1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:01,400 Speaker 1: Good morning, Evy. 2 00:00:02,400 --> 00:00:03,600 Speaker 2: Hey, how are you. 3 00:00:04,160 --> 00:00:06,080 Speaker 1: What's going on with you? A long time? They'll talk. 4 00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:09,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I need some help. 5 00:00:09,760 --> 00:00:11,680 Speaker 1: Okay, that's kind of our thing right now. We've been 6 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:13,039 Speaker 1: helping people with stuff. What do you need? 7 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 3: Okay? 8 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:19,400 Speaker 2: So my friend group's been tight since college. We do everything, 9 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:24,319 Speaker 2: you know, we travel together, celebrate everything together. We're we're 10 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:27,479 Speaker 2: just still very close and I'm grateful for that. But anyway, 11 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 2: one of the girls just got engaged and we were 12 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:34,319 Speaker 2: all helping her plan this cute little engagement party at 13 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:37,640 Speaker 2: her house. So the day before the party, I stopped 14 00:00:37,640 --> 00:00:43,160 Speaker 2: by their house to drop off decorations and her fiance 15 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 2: was there alone and shirtless, cleaning the kitchen. So, I mean, 16 00:00:52,800 --> 00:01:00,040 Speaker 2: totally normal until I realized that he wasn't cleaning. He 17 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:04,959 Speaker 2: it was on FaceTime with one of our other friends, 18 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:11,959 Speaker 2: like not just chatting, like full flirting mode, shirtless, and 19 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:18,320 Speaker 2: this is the day before their party. It was crazy. 20 00:01:18,400 --> 00:01:22,199 Speaker 2: He didn't see me, so I quietly left and texted 21 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 2: her best friend to figure out what to do, And 22 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:26,200 Speaker 2: by the time I got home, the group chat was 23 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 2: literally blowing up. And it turns out that he's been 24 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 2: secretly hooking up with her maid of honor. Oh yeah, 25 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 2: so now half the group is pretending that nothing happened, 26 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:40,639 Speaker 2: and the other half wants to tell her before the wedding. 27 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 2: And I'm sitting here sort of holding this information that 28 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:48,560 Speaker 2: could literally blow up the entire friend group to pieces 29 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 2: and my friend's you know, future marriage. 30 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 1: Well, there's a lot of people in this story, so 31 00:01:56,560 --> 00:01:58,560 Speaker 1: forgive me if I say something it was obvious. But 32 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:00,800 Speaker 1: is the maid of honor also in the group chat 33 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 1: in the friend chat? Yeah, so there's this whole friend 34 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 1: chat going on. How many people are in the friend chat? 35 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 2: There's like nine of us. 36 00:02:09,040 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 1: I think somehow somebody would. 37 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:12,519 Speaker 4: Eat like everyone except the bride. 38 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 5: But yeah, that makes sense if you're planning a wedding. 39 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:16,839 Speaker 5: I'm sure my bride's maids all have a group. 40 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:19,200 Speaker 1: But if there's nine people chatting and you find out 41 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 1: that one of the people in the chat is baying, 42 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 1: you would. 43 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:23,080 Speaker 5: Think somebody would go and tell them all. 44 00:02:23,160 --> 00:02:25,680 Speaker 4: Say, every single one of those nine, except for the 45 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 4: friend that's banging the fiance, are all in the same situation, 46 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 4: like how do we tell her? 47 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 1: What do we do? 48 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 4: This is about to blow everything up? Everything life as 49 00:02:33,480 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 4: you know it as a friend group. It's over after 50 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 4: this goes out, because people are going to pick sides 51 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 4: and it's gonna be so messy. 52 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:40,800 Speaker 1: You gotta make two. 53 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:43,800 Speaker 2: Friends right now already, like people are getting really mad 54 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 2: at the maid of honor, and you know she's trying, 55 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 2: of course to tell us, like it's never going to 56 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 2: happen again. Don't say anything to the bride. You know, 57 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 2: it was a mistake. 58 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 1: And she confessed to that it wasn't like their love Like, 59 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 1: it's not that it was like a time thing, two 60 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 1: time thing, ten time things. 61 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 2: Apparently if we believe her and believe them when he's 62 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:10,799 Speaker 2: doing that the day before their engagement party, is she like. 63 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 6: Pleading to the lesser charge like it was a one 64 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:13,679 Speaker 6: time thing? 65 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 7: Right? 66 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:15,640 Speaker 5: But then okay, so it's a one time thing, but 67 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:17,640 Speaker 5: you're on face time with him the day before his 68 00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:19,680 Speaker 5: engagement party, y'alls are flirting and up, it was probably 69 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 5: gonna happen again. It just was a one time thing. 70 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 5: Because you guys caught her after it was a one 71 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:23,919 Speaker 5: time thing. 72 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:26,520 Speaker 1: And he was cleaning with his shirt off. How dare 73 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:28,520 Speaker 1: what he was doing? How was he flirting? 74 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 4: Like? 75 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 1: What was he doing? Yeah? Like, what's sexy about the kitchen? 76 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 1: I don't think i'd be in the kitchen, like what 77 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:34,840 Speaker 1: was he doing, like doing the dishes And did you 78 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 1: just catch them after something happened or did you catch 79 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 1: them before? Like I would assume things were going to happen. 80 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 1: I want to get with you, but this sink's not 81 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 1: going to clean itself. 82 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't even really want to think about it. 83 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 2: I mean, I was like this innocent guystander I listen, 84 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:53,280 Speaker 2: like I just want to look out for my friend 85 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 2: and I don't know what to do. She's about to 86 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 2: marry this guy. 87 00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:59,000 Speaker 4: I feel kind of like like there's almost like a 88 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 4: power numbers, you know what I mean, Like if just 89 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 4: one of you doesn't tell her, I don't know, I 90 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 4: think that could be turned into something huge. But if 91 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 4: you're all there, then it's like maybe she feels more supported. 92 00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 4: That's a really good idea, Kyle, Like, I mean, everyone 93 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 4: except for the maid of honor, unless the maid of 94 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 4: honor wants to try to make it better and like 95 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:18,120 Speaker 4: come clean. 96 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 1: Have you guys thought about that? 97 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 7: Now? 98 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 6: You should tell her what happened, like put it on 99 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 6: her to come clean. 100 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 2: Well, it's so difficult because it really seems like half 101 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:30,040 Speaker 2: of us don't want to do that and the other 102 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 2: half of us do and so it's like, I feel like, 103 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 2: I don't know. I guess if I if I want 104 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 2: to say something, then yeah, yeah, that's good advice to 105 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 2: like maybe find even a couple other girls that were 106 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 2: willing to kind of approach her about it together. 107 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:45,760 Speaker 5: But I don't know. 108 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:46,720 Speaker 8: I mean, it's so. 109 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:49,560 Speaker 2: You don't want to get in other people's business, but 110 00:04:49,640 --> 00:04:52,279 Speaker 2: this isn't like a random goal that he's. This is 111 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 2: our other friend that he's that they're doing this. 112 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:58,160 Speaker 1: Well, it's also the honor. So that's that's the closest 113 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 1: for it. That's why that's wild. 114 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:06,119 Speaker 2: Before terrible, And I just don't want to break her heart. 115 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 3: You know. 116 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:07,919 Speaker 2: But at the same time, they're like, is she going 117 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 2: to find out she shouldn't be marrying this guy? 118 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:13,039 Speaker 6: Yeah, well she's going to tell you that. At some point. 119 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:14,800 Speaker 6: She's gonna be like, why didn't you guys tell me? 120 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 5: That's what I'm saying. If I would have married someone 121 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:18,599 Speaker 5: and all my friends knew and they didn't tell me 122 00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:20,800 Speaker 5: before I went through with it, I would be livid. 123 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 1: You would want to think if they tell the bride, 124 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 1: if they tell the bride that they that she won't 125 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 1: be made of honor anymore. 126 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 7: Yeah, I think. 127 00:05:31,720 --> 00:05:33,839 Speaker 1: She'd be like, that's it. You're just in the wedding party. 128 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 1: Somebody else likes you're my maid of honor. 129 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 6: It is kind of true, though, whenever you're the the 130 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 6: the person who brings the bad news, even though it's 131 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:44,480 Speaker 6: not your fault, at some point you lose that friendship 132 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 6: because they're embarrassed by it or whatever whatever feelings they have. 133 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 6: So if you if you ever deliver the bad news, 134 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:50,760 Speaker 6: you're going to be kind of out for the rest 135 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 6: of your life. 136 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:53,160 Speaker 4: That's why I feel if you do it with other 137 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:56,480 Speaker 4: like with your other girlfriends, it's not it's not number one, 138 00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 4: it's not all on you. And then also it's not 139 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 4: like it's like, oh, wow, everyone knows. 140 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:07,039 Speaker 1: You needed some sort of proof because be in denial. 141 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:07,880 Speaker 1: That's not true. 142 00:06:07,920 --> 00:06:11,839 Speaker 5: But if the girl admitted it, then is now the 143 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 5: group chat right or she is in the group chat 144 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:15,120 Speaker 5: asking us not to tell you. 145 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 6: It's kind of like, if you're the bride, you want 146 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:20,920 Speaker 6: you kind of want the information and maybe she will 147 00:06:20,960 --> 00:06:23,640 Speaker 6: still marry him. Maybe she'll be like, hey, listen, you 148 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 6: gotta you know whatever it is. 149 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, And I think I mean when you're telling her, 150 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:30,000 Speaker 4: you can be delicate about it, like, hey, however you 151 00:06:30,040 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 4: want to deal with this, we have your back, not 152 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:35,160 Speaker 4: like oh, you can never speak to you again. It's 153 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:38,479 Speaker 4: like demanding she do something about it is not really 154 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 4: the right way to go. But just being there to 155 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 4: support her through what's going to be a really tough 156 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:43,360 Speaker 4: time for her, I think it's the best way to go. 157 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:45,680 Speaker 1: Evie. We're going to go to the phones and get 158 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:47,600 Speaker 1: advice for you, even though I think we hit every 159 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:51,840 Speaker 1: option possible. Unless someone's been through this before. Ooh, if 160 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:54,680 Speaker 1: you've been through this before and you know of a 161 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:58,040 Speaker 1: maid of honor sleeping with the groom, Wow, that's so crazy. 162 00:06:58,080 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 1: That's so crazy is to think about it. But anyway, 163 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:02,160 Speaker 1: call us at eight seven seven nine three seven one 164 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 1: to four seven, or text us text JJR and your 165 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:08,159 Speaker 1: story to nine six eight niney three. Evie, thanks for 166 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:08,600 Speaker 1: calling in. 167 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 8: Thank you so much. 168 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:12,320 Speaker 2: I appreciate the help and buy that's. 169 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:13,800 Speaker 1: A tough one, all right, hold on the line. Thank 170 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 1: you was a ghost. Less than an hour from now, 171 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:28,080 Speaker 1: we'll probably play a minute to win it for a 172 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:32,640 Speaker 1: thousand dollars thirty minutes from now. Kate McCrae tickets right now, though, 173 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 1: everyone's kind about the evy situation. Ooh, and I hit 174 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 1: two buttons at one time. Oh, marcella high. 175 00:07:39,760 --> 00:07:41,120 Speaker 8: Hi guys, good morning. 176 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 7: Hello, Hi, you're on the air. 177 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 8: Sorry, can you hear me? 178 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 1: Yeah? I hit two buttons. I screwed things up on 179 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 1: the air. Are they I think so? Are both are 180 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 1: hear me? No, there's only one person on there because 181 00:07:52,440 --> 00:07:57,240 Speaker 1: I hit whatever. Hold on second, hold on, hold on 182 00:07:57,240 --> 00:08:00,800 Speaker 1: one second, be right there, okay, go ahead. 183 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 7: Sorry, Hi, good morning. 184 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:03,440 Speaker 8: Can you hear me? 185 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:03,960 Speaker 1: Yes? 186 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 7: Okay. 187 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 8: I am driving to work, and I heard this conversation 188 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 8: with the bridesmaid and the guy getting caught in the 189 00:08:14,680 --> 00:08:18,400 Speaker 8: kitchen cleaning up the kitchen. By the way, I love you, guys, 190 00:08:18,440 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 8: and I am enraged by this conversation that this girl 191 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:27,400 Speaker 8: is having missed you. Her group friends are contemplating whether 192 00:08:27,480 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 8: they should come clean or not. Absolutely not if I 193 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:34,360 Speaker 8: had a friend or even multiple friends like that, but 194 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:37,960 Speaker 8: are trying to keep me from walking the from not 195 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:41,559 Speaker 8: from telling me the truth. That is beast manature friends. 196 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:44,720 Speaker 8: They should definitely come clean and let this girl know 197 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:49,679 Speaker 8: to not marry this guy. This is ridiculous. Women need 198 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 8: to come together, empower women another, love each other, not 199 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:56,959 Speaker 8: throw her into the lions. Dennis say, here you go. 200 00:08:57,280 --> 00:09:00,400 Speaker 8: I didn't want to be they're a bad news marrying 201 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:02,040 Speaker 8: a cheater. Yeah, absolutely not. 202 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 1: There's a text here that says, give me the bride's number. 203 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:07,320 Speaker 1: I'll tell her right now. If nobody tells her. She 204 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:09,679 Speaker 1: has no real friends. That's what the text says. That's 205 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:10,160 Speaker 1: pretty good. 206 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 8: Yeah, well, you know, I am with the other girl. 207 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 8: I am so sorry, and my heart goes out to her. 208 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:19,520 Speaker 8: But if she has a group of friends like that, 209 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:25,320 Speaker 8: absolutely much, and then a Beyonce like that, she's much 210 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 8: better than that girlfriend. No, you deserve a man that 211 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 8: loves you that. 212 00:09:32,640 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, made sell And thank you for calling in. 213 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:39,839 Speaker 1: Thank you Justice. Good morning, Hi, good morning, Hi, you're 214 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 1: in the air. 215 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 9: Hi. I was calling about the bridesmaid and the Beyonce situation. 216 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 9: And I've been in situations like that before they weren't 217 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:56,760 Speaker 9: technically getting married, but where I've had to tell very 218 00:09:56,800 --> 00:10:02,560 Speaker 9: close friends of mine about their boyfriends cheating on them. 219 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:03,839 Speaker 2: And in my. 220 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:06,839 Speaker 10: Opinion, it's always better to tell your friend the truth. 221 00:10:06,880 --> 00:10:10,840 Speaker 10: If you're a true, honest friend, you will always tell 222 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:13,760 Speaker 10: your friends the truth. Even even if it's something that 223 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:18,560 Speaker 10: hurts them, and anyone that is debating on not telling 224 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:23,160 Speaker 10: her is not a true friend, especially when it's someone 225 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 10: she's about to marry, like she has every right to 226 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:28,840 Speaker 10: know the truth because marriage is something you spend your 227 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:32,079 Speaker 10: life with someone and you don't want that coming out 228 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 10: later on and questioning everything in between. 229 00:10:36,360 --> 00:10:39,560 Speaker 1: Very good justice, Thank you for listening, Thanks for your passion. Mandy, 230 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:43,160 Speaker 1: good morning, Hi, good morning. 231 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:46,880 Speaker 3: During Yeah, I couldn't agree more with everyone else with cling. 232 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:49,439 Speaker 3: I mean, I don't even understand why it's up for 233 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:52,080 Speaker 3: debate to be honest, I mean, to even call in 234 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:54,360 Speaker 3: and ask for advice. It's like, I think the obvious thing, 235 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 3: it's obvious, what's the right thing to do is And 236 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:03,199 Speaker 3: to allow the girl responsible for this to stand next 237 00:11:03,240 --> 00:11:05,320 Speaker 3: to her and while she says I do, would just 238 00:11:05,360 --> 00:11:08,560 Speaker 3: be so immoral, and I don't understand why they would 239 00:11:08,559 --> 00:11:09,240 Speaker 3: even debate that. 240 00:11:10,559 --> 00:11:13,480 Speaker 1: It's a good point, Mandy, good point. Let me ask 241 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:17,200 Speaker 1: you this so many many years ago, right out of college, 242 00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:18,960 Speaker 1: I had a friend, it was kind of a it 243 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:21,040 Speaker 1: was kind of a friend, and he had a girlfriend 244 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:22,760 Speaker 1: and we were at a club one time and I 245 00:11:22,800 --> 00:11:26,000 Speaker 1: saw the girlfriend make it out with another dude. So 246 00:11:26,040 --> 00:11:29,079 Speaker 1: I told my friend, right, I think that's that's what 247 00:11:29,120 --> 00:11:31,520 Speaker 1: we're talking about here. Yeah, I told my friend that 248 00:11:31,559 --> 00:11:35,040 Speaker 1: guy is no longer my friend. Yeah, and the woman 249 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 1: lives on my street now, no, she does what are 250 00:11:38,760 --> 00:11:39,240 Speaker 1: the chants? 251 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:39,440 Speaker 3: I know? 252 00:11:39,480 --> 00:11:41,560 Speaker 1: And she's married to somebody else that there's always always uncomfortable, 253 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:42,199 Speaker 1: never around them. 254 00:11:42,280 --> 00:11:44,440 Speaker 6: Yeah, I've said something like that, like if you are 255 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 6: the bearer of bad news, a lot of times you 256 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:48,679 Speaker 6: get cut out no matter what happens. That's happened to 257 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:50,959 Speaker 6: a lot of us where you're like, hey, something's going on. Well, 258 00:11:50,960 --> 00:11:52,560 Speaker 6: then they're embarrassed by and they don't want to talk 259 00:11:52,559 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 6: to you again. You know, Yeah, it happens, but you're 260 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 6: still doing the right thing. Let them decide where the 261 00:11:57,559 --> 00:11:58,400 Speaker 6: relationship goes. 262 00:11:58,520 --> 00:12:04,680 Speaker 7: Hi, Laurie Hate Hi there. I'm just calling regarding the 263 00:12:04,679 --> 00:12:10,080 Speaker 7: bridesmaid and the fiance getting married. I honestly, the bridesmaid 264 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:13,679 Speaker 7: is obviously not a true friend because you would tell 265 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 7: her and like I said before, wants a cheater, always 266 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:20,680 Speaker 7: a cheater. And if she gets upset about that and 267 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:23,760 Speaker 7: wants to continue and go through with the marriage, then 268 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:26,280 Speaker 7: she's got to find out down the road this guy 269 00:12:26,400 --> 00:12:27,959 Speaker 7: is a cheater and he's gonna cheat. 270 00:12:27,800 --> 00:12:32,840 Speaker 1: Again, all right, Laurie, thank you. Another time I had 271 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:36,120 Speaker 1: this friend of mine. He was living with a girl engaged, 272 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:40,840 Speaker 1: and next door to their house was some a young 273 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 1: a young guy about nineteen twenty, and he would climb 274 00:12:44,559 --> 00:12:48,160 Speaker 1: over the fence and sleep with her when the husband 275 00:12:48,200 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 1: was gone. 276 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:51,240 Speaker 5: With the first I know, I'm over the fence. 277 00:12:51,040 --> 00:12:54,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, because they shared a backyard. And the kid who 278 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:55,720 Speaker 1: was doing that is the one who told me like 279 00:12:55,760 --> 00:12:57,520 Speaker 1: I knew, and he was telling me everything out. But 280 00:12:57,559 --> 00:13:01,880 Speaker 1: the guy, the husband, the fiance, was my friend. I 281 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:05,400 Speaker 1: decided not to say a word. No right, so I 282 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:08,240 Speaker 1: just kept it quiet. Sure enough, they broke up, the 283 00:13:08,360 --> 00:13:10,680 Speaker 1: kid moved. I don't know where he is now, I 284 00:13:10,679 --> 00:13:12,600 Speaker 1: don't know where the woman is now. And the guys 285 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 1: no longer my friend. Yeah, so uh, it's win win 286 00:13:16,240 --> 00:13:20,480 Speaker 1: for me in all these situations. Yeah, I don't know, 287 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:25,480 Speaker 1: less friends, less friends, the better is what I say. 288 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 1: So there's that. So anyway, what's coming up with? Oh no, 289 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 1: we're going to do some entertainment news and then we 290 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:33,240 Speaker 1: can do we can do a minute to win it 291 00:13:33,280 --> 00:13:35,559 Speaker 1: into entertainment news. Let's do that, all right, so call 292 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:38,240 Speaker 1: eight seven seven ninety three seven one o four seven 293 00:13:38,320 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 1: to play minute to win it. And then the entertainment 294 00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:42,280 Speaker 1: news we got coming up as well, is there anything 295 00:13:42,640 --> 00:13:44,280 Speaker 1: any anything big coming in there in him the world? 296 00:13:44,440 --> 00:13:44,640 Speaker 5: Yeah? 297 00:13:45,679 --> 00:13:50,920 Speaker 4: Two, Charlie's having some drama and then uh, I think 298 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:53,440 Speaker 4: there's some big Kim Kardashian things happening. 299 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 1: Well good, Hey, Ashley, what's up you're on the air? 300 00:13:57,280 --> 00:14:04,199 Speaker 11: Hi? Sorry, I'm driving second barely here. My suggestion is 301 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:09,280 Speaker 11: that the bridesmaid actually goes to the room and gives 302 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:11,880 Speaker 11: them ultimatum like either you tell her or I will't, 303 00:14:12,800 --> 00:14:15,720 Speaker 11: and that way it puts it on him and then 304 00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:18,320 Speaker 11: and then see where it goes from there, give them 305 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:22,680 Speaker 11: the opportunity to do the right thing, and that way, 306 00:14:23,000 --> 00:14:24,040 Speaker 11: you know, that's where I'm at. 307 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:26,760 Speaker 1: Somebody said, have them all played? Never have I ever 308 00:14:27,000 --> 00:14:29,240 Speaker 1: at a bachelotte party? And then everyone stare at her 309 00:14:29,240 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 1: if she's as she lies, and then say, really, all 310 00:14:35,600 --> 00:14:36,000 Speaker 1: have love