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Speaker 1: In myheart radio station WFLZ, Tampa Bay. This is the

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Speaker 1: joshaw on ninety three three FLZ. All right, let me

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Speaker 1: just reset the scene right now. This started with a

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Speaker 1: story that I saw that was kind of interesting. So

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Speaker 1: I'm getting married. And when I say whenever I see

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Speaker 1: wedding stories, now I read them. And this one couple

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Speaker 1: waited until their wedding to have their first kiss. You

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Speaker 1: hear about people waiting for other things. But the first

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Speaker 1: kiss nineteen months they were together and they're happy. They

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Speaker 1: like it. Of course, social media is hating on them.

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Speaker 1: But other than that, I mean, listen, at the end

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Speaker 1: of the day, you and your significant other, that's all

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Speaker 1: that matters. Then things took a turn, as they normally

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Speaker 1: do when Jed and Ashley talk to each other. Jed,

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Speaker 1: can you say a couple of things real quick? Hi,

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Speaker 1: I'm on the show, but I did not speak for

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Speaker 1: anybody on ninety three three FLS. You don't have to

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Speaker 1: say all that. I just want people to know that

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Speaker 1: that's not my voice. That's Jed. I'm Joe. Hey, what

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Speaker 1: up though? All right, so what exactly happened? Ashley? Can

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Speaker 1: you now set the stage because I don't even know

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Speaker 1: how it got into.

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Speaker 2: This, Uh, because well you brought up the topic and

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Speaker 2: I've said a friend waited to bake cookies with his wife,

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Speaker 2: and he had been baking cookies. She didn't have an

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Speaker 2: issue that he had a past of, you know, doing

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Speaker 2: his thing.

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Speaker 1: She waited, She was fine.

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Speaker 2: Jed thinks thinks it's an issue to have to bake

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Speaker 2: cookies and then have someone wait until marriage to bake

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Speaker 2: cookies with the next person.

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Speaker 3: I somewhat kind of got the point of it. My

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Speaker 3: point is, you can't put up a guardrail after you've

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Speaker 3: already baked cookies with me. No, you can't put a

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Speaker 3: guardrail up after you've already baked cookies. And I mean

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Speaker 3: it's like the toothpaste is already out of the tube.

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Speaker 3: You can't put it back in. You want to make

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Speaker 3: me wait, but you didn't make other people wait, and

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Speaker 3: you want to marry I was at.

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Speaker 2: A different point in my life.

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Speaker 1: That's what they're saying. Jordan. You are a woman, and

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Speaker 1: you agree with Jed.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well halfway. I did at first, but when you

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Speaker 4: guys were just talking about it, I might have like

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Speaker 4: a little bit of a disagreeance. I agree that like

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Speaker 4: once the two cases out of the tube. As Judges said,

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Speaker 4: it's already out there. But if your partner is someone

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Speaker 4: who has not baked cookies yet and wants to wait,

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Speaker 4: then out of respect for them, I understand like that stance.

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Speaker 4: But like if there's two people who just decide that

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Speaker 4: they just want to wait, so if both of them

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Speaker 4: have already baked cookies, then that doesn't make sense.

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Speaker 1: Okay, And I think that that's the main conversation that

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Speaker 1: we should have right now, because Jordan, and thank you

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Speaker 1: for saying it. Unfortunately, in a world where we probably

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Speaker 1: do have to say that, we can't really say obviously,

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Speaker 1: but to me and I think most sane people like you,

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Speaker 1: Jordan and Ashley and even Jet as well, obviously, if

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Speaker 1: someone doesn't want to do it, you don't do it,

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Speaker 1: you respect it and all of that, unless, of course,

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Speaker 1: your jet Jet doesn't respect it. It's very evident. I

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Speaker 1: can't stand it. Jordan. No, so you're saying you've already

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Speaker 1: done it? Why you? Why you? Yeah? I don't see,

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Speaker 1: I mean, Iver, Yeah, that's essentially what Chelsea.

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Speaker 5: You're on.

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Speaker 6: Jed side, Yes, I am.

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Speaker 1: I do believe that if you know.

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Speaker 6: For me personally, if I had bake cookies previously with

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Speaker 6: you know, other people, and then got with my husband

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Speaker 6: and then you know, we can't make cookies. Sorry, that

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Speaker 6: would be why are you punishing that person who you

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Speaker 6: are intending to marry?

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Speaker 2: Why punishment to just why do you think it's not

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Speaker 2: a punishment. I don't think it's a punishment to not

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Speaker 2: want to give up my body. There are other ways

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Speaker 2: that you could be intimate with a person rather than

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Speaker 2: baking cookies.

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Speaker 1: In the fact that I don't have.

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Speaker 2: To say, but the fact that people are calling it

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Speaker 2: a punishment because you can't make cookies, that.

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Speaker 1: Is crazy to me. But also I was going to say, Joe,

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Speaker 1: sorry to cut you off.

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Speaker 2: Maybe sex just isn't that important to me, where I'm

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Speaker 2: just like, it's I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it.

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Speaker 3: But then it goes so excited that it goes back

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Speaker 3: to Ashley's point with her friend that she talked about,

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Speaker 3: imagine not knowing what it's like, and then all of

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Speaker 3: a sudden you get up to the altar, you get

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Speaker 3: back and it's bad. Well, you never gave me that opportunity,

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Speaker 3: even though you already are like, I'm celibate, and you

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Speaker 3: slept with other people.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Chelsea. John is on Ashley's side.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I think it's a good thing to actually have

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Speaker 7: the choice to be selibate only because you might find

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Speaker 7: that one person that's specialty, that has that special connection,

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Speaker 7: and just having that special connection is just enough to

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Speaker 7: be celibate. And if she chooses to be celibate as well,

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Speaker 7: same thing to the guy. If I decided that this

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Speaker 7: is a special person, it's if I want to wait

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Speaker 7: until we get married.

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Speaker 1: It's just a special connection. And let's not talk like

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Speaker 1: can we talk about regret? What have you slept with someone?

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Speaker 2: You regretting and now you don't want to sleep with anybody, which.

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Speaker 1: By the way, which is so crazy. Thank you John.

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Speaker 1: Michelle says, what you can't make a mistake, right? Hello, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: go ahead.

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Speaker 8: Hi, Yeah, that's what I was saying, Like people make mistakes.

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Speaker 8: They sleep with people that or they they bake cookies

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Speaker 8: with people that you know, got what they wanted and left,

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Speaker 8: or they realized they weren't the ones and it was bad.

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Speaker 8: So now they can't, you know, decide with somebody else,

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Speaker 8: like I want to wait to make sure that you're

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Speaker 8: a good fit for me, and you're not gonna just leave.

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Speaker 1: Guys. Mmm, you two are way too quiet that No.

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Speaker 3: No, because no matter what, Joe, no matter how we

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Speaker 3: spend this conversation, people are gonna look at me and

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Speaker 3: they're gonna say, do.

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Speaker 1: You know how many people.

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Speaker 3: But a lot of people go, well, it's been kind

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Speaker 3: of split. It's been right down the middle. My point

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Speaker 3: is I don't want to be looked at like I'm

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Speaker 3: a key man woman hater and I'm not. I love women.

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Speaker 3: I think women are awesome when they touch it. No,

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Speaker 3: all right, one last one, Murrie take it away.

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Speaker 5: Hey, Jaed, Hey Joey. I think this had I think

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Speaker 5: this has a lot more to do with a level

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Speaker 5: of maturity. When you're nineteen years old and just starting

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Speaker 5: to go to college and having a good time, I

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Speaker 5: think you don't really have the same sexual maturity and

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Speaker 5: so you might have baked cookies a few times. But

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Speaker 5: then you get a grow up and you get older

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Speaker 5: and you get a job, and you know, you have

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Speaker 5: more respect for yourself. So yeah, you know, you could

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Speaker 5: meet someone when you're twenty eight and say, hey, you know,

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Speaker 5: i'm a little a little bit more conservative now than

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Speaker 5: I was when I was nineteen, So you know. The

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Speaker 5: store's closed right now until I find the right person

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Speaker 5: right exactly exactly.

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Speaker 2: If you wants girls that are just give it away.

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Speaker 5: Maybe Jed has just not reached that level of maturity yet.

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Speaker 1: Oh sorry, Jed, that's okay, Marie, thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: Let's get into the news, guys. You guys are crazy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let's get into it.

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Speaker 1: You guys are crazy. All I'm going to say is

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Speaker 1: I'm not always right, but I'm never on