Speaker 1: It's the second date up date on module in the morning,
Speaker 1: Hazel's getting ghosted. I love that name, Hazel. I love
Speaker 1: your name and Hazel, what'd you guys do?
Speaker 2: Hey?
Speaker 3: Thank you so much so me.
Speaker 4: We went on this date.
Speaker 3: We just went to a bar.
Speaker 2: Okay, and how did you guys meet?
Speaker 3: We met on hinge.
Speaker 1: Okay, and now one date later, he's not calling you
Speaker 1: back or he's not trying to plan another date.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's kind.
Speaker 2: Of really weird.
Speaker 3: I thought we had a really good time, but he
Speaker 3: just hasn't answered my text.
Speaker 2: How did you guys say goodbye to each other after
Speaker 2: your date was over with?
Speaker 3: I mean, it wasn't like a huge like makeout sessh
Speaker 3: or anything like that. It was just kind of like
Speaker 3: a simple, like hug goodbye. I don't always kiss on
Speaker 3: the first date, so it didn't seem weird to me.
Speaker 3: But it was just a nice hug goodbye, and then
Speaker 3: we left and that was it.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, we're going to find out what's going on.
Speaker 1: Jason is on with us, Hazel, say hi to Jason.
Speaker 2: Hi, a good morning, Jason. You sound like a nice guy.
Speaker 2: I'm sure that you are.
Speaker 1: Hazel seemed to like you We're just trying to figure
Speaker 1: out if we can match you guys up for another
Speaker 1: date and do a second date and we'll take care
Speaker 1: of it, or if there's not going to be a
Speaker 1: second date.
Speaker 2: We wanted to kind of figure out why that was.
Speaker 2: What's what's going on?
Speaker 3: Uh? I listen it is it was a nice first date.
Speaker 5: But I'm okay, what was it that made it that
Speaker 5: you don't want to do another date?
Speaker 2: Are you just a busy guy or.
Speaker 5: It seems like she's a busy girl? Is the There
Speaker 5: is a weird There is a weird part. The date
Speaker 5: was fine, it was nice, nice, but at a point
Speaker 5: she starts showing me this list that she had like
Speaker 5: ready on her phone of all the guys.
Speaker 2: That she's hooked up with before, and it's with.
Speaker 5: Like details and charting, and it was just a bit much.
Speaker 2: Wo How did that come up? Why did that come up?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 3: No, no, no, You're you're making it sound like I'm
Speaker 3: glad you asked that. You're making it sound like I
Speaker 3: just showed you out of the blue just because I
Speaker 3: wanted to, or I thought it was fun. You asked me,
Speaker 3: you straight up asked me how many people I had
Speaker 3: been with before, so I didn't just pull this out
Speaker 3: out of nowhere.
Speaker 1: So wait, so he asked you that, and in Hazel,
Speaker 1: what did you do? And he asked you that you
Speaker 1: went to your phone and you actually.
Speaker 3: Well, he asked me how many people that I'd been
Speaker 3: with and I told him the number and he seemed
Speaker 3: really like blown away by that and was really upset,
Speaker 3: and I was like, oh yeah, let me Like, I
Speaker 3: don't know anybody that's asked me before, I just show
Speaker 3: them this list. It's like me and my girlfriends do
Speaker 3: the same thing. So I didn't think it was a
Speaker 3: huge deal. So I pulled up my phone and I said, yeah,
Speaker 3: I have a list of everybody that I keep on
Speaker 3: my phone and I showed him because he wanted to
Speaker 3: know like details about it. After I told him the number.
Speaker 2: Are you comfortable with sharing the number? Uh?
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's fifteen, So that's I mean, are you off
Speaker 4: put by the number?
Speaker 2: Did you think the list was weird? Because a little
Speaker 2: bit both.
Speaker 5: Honestly, the numbers a little high. The list also had
Speaker 5: like it's like details and it was ready it's like locations.
Speaker 4: To me, that's being a little bit responsible though, because
Speaker 4: when it comes to partners, and who knows if somebody
Speaker 4: had something, and then you know.
Speaker 7: I get that, but you're not sharing that with somebody
Speaker 7: out that you're on a date, right, But he.
Speaker 3: Asked, right, No, exactly, he asked, and I that's exactly right.
Speaker 3: I keep it for those kind of medical purposes or incidents.
Speaker 3: If something happened, I can go back and say, Okay,
Speaker 3: this happened on this date. Maybe it's this person, I
Speaker 3: should contact them, Hazel.
Speaker 2: What's in what's in the specifics?
Speaker 3: Well, it's like, okay, it's it's like where it happened,
Speaker 3: the person's name, their phone number, the date that it happened.
Speaker 3: I us, Okay. When I was younger, I used to
Speaker 3: do like a score on aut of ten. So there's
Speaker 3: a couple of those, how would.
Speaker 2: You rank them score wise? What was the score? Four?
Speaker 3: Just like how much I enjoyed it? Okay, But that
Speaker 3: was that was a while ago. That was like the
Speaker 3: first couple of people that I was like, oh, let
Speaker 3: me do this, and then I was like, that's a
Speaker 3: little imature. Let me let me stop doing that. But
Speaker 3: it's more just like where it happened, what day it happened,
Speaker 3: and what if we were on our second date, third date,
Speaker 3: ten state, whatever it is.
Speaker 1: Can I just throw us out there, Jason, I don't
Speaker 1: think that. First off, it seems like fifteen's a big number.
Speaker 1: I don't, you know, think that that seems very high.
Speaker 1: But also, she didn't like make out with you on
Speaker 1: the first date. She talked about that when she was
Speaker 1: talking to us where she said that she doesn't do
Speaker 1: that in the first date. So this doesn't sound like
Speaker 1: a girl that is out there, you know, doing a
Speaker 1: bunch of crazy stuff.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's not. She's not ho ho ho in around,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. I don't see anything wrong
Speaker 2: with dishonest. No, I think what she's doing is good.
Speaker 2: I actually think that I would want.
Speaker 7: To think that this conversation, though, should even happen on
Speaker 7: a first date.
Speaker 2: How many people have been with No, Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 2: So you say he shouldn't have asked her.
Speaker 7: Even if he asked her, which obviously he did, Like
Speaker 7: that would be my response, It's like, I don't. I
Speaker 7: don't I want to get to know you. I don't
Speaker 7: like that's just not something I need to know right away.
Speaker 1: I think though, that that's one of those questions in
Speaker 1: conversation that could come up it doesn't have to be
Speaker 1: that you get specific.
Speaker 2: But hey, how I.
Speaker 7: Think yeah, I mean, I don't know. I just don't
Speaker 7: think that's a first date convo. I think it's an
Speaker 7: important convo to have, you know.
Speaker 1: At something point interesting, Like I always think that that's
Speaker 1: like an interesting topic in itself. And I don't think
Speaker 1: you should ever judge a person based on high or
Speaker 1: low in numbers.
Speaker 2: And but I think the problem is you do. Like Wes.
Speaker 7: I've known him for how many years? I still don't
Speaker 7: know his number, and I think that I would be
Speaker 7: very put off if I did know his number, because
Speaker 7: I know it's not good. And if that was one
Speaker 7: of the.
Speaker 2: First would though, what do you mean high or low? High?
Speaker 7: I think his number is high, And had that been
Speaker 7: one of the first things that I found out about him,
Speaker 7: I probably would have been like, yeah.
Speaker 1: Not for me, you were You've always on the show.
Speaker 1: Whenever the numbers have come up, You've always been I
Speaker 1: will never share my number.
Speaker 7: At all, And I don't think, to be fair, my
Speaker 7: number is not too low and it's definitely not too high.
Speaker 7: I think my number is pretty normal.
Speaker 1: You feel like that the number is a very personal
Speaker 1: thing that you don't want to. Yeah, yes, how soon
Speaker 1: into a relationship would you share it?
Speaker 7: I mean we've we've never shared.
Speaker 4: Shared, asked Wes, and he just says.
Speaker 2: To multiple multiple times. Honestly, I will tell you this.
Speaker 1: I think that you know, most people would expect that
Speaker 1: most guys numbers would be high numbers. Myself and a
Speaker 1: lot of my friends, our numbers are not high. I mean,
Speaker 1: I met Chelsea early in my life, but I got it.
Speaker 1: But I also think that there are some girls that
Speaker 1: look at you with a low number and think that
Speaker 1: a low number is awkward. But Jeff, what'd you want
Speaker 1: to say about Hazel and Jason here?
Speaker 3: Well, I just wanted to say that's a good girl
Speaker 3: right there, because that's a low number.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, and I'm no judging on people with
Speaker 1: a higher number, but that is interesting that you would
Speaker 1: actually be happy with a fifteen for a number.
Speaker 3: Well, I mean, in reality, do numbers really matter as
Speaker 3: long as a man or a woman takes care of himself?
Speaker 7: Right, But that's exactly my point is we are all
Speaker 7: we all just did it. We all judged low high. Yeah,
Speaker 7: all right, Like it's just it, It is a natural
Speaker 7: thing that we do.
Speaker 8: You want to blue out box and you want to
Speaker 8: make sure that the six degrees is separate.
Speaker 2: Is particularly who's in the numbers. I'd be looking up names.
Speaker 7: And think a more important conversation. And again, I don't
Speaker 7: think it should happen on a first date unless you're
Speaker 7: having sex on a first date. Is like the disease.
Speaker 7: Conversation is an important conversation. Whether you've had sex with
Speaker 7: one person or a hundred, that's an important conversation to have.
Speaker 8: Ever know where the conversation can go on a first
Speaker 8: date and if the vibe is the vibe, like maybe
Speaker 8: you don't intend to even have sex on a first day,
Speaker 8: but the vibe goes a certain way and that's what
Speaker 8: end up happens.
Speaker 1: The same thing can go for conversation. I like the conversation.
Speaker 1: I just think it's interesting. Well, but I also like
Speaker 1: the fact that she didn't have sex with him on
Speaker 1: the first date.
Speaker 2: I like that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what's up, Miranda, Hey guys, good morning, Good morning Miranda.
Speaker 9: I don't know.
Speaker 8: I kind of feel like.
Speaker 6: Sometimes and it might not be the case right now
Speaker 6: in the situation, but a lot of guys have talk well.
Speaker 6: I don't feel like a lot of women ask men that.
Speaker 6: I feel like men ask women more often, and I
Speaker 6: don't know why. I like, Shannon just made a great point.
Speaker 6: Whether it's one or one hundred, like the odd you know,
Speaker 6: that risk of disease whatever, could still be there. I
Speaker 6: feel like it was kind of maybe just asked not
Speaker 6: necessarily to judge her, but maybe like was looking for
Speaker 6: a hug up and it's like, oh, well, that's too
Speaker 6: many people for me. I'm not gonna.
Speaker 2: Miranda, you know, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I've got girlfriends that are single and the only number
Speaker 1: they care about is four to oh one k. They
Speaker 1: don't care about any others. But I also do think
Speaker 1: that in Hazel's case, I think it's pretty cool that
Speaker 1: she actually saves a lot of this stuff, and I
Speaker 1: think it's good for her to make sure that she's
Speaker 1: doing it in a way that makes her happy. And
Speaker 1: who gives her ass ass if she's even graydon or whatever.
Speaker 1: If I'm Jason, I'm worried that I'm gonna be a
Speaker 1: bad grade. What's going on? How you doing?
Speaker 2: Sam?
Speaker 6: All right?
Speaker 9: I want to say a couple of peg yes one
Speaker 9: and I hope you guys are doing well. Jason, I
Speaker 9: mean honestly, it sounds like you might be one of
Speaker 9: those guys that no matter what the number is, it's
Speaker 9: gonna bother you. And that's okay, But just don't ask.
Speaker 9: You know, you gotta go into a situation telling yourself
Speaker 9: that you don't want to know, because if you find out,
Speaker 9: you might feel.
Speaker 10: Some type of way and call it up. So don't ask.
Speaker 10: Is one and then and then two?
Speaker 9: You know, I am really proud of Hazel for having it,
Speaker 9: you know, because Jason, the last thing you want is
Speaker 9: to be with the girl who tells you, oh, I
Speaker 9: don't know how many.
Speaker 2: Pardoners, but yeah.
Speaker 9: Exactly, or someone that lies about it. And and but honestly, Jason,
Speaker 9: you know, the last thing I'll say is I mean,
Speaker 9: I get it.
Speaker 10: From where it's to give you the benefit of the doubt.
Speaker 10: You know, if if she's twenty, maybe to you, maybe
Speaker 10: you're you interpreted fifteen. It's like, wow, okay, you know,
Speaker 10: high school college, you know, you had a lot of
Speaker 10: partners if she's younger, but especially if she's you know, older,
Speaker 10: Like if you do get told the number, keep that
Speaker 10: in mind, you know.
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, you know, how old are you? Hazel? And
Speaker 2: twenty nine?
Speaker 1: Years old, twent nine years old, fifteen. I don't think
Speaker 1: that that seems like a huge number.
Speaker 2: I really don't. I was on a day with a
Speaker 2: girl on side. She said fifty fifty. Why don't you respond?
Speaker 1: So he was fifty one one.
Speaker 2: I throw by.
Speaker 7: They're high fiving in the studio. You can't see unless
Speaker 7: you're watching I throw.
Speaker 5: But she says the home of the journey on the
Speaker 5: thirty second data maybe the roses.
Speaker 2: This is Mojo in the morning.