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Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning. We're back with second date update.

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Speaker 1: Everybody say good morning to Miguel. What's up, Miguel, what's up?

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Speaker 2: Hey man? So we're just gonna get this thing started.

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Speaker 1: I understand you went on a date with a girl

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Speaker 1: named Miko and she has ghosted, so baseline, we got

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Speaker 1: to figure out why she ghosted. That's a b I'd

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Speaker 1: love to get you a second date, So tell me

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Speaker 1: about it.

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Speaker 2: What did you guys do?

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Speaker 3: You met up at a ramin spot in Japan Town.

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Speaker 2: Okay, super low key.

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Speaker 3: It was great. She is beautiful, like literally turned heads

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Speaker 3: when she walked in type and uh yeah, we just

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Speaker 3: talked about all kinds of stuff, terrible first jobs, weird

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Speaker 3: family traditions, like the whole night so.

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Speaker 2: Easy, honestly, all right, what did you guys eat?

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Speaker 3: Like we ordered appetizers, then we got the ramen and like,

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Speaker 3: the conversation never it just it never stalled. Like there

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Speaker 3: was a lot of laughing, a lot of eye contact,

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Speaker 3: the whole thing. And then it's a low key when

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Speaker 3: I like when we left, like I walked her out

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Speaker 3: to Post Street, we hugged and I told her I

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Speaker 3: had a really good time. And then the next stands

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Speaker 3: around a.

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Speaker 1: Texture and nothing ghosting crushes me, dude, I have to

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Speaker 1: tell you, it's just.

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Speaker 2: It's brutal, absolutely brutal.

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Speaker 1: The other trend that I'm noticing is people's dates are

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Speaker 1: getting less expensive and less expensive, which I love. I mean,

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Speaker 1: it's so expensive just to exist these days. So she

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Speaker 1: seems pretty low key.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that was a big selling point for me. Honestly,

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Speaker 3: was like she was cool with a Ramen first date.

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Speaker 3: You know, some people want really fancy dinners. I like it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna have

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Speaker 1: you on the line. We're gonna have you muted so

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Speaker 1: she can't hear you. But I'm going to call her

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Speaker 1: and see how the date went for her, and then

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Speaker 1: you can listen in. All right, maybe we'll maybe we'll

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Speaker 1: learn something. Who knows, So let's call her. Let's try

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Speaker 1: to figure this out. Go ahead and mute your phone.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, Hello.

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Speaker 2: I may I speak to Mico.

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Speaker 1: Please? Is this she Himiko? My name is Marcus from

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Speaker 1: Star one oh one three. Good morning.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 1: I don't suppose you listened to it to the show.

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Speaker 1: Do you we do a radio show?

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Speaker 2: In the morning.

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Speaker 4: Okay, what's up.

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Speaker 1: So Hi, I'm wondering if you might have a minute

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Speaker 1: to be on the radio with us. So we okay,

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Speaker 1: we do a thing called second Date Update, and I

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Speaker 1: got your phone number from a guy who went on

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Speaker 1: a date with you recently said he had the best time,

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Speaker 1: but he's feeling like maybe you ghosted.

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Speaker 2: Do you have like a minute to talk about your

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Speaker 2: date with Miguel?

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Speaker 4: This is so awkward?

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Speaker 2: So did you ghost?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I did?

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Speaker 2: Okay, did he do something wrong or he's busy or

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Speaker 2: what's what's the story? How did it go for you?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I just you know, it's turning people down is so hard.

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Speaker 5: So yeah, I just ghosted.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Like, the date was fine and the conversation was good.

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Speaker 5: He seems like he's you know, funny and interesting. I

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Speaker 5: did have a good time talking to him, you know,

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Speaker 5: for the little bit of time we had.

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Speaker 2: Did he get weird at some point or something?

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Speaker 5: Maybe about like twenty minutes into the date or so.

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Speaker 5: He had his phone on the table facing up, which

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Speaker 5: it didn't really bother me that much, but I'm like, yeah,

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Speaker 5: why is your phone out? And I noticed he was

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Speaker 5: getting like notifications from door dashed so like first just

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Speaker 5: one and then like another, and I didn't understand what

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Speaker 5: was going on. They're like, I'm assuming they were delivery

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Speaker 5: offers popping up, you know, the screen shows like a

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Speaker 5: restaurant or whatever, and so he's glancing down at his

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Speaker 5: phone constantly looking at it, and then I'll like tap

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Speaker 5: something and then look back up.

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Speaker 4: And I thought it was really weird.

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Speaker 5: So I finally asked him, and he admitted he's a

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Speaker 5: doordasher or whatever, like he just leaves the app on

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Speaker 5: and so he can see like deliveries that are going

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Speaker 5: on in the area because he likes to see like

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Speaker 5: their payouts or whatever in different neighborhoods.

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Speaker 2: He was literally working while on your date.

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Speaker 5: Well technically I guess he wasn't working, but like it

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Speaker 5: seemed like he was going to you know, like he's not.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just very weird.

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Speaker 3: Uh.

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Speaker 5: He would even like you know, be like you'd say

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Speaker 5: stuff like eight dollars for that, no way, or like oh,

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Speaker 5: that's not bad, but then he would decline it and

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Speaker 5: like continue on with our date. So like, I guess

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Speaker 5: he wasn't gonna DoorDash, but in a way, it was

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Speaker 5: like I don't know, maybe if a better offer did

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Speaker 5: pop up, he would have gone.

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Speaker 4: You know, it was just it was so weird.

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Speaker 2: Did you ask him about it?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I was like, are you working right now? And

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Speaker 4: he's like not really.

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Speaker 5: He like he tried to explain how you know, he

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Speaker 5: just likes to look and you know, and see the

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Speaker 5: different payouts, but like, okay, look at one or two

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Speaker 5: and then turn that off.

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Speaker 2: You're on a day journey. Sure, okay, this all makes sense.

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Speaker 4: That's so distracting.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Here's the other part of second date update is that

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Speaker 1: Miguel is actually listening right now, and now I have

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Speaker 1: I have questions.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, uh, Miguel, are you there?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm here.

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Speaker 2: Were you dashing during the date or what was going on?

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Speaker 2: Explain this to me?

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Speaker 3: I mean, that wasn't necessarily honestly, that's crazy. I don't

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Speaker 3: think it was that big a deal. Honestly, I like,

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Speaker 3: I never accepted any deliveries and I was still like

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Speaker 3: fully engaged in the conversation. It's were you though.

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Speaker 2: How do you even do that? Nko? Did he seem

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Speaker 2: engaged to you?

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Speaker 5: I mean, how would you like it if like was

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Speaker 5: checking my text messages every few seconds and like, oh,

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Speaker 5: I didn't reply, but I'm reading on them real quick.

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Speaker 4: Like it's very distracting.

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Speaker 3: Sure, I mean it makes feel distracting, but I mean

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Speaker 3: I would I wouldn't like question it because I mean,

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Speaker 3: who knows it could be an emergency thing that you're

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Speaker 3: just checking out. I don't, you know. I just I

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Speaker 3: was able to do two things at one time. I

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Speaker 3: don't see what the big issue is.

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Speaker 2: Niko, did you say anything while you were on the date?

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Speaker 5: No, not really, Like you know, that's just how he is.

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Speaker 5: That's how he is, you know, you know it was

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Speaker 5: a good side. It was a red flag right there.

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Speaker 5: He's not a very attentive person. Door dashing is.

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Speaker 4: His highlight of the day.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I.

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Speaker 5: Mean I appreciate that he has the hide hustle, but

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Speaker 5: he needs to pause it for you know, an hour,

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Speaker 5: two hours for a date, Miguel.

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Speaker 2: You see where he's coming from, right.

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Speaker 3: I'm kind of caught by surprise. I honestly thought it

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Speaker 3: was harmless, Like I never actually planned to take a

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Speaker 3: delivery while I was on the date. I was just okay,

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Speaker 3: that's going on all.

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Speaker 2: Do we want to do we want to even try

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Speaker 2: this again?

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Speaker 4: Or no?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 5: Okay, he's probably checking his phone right now. Looking he's

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Speaker 5: a nice guy.

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Speaker 2: But no things you can't be working in.

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Speaker 3: Anyway.

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Speaker 2: Hold please Second date update