1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:04,200 Speaker 1: God Love Pup Family Fest this Saturday, four pm. Bertuccio 2 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:09,680 Speaker 1: Farms Free Concert, Jim Class Heroes Fits in the Tantrums 3 00:00:09,720 --> 00:00:10,320 Speaker 1: Saturday with. 4 00:00:10,280 --> 00:00:13,120 Speaker 2: Party the Park though with Little John Pitbull Jennifer. 5 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:19,400 Speaker 3: Were you there, yes, good morning, Good morning. It was 6 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:22,480 Speaker 3: so awesome. I still cannot walk two days later. 7 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:28,160 Speaker 4: Well, then you did it totally right, if you're feeling 8 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 4: the pace. 9 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 3: Totally right. I had to hit up to that because 10 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:34,960 Speaker 3: we're on the same page. Neither one of us can 11 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 3: walk two days later. 12 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 5: That's so funny. Nick and I were sitting there watching it. 13 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:41,839 Speaker 5: I think it was either Little John or Shaggy who 14 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 5: was on the stage, and we're like, you know, kind 15 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 5: of like dancing, and these two guys walk right in 16 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 5: front of us and just keep walking in One of 17 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:54,319 Speaker 5: them is like like complete while he's walking and then 18 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:55,880 Speaker 5: continues to keep walking. 19 00:00:56,440 --> 00:00:57,920 Speaker 2: Were like, did that seriously take you? 20 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 3: I am doing that. I did not see anyone throw up, 21 00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:07,840 Speaker 3: but yes, I did. Its way too much and I 22 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 3: still cannot move. I'm on my way to cold Plunge 23 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:12,880 Speaker 3: right now to see if I can fix myself. 24 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:14,880 Speaker 2: Where do you go Cold Plunge? 25 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 3: Unchanged Psychiatry and Wellness and Gilbert. We got red light, 26 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:25,679 Speaker 3: cold plunge and for red Sana. They're amazing. What's it 27 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:29,760 Speaker 3: called unchanged psychiatry and wellness? 28 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:33,320 Speaker 2: Wow? I think the psychiatry thing would throw me off. Yeah, 29 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:34,760 Speaker 2: it just seems like that. 30 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 3: It's actually doctors to help with anxiety and depression. But 31 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 3: they also have all the modalities for red light therapy, 32 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:46,960 Speaker 3: cold plunge, everything. It's amazing. I do it every Tuesday. 33 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 2: Do you have to be a patient or can you 34 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 2: just go there and do it? 35 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:52,840 Speaker 3: You can go in, Yeah, you can go in. They 36 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:57,560 Speaker 3: have everything Ala Carte. They also have amazing hyperbaric chambers, 37 00:01:57,680 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 3: they have IV therapies, they have everything. 38 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 2: Wow. They wouldn't let you leave, John Jay, Whyn't you. 39 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:05,920 Speaker 3: Check in right right? Sanday would be like his name 40 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 3: would be on the door. 41 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:08,240 Speaker 4: Can we talk to you for a second here? 42 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:10,160 Speaker 1: Well, Jennifer, I hope you can make it to love 43 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 1: Pop Family Fest this Saturday too. 44 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 3: I'm coming. We're trying. I'm gonna bring my daughter so great. 45 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 2: Well, thanks for listening, Jennifer, Thanks for calling in. 46 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:20,560 Speaker 3: All right, we'll see you this weekend. 47 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:21,799 Speaker 2: Got it? Yeah? 48 00:02:21,840 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 1: So Family Fest is Saturday, Bertuccio Farms, four pm. It's 49 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 1: gonna be awesome. Okay, So, Kyle, you have a thing 50 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 1: the difference between a psychopath and a sociopath. 51 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 5: Yes, so the terms are kind of thrown around like confetti. 52 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:38,519 Speaker 5: You always here, there's psychopath, there's a sociopath. But can 53 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 5: you actually know the difference? And knowing the difference means 54 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:43,679 Speaker 5: you may be able to catch or spot the red 55 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:47,639 Speaker 5: flags before you know. One of these types of personalities 56 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 5: crush your coffee date, steals your promotion, or ghosts you 57 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:52,240 Speaker 5: in the front group. They're both kinds of personalities that 58 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:55,359 Speaker 5: make you go yikes. But the differences are actually pretty wild. 59 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:59,080 Speaker 5: So first you go, were they born or made? Apparently, 60 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 5: psychopaths are basically born with the brain that says emotions, no, 61 00:03:03,240 --> 00:03:07,919 Speaker 5: not today, don't know, don't even know emotions. Sociopaths life 62 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 5: is kind of like made them that way with trauma 63 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:14,119 Speaker 5: or rough childhood's bad luck, maybe even that one high 64 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:15,079 Speaker 5: school group project. 65 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:16,760 Speaker 2: You know they were made. 66 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:19,640 Speaker 5: So so if you've known this person forever and they 67 00:03:19,639 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 5: were always that way, possibly psychopath Right, then you go, okay, 68 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 5: what are their actual personality traits? Like, so, psychopaths are 69 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:30,799 Speaker 5: smooth operators, calm, collected, the kind of person who would 70 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:33,359 Speaker 5: just like lie through a job interview, you'd still root 71 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 5: for them. Sociopaths have quick temper, they're very impulsive. Think 72 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:42,680 Speaker 5: like road rage level one hundred sociopath. Okay, So, like 73 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 5: I said before, like sociopaths can sort of read a room. 74 00:03:45,440 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 5: Psychopaths they look at your feelings and they don't understand, 75 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 5: so like they'll just glaze right over whatever it is 76 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 5: that you're feeling. In relationships specifically, sociopaths can actually love, 77 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:00,960 Speaker 5: like they're kind of like they see those emotions, they 78 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 5: feel those emotions. But again, psychopaths not there. 79 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 1: Okay, so weird listening to because I'm like, oh that's me, 80 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 1: that's me. No, that's not me. Oh that's me. 81 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 2: Yeah. 82 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 4: But if you're in a relationship with the psychopath, they're 83 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:17,479 Speaker 4: kind of like always level neutral, don't react, but the 84 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:20,480 Speaker 4: sociopath will go up and down emotionally kind of like 85 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 4: react strongly. 86 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:23,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, And so like when I was reading this article, 87 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:25,280 Speaker 5: I was really trying to think, like, is Dexter a 88 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:29,719 Speaker 5: psychopath was a sociopath because he did kind of try 89 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 5: to have the feelings, But then again, I don't think 90 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:34,360 Speaker 5: he ever had the feelings feelings. 91 00:04:34,640 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 2: He faked the feelings. 92 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:39,320 Speaker 4: What about Joe, because I feel like Joe really did 93 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:42,040 Speaker 4: love so so he's a sociopath. 94 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 5: And think about Joe's temper. He got so mad and 95 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:44,799 Speaker 5: he killed people. 96 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:50,039 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, he was made that way because remember the book, 97 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 1: Guy locked him in the right. 98 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:56,880 Speaker 2: Yea, Joe is a sociopath. Was kind of born that way? 99 00:04:57,000 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 2: Or was he? 100 00:04:57,480 --> 00:04:58,640 Speaker 5: Because he was born into it. 101 00:04:59,080 --> 00:05:00,599 Speaker 2: He was covered in blood, he saw his mom. 102 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 4: He was created too. 103 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:04,159 Speaker 1: But those are all fake people. What about real people, 104 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:07,360 Speaker 1: real people that we know? Like me, I feel like 105 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:09,039 Speaker 1: I fit in one of those categories. I don't know 106 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 1: which one's better. 107 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:13,280 Speaker 2: That's why. 108 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:15,960 Speaker 1: That's why when you say hothead, I go, hotead, Well, 109 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 1: I'm not a sociopath, and then you go no emotions, okay, 110 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 1: psychopath emotions you do like I've been spending a lot 111 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:24,800 Speaker 1: of time with my sister the last couple of days. 112 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 1: In fact, tonight we're going to Sun's game, and I 113 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 1: was going to tell her this tonight. I say, you know, 114 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:30,160 Speaker 1: you and I have spend so much time together last 115 00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:32,240 Speaker 1: few days. I said, I feel that if one of 116 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 1: us dies soon, the other one should have peace, like 117 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 1: like we had a good relationship. 118 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:39,200 Speaker 2: We're in a good place. What does she say to that. 119 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:41,800 Speaker 1: I'm going to tell her that, and then I feel 120 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:44,280 Speaker 1: like I would just be like, I feel like we 121 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 1: just really connected last few days. 122 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:48,520 Speaker 2: Everything is great. So if you do die, if you die, 123 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 2: I'm good. If I die, I hope you're good too. 124 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 2: We're in a good place. I think we're in a 125 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 2: bad place. But so is that. 126 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 5: Way of looking at it. You're feeling the feelings right? 127 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:00,559 Speaker 2: Is there more so neither? 128 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:03,159 Speaker 5: Well, they just gave advice. I'm like, if you find 129 00:06:03,240 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 5: yourself in a romantic relationship and you're like, oh my god, 130 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 5: these things are clicking and I'm definitely dating a sociopath, 131 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:12,520 Speaker 5: they just say, just expect an emotional roller coaster. They're 132 00:06:12,520 --> 00:06:14,839 Speaker 5: going up and down. They've got a hot temper, so 133 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:17,880 Speaker 5: watch out. Set your boundaries, be clear about what behavior 134 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:23,279 Speaker 5: is unacceptable. Sociopaths can feel guilt, which sometimes like it helps. 135 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 2: A little bit. 136 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:26,359 Speaker 4: Like I wonder if you could fix either one of them, 137 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:28,479 Speaker 4: if you're dating one of them. 138 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 2: I don't think so. 139 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:32,480 Speaker 5: If you are with a psychopath, they say, focus on facts, 140 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:35,280 Speaker 5: not feelings. If you try to help make them empathize, 141 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 5: it's not. 142 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 2: Going to cut through. 143 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 5: Just facts, facts, facts, facts, be cautious with trust, they 144 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:43,800 Speaker 5: are manipulative and may use terms strategically. And just avoid 145 00:06:43,880 --> 00:06:45,520 Speaker 5: getting emotionally entangled. 146 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 2: And if you're already there, get out.