
Speaker 18: every unique situation.

2958
02:07:54,600 --> 02:07:56,880
Speaker 16: So we don't know enough about what's going on with

2959
02:07:57,000 --> 02:07:59,160
Speaker 16: this guy. The low tea could be a thing. He

2960
02:07:59,200 --> 02:08:02,000
Speaker 16: could be depressed, he could be a low libido individual

2961
02:08:02,280 --> 02:08:04,040
Speaker 16: in general. He could have fallen out of love.

2962
02:08:04,120 --> 02:08:06,520
Speaker 18: He could be dissatisfied, he could be having an affair, right,

2963
02:08:06,560 --> 02:08:08,880
Speaker 18: I mean, we could go on and on, but I

2964
02:08:09,040 --> 02:08:11,200
Speaker 18: do think what I'd want to know is like, how

2965
02:08:11,600 --> 02:08:14,040
Speaker 18: this poor person is coping with this, because it's really

2966
02:08:14,120 --> 02:08:15,920
Speaker 18: hard to be on the other side of that.

2967
02:08:16,280 --> 02:08:17,520
Speaker 4: She says, she's very frustrated.

2968
02:08:17,560 --> 02:08:20,320
Speaker 3: Of course, you imagine in five years you love a person,

2969
02:08:20,400 --> 02:08:23,280
Speaker 3: you've had sex with him three times in five years. Yeah,

2970
02:08:23,280 --> 02:08:25,560
Speaker 3: I mean that's I mean, that's infrequent, even in the

2971
02:08:25,600 --> 02:08:26,640
Speaker 3: world of infrequencies.

2972
02:08:27,120 --> 02:08:31,360
Speaker 6: Collect How would you rate Jimmy as a counselor immediately

2973
02:08:31,480 --> 02:08:32,800
Speaker 6: going to the worst case scenario?

2974
02:08:33,760 --> 02:08:40,000
Speaker 4: Well, let me, I didn't think of that.

2975
02:08:40,160 --> 02:08:40,320
Speaker 9: Jack.

2976
02:08:42,240 --> 02:08:44,040
Speaker 4: Jack's better therapist than I am. He figured it out.

2977
02:08:44,120 --> 02:08:46,320
Speaker 18: But actually it's probably not that because when that happens,

2978
02:08:46,360 --> 02:08:47,440
Speaker 18: there's usually still sad.

2979
02:08:47,760 --> 02:08:47,960
Speaker 9: Yeah.

2980
02:08:48,400 --> 02:08:50,360
Speaker 3: But the reason I say that is this Jack, and

2981
02:08:50,560 --> 02:08:51,960
Speaker 3: you know what, you make a good point, and you're right.

2982
02:08:52,040 --> 02:08:54,040
Speaker 3: I probably went I probably came in a little hot

2983
02:08:54,080 --> 02:08:54,240
Speaker 3: on that.

2984
02:08:54,360 --> 02:08:56,120
Speaker 4: Here's my thing. It's five years, dude.

2985
02:08:56,280 --> 02:08:59,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just a five year old relationship and they've

2986
02:08:59,720 --> 02:09:02,720
Speaker 3: only sex three times in five years. That means even

2987
02:09:02,800 --> 02:09:05,800
Speaker 3: in the first year of their relationship, they've had it

2988
02:09:05,880 --> 02:09:06,960
Speaker 3: maybe once, right.

2989
02:09:06,880 --> 02:09:08,160
Speaker 16: But that's pretty extreme.

2990
02:09:08,400 --> 02:09:10,800
Speaker 18: So this is where there could be a lot going

2991
02:09:10,880 --> 02:09:13,960
Speaker 18: on with this guy physically, mentally, and emotionally that might

2992
02:09:14,000 --> 02:09:15,280
Speaker 18: have nothing to do with the partner.

2993
02:09:15,480 --> 02:09:18,040
Speaker 16: Okay, also not having I mean that's what we call.

2994
02:09:17,960 --> 02:09:22,640
Speaker 18: A hyposexual relationship, which is technically defined as like less

2995
02:09:22,720 --> 02:09:25,720
Speaker 18: than ten times a year. But I hate to pathologize

2996
02:09:25,800 --> 02:09:28,520
Speaker 18: these things because one thing that I have discovered from

2997
02:09:28,600 --> 02:09:30,440
Speaker 18: doing so much couples therapy is that a lot of

2998
02:09:30,480 --> 02:09:33,000
Speaker 18: people aren't having sex. Now, it's a very important part

2999
02:09:33,040 --> 02:09:36,480
Speaker 18: of a relationship. I have had a few couples where

3000
02:09:36,600 --> 02:09:38,880
Speaker 18: they're not sexual for a variety of reasons, and they're

3001
02:09:38,920 --> 02:09:39,920
Speaker 18: both content with it.

3002
02:09:40,200 --> 02:09:42,240
Speaker 16: Sometimes there's a lot of trauma on both sides.

3003
02:09:42,240 --> 02:09:46,760
Speaker 18: There's so many complications, But for the most part, most couples,

3004
02:09:46,880 --> 02:09:52,000
Speaker 18: more than eighty five percent, are mismatched libido. One person

3005
02:09:52,200 --> 02:09:54,280
Speaker 18: wants it a lot more than the other, and it's

3006
02:09:54,360 --> 02:09:57,760
Speaker 18: not always the man. Sometimes it's the woman. So whether

3007
02:09:57,880 --> 02:10:01,560
Speaker 18: it's five times in a year or twenty five times.

3008
02:10:02,160 --> 02:10:05,440
Speaker 18: Usually partners are not oh wit, not usually, but often

3009
02:10:05,640 --> 02:10:09,280
Speaker 18: partners are not so aligned. And this is something that

3010
02:10:09,480 --> 02:10:13,760
Speaker 18: back to communicating. The pathway to figuring out a robust

3011
02:10:14,240 --> 02:10:17,880
Speaker 18: physically intimate life is really starting to be able to

3012
02:10:18,000 --> 02:10:20,480
Speaker 18: talk about it, talk about your desires, talk about how

3013
02:10:20,840 --> 02:10:23,760
Speaker 18: how it's making you feel about yourself. Like what happens

3014
02:10:23,800 --> 02:10:26,480
Speaker 18: to most couples is they slowly stop having sex, where

3015
02:10:26,520 --> 02:10:28,760
Speaker 18: they have it less often, they don't talk about it.

3016
02:10:29,240 --> 02:10:32,720
Speaker 18: Then even the muscle for having sex atrophies, and then

3017
02:10:32,760 --> 02:10:35,720
Speaker 18: it becomes like weird after a while, we haven't had

3018
02:10:35,760 --> 02:10:39,040
Speaker 18: sex for six months. Now, nobody's approaching anyone. No one

3019
02:10:39,120 --> 02:10:42,320
Speaker 18: wants to get rejected, and you can get frozen in

3020
02:10:42,440 --> 02:10:44,960
Speaker 18: that place where you're not having sex at all, and

3021
02:10:45,040 --> 02:10:47,480
Speaker 18: it can become and it doesn't sound like that's the

3022
02:10:47,560 --> 02:10:49,480
Speaker 18: case here because they weren't having sex at the beginning,

3023
02:10:49,760 --> 02:10:51,320
Speaker 18: but this is a huge problem.

3024
02:10:51,880 --> 02:10:54,520
Speaker 3: You also start asking yourself question, you know, what's going

3025
02:10:54,560 --> 02:10:56,560
Speaker 3: on with me? Are you having an affair? Are you

3026
02:10:56,640 --> 02:10:59,440
Speaker 3: attracting somebody else? And then you start really having you

3027
02:10:59,520 --> 02:11:01,520
Speaker 3: know again the worst case thoughts.

3028
02:11:01,440 --> 02:11:04,240
Speaker 16: Yes, and can accept your confidence because.

3029
02:11:03,960 --> 02:11:06,880
Speaker 3: As a man, obviously you know the idea that that's

3030
02:11:07,040 --> 02:11:09,400
Speaker 3: part of a part of a relationship is being physical.

3031
02:11:09,800 --> 02:11:11,600
Speaker 3: And if you, as a man, are trying to have

3032
02:11:11,680 --> 02:11:13,600
Speaker 3: relationship with your wife and your wife doesn't seem to

3033
02:11:13,640 --> 02:11:15,320
Speaker 3: be into it, you're not gonna go. Well, I guess

3034
02:11:15,400 --> 02:11:17,880
Speaker 3: maybe her past is coming back to haunt a little bit.

3035
02:11:17,920 --> 02:11:19,480
Speaker 3: The first thing you think is, oh, I'm a fat

3036
02:11:19,520 --> 02:11:21,200
Speaker 3: piece of s and she doesn't want.

3037
02:11:21,040 --> 02:11:24,040
Speaker 4: To sleep with me anymore. I mean, it's never anything else.

3038
02:11:24,120 --> 02:11:26,880
Speaker 4: For dudes, Jack, are you on me? Are you with

3039
02:11:26,960 --> 02:11:27,400
Speaker 4: me on this one?

3040
02:11:27,520 --> 02:11:28,520
Speaker 9: Or no? Yes?

3041
02:11:30,280 --> 02:11:33,200
Speaker 4: He doesn't even know what I'm saying now I do.

3042
02:11:33,560 --> 02:11:37,600
Speaker 3: And yes to a guy, if you are getting it

3043
02:11:37,760 --> 02:11:40,880
Speaker 3: less than you desire, you internalize it.

3044
02:11:41,000 --> 02:11:42,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, it makes a blow to your ear.

3045
02:11:43,320 --> 02:11:45,520
Speaker 5: And the same thing as that, the same thing as

3046
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Speaker 18: Your partner is a man and you're a woman and

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Speaker 18: Right, So if that's not happening and it makes you

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Speaker 3: you say, is there a release party coming up sooner?

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Speaker 3: Is that for the general public or has that just

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Speaker 16: It's sold out? No, I know, which is a great

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Speaker 16: thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 18: Yeah, We're going to do like a community relationship event

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Speaker 4: And I know you appear on Tom and Dan with

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Speaker 16: That airs on Thursdays.

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Speaker 18: I don't even know what time, but I do think

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Speaker 18: we're actually on real radio in the evening on Thursdays

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Speaker 18: at eight pm.

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Speaker 16: You think I would know.

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Speaker 4: It's tonight at eight Yeah, tonight. That's awesome. I did

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Speaker 16: I can't even like work right now because of this

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Speaker 16: What is wrong with Mary?

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Speaker 4: The cost of quiet? I can't even.

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Speaker 16: Promote my own self in my book?

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Speaker 4: Here's my name? What hell to ts?

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Speaker 16: I'm like, I think I might be on this radio station?

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Speaker 9: Joe, what's up?

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Speaker 4: Cobrat Show, Chris and Rawley, got a couple of beers

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Speaker 4: in me.

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Speaker 15: I want to invite Jack to come meet me and

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Speaker 15: the wife at either.

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Speaker 4: Disney or Universal Studios this weekend. How you doing.

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Speaker 15: We're supposed to get a lot of crappy weather here,

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Speaker 15: so me and my wife are going to get the

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Speaker 15: hell out of Dodge, all right. I'm not gonna deal

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Speaker 15: with any ice of snow or sleep or whatever supposed

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Speaker 15: to get So come on, Jackie, come meet me and

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Speaker 15: the wife at Universal on Saturday.

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Speaker 4: I know where that winds up, no doubt, I know

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Speaker 4: where that winds up. Get them Jack, Send to pick,

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Speaker 4: I'm Jim. Deb is here, Hello, and so is Jack.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: She's great.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah.

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Speaker 3: You know when when she came on when I was

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Speaker 3: on vacation, and uh, I remember getting back and I asked,

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Speaker 3: you know, I always asked, Deb, you know, how'd everything go?

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Speaker 9: Was?

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Speaker 4: We're all the guests good? Where everybody you know? Was

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Speaker 4: everybody respectful?

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Speaker 3: And blah blah blah, And man, I got to tell you,

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Speaker 3: I remember you going on and on about how good

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Speaker 3: Collette was on the air, and how informative she was

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Speaker 3: and how naturally good at being on the air she was,

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Speaker 3: and you, I think maybe undersold it.

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Speaker 4: She's way good.

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Speaker 7: Now you understand why I ganged her right on the

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Speaker 7: air in front of him. I didn't even wait to

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Speaker 7: do it politely and give them the opportunity to say no.

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Speaker 4: It's so funny.

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Speaker 3: One of the first texts we got it's like, you're

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Speaker 3: stealing Tom and Dan's bit, and I'm like, I literally

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Speaker 3: asked them, like I didn't have to.

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Speaker 5: I was like, you asked them, Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean.

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Speaker 4: You know you can hear her again tonight. Yeah, with

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Speaker 4: Tom and Dan.

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Speaker 3: Brian Annoutemant says, great two segments. I just pre ordered

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Speaker 3: was great. And again, if you want to grab a book,

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Speaker 3: it's called The Cost of Quiet and you can go

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Speaker 3: to the cost of Quiet dot.

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Speaker 4: Com and order it right there. All right, welcome back.

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Speaker 4: I am Jim. I've already done that part.

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Speaker 8: Just do this quickly.

3180
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Speaker 4: I want to make sure I get this topic right now.

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Speaker 4: All right, very good. Where do you guys, because this

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Speaker 4: is our question of today, where do you guys go

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Speaker 4: to your what's your favorite convenience store? And the reason

3184
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Speaker 4: I asked that is there was a study they did.

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Speaker 3: It says the most satisfying convenience store in Florida. And

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Speaker 3: I almost don't know what they mean by satisfying. I

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02:17:32,959 --> 02:17:35,120
Speaker 3: could just say that maybe every aspect of your visit

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Speaker 3: is good.

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Speaker 7: Jack, tell them what's the most satisfying there? You go,

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02:17:39,400 --> 02:17:42,600
Speaker 7: you think Wawa is I mean their breakfast sandwiches. I

3191
02:17:42,680 --> 02:17:46,160
Speaker 7: don't actually go to wahwas very you know, very often. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: but it's an experience.

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Speaker 4: That case say.

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Speaker 6: They just I mean, the quality of the food for

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Speaker 6: a convenience store is fantastic. If you are one of

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Speaker 6: the reasons it's so loved.

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Speaker 3: If you were to ask me, I would say I

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Speaker 3: would say probably my favorite. And I guess say it's weird.

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Speaker 3: It's it's favorite. Is always odd with convenience stores because

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Speaker 3: it's in the name. It's like, what's there? You know,

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Speaker 3: I'm not going to drive an extra seven miles to

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Speaker 3: have a racetrack experience, not because I don't have anything

3203
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Speaker 3: against racetrack.

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Speaker 4: It's just that most convenience stores are the same.

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Speaker 3: But I will tell you what you guys are saying

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Speaker 3: about wah Wah is exactly the case, because if I

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Speaker 3: need gas and I'm a little hungry, I will drive

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Speaker 3: past other stores and go straight to wah Wah because

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Speaker 3: I do believe, like you guys say that their food

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Speaker 3: is the absolute best.

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Speaker 4: I mean, it's like a little restaurant there. It is.

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Speaker 6: I always color you know that destination dining. It is

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Speaker 6: like you could go there just for food. You don't

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Speaker 6: need gas. It's not that you need a convenience store.

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02:18:43,320 --> 02:18:45,360
Speaker 6: You can go there just to get something easy.

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02:18:45,360 --> 02:18:46,920
Speaker 3: And I've seen that happen, the one that's right up

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02:18:46,959 --> 02:18:48,560
Speaker 3: here off seventeen ninety two Jack on the way to

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Speaker 3: your house. I've seen people on those tables outside, like

3219
02:18:51,959 --> 02:18:54,160
Speaker 3: show up for dinner time, get a sub and sit

3220
02:18:54,240 --> 02:18:57,600
Speaker 3: there and have dinner like kids doing homework, just like

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02:18:57,640 --> 02:18:58,520
Speaker 3: they're at somewhere else.

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02:18:58,600 --> 02:19:02,960
Speaker 6: Plus they're coffee their whole coffee situation. Yeah, it's pretty

3223
02:19:02,959 --> 02:19:04,320
Speaker 6: good at a reasonable price.

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Speaker 4: If you have the app.

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Speaker 3: They usually have perks and stuff where you can get deals.

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02:19:09,320 --> 02:19:10,600
Speaker 3: It's uh, it's good.

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Speaker 5: I like it.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: The American Customer Satisfaction Index has released the latest scores

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Speaker 3: for customer satisfaction and convenience stores nationwide. Uh, and and

3231
02:19:19,920 --> 02:19:21,400
Speaker 3: a lot of people say, you guys are missing one

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Speaker 3: that's not even come up now. It said nationwide. But

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02:19:23,520 --> 02:19:25,880
Speaker 3: the funny thing is it says, uh it said the

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Speaker 3: most in Florida. But it's kind of funny because the

3235
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Speaker 3: list actually is, I believe the national list. And the

3236
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Speaker 3: reason why I say that is because I'm not familiar

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Speaker 3: with Like, I'm not familiar with the one that won, Like,

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Speaker 3: I've not heard of it before. Can't tell you until

3239
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Speaker 3: you tell you, Yeah, I don't. Have you ever heard

3240
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Speaker 3: a Quick Trip?

3241
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Speaker 5: Oh that does sound.

3242
02:19:48,200 --> 02:19:49,119
Speaker 4: Yeah, quick Trip.

3243
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Speaker 3: Apparently is the winner. Quick Trip with eighty they had

3244
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Speaker 3: the eighty four score out of one hundred. Have you

3245
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Speaker 3: ever heard of a company called Sheets? Yes, ag Etz,

3246
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Speaker 3: I just I went to one in Pennsylvania and it

3247
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Speaker 3: was yeah, next level.

3248
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Speaker 4: They like hot nuts, Yeah, bar you can buy that.

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02:20:07,920 --> 02:20:08,520
Speaker 4: It was great.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Wala comes in number three nationally she does yeah,

3251
02:20:18,240 --> 02:20:21,680
Speaker 3: yeah she So it's Wallac comes in number three. Now

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Speaker 3: they tied with Sheets with the overall score.

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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02:20:24,840 --> 02:20:27,320
Speaker 3: But the one that really shocked everybody that wasn't at

3255
02:20:27,360 --> 02:20:31,920
Speaker 3: the top was seven eleven BUCkies. Oh dude, everybody was

3256
02:20:31,959 --> 02:20:34,520
Speaker 3: freaking out that BUCkies didn't make it. Seven eleven is

3257
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Speaker 3: so far down on the.

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Speaker 4: List, dude.

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Speaker 6: It's the oldest, I think, right, I don't know, but

3260
02:20:40,959 --> 02:20:47,320
Speaker 6: so is BUCkies. It's a convenience store on steroids. But

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Speaker 6: are they prevalent enough and are they.

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Speaker 7: Con I mean they're satisfying to the traveler who wants

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02:20:53,480 --> 02:20:55,720
Speaker 7: a wall of jerky yeah and beaver nuts.

3264
02:20:56,120 --> 02:20:58,960
Speaker 6: It seems like more than the convenience store is like

3265
02:20:59,320 --> 02:21:01,640
Speaker 6: quick off the road, you know, it's it's convenient.

3266
02:21:01,800 --> 02:21:02,000
Speaker 4: Yeah.

3267
02:21:02,160 --> 02:21:03,560
Speaker 3: In other words, you gotta get on a highway to

3268
02:21:03,600 --> 02:21:06,959
Speaker 3: go to a BUCkies, right yeah, or get off the highway, yeah,

3269
02:21:07,160 --> 02:21:08,040
Speaker 3: get one of the you know.

3270
02:21:08,720 --> 02:21:12,360
Speaker 6: It's just when you pull into a BUCkies you're doing

3271
02:21:12,400 --> 02:21:14,160
Speaker 6: a little driving because you got to get around one

3272
02:21:14,240 --> 02:21:17,080
Speaker 6: hundred gas pumps, right exactly, you know, and then you're

3273
02:21:17,120 --> 02:21:17,720
Speaker 6: gonna walk.

3274
02:21:17,600 --> 02:21:19,640
Speaker 4: A little from the car. It just seems more like

3275
02:21:19,720 --> 02:21:22,480
Speaker 4: you're going to a Walmart, yeah, than you are seven Elive.

3276
02:21:22,440 --> 02:21:24,760
Speaker 3: Because it's like a home goods with gas and food.

3277
02:21:24,840 --> 02:21:27,119
Speaker 3: Because I mean it's got They got clothing, They.

3278
02:21:27,080 --> 02:21:30,000
Speaker 4: Have like Christmas ornaments, they have all kinds of stuff,

3279
02:21:30,280 --> 02:21:33,720
Speaker 4: public cressrooms you're gonna find oh yeah, it's crazy loves

3280
02:21:33,920 --> 02:21:34,320
Speaker 4: is up there.

3281
02:21:34,400 --> 02:21:36,640
Speaker 3: Now that's a truck stop. Yeah, that's not a convenience store.

3282
02:21:36,680 --> 02:21:38,560
Speaker 3: That's kind of weird. And the ones that I think

3283
02:21:38,640 --> 02:21:42,960
Speaker 3: you'll recognize here. Racetrack tied for number seven. Yeah, and

3284
02:21:43,040 --> 02:21:44,440
Speaker 3: I think Racetrack does a good job.

3285
02:21:44,560 --> 02:21:48,360
Speaker 4: Yeah. Ex on mobile stations they came, they tied for seventh.

3286
02:21:49,160 --> 02:21:50,920
Speaker 4: And the thing that kills me the most is, man,

3287
02:21:51,120 --> 02:21:54,320
Speaker 4: how does how does seven eleven come in seventeenth?

3288
02:21:55,280 --> 02:21:58,120
Speaker 7: I think, like Jack said, because they're the oldest the least.

3289
02:21:58,400 --> 02:22:02,320
Speaker 7: I mean, the only thing really that seven eleven is

3290
02:22:02,440 --> 02:22:04,320
Speaker 7: kind of up their game on in the last several

3291
02:22:04,400 --> 02:22:06,400
Speaker 7: years has been the coffee that they offer. And it's

3292
02:22:06,400 --> 02:22:08,959
Speaker 7: still not coffee like you go to a I mean,

3293
02:22:09,040 --> 02:22:11,480
Speaker 7: you can get a really great breakfast sandwich at Wah

3294
02:22:11,600 --> 02:22:13,240
Speaker 7: Wah that isn't rolling on rollers.

3295
02:22:13,360 --> 02:22:14,160
Speaker 4: Yeah. I think that's where.

3296
02:22:14,240 --> 02:22:17,160
Speaker 3: I think that is where seven eleven has fallen behind,

3297
02:22:17,240 --> 02:22:19,560
Speaker 3: because they're still kind of relying on that small food

3298
02:22:19,600 --> 02:22:22,080
Speaker 3: bar thing that they have and everybody else is just

3299
02:22:22,160 --> 02:22:25,240
Speaker 3: kind of diving into the full blown experiences of you know,

3300
02:22:25,400 --> 02:22:28,840
Speaker 3: fresh soup, salads, you know, homemade subs, hot or cold.

3301
02:22:28,920 --> 02:22:31,360
Speaker 3: I mean, all of that's there in the same footprint.

3302
02:22:31,440 --> 02:22:33,640
Speaker 3: That's the crazy part. Like in the same exact like

3303
02:22:33,800 --> 02:22:36,880
Speaker 3: square footage. Other stores are turning out fresh food and

3304
02:22:36,920 --> 02:22:39,480
Speaker 3: seven eleven is doing like, you know, pizza's been sitting

3305
02:22:39,520 --> 02:22:41,519
Speaker 3: there for a while, and you know, hot dog rollers.

3306
02:22:41,280 --> 02:22:44,400
Speaker 5: Hey, landscapers like to eat something, you know, the tiqitos.

3307
02:22:44,520 --> 02:22:46,400
Speaker 3: And I'm not even slamming it because I'll tell you

3308
02:22:46,640 --> 02:22:48,920
Speaker 3: I lived on seven eleven hot dogs for a while.

3309
02:22:48,959 --> 02:22:51,680
Speaker 3: But the problem is is they just got lapped, like

3310
02:22:52,080 --> 02:22:54,720
Speaker 3: the game just lapped them. You know, when they when

3311
02:22:54,720 --> 02:22:56,800
Speaker 3: they brought wabah in to town. My wife had experienced

3312
02:22:56,800 --> 02:22:59,360
Speaker 3: a wah wah while traveling before, and I said, and

3313
02:22:59,440 --> 02:23:01,240
Speaker 3: I remember the story because I was going to talk

3314
02:23:01,240 --> 02:23:02,360
Speaker 3: about it, and I'm like, have you ever heard of

3315
02:23:02,400 --> 02:23:05,480
Speaker 3: wah wah? And dude, she snapped around like Linda Blair.

3316
02:23:05,600 --> 02:23:07,520
Speaker 3: She's like, where are they coming? And I'm like, well,

3317
02:23:07,520 --> 02:23:09,280
Speaker 3: they're building a wah wah And I forget where it was.

3318
02:23:09,480 --> 02:23:10,600
Speaker 3: I want to say it was the one they built

3319
02:23:10,640 --> 02:23:13,360
Speaker 3: on Lee Road and Silver Star. That thing's been there forever.

3320
02:23:13,920 --> 02:23:16,200
Speaker 6: There's one a little further their south because I was

3321
02:23:16,280 --> 02:23:18,880
Speaker 6: there for their ten year annivers Oh really, yeah, I

3322
02:23:19,560 --> 02:23:21,840
Speaker 6: got to do that. So it's been a little over

3323
02:23:21,959 --> 02:23:26,320
Speaker 6: ten years that you know, they've been around twelve thirteen years. Yeah,

3324
02:23:26,480 --> 02:23:28,840
Speaker 6: And she told me, she goes, she says, wait till

3325
02:23:28,879 --> 02:23:30,760
Speaker 6: you go into one of these things, you're not going

3326
02:23:30,879 --> 02:23:32,160
Speaker 6: to believe how good the food is.

3327
02:23:32,240 --> 02:23:34,400
Speaker 4: I literally mocked her. She goes.

3328
02:23:34,480 --> 02:23:37,040
Speaker 3: And by the way, their atm doesn't charge charges. Like

3329
02:23:37,160 --> 02:23:38,920
Speaker 3: that's another thing for them. If you go to their atm,

3330
02:23:39,000 --> 02:23:42,400
Speaker 3: there is no there can't get cash back there. So

3331
02:23:42,600 --> 02:23:44,640
Speaker 3: their atm does not charge you a fee, so you

3332
02:23:44,680 --> 02:23:46,440
Speaker 3: can get you can get money with no fee.

3333
02:23:47,959 --> 02:23:50,320
Speaker 7: I know that when people in the northeast heard that

3334
02:23:50,480 --> 02:23:52,960
Speaker 7: wahwas were opening, it was like a new Chick fil A.

3335
02:23:53,200 --> 02:23:53,400
Speaker 8: Yeah.

3336
02:23:53,640 --> 02:23:56,280
Speaker 5: People would be sleeping out in front and they're real lying.

3337
02:23:56,360 --> 02:23:56,760
Speaker 4: Oh yeah.

3338
02:23:56,800 --> 02:23:59,600
Speaker 7: Because that was a huge deal up in the northeast,

3339
02:24:00,000 --> 02:24:01,760
Speaker 7: Wahwah started moving down south.

3340
02:24:02,240 --> 02:24:04,400
Speaker 5: All of the transplants were like, yes.

3341
02:24:04,480 --> 02:24:06,120
Speaker 4: Real wah Wah. Yeah.

3342
02:24:06,160 --> 02:24:09,080
Speaker 3: And Cumberland Farms is even lower than seven eleven. But

3343
02:24:09,120 --> 02:24:11,240
Speaker 3: I think they're owned by the same company, aren't they.

3344
02:24:12,080 --> 02:24:14,320
Speaker 3: I thought seven eleven and Cumberland Farms were owned by

3345
02:24:14,360 --> 02:24:16,320
Speaker 3: the same company at Southland at one point I believe

3346
02:24:16,360 --> 02:24:19,080
Speaker 3: owned seven eleven. I don't know if they still own them. Yeah,

3347
02:24:19,360 --> 02:24:21,400
Speaker 3: I'm not using the NAP to order food at either

3348
02:24:21,440 --> 02:24:22,960
Speaker 3: one of those two joints, but I will do it

3349
02:24:23,000 --> 02:24:26,360
Speaker 3: at Wahwah. Yeah, yeah, for sure, that's crazy. Marathon is

3350
02:24:26,440 --> 02:24:28,440
Speaker 3: down there as well. Shell stations, but those are all

3351
02:24:28,480 --> 02:24:31,400
Speaker 3: like gas stations that had to kind of acclimate to

3352
02:24:32,000 --> 02:24:34,520
Speaker 3: offering some food products after the fact. I mean, they

3353
02:24:34,560 --> 02:24:37,200
Speaker 3: weren't really built on the concept of, hey, we're going

3354
02:24:37,240 --> 02:24:38,400
Speaker 3: to do both of these equally.

3355
02:24:38,680 --> 02:24:41,320
Speaker 6: Well, my first experience with convenience stores, it was just

3356
02:24:41,440 --> 02:24:45,240
Speaker 6: a convenience store. It didn't have gas. Oh really gas garden.

3357
02:24:45,640 --> 02:24:48,520
Speaker 6: It's just you know, it was a seven eleven. You

3358
02:24:48,640 --> 02:24:52,080
Speaker 6: pull in and you know, like a Garden State was

3359
02:24:52,160 --> 02:24:54,160
Speaker 6: one we used to have up there in New Jersey,

3360
02:24:54,240 --> 02:24:55,560
Speaker 6: which was the Garden State.

3361
02:24:55,800 --> 02:24:57,920
Speaker 4: Was like a convenience store. You'd go there to get

3362
02:24:57,920 --> 02:24:59,840
Speaker 4: your milk or or whatever. Ice.

3363
02:25:00,320 --> 02:25:03,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, there was a locally owned chain up in North Florida,

3364
02:25:03,959 --> 02:25:07,640
Speaker 3: either called Handyway or Jiffy I think it's both of those,

3365
02:25:08,320 --> 02:25:09,160
Speaker 3: and it was the same thing.

3366
02:25:09,240 --> 02:25:10,240
Speaker 4: They did not have gas.

3367
02:25:10,320 --> 02:25:13,040
Speaker 3: They actually added the gas after the fact because all

3368
02:25:13,080 --> 02:25:15,960
Speaker 3: the other stores started offering gasoline and it was more

3369
02:25:16,040 --> 02:25:19,440
Speaker 3: than just a convenience store. And I also heard that

3370
02:25:19,520 --> 02:25:21,280
Speaker 3: one of the reasons while I started doing this is

3371
02:25:21,320 --> 02:25:24,560
Speaker 3: because the margin on gas is so low that even

3372
02:25:24,600 --> 02:25:26,840
Speaker 3: if you have like thirty thirty pumps or whatever, you're

3373
02:25:26,879 --> 02:25:28,720
Speaker 3: not really making as much money as you can make

3374
02:25:28,760 --> 02:25:31,080
Speaker 3: inside the store when you're selling a soda for three

3375
02:25:31,080 --> 02:25:33,080
Speaker 3: and a half dollars and it's costing you a nickel.

3376
02:25:33,400 --> 02:25:36,560
Speaker 6: So one of my early jobs as I was a

3377
02:25:36,760 --> 02:25:41,160
Speaker 6: petroleum dispersial engineer, I pump gas in New Jersey. Yeah,

3378
02:25:41,160 --> 02:25:44,040
Speaker 6: because you have to right at a golf station. But

3379
02:25:44,320 --> 02:25:46,400
Speaker 6: it was a garage, you know, it was a three

3380
02:25:46,480 --> 02:25:48,800
Speaker 6: bay garage, and you know, we were a gas station.

3381
02:25:49,400 --> 02:25:49,840
Speaker 13: That was it.

3382
02:25:50,400 --> 02:25:52,119
Speaker 4: We weren't a convenience star.

3383
02:25:52,240 --> 02:25:54,760
Speaker 6: We didn't sell anything else except I was trying to

3384
02:25:54,800 --> 02:25:56,240
Speaker 6: sell you a quota oil for your car.

3385
02:25:56,480 --> 02:25:58,840
Speaker 3: That's yeah, you were selling oil or anti freeze or

3386
02:25:58,840 --> 02:26:00,680
Speaker 3: anything like that, right wiper blades.

3387
02:26:00,760 --> 02:26:01,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, Yeah, that was it.

3388
02:26:02,360 --> 02:26:05,480
Speaker 3: It's you know, and nowadays, where do you get gas

3389
02:26:05,600 --> 02:26:07,720
Speaker 3: where it's not connected to a store where you can

3390
02:26:07,800 --> 02:26:10,320
Speaker 3: buy just about everything else. Yeah, and even the small

3391
02:26:10,400 --> 02:26:11,840
Speaker 3: stores like the one that we have up there where

3392
02:26:11,840 --> 02:26:14,560
Speaker 3: it's that little shotgun store where you walk in it

3393
02:26:14,680 --> 02:26:17,840
Speaker 3: just offers like sodas, water coffee, and it's really the footpt.

3394
02:26:17,840 --> 02:26:20,840
Speaker 3: It's really small, like even those have you know, they're

3395
02:26:20,879 --> 02:26:23,120
Speaker 3: offering that. But I remember Jack is right, there's a

3396
02:26:23,160 --> 02:26:25,000
Speaker 3: company in there called Highway Oil I think.

3397
02:26:25,480 --> 02:26:26,800
Speaker 4: And it was a full.

3398
02:26:26,640 --> 02:26:28,680
Speaker 3: Service gas station and they didn't offer you could even

3399
02:26:28,680 --> 02:26:31,320
Speaker 3: buy gum, and I had nothing else.

3400
02:26:31,520 --> 02:26:34,320
Speaker 4: Nothing. It was just gas oil and stuff for your car.

3401
02:26:34,440 --> 02:26:34,720
Speaker 4: That was it.

3402
02:26:34,840 --> 02:26:38,600
Speaker 3: It was always full service. Yeah, convenience stores have come

3403
02:26:38,760 --> 02:26:43,360
Speaker 3: a long way. Yeah, overall, Bucketing number five seventy nine

3404
02:26:43,400 --> 02:26:46,879
Speaker 3: points tiling when Midwater a Midwestern gas giant loves, which

3405
02:26:46,959 --> 02:26:48,640
Speaker 3: is kind of weird. They even throw Loves in there

3406
02:26:48,760 --> 02:26:52,560
Speaker 3: because it's I mean, it is a convenience store, gas place,

3407
02:26:52,600 --> 02:26:54,440
Speaker 3: but primarily built for truckers, is it not.

3408
02:26:55,000 --> 02:26:56,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, that and Flying Jay and Pilot.

3409
02:26:57,040 --> 02:26:59,800
Speaker 6: Yeah, but it's also I mean you could almost say

3410
02:26:59,840 --> 02:27:00,800
Speaker 6: this saying for BUCkies.

3411
02:27:01,280 --> 02:27:02,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess you could, but I mean, you know,

3412
02:27:02,879 --> 02:27:07,080
Speaker 3: it's just they got the you know, bat with showers,

3413
02:27:07,160 --> 02:27:10,800
Speaker 3: but the wall of jerky. Yeah, but they also have

3414
02:27:10,959 --> 02:27:14,560
Speaker 3: sometimes they have restaurants in them, like just you know,

3415
02:27:14,760 --> 02:27:17,240
Speaker 3: small versions of other restaurants.

3416
02:27:17,320 --> 02:27:20,800
Speaker 4: Or is pizza is seven eleven the only one that

3417
02:27:20,879 --> 02:27:24,520
Speaker 4: offers pizza, like Wawa doesn't offer pizza, do they do?

3418
02:27:24,600 --> 02:27:24,960
Speaker 5: They really?

3419
02:27:25,080 --> 02:27:25,240
Speaker 8: Yeah?

3420
02:27:25,400 --> 02:27:26,920
Speaker 3: Oh I didn't know that. I've never seen a pizza

3421
02:27:26,920 --> 02:27:29,760
Speaker 3: and woah oh we did a whole campaign on its.

3422
02:27:29,680 --> 02:27:31,760
Speaker 4: Yeah did we really? Couple years ago. I do not

3423
02:27:31,840 --> 02:27:32,200
Speaker 4: remember it.

3424
02:27:32,840 --> 02:27:35,440
Speaker 3: Even going in and getting subs. I always get their

3425
02:27:35,520 --> 02:27:37,920
Speaker 3: Italian sub is like so good, and their bread is good.

3426
02:27:38,080 --> 02:27:41,080
Speaker 6: Not every wah wah has pizza, has the pizza oven,

3427
02:27:41,240 --> 02:27:43,840
Speaker 6: but they may have changed that because they've been go

3428
02:27:43,920 --> 02:27:46,920
Speaker 6: through a process and the two around me they've just

3429
02:27:47,520 --> 02:27:50,800
Speaker 6: finished is they've been renovating them where they close the

3430
02:27:50,879 --> 02:27:53,800
Speaker 6: inside that you can still get gas, but they've changed

3431
02:27:53,959 --> 02:27:56,800
Speaker 6: the you know, the kitchen and drink area and stuff.

3432
02:27:56,840 --> 02:27:59,600
Speaker 6: So they've been like redoing these wah wahs.

3433
02:27:59,640 --> 02:28:01,200
Speaker 4: And they have soup too, right they do.

3434
02:28:01,480 --> 02:28:03,920
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I'm it's the corn chowder, baby, I'm

3435
02:28:03,959 --> 02:28:05,760
Speaker 3: gonna stopping at a soup and sandwich thing. I think

3436
02:28:05,760 --> 02:28:09,560
Speaker 3: I love their corn chowder, dude, it's so good, all right?

3437
02:28:09,600 --> 02:28:11,720
Speaker 3: Four O seven nine one six one four one text

3438
02:28:11,840 --> 02:28:13,480
Speaker 3: us at seven seven zero three one.

3439
02:28:13,440 --> 02:28:17,600
Speaker 4: Not a sponsor. They didn't sponsor this segment. Go get them, Jah,

3440
02:28:17,720 --> 02:28:18,320
Speaker 4: I just love them.

3441
02:28:18,440 --> 02:28:19,039
Speaker 5: I did I did.

3442
02:28:19,640 --> 02:28:22,119
Speaker 4: I did commercials for their pizza on this show.

3443
02:28:22,400 --> 02:28:23,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's right.

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Speaker 8: Hey guys, happy day.

3465
02:29:31,280 --> 02:29:35,560
Speaker 20: Talking about fast food prices. My fiancee and I stopped

3466
02:29:35,560 --> 02:29:37,320
Speaker 20: at Taco build the other night, it was late, we

3467
02:29:37,360 --> 02:29:40,680
Speaker 20: were hungry, didn't play cooking, bought seven items, one of

3468
02:29:40,720 --> 02:29:42,520
Speaker 20: which was chips and cheese.

3469
02:29:44,000 --> 02:29:46,119
Speaker 16: Twenty three damn dollars.

3470
02:29:46,240 --> 02:29:48,800
Speaker 20: In the bitches, I was still hungry when we got

3471
02:29:48,879 --> 02:29:51,400
Speaker 20: done eating. YEA, Luckily my fiance eats like a bird,

3472
02:29:51,440 --> 02:29:53,360
Speaker 20: so I had half of one of her things. But

3473
02:29:54,080 --> 02:29:56,320
Speaker 20: twenty three dollars for two people to leave hungry at

3474
02:29:56,360 --> 02:29:57,480
Speaker 20: Taco Bell is ridiculous.

3475
02:29:57,480 --> 02:29:58,240
Speaker 4: That is ridiculous.

3476
02:30:00,000 --> 02:30:00,440
Speaker 5: I agree.

3477
02:30:01,600 --> 02:30:03,600
Speaker 4: Welcome back to the Jim Colbert Show. We're already one

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Speaker 4: to four point one.

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Speaker 8: I'm Jim.

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Speaker 3: There's deb Hello. Jack is here as well. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 3: another keyword for you. At the top of the hour.

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Speaker 3: Jack and I like to urinate together. It happens we

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Speaker 3: do it a lot.

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Speaker 4: You did work with someone for long enough you end

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Speaker 4: up on the same cycle. Are you familiar with that?

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Speaker 5: Who looks first?

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Speaker 4: Nobody looks.

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Speaker 8: We don't need to look. We're men.

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Speaker 4: We do have good conversations there.

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Speaker 5: Your men, which means you obviously look. You got that

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Speaker 5: a little flipped around.

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Speaker 4: I do like the new watches. Worry though, thank you

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Speaker 4: appreciate that. A all right, so I want to do

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Speaker 4: this real quick before we get to news because we

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Speaker 4: didn't get it to it today and we probably won't

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Speaker 4: cover it tomorrow.

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Speaker 3: Epcot's Garden Rocks Concert. You know, this is the season,

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Speaker 3: the festivals, the concert season. So we talked about the

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Speaker 3: Sea World Ones. I was like, that's a pretty impressive lineup.

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Speaker 3: Disney's like, hold my beer real quick. The music of Abba,

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Speaker 3: which is going to be a cover band doing Abba songs,

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Speaker 3: simple plan. Remember those guys, Jack, Yes, Billy Ocean is

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Speaker 3: going to be a wow. Hermans, Hermott's thirty eight special,

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Speaker 3: Chubby Checker, Sugar Ray Information Society.

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Speaker 4: Remember those guys, Jack. I want to know.

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Speaker 3: Rick Springfield, Berlin, the Commodores Air Supply, Flock of Seagulls,

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Speaker 3: Plain White Tea's the Spinners, Queen's Rich is gonna be

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Speaker 3: there as well. I mean, it is a pretty crazy lineup. Man,

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Speaker 3: if you like music and you want to get close,

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Speaker 3: the one good thing I say one, there's a bunch

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Speaker 3: of them. But the really cool thing about a lot

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Speaker 3: of these smaller shows is you really get close.

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Speaker 8: To the artists.

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Speaker 3: So if you've been a fan of these artists and

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Speaker 3: when they were hot, you can only go to the

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Speaker 3: big arena shows and not get close. This allows you

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Speaker 3: to pay way less and get real close. And they

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Speaker 3: mix these shows perfectly. By the way, the sound systems

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Speaker 3: at these parts are as good as touring sound systems.

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Speaker 3: So you're gonna see them in their full regalia.

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Speaker 5: Nothing says Disney to me like Queen's right.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, man, yeah, yeah, yeah man. It's some cool stuff.

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Speaker 6: White the lineup from all three Disney Universal and see

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Speaker 6: what unbelievable this year.

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Speaker 4: They're saying, here's something to listen though.

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Speaker 3: Listen to this Eighties run right here, Rick Springfield, Berlin,

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Speaker 3: the Commodores. Yeah, like boom boom boom, three weeks in

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Speaker 3: a row. You can really live your entire eighties life

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Speaker 3: right there.

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Speaker 5: And still be home by ten, and.

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Speaker 4: Still be home by ten. You're right, Yeah, Sugar Ray

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Speaker 4: would be a good show.

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Speaker 3: They got a lot of good songs, and back when

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Speaker 3: they were like a punk man, I wonderf they're gonna

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Speaker 3: do any of that stuff like I mean.

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Speaker 4: They used to have.

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Speaker 3: I mean they were really hard before they kind of

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Speaker 3: turned pop and started doing Disney tunes. Firehouse is going

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Speaker 3: to be there as well. Very cool, all right, four

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Speaker 3: seven nine one six four one dead.

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Speaker 4: Let's get some news.

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Speaker 1: Good time for You heard it here first on The

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Speaker 1: Jim Colbert Show.

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Speaker 7: Former Uvaldi, Texas school police officer Adrian Gonzalez has been

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Speaker 7: found not guilty of failing to protect students during the

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Speaker 7: deadly twenty twenty two mass shooting at rob Elementary School.

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Speaker 5: Brett Cross, who's.

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Speaker 7: Ten year old son died in the shooting, says the

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Speaker 7: verdict is a slap in the face to families.

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Speaker 19: I thought, for us, that's with a second, maybe maybe

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Speaker 19: we might have just a little little bit of justice,

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Speaker 19: maybe just a touch of accountability.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but that went away is as fast as a.

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Speaker 7: Game now it In all, the shooting left nineteen students

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Speaker 7: and two teachers dead. Yesterday's verdict followed about seven hours

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Speaker 7: of jury deliberations, capping a two week trial.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I mean, he wonted the courtroom, but we know

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Speaker 4: where he really lost.

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Speaker 8: Well.

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Speaker 7: You know again, the only thing I could think when

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Speaker 7: I saw this headline is why are we spending money

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Speaker 7: on school resource officers? At the end of the day,

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Speaker 7: the ones with the gun didn't stop the bad guy

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Speaker 7: with the gun. That is money our school districts can't afford.

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Speaker 4: What are you there for it?

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Speaker 5: And if at the end you're going to be acquitted.

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Speaker 5: Then why why are you there?

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Speaker 4: Unbelievable.

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Speaker 7: This is a second case. First Parkland and now you've aaldi.

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Speaker 7: I don't understand it all right. Blue Origin is starting

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Speaker 7: a satellite communications network to rival Starline.

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Speaker 5: I guess they just want to cover all the sky.

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Speaker 4: Good look.

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Speaker 7: The space company founded by Amazon's Jeff Bezos, announced that

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Speaker 7: it will deploy over fifty four hundred satellites into Earth's

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Speaker 7: orbit for a communications network that will serve data centers, businesses,

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Speaker 7: and governments. Blue Origin says the satellite deployment will begin

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Speaker 7: in the last quarter of twenty twenty seven. And get this,

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Speaker 7: the new network will have quote data speeds of up

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Speaker 7: to six terabytes per second anywhere on Earth end quote.

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Speaker 7: The Jeff Bezos network, called Tero Wave, will compete with

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Speaker 7: Elon Musk's Starlink, which currently has about ten thousand satellites.

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Speaker 4: Yeah in low Earth orbit, I mean six terabytes a second.

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Speaker 5: Wow, that sounds like almost undoable, right.

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Speaker 6: And it's so they have to be replaced, right, So

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Speaker 6: with Starlink it's ten thousand now, but since they started,

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Speaker 6: they know.

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Speaker 3: They've replaced some because they only have like an eight

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Speaker 3: year cycle or something like that, and they fall out.

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Speaker 6: Then if they now funk, then they burn up and

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Speaker 6: they so they just keep putting them out there.

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Speaker 4: It's amazing to me that this is making money.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well the Starling should I mean, the subscriptions will

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Speaker 3: definitely do that. But I mean, obviously they they must

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Speaker 3: be money makers, because why would you build an entire

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Speaker 3: business and launch more against the company that's already established, right.

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Speaker 6: Or you want to be in control, to have that

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Speaker 6: level of control. Like so the power right now that

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Speaker 6: Starlink has anywhere in the world. Oh, they're fighting in

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Speaker 6: Ukraine and they cut the power. Well, now I can

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Speaker 6: give you internet. Oh yeah, how valuable. Oh my god,

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Speaker 6: get out of here to any So what a terrible

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Speaker 6: thought just to be able to provide internet to anyone

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Speaker 6: in the world at your whim.

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Speaker 4: Unbelievable.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: And the other thing too is it's you know, getting

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Speaker 7: in the way of astronomers watching out for things that

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Speaker 7: are you know, could be coming for the plant by

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Speaker 7: the time you get the download.

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Speaker 5: The whole time, exactly, all right.

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Speaker 7: Sterling Heights, Michigan City Leader are approving a program to

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Speaker 7: use drones as first responders Sterling Heights Police Captain Mario

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Speaker 7: Bastianelli says they'll be able to send a drone to

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Speaker 7: the location of an emergency to use the cameras as

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Speaker 7: an eye in the sky. So City Council approved the

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Speaker 7: five years, six hundred seventy nine thousand dollars program. They're

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Speaker 7: going to have three drone docking stations throughout the city

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Speaker 7: and an officer at the station will fly the drone

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Speaker 7: from a computer depending on where the emergency is.

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Speaker 5: Wow, and you heard it here first on the Jim

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Speaker 5: Colbert Show.

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Speaker 15: Chat?

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Speaker 4: Thank you guys appreciate that very much.

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Speaker 8: Jack.

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Speaker 4: Question of the day.

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Speaker 6: Uh yeah, a little different than you asked. So I

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Speaker 6: threw up which burgers do you prefer? Because we were

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Speaker 6: talking about burgers. Yeah, time, it's fine, okay, McDonald's, Burger King,

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Speaker 6: Wendy's are culvers.

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Speaker 4: Oh is a clear winner, win a clear loser, and

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Speaker 4: then the other two were you know, win Wendy's.

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Speaker 6: Wendy's has twenty four percent and they tie with Burger

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Speaker 6: King Culvers.

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Speaker 4: Culver's had thirty seven percent. Yeah, it's a good burger.

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Speaker 4: Donald's last place at sixteen.

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Speaker 9: Wow.

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Speaker 4: Yeahs a great burger.

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Speaker 5: It is all right.

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Speaker 3: Coming up tomorrow, we'll have a sinker sale Embers only,

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Speaker 3: see what else we're doing tomorrow. Pick the porn tomorrow

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Speaker 3: the morning after us. It's tom Ya'm of the corporate time.

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Speaker 3: Love thy neighbor.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, tonight, there you go tonight at eight.

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Speaker 3: Eight o'clock and then of course our friends at real Laps.

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Speaker 3: We'll see tomorrow three for more than Jim Colbert Show.

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Speaker 3: Until then, enjoy yourself on a Thursday evening.

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Speaker 5: Have a great night.

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