1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,680 Speaker 1: This portion of the Joe Show podcast is powered by 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 1: Fair and Farah, Tampa Accident Attorneys. Is Ashley a bad friend? 3 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 1: Is Ashley a bad friend? I don't think she's a 4 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:12,080 Speaker 1: bad friend. What do you think you're a bad friend? Uh? 5 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 2: Because I'm going to Dallas to visit one of my 6 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 2: good friends, Ashley, and she send me this long audio 7 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 2: message that Friday we have to change our reservations to 8 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 2: just her and I to three other people because she 9 00:00:25,079 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 2: has three friends that live there and she wants to 10 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 2: hang out with So it's like, okay, fine, I'll change 11 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:29,760 Speaker 2: the reservation. 12 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 3: All five of us can go, and then she goes. 13 00:00:32,479 --> 00:00:35,480 Speaker 2: On Saturday, we have to go to a surprise birthday party, 14 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 2: so make sure to pack all black. 15 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:40,560 Speaker 3: I said, what now, I'm thinking, if I. 16 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:42,159 Speaker 2: Gotta hang out with some of your friends on Friday, 17 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 2: I'm not hanging out with your friends on Saturday. 18 00:00:44,680 --> 00:00:45,880 Speaker 3: So I want to tell her. 19 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 2: Like, listen, I'll stay at the house, you go to 20 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 2: the party, and then when you're done, and you come 21 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:51,600 Speaker 2: back and get me, and then we can go on 22 00:00:51,680 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 2: parlay what. 23 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 1: I agree with you, and then I don't agree with you? 24 00:00:59,160 --> 00:01:01,480 Speaker 1: Why I agree with you in the sense of if 25 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:04,480 Speaker 1: I'm coming into town, if I'm visiting, h like, I 26 00:01:04,480 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 1: don't you know, I just visited my grandma. See that's 27 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:11,039 Speaker 1: we're not the same. I visit my grandma, but I 28 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 1: don't want to see her friends. No friends, thank you, 29 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 1: she's a grandma. She just wants to show me off 30 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:19,320 Speaker 1: to people. I don't want to see her friends. So 31 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 1: I just want to hang out, okay for you? I 32 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 1: think you don't go. 33 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 3: No, I want to go. 34 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 1: No, I think you don't go. I can cancel the 35 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:29,440 Speaker 1: trip to protest. 36 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:33,240 Speaker 3: Well, I can't cancel the trip. Got the ticket you did. 37 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:36,760 Speaker 1: I wasn't aware that you were flying me in to 38 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 1: meet all your friends. 39 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 2: Like Friday, I'm really excited because I'm going to this 40 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 2: restaurant I've never gone to and I'm cool. Like I 41 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 2: said Friday, I want, I'm okay to hang out with 42 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:44,680 Speaker 2: those people. 43 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 3: But two days in a row. 44 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 2: So I said, are these the same girls that will 45 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 2: be at the party on Saturday. She's like, oh no, 46 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:52,560 Speaker 2: these are separate group of friends. AW said, girl, how 47 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 2: many friends do you have and do you. 48 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 3: Know them at all? 49 00:01:55,040 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 4: No? 50 00:01:57,400 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 1: What if you say, hey, I know we've got some 51 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 1: play I just want to make you aware. I do 52 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 1: have something to tell you. I know we can't be 53 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:09,520 Speaker 1: around people. When I tell you, do you mind if 54 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 1: I get some time for that? She immediately is gonna 55 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 1: say yes, she's your best friend. And then she's gonna 56 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:18,119 Speaker 1: be wondering what it is. So day one you get there, Hey, 57 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 1: what's going on? I don't really feel comfortable talking about 58 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:25,119 Speaker 1: it yet. I will, I will, okay, okay. So then 59 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:27,120 Speaker 1: you kind of like make her think it's gonna happen 60 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 1: the night of the party. 61 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 3: Huh. 62 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 1: So then she's like, Okay, come on, you gotta tell me, 63 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 1: and you're like, I don't know if I feel comfortable. 64 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:33,960 Speaker 1: You keep pushing it back. 65 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 3: I don't even want to go. I'm feeling little down 66 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 3: about it. 67 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 1: Next thing, you guys know exactly, are not going you 68 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 1: wait till the next day. Now you're gonna have to 69 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 1: have something to tell her. So what is that thing 70 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 1: you tell her? 71 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 4: Oh? 72 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 2: Man, Joe, Yeah, my friend Joe back at home. He's 73 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 2: just going through a lot. 74 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:51,359 Speaker 3: Was he going through? I don't know. He don't want 75 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:52,919 Speaker 3: to tell me. Some when he tells me, I'll tell you. 76 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, do you yeah? Do you have any advice? Maybe 77 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 1: in trying to get him to tell me what he 78 00:02:58,440 --> 00:03:01,520 Speaker 1: has going on. And then if you guys end up 79 00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 1: going to the party, I'll call you. Then you go, 80 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:07,360 Speaker 1: oh my god, Joe's calling me. We gotta go, we 81 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:07,679 Speaker 1: gotta go. 82 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 2: You really might be because if I'm forced to go, 83 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:12,679 Speaker 2: I'm gonna be so mad. And people like, why don't 84 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:14,400 Speaker 2: you want to go? Because I don't want to interact 85 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:16,920 Speaker 2: with people I don't know. I'm going on the trip. 86 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:18,640 Speaker 2: Like you said, you went to see your grandma. Granted, 87 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:20,320 Speaker 2: you probably don't want to hang out with your grandma's 88 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 2: friends or they might. 89 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:22,079 Speaker 3: Be cooler than you. Nah. 90 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 1: The one that I did, she smelled like mothballs. My 91 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:27,640 Speaker 1: grandma doesn't have any cent And I told her after 92 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:31,079 Speaker 1: I go, Grandma, that woman smelled horrible to. 93 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:31,359 Speaker 3: Hang out with. 94 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 2: You want that quality time, That's what I want. I 95 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 2: want that quality times. 96 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, because then it's like, you know, the lady's like, 97 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:42,320 Speaker 1: so what do you do? All right? Now to the 98 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 1: old lady, she was fine, she was fine. 99 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 4: What if you say we'll do dinner the first night, 100 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 4: but bail, I'm the surprise party. 101 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 3: She has to go. She's going. 102 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 2: I know for a fact she's gonna go to hang 103 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 2: back the food she's bringing. 104 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 3: She's got to be there at five part. 105 00:03:57,560 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 1: No, she can't. She can't go if you're coming in. 106 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 3: No, I'm okay with student at her place. 107 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 2: That's why my bad friend did to stay at her 108 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 2: apartment while she goes to this party. 109 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:09,760 Speaker 1: That's just strange. No, it's not Zabby doing Abbie comes. 110 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 1: Abby's actually gonna be in soon. This is Katie's best friend. 111 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 1: Katie's best friend, yees. 112 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 4: So she's flying in next week for my birthday. But 113 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 4: we keep a balanced like we'll do like it could 114 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:21,359 Speaker 4: get together for my birthday. But then we have our 115 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:24,600 Speaker 4: couch time where we watch like Housewives quality time with 116 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 4: her bestie, and she gets so mad at me if 117 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:27,279 Speaker 4: I packed the schedule. 118 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 3: And I've learned, I've learned to stop doing that. 119 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:32,039 Speaker 2: Yeah, mind you, I wasn't even I wasn't even up 120 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 2: the pack real clothes. I was going in sweats, joggers. 121 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:37,840 Speaker 2: We were just chilling, hanging out the house. And now 122 00:04:37,839 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 2: we're doing all of this, and I know Abbie probably 123 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 2: understands I'm flying in. I wanted to just spend time. 124 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:46,440 Speaker 4: With you, not one hundred percent, but I used to 125 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:47,159 Speaker 4: do that to her. 126 00:04:47,320 --> 00:04:49,360 Speaker 3: But I learned progress growth. 127 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:53,599 Speaker 1: Why is it the only thing I'm thinking about, Joe 128 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 1: is with this whole situation. I can imagine Katie Summer's 129 00:04:56,720 --> 00:05:00,720 Speaker 1: doing a bachelorette party, right, and then Ashley, let's you say, 130 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:03,280 Speaker 1: is invited. Ashley's not gonna want to go because there's 131 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:06,280 Speaker 1: a bunch of strangers around it and want to know. 132 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:09,719 Speaker 2: No, this is because I'm my initial trip was just 133 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:11,320 Speaker 2: going to hang out with her, and now it's just 134 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 2: all these people are now included, Right Katie, if you 135 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 2: don't a bachelor or a bachelorette party, I know it's 136 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:16,599 Speaker 2: gonna be a lot of people. 137 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:21,800 Speaker 1: Hey, Stephanie, Hi, is Ashley a bad friend? 138 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:24,599 Speaker 5: I don't think she is, And I think you guys 139 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:28,279 Speaker 5: came up with a perfect plan. But have Ashley get 140 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 5: ready for the party, and about forty five minutes before 141 00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:34,560 Speaker 5: she has to go, so that's when you call and say, hey, 142 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 5: I really need to talk to you for a while, 143 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 5: and then Ashley kay just bailed in and you will 144 00:05:39,360 --> 00:05:40,159 Speaker 5: never know. 145 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:44,200 Speaker 1: Because Ashley got ready, I did, the intent. 146 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 5: Was there exactly, and then right beforehand where she can't 147 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:50,600 Speaker 5: leave because she has to go to the party and 148 00:05:50,760 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 5: actually has that out to be like, man, I am 149 00:05:53,440 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 5: so sorry. I have to be here for Joe. It's 150 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 5: something with the show, impersonal. I don't know if it's 151 00:05:58,120 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 5: like a wedding something like that. 152 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 1: Do we have a show slogan? I don't think we do. 153 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 1: Can I pitch one? The Joe Show will help you lie, 154 00:06:12,160 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 1: best excuses? 155 00:06:13,640 --> 00:06:17,040 Speaker 5: Do what you do with were the roses? Achieve bit, So. 156 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 3: We'll get you out of the jam. 157 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:22,919 Speaker 5: Of something good luck Ashley and I hope you have 158 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 5: a great. 159 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 1: Trip, Sephanie. We'll get you out of sticky. We got 160 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:34,359 Speaker 1: to work shop that The Joe Show. Bad people, good intention, 161 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:35,440 Speaker 1: good intentions. 162 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, better excuses to get you out of things you 163 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:39,719 Speaker 4: don't want to do. 164 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 1: But I up a bomb loving it. 165 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:48,480 Speaker 3: That's the whole Put that on a T shirt. 166 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 1: This portion of The Joe Show podcast is powered by 167 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:54,160 Speaker 1: Fair and Faara, Tampa accident Attorneys.