1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:02,000 Speaker 1: I saw you. You saw me, and I said, hello, 2 00:00:02,040 --> 00:00:02,640 Speaker 1: what would you do? 3 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:03,080 Speaker 2: Hi? 4 00:00:03,640 --> 00:00:04,040 Speaker 1: Okay? 5 00:00:04,080 --> 00:00:08,039 Speaker 2: All right with me specifically, Yeah, you want to ignore 6 00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 2: me because everyone else is I don't know what's going on. 7 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:14,239 Speaker 2: I don't know my walking around with a sign that's 8 00:00:14,280 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 2: like ignore this gentleman, or yes you know me, I 9 00:00:19,560 --> 00:00:24,240 Speaker 2: will like go outwardly like I think that I'm uh 10 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 2: fairly polite. 11 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:28,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. 12 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:35,239 Speaker 2: So my apartment, you have to use an elevator, and 13 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 2: it's one elevator and everyone gets in it. You see 14 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 2: the same people all the time. Walked in yesterday and 15 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 2: one of my neighbors is in there. Hello, doesn't say anything, 16 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:51,160 Speaker 2: Okay whatever, just in the elevator. 17 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:51,879 Speaker 1: Now, now we're going to. 18 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 3: Take that ride out. 19 00:00:54,280 --> 00:01:00,000 Speaker 2: Two guys come in after Hello. He immediately says hi back. 20 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, all right, Well maybe he didn't hear me. 21 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 1: That's right. 22 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:08,319 Speaker 2: Elevator opens up. It's our floor. He turns and looks 23 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:10,319 Speaker 2: at the two and goes, hope you guys have a 24 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 2: good day. Doesn't say any to me, But of course 25 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:14,880 Speaker 2: he doesn't say anything. We're neighbors. We're walking out of 26 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 2: the elevator. We both walk out. His door is before mine, 27 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:20,399 Speaker 2: he's going to open his door, and I go, hope 28 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:22,560 Speaker 2: you have a good night, turns and looks at me, 29 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:28,960 Speaker 2: does not say anything, and goes in, Ah, come on, man, 30 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:29,680 Speaker 2: what did I do? 31 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 1: All right? 32 00:01:30,720 --> 00:01:35,040 Speaker 2: So the other thing too in the hallways here, I 33 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 2: always try to make sure I want to I wanted 34 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 2: everyone to be happy. I want to be nice. I 35 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:42,479 Speaker 2: like everyone we work with, Hi, how are you hi? 36 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:43,199 Speaker 2: How you doing? 37 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:43,679 Speaker 1: HI? 38 00:01:43,720 --> 00:01:46,960 Speaker 2: What's going on? There are multiple co workers not going 39 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 2: to say their names, will look at me, put their 40 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 2: head down and keep going. And I don't know what 41 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 2: to do because I want to continue to be nice 42 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 2: and I don't want to like stoop down to this 43 00:01:57,040 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 2: like level of like uncomfortable rudeness. 44 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 1: Because I'm not gonna lie. 45 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 2: There are some people we work with who are outwardly 46 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 2: kind of really selfish. 47 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that that's okay to say it. 48 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 2: I think that anyone who is in a job has 49 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 2: certain people like that, where you know, it's just like 50 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 2: I think that people can relate to this. It's like, 51 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:23,120 Speaker 2: if you're not doing something for me, I'm not going 52 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:24,960 Speaker 2: to be you know what I mean? And if I 53 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 2: am doing something, it's because my job requires it. But 54 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:30,079 Speaker 2: still at the same time, like, doesn't it kind of 55 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:32,119 Speaker 2: make you feel like a little uneasy if someone says 56 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 2: hi to you and you. 57 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:35,640 Speaker 3: Just like out and then yeah, that's rude. 58 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:38,000 Speaker 2: And I'm to the point now where like I haven't 59 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:40,519 Speaker 2: brought it up on the radio because I don't want 60 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:43,120 Speaker 2: it to turn into something. But it's like with my 61 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:48,680 Speaker 2: neighbor doing it yesterday too, should I just not be 62 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 2: saying hello anymore in the whole. 63 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 4: Also doing you that's who you are. You're always polite, 64 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 4: but my feelings I want to protect myself. You still 65 00:02:57,760 --> 00:03:00,360 Speaker 4: say you still say hi, and sometimes you go hello, 66 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 4: I said hello, because it's rude, say it back. 67 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:05,120 Speaker 1: That's something Ashley would do. I don't think. 68 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:08,679 Speaker 4: Yes, I'm not wasting my breath on you. It's we're 69 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 4: literally in the elevator. Happens before we're in the elevator, 70 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 4: and sometimes they don't hear you, so you just say, oh, 71 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 4: I said hello. 72 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:19,679 Speaker 2: Oh there's one person specifically who looked right at me. 73 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 1: There, I go, Hi, how are you? Nothing walks away? 74 00:03:24,720 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 4: See I do it even when i'm holding the door 75 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 4: for someone. I'm like walking out of them all hold 76 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:30,520 Speaker 4: the door and they'll say thank you. I go, you're welcome. 77 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:32,960 Speaker 1: You say that, Yeah, I want to vomb it. 78 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 4: Takes is a thank you and you're welcome to just 79 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 4: like be kind man, those simple words. 80 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, say you're welcome. 81 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 5: What do you do, buddy? So this is the move 82 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 5: that I pull when I wear a hat. So this 83 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 5: is perfect when you wear a hat. If somebody says, hey, 84 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 5: how you doing, I'll just tip the hat, tip the kip, 85 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 5: give a wink on me on my way, cause because 86 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:57,560 Speaker 5: there's like I'm like you, Joe, I want to just 87 00:03:57,560 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 5: be friendly and cordial, but I'm not going to say 88 00:03:59,840 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 5: hi to people who aren't gonna say hi to me. 89 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 1: Like we just flat out ignore these people. Yeah, I 90 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 1: tip the cap and I tell them so long because 91 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 1: we've talked about it. 92 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, like that whole way interaction last week, which 93 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:17,680 Speaker 5: is completely wild, multiple of Oh I know, but you 94 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 5: just tip the cap and you go. Because yeah, I'm 95 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 5: not gonna be I'm not gonna be I'm not gonna 96 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 5: be completely rude, but I am gonna kind of nudge 97 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:26,799 Speaker 5: it and be like, hey see. 98 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:28,360 Speaker 3: I like to let people know they're being rude. 99 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 4: That's why I say you're welcome and I go hi, 100 00:04:31,160 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 4: I said hello because I want you to know, like 101 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 4: you need to speak. 102 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:36,560 Speaker 3: You're an adult, don't be rude. 103 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:39,039 Speaker 1: Eight hundred and four on nine ninety three ninety three. 104 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:49,200 Speaker 1: What you now? What do you do? Because like the 105 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 1: head nod. 106 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 3: Too, is also a good one. If you don't want 107 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 3: to talk, you just give a head nod. 108 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 2: The worst feeling ever is to talk about something on 109 00:04:55,480 --> 00:04:57,360 Speaker 2: the air and then I go home. I hit the Punjamin, 110 00:04:57,440 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 2: and then I'm like overthinking everything and I'm like, God, 111 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 2: why did I say it? And Mark always says choose happy, 112 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 2: but I am choosing happy because I'm saying hi, you are. 113 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 3: And you're not going to stop. 114 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:15,599 Speaker 2: Without saying too much. And I'm not even referring to 115 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:17,960 Speaker 2: these people when I bring it up, but let's refer 116 00:05:18,040 --> 00:05:20,840 Speaker 2: to there's there's even like a full on department at 117 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:23,040 Speaker 2: our job here who they don't say hi to anyone. 118 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, And I don't you know exactly what I'm 119 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:28,599 Speaker 1: talking about. Wonder if they got something going on or something. 120 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:29,159 Speaker 1: I don't know. 121 00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:31,840 Speaker 4: It's like we want to be friends with these people. 122 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 4: It's just a simple like in passing like hello. 123 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 2: Just aw word truthfully, it's like Hey, I just said hi. 124 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 2: And you're ignoring, Like what did I there is. 125 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:42,719 Speaker 4: Someone in that department because I've said hi to this 126 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 4: person so many times, I just walk by them. 127 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:48,720 Speaker 2: Now, dude, There's one guy where he'll walks and then 128 00:05:48,760 --> 00:05:51,479 Speaker 2: he turns his whole entire body and looks the other way, 129 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 2: and I like, he like rides the wall. 130 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:56,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, what is going on? 131 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:58,040 Speaker 4: There's one guy who walks backwards so I don't have 132 00:05:58,040 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 4: to see his face. He's just like I don't want 133 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 4: to say that hurt. 134 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:00,880 Speaker 1: That's crazy. 135 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 3: You're walking back And if. 136 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 1: I were you, I'd claim racism. 137 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:09,679 Speaker 2: Oh my god, Ashley, if I were on everything, Hey, 138 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:11,719 Speaker 2: I take the day off? Could you move it to 139 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:17,920 Speaker 2: this day? RAS eight and four nine ninety three ninety three? 140 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 2: This is interesting to me. I want to get do 141 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 2: we have Sierra on that we could put her through? 142 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:26,799 Speaker 2: They talked to her real quick. We're typing this Hey Sierra. 143 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 6: Yeah what? 144 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:33,360 Speaker 2: So basically my question is like, what do I keep 145 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 2: because it's in my apartment complex. This is one neighbor 146 00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 2: who just flat out ignores me, and then lately we've 147 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:41,880 Speaker 2: had some coworkers kind of do that. 148 00:06:42,400 --> 00:06:46,839 Speaker 1: I just don't know what to do. What do you do, So. 149 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:50,120 Speaker 6: I'm going a fifty fifty with it. So, like, if 150 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:53,600 Speaker 6: I constantly am getting ignored by like my neighbor, I 151 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:56,360 Speaker 6: would kill my neighbor with kindness. But if it's like 152 00:06:56,480 --> 00:06:58,840 Speaker 6: a person that I don't see on a regular and 153 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 6: I speak to them and they don't like respond, then yeah, 154 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:06,400 Speaker 6: it's kind of hurtful. So I do, like I get 155 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 6: where you're coming from. But then again, I also understand 156 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 6: other persons because what if they're going through something and 157 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 6: they don't really have the energy to speak, and like 158 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 6: that's why that guy's side at you that one day, 159 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 6: because like he's probably having a bad day. 160 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 2: Do you think they could be having a bad day 161 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 2: and day and day and day, day and day and 162 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 2: day and day and day and day and day and day. 163 00:07:31,960 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. 164 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:34,560 Speaker 6: So like if it's your neighbor and he's always ignoring you, 165 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:38,280 Speaker 6: then yeah, he's probably just a grump and I would 166 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 6: kill him with titness. 167 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 1: What if he kills me? 168 00:07:43,880 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 6: No, I don't think he would do that. 169 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:50,760 Speaker 2: Maybe I ask him that, hey, you got any bodies 170 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 2: in there? Why aren't you saying Hi, you got bodies 171 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 2: in there? But she got in there? 172 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 1: You have bodies? This place? Does kind of smell. 173 00:07:56,000 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, dead bodies, all right. 174 00:07:58,840 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, hey uh Darryl, you say listen, just deal with it. 175 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 1: Some people just they don't want to talk.