1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:01,720 Speaker 1: We have somebody on the phone. 2 00:00:01,760 --> 00:00:04,920 Speaker 2: Her name is well, actually, I will let you introduce 3 00:00:04,960 --> 00:00:06,960 Speaker 2: yourself because I call you by what I think your 4 00:00:06,960 --> 00:00:09,200 Speaker 2: friends call you, but I don't know what your professional 5 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 2: name is. 6 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:12,720 Speaker 1: So I will let you introduce yourself. What is your name? 7 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:17,560 Speaker 3: I am Radmila, but everybody calls me Rad okay, because I. 8 00:00:17,480 --> 00:00:19,000 Speaker 2: Was like, I always call you Rad, But I was like, 9 00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:21,119 Speaker 2: I don't know if that's what you go by for 10 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 2: like your business. But Rad and I met a few 11 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 2: years ago and she helped me do a closet audit. 12 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:29,560 Speaker 2: And if you have no idea what that is, it 13 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:31,640 Speaker 2: basically is like she goes through all of your clothes 14 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:33,599 Speaker 2: and helps you get rid of things because we are 15 00:00:33,640 --> 00:00:36,000 Speaker 2: so guilty of holding onto things that we swear we're 16 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:38,880 Speaker 2: gonna wear someday, like we're gonna wear this. It's gonna 17 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 2: come in handy at this one event that we might 18 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:43,879 Speaker 2: have in three years down the road. And you have 19 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 2: no idea how much of a relief it feels when 20 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:48,599 Speaker 2: you finally have someone in there to get rid of things. 21 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:51,599 Speaker 2: So we were like, it's springtime, we're cleaning things out. 22 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:54,480 Speaker 2: Let's have rad on to tell us how to audit 23 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 2: our closets. So, first off, Rad, what is like the 24 00:00:57,200 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 2: number one thing you tell the people you work with 25 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 2: when they want to hang on to something that you 26 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 2: know that they're probably never going to wear. 27 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 3: Oh, that's such a good question, because we all hold 28 00:01:07,440 --> 00:01:10,200 Speaker 3: on to things out of fear, right, like fear of 29 00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:12,480 Speaker 3: to regret, or if we spend a lot of money 30 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 3: on something too, like getting rid of it will feel 31 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:17,399 Speaker 3: like such a sunken cost that I like to ask, 32 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:20,960 Speaker 3: does this piece of clothing support the life you're actually 33 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:24,839 Speaker 3: living right now? Because our closets should reflect our current 34 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:26,680 Speaker 3: lifestyles right period. 35 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:29,039 Speaker 2: So when I have something that I got back in 36 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:32,920 Speaker 2: college fifteen plus years ago, and I think like, oh, 37 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:34,680 Speaker 2: I don't know, I could come in handy someday, it's 38 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 2: like Rad comes in and is like, no, you will 39 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 2: never wear this. So my thing is is since having 40 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:43,759 Speaker 2: her do a closet audit for me, I have been 41 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:46,399 Speaker 2: able to get rid of things easier. But I like 42 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 2: that point you brought up of you spent a lot 43 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 2: of money on it, so you don't want to get 44 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 2: rid of it. So I remember, probably a year a 45 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 2: year and a half ago, I bought these pair of 46 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:57,280 Speaker 2: pants from Target, they weren't that expensive, but they were 47 00:01:57,280 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 2: like a brand new pair of pants. Well, when I 48 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:02,200 Speaker 2: wore them, started walking around in them, they were riding 49 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:04,280 Speaker 2: up my butt the whole time because they were like 50 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 2: these really baggy pants. But then they'd ride up my 51 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:09,079 Speaker 2: butt and I was like, these are so uncomfortable. I'm 52 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:11,200 Speaker 2: never gonna wear them. And I held on to them 53 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:14,800 Speaker 2: for a few months because they were brand new, but 54 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:17,760 Speaker 2: because I've worked with rad, I eventually was like, I'm 55 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:19,800 Speaker 2: never gonna wear these. Get rid of them because it 56 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:24,079 Speaker 2: just causes more clutter. So would you say having less clutter, 57 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 2: having less clothes actually makes you become more fashionable in 58 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 2: a sense because you're not stuck choosing from a million 59 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 2: things totally. 60 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 3: Well, you're eliminating the decision fatigue. And I think you 61 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 3: and I even discussed this, Like streamlining your wardrobe, it's 62 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 3: not just a physical act, it's also like a mental act. 63 00:02:42,600 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 3: It provides you with so much more mental clarity. So 64 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 3: getting rid of pieces that no longer serve you is 65 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:50,520 Speaker 3: kind of like letting go of that emotional weight in 66 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 3: addition to yeah, like maybe being more fasciaal, because then 67 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 3: you're left with pieces that you actually love that align 68 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:58,799 Speaker 3: with you and your personality, and it just makes the 69 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:02,360 Speaker 3: process of getting dressed so much easier and more enjoyable. 70 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 1: Bill, do you have any questions? 71 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 4: So how I think like starting out because I've never 72 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 4: had a closet on it, So Jenny is different than 73 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 4: I feel like most people. Yeah, if people listening, they're like, Hey, 74 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 4: maybe I should get rid of stuff. 75 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:17,920 Speaker 1: How do you know it's time to do that? 76 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 2: Yeah? 77 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 3: So I like to come into your space, right, and 78 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 3: We're pulling your pieces one by one, and I'm kind 79 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 3: of forcing you to have honest conversations with me. I 80 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:27,799 Speaker 3: want to know how often you're wearing something, how are 81 00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 3: you styling it? Does it fit you properly? Is it 82 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 3: in good condition? Right? Because like the integrity of the 83 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 3: fabric matters, and is it a reflection of your current 84 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 3: lifestyle and personality? And based on those questions, we decide 85 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 3: is this a piece that we're keeping, is this a 86 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 3: piece that we're donating, or is this a maybe piece? 87 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 3: A maybe piece is an item that we're going to 88 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 3: try to the end. Similar to Jenny's pants, right, Like, 89 00:03:47,920 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 3: once you have it on your body, you'll determine like, wait, 90 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:52,160 Speaker 3: this isn't fitting me properly. I don't love the way 91 00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 3: it looks. It no longer represents who I'm trying to 92 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 3: be today, and then we decide if we keep it 93 00:03:57,240 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 3: or get rid of it. 94 00:03:58,240 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 2: I love that you said the integrity part of like 95 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 2: the quality of the shirt or paints or whatever, because 96 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 2: I feel like that is that's the thing. I'm so 97 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 2: guilty because I loved that shirt when I bought it 98 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 2: five years ago. But it has worn out and now 99 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 2: it's not great anymore. And I put it on and 100 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 2: it doesn't necessarily fit me the way it used to. 101 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 2: But I'll hold on to it because I loved it 102 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:20,719 Speaker 2: so much in the beginning. And so that's a good 103 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 2: point to bring up, is like how well is it 104 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 2: fitting you still? How is the material holding up now? 105 00:04:27,480 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 2: Bailey has like a crazy wardrobe. Yeah, she is a thrifter. 106 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:34,080 Speaker 2: She's got a lot of clothes. So what would you 107 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 2: tell someone like Bailey who needs to maybe like get 108 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:40,280 Speaker 2: rid of a few things, But you're you love holding on. 109 00:04:40,200 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 1: To your side. 110 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 4: I do, Well, here's what I usually say because my 111 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 4: closet I have very much so curated things that I 112 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 4: love because I've thrifted a lot of things. Some of 113 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:53,719 Speaker 4: that doesn't fit me anymore, but I feel like one 114 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:56,400 Speaker 4: day it could fit me again, because it's not like 115 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:58,479 Speaker 4: I bought it when I was, you know, nineteen. I 116 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:02,360 Speaker 4: bought it maybe when I was twenty seven. So it's 117 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:05,039 Speaker 4: not like I'm I'm holding onto something that fit me 118 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 4: when I was a teenager. 119 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:09,120 Speaker 1: Like I. So, I don't want to get rid of stuff. 120 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:13,800 Speaker 4: And I have a very much so like fun closet, 121 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:16,160 Speaker 4: but it's a fun closet for summertime, and then I 122 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:20,160 Speaker 4: have garbage for winter. I literally wear sweatpants and sweatshirts 123 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:21,039 Speaker 4: in the wintertime. 124 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 2: So how would you help Bailey out in that situation. 125 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 3: Well, first of all, Bailey, I'm with you. I also 126 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:28,719 Speaker 3: love to thrift, and like, I love that your clothes 127 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 3: match your personality because then there is no discuss. 128 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 1: I love that. 129 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 3: But we also want to see only things that are 130 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:36,800 Speaker 3: in season in your wardrobe. So you're saying you wear like, 131 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:39,599 Speaker 3: you know, traft or whatever in the wintertime. Now that 132 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 3: we're transitioning into spring summer, let's put away your winter clothes. 133 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:45,720 Speaker 3: Let's put them in cubbies under your bed, Let's put 134 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 3: them in a separate closet because we just want to 135 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 3: see what's in season. But if you have certain pieces 136 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:52,560 Speaker 3: that you really love that you truly believe you'll fit 137 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 3: into someday, I don't mind holding onto those specific pieces, 138 00:05:56,360 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 3: but I can guarantee there are things in there that 139 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:01,600 Speaker 3: you will not revisit that could take on new life elsewhere. 140 00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I am. I am really good, Rad. You'd be 141 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:04,919 Speaker 1: so proud of me. 142 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 4: I am really good at taking some of my stuff 143 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:10,560 Speaker 4: and like doing it. Do like clothing exchange stores where 144 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:12,600 Speaker 4: you go back. I love that give them and then 145 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 4: they're like, here's store credit, and then I go and buy. 146 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:18,040 Speaker 1: More clothes, which is stupid. You know what. I can't 147 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 1: break that. 148 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 4: I have a question, Rad, So what if you're like 149 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 4: going through your closet and you're just like starting your 150 00:06:25,440 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 4: journey like closet on and in, what are the first 151 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 4: things that you should get rid of? 152 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 3: Well, things that no longer fit you. That's why I 153 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:36,599 Speaker 3: like for my for my clients to try on their 154 00:06:36,640 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 3: clothes if something is ill fitted, or if something's like, 155 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:40,360 Speaker 3: oh it maybe fits. 156 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:41,040 Speaker 1: Like we end up. 157 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 3: Putting that piece on, youre doing with it for ten 158 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 3: minutes and taking it off, and it's just such a 159 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:47,600 Speaker 3: waste of time. So I want to know, like how 160 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:49,920 Speaker 3: often you're wearing something, and if you're wearing it, maybe 161 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 3: like once every three or four years, or you haven't 162 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 3: touched it in two years, like it's time to part 163 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:55,359 Speaker 3: ways with that piece. 164 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 1: Oh man, that's most of my closet. 165 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 4: Fairly, So okay, hold on, rad one other question now, 166 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:06,960 Speaker 4: I'm like, hold on, let me take notes. So you mentioned, like, okay, 167 00:07:07,040 --> 00:07:09,880 Speaker 4: having your closet be like fitting for the season and 168 00:07:10,160 --> 00:07:13,320 Speaker 4: putting away things that aren't in season. How do you recommend, 169 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 4: like actually starting to wear the clothes that we have, 170 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 4: So instead of going to the same thing over and 171 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 4: over and over again, and you have stuff that you 172 00:07:22,080 --> 00:07:24,239 Speaker 4: know you like and you would wear, but you're always 173 00:07:24,280 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 4: going back to the same sweatpants and sweasure how do 174 00:07:26,680 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 4: you actually like recommend wearing the clothes that you have. 175 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:33,640 Speaker 3: Well, first by decluttering your space, because so many times 176 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 3: we like look at our closet and we're so overwhelmed 177 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:37,600 Speaker 3: with what we have we resort to wearing the same thing. 178 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 3: So streamlining your wardrobe decluttering, then you're left with pieces 179 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:43,720 Speaker 3: that you actually like and then just make it a 180 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:47,320 Speaker 3: point to wear those pieces. Maybe that means putting, you know, 181 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:50,800 Speaker 3: certain pieces towards the front of your closet, or you know, 182 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:53,360 Speaker 3: laying out new outfits the night before just to make 183 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 3: sure that you're putting them on your body and you're 184 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:57,480 Speaker 3: wearing them out of the house. There's really no other way. 185 00:07:57,520 --> 00:08:01,200 Speaker 3: We just have to put these clothes on that behalf 186 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 3: like wear the clothes. 187 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's so true. 188 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 2: I think ever since rad did a closet audit with me, 189 00:08:06,040 --> 00:08:08,320 Speaker 2: I go in and every few months I do get 190 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:11,600 Speaker 2: rid of things now because when you had that clutter 191 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:13,680 Speaker 2: and that like mind space, like Bailey said, you go 192 00:08:13,760 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 2: to the same thing constantly, Whereas when you have less items, 193 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:20,640 Speaker 2: like rad said, you can like put more things together almost, 194 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:25,080 Speaker 2: which seems like counterintuitive, but you really can like put 195 00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 2: better outfits together when you're not going through fifty things 196 00:08:28,400 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 2: versus twenty or something. So okay, well we are running 197 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:32,920 Speaker 2: out of time here, but thank you so much for 198 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:35,440 Speaker 2: being on rad Red. If somebody wants to hire you 199 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:37,400 Speaker 2: to do a closet audit, I know you do styling 200 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 2: and other things as well, but how can they find you. 201 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 3: I do a lot on my Instagram, So Raddy Dolo 202 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:47,800 Speaker 3: are a d d y d O l O. My 203 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:50,560 Speaker 3: website is on there. Send me a DM we'll figure 204 00:08:50,559 --> 00:08:50,840 Speaker 3: it out. 205 00:08:50,920 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 1: Okay cool. 206 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:53,880 Speaker 2: I'll share that to the Dave Ryan Show Instagram, like 207 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 2: one of her posts or something, so that you can 208 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 2: we can make it easy for you to find her. 209 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 2: But thank you so much for being on rat it.