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Speaker 1: Hi, Hannah, thanks for holding Hi. What's going on?

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Speaker 2: My situationship?

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Speaker 1: Go on?

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Speaker 3: So, the man who has told me repeatedly that he's

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Speaker 3: not ready for a relationship just introduced me to his

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Speaker 3: mom and like, not some poppin' quick FaceTime or whatever,

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Speaker 3: like just a full sit down dinner at her house.

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Speaker 2: She hugged me and like asked me how he and

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Speaker 2: I met, and showed me his baby pictures and I

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Speaker 2: was like, ma'am, I don't even know your.

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Speaker 3: Son's middle name. Like he told me that was too

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Speaker 3: serious for me to know.

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Speaker 4: So what's about that?

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Speaker 2: How does he explain that the intro?

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Speaker 4: I agree?

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Speaker 2: I just like what was going on?

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Speaker 4: And then after all that.

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Speaker 2: He dropped me off and he goes, okay, just so

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Speaker 2: we're all the same page.

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Speaker 1: I'm not looking for anything serious.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, sir, h well, so I mean her mom like,

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Speaker 4: is that a casual Tuesday?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 4: Maybe mom didn't get the note that this was just

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Speaker 4: a casual situationship and she was just you know, approaching you,

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Speaker 4: like if you came around the house, then he must

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Speaker 4: be serious about you.

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Speaker 3: I feel like you shouldn't bring your casual situationship to

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Speaker 3: meet your mom home anywhere.

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Speaker 4: Let me tell you.

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Speaker 1: Listen, let me tell you as a guy that I

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Speaker 1: never introduced to anybody to my mom. So this is

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Speaker 1: what I think that he's doing. So he's like, Mom,

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Speaker 1: I really like this girl. I want to bring her by.

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Speaker 1: I want you to meet her. Okay. Then he's telling

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Speaker 1: you I don't want anything. I don't want a relationship,

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Speaker 1: but you know we're casually dating. Then he wants to

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Speaker 1: see what mom says, and if Mom says you're amazing,

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Speaker 1: then he will follow up and be like, oh, wow,

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Speaker 1: hey this is great. But instead it sounds like Mom

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Speaker 1: didn't like you.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 2: I was thinking a totally different route. I was thinking, like,

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Speaker 2: his mom's been pressuring him to have someone in his life,

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Speaker 2: and he's saying, I do I do. She doesn't believe him.

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Speaker 2: She's like, let me meet her. Right that he brings

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Speaker 2: about to satisfied mom, but then reminds you, hey, this

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Speaker 2: is just appeasing my mom.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 1: So what's interesting about the two different dilemmas yours and

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Speaker 1: mine is mine? I think comes from the perspective of

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Speaker 1: a very close relationship with mom. I want my mom

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Speaker 1: to see this girl to tell me if you like her.

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Speaker 3: Or not.

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Speaker 1: The other way is kind of like you're lying the mom.

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Speaker 2: You're lying them all right, yeah, because mom's put too

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Speaker 2: much tresh off.

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Speaker 1: Mine's coming from a really good place relationship with my

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Speaker 1: mom where I want my mom to check this girl out,

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Speaker 1: what do you think? And I'm telling the girl I'm

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Speaker 1: keeping her arm's length in case my mom says.

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Speaker 4: Ah, she's disgusting, she's grossed.

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Speaker 1: My god, Billy slept but the five times and I'd

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Speaker 1: be like, oh, hey, because then what did he say

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Speaker 1: to you.

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Speaker 2: At the end, just so we're clear and on the

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Speaker 2: same stage, I'm not looking.

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Speaker 3: For Mom gave him the whole like that totally sucks

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Speaker 3: for Hannah because even if Mom didn't like her, now

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Speaker 3: she's under the impression that, oh, I just met your mom,

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Speaker 3: Like that's mixed signals.

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Speaker 1: But he's not because he said he also said, just

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Speaker 1: so we're clear. So he was very clear with just

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Speaker 1: so we're clear.

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Speaker 3: Say that before you go meet mom and let her

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Speaker 3: have the offiction. I think that he sent her up

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Speaker 3: for failure either way, whether Mom liked.

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Speaker 4: Her or did it.

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Speaker 1: There's lots of relationship tests that people put each other through.

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Speaker 1: I remember back in the day it used to be

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Speaker 1: unlocking the door. You let a girl in the car,

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Speaker 1: you open the door for her, and she's supposed to

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Speaker 1: unlock your door. If she does that, you're like, this

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Speaker 1: is a good girl.

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Speaker 4: Meet your dog. If the dog doesn't like you, then

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Speaker 4: you're out all kinds of texts. This is a mom

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Speaker 4: test test.

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Speaker 3: There you go.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, we'll find you a new guy.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I know I'm a catch. It's all good.

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Speaker 4: I know you are.

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Speaker 1: Thanks, Hannah. If you have a relationship test, text us

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Speaker 1: text JJR whatever that test is, and we'll put you

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Speaker 1: on there. We'll go through it. It's John Jay and

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Speaker 1: Rich TFM text JJR whatever that test is. To nine

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Speaker 1: six eight ninety three