WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update

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<v Speaker 1>It's the second date update Mojo in the morning. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>second date update? Why are you not getting a call?

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<v Speaker 1>Jalen is not getting a call after spending them like

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<v Speaker 1>a long time actually hanging out. Guys, went out, had

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<v Speaker 1>some drinks together, partied with some of your guys friends,

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<v Speaker 1>and the date went well. How well did it go, Jalen?

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<v Speaker 1>I think it went well. We had dreams, we had

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<v Speaker 1>a good time. It was it was it was a

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<v Speaker 1>good vibe. I would say, you guys kiss good night.

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<v Speaker 2>No, not really. She kind of pushed away when I

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<v Speaker 2>came in, but I don't know what for. But she

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<v Speaker 2>said she would test me back, and I just, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>just haven't heard from wait.

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<v Speaker 1>So so she pushed you off the idea of getting

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<v Speaker 1>a giving a you know, a good night kiss and

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<v Speaker 1>said I'll text you and no tax Pam, She's not

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<v Speaker 1>in basically, unfortunately, I think that this is one of

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<v Speaker 1>those ones where it's a one and done for you.

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<v Speaker 1>The only problem though, is when it does happen like this,

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<v Speaker 1>you're like going, why is this? Felicia is on with

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<v Speaker 1>us right now. Jalen said hi to Felicia. Hey, Felicia, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Jayleen. Felicia you didn't text Jalen back, No.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't. He's a player and he plays too many

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<v Speaker 3>games and his mind is all over the place. He

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't even know what he wants.

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<v Speaker 1>Oooh, I didn't get that out of talking to him.

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<v Speaker 1>But what do you mean by that? Explain that? How

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<v Speaker 1>do you know he's a player? What did you find out?

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<v Speaker 3>Because I went to the bathroom and when I came

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<v Speaker 3>back from the bathroom, he was asking the girl he

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<v Speaker 3>was talking too next to him, was asking if that

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<v Speaker 3>was my boyfriend because he was hitting on her. What

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<v Speaker 3>do you mean, so, yeah, hitting on her.

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<v Speaker 4>So apparently he was telling big girls she's beautiful and

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<v Speaker 4>asked for her Instagram takeing, Yes, she was sitting right

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<v Speaker 4>next to us, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you said you next to us?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And I questioned him and he told me he

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<v Speaker 3>was just trying to be nice and friendly, and I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Jalen, you left that part out. Yeah, that's a pretty

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<v Speaker 1>big part.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I just think there's there's not nothing. There's nothing

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<v Speaker 2>really wrong with them.

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<v Speaker 1>There is this This is what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know the context of the conversation. Maybe the

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<v Speaker 5>asking for the instagram was a little much, but like

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<v Speaker 5>if you're on a date with somebody and they get

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<v Speaker 5>up and go to the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 1>Not sure how long she was gone.

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<v Speaker 5>You just I'm supposed to just sit there, like if

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<v Speaker 5>somebody next to me, I might say something to that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not about it, but yeah, exactly, Hannah, thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>She said that the other girl said he was hitting

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<v Speaker 3>on her, so like making advances is whatever.

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<v Speaker 5>I've been in certain situations where how you into a self.

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<v Speaker 5>A woman may think that you're flirting with him. And again,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know what he said to the woman. I

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<v Speaker 5>don't know what it is, but she may have taken

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<v Speaker 5>it in a way that he didn't actually mean it

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<v Speaker 5>to me.

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<v Speaker 1>What what did you say to her? Jalen thin.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I was just saying how wow, like you're very

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<v Speaker 2>beautiful and like you model.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just which there is nothing wrong with that

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<v Speaker 1>any other time. It's just the fact that you were

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<v Speaker 1>on it, like you're supposed to be spending quality time

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<v Speaker 1>and giving your attention to one person. Where where was

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<v Speaker 1>he when she told you this? How did he not

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<v Speaker 1>hear her say something?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I guess he went to go pay

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<v Speaker 3>the bill or something, but he stepped away, and then

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<v Speaker 3>that's when she told me all of the tea.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I say this? I would wonder if there was

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<v Speaker 1>more too, Like why would she then step in and

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<v Speaker 1>try to tell you this? The girl's girl like I,

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<v Speaker 1>But I would probably not get involved like I would

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<v Speaker 1>probably if I was there, I'd like, you don't know them,

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<v Speaker 1>You don't even know if they are a long time,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, married to each other. You could actually be

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<v Speaker 1>wrecking a marriage. And she really wants to know.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I know her, I know her?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I know her? Oh you knew the girl that

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<v Speaker 1>that that he was forting with.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? Yes, I've seen her around, so I'm well acquainted

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<v Speaker 3>with her.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think she would lie to me.

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<v Speaker 1>So she's not. So she's not doing this, even maybe

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<v Speaker 1>to sabotage your guys' relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think she's trying to be vindictive at all.

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<v Speaker 3>I think she was just trying to save me and

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<v Speaker 3>I dodged a bullet from Jalen.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Jalen, you bad bad boy. Jalen. Is there anything

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<v Speaker 1>that you can do to try to rectify this situation?

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<v Speaker 1>Or are you you know, are you screwed?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh? Well, first things first, Felicia, I apologize. I just

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<v Speaker 2>I really still don't see how there was a problem.

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<v Speaker 3>It was, why would you even talk to this girl? Like,

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<v Speaker 3>why would you do that? We were on a first date.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't do stuff like that. That is just rude.

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<v Speaker 4>Why would you do that?

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't see the I truly this is why, I

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<v Speaker 2>truly just don't see the problem with complimenting a beautiful woman.

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<v Speaker 1>If I see it, I just.

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<v Speaker 3>How would you feel if I don't know a handsome

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<v Speaker 3>man at the bar?

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<v Speaker 1>You wouldn't like it. By the way, you Jalen and

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<v Speaker 1>Kevi should hang out with each other. He might be competition.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think you guys? You guys sound like

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<v Speaker 1>the same. This sounds like Kevin. I know you understand.

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<v Speaker 1>I understand he's coming from. Have you ever been out

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<v Speaker 1>with on a date and there was another girl that

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<v Speaker 1>was there and because you are naturally a very friendly guy,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes friendly turns flirtatious. Have you ever had any girl

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<v Speaker 1>that you're with say you talk too much to somebody?

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<v Speaker 1>Or absolutely? What did you? What do you think of that?

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<v Speaker 5>But again, it's never been in a way where I

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<v Speaker 5>like wanted something out of it, Like I'm not hitting

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<v Speaker 5>on the person in an attempt to get their number

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<v Speaker 5>or get their Instagram to further the conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, there is a difference there.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. Yeah, I've been told you doing too much several occasions.

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<v Speaker 5>I've been told that I've had a girl walk away

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<v Speaker 5>from me, I've had her pissed at the waitress.

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<v Speaker 1>Sharing Instagrams is where this thing turned horrible.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>Now that's the same as giving your phone number. That is,

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<v Speaker 1>you're about to get twenty likes on instagent. Hold on, Anthony,

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<v Speaker 1>what did you want to say? Anthony? Okay, I got

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<v Speaker 1>a question. I don't know if none of y'all caught it.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, why is it that you that the girl had

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<v Speaker 5>a lookout at the bar?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I know, dude was wrong, was like complimenting

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<v Speaker 3>the girl, But why did she have a lookout at

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<v Speaker 3>the bar?

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<v Speaker 1>Was it a lookout or was it somebody that girl?

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<v Speaker 1>What did whoever? What was the purpose with it? Wait, Felicia,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't plan. You didn't have this girl there planned?

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<v Speaker 3>No, she was just sitting there and I have to

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<v Speaker 3>why would I have?

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<v Speaker 1>So you was like, hey, I knew her, I knew

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<v Speaker 1>her like I did. She had she had plant there

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<v Speaker 1>was surveillance there. Kate, what's up? Kate? Hey Mojo? First time,

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<v Speaker 1>long time? Hey, thank you? Uh, Mojo.

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<v Speaker 4>There is no way you would not not get involved.

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<v Speaker 4>You would, so you said, Oh, I wouldn't get involved.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I get involved with Mojo.

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<v Speaker 3>Please.

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<v Speaker 1>I would if this was a guy and and there

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<v Speaker 1>was a girl that was you know, I'm sorry, if

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<v Speaker 1>the girl was flirting with you know, with a you know,

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<v Speaker 1>on a date, I would not get involved in their relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>I would probably And the only way I'd get involved

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<v Speaker 1>that there was like physical abuse or something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't getting involved. What is it the line? My

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<v Speaker 1>name is Bannett and I ain't in it or whatever

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<v Speaker 1>the deal is. I'm not getting involved with that. Especially nowadays.

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<v Speaker 1>You heard Anna talk a little bit ago. There's like

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people with these open, weird relationships and

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<v Speaker 1>stuff like that. I'm not getting involved. Amanda, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 3>Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning.

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<v Speaker 3>I was just thinking as Kevin was talking, what would

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<v Speaker 3>Kevin do w w.

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<v Speaker 1>K D every time that's a player, Kevin. Kevin got

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<v Speaker 1>that back.

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<v Speaker 5>Actually, somebody, I think there has to be more questions

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<v Speaker 5>asked before we jump to judgment.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a MOI. Yeah, what's your judgment now after you've heard, Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>this guy's a fool. I think he the Instagram was

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<v Speaker 1>just too much.

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<v Speaker 5>That was.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually like Felicia's attitude, and I like the way

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<v Speaker 1>that Jalen's kind of firing back. I think you guys

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<v Speaker 1>are missing out on an opportunity to go on at

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<v Speaker 1>least one more date. I will hardly agree. I guess I.

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<v Speaker 2>Learned from my mistakes.

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<v Speaker 1>We had communications. Yea, the communication. Let's just it ain't

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<v Speaker 1>work from there. Listen.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, not on his life.

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<v Speaker 1>He's already causing me problems. I don't want to deal

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<v Speaker 1>with me, all right, Second date, life to tell your mom,

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<v Speaker 1>phone scams and Shannon's dirty on the thirty in the morning.