Speaker 1: Were the roses?
Speaker 2: Amaya and gets the flowers and still gets angry, still upset.
Speaker 2: But does she have a point? Is there something there?
Speaker 2: Is there something going on? Comments from listeners here on
Speaker 2: the Mojoe on in the morning show, Linda, what's up?
Speaker 1: It's were the roses? What's going on?
Speaker 3: Hey Man's morning?
Speaker 4: So we can't pass what he said. He said that
Speaker 4: she's driving the male co workers home every single day.
Speaker 5: Okay, so have they talked about it?
Speaker 4: Is that something he doesn't like she's still doing.
Speaker 2: Let's talk about this for a second, because we did
Speaker 2: ask her that question, and I will tell you this,
Speaker 2: I wish I had the tape running when it was
Speaker 2: going on.
Speaker 1: Asked her about that.
Speaker 2: She said that it was a one time deal, something
Speaker 2: that he's upset about. He obviously still is bringing this
Speaker 2: thing up. That is a very good point. These guys
Speaker 2: have an issue as far as trust is concerned. But
Speaker 2: is him throwing that back in her face a way
Speaker 2: to deflect off of himself Because a lot of people
Speaker 2: would say the moment that he just goes, well, you're
Speaker 2: the one that's cheating, makes you think that there's something
Speaker 2: going on there or your thoughts on that Linda.
Speaker 4: I think it's a double much sword because I feel
Speaker 4: like women do this every day and now men are
Speaker 4: starting to do it every single day because that I've
Speaker 4: pind of situations where I've been accused off of one
Speaker 4: thing that was miscommunicated, and in that case, I'm leaving
Speaker 4: because at that point, you don't trust me and you
Speaker 4: don't trust my words.
Speaker 6: So what are we even doing?
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I listen, I get you that there is
Speaker 2: something to these guys. I thought it was just a
Speaker 2: nice thing, like the guy sent the flowers. I mean,
Speaker 2: it was not even a question, and I don't think
Speaker 2: he knew who he were, so it wasn't that so
Speaker 2: get into that deal. I mean the guy, you know,
Speaker 2: kind of mumbled his way through the whole war of
Speaker 2: the roses. But she was not happy, and they do
Speaker 2: not see him. Honestly, they didn't sound like a match
Speaker 2: like they didn't sound usually when you get couples that
Speaker 2: are on and you talk to them, you're like, oh,
Speaker 2: these guys actually sound like they're into each other. They
Speaker 2: don't sound like they're in there.
Speaker 7: They both started like they were or they both sounded,
Speaker 7: excuse me, like they were trying to pick a fight.
Speaker 8: Yeah, but like to her point though, it seems like
Speaker 8: he's been pulling back.
Speaker 7: Yeah, all of a sudden not posting. And I said
Speaker 7: this when we were talking to her. Get that to
Speaker 7: me as a was a really big thing. If you're posting, posting, posting, posting,
Speaker 7: and then all of a sudden it's like nothing.
Speaker 2: Why I do want to ask this question about posting.
Speaker 2: I want to ask the question about the amount of
Speaker 2: times that your significant others should post you or you know,
Speaker 2: if they don't post you, because I think that there
Speaker 2: are some people that look at it as there has
Speaker 2: to be a certain on a post about you in
Speaker 2: order for you to be out there too, every one
Speaker 2: of their people that follow them. You know, it's kind
Speaker 2: of it so you know what, it's kind of like,
Speaker 2: It's like, you know how dogs mark their territory, it's
Speaker 2: your version of marking your territory, of peeing on your spot.
Speaker 1: Crazy analogy.
Speaker 8: I've been in relationships now I'm obviously I'm on the radio,
Speaker 8: and I think the gifts that God have given me
Speaker 8: has given me has put me in positions to where
Speaker 8: I have to be public, even though I prefer to
Speaker 8: be private. So my personal life outside of like this
Speaker 8: and the things that I do. I don't like talking
Speaker 8: about my personal life, like my friends have been like,
Speaker 8: we've learned more about you on this show than we've
Speaker 8: known about your entire life. That's just how I live
Speaker 8: in relationships. I'm kind of the same way. But I've
Speaker 8: been involved with people who felt this though, And I
Speaker 8: don't know if it's in security or if it's just
Speaker 8: the times of social media that we're in that if
Speaker 8: you're not quote unquote showcasing me or posting me, you
Speaker 8: must mean or that must mean you're hiding me.
Speaker 1: Isn't always a quite in that way.
Speaker 8: He's just I don't want the world to be into
Speaker 8: something that's so private and so sacred.
Speaker 7: Wes stated a girl that was this was a topic
Speaker 7: of conversation and a point of contention between them all
Speaker 7: the time, and he said she would constantly either be sending.
Speaker 1: Him photos to post of her.
Speaker 7: Or they would get into arguments of why he was
Speaker 7: not posting her, and it was it was one of
Speaker 7: the reasons why he was like, this person is not
Speaker 7: my person.
Speaker 2: Yeah, eight four four Mojo Live eight four four six
Speaker 2: six five six five four eight. I want to talk
Speaker 2: about that about not posting on social media and does
Speaker 2: that equate to cheating or hiding something?
Speaker 1: What's up, Tyler High?
Speaker 3: Hey, good morning everybody. Well, I don't think that posting
Speaker 3: your significant other on social media is necessary at all.
Speaker 3: I think doing too much of that is actually unhealthier.
Speaker 3: Maybe there's like some unhealthy reasons underlying why that's happening.
Speaker 3: I just am speaking from.
Speaker 1: Experience here, what's your experience.
Speaker 3: So the relationship I was in before the one i'm
Speaker 3: currently and she would post, not I wouldn't say super frequently,
Speaker 3: but it was a lot more frequently than me. I
Speaker 3: just wouldn't really post other than the occasions, you know,
Speaker 3: maybe a birthday or something like that. But it was randomness,
Speaker 3: but it was also it seemed like possessiveness.
Speaker 9: And looking back on it now being removed, there were
Speaker 9: a lot of signs like in the relationship going on
Speaker 9: at the time as well that I just was ignorant too.
Speaker 3: But now my girlfriend and I don't post each other
Speaker 3: on social media at all, and there's still issues there,
Speaker 3: So that's an interesting one.
Speaker 2: I do think that if things go through a drastic
Speaker 2: change where somebody you know doesn't now all of a
Speaker 2: sudden posts and they were posting me for it does
Speaker 2: make me think that, but they can also go back
Speaker 2: and look at the past posts and realize that they're
Speaker 2: in a relationship. But dave on what's up its mojo
Speaker 2: in the morning, Hi, what was going on?
Speaker 1: Was going on?
Speaker 5: So my perspective, I think maybe a miamieds to take
Speaker 5: a step back, think of think things through with the
Speaker 5: whole taking and got home from work with her boyfriend
Speaker 5: posting her and you know they going out on days
Speaker 5: probably doing the work for her, and did she posts
Speaker 5: him It probably felt like a little embarrassing, especially if
Speaker 5: she didn't communicate that with him. So just they really
Speaker 5: just got a lot of bad miscommunication going on. But
Speaker 5: the whole posting on social media thing, that's only as
Speaker 5: important as the two individuals make it.
Speaker 3: So sense, it's very important to her he should.
Speaker 5: At least oblige do something. Yeah, tell her why he's
Speaker 5: not doing anything?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think so if you're I think if she wants,
Speaker 2: if that's something that she wants, let her have a
Speaker 2: little bit of that.
Speaker 8: I get it, But I always think of why why
Speaker 8: do you need it so bad?
Speaker 1: Because it makes her feel more secure?
Speaker 8: Yeah, then then am I not doing something that I
Speaker 8: need to be doing in a relationship.
Speaker 1: Where the only pointing.
Speaker 8: But I'm saying that's weak as hell. Well, if the
Speaker 8: way that you feel secure in our relationship's.
Speaker 1: Got no, but there's got to be other stuff there.
Speaker 7: So what you're saying, I think it's I think it's
Speaker 7: what Mojo said of then it's public, then everybody knows.
Speaker 9: No.
Speaker 7: Look, we know we all know people who are posting
Speaker 7: the hell out of their significant others and they're still
Speaker 7: doing stuff behind the scenes. So that is definitely not
Speaker 7: a guarantee that.
Speaker 1: But there's also a drastic change in this. He used
Speaker 1: to post her now he's not.
Speaker 8: That's why I asked, was it willingly or was it
Speaker 8: because I've been in relationships where people say I need
Speaker 8: you to post me and I was like forced to
Speaker 8: do it?
Speaker 1: Hey, Cas, what's up?
Speaker 4: Hey?
Speaker 10: I would just like to say with the posting things,
Speaker 10: some people post too much, right all the time. I
Speaker 10: think if you're avoiding posts in me, if we're out
Speaker 10: at dinner and you're just posting the plate, that's the problem. Right,
Speaker 10: Where are Vaca people just posting to stand and I'm
Speaker 10: right next. But if you're you know, if you're at
Speaker 10: home and you're like, oh, I'm playing Roses today. Why
Speaker 10: I'm not there?
Speaker 5: Why?
Speaker 10: You know? But it's something where I should be included.
Speaker 10: I would steal some kind of way because some people
Speaker 10: post like I'm painting my nails. Okay, well who cares?
Speaker 1: Right right? Exactly?
Speaker 10: Yeah, you can tell that they're avoiding it. But like
Speaker 10: the last caller, if it's an issue, just throw them
Speaker 10: in there. Hey remember this guy I'm still with exactly
Speaker 10: subliged Sometimes.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree with you, I Capria, what's up? Its
Speaker 2: Mojo in the morning.
Speaker 11: Hey, guys, I just wanted to say because I've been
Speaker 11: in situations where I was in a relationship and he
Speaker 11: was posting me, but he was cheating.
Speaker 1: So I learned from.
Speaker 11: That and I never post my significant other on social
Speaker 11: media because it's embarrassing to be with someone and they're
Speaker 11: posting you for the world to see, as if there's
Speaker 11: go Matt Lee in love and then all the time,
Speaker 11: the whole time they're cheating on you and you not
Speaker 11: knowing that, than you're posting them and now you look stupid.
Speaker 2: So you let that one time change you as far
Speaker 2: as being that scarred that you won't post anybody.
Speaker 1: Now, absolutely how many times?
Speaker 2: Well, why do you you If that was the case,
Speaker 2: then all of a sudden, you're gonna say the first
Speaker 2: time a guy cheats on you, you're going to.
Speaker 1: Girls, because why do you got to do that? You
Speaker 1: know what I mean?
Speaker 2: Like, I think you got to give it a little bit,
Speaker 2: you know of Uh, that was just him.
Speaker 1: Uh, Lisa, what's up?
Speaker 6: Hey, Mojo? How's it going?
Speaker 1: You know what? Lisa's going? Good? How much are you
Speaker 1: posting your man?
Speaker 3: Well?
Speaker 6: I don't really post him because I've actually been in
Speaker 6: a relationship with him for eight years and he's never
Speaker 6: once posted anything about me.
Speaker 2: Okay, there's this, there's something there. Why is he What
Speaker 2: does he post on his social media?
Speaker 6: Well, he supposedly says that he doesn't post anything, but
Speaker 6: as we know, there's a way to hide those kind
Speaker 6: of things or hide your postings from your significant others.
Speaker 6: So it's always been a sore spot for us. He
Speaker 6: just tells me I'm never on.
Speaker 7: Facebook, but you know that he posts, but he specifically
Speaker 7: hides you from seeing it.
Speaker 6: No, I don't know if he posts because as we
Speaker 6: all know, there is a way to block. Yes, certain people,
Speaker 6: I'm seeing your posts so I always have people kind
Speaker 6: of check up on his profile to see if he's
Speaker 6: posted anything. Ever happened and we've been together for eight years, hardon,
Speaker 6: has it ever happened that.
Speaker 7: He did post something and then blocked you from seeing it.
Speaker 6: Well, I've posted things on his social media and then
Speaker 6: they disappear.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's so.
Speaker 2: He's so you tag him in it and he he
Speaker 2: It will go up on his social and he'll go
Speaker 2: back to it and he'll block it so that it
Speaker 2: doesn't check.
Speaker 6: Well, he denies that he does it, but I'll post
Speaker 6: something like it's his birthday. I'll post and he'll then
Speaker 6: it's on. It's gone a few minutes later. But we've
Speaker 6: been together eight years, and even some of his friends
Speaker 6: we ran into a golf oppings and they asked, who
Speaker 6: I am?
Speaker 2: Lisa. There's something to that. That's weird, man, got why
Speaker 2: are you staying in this?
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 6: I don't know. We've been together, like I said, for
Speaker 6: eight years, but pretty much most of the important people
Speaker 6: in his life don't even know I exist.
Speaker 1: That's who I have children together.
Speaker 6: No, we're beyond that point.
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, that's amazing. That is really kind of sad.
Speaker 2: That makes me really sad. It's not uncommon though, I mean,
Speaker 2: we got a whole on a second.
Speaker 7: We've got our guys that don't post yeah, period, that
Speaker 7: don't have social media period. But to have it and
Speaker 7: to only block your significant other of eight years from
Speaker 7: seeing stuff is well.
Speaker 2: No, she's well, but she also says that it's not
Speaker 2: even so much blocking from seeing it. She'll post something
Speaker 2: that gets on his account and then she he he'll
Speaker 2: purposely go to it and take it off.
Speaker 7: No, I understand that part, but did you hear what
Speaker 7: else she said of You know, if you post a story,
Speaker 7: you can select certain people that you don't want to
Speaker 7: see that story.
Speaker 1: And that's what he was doing to her.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's doing it in real life. That's a that's
Speaker 2: a crazy one. Don't even know her all right. Wore
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