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Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning. We are back with it.

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Speaker 1: It's second date update. Let's bring our guy Dominic on Dominic.

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Speaker 2: Are you there?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm here.

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Speaker 4: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Do you prefer Dominic or just dom or big D

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean my good friends call me dom Let's

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Speaker 3: I can call me Dominic, but you know, either way,

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Speaker 3: you call me Domina.

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Speaker 2: Cool, very good. All right.

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Speaker 1: So I want to talk about your date with Aria,

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Speaker 1: and we're figuring out that maybe she ghosted based on

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Speaker 1: what has transpired since. Tell me about meeting her, like

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Speaker 1: you guys met online, but like in person.

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Speaker 2: How did it go?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I thought it went great. You know, we went

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Speaker 3: out to dinner. We went over to Sunny Vale for dinner.

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Speaker 3: And I mean, I don't know why she's ghosted me,

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Speaker 3: but I thought the conversation went really well. It was

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Speaker 3: very very natural conversation. We were laughing. I like her

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Speaker 3: sense of humor. We kind of, you know, hit it off.

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Speaker 3: She's the type of person that like makes you feel

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Speaker 3: comfortable immediately, okay, Like she's not intimidating, very like. I mean,

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Speaker 3: I guess this is a weird word to use, but

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Speaker 3: like normal, you know, very normal, like very comfortable.

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Speaker 2: My god's been dating for a while, you've been you've

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Speaker 2: been in the pool for a while. I just want normal.

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Speaker 3: I just want normal.

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Speaker 4: Man.

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Speaker 3: She was normal. We talked about traveling, we talked about

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Speaker 3: childhood stuff, like just normal stuff. Okay, do we you know,

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Speaker 3: had dinner and stuff. I walked her to her car,

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Speaker 3: and uh, I thought like we were clearly heading to

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Speaker 3: like date number two. And now I don't know what's wrong.

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Speaker 3: I don't know why she's not get in touch with me.

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Speaker 3: I don't know why she's not like hitting me back.

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Speaker 3: I have no idea.

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Speaker 2: We're about to call. Are you on behalf of Dominic? Nom?

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Speaker 2: Are you there?

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Speaker 3: I'm ready. Let's get this done.

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Speaker 2: Go ahead and mut your phone. We're going to call

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Speaker 2: her and try to figure out why she ghosted.

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Speaker 4: Here we go, okay, Yes, I listen every morning.

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Speaker 5: Up eight hundred, eight hundred and one oh one three,

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Speaker 5: must be market?

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Speaker 1: How you doing?

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Speaker 2: I mean, do you know why you're here? Do you

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Speaker 2: know why I'm here?

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Speaker 5: I mean I listen every morning? Hi, Dominic, this is wild.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to second date update everyone. Dominic Are you there?

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Speaker 3: Oh I'm here? Yeah, I was muted, but hi.

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Speaker 1: I mean okay, Ari has got us all all odd

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Speaker 1: blast and give me.

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Speaker 5: You want to know what happened?

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Speaker 3: Did you?

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Speaker 2: Did you ghost?

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Speaker 5: Let's be real. Everything started off great, okay, started off

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Speaker 5: very normal. But there are just some things, like some

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Speaker 5: small stuff.

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Speaker 2: All right, such as give me like one thing, I noticed.

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Speaker 5: A dominic doesn't really blink like lunch, you.

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Speaker 2: Mean, like physically like it almost felt robotic.

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Speaker 5: It was just weird. I just thought he was being

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Speaker 5: attentive and like I was even flattered right that he

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Speaker 5: was like that. But then after after like ten minutes,

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Speaker 5: it started to feel like I was being like studied.

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Speaker 2: So let me take sure I got this right. You're

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Speaker 2: saying he doesn't blink normally.

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Speaker 5: No, No, it felt it fell creepy.

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Speaker 2: How does he do it?

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Speaker 5: I mean it was like this extended eye contact, like

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Speaker 5: almost like a staring competition. He holds it and then

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Speaker 5: he blinks once, like super slow, and then he holds

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Speaker 5: it again.

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Speaker 3: I was making eye contact, though, isn't that like a

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Speaker 3: good thing? It was creepy. Wow, I creepy. I was

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Speaker 3: just trying to be present in the moment, Like I

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Speaker 3: wasn't looking at my phone, you know, I was trying

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Speaker 3: to just be there. Focusing on you didn't feel engaging.

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Speaker 5: It felt more like you were trying to like analyze.

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Speaker 2: Me, like, so where did you out a little bit?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Was that it?

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Speaker 5: Though?

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Speaker 2: That's why you ghosted?

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Speaker 5: Well there's more because okay, this is the thing that

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Speaker 5: that got weird because I was like, okay, maybe I

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Speaker 5: could get you to the staring right, But it was

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Speaker 5: the other thing that came after that. Like so midway

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Speaker 5: through dinner, we were talking about past relationships. Not a

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Speaker 5: good idea. I don't think we should bring up the past,

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Speaker 5: but you know what, it worked here. Dominic admitted that

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Speaker 5: he had his location sharing turned down with his ex,

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Speaker 5: like they never disabled it. He checks it occasionally just

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Speaker 5: to see where she is, you know, like it's it's

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Speaker 5: more it's not emotional, it's more informational kind of things.

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Speaker 5: And I just feel like that was that was off.

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Speaker 5: Like I don't know what to say or how to feel.

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Speaker 2: About that, Dominic.

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Speaker 3: For real, I don't like text her or nothing, like,

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Speaker 3: I don't talk to her. I just sometimes I pull

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Speaker 3: it up just to see like where she's at or

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Speaker 3: whatever's going on whatever, whatever, you know, But I don't

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Speaker 3: like talk to my ex.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Yeah, but that's kind of like ichy, you know,

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Speaker 5: like it's it's your ex.

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's kind of like Instagram. Everybody checks Instagram.

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Speaker 3: It's no different Instagram's public.

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Speaker 5: This is more like intimate, like having somebody's location. It's

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Speaker 5: it's kind of stockish, like you're stalking her just for

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Speaker 5: what is.

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Speaker 3: Your ex Again, I'm not like texting her, and I'm

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Speaker 3: trying to be like transparent, like I'm not hiding anything.

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Speaker 5: I appreciate you not hiding it, but that's that's just

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Speaker 5: like not.

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Speaker 3: Normal, all right. I mean, I just want to make

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Speaker 3: sure I got this straight. Like, so I got ghosted

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Speaker 3: for like having strong eye contact and for not deleting

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Speaker 3: a setting.

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Speaker 5: Naha, you're ghosted because you stared through me and you

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Speaker 5: check your ex on real time. That's just weird.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you guys, hang on one sec, hang on, hang on,

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Speaker 2: are you are you there?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 2: That was weird.

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Speaker 5: Tell me about it. I felt like I had no

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Speaker 5: personal face and I was on the other side of

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Speaker 5: the line imagine in person.

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Speaker 1: I hear you, I hear you. I'm gonna let him go.

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Speaker 1: You're fine, You're great, Thank you for listening. You're like

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Speaker 1: my number one hype Lady.

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Speaker 5: Oh I love it eight hundred, eight hundred one oh one.

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Speaker 5: Let's go watch it.

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 2: Hang on fivees. I need on a Monday