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Speaker 2: Welcome back, Yes, Angel.

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Speaker 3: Real quick.

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Speaker 4: I wanted to put the loop or the bow on

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Speaker 4: that last conversation, right. So he is on the Breakfast

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Speaker 4: Clubs Breakfast Show and it's disgusting. It's absolutely disgusting. It's

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Speaker 4: a joke. My fellow Puerto Rican guy wants me to

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Speaker 4: make a note of it. Does it make any difference

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Speaker 4: to you guys that this episode was twelve thirteen years ago?

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Speaker 4: What episode but where the Morris from the from the

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Speaker 4: Boys to Men. Yeah, is again he's joke and he

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Speaker 4: did the thing that you just said. He's like, oh no,

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Speaker 4: we weren't in the states that it's illegal. We were

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Speaker 4: in the States that it was legal. He is out.

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Speaker 4: It's a joke. They're making a joke out of it.

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Speaker 4: The episode is about twelve to thirteen years old. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: but I got a guy out here getting getting at

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Speaker 4: me saying, well, that was twelve or thirteen years ago

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Speaker 4: that he did that.

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Speaker 2: Does that?

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Speaker 3: I think it makes it worse, makes it worse. That's

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Speaker 3: right in the middle of woke time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and he's up there, and if you could hear

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Speaker 4: Charlemagne laughing, you could every it's a joke. And he

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Speaker 4: basically says, yeah, she was sixteen seventeenth.

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Speaker 2: And they're laughing about it, and she was old enough

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Speaker 2: to get it. That's a quote. Oh yeah, that's not cool.

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Speaker 3: Ya, it's definitely went worse.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was.

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Speaker 1: Giving the guy benefit of the doubt that but I

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Speaker 1: know nothing about boys to men. I know nothing about

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Speaker 1: their personalities, and I was just like, oh, you know,

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Speaker 1: I was thinking different. But yeah, if he's doing that,

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Speaker 1: he's a piece of crap.

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Speaker 5: And we don't have a representative from said community here

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Speaker 5: right now, but this is it like differently looked at

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Speaker 5: in the black community, where you get like an R.

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Speaker 3: Kelly, you get like these guys that do that.

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Speaker 5: Kind of thing, and it's like where, I mean, where

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Speaker 5: the parents? Why was no one making a fuss about

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Speaker 5: it at all? So I don't know, No.

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Speaker 3: I think it's just a predator behavior.

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Speaker 6: And you know, sometimes even the families are like, Oh,

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Speaker 6: this guy's gonna help her out and build her career,

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Speaker 6: and and everybody's invested in this outcome and they probably

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Speaker 6: have regrets too.

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Speaker 5: There's like all kinds of guys like this, Like there's

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Speaker 5: a documentary that just came out on Netflix about Red

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Speaker 5: Hot Chili Peppers that skips a giant part of it

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Speaker 5: where he's one.

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Speaker 4: I've never been able to understand how he's gotten to

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Speaker 4: pass on that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and then Jerry Seinfeld, you guys just acting like

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Speaker 1: everybody knows what you're talking about.

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Speaker 2: What do you mean? Yeah, I don't know about it.

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Speaker 2: What happened?

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Speaker 5: He was with a sixteen year old girl that he

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Speaker 5: got like her parents to sign off on like a

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Speaker 5: hope that well he was like well above age.

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Speaker 3: And then Jerry Seinfeld.

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Speaker 5: Wife met when they were when she was like seventeen,

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Speaker 5: possibly sixteen, depending on who you believe.

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Speaker 2: Well, then Elvis met Priscilla when she was fourteen.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, like is do we just go. That's

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Speaker 3: the nineties. I was there for the nineties and I

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Speaker 3: don't remember it being smiled.

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Speaker 1: Upon, right, Yeah, hey, so okay, you were telling me

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Speaker 1: that you have you have the opportunity to go interview

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Speaker 1: a bunch of gen zs.

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Speaker 2: Who have are that they graduated from law school.

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Speaker 3: They will be graduating from law school in May.

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Speaker 6: But they basically they've done everything they do and they

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Speaker 6: know they've got the degree.

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Speaker 4: That last semester in law school.

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Speaker 3: Is it wild?

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Speaker 6: Right, No, it's it's all bar proper, right, It's all

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Speaker 6: just getting ready for this one test that's going to

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Speaker 6: determine whether or not the last seven years of your

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Speaker 6: life or a waste of your life.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I don't these aren't going to be lazy

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Speaker 2: doing it for seven years.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, these are like, I don't know, man is a lawyer? Well, yeah,

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Speaker 6: I know lots of lawyers that are not. They don't

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Speaker 6: represent what I think a lawyer should represent.

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Speaker 1: That So what questions were you thinking about asking them

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Speaker 1: when you do these these interviews, and then maybe we

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Speaker 1: can help you with other ideas.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so here's the problem.

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Speaker 6: So, uh, I do these every year, And and the

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Speaker 6: problem I ran into the last few years is I

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Speaker 6: think there's a disconnect. You know, I've got I've got

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Speaker 6: a really good idea in my mind of what makes

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Speaker 6: a really good young lawyer, Like, you know, there's a combination,

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Speaker 6: like you have to have grit, Like you have to

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Speaker 6: be able to like you know, you know, overcome obstacles

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Speaker 6: and struggles. You lose some hearings, like you don't know

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Speaker 6: what you're doing, like you're gonna make mistakes, and clients

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Speaker 6: are gonna yell at you and say you're dumb, and

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Speaker 6: and they might be right, like you might have done

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Speaker 6: something dumb. And so you have to have some grit,

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Speaker 6: but like you also have to have some awareness. And

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Speaker 6: and that last one, the awareness part, is missing.

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Speaker 7: You know.

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Speaker 2: You know I used to say, awareness, what do you mean?

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Speaker 6: You asked somebody a question like you know, you know,

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Speaker 6: like the stereotypical like give me your weakness and then

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Speaker 6: explain like how it impacts you. Right, And then they're like, well,

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Speaker 6: my weakness is I study too hard, I work too much.

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Speaker 2: My weaknesses I care too much.

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Speaker 3: And then and then she.

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Speaker 6: You're all right, let's dig deeper on this, like let's

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Speaker 6: explain like how this is as weakness for you and

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Speaker 6: I always try to like turn into a strength. I'm like, wow,

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Speaker 6: you work too hard, Like that sounds like such a

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Speaker 6: strength because you know that's that's obviously what they're trying

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Speaker 6: to engender. And and and they have like no depth

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Speaker 6: of awareness to be like, oh, I'm now boxed in.

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Speaker 3: How do I talk myself out of it? They're just

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Speaker 3: like yes, and it's it's over.

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Speaker 6: And I don't want to I don't want to hire

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Speaker 6: any of these people that have no perspective because you know,

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Speaker 6: I think part of what happens in life is that

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Speaker 6: really had a hard time finding questions that get them

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Speaker 1: So what have you found that has made when someone's

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Speaker 1: What is what makes what makes someone stand out? What

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Speaker 1: makes them good?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's so many things.

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Speaker 6: One willing to keep digging and this is like it's

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Speaker 6: a model that we have in our firm of like

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Speaker 6: you don't just accept like the first answer is like

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Speaker 6: that much be the right answer, because that's the first

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Speaker 6: one I found about the easiest one, like keep digging,

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Speaker 6: find all the answers, the ones that say you're right,

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Speaker 6: the ones that say you're wrong, and then have a

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Speaker 3: You're in court. Amber, you're our youngest person on the show.

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Speaker 5: Uh can you can you ask Amber a couple of

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Speaker 5: questions that you would ask and then Amber would respond

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Speaker 5: as as said, youngest.

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Speaker 8: Person, But I'm not a gen z, but.

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Speaker 9: I know close as we got to see what he's

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Speaker 9: working with that along and mentally you could be close

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Speaker 9: to the you're right, she's basically twenty one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm just gonna lie now mentally mentally lying.

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Speaker 8: Okay, mentally not twenty one, but twenty five.

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Speaker 3: Basically twenty one.

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Speaker 6: So like, here's a really good, just really good opening question,

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Speaker 6: Like tell me about what made you interesting? It made

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Speaker 6: you interested in wrestling? Try tie it to wrestling because confusing.

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Speaker 7: Good super heroes. They were superheroes to me watching them

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Speaker 7: just the talent, I don't know, just watching them like

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Speaker 7: what they did. When I was younger, I was like, man,

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Speaker 7: these guys are like superheroes. And the women look at

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Speaker 8: Off the top rope. I was like, they're like real

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Speaker 6: But like you could have done anything in your life,

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Speaker 6: Like what made you choose to be a superhero like

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Speaker 6: the wrestlers that you want.

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Speaker 8: To be when I realized it was possible?

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Speaker 3: What made you think is possible?

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Speaker 8: Because other women did it.

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Speaker 3: They paid away, you could be like them.

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Speaker 7: Because I'm brave and stupid. It's a little bit of

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Speaker 7: courage that comes with bravery and stupidity.

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Speaker 6: So give me an example of how being brave and

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Speaker 6: stupid has helped you be a wrestler.

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Speaker 7: Uh, not being afraid to take chances, not being afraid

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Speaker 7: to fail, diving head first. But obviously I didn't think

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Speaker 7: it was possible. That's why I was an EMT first.

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Speaker 7: So I took a like a career job that was

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Speaker 6: So give me an example of you taking a chance

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Speaker 6: and being brave and stupid, like a specific chance, like

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Speaker 6: a specific example.

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Speaker 8: Moving here to start wrestling.

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Speaker 3: Yes, who's just kind of crushing this interview.

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Speaker 7: Toal, I moved here completely alone, knowing absolutely nobody states,

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Speaker 7: away from friends and family, left a career job behind

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Speaker 7: that I was doing really well at to then pursue

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Speaker 7: professional wrestling, which the odds were against me. I'm a

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Speaker 7: petite small woman, but I saw some other petit small

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Speaker 7: women coming up. And this was, you know, the twenty twelve,

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Speaker 7: twenty thirteen fourteen area where Bailey, Carmela, Becky, Lynch, Charlotte,

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Speaker 7: all these women, Sasha Banks are all coming up, and

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Speaker 7: I was like, whoa, They're not the size of China.

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Speaker 7: They're not like muscle mommies like Tristratus and Ledo.

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Speaker 8: They were still pretty big.

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Speaker 7: Muscle wise coming up in that air, and I was like,

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Speaker 7: if these women can do it, well, why the hell

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Speaker 7: can't I? And yeah, so I believed in myself enough

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Speaker 7: to take the risk.

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Speaker 6: Have you ever set like a timeframe for like it's

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Speaker 6: going to be this song before I'm successful in my

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Speaker 6: wrestling career.

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 7: I told myself, you know, if it doesn't work out,

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Speaker 7: I can always move back home and go back to

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Speaker 7: my career job.

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Speaker 8: Not a big deal.

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Speaker 7: And even now, I don't put that thief of thief

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Speaker 7: of joy on me.

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Speaker 8: The comparison is thief of joy. Have I made it? Heck,

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Speaker 8: yeah I have.

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Speaker 7: I've wrestled in other countries, I've toured the US I've

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Speaker 7: been on I have been on W I have been

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Speaker 7: on AW, I have been on Impact.

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Speaker 8: I'm now at iHeartRadio. How cool is that?

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Speaker 1: Hey, right, when you when you're when you're interviewing someone

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Speaker 3: All my problems. Yeah, and some of what you can fix,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they don't tell the whole story.

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Speaker 3: Don't tell the whole story.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Uh So when you're interviewing someone and you're gonna go

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Speaker 2: Yet Like, no, they don't. Yeh.

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Speaker 6: So I usually spend like fifteen minutes after the interview.

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Speaker 4: You got to ask them about their aura farming wh's

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Speaker 5: No, okay, righty, I'm a gen Z kid, all right

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Speaker 3: I'm coming to you, all right and all right, and

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Speaker 5: Oh bet, no, cap okay, low key, I had mad

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Speaker 3: And on God, on God ray is a better life.

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Speaker 3: I had somebody say, bet in an interview last week,

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Speaker 1: So if they use current slang to you, that is

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Speaker 6: I just said, like, listen, I don't know if that

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Speaker 3: Not doing a great job.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, I love that.

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Speaker 7: I love that response because they don't sound mature, confident intelligence.

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Speaker 8: I don't know what I want you.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, you thought you ate there, but that was just

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so you're sending one of these, and it's the

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Speaker 1: divorced people. These are the fights that entered their marriage. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because because I find it interesting. These are the

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Speaker 2: Friendly Ray Trently here with t K Law.

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Speaker 1: Every week there's always someone that will send me an

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Speaker 2: A lot of people out there that are thinking about it.

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Speaker 3: Uh, And Christina calls me every week.

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Speaker 2: It's weird. Welcome back. I ruse with Angel and Ryan.

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Speaker 3: And Amberdon established dominance in a sex game we.

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Speaker 1: Played, and you sent me this story and it's like,

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Speaker 3: Right, I think spending is probably number one.

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Speaker 2: Really, Yeah, spend how much money they spend?

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Speaker 6: The dynamic I've seen a lot of divorces, not necessarily relationships,

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Speaker 6: well about it, and it leads to a fight. That's

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Speaker 6: probably the number one thing I think people fight about that.

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Speaker 3: I mean for affairs. A lot of times.

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Speaker 6: Interestingly enough, people say I could I could look past it,

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Speaker 1: I could look past the affair, but I can't look

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Speaker 6: No, Yeah, So the first one is fight about therapy.

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Speaker 6: And so you know, as you have these conflicts and

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Speaker 6: It's almost accusatory. You don't communicate, well, we need to

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Speaker 2: Well do you get like I.

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Speaker 1: Know someone who's going through and I'm not saying who

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Speaker 1: If you think you're perfect, you're wrong, and she won't

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Speaker 2: And that is just so wrong.

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Speaker 6: Another one was a fight about lunch, and this just

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Speaker 3: So and this is what I'm not proud of.

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Speaker 3: Dollars for two people. Like I'll enjoy the lunch.

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Speaker 6: Do all the things because I'm thinking, like this is

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Speaker 3: Oh I'm so mad.

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Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, I've gotten better at it, like with

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Speaker 6: I like to admit it you were wrong, but like

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Speaker 3: What are we doing feeding a whole neighborhood?

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Speaker 2: But yet you'll spend one hundred fifty bucks with that.

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Speaker 3: I am not proud of it, Russ, but I like

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna move on, right. The next one was about

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Speaker 3: They go to the Louver Museum and Paris.

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Speaker 6: to see if the museum was open. We planned this trip,

446
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Speaker 6: We planned this day all around going to this museum. Yeah,

447
00:18:38,920 --> 00:18:40,679
Speaker 6: and this is something I was really looking forward to.

448
00:18:41,040 --> 00:18:44,880
Speaker 6: You should have looked ahead and planned this and and.

449
00:18:44,840 --> 00:18:47,879
Speaker 2: I mean that's just a mistake though, right like it is.

450
00:18:47,920 --> 00:18:50,119
Speaker 6: But here's what I think it underlines as far as

451
00:18:50,119 --> 00:18:54,640
Speaker 6: the conflict goes, is, some people really prioritize planning. Some

452
00:18:54,680 --> 00:18:57,760
Speaker 6: people really prioritize kind of like go with the flow,

453
00:18:58,080 --> 00:19:00,800
Speaker 6: let's see how the day goes. Yeah, I'm a planner

454
00:19:01,280 --> 00:19:04,119
Speaker 6: and so my in laws are the opposite. So we

455
00:19:04,160 --> 00:19:05,800
Speaker 6: went to Ireland a couple of years ago. I know,

456
00:19:05,840 --> 00:19:07,800
Speaker 6: I talked to you, talk to everybody I knew who'd

457
00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:10,880
Speaker 6: been to Ireland, and I planned out a full itinerary,

458
00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:12,800
Speaker 6: like every minute of every day.

459
00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:15,520
Speaker 3: We knew what we were going to do. By day two.

460
00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:18,640
Speaker 6: That was thrown away because it was creating so much

461
00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:20,800
Speaker 6: conflict in the house that like I'm like, all right,

462
00:19:20,880 --> 00:19:23,760
Speaker 6: it's eight am, let's get up, like finish your breakfast,

463
00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:25,840
Speaker 6: Like I was getting breakfast by day two. I was

464
00:19:25,880 --> 00:19:28,920
Speaker 6: getting breakfast and bringing it to the place where we're staying.

465
00:19:28,720 --> 00:19:30,760
Speaker 1: Because you were going on a schedule.

466
00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:32,159
Speaker 3: We will leave on time today.

467
00:19:32,280 --> 00:19:35,440
Speaker 2: I don't like doing that. I like willy nilly and it.

468
00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:38,399
Speaker 6: But recognizing that people have different like ideas when they

469
00:19:38,440 --> 00:19:40,600
Speaker 6: go on vacation, I was able to kind of take

470
00:19:40,600 --> 00:19:42,879
Speaker 6: a step back and be like, oh, I'm being in

471
00:19:42,880 --> 00:19:45,800
Speaker 6: the a hole here, Like I cannot do this. This

472
00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:48,400
Speaker 6: is going to make it a very unpleasant trip for everybody. Right,

473
00:19:49,400 --> 00:19:52,359
Speaker 6: this is another one I'm guilty of fighting over the phone.

474
00:19:53,920 --> 00:19:57,439
Speaker 6: So like it's like the scrolling that happens, like so like,

475
00:19:57,880 --> 00:20:00,359
Speaker 6: you know, I come home. Ryan and I are now married,

476
00:20:01,080 --> 00:20:02,560
Speaker 6: and I want to see Ryan, Like I think he's

477
00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:05,000
Speaker 6: a funny guy, he's a handsome guy. He's been working out.

478
00:20:05,040 --> 00:20:08,360
Speaker 6: I want to touch his muscles. But then he's scrolling

479
00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:12,440
Speaker 6: through his phone incessantly and just like tiktoking.

480
00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:13,240
Speaker 8: And ignoring you.

481
00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:15,000
Speaker 3: I was trying to think of the words he was

482
00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:18,280
Speaker 3: saying earlier. Yeah.

483
00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:21,040
Speaker 6: Uh, and and he's just blowing me off, like I'm

484
00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:24,240
Speaker 6: here looking for connection and he's just looking for me

485
00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:25,680
Speaker 6: to be a companion in the room.

486
00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:27,080
Speaker 2: Right, So here's what I like.

487
00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:29,440
Speaker 3: I'm sure I'm here straight busting.

488
00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:31,320
Speaker 1: This is the situation that they or may not have

489
00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:33,440
Speaker 1: come up in the Rowlins household. All right, So if

490
00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:35,240
Speaker 1: Mary Ellen comes into the room, then I'll put my

491
00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:35,760
Speaker 1: phone down.

492
00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:37,920
Speaker 3: But if she's looking at horse Garrel's butt.

493
00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:40,520
Speaker 1: But if she leaves the room then and then don't

494
00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:43,040
Speaker 1: you know, I'll scroll or whatever. But I think she

495
00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:46,240
Speaker 1: gets even irritated if she knows I'm jumping on the

496
00:20:46,280 --> 00:20:48,160
Speaker 1: phone even when she leaves the room.

497
00:20:48,240 --> 00:20:51,320
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, I assume the bathroom, I'm

498
00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:54,440
Speaker 4: some you cau'ds just jump onto some of shoe walks

499
00:20:54,440 --> 00:20:54,920
Speaker 4: out the door.

500
00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:55,400
Speaker 2: I do.

501
00:20:56,119 --> 00:20:58,720
Speaker 5: I say to my wife, which I'm mad route somewhere

502
00:20:58,760 --> 00:21:00,399
Speaker 5: and I'm scrolling on my phone and then I'm like,

503
00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:03,560
Speaker 5: be more interesting then ooh yeah that work.

504
00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:07,040
Speaker 3: That might be what she calls me every week. That's weird.

505
00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:08,760
Speaker 2: Oh damn uh.

506
00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:12,479
Speaker 6: Then the fight that they've had fifty times before, and

507
00:21:12,520 --> 00:21:14,720
Speaker 6: this is this is one about respect in my opinion,

508
00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:16,800
Speaker 6: So this is the one where it's like you don't work,

509
00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:19,399
Speaker 6: you don't bring home money, Like I'm trying to do

510
00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:22,240
Speaker 6: everything for the house. I'm making money, I'm taking care

511
00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:24,600
Speaker 6: of the kids, I'm making sure everything's clean and organized.

512
00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:26,719
Speaker 6: And it's the fight that a lot of people have,

513
00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:30,000
Speaker 6: and for me, it's about it's about respect and communication.

514
00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:30,560
Speaker 4: Right.

515
00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:32,560
Speaker 3: The idea is like, like.

516
00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:35,600
Speaker 6: My wife and this is why I'm I'm still married

517
00:21:35,600 --> 00:21:38,480
Speaker 6: because she's way better spouse than I am. Like she

518
00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:40,480
Speaker 6: never gives me a hard time about working late, Like

519
00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:42,520
Speaker 6: I'm like, hey, babe, Like it's probably gonna be eleven

520
00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:44,600
Speaker 6: thirty twelve oclock before I come home tonight, and she's like,

521
00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:46,240
Speaker 6: I get it. Like I'll tell the kids you're working

522
00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:49,080
Speaker 6: hard and providing for our family. Like my wife has

523
00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:50,840
Speaker 6: never made me feel guilty for any of that stuff.

524
00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:51,360
Speaker 2: That's good.

525
00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:53,959
Speaker 6: But a lot of times that's not the case, right

526
00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:57,000
Speaker 6: because you know, whether it's not really effective communication or

527
00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:59,919
Speaker 6: it's you know not And I've always felt like respected

528
00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:03,320
Speaker 6: and encouraged by my wife because of that. Yeah, but

529
00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:04,840
Speaker 6: that's not the case for a lot of folks. What

530
00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:06,520
Speaker 6: if they hit you with it and being a mom

531
00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:10,080
Speaker 6: is the hardest job. Being a mom is the hardest job,

532
00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:13,479
Speaker 6: because it's not.

533
00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:18,080
Speaker 3: It's not. I've talked to your mom about it. Being

534
00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:20,080
Speaker 3: a mom to you is the hardest. Been that hard?

535
00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:22,120
Speaker 3: She got a comedian.

536
00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:25,520
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, she's branging about that. I'm sure you know.

537
00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:28,120
Speaker 3: And she's never said it's funny. Though. If you would

538
00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:29,480
Speaker 3: have worked hard, she would have got the lawyer that

539
00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:32,399
Speaker 3: you want to. So this is a fight about the

540
00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:33,280
Speaker 3: blended family.

541
00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:35,440
Speaker 6: This is another one I see a lot, especially because

542
00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:37,720
Speaker 6: we see you know, I hate.

543
00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:39,160
Speaker 3: Drinking a blended family smoothie.

544
00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:41,600
Speaker 1: Hey, Ray, how often is this Someone comes in to

545
00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:43,760
Speaker 1: get a divorce and you're like, oh my god, this

546
00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:46,520
Speaker 1: is this is one I've never heard before. I'm sure

547
00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:49,040
Speaker 1: every one of the when they come in, it's like, okay, yeah,

548
00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:51,280
Speaker 1: this is this divorce. I've seen this before. Like they

549
00:22:51,320 --> 00:22:53,920
Speaker 1: probably all are in a certain.

550
00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:55,600
Speaker 3: Box, right, like, yeah for the most part.

551
00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:58,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, when's the last time one came in they're like,

552
00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:00,879
Speaker 1: I want to get a divorce because of this. You're like, damn,

553
00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:03,520
Speaker 1: that is completely unusual. I've never seen this before.

554
00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:05,679
Speaker 3: I had one coming just recently, did you.

555
00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:11,679
Speaker 6: They are Monster's listeners since like nineteen ninety three, And

556
00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:15,160
Speaker 6: I don't want to say too much, but what I'll

557
00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:18,399
Speaker 6: say is what some people might really look forward to

558
00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:24,480
Speaker 6: in their relationship when when it becomes excessive, becomes a

559
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:26,520
Speaker 6: downside and makes a relationship very.

560
00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:27,159
Speaker 2: Tough hold on.

561
00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:30,600
Speaker 6: So most people would be like, oh, that sounds like

562
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:35,480
Speaker 6: a great thing. I'd love to have that. But when

563
00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:37,720
Speaker 6: it's too much, it can be too much.

564
00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:41,359
Speaker 4: Let's say your partner loves jellinge all the time. At

565
00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:44,040
Speaker 4: some point it's like, oh my gosh, we're doing again.

566
00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:46,640
Speaker 6: Way, maybe you enjoyed having jello together at some point

567
00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 6: in the very beginning was fun.

568
00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:50,120
Speaker 4: And then and then it got to the point where

569
00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:51,679
Speaker 4: Jello was not fun for one of them.

570
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:54,920
Speaker 3: Jelo became the obsession. Yeah, and so I tried a

571
00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:58,560
Speaker 3: different color Jello. I mean you could always try different

572
00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:01,320
Speaker 3: color jello. Oh man.

573
00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:08,399
Speaker 6: Uh so anyway, try the brown Jellow. But so that

574
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:11,199
Speaker 6: was one that I hadn't heard. I don't know if

575
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:13,439
Speaker 6: that's ever, but it definitely went not one I normally

576
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 6: think of as like, uh, free packaged.

577
00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:17,200
Speaker 3: I know exactly what to expect.

578
00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:21,720
Speaker 2: It could be okay, too much sex.

579
00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:28,040
Speaker 5: Could be must didn't understand our jello analogy wow about.

580
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:30,640
Speaker 2: No, I knew, I knew it wasn't jello.

581
00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:32,719
Speaker 1: I was trying to figure out what it was so

582
00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:34,240
Speaker 1: like so that one.

583
00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:37,320
Speaker 3: But you know, a lot of a lot of them

584
00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:38,200
Speaker 3: come down to communication.

585
00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:40,399
Speaker 6: I mean, that's that's really the nuts and bolts of

586
00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:44,600
Speaker 6: it is is expressing expectations both when you go into

587
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:47,399
Speaker 6: the relationship and as your relationship develops. But you know,

588
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,000
Speaker 6: as us men get older, you know, things change and

589
00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:54,919
Speaker 6: we might want to do one thing, and you know,

590
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:57,440
Speaker 6: women change differently at different rigs, especially if you marry

591
00:24:57,440 --> 00:25:01,159
Speaker 6: somebody younger than you. You know, you could have different

592
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:04,400
Speaker 6: interests at different times. And so it's a hard conversation

593
00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 6: to have. And again, going back to.

594
00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:08,119
Speaker 3: The jail analogy, maybe you try some brown jelly for

595
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:08,640
Speaker 3: a little while.

596
00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:13,120
Speaker 1: Okay, hey, yeah, so what about there's a story out

597
00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:14,960
Speaker 1: now where the Christine or is it Christine Nome?

598
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:15,159
Speaker 3: Is it?

599
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:16,400
Speaker 2: What's her first?

600
00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:19,520
Speaker 1: Because you found out that her husband is cross dressing

601
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:22,240
Speaker 1: and talking to uh, talking.

602
00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:23,520
Speaker 3: To like the pictures of that.

603
00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, So how.

604
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:28,920
Speaker 1: Often has that happened where where you know, someone comes

605
00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:31,480
Speaker 1: in and found out their husband or their sexual dvates

606
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:34,160
Speaker 1: cross dressing and doing something they had no idea about

607
00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:35,080
Speaker 1: So this case is like.

608
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:37,520
Speaker 6: This is like probably over ten years ago now, but

609
00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:41,680
Speaker 6: I had a client who their husband was caught up

610
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:44,280
Speaker 6: in a one of those sex things, like you know.

611
00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:46,680
Speaker 6: It's it's like they go to Craig's List and say, okay,

612
00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:49,600
Speaker 6: let's meet up. Yeah, and her husband became like a

613
00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:51,160
Speaker 6: cross dressing prostitute.

614
00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:53,439
Speaker 2: Whoa. And she had no idea, She had.

615
00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:55,880
Speaker 6: No idea this guy, this guy was making like half

616
00:25:55,920 --> 00:26:00,320
Speaker 6: a million dollars a year, incredibly successful business person, and

617
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 6: then on the side he was doing like BDSM stressing

618
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:06,840
Speaker 6: prostitution stuff.

619
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:09,399
Speaker 3: Wow, and like twenty bucks and you could beat me

620
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 3: up kind of thing.

621
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:11,040
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

622
00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:14,760
Speaker 3: And uh how did.

623
00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:16,160
Speaker 2: She find out busted?

624
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:19,600
Speaker 6: He got arrested, He got arrested, and when she went

625
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:22,400
Speaker 6: to bail him out, he was not just like a man.

626
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 3: Damn it was.

627
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:27,600
Speaker 2: That that's grounds for divorce.

628
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:33,640
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, this is that's Christine's Noame's husband. Obviously she's

629
00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:36,240
Speaker 1: super conservative crazy.

630
00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:38,520
Speaker 2: And then there's husband.

631
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:41,480
Speaker 7: Well, he's a well known guy, right, he's like kind

632
00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 7: of can't hide he's in the public eye.

633
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:45,960
Speaker 3: Maybe if he were that bunny eye off it, he

634
00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 3: could have hid him back that.

635
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:49,320
Speaker 8: His face is in these pictures. You didn't think that it.

636
00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:54,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, well he was talking to women who looked like

637
00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:55,880
Speaker 1: he thought looked like him.

638
00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:58,840
Speaker 3: Wait, is there any chance this is AI?

639
00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:00,240
Speaker 2: No, no, it's is a.

640
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:05,600
Speaker 4: But this goes to that whole thing of the Illuminati,

641
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:08,880
Speaker 4: and this is the public sacrifice that this guy has

642
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 4: to make so that his wife stays the good graces

643
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:12,600
Speaker 4: of the administration.

644
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 2: The conspiracy.

645
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:17,119
Speaker 8: Angel figure.

646
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:23,400
Speaker 7: Angels stand that these guys have the secret society.

647
00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 5: Conspiracy where they make black dudes do this, like like

648
00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:30,159
Speaker 5: they would make stuff like women to be like humiliation ritual.

649
00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:32,720
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's society that these guys.

650
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:33,840
Speaker 4: I don't understand anything.

651
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:37,119
Speaker 8: I just like, Yes, Angel just said it. He agrees

652
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:37,320
Speaker 8: with me.

653
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:40,600
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Angel.

654
00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:45,320
Speaker 2: Are on the same team. No, yes, you said it.

655
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:47,080
Speaker 3: Russe in the room.

656
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 8: You guys miss that this morning.

657
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 7: I got two out of three today, boys.

658
00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:53,440
Speaker 6: You guys missed it. While we're on break, Ryan's out

659
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:56,320
Speaker 6: of here. I think Russe is doing a live read. Angel,

660
00:27:56,359 --> 00:28:02,399
Speaker 6: obviously you're secluded. Amber shows me her phone and she said,

661
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:06,359
Speaker 6: look at this guy's and it was the I four

662
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 6: iesore with a BUCkies logo like on top of it.

663
00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:15,399
Speaker 6: You didn't and She's like, they're bringing BUCkies to Altamat Springs.

664
00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:20,240
Speaker 3: And that's a amber. I think that's an April fool's joke.

665
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 5: And she's like, the truth seekers got me so good.

666
00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:29,200
Speaker 3: That's what you guys are following. Just so you know, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the match of the morning News in the headlines, brought

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Speaker 1: to you by our friends at the Leesburg Bike Festival.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna be there at Marmadukes in Leesburg on April

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Speaker 1: the twenty fourth.

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Speaker 2: That's a Friday. We got all of April before we

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Speaker 2: go out again. I got all my.

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Speaker 1: New tables, I got all our stuff ready for our setup.

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Speaker 2: Guys.

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Speaker 1: But we'll be doing a live six to eleven show.

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Speaker 1: You're welcome to come out, no charge, come out to

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Speaker 1: marbra Dukes. They'll be serving drinks, monster drink specials and

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Speaker 1: we're gonna do that. Well, what was the shot that

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Speaker 4: We did the basically, what was the official name of it.

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Speaker 4: It's basically a B.

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Speaker 10: Twelve twelve shot. Yeah, it's an off a wall. Yeah,

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Speaker 10: it's a bag. It's helpful. It's recovery. It's up for

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Speaker 10: recovery after a night of debauchery.

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Speaker 1: So if you do it beforehand and you start drinking afterwards,

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Speaker 1: it helps that too, right, Ruins, you're drinking.

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Speaker 8: What are you talking about? Supplements?

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Speaker 1: No recovery bag, recovery bag. So so it's recovery. So

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Speaker 1: you gotta do it. You gotta do it.

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Speaker 2: You gotta drink before.

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Speaker 5: Remember we got the IVY bags at Leesburg last year.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, they make supplement and it's actually my friend sells one.

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Speaker 7: It's called the Party Savior. You can get it on Amazon,

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Speaker 7: and they're like patches full of vitamins, kind of like

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Speaker 7: the Cheers pills, and they're preventives for before you drink

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Speaker 7: and after you drink, so that way you're like not

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Speaker 7: hung over the next day. So it's kind of like

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Speaker 7: an IV bag, but still a little.

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Speaker 4: Because remember the nice lady that was out there were

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Speaker 4: promoting her thank out of it.

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Speaker 5: Lis Berd, what about my friend's thing that has kind

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Speaker 5: of only thort them to do with what you're talking about,

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Speaker 5: as the thing would be.

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Speaker 8: Well, what I'm saying is you have other options if

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Speaker 8: you don't have an iv bag.

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Speaker 4: No, but that's the whole point. Russ is getting to

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Speaker 4: do the ivy bag till again.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, oh my god, he's doing a different show.

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Speaker 8: I didn't get one last year.

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Speaker 7: I wasn't drinking because again I will be wrestling again,

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Speaker 7: so I wi't.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so you don't need Your brain will always be twelve.

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Speaker 4: That's why Russ was talking about it, because the ladies

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Speaker 4: out there, we're out there doing the broadcast, hear what

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Speaker 4: he said. I did, and it was good. And I

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Speaker 4: am so mad at myself that I stopped on that

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Speaker 4: ryde again. That was awesome.

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Speaker 3: Your brain will always be twelve.

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Speaker 1: There you go anyway, I apologize from the headlines. This

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Speaker 1: is a This is a Heseth lifts the suspension of

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Speaker 1: the army crew that flew oft that flew the uh

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Speaker 1: APACHE helicopter over a kid Rock's pool. They they suspended

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Speaker 1: those guys for doing it because they were on a

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Speaker 1: training mission. And I guess, I guess whoever was flying

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Speaker 1: the helicopters. Hey, let's go to Kid Rock's house and

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Speaker 1: fly over and say hi.

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Speaker 2: They did.

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Speaker 1: Kid Rock put it on his social media because he's

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Speaker 1: saluting the you know, he's saluting.

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Speaker 3: The from THEE from.

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Speaker 1: The Southern White House. This is not Kid Rock didn't

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Speaker 1: do anything wrong. Uh, but but the the guy's flying

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Speaker 1: a helicopter. Uh, I think I don't know what are

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Speaker 1: your feelings on it? Fellas uh Hexath said, they're not

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Speaker 1: gonna They're not they won't be suspended, they won't be there,

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Speaker 1: They're not facing any discipline. Uh, there would be no

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Speaker 1: action against them there. He is that they came over

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Speaker 1: to say hi to to Kid Rock at his pool.

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Speaker 5: This is after they the No Kings protest as well.

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Speaker 5: Same helicopter.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, same helicopter. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: They they flew over the No King's protest. Was it

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Speaker 1: the same day? Yeah, so same day. So they're flying

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Speaker 1: around Nashville. They flew they flew over that, They went

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Speaker 1: by and said hi to Kid Rock. Now that they

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Speaker 1: will not be suspended, they will not have any kind

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Speaker 1: of disciplinary action. I mean they were doing a a

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Speaker 1: training mission. So when you do a training mission, are

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Speaker 1: there like specific rules of how you train? I would

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Speaker 1: think there are. I mean it's the military. I would

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Speaker 1: think there'd be specific things you're supposed to be.

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Speaker 5: Doing, but rules don't matter anymore if you do certain

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Speaker 5: things for certain people.

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Speaker 3: I guess I don't know.

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Speaker 1: So hmm, yeah, So I understand believe there were people

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Speaker 1: that some people like Kid Rocks, some people don't.

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Speaker 2: Really, this has nothing to do with kid Rock. He

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Speaker 2: didn't order them, he asked them to come.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Ki, charge of military.

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Speaker 2: But you know I don't.

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Speaker 1: I heard some other people talking about and they were

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Speaker 1: all mad at kid Rock. Listen, I understand. You can

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Speaker 1: like him and not like him. You can like his

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Speaker 1: music not like his music. That's all well and good.

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Speaker 1: He didn't really do anything wrong here. He's just waving

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Speaker 1: at him from.

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Speaker 4: His pool rus. He's done everything wrong. He's a douche.

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Speaker 1: Well he I mean, and there are people that think

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Speaker 1: he's a douche, and I get that, But once again,

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Speaker 1: he didn't do anything wrong. He is waving at him,

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Speaker 1: you know, happy today or whatever. The people that probably

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Speaker 1: did something wrong would be the guy's flying the helicopter.

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Speaker 4: No, they didn't, because the our war commander said they didn't.

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Speaker 2: He did say they didn't.

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Speaker 5: But the military code of justice maybe they did, but

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Speaker 5: not today.

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Speaker 2: Maybe they did, but not Today's what they said.

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: But you want to talk about wasted resources, that feels

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Speaker 5: like one one.

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Speaker 1: Can argue that's waste of tax taxpayer taxpayers money.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I got no beef with the military, but I think,

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Speaker 5: like you got to be held to rule. We have

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Speaker 5: a rule system in the military for a reason, right, right,

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Speaker 5: So I don't like when I see stuff like this.

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Speaker 5: Also think it's weird for Kid Rock, a guy from

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Speaker 5: Detroit to live in Nashville and how call his house

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Speaker 5: the Southern White House.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, he's he's more he's more country now.

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Speaker 2: Than he is. Uh. What was that?

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Speaker 1: A grifter Manroit, Detroit rocker, He's he's more.

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Speaker 5: Of It's it's hard to see Kid Rock just become

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Speaker 5: an old weird guy because, like I as a kid,

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Speaker 5: I love Kid Rock.

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Speaker 1: I'm ironically every contract I went to I love. I

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Speaker 1: thought he was the most talented dude. Like dude, so talented.

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Speaker 1: But uh and like in this particular thing when he

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Speaker 1: was explaining it, he did say, look, I'm friends with

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Speaker 1: the commander in chief.

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Speaker 4: Uh.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, I'm just happy there, like you know,

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Speaker 1: he was just being kid Rock. I wouldn't. He wasn't

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Speaker 1: an extra douchey or anything like that.

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Speaker 3: He's just lame. He's just like lame in a grifter.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 3: That's just how I view him.

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Speaker 5: Like I got like, you can have your political beliefs,

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Speaker 5: it's fine, but you're just so every time I see

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Speaker 5: him do something like what.

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Speaker 1: A So he shouldn't you think he to protect the

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Speaker 1: guys in the helicopter. He probably shouldn't have put it

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Speaker 1: on a social media but in his mind, he probably

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Speaker 1: didn't think he's doing anything wrong.

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Speaker 3: He didn't do anything wrong.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, he was.

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Speaker 5: Can't be mad at kid Rock for standing at his

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Speaker 5: house and a helicopter comes by and he films it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, right, Like surprisingly these uh the guys playing the

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Speaker 1: helicopter though, Like how do they know? I Kid Rock's

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Speaker 1: not exactly considered cool these days, Like these are young

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Speaker 1: guys playing a helicopter?

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Speaker 2: Were they really excited to see kid Rock?

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Speaker 3: Maybe?

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Speaker 4: You know, like these Russ kid Rock is really popular

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Speaker 4: with a certain demographic.

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Speaker 2: With with with young white guys.

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Speaker 5: He's not popular enough to sell tickets to cancel a

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Speaker 5: bunch of his shows.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I don't know, Like if you're in if

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Speaker 3: you're in a.

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Speaker 5: Helicopter, yeah, you're you got guns around, your helicopter moving

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Speaker 5: and your earphones aren't blashing ball with the ball?

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Speaker 3: Then are you even living life correctly?

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Speaker 1: So you got a helicopter for the day and as

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Speaker 1: a training and you're in Nashville. You can go fly

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Speaker 1: by anybody's house you want. I don't know, I go

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Speaker 1: to I guess you are you flying? I guess probably

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Speaker 1: Morgan Wallen, right, Like that's that's who for.

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Speaker 2: That age group.

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Speaker 1: I would think that'd be the guy's house you want

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Speaker 1: to fly by, and he's old.

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Speaker 4: Do you think the pilots that are flying this, I would.

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Speaker 2: Think the pilots fly It's very good question.

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Speaker 1: I think the pilots are probably twenty two, twenty four

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Speaker 1: years old.

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Speaker 2: They're not no, really how old are they.

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Speaker 4: They're think about it because flight school in and of

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Speaker 4: itself is a little bit longer than that. So if

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Speaker 4: they enlisted when they were eighteen to be a commander

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Speaker 4: on a helicopter pilot, the training alone, you're you're in

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Speaker 4: a little bit longer than that.

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Speaker 2: So they're not so in their thirties.

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Speaker 4: Maybe I would say I would I would lean more

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Speaker 4: to late late twenties, let's say twenty seven twenty in

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Speaker 4: that area.

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Speaker 1: Twenty seven twenty eight, yeah, okay, but still I would

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Speaker 1: think go buy Morgan you know now would be more cool?

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Speaker 2: Would be Morgan Wallen, maybe Luca what's it say?

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Speaker 5: But you're not if you're again military yourself up, you're

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Speaker 5: not listening to last not we let the liquor talk.

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Speaker 3: We're going to kid rock. We're talking about as oh.

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Speaker 4: You know who's again rocking songs and everything Jelly roll

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Speaker 4: is getting i mean drag globally. So all the songs

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Speaker 4: came out for the World Cup teams and uh and

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Speaker 4: as you would imagine Brazil, Portugal, Argentine, like all these

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Speaker 4: songs are just just epic, huge, right, and they're naming

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Speaker 4: off the players. And then Jelly Rowell is doing his

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00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:31,280
Speaker 4: song for the World Cup team and the energy doesn't

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Speaker 4: match and he's just getting trolled epically in the rest

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Speaker 4: of the world like they're doing all the songs, and

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Speaker 4: then it comes to the song for America and everyone's like.

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Speaker 1: What, well, there's been there's been some space where Jelly

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00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:45,719
Speaker 1: Roll couldn't do anything wrong. So now it's kind of

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00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:49,040
Speaker 1: flipping everything he does. People are dogging on he's on

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Speaker 1: the curtain round because he's made his political views.

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Speaker 2: You no, but he hasn't, though he's claimed to have not.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yes, oh sure he is.

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Speaker 4: And no he said it to Music Awards. He's not

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Speaker 4: the This is not the time or place for him

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Speaker 4: to talk about it.

888
00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:04,239
Speaker 5: I love following a guy named Ryan up Church that

889
00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 5: just like will not give up on jelly roll.

890
00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 3: He's another country music artist, rapper guy uh, and it's

891
00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:12,680
Speaker 3: just fun to watch him troll them all day. Uh.

892
00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:16,160
Speaker 5: But you know you gotta have a hype ass song.

893
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:18,000
Speaker 5: You can't come out with a jelly roll song for

894
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 5: the world. Come well, I want to hear this song

895
00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:23,560
Speaker 5: because you can't come up after like Brazil.

896
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 4: I'll send it to you an Instagram. All right, is

897
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 4: it bad? No, it's not the song. His song again,

898
00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:31,759
Speaker 4: his song is not bad. It's just the energy level

899
00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:34,880
Speaker 4: when compared to like the song from Brazil or the

900
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 4: or compared to like all these other songs. Goodness, the

901
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:41,520
Speaker 4: World Cup huge days and there's just like way up

902
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:43,759
Speaker 4: here and then jelly roll song comes like down.

903
00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:46,280
Speaker 1: So who would you consider right now is the hot

904
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:50,040
Speaker 1: male artist in Nashville, you know.

905
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:52,000
Speaker 3: Like like no want a new boyfriend.

906
00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:53,680
Speaker 1: I don't mean good looking, I mean like the hot.

907
00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:56,600
Speaker 1: You know, as far as selling tickets like Amber celebrity

908
00:38:56,719 --> 00:38:59,880
Speaker 1: Amber Bailey Zimmerman, I don't think most people know who

909
00:38:59,880 --> 00:39:00,239
Speaker 1: he is.

910
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:02,880
Speaker 3: That chance we got to hang out with him and

911
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:03,960
Speaker 3: you totally could have.

912
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:06,760
Speaker 7: Too, And my gosh, I so regret not just canceling

913
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 7: my plans that day and go.

914
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:10,640
Speaker 2: Right. He's like the hot.

915
00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:15,839
Speaker 1: He'd be the biggest star male star still, Yeah, for.

916
00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:18,799
Speaker 8: Sure, I would think. So. Yeah, he's touring still and.

917
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:21,880
Speaker 1: Kid Rock is considered for older people, so I'm just

918
00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:24,359
Speaker 1: surprised that they picked his house to fly by.

919
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:28,759
Speaker 5: But Kid Rock has made himself very public on like

920
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:29,520
Speaker 5: what he's about.

921
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 8: You know, is he into politics a lot?

922
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:31,719
Speaker 3: Is that the thing?

923
00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:32,359
Speaker 2: Kid?

924
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:38,040
Speaker 7: Okay, yeah, he's very something like that.

925
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:40,240
Speaker 2: Super trumpy. He's very very trumpy.

926
00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 1: All Right, we'll take a little break and come back

927
00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:44,959
Speaker 1: and time for Ryan the King of Denmark. Ryan Holmes

928
00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:47,640
Speaker 1: make his daily proclamation, you're listening to the match of

929
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:48,040
Speaker 1: the morning.