Speaker 1: Smo Joe in the morning.
Speaker 2: So on the We Don't podcast I do with Chelsea
Speaker 2: this week, we talked about how I'm doing on giving
Speaker 2: Chelsea my undivided attention. It got very real about Chelsea
Speaker 2: feeling like she is second to a lot of things
Speaker 2: in her life when it comes to me, and it
Speaker 2: talks about how there's many times, in matter of fact,
Speaker 2: a very you know majority of the times she feels
Speaker 2: underappreciated by me because I focus on work and I
Speaker 2: focus on, you know, things going on that are not necessary,
Speaker 2: like I take her for granted. And I think we
Speaker 2: all do this in our relationship. We know that the
Speaker 2: ones that we love and that love us will be
Speaker 2: there for us. We'll put up with the most, and honestly,
Speaker 2: it's not fair and I get it and I feel
Speaker 2: horrible about it. So long story short, if you go
Speaker 2: listen to that podcast, it gets really amazing because I
Speaker 2: cannot believe the response that we got. We got a
Speaker 2: ton of people reaching out yesterday talking about how they
Speaker 2: could relate to it. So last night I said to Chelse,
Speaker 2: I go, hey, what do you want to do? And
Speaker 2: she goes, Hey, let's get together and let's do something good.
Speaker 2: Like just the two of us get away from the
Speaker 2: house for a few hours. Said okay, perfect. So we
Speaker 2: decided that we were going to go out and we
Speaker 2: were going to go to eat. So we go to eat,
Speaker 2: and I don't know if this ever happens to you.
Speaker 2: Have you ever been out to eat where you wanted
Speaker 2: to have one on one time with somebody, either you
Speaker 2: were on a date or you were with like, you know,
Speaker 2: a family member or whoever, and you constantly were getting
Speaker 2: interrupted by the people that worked at the restaurant.
Speaker 1: Have you ever had that happen to like, leave me
Speaker 1: the hell alone.
Speaker 2: So we were on the date and the people at
Speaker 2: the restaurant were really awesome, but it was our time together.
Speaker 2: I put my phone literally away, I turned it off.
Speaker 2: I didn't have it out at all. She had hers away.
Speaker 2: We're just there talking and every time we'd get into
Speaker 2: a conversation, the waitress would come up to us. Then
Speaker 2: another person would come up to us, and it would
Speaker 2: get to a point and they started asking you how
Speaker 2: you're doing, what's going on? You know, which is all
Speaker 2: stuff that I normally would like if it was just
Speaker 2: a regular date and not a specific date where we're
Speaker 2: going to try to spend time together.
Speaker 3: Were they talking to you because they knew you were
Speaker 3: mojo or they were just being social?
Speaker 2: A couple of people just talked because they knew and
Speaker 2: then a couple of people came up because they knew
Speaker 2: that it was you know, they were I think they
Speaker 2: were just being friendly, okay, and that's just how they
Speaker 2: do it. But you notice it more absolutely when you're
Speaker 2: in a situation where you're trying to actually spend time together.
Speaker 4: If it is someone you know, a waiter or a waitress,
Speaker 4: is it bad form to like acknowledge why you're there
Speaker 4: and if they could please like give you a little time.
Speaker 1: See, I don't know why I can't do that.
Speaker 2: I can't die, even though that is the right thing
Speaker 2: to do, and like you want to do that, I
Speaker 2: just can't.
Speaker 1: Like it's not coming out. I could not say to them, hey,
Speaker 1: we're on a date and we are.
Speaker 2: I wanted to say, hey, we did a podcast talking
Speaker 2: about spending time together. No, you know what I mean,
Speaker 2: and I would I couldn't do it, Like I am
Speaker 2: not a confrontational person, and so I kind of just
Speaker 2: let it go.
Speaker 1: And I looked over at Chelsea at one.
Speaker 2: Point and I think she was kind of like, Okay,
Speaker 2: well this is really not as good as it was
Speaker 2: last week when we went out. And we went out
Speaker 2: last week on a date, it was awesome. This staff
Speaker 2: kind of like was awesome, Like they took our order,
Speaker 2: they brought our order, we paid the bill. We didn't
Speaker 2: see them at all the whole time, and they sat
Speaker 2: us in a it was kind of an empty restaurant,
Speaker 2: so they sat us in a corner of the restaurant
Speaker 2: where literally nobody was around us. So this time we're
Speaker 2: there and there's a ton of people. You know, there's
Speaker 2: a lot of people like, hey, what'd your order?
Speaker 1: What's going on?
Speaker 2: I thought it was almost kind of like a comedy
Speaker 2: bit for a while. So I want to ask this question,
Speaker 2: what interrupted the date? Eight four Mojo Live eight four
Speaker 2: four six sixty five six by four eight. It can
Speaker 2: be an over zealous, talkative waiter or waitress or server,
Speaker 2: whoever it was. It could be the people that you
Speaker 2: were sitting by, you know, that were vocal. Could be
Speaker 2: the kid in the booth next to you pounding on
Speaker 2: the booth. It could honestly be like a friend or
Speaker 2: a family member that shows up. I'm the worst at this.
Speaker 2: We've had it before where we've gone out to go
Speaker 2: eat and it's specific for us just to spend time
Speaker 2: together like our anniversary, and neighbors will be there that
Speaker 2: we haven't seen it ever.
Speaker 1: They're like, oh my god, where did you guys come from?
Speaker 1: You know? And then they're like should we do?
Speaker 5: Should we together?
Speaker 1: Yes? And you don't know how to say no.
Speaker 6: Man.
Speaker 4: I remember one time I was on a date. This
Speaker 4: is like an early brunch type of vibe. We woke
Speaker 4: up early, went out, grab some food, grab some mimosas.
Speaker 4: The mimosas are are flowing. It's not the beginning of
Speaker 4: the date, but it's kind of like we're not near
Speaker 4: the inn at that point. The waiter is amazing. He's
Speaker 4: come over, he's checked on us, all these types of things.
Speaker 4: He switches out one plate, goes to grab another, and
Speaker 4: knocks my glass. The mimosas literally are spilling down my
Speaker 4: pants and I'm just sitting there looking like I'm looking
Speaker 4: at him looking at me like and he's apologetic, but
Speaker 4: I'm like, brow gott to see her with the soggy draws.
Speaker 2: The rest of the time, it ruins the whole d Yeah,
Speaker 2: what's up?
Speaker 1: Hi, Kelly, how you doing.
Speaker 5: Hi Mojo? I was telling Lydia. I think it would
Speaker 5: be great if they had like little do dot disturb
Speaker 5: signs on the table and then he wanted a drink,
Speaker 5: you could flip it over and it says need drinks
Speaker 5: or need knee napkins or something. So then it's like
Speaker 5: they come and they do your orders and then they
Speaker 5: kind of leave you alone until you say you need
Speaker 5: them to, kind of like when they have the red
Speaker 5: and green for those Mongolian.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the Brazilian steak house. Yes, Yes, that's brilliant, Kelly.
Speaker 2: That is a great idea. That's really awesome. Yeah, Kiki,
Speaker 2: what's up?
Speaker 1: Kiki?
Speaker 7: I first time, long time. So there's a brewery in
Speaker 7: Ferndale that my boyfriend and I go to all the
Speaker 7: time and it's a family friendly. But there was one
Speaker 7: time where we hadn't had a lot of like alone time,
Speaker 7: you know, life got busy.
Speaker 8: So we went out on a date.
Speaker 7: And there's kids like all throughout the brewery and this
Speaker 7: one kid kept like bouncing up a loon like right
Speaker 7: next to us, kind of kept like hitting our table
Speaker 7: things like that, and like I love kids, but like
Speaker 7: not when I'm trying to, you know, have like a date.
Speaker 4: Night after work.
Speaker 2: But yeah, that's kids can be a pain in the
Speaker 2: ass at restaurants when they're not at your table, but
Speaker 2: they practically are jumping on you, you know what I mean.
Speaker 7: Like sometimes parents use it as like, oh, we want
Speaker 7: a date night, but don't want to get a babysitter.
Speaker 1: You're the babysitter.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what's up, Mike, How you doing good?
Speaker 1: Good? What's going on?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 9: Not a lot.
Speaker 1: I was just listening to that.
Speaker 10: I listened to you guys every day.
Speaker 6: I'm a first time calling. But I was thinking about
Speaker 6: what you were saying about the loon time in the restaurant.
Speaker 6: It's a hospitality business. That's what they do, and it
Speaker 6: might not be the best place to go for a
Speaker 6: long time, just the thought.
Speaker 2: Now, I get it, and I understand that they got
Speaker 2: a business to run, But the problem is they sat
Speaker 2: there and wanted to have not a hospitality thing.
Speaker 1: They just wanted to keep on talking. You know, I
Speaker 1: get it.
Speaker 2: Well, I understand that that's nice, and I should have
Speaker 2: probably said something like Chelse would love for me. I
Speaker 2: think Chelsea would love to be married to the guy
Speaker 2: that goes Hey, excuse me. I'm trying to spend time
Speaker 2: with my wife. We'll talk at another time. Like, I
Speaker 2: think she would love if I stood up and did
Speaker 2: something like that. The problem is I am such a
Speaker 2: coward when it comes to that. It's just not my personality,
Speaker 2: you know. And I probably should have like Kevin would
Speaker 2: have done that. Maybe no, you would, Kevin would have
Speaker 2: done it in a way that would have made you go,
Speaker 2: that guy's a jerk.
Speaker 1: But I kind of like it, you know.
Speaker 3: So Kay Sinnat, who's a streamer. I've seen him streaming
Speaker 3: before and people approach him when he's eating and he'll
Speaker 3: always say, like, I appreciate it. I would love to
Speaker 3: talk to you when I'm done eating. Then we can
Speaker 3: have a conversation. We can take pictures, which I think
Speaker 3: is smart.
Speaker 2: He gets away with that being called out for that. Yeah, Kylie,
Speaker 2: what's up?
Speaker 8: Hey?
Speaker 10: Sorry?
Speaker 11: Hold on, I texted it in and I was I'm
Speaker 11: wondering if there's a way you guys can like call
Speaker 11: the restaurant before him. I don't know what restaurants you
Speaker 11: go to and ask for like a private booth or
Speaker 11: an intnet.
Speaker 1: Setting, you know what.
Speaker 2: Listen, I sat in the wrong spot. I actually we
Speaker 2: sat up against at the bar, but we did it.
Speaker 2: We did it in a way of you got just
Speaker 2: us sitting there and I could look at her, and
Speaker 2: we sat in an area where there really wasn't anybody around.
Speaker 2: But you're right, I probably should have done that. I
Speaker 2: should have said, hey, do you have like a like
Speaker 2: a private area. The problem though with that is then
Speaker 2: I think that they think we're going to do something
Speaker 2: kind of weird do each other?
Speaker 5: Do you?
Speaker 6: Now?
Speaker 2: I don't know anything with a higher table? Yeah, excuse me?
Speaker 2: Do you have like a separate room with a lock
Speaker 2: on it?
Speaker 1: Hey? Jackson, what's going on? Hey? Guys?
Speaker 5: So I was out with this girl.
Speaker 10: I was taking her out, trying to break up with her,
Speaker 10: and then the jack buad next to us decided to propose.
Speaker 2: To I don't know, wait, that's that's so funny. So
Speaker 2: you're going to break up with her, and at what
Speaker 2: point were you about to do it? When all of
Speaker 2: a sudden the thing happened with them with the engagement.
Speaker 10: Uh, the witch just comes over and should take anything else.
Speaker 10: And I was just going to be like, hey, can
Speaker 10: I get like like two separate like the goat orders
Speaker 10: that my I can't. Let's look last meal. But as
Speaker 10: she comes over, this guy just gets down. I thought
Speaker 10: he drops something and I saw him get on.
Speaker 1: His knee at Oh, so did you break up or
Speaker 1: did you wait? Oh?
Speaker 10: I had to wait till I dropped her off.
Speaker 2: Wait were you paying for the full bill? You better
Speaker 2: have paid for it? You were breaking up with her?
Speaker 10: Of course, no bad reviews out here, That's.
Speaker 1: How he was going to break up with her views. Wow,
Speaker 1: what's up star? How you doing?
Speaker 10: Okay?
Speaker 6: Good?
Speaker 8: How are you doing? Guys? So I was a server
Speaker 8: for thirty years and sometimes I could just tell when
Speaker 8: people are you know, for the conversation or they wanted
Speaker 8: to be left alone, you know. So I to go
Speaker 8: up and say, hey, you know, if you guys need something,
Speaker 8: just you know, wait to me get my attention in
Speaker 8: and I'll be happy to come over. And they absolutely
Speaker 8: love that, and I would just leave him alone.
Speaker 2: That's actually great. It's really good on your part. You
Speaker 2: understand what's going on.
Speaker 1: What's up? Geordian in? How you doing?
Speaker 8: Hi? I'm good?
Speaker 1: How are you good? The uninterrupted date?
Speaker 12: Yeah?
Speaker 9: So I was I texted in because of the person
Speaker 9: earlier saying like they do not disturb sign. They actually
Speaker 9: do that at the Bubba Gumps restaurant.
Speaker 2: I've not been to a Bubba Gumps, but I've seen
Speaker 2: a million of them. They have what do not disturb
Speaker 2: sign there, So on.
Speaker 9: Top of where they're like napkins and condiments and stuff
Speaker 9: would be, there's multiple signs and one will say like
Speaker 9: stop for a stop and it's red and.
Speaker 11: Your server will come over, or if.
Speaker 9: You're good, it says like run Forest Run.
Speaker 12: It's really cool.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's actually awesome and very creative. Run
Speaker 2: Forest Run, Chelsea, last call? What's up?
Speaker 8: Hie?
Speaker 12: So first time, long time? And one time I was
Speaker 12: at Ching's Dearborn with my fiance, say, and I guess
Speaker 12: the table behind us was also on a date, but
Speaker 12: it was the husband and his side chick, and the
Speaker 12: wife and her sister came in the middle and caused
Speaker 12: a whole scene and jumped the side chick in the
Speaker 12: restaurant and then again in the parking lot.
Speaker 2: Oh no, did they just happen upon them or they
Speaker 2: were following these guys.
Speaker 12: It seemed like they were following them because she kind
Speaker 12: of knew exactly. She came in really hot into the
Speaker 12: restaurant all hot, so it seemed like they were following them.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's funny because I wanted to go to PF
Speaker 2: Chang's yesterday. I was like, hey, let's go to PF Changs.
Speaker 2: And the last time that Chelsea went to PF Changs,
Speaker 2: it didn't sit well, so she was like not into.
Speaker 1: It at all. Yeah,