Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning. It's second date at daytime,
Speaker 1: quickly reviewing. If you go on a date and you
Speaker 1: get ghosted, you just call me and then we will
Speaker 1: call your date and see what the deal is. Ryan
Speaker 1: is on the phone. Ryan, Good morning, Good morning. Hey,
Speaker 1: mar let's let's talk about your date. So this lady
Speaker 1: Ashley who you met online, roll it out for me, Like,
Speaker 1: what did you guys, what did you do?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I took her to Castro Street in Mountain View, Okay,
Speaker 3: And I thought that the date went really good. I
Speaker 3: mean like it felt great. It was it was pretty
Speaker 3: easy conversation. She was beautiful. I thought the chemistry was there.
Speaker 3: I knew if I get her to laugh and things
Speaker 3: like that, then that's a good sign. And I think
Speaker 3: we were both laughing a lot at a certain point.
Speaker 1: And the weather's been the weather's been great, and like
Speaker 1: Castro Street is such a fun place to eat.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, absolutely, And I think the atmosphere is really good. Okay,
Speaker 3: So I felt super comfortable and yeah, I mean I'm
Speaker 3: kind of going through it in my head and I
Speaker 3: just like I couldn't find a place where I messed
Speaker 3: up or anything like that.
Speaker 2: I know, even at the end, there was a chance
Speaker 2: to I kiss, and I.
Speaker 3: Just didn't do that. I was like, Okay, I'll say
Speaker 3: this for the next date.
Speaker 1: Ryan obviously listening.
Speaker 4: I've been.
Speaker 1: I've been asking, especially dudes for the last couple of weeks.
Speaker 1: All right, tell me where you screwed up. It would
Speaker 1: save us a lot of time. But you can't think
Speaker 1: of anything.
Speaker 3: No, But that's why I was doing it.
Speaker 2: I was like going through all the calculations in my head.
Speaker 1: Okay, and she's gone, like gone gone, not like slow playing,
Speaker 1: but gone.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like totally ghosted. I texted her a little bit
Speaker 3: after and I didn't get a reply.
Speaker 2: I got like that was a great night, and then
Speaker 2: that was it. And then she didn't text me anymore.
Speaker 1: Okay, go ahead and meet your phone. We're gonna call
Speaker 1: Ashley and try to figure out why she ghosted on you.
Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello, Hi, is this Ashley?
Speaker 4: This is Ashley.
Speaker 1: It's Marcus calling from Star one on one three.
Speaker 4: How are you a good? Good I listen to you
Speaker 4: guys all the time.
Speaker 1: Love it. Good morning?
Speaker 4: Wait? Hold on, yes, is this second date update? It is?
Speaker 4: Are you calling because of Ryan?
Speaker 3: I am?
Speaker 4: Oh my god, Okay, he's on the line right now, right,
Speaker 4: he's listening.
Speaker 1: He is Ryan.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, Actually, hey.
Speaker 1: So Ashley, did you ghos on on Ryan?
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, yeah, okay, I did, okay because I
Speaker 4: just okay, So honestly, the second I second I saw you, Ryan,
Speaker 4: like the date just I knew it was just not
Speaker 4: gonna play out like it's just it's gonna be probably
Speaker 4: like a friend thing at most happened well because okay,
Speaker 4: I spend an hour or so getting ready, I get
Speaker 4: my hair done, I get like a cute outfit. I
Speaker 4: put in the word like make up my nails, the
Speaker 4: whole thing, like I really put an effort to. It's
Speaker 4: a date, right, and Ryan shows up and he's looking
Speaker 4: like he just like wandered out of a startup breakroom.
Speaker 4: What do you mean, Well, he's like the stretchy hybridtech
Speaker 4: jene pants that were like way too tight, the plain
Speaker 4: white T shirt like the zip up hoody, and then
Speaker 4: the hair, like the damn hair, like I just I
Speaker 4: don't know, it looked like he just got in a
Speaker 4: fight with like some type of animal or like a
Speaker 4: I don't know, it was just it was all over
Speaker 4: the place. It would just it looked honestly looked like
Speaker 4: the wind blew into it like one hundred and twenty
Speaker 4: miles per hour. It was insane. I was like, what
Speaker 4: you look like you just woke up from the bed
Speaker 4: and you were like, hey, what's up? Like it just
Speaker 4: it was bad? Okay, I don't know.
Speaker 2: Ryan, go ahead, okay, yeah, that that's intentional. Like I
Speaker 2: have to tell you I used texturizing product in my
Speaker 2: hair and then I spent a lot of time actually
Speaker 2: making it look casually messy. This is like a it's
Speaker 2: a I just woke up look, that's actually does this?
Speaker 4: You can't intentionally style your hair to look like you
Speaker 4: overslept and call that fashion. I'm sorry, but that's no girls.
Speaker 2: This is like a relaxed look did yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like if you're grabbing coffee on a Sunday morning, cool,
Speaker 4: but not for the first date where you're trying to
Speaker 4: make an impression, you look like you just no. Like
Speaker 4: that's and the worst part about the whole thing is
Speaker 4: that you you kept calling me fancy all night because
Speaker 4: I'm wearing heels, Like what because I dressed up? But
Speaker 4: I looked nice.
Speaker 2: I mean you looked really nice. I just think you
Speaker 2: have you're fancy.
Speaker 3: That's that's why I said it.
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I work in tech.
Speaker 4: You know that.
Speaker 2: It's just like I work long hours and it's just
Speaker 2: when you go every single day, it's basically my whole
Speaker 2: at the same type of look cool.
Speaker 4: But this is still a date, like not an emergency
Speaker 4: slack meeting, you know what I mean? Like, I personally
Speaker 4: feel like effort matters, and that shows what type of
Speaker 4: person if you're putting an effort into this date, you know,
Speaker 4: like like you could see a lot from a person
Speaker 4: just even by how they present themselves, especially on the
Speaker 4: first try.
Speaker 1: So if Ryan could you dress up a little bit
Speaker 1: next time, and Ashley if he does, would you be
Speaker 1: interested maybe in a second?
Speaker 4: What? No, Sorry, okay, I'm just not interested.
Speaker 1: Now hang on you guys. Effort matters. That's the quote
Speaker 1: for this morning. Second date update.