WEBVTT - How Could Liam Do That to Heather?

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<v Speaker 1>It's Marcus in the morning. We're back with second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all know how it works. People go on first dates,

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<v Speaker 1>somebody gets ghosted. Happens all the time. We're going to

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<v Speaker 1>call that date with their date on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>see how it went down, and see what happens, see

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<v Speaker 1>how we can improve ourselves, try to get a second

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<v Speaker 1>date that's ultimately want to do what I want to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's say, how to Heather. Heather, are you there?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm right here.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Heather, already sounds defeated. We haven't even started yet,

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<v Speaker 1>so come on, positive vibes. Tell us all about Liam.

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<v Speaker 1>What how was the date?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean that's it was good. I thought, like

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<v Speaker 2>we went to dinner and Sam Matteo, like I just

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, date felt great, Like he's funny, confident

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<v Speaker 2>you can talk to, like all the things. Okay, I know,

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<v Speaker 2>we talked about travel stuff and pets and like we

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<v Speaker 2>had like the same weird childhood fears. Like it was

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<v Speaker 2>just like a cute conversation and I don't know, I

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<v Speaker 2>laughed more than I usually do on a first date.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was thinking, you know, okay, that was actually

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<v Speaker 2>really fun. When I left you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I can hear you psychoanalyzing the date while you're talking,

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<v Speaker 1>like for I don't know how many times.

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<v Speaker 2>It's been, but I don't know what, like nothing, no

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<v Speaker 2>follow up. It was just like full ghost So.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so yeah, I figure why not let's find out

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<v Speaker 3>what the bls.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, let's call him. I'll tell you what. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>play a song. We're gonna regroup, and then I will

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<v Speaker 1>call Liam and we'll try to figure some things out. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>at the very least, girl, we need answers.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what I mean, I know, I know, right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>You got it. Hang on the line, be right back

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<v Speaker 1>with it. It's Second Date Update Star one O one three.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Marcus in the morning. We're doing Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>I've got Heather on the phone. We're trying to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out how and why a lady get ghosted on because

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<v Speaker 1>that is not appropriate, am I right?

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<v Speaker 3>Heather? Right? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Terrible. Let's call Liam and see what's really going on.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, So go ahead and meet your phone. We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna give him shout right now and see why you ghosted.

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<v Speaker 3>Here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Hi, I'm looking for Liam speaking Liam. This is

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<v Speaker 1>Marcus calling from a Star one on one three from

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<v Speaker 1>the morning Show is regarding do you listen to my

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<v Speaker 1>show at all?

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<v Speaker 3>No? No, I can't say I'm much of a radio man.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So we do a radio show. We do a

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<v Speaker 1>segment on the show. It's called second Date Update, and

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<v Speaker 1>we got floated your phone number cuz there's a young

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<v Speaker 1>lady that you took out on a date who is

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<v Speaker 1>convinced you ghosted her, and we're just trying to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out if she did something wrong, or if you've just

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<v Speaker 1>been busy or you weren't feeling it. Do you remember

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<v Speaker 1>going on a date with a girl named Heather?

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<v Speaker 3>I remember it very well.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you ghost?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I didn't. I did not. I did not reach

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<v Speaker 3>out again.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, did something go wrong?

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<v Speaker 3>It's not. Heather is a very lovely person. The date

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<v Speaker 3>started out strong, and she's definitely a quirky, very funny.

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<v Speaker 3>We bonded over a lot, Okay, but I don't really

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<v Speaker 3>know how to like say that. She kept preferring it

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<v Speaker 3>everyone around her as like characters, okay, and not not

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<v Speaker 3>not as a joke. It was like she was like

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<v Speaker 3>narrating a movie in her head or something. So the

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<v Speaker 3>server that night was a strong supporting character. The couple

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<v Speaker 3>that was near the bar had definite background energy.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like Disneyland, know something.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it was. The restaurant had really interesting casting. Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>I just I you know, I wasn't sure if I

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<v Speaker 3>was being ranked or not. So I was like trying

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<v Speaker 3>to see if somebody was filming or something. At some point,

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<v Speaker 3>I just didn't know how to take it. And then

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<v Speaker 3>I was I was rolling with the punches, okay, and

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<v Speaker 3>I started, you know, trying to like pull it back

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<v Speaker 3>into us and focusing on the two of us. So

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<v Speaker 3>I started talking about my job a little bit, and

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<v Speaker 3>then she like took me in and said, oh, I

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<v Speaker 3>have guessed that for you, and then nothing else, like, no,

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<v Speaker 3>no question, no follow up like that was just it

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<v Speaker 3>move on to something else. And I just ended up

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<v Speaker 3>feeling like I was being judged and psychoanalyzed for the

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<v Speaker 3>entire evening. And that's not you know, that's not really

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<v Speaker 3>how I wanted to share.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. So part of this, Liam is that Heather's actually listening,

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<v Speaker 1>and I hope she's hearing all this. If you don't mind,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like.

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<v Speaker 3>To bring her on day man. I mean, we're here,

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<v Speaker 3>Heather yeah, Hi, so.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a little odd. Not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I mean, I'm just observe it, like I like

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<v Speaker 2>to read energy ies. I didn't mean anything by it.

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<v Speaker 2>I noticed patterns. This is how my brain works.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, But it's not something you want to say out

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<v Speaker 1>loud necessarily. What about this whole character thing?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you in a like figuring out the room and

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<v Speaker 2>like figuring out what people are like?

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<v Speaker 3>I guess and I just never like figure at your

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<v Speaker 3>job would be your job?

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<v Speaker 2>And so I just said so, like just.

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<v Speaker 3>One of those things like I'm just looking at you know.

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<v Speaker 2>The room around me and stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>Sure, because it just feels weird to feel like I'm

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<v Speaker 3>being categorized or or like cast in somebody else's story.

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<v Speaker 2>You were laughing, So I just thought I was like

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<v Speaker 2>being playful and thoughtful, not strange.

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<v Speaker 3>But like you don't work in TV or film or

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<v Speaker 3>anything like that that would have made sense, I guess.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, it was just a conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, does anybody anybody want to try here second date?

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<v Speaker 1>At this point?

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<v Speaker 3>Does it feel like I'm good?

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<v Speaker 2>I guess no, I guess not