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Speaker 1: This is the Joe Show.

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Speaker 2: Ashley believes that kids are soft. She believes parents are soft.

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Speaker 2: She doesn't know who's more soft. I think that I

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Speaker 2: think that the world is soft now eight hundred four

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Speaker 2: ninety three. I suppose maybe she here Ashley talk about

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Speaker 2: why she says is before we get into it, because

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Speaker 2: seeing what you wrote, I agree with you. When I

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Speaker 2: saw this news story, I'm like, that's ridiculous. But what happened?

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Speaker 3: So there was a football player that made it. He's

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Speaker 3: not it fumbled.

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Speaker 4: Would he fumbled the ball? They could have got a

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Speaker 4: point and I could have won. I'm assuming.

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Speaker 3: Okay, let me you explained the football talk and I'll

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Speaker 3: explain why I'm upset.

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Speaker 2: All right, So there is a player who had a touchdown.

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Speaker 2: He was about to score a touchdown, and this has

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Speaker 2: happened a couple times this year already, but essentially right before,

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Speaker 2: right before he scored that touchdown, right before he crossed

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Speaker 2: the line, he celebrated too early, and he dropped the ball.

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Speaker 2: He like threw the ball, and people are so he

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Speaker 2: dropped it, But that doesn't explain it if you don't

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Speaker 2: see it.

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Speaker 1: He intentionally dropped the ball. He knew what he was doing.

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Speaker 4: He was excited.

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Speaker 2: He dropped it early, though, and that drop caused his

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Speaker 2: team to lose the game. It's it, one thousand percent

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Speaker 2: was his fault that they lost the game. Anyone and

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Speaker 2: everyone has said that he was the only thing that

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Speaker 2: sports shows were talking about the next day. It was

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Speaker 2: a massive mistake on his end.

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Speaker 3: So then you go to the sideline and his coach

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Speaker 3: obviously is upset about the miss the mishappy hat on

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Speaker 3: the field, So the coach goes up to him. He

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Speaker 3: roughs him up a little bit, just like any other

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Speaker 3: All he did was push him in the chest.

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Speaker 4: That's all he did.

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Speaker 3: Mind the guy has on pad, so you probably didn't

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Speaker 3: even feel it. And the guy, the coach is fine

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Speaker 3: one hundred thousand dollars for I mean, what did they

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Speaker 3: say it was? I just thow he was fine one

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Speaker 3: hundred thousand dollars to put in his hands on the player.

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Speaker 3: He didn't physically harm this player. Back past, yes, I

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Speaker 3: remember playing basketball. I would leave practice sometimes crying are

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Speaker 3: the games, crying because of how my coach was talking

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Speaker 3: to me. But it was tough love. I didn't feel

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Speaker 3: like she was trying to harm me. I didn't think

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Speaker 3: she was trying to belittle me. She was trying to

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Speaker 3: make me a better player and a better person. I

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Speaker 3: just think now parents they see their kids get in

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Speaker 3: tough love, or the kids get in tough love, they

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Speaker 3: go back to their parents, they complain and it is

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Speaker 3: an issue. Which is why we have so many softies

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Speaker 3: out here now.

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Speaker 1: Way too many soft yes, ultra, because.

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Speaker 3: How are you finding this coach one hundred thousand dollars

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Speaker 3: for just doing his job.

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Speaker 2: I had a football coach, you remember, coach zin Yeah,

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Speaker 2: we both have zin Zim.

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Speaker 1: Let me get one.

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Speaker 2: He would grab our remember he would grab your face

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Speaker 2: mask and he'd be like and he'd yell at you,

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Speaker 2: and then he'd go he would be fine, and you

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Speaker 2: would listen up.

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Speaker 1: He'd probably be fired.

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Speaker 3: Now yeah he would kid or my parents would go

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Speaker 3: up to him and this.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, they would have an issue.

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Speaker 2: And I'm not saying you should hit anyone in it's

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Speaker 2: up a little bit, you get ruffed up a little bit.

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Speaker 1: My parents would spank me.

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Speaker 3: I learned I will never forget get in into it

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Speaker 3: on the court at a basketball game.

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Speaker 4: And my parents didn't do nothing. They just send the

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Speaker 4: crowd and let it happen. They're like, yo, this is

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Speaker 4: her lesson.

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Speaker 2: Maybe like did you talk back? Did you show boat?

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Speaker 2: Did you do anything that you were told to do.

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Speaker 3: I just feel like a lot of kids are coddled

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Speaker 3: now and parents are just allowing it.

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Speaker 4: Not all, but a lot of them.

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Speaker 2: Now, you heard what Ashley has to say, obviously followed

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Speaker 2: by me. Jed didn't give his opinion just yet. We'll

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Speaker 2: ask him eight hundred and four on the ninety three

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Speaker 2: ninety three. I want to make this very very very

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Speaker 2: clear too. By the way, they don't beat kids up. Well,

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Speaker 2: I'm just kidding it, but what makes this clear? At

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Speaker 2: no point do I ever want this show to turn

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Speaker 2: into everyone agrees with each other. If you just heard

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Speaker 2: this and you are offended by what we just said,

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Speaker 2: you've got the oportunities to call in and share it.

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Speaker 1: We're not going to be like.

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Speaker 4: You're an idiot or any you want to hear your opinion.

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Speaker 1: But you can call us an idiot. That's okay. We've

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Speaker 1: got thick.

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Speaker 4: Skin, like going back and forth for listeners.

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Speaker 2: Kate, I love that you're going to break this down too,

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Speaker 2: by the way, because it is a complete double standard,

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Speaker 2: and I immediately thought of this person when it happened.

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Speaker 1: What did Travis Kelsey a couple of years ago?

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Speaker 5: Yes, exactly. As soon as I didn't see this. And

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Speaker 5: I'm not the most sports centric person either, Ashley, Yeah, Like,

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Speaker 5: as soon as I heard you talking about it, I'm like,

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Speaker 5: but what about Travis Kelsey a couple of years What

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Speaker 5: do you do?

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Speaker 1: He pushed his coach in the chest, he pushed.

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Speaker 3: It was not believe it because I.

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Speaker 6: Travis Kelsey, sorry to interrupt, Travis Kelsey was fine. He

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Speaker 6: was fined fifteen thousand dollars.

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Speaker 1: How much? Fifteen thousand? Why was that coach finding one

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Speaker 1: hundred thousand?

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Speaker 6: I think that well that I think. I'm not saying

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Speaker 6: the fine is the amount is fine. I'm just saying that,

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Speaker 6: you know, Travis Kelsey was fine. I don't think a

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Speaker 6: hundred thousand dollars.

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Speaker 5: Is I don't think the organization why instead of in

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Speaker 5: my opinion, being seated the next game. I couldn't believe

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Speaker 5: he put his hands.

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Speaker 4: I was disgusting.

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie that one. I was reading, you

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Speaker 3: don't put you the players. I've never touched my coach,

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Speaker 3: never touched.

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Speaker 4: Like that.

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Speaker 6: Like, it's not like he has the physical ability to keep.

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Speaker 4: Up with any of these people either.

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Speaker 1: Anna, you're a boxer.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, so if I don't, if I don't do something right,

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Speaker 7: my coach punches me on my head. Oh, I get

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Speaker 7: punched often. So I'm definitely on Ashley's side. If you

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Speaker 7: have pads on, bro, you'll be all right. You'll be

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Speaker 7: all right.

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Speaker 3: If I'm that player, I'm coming out him saying, Hey,

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Speaker 3: don't find my coach like he's just doing his job.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean in my case, in my casey, I'm

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Speaker 7: going to hit my coach back if I get the

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Speaker 7: cab because we'll fight. Yeah, I know he's gonna beat

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Speaker 7: me up. So you know it's.

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Speaker 2: Abuse is never okay, But ruling with a little bit

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Speaker 2: of fear sometimes it's not that. But also at the

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Speaker 2: same time, and Tommy's not this type of boss, but

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Speaker 2: I do respond.

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Speaker 7: Uh.

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Speaker 2: I'll never forget when I did something on the air

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Speaker 2: and I it's like, I'm gonna keep doing it, and Tommy,

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Speaker 2: uh swore at me, And I never did that thing

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Speaker 2: again because I realized Dad.

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Speaker 1: Didn't like it.

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna make Dad man on purpose. Sometimes you

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Speaker 2: kind of gotta make it a little fear in them. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you wrong with a little fear in your heart?

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Speaker 1: Marcia, are you a parent?

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Speaker 7: I am a parent, and my kid plays multi sports, right,

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Speaker 7: and she's been in sports prior to being five. She's

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Speaker 7: just turned ten. Now she cries a lot when the

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Speaker 7: coach is yell at her and whatever. But I'm like,

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Speaker 7: you're in sports, expect coaches. The coaches have expectations and

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Speaker 7: if you don't deliver the towards their expectations, they're gonna

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Speaker 7: be upset with you. If you plant the same sport,

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Speaker 7: You've got to grow some skin. These parents sit down

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Speaker 7: and through a feet when the coaches talk to their parents,

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Speaker 7: and they believe their kids are better than the coaches.

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Speaker 7: Concerns are the coaches coaching, Like, if you think you

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Speaker 7: can coach your kid, gotta take your kid off the

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Speaker 7: team and go coaching right, is the best on the team.

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Speaker 4: It's like you didn't bring your kid to practice.

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Speaker 7: Bro right, Right. So I coach my kid and people

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Speaker 7: ask me to coach their kids. I'm like, no, I said,

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Speaker 7: your kids can't manage my style of coaching, and I'm

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Speaker 7: not going to be arguing with your kid yourself. No,

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Speaker 7: I stick to coaching my kid.

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Speaker 1: That great mom, I love you, Marcia, Heather. Go ahead.

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Speaker 1: You got three kids who are football players.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, they're all in flag and their coach says on

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Speaker 8: the field, I'm your daddy. I pop them on the

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Speaker 8: butt or whatever, like pay attention.

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Speaker 4: And you're okay with that?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, because my boys definitely they need the discipline.

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Speaker 3: See there, we got great parents and Tampa baby baby,

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Speaker 3: y'all are just like rough these kids up.

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Speaker 2: Love your Heather, Love your Heather. And we're not talking

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Speaker 2: about don't hit.

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Speaker 4: Anything like that.

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Speaker 2: It's just like, hey, like you messed up. There are

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Speaker 2: punishments for being a little ale.

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Speaker 1: But all right.

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Speaker 2: I was very curious as to how that would go.

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Speaker 2: Uh and I went pretty damn well.

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Speaker 1: So cool. I thought we were running into fire. We're

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Speaker 1: going to run into a fiery building.

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Speaker 4: Allowed to touch my kid. It's like, come on,