1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,680 Speaker 1: This portion of the Joe Show podcast is powered by 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:06,640 Speaker 1: Fair and Farah, Tampa Accident Attorneys. So a girlfriend gets 3 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:09,240 Speaker 1: in contact with us war the roses. You're concerned about 4 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:13,239 Speaker 1: your significant other, you contact us and we'll call them 5 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 1: and figure out what the hell's going on. Joe Show. 6 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:21,200 Speaker 1: We're on ninety three to three fl Z. Danielle contexts us, Hey, 7 00:00:21,320 --> 00:00:24,319 Speaker 1: my boyfriend. I'm convinced he's still with his ax. He 8 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:26,680 Speaker 1: won't kick her off of the Netflix, he won't post me. 9 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 1: I just think there's something going on. We were friends 10 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:32,960 Speaker 1: before we started dating, he was in a relationship, and 11 00:00:33,000 --> 00:00:35,960 Speaker 1: then weeks after he breaks up with her, we're together. 12 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:40,840 Speaker 1: I'm just afraid that he's still with her. I'm gonna 13 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:44,159 Speaker 1: pick up a call from someone. She's gonna be the 14 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 1: second call that I pick up who says that she 15 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:51,600 Speaker 1: doesn't relate with Danielle. She actually relates to Caleb, the 16 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 1: guy that we just caught cheating. 17 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 2: Hmm yeah. 18 00:00:57,280 --> 00:01:05,840 Speaker 1: But first, I'm just curious, did anyone kind of go 19 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 1: through Danielle situated like I did. I got in a 20 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 1: relationship with someone like six days after they broke up 21 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 1: with their their boyfriend. And this was someone that I 22 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 1: always had a crush on and I'm like, I got 23 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:18,800 Speaker 1: it the moment I get a chance, the moment I 24 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 1: got a chance, I did the first time we got intimate, 25 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 1: she called me her ex's name. 26 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:25,559 Speaker 2: God. 27 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 1: A week after that, we weren't together anymore. Silly me 28 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:31,840 Speaker 1: with no confidence. She was the one that ended up 29 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:34,479 Speaker 1: having to break up with me, and she is now 30 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:38,679 Speaker 1: getting married or is married to that guy. My girl, well, 31 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 1: not girlfriend anymore, my fiance and I so things obviously 32 00:01:42,319 --> 00:01:46,480 Speaker 1: they worked out. We started dating each other a month 33 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 1: after we both got out of relationships, and we kind 34 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:52,560 Speaker 1: of were like trauma bonding in a way, not trauma bonding. 35 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 2: But we were like, oh, I'm going through this. Yeah. 36 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 1: And actually, truthfully, when we first started talking, I told her, 37 00:01:58,040 --> 00:02:00,560 Speaker 1: I said, hey, if you just want to get with him, 38 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 1: so be it. 39 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 2: Now she's engaged me in dating him. I'm just kidding. 40 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:10,640 Speaker 2: What why are you laughing, Tammy? This happened to you. 41 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:15,520 Speaker 3: Yes, it did. Fill me in not with one not 42 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 3: with one x, but multiple xs. This Caleb guy isn't 43 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:22,360 Speaker 3: worth the air that he breathes. She doesn't need to 44 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 3: talk to him about anything. She just needs to move on. 45 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:26,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's what you did. 46 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:28,720 Speaker 3: That's what I did. 47 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 2: Did it take you a long time? 48 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 3: Yeah? It did because I was kind of gun shy 49 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 3: after that, but she did it. 50 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:39,400 Speaker 2: And I mean, obviously, if you're sharing this. 51 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 3: Advisue, yeah, I'm with a wonderful man right now. 52 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:43,080 Speaker 2: Good for you. 53 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 1: Good and that I love these types of calls because 54 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 1: I think that it's good that we share this audio. 55 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 1: And I can't imagine what Daniel's going through right now, 56 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:53,800 Speaker 1: but it will get better. Now, Mary, I quickly tease 57 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 1: you at the beginning, we're finally with you. You said that 58 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 1: you actually relate very very very much. 59 00:02:59,000 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 2: So with Caleb. 60 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:05,200 Speaker 4: I do. I do in some ways, you know, I 61 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 4: look back and I'm like, you know, hey, like why 62 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:10,520 Speaker 4: did it have to be like that? Or why you know, 63 00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:12,920 Speaker 4: did it end up that way? But at the same time, 64 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 4: I mean, where I'm at in my life now, I've 65 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 4: been with my husband for eight years, we've been married 66 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:20,640 Speaker 4: for two and we have a beautiful daughter and we 67 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:23,639 Speaker 4: have a really great life. So sometimes I just think 68 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:27,880 Speaker 4: weird things happen. Granted, and it was at a time 69 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 4: I wasn't even looking I wasn't even looking for another relationship. 70 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 4: I had been in my previous relationship for six years, 71 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 4: and I don't know what it was. It was just 72 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 4: not for me, and this person came along and it 73 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 4: was for me. It's very interesting. 74 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:50,120 Speaker 1: So you're not necessarily Caleb's situation. You're more so like 75 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 1: my situation with my fiance, where you were in a relationship, 76 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 1: you break up, and then very quickly you get into 77 00:03:58,120 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 1: a new relationship and now you're married. 78 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 4: It's weird because it was a little bit of both 79 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 4: because I talked to my husband through texts for a 80 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 4: year before we even got together. 81 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:11,840 Speaker 2: Oh so in a way, you're kind of like emotionally. 82 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, it was. 83 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 2: It was a little bit Hold on one second, Mary, 84 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:19,120 Speaker 2: what the hell did you just say? I call it. 85 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:22,280 Speaker 5: I call it. I call it monkey branching. So essentially, 86 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:25,719 Speaker 5: uh yeah, so essentially they have you have a backup 87 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 5: plane if you're not. I mean, you were talking to 88 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 5: this guy for a year, correct, Mary, before you get 89 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 5: serious with them. 90 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 3: Yeah. 91 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:33,279 Speaker 5: So she was playing, she was planning her seeds. She 92 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:35,200 Speaker 5: was monkey branch and going up the truth see what 93 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 5: was out there before. She was going to break up 94 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 5: with her man, and then now she's with the love 95 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:42,480 Speaker 5: of her life. Now, I mean, do you, but I 96 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 5: don't like the monkey branching concept. 97 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:48,920 Speaker 1: Well it worked out. Shout out to you and your 98 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:54,720 Speaker 1: ape instinct would say, they call it that. 99 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 2: You had a backup plan as well. 100 00:04:57,120 --> 00:05:01,000 Speaker 6: Tabitha, Yeah did sort of. 101 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:03,680 Speaker 3: I went to school. 102 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:06,480 Speaker 6: I went to school with somebody and we were out 103 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 6: of touch for a long time. And I was with 104 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:12,040 Speaker 6: my kids' dad for ten years, and when we split up, 105 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:16,440 Speaker 6: I was doing a lot of live streaming and he 106 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:20,160 Speaker 6: popped in my lives and I just started talking to him, 107 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:22,360 Speaker 6: and me and my ex had just slit up within 108 00:05:22,440 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 6: a month and we started talking. We got together and 109 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:28,719 Speaker 6: we're together now for almost four years live streaming. 110 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:32,240 Speaker 1: Were you playing video games or taking. 111 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 6: Your top stream video games? But at the time I 112 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 6: was just talking. 113 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 2: Oh so not like a cam girl type of thing. 114 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 3: No. 115 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 6: I was just hanging out to chatting with the people 116 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:44,719 Speaker 6: that normally hang out. I just wasn't gaming. 117 00:05:44,839 --> 00:05:47,160 Speaker 1: Because if you were a cam girl, you wouldn't talk 118 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 1: to a client. If I was a girl, I wouldn't 119 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:50,760 Speaker 1: talk to a client. 120 00:05:50,839 --> 00:05:50,919 Speaker 3: Ye. 121 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 1: This portion of the Joe Show podcast is powered by 122 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:56,720 Speaker 1: Fair and Fair Tampa Accident Attorneys.