1 00:00:00,880 --> 00:00:02,480 Speaker 1: I was going to share this story once I found 2 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:04,400 Speaker 1: the audio, but I'm gonna go ahead and share it anyway. 3 00:00:04,440 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 1: I heard the audio, but I can't find it, although 4 00:00:07,640 --> 00:00:10,840 Speaker 1: I could if I put in more effort. So here's 5 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:16,599 Speaker 1: the story. There is a podcast called Chachi Loves Everyone 6 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:20,919 Speaker 1: and it is Chachi is a former radio guy. And 7 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:25,760 Speaker 1: I don't know Chachi, but he interviews people that have been, like, 8 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:27,720 Speaker 1: you know, amazing on the on the radio and had 9 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 1: amazing radio careers and is called Chachi Loves Everybody. So 10 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:34,480 Speaker 1: there's a friend of mine who works in Las Vegas. 11 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 1: His name is Chet Chet Buchanan. Chet and I've known 12 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:39,559 Speaker 1: each other for a long long time, and he does 13 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 1: the morning show on k l UC. So he's interviewing 14 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:46,320 Speaker 1: with Chachi and I'm listening because I was curious, like 15 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:49,280 Speaker 1: chet story. And Chet is talking about those you know, 16 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:51,760 Speaker 1: career journeys and back and forth between the city and 17 00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:55,520 Speaker 1: this city. And he said, you know when when Rick D's. 18 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 1: Do you guys know the name Rick D's Yes. 19 00:00:57,400 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, only because you guys talk about it, but 20 00:00:59,640 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 2: I don't. 21 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:04,200 Speaker 1: Rick Dy's is a legendary DJ in Los Angeles, and 22 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:06,120 Speaker 1: he was, you know, he he's been in movies. He 23 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 1: had his own late night talk show for a while, 24 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 1: and Rick Dy's was a legend in LA radio and 25 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:15,959 Speaker 1: everybody all over the country knew him. And he does 26 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 1: the Rich Dy's Weekly Top forties. Still, so Rick Dy's 27 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 1: left the radio station. Ryan Seacrest took over for him. Okay, 28 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:29,039 Speaker 1: about fifteen to twenty years ago. I'm listening to this podcast. 29 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 1: I'm hearing the story, and this is the part that 30 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:36,839 Speaker 1: made me go, what the f chat was talking about? How? Yeah, 31 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:40,120 Speaker 1: when Rick Dy's left this radio station, Kiss FM in 32 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 1: Los Angeles, they were throwing around names to replace Rick 33 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 1: Dy's and he said, yeah, They're thrown around names like 34 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 1: Mojo and Detroit, Dave Ryan in Minneapolis. That was the 35 00:01:55,480 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 1: first time I'd never heard ever, yeah, that I had 36 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 1: been considered to replace Rick D's. And I don't know 37 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 1: how far down the list they got. They never called me. 38 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 1: I do worry though, that they called. If this was 39 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:16,240 Speaker 1: fifteen or so years ago, fifteen or twenty years ago, 40 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 1: I worry that they called and said, Hey, can we 41 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:20,959 Speaker 1: talk to Dave about doing the morning show in Los Angeles. 42 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 1: And at the time there were people here in management 43 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:26,840 Speaker 1: who would have said no, absolutely not. We're not letting 44 00:02:26,919 --> 00:02:31,680 Speaker 1: Dave go, which to me is just fucking pisses me off. 45 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 1: Would you have gone, I would have absolutely considered it, 46 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:38,400 Speaker 1: for sure, because that's kind of like, well, Bailey, you 47 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 1: know you're doing You're doing Fiddler on the Roof in 48 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:43,919 Speaker 1: Cross Community Players, but Broadway called, yeah, and they want 49 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:46,680 Speaker 1: Bailey to star as who. 50 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 2: The Fiddler on the road the Fiddler, yeah. 51 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 1: And so and then Cross Community Players. Not dissing them, 52 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:55,520 Speaker 1: I'm using them as an example. Love those guys. And 53 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:58,640 Speaker 1: they said, you know what, No, Bailey is needed here. 54 00:02:58,800 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 2: I see. 55 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:02,520 Speaker 1: The right answer would have been, holy shit, this is 56 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 1: a huge thing for Bailey. I wish that, you know. 57 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 1: I mean, yes, absolutely call Bailey. This is her break 58 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:10,680 Speaker 1: of a lifetime. And don't get me wrong, I've been 59 00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 1: very happy here. But if I was considered for that, 60 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 1: I know one or two people in particular, if they 61 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 1: would have called that, they would have said, hmm, no, 62 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 1: we got to keep Dave here. Yeah, and that, in 63 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:27,240 Speaker 1: the words of Juanita, pisses me the chef. That shit 64 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:28,519 Speaker 1: pisses me the fuck off. 65 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, except you can never really know because maybe they 66 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 2: didn't call it. 67 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 1: Well, I could I could get a hold of Chat 68 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 1: and see what he knows about this true. So anyway, 69 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 1: if you want to hear it to know that I'm 70 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 1: not making this up. The podcast is called Chachi Loves 71 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 1: Everyone and or Everybody one or the other, and look 72 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 1: for the Chet Buchanan episode. 73 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 3: So I was gonna say, I was surprised you haven't 74 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 3: already messaged Chat to. 75 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 1: Be like, tell me, I don't have his email and 76 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 1: I don't have his phone number. 77 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 2: I don't know. 78 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 1: I'd probably have to find him on Facebook Messenger. 79 00:03:57,400 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I would. If I would have that, I've 80 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 3: I'm like, yo, tell me more Hello. 81 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 1: I was. I was so inspired by Chet because Chet 82 00:04:05,040 --> 00:04:08,120 Speaker 1: is I've known him forever and I knew him when 83 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 1: he was like you know, you know, a night guy 84 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 1: at a top forty station. Big deal. But Chet works 85 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 1: in Las Vegas. He's huge out there. He does like 86 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 1: the world's largest toy drive in twenty five years, they've 87 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:25,040 Speaker 1: raised sixty five million dollars in toys. Wow, sixty five 88 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 1: million a lot in toys and bicycles. And he also 89 00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:32,279 Speaker 1: does like the voice for the WNBA team. He does 90 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 1: courtside for the nbaight. He does this for the Raiders. 91 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 1: He does this and this in NASCAR, and he's just 92 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 1: one of those very involved guys, and I'm like, wow, 93 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 1: it's really inspirational to think of like what he has 94 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:48,880 Speaker 1: done and how little, by comparison, I have done. Oh 95 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 1: stop it, Oh what have I done, Jenny? What have 96 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:51,640 Speaker 1: I done lately? 97 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:54,479 Speaker 3: Well? I mean, okay, lately, I was going to go 98 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:58,719 Speaker 3: in the course of your career, not maybe just lately lately. Yeah, 99 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:02,479 Speaker 3: I mean, you helped raise a ton of money for 100 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:06,320 Speaker 3: Children's Minnesota every year on their Give to the Kids Day. 101 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:09,120 Speaker 3: I think that's what it's called. We have Christmas Bush 102 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:11,480 Speaker 3: coming up. I feel like you sell yourself short about 103 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 3: what you do do and I I know, but I 104 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:17,359 Speaker 3: also think that what you're really good at too, is 105 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:21,279 Speaker 3: like if something big happens in the community, you know 106 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:23,480 Speaker 3: you know how to handle it, Like whether it is 107 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 3: raising money or if it's just speaking on it on 108 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 3: the radio. 109 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:29,600 Speaker 1: Like George Floyd or his school shooting or whatever. 110 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:32,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, like that stuff is really important. It doesn't always 111 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 3: have to be like you raised a million dollars, which 112 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 3: would be great, but like I feel like you don't 113 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 3: understand the impact that you have sometimes and. 114 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:43,599 Speaker 1: Maybe maybe none of us ever do. He's like, you know, 115 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:46,159 Speaker 1: mom doesn't feel appreciated. Mom doesn't feel I heard a 116 00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 1: really interesting quote last night. Let me see if I 117 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:51,039 Speaker 1: can find it on my phone. I was listening to 118 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:52,599 Speaker 1: Bobby Bones. You know who Bobby Bones is. 119 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 2: Yes, he won Dancing with the Stars. 120 00:05:54,360 --> 00:05:56,480 Speaker 1: He won Dancing with the Stars, and that is what 121 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:59,479 Speaker 1: he is talking about in this quote. But I don't 122 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:03,960 Speaker 1: I'll just okay, it's go where don't go where you 123 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:08,719 Speaker 1: are tolerated, go where you are treasured. And he was 124 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 1: talking about being on Dancing with the Stars. And he 125 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:14,479 Speaker 1: won Dancing with the Stars. And one of the reasons 126 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 1: he won was because his loyal, loyal radio audience voted 127 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 1: for him to win. It's a viewer based vote thing, 128 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 1: I believe. And I love Bobby. He's you know, I 129 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:25,720 Speaker 1: wouldn't say he's a good friend, but Bobby and I 130 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 1: know each other and and I love the guy. Super 131 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:32,240 Speaker 1: successful and talented. So he went on Dancing with the Stars. 132 00:06:32,279 --> 00:06:34,600 Speaker 1: And then that was what five ish seven is years ago. 133 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 2: It's been a while, it's been a hot minute. 134 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 1: And so Tom Berger on the former former host, was 135 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:40,159 Speaker 1: being interviewed and said, you know, one of the things 136 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:44,119 Speaker 1: I couldn't believe was freaking Bobby Bones winning. He wasn't good, 137 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:46,839 Speaker 1: he wasn't that good of a dancer. Bobby Bone should 138 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:50,279 Speaker 1: not have won. And Bobby Bones was like, that really hurts. 139 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:55,480 Speaker 1: He mailed his disco ball trophy back to ABC and said, 140 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:58,920 Speaker 1: screw you guys, keep this. And he said, I went 141 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:02,200 Speaker 1: there with I was the only person with no previous 142 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 1: dance training. I worked my butt off. I was the 143 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 1: only contestant that also had a full time job during 144 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 1: the eight weeks of Dancing with the Stars or whatever. 145 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:16,040 Speaker 1: And he said, and I won. I won, fair and square. 146 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 1: And was I the best answer? I don't know, but 147 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:21,720 Speaker 1: I worked my ass off and I feel and so 148 00:07:21,840 --> 00:07:23,240 Speaker 1: he said, and I thought it was really true. And 149 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 1: I bring this full circle to you. For a relationship 150 00:07:27,240 --> 00:07:30,200 Speaker 1: or a job or a committee that you're on, go 151 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 1: where you are treasured, not tolerated, And I think that 152 00:07:35,680 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 1: applies to so many things. Sometimes I'll be honest with you, 153 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:40,960 Speaker 1: I feel tolerated here at the radio station. 154 00:07:41,360 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 3: Yeah. 155 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:43,880 Speaker 1: And I don't know whether we get that idea sometimes, 156 00:07:43,880 --> 00:07:45,720 Speaker 1: don't we, Jenny, Yeah, I. 157 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:48,239 Speaker 3: Think radio has changed a lot in the last handful 158 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 3: of years. So I feel like I don't necessarily blame 159 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:57,200 Speaker 3: anyone higher up. I blame the lack of bodies that 160 00:07:57,240 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 3: are here to work nowadays, everyone works about five jobs. 161 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 3: So but I don't understand. I do feel, yes, like 162 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 3: I do think that we do do. I'm really saying 163 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:11,600 Speaker 3: that a lot today. We do a lot. Here, you 164 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 3: do a lot, Dave. I mean you're constantly coming up 165 00:08:13,800 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 3: with different promotions and ideas and those usually fall flat, 166 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:19,280 Speaker 3: like they get sent in an email and then you know, 167 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 3: will follow up and be like, where's it at? 168 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:22,320 Speaker 1: We never hear anything again. 169 00:08:22,440 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I also sometimes just like can't blame the 170 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 3: people who are the next step of that process because 171 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 3: that person's working like an extra four jobs now, and like, 172 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:35,080 Speaker 3: how are they supposed to make every single thing happen? 173 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:35,360 Speaker 3: You know? 174 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:38,920 Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, okay, I don't know. But the reason 175 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:40,520 Speaker 1: I wanted to bring that up is because I thought 176 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 1: it was interesting the whole Ryan Seacrest, Rick Dy's thing 177 00:08:44,960 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 1: and then the Bobby Bones thing. Work or be where 178 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 1: you are treasured not tolerated, And I really think that 179 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 1: can apply to a relationship too, because if you feel tolerated, 180 00:08:57,760 --> 00:09:02,800 Speaker 1: like you don't feel treasured, then that's not a good relationship. Yeah. 181 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:05,840 Speaker 4: My my ex boyfriend said that kind of of me. 182 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:07,680 Speaker 4: He was like, I don't know if you actually enjoy 183 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:09,840 Speaker 4: being around me or if you just kind of like 184 00:09:09,920 --> 00:09:10,920 Speaker 4: tolerate my existence. 185 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:12,280 Speaker 2: And I'm like, yep, that's valid, and. 186 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:14,440 Speaker 1: That was the true story though, right. 187 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:15,160 Speaker 2: What's that true story? 188 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 3: Yep. I think also, though, that you should communicate in 189 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 3: your relationship if you're feeling taken for granted, because I 190 00:09:20,920 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 3: do think that that's also an issue. Like if you're 191 00:09:23,160 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 3: holding some kind of resentment towards your partner but your 192 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:27,560 Speaker 3: partner doesn't even fucking know, yeah, then like what are 193 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:28,559 Speaker 3: you supposed to do about it? 194 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:30,080 Speaker 2: Yeah? That's fine. 195 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:33,719 Speaker 3: So I think there's two sides to that statement, all right. 196 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:36,480 Speaker 1: Moving on to something totally different, Madeline writes in Hello Best, 197 00:09:36,520 --> 00:09:38,680 Speaker 1: He's twenty here, twenty year listener here, I had to 198 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:41,080 Speaker 1: write in the strangest thing happened to me. I was 199 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:44,359 Speaker 1: in line at my local co op grocery store in Burnsville, 200 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 1: and imagine, to my surprise, I heard a familiar voice. 201 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:53,080 Speaker 1: I looked up at it was Gary Spivey. What I 202 00:09:53,240 --> 00:09:55,320 Speaker 1: seriously cannot believe it. Of all the places and all 203 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:57,000 Speaker 1: the people to see on a Wednesday afternoon. 204 00:09:57,080 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 4: Ha ha. 205 00:09:57,640 --> 00:09:59,600 Speaker 1: Anyway, I thought you guys would think it was funny. 206 00:09:59,640 --> 00:10:02,000 Speaker 1: Had to share with y'all. Love you guys. Photo attached. 207 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:02,720 Speaker 1: And there is Gary. 208 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:04,320 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I gotta come look up, you can't 209 00:10:04,320 --> 00:10:04,800 Speaker 2: miss it. 210 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:08,080 Speaker 1: Unmistakable is giant, giant white afro wig. 211 00:10:08,280 --> 00:10:09,679 Speaker 2: He's still wearing the get up. 212 00:10:10,320 --> 00:10:12,719 Speaker 1: I've never in my life seeing Gary in twenty five 213 00:10:12,800 --> 00:10:14,720 Speaker 1: thirty years, not in his get. 214 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:16,560 Speaker 2: Up, I mean. And he's out and about like at 215 00:10:16,559 --> 00:10:17,360 Speaker 2: a grocery sea. 216 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 1: He loves the attention. He wow loves the attention. He 217 00:10:20,080 --> 00:10:22,640 Speaker 1: goes through the airport and people think that he's dressed 218 00:10:22,640 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 1: in a halloween costume. That is how he flies. People 219 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 1: will come up and go, are you somebody important? Or 220 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 1: why are you dressed like that? Gary wears all white, 221 00:10:32,040 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 1: including head to toe. He wears white glasses, and he 222 00:10:35,840 --> 00:10:39,839 Speaker 1: wears a bright white afro giant wig which has gotten 223 00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 1: bigger and bigger over. 224 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:43,320 Speaker 3: The years, and some kind of like medallion necklace half 225 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:46,280 Speaker 3: the time too. Yes, And my next question is a 226 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 3: follow up, do you think you can smell him or 227 00:10:48,520 --> 00:10:52,400 Speaker 3: see him first? Because the man also has a strong scent. 228 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 1: I just it's a good smell. 229 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:55,719 Speaker 3: Though, no, it's a good smell. Sorry, I should have 230 00:10:55,760 --> 00:10:58,280 Speaker 3: clarified that. I just smell my headphones because he used 231 00:10:58,280 --> 00:10:59,720 Speaker 3: them when he was in a couple of weeks ago, 232 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 3: and they still smell like Gary in a good way, 233 00:11:02,600 --> 00:11:05,880 Speaker 3: but like in a nostroll and like cologne smell. 234 00:11:05,960 --> 00:11:09,679 Speaker 1: And I'm like, yes, all right, yeah, I wish I 235 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 1: could show you that picture, but I mean just Gary 236 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:15,720 Speaker 1: was shopping at a Whole Food. So next one, Lauren 237 00:11:15,720 --> 00:11:17,959 Speaker 1: writes in hey there, daily listener of both the show 238 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:20,600 Speaker 1: and the Minnesota Goodbye, thank you. First time writing in, 239 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:22,880 Speaker 1: I got to cover the mandatory. You all are awesome, 240 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:27,000 Speaker 1: which we never get tired of hearing. This is where 241 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:31,800 Speaker 1: we're treasured, not tolerated. Yeah, I think sometimes, yeah we do. 242 00:11:31,880 --> 00:11:36,360 Speaker 1: We feel appreciated, maybe not treasured, but appreciated, and we 243 00:11:36,440 --> 00:11:39,040 Speaker 1: love that, just like you love a feeling appreciated. You're 244 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 1: also entertaining, making my day and so many others brighter. 245 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:44,760 Speaker 1: Thank you. The other day, somebody emailed in about things 246 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 1: you should discuss before moving in with your partner. Funny thing, 247 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:51,439 Speaker 1: funny timing. Because my boyfriend and I has signed our 248 00:11:51,480 --> 00:11:54,640 Speaker 1: first lease together. Do you have any advice on things 249 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 1: you must discuss before moving in together or things you 250 00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:00,840 Speaker 1: have learned from living with a partner. Thanks again for 251 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:03,320 Speaker 1: sharing your lives with us and forming a community of listeners. 252 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:04,640 Speaker 1: I am happy to be a part of it. Well, 253 00:12:04,640 --> 00:12:08,280 Speaker 1: I'm happy you are, and that is from Lauren. Jenny 254 00:12:08,440 --> 00:12:10,200 Speaker 1: will start with you. But we've all got stories. 255 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:11,839 Speaker 3: I don't know if this was from your list or 256 00:12:11,880 --> 00:12:14,080 Speaker 3: if I saw this on Instagram, because this would totally 257 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:16,520 Speaker 3: be in my feed, but like, what's your definition of clean? 258 00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:17,280 Speaker 3: Was that on your list? 259 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:18,400 Speaker 1: Yes? It was? Yeah. 260 00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:21,400 Speaker 3: I think that that's very important because while the last 261 00:12:21,400 --> 00:12:24,360 Speaker 3: person I was living with was a decently clean person, 262 00:12:24,960 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 3: his version of clean was very different than mine, and 263 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:29,600 Speaker 3: I was a little crazy about it. So like he 264 00:12:29,640 --> 00:12:31,760 Speaker 3: always claimed that he cleaned all the time, but it 265 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:35,319 Speaker 3: wasn't like super clean to me, So it didn't feel 266 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:37,559 Speaker 3: like he cleaned. Yeah, And I'm like, I don't think 267 00:12:37,559 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 3: you do, not compared to what I do. So that 268 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 3: was like a little bit of an argument. I would 269 00:12:43,520 --> 00:12:46,240 Speaker 3: say that. And then I also think that you once 270 00:12:46,320 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 3: you like are actually living together, there are going to 271 00:12:48,800 --> 00:12:51,439 Speaker 3: be little things that happen that you're just not going 272 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:53,440 Speaker 3: to see eye to eye on. I could not, for 273 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:55,520 Speaker 3: the life of me, get that guy to turn lights off. 274 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:57,320 Speaker 3: It bugged the shit out of me because. 275 00:12:57,240 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 1: I remember you saying that my mom growing. 276 00:12:59,320 --> 00:13:02,240 Speaker 3: Up would be like we'd be far in the basement. 277 00:13:02,320 --> 00:13:04,040 Speaker 3: She'd be standing next to a light switch and be like, 278 00:13:04,080 --> 00:13:05,800 Speaker 3: get up here right now and turn this light off. 279 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:08,200 Speaker 3: That was how I was raised, saying, I am that person, 280 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 3: and I just had to give up on that. I 281 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:12,560 Speaker 3: had to give up on the fight that like if 282 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:14,760 Speaker 3: I walked downstairs and the lights were on, that was 283 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:17,400 Speaker 3: like it like and he wasn't down there, and so 284 00:13:17,720 --> 00:13:20,920 Speaker 3: you just have to really figure out certain things that 285 00:13:21,320 --> 00:13:22,200 Speaker 3: you have to let go. 286 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:25,319 Speaker 2: I think everyone should have their own space. 287 00:13:26,120 --> 00:13:28,360 Speaker 4: That was what was really hard for me because my 288 00:13:28,520 --> 00:13:31,120 Speaker 4: I had like a living boyfriend for like three years 289 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:34,200 Speaker 4: and he was always there, and I think it's a 290 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:37,560 Speaker 4: weird conversation to have, like, Hey, just just wondering how 291 00:13:37,600 --> 00:13:40,360 Speaker 4: often are you going to be here? Because it's not 292 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:42,640 Speaker 4: that like I wouldn't want him around, but when you're 293 00:13:42,720 --> 00:13:45,160 Speaker 4: around all of the time, you have zero privacy to 294 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:47,200 Speaker 4: yourself or anything. So it was always like a win 295 00:13:47,320 --> 00:13:50,480 Speaker 4: when I could have any space to myself and in 296 00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:53,800 Speaker 4: a small space because we had seven hundred square foot apartment. 297 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:56,920 Speaker 4: We're never alone ever, so I would come home and 298 00:13:56,960 --> 00:13:57,960 Speaker 4: just take a nap because I wanted to. 299 00:13:57,920 --> 00:14:02,240 Speaker 1: Get away away. What's funny is we have you know, 300 00:14:02,320 --> 00:14:04,360 Speaker 1: it's a large home. We had two kids, we got 301 00:14:04,400 --> 00:14:07,720 Speaker 1: five bedrooms. We don't need that space anymore. But we 302 00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:10,240 Speaker 1: spend all of our time in the same room. That's 303 00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:13,600 Speaker 1: about the size of this studio, and that is when 304 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:16,360 Speaker 1: I come home, that's where she is, or she might 305 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:18,480 Speaker 1: be in the kitchen. But I also have my office 306 00:14:18,480 --> 00:14:22,000 Speaker 1: which is just around the corner. But we spend ninety 307 00:14:22,120 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 1: percent or more of our time in the same room. 308 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 1: I would say mine is learn how you fight, because 309 00:14:29,800 --> 00:14:34,120 Speaker 1: some people they throw things and they get angry and 310 00:14:34,200 --> 00:14:38,000 Speaker 1: they change into doctor Jekyl and mister Hyde. Yeah, and 311 00:14:38,120 --> 00:14:40,240 Speaker 1: I think you got to learn how each other fights. 312 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 1: And that might not be something that you learn until 313 00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 1: you move in. You know, some people just like give 314 00:14:45,280 --> 00:14:47,360 Speaker 1: each other the silent treatment and then make up later 315 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:52,280 Speaker 1: in the day. But different philosophies on fighting. I like, 316 00:14:52,520 --> 00:14:55,800 Speaker 1: I don't know. I've been with partners who scream and 317 00:14:55,880 --> 00:14:58,320 Speaker 1: yell and accuse and thump you in the chest with 318 00:14:58,360 --> 00:15:02,120 Speaker 1: their finger. And then Susan is a very calm fighter. 319 00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:05,560 Speaker 1: But yeah, learn how you fight. But I like the 320 00:15:05,600 --> 00:15:06,800 Speaker 1: clean one. That's a good one. 321 00:15:06,920 --> 00:15:11,240 Speaker 3: I think also like maybe just know I'm getting deep 322 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 3: in the therapy you talk here, but maybe know how 323 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:16,920 Speaker 3: like that person was raised also because I think that 324 00:15:16,920 --> 00:15:19,440 Speaker 3: that hit plays a huge role in how you fight. 325 00:15:20,080 --> 00:15:22,600 Speaker 3: So like I shut down when I fight because like 326 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:24,720 Speaker 3: I watched my parents fight all the time, and it's 327 00:15:24,880 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 3: scarred the shit out of me. And so I shut 328 00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:30,040 Speaker 3: down and I need like a day to like escape 329 00:15:30,080 --> 00:15:32,720 Speaker 3: and come back and like talk about it. Yeah, and 330 00:15:32,760 --> 00:15:34,880 Speaker 3: that frustrates some people. They just want to like get 331 00:15:34,960 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 3: right into it. But but then I think that some 332 00:15:37,400 --> 00:15:39,200 Speaker 3: people get right into it and then they say things 333 00:15:39,240 --> 00:15:41,760 Speaker 3: they don't mean because they don't think rationally. Yeah, and 334 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:44,960 Speaker 3: that's also not healthy. So just like know that like 335 00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:48,880 Speaker 3: the way people fight usually comes from how they were raised. 336 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:50,560 Speaker 1: Right, I think that's probably true. Yeah, my mom and 337 00:15:50,600 --> 00:15:53,640 Speaker 1: dad did not. They would argue sometimes, but they did 338 00:15:53,680 --> 00:15:55,520 Speaker 1: not yell and scream and cry. That was just not 339 00:15:55,560 --> 00:15:57,920 Speaker 1: their thing. All right, last email, and we're gonna wrap 340 00:15:57,960 --> 00:16:01,040 Speaker 1: things up here. This is from hold On. I just 341 00:16:01,080 --> 00:16:03,960 Speaker 1: read that one. This is why I delete it after 342 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:06,360 Speaker 1: I read it, so I won't read it again. This 343 00:16:06,560 --> 00:16:10,120 Speaker 1: is just interesting. Samantha writes in and says, hello, I 344 00:16:10,160 --> 00:16:13,840 Speaker 1: was looking for the podcast for November twelfth, which was yesterday. 345 00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:14,720 Speaker 2: I figured it out. 346 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:17,160 Speaker 4: If somebody's saying it's not working, we got a new 347 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 4: podcast like uploader system thing platform, So it's on there now. 348 00:16:22,840 --> 00:16:26,240 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, good? She said. She found out that 349 00:16:26,320 --> 00:16:28,800 Speaker 1: some of the backlog of the podcasts were added back 350 00:16:28,840 --> 00:16:31,360 Speaker 1: to the Apple podcast. I was so happy I had 351 00:16:31,400 --> 00:16:34,480 Speaker 1: an additional thirty five ish podcast to listen to. Wow, 352 00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:37,840 Speaker 1: the Minnesota Goodbye is my favorite podcast, as I can 353 00:16:37,880 --> 00:16:40,400 Speaker 1: throw it on if I miss and if I miss 354 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:42,840 Speaker 1: it a piece, it's no big deal because the topic 355 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:46,360 Speaker 1: is ever changing. It's weird hearing Dave and fallon chat again. 356 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:48,160 Speaker 1: I'll bet it is. Have a great week. Shout out 357 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:50,440 Speaker 1: to myself turning twenty six in a few days. That 358 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:53,560 Speaker 1: is from Samantha. Samantha, I'm so glad that at such 359 00:16:53,600 --> 00:16:57,320 Speaker 1: a young age that you are here. I really appreciate that. 360 00:16:57,440 --> 00:16:59,160 Speaker 1: You know, there's a lot of twenty six year olds 361 00:16:59,480 --> 00:17:01,800 Speaker 1: that don't listen to the radio, and I think that 362 00:17:01,840 --> 00:17:05,840 Speaker 1: they're missing out. I really do, because they're so buried 363 00:17:05,880 --> 00:17:10,199 Speaker 1: in Instagram and Spotify, which, okay, I get it, but 364 00:17:10,320 --> 00:17:13,720 Speaker 1: you don't have that connection. And I think sometimes we're 365 00:17:13,960 --> 00:17:20,119 Speaker 1: lonely and we need a steady, reliable connection with people. 366 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:23,439 Speaker 1: I'll go back many, many many years when Okay, this 367 00:17:23,560 --> 00:17:25,000 Speaker 1: is going to make me sound old, I don't care. 368 00:17:25,359 --> 00:17:30,600 Speaker 1: Johnny Carson was a comfort food wherever you were. Johnny 369 00:17:30,640 --> 00:17:33,000 Speaker 1: Carson is back when there's only three channels. Johnny Carson. 370 00:17:33,040 --> 00:17:35,440 Speaker 1: If you were in Cleveland on a business trip, if 371 00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:38,880 Speaker 1: you were Grandma's house in Fort Worth late at night, 372 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:42,320 Speaker 1: you could turn on Johnny Carson. There. He was a 373 00:17:42,359 --> 00:17:44,640 Speaker 1: steady presence in your life. And I think that's kind 374 00:17:44,640 --> 00:17:47,879 Speaker 1: of what radio does in a totally different way. We 375 00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:50,480 Speaker 1: get much more personal than a talk show host, and 376 00:17:50,520 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 1: we have much more time. But I think that it 377 00:17:52,640 --> 00:17:56,760 Speaker 1: is this connection of comfort that when you hear these 378 00:17:56,920 --> 00:18:01,520 Speaker 1: four voices on the radio, it's just comforting. Yeah, there's 379 00:18:01,640 --> 00:18:03,879 Speaker 1: just something to it. And I don't think any other medium. 380 00:18:04,000 --> 00:18:08,400 Speaker 1: I like to say, Spotify can't, Katie Wbh, and neither 381 00:18:08,400 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 1: can Instagram, because you're really not hearing real people, You're 382 00:18:14,040 --> 00:18:17,200 Speaker 1: hearing a polished video version of people. Yeah, does that 383 00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:17,640 Speaker 1: make sense. 384 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:20,320 Speaker 4: No, I agree, because I obviously listened to this station 385 00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:22,280 Speaker 4: when I was growing up my whole life. And then 386 00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:24,720 Speaker 4: I remember like, okay, you guys be done at ten. 387 00:18:24,920 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 4: And then I looked into other radio shows that were 388 00:18:28,040 --> 00:18:30,880 Speaker 4: similar that I could listen to in my car because 389 00:18:30,920 --> 00:18:33,119 Speaker 4: I just wanted to have this show all day. And 390 00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:34,840 Speaker 4: so I was like, Okay, where else can I listen 391 00:18:34,840 --> 00:18:37,159 Speaker 4: to fun talk radio and pretend I have friends in 392 00:18:37,160 --> 00:18:39,240 Speaker 4: my car because I'm in my car all the time. 393 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:40,639 Speaker 2: So it w worked. 394 00:18:40,400 --> 00:18:41,920 Speaker 1: Out, and I totally get that, and I think that 395 00:18:41,960 --> 00:18:44,639 Speaker 1: people find a companionship here on the radio. All right, 396 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:47,960 Speaker 1: that's going to do it for the Minnesota Goodbye. I'd 397 00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:50,399 Speaker 1: be curious to know what do you like about the 398 00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:53,240 Speaker 1: Minnesota Goodbye? Maybe take a second and dash off a 399 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:55,240 Speaker 1: couple of lines. Why do you like it? Because people 400 00:18:55,280 --> 00:18:57,720 Speaker 1: really seem to like it, And I don't know why. 401 00:18:57,840 --> 00:19:00,480 Speaker 1: I think it's because we're really We can slow down 402 00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:02,840 Speaker 1: and we're not on a deadline, and we don't have 403 00:19:02,880 --> 00:19:05,119 Speaker 1: to play commercials or say every thirty minutes is a 404 00:19:05,119 --> 00:19:08,400 Speaker 1: Sabrina Carpenter keyword, and we just get to be more 405 00:19:08,520 --> 00:19:12,320 Speaker 1: are real and we're real on the radio. But what 406 00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:14,639 Speaker 1: do you what do you like about the Minnesota Goodbye? 407 00:19:14,760 --> 00:19:19,159 Speaker 4: We accept constructive feedback as well, and say the Minnesota Goodbye. 408 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:21,840 Speaker 1: Absolutely give us what you like about it and what 409 00:19:21,920 --> 00:19:23,600 Speaker 1: you don't like, what you don't want to and you 410 00:19:23,640 --> 00:19:26,560 Speaker 1: can be blunt. Don't hurt anybody's feelings if you okay, 411 00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:29,200 Speaker 1: I tell you what we are people. If you want 412 00:19:29,240 --> 00:19:31,400 Speaker 1: to say I don't want to hear Dave talk so much, 413 00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:33,800 Speaker 1: I want to hear more of Jenny and Bailey, it's 414 00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:35,880 Speaker 1: not going to hurt my feelings. But if you say 415 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:38,920 Speaker 1: something like you know, that's hurtful, Like maybe every time 416 00:19:38,960 --> 00:19:42,920 Speaker 1: one Needa comes on, you're like, oh, she's mouthy, Well 417 00:19:42,960 --> 00:19:45,640 Speaker 1: then go ahead and let me know. I just won't 418 00:19:45,720 --> 00:19:48,680 Speaker 1: let one need to know, right, Okay, but I actually. 419 00:19:48,440 --> 00:19:51,480 Speaker 3: Well, first of all, healthy, all right, Well, she. 420 00:19:51,480 --> 00:19:54,240 Speaker 1: Is mouth and that's what I love about Wanita is 421 00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:59,840 Speaker 1: because she does She does not have any is filter. 422 00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:02,760 Speaker 1: But she doesn't have an agenda. She is not here 423 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:05,520 Speaker 1: to be popular, she is not here to be paid. 424 00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:08,760 Speaker 1: She's just Juanita, and I love her. I think everybody 425 00:20:08,760 --> 00:20:11,240 Speaker 1: should have a friend like Juanita. That's like Dave, that's 426 00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:14,880 Speaker 1: fucked up, Dave, You're pissing me the fuck off. All right, 427 00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:17,199 Speaker 1: send that email whatever you want to talk about, what 428 00:20:17,240 --> 00:20:19,360 Speaker 1: you like, what you don't like about the Minnesota Goodbye, 429 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:22,199 Speaker 1: or anything else you want to bring up to Ryan 430 00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:25,360 Speaker 1: Show at KDWB dot com