1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: What we're going to do right now is this is 2 00:00:03,760 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 1: for ladies. Okay, hye, ladies, lovey ladies eight and four 3 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 1: ninety three ladies call in and let's talk about the 4 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:18,160 Speaker 1: bare minimum for men on a first date. I mean, 5 00:00:18,200 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 1: talk to me, Ashley, how did you compile this list? 6 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 1: What's going on with them? 7 00:00:22,640 --> 00:00:24,920 Speaker 2: So there was a woman in New York City and 8 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 2: everybody was talking about going out on a first date 9 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 2: and how guys just always drop the ball. So she 10 00:00:30,080 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 2: decided to come up with the seven rules that guys 11 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:33,839 Speaker 2: need to follow. 12 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 3: On the first date. And some of these are just 13 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:35,760 Speaker 3: common sense. 14 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:37,839 Speaker 2: So the fact that there are men out here not 15 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:40,159 Speaker 2: doing the basics, it's just like, come on, and these 16 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:42,120 Speaker 2: are just a bare minimum real quick. 17 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:43,839 Speaker 1: What I want to do is I want you to 18 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 1: go through the list, okay, and then I want to 19 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:50,919 Speaker 1: know does Katie agree with it? And I also want 20 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:56,160 Speaker 1: to know does Jed do it? Go ahead? 21 00:00:56,360 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 2: Number one, pay the bill. If you split the bill, 22 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:02,319 Speaker 2: you are a terrible part something. Absolutely If the guy 23 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 2: is in paying, that's just like done. Has that happened 24 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:08,120 Speaker 2: where you've gone on a date and they did not know? 25 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:11,320 Speaker 1: Right? I've never gone on a date and felt comfortable 26 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 1: enough to split with my fiance. It took it took 27 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 1: years to feel comfortable going out and like having her. 28 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 1: There's something like a masculating about it. It is, but 29 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:26,600 Speaker 1: now it's like like I don't do the math. So 30 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 1: even if I'm paying, my fiance ends with the bill 31 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 1: because she does the math. I'm not good at math. 32 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:37,320 Speaker 4: Well, I think that, Uh, if the date did not 33 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 4: go as planned, I think it's perfectly okay to go Dutch. 34 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:41,959 Speaker 1: How do you get how do you get him to 35 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:42,200 Speaker 1: do that? 36 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:43,040 Speaker 5: Uh? 37 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:46,320 Speaker 4: Well, here's what you do, Joe. When the waiter or 38 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:49,400 Speaker 4: waitress comes to your table after everything is said and done, 39 00:01:49,800 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 4: and they say, how would you like your check today, 40 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 4: the man should go up raise his hand. Well, we're 41 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 4: gonna split it that if it was a bad If 42 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 4: it was a bad date, Ashley, that is a perfect 43 00:02:02,080 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 4: mine in the sand that I don't want to see 44 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 4: you again. And then it's it kind of gives them 45 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:08,239 Speaker 4: the idea that I don't want to see you. 46 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:10,959 Speaker 3: Damn all right? Number two, open the door. She should 47 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 3: never test the door. 48 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 1: Yes, I would agree with that. Do you do you 49 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 1: laugh there because you don't believe them? Why? 50 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 2: Because we've been out multiple places with other women, and 51 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 2: Joe does over the door, and Joe will just walk intimes. 52 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:29,079 Speaker 1: I've never I've never been. 53 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 3: Taken the door opener the third one. Let her order first, 54 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:34,679 Speaker 3: Sean case. 55 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:37,640 Speaker 4: I disagree with that because I mean, just in my 56 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 4: personal experience, Ashley. 57 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 1: Let her first. 58 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 3: I'm split on that. 59 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 5: I think that it is more polite let the lady 60 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 5: order first, but it is kind of old school, so 61 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:54,520 Speaker 5: maybe people aren't really thinking of it. And sometimes I 62 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:55,960 Speaker 5: don't even know what I want yet, so I'll be like, 63 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 5: you go, that's acceptable, Okay. 64 00:02:58,320 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 4: Thank you. 65 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 1: That's tough. That is tough, and I feel bad for 66 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 1: the ladies. I don't know what I want when the 67 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:06,840 Speaker 1: waiters asking me. 68 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 3: What I want, the pressure on her. 69 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 1: I want to go last every time, So there might 70 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:12,520 Speaker 1: even be something in the back of my head going, 71 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:14,760 Speaker 1: is it more gentleman the go first, like give them 72 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:16,600 Speaker 1: more time? I don't know. Do you do that? 73 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:20,360 Speaker 4: I will, I'll order first, And it's because of what 74 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 4: you just said, Joe. Women don't know what they want 75 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 4: when you go out with them. 76 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:27,400 Speaker 1: Sometimes. Can I be rude and cut you off? Yes, yes, 77 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:30,239 Speaker 1: you're right. Jed does this one thing that is very 78 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:33,280 Speaker 1: very very strange. Jed will order for the table. 79 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 3: I was gonna say sometimes he just orders for everybody. 80 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 1: Do you do that on dates? 81 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 2: Uh? 82 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 1: Oh God? I have been on like a first date, 83 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:44,120 Speaker 1: so I couldn't tell you in months. I mean I 84 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 1: could tell you what my dates were like years ago. 85 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 1: What do you mean I do? It depends on the 86 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 1: Just move. 87 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 3: On, okay. 88 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 2: The next one is offer to walk her home to 89 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 2: her car to the uber to prove you're not a 90 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 2: huge whissy. 91 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 1: I'm like, it's Katie, Katie, let Katie go. 92 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 5: I say yes because it is twenty twenty six and 93 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 5: people are crazy, so you have to care for her 94 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:10,120 Speaker 5: safety and walk her where she needs to be. 95 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 1: Can I tell you why you gotta do? That's where 96 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 1: you kiss, That's where you did the Kiss's right aboo, but. 97 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:17,719 Speaker 3: You ain't walk out into the gardens. 98 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:26,000 Speaker 2: Another one is do not mention your ex, your situationship 99 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:27,599 Speaker 2: or you're talking. 100 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 3: To Absolutely not. 101 00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:32,800 Speaker 1: That is like so so terrible crazy. Yeah if they 102 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 1: bring it up, No, but I'm serious, Ashley. 103 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 4: If you're on a first date and somebody brings up 104 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:39,720 Speaker 4: like how things ended with your ex. 105 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:41,160 Speaker 3: Uh huh, you can say I don't want to talk 106 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 3: about it. 107 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 5: Yeah. 108 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:45,839 Speaker 4: But because if this is somebody that you're fancying on 109 00:04:45,880 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 4: the first date and you're feeling comfortable enough with them, 110 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:51,279 Speaker 4: I don't see a problem with being somewhat honest with them, right. 111 00:04:51,520 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 2: Another one is if you're sitting in a booth, you 112 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 2: let her sit on the inside. 113 00:04:56,480 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 1: Yes, same side, seating on this same. 114 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 5: You're okay, the opposite side, right on the inside, same 115 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 5: side sitter, Sean and I do it all the time, 116 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 5: but I'm the same. If you are a same side sitter, 117 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:11,039 Speaker 5: let her be in the outside. 118 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 3: She wants to be in the inside. On the inside, Yeah, 119 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:14,239 Speaker 3: on the inside. 120 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 5: I have a teeny weeny bladder the bathroom. 121 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:21,719 Speaker 1: How about this? If you sit at a table, well 122 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:24,760 Speaker 1: add this one too. What do you do then? If 123 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 1: you sit at a table and it's a seat, and 124 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 1: then the booth both sides like it's and it's a 125 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:32,839 Speaker 1: one person table. You've seen the one the really skin 126 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 1: who gets the booth? The girl the lady, lady? 127 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:38,720 Speaker 2: Okay, And last one, all I'm gonna say is the 128 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:40,360 Speaker 2: side sidewalk rule. 129 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:42,799 Speaker 3: If you don't know what it is, you're a terrible human. 130 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:43,479 Speaker 1: Okay. 131 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 5: So I get yelled at about this all the time. 132 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:47,479 Speaker 5: Sean will not let me walk on the side of 133 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 5: the street. He will literally pick me up and move 134 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 5: me to the inside. 135 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 1: It's really big with my great papa. He like made 136 00:05:54,480 --> 00:06:02,600 Speaker 1: sure that all the shields men you got, you got to, 137 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 1: you got to and then and then what really will impressive? Actually, 138 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 1: I got two ladies in here. They can tell me 139 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 1: if it's true or not. But when you make the 140 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:13,640 Speaker 1: switch and you have them walk around you so that 141 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:15,599 Speaker 1: you are blocking it and you kind of like switch 142 00:06:15,640 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 1: with the hands and everything turn on. Yeah, I guess 143 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 1: miss is not turning the ladies on, Ashley, he turning 144 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:23,640 Speaker 1: me in. 145 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:27,160 Speaker 2: Well, Jed, you got I'm gonna sing you this list 146 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 2: and please stick to it. 147 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:29,719 Speaker 3: For the remainder of the year. 148 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:36,279 Speaker 1: Oh god, don't split the bill. Don't split the bill. 149 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:38,479 Speaker 1: One last thing and I just looked at the time, 150 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 1: So we're gonna have to move on pretty quick. But 151 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 1: Julia brings up a great point. She would like to 152 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 1: pitch Jed's New Year's resolution. 153 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 5: Yes, this is this needs to be just New Year's Revolution, 154 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:51,160 Speaker 5: because I cannot go through this list and hear this 155 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:53,160 Speaker 5: man say all the things he says one more time 156 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 5: for the rest of the year. 157 00:06:54,240 --> 00:06:56,680 Speaker 3: I want Jed to find himself. I want Jed to 158 00:06:56,680 --> 00:06:58,200 Speaker 3: get rid of the three percent. Man. 159 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:00,240 Speaker 1: I want to man. 160 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 5: Man, you won't even split the tech or you know 161 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:05,719 Speaker 5: you will split the tech and you won't walk a 162 00:07:05,720 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 5: girl to her car or her uber. 163 00:07:09,760 --> 00:07:11,560 Speaker 1: But whatever, and your big at hell. 164 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 3: You're not going to protect a woman. 165 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 1: In a day where you all want equal rights. 166 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:24,600 Speaker 3: Now, that's not how you're going to find a wife. 167 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 3: I'm so sick of you. 168 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 5: There are three. 169 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:30,400 Speaker 1: This is what we're gonna do right together. Because I 170 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 1: don't like I don't like cutting off Julia because she's 171 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:35,320 Speaker 1: always got good thoughts. But this is what we're gonna 172 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 1: do right now because we need to save this for later. 173 00:07:37,240 --> 00:07:39,200 Speaker 1: There's a lot more that we can get into this, 174 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 1: so let's save it for later. Julia. We'll call you 175 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 1: when we get into it, and uh, hey, I love 176 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 1: talking to you. It's so nice to hear you. Boys. 177 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 5: I have one meeting this morning, so we'll have to 178 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 5: you know. 179 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:53,360 Speaker 1: Around that we won't do it then. We love you, 180 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:54,320 Speaker 1: Julia walk. 181 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 4: Love you guys. 182 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 5: Happy New Year. It's coming up with the news, so 183 00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 5: we have a new talent search show that's on the 184 00:08:02,760 --> 00:08:05,560 Speaker 5: way with some really big names, and it is Girl 185 00:08:05,640 --> 00:08:08,240 Speaker 5: Scout Cookie Seasons officially here with a new cookie. 186 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:10,840 Speaker 1: I can't wait. Katie Summers with the news next on 187 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 1: The Joe Show. And hey, we'll be commercial free as well.