1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,000 Speaker 1: It is Marcus in the morning and we are doing 2 00:00:02,040 --> 00:00:04,600 Speaker 1: second date update. We've got Maddox on the phone. Maddox, 3 00:00:04,640 --> 00:00:05,400 Speaker 1: good morning. 4 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:06,200 Speaker 2: Good morning, how are you? 5 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:08,119 Speaker 1: I am all right, dude, all I'd ask how you 6 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:10,200 Speaker 1: were doing, but I understand your date has ghosted, so 7 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 1: it's got to kind of suck a little bit. 8 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I honestly thought that. 9 00:00:13,720 --> 00:00:16,240 Speaker 1: She was it tell me about Celeste. I read your 10 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:19,720 Speaker 1: DM but for the benefit of people listening, what was 11 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 1: she like? How did the date go? And what is transpired? Exactly? 12 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 2: So I met her online? We met out at this 13 00:00:27,840 --> 00:00:32,320 Speaker 2: mediterranean spot in downtown San Mateo. Okay, and man, it 14 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:36,120 Speaker 2: was great, like just absolutely gorgeous. Not only gorgeous, she 15 00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:39,879 Speaker 2: was super smart, super funny, literally checked all the boxes. 16 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 3: Was that a big sigh of relief for you? 17 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:41,879 Speaker 2: Like? 18 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 1: How much? How many times is it legit? And how 19 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:52,120 Speaker 1: many times is it? I don't know, angles. 20 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:53,160 Speaker 2: I'll tell you. I can't even remember the last time 21 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 2: I had a date. Feel so electric? Okay, I go 22 00:00:58,080 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 2: on a lot of dates. 23 00:00:58,840 --> 00:01:00,279 Speaker 3: It felt mutual to you. 24 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely, okay, absolutely, I have no idea why she 25 00:01:07,319 --> 00:01:10,280 Speaker 2: just is radio silent. I mean she has just completely 26 00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 2: ghosted me. 27 00:01:10,959 --> 00:01:14,080 Speaker 1: All right, well, go ahead and mut your phone and 28 00:01:14,160 --> 00:01:15,839 Speaker 1: we're gonna cass a lesson see why she ghosted? 29 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 3: Here we go. Hello is this Celeste? 30 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 2: Yeah? 31 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:28,880 Speaker 4: Who's speaking? 32 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:29,560 Speaker 2: Hi? 33 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:31,679 Speaker 1: This is Marcus calling from Star one on one three 34 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 1: from the Morning show. 35 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:34,760 Speaker 3: How are you? 36 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:40,480 Speaker 4: Oh? Uh, I'm all right, I'm not Hi. I'm not 37 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 4: familiar with with your show. 38 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 3: Sorry, that's okay. 39 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 1: We do a segment it's called second Date Update and 40 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 1: basically just trying to bring people together after maybe a potential, uh, 41 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 1: misunderstanding on a first date. So I got your phone 42 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 1: number from a guy that you went on a date 43 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 1: with recently by the name of Maddox, who is feeling 44 00:01:58,320 --> 00:02:01,640 Speaker 1: like you're ghosting him, and I just, uh, I just 45 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 1: want to know why. 46 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:07,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, he's trying to be a better person. I would 47 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 3: love to get maybe broker a second date. Is there 48 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:11,240 Speaker 3: any shot that you would go. 49 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 1: On a second date with our guy Mattis And if not, 50 00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 1: tell me where he's screwing up? 51 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 4: Yeah? I mean to be honest, no, just to be upfront. Yeah, no, 52 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 4: I'll say this. I mean the dates started out really 53 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 4: really well. I could tell that there was like an 54 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 4: intensity about Maddocks, like in a good way, like he's 55 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:37,400 Speaker 4: he's yeah, he's just like got this intensity about him, 56 00:02:37,560 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 4: intense eye contact, and like, I you know, the things 57 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 4: that matter to him like really mattered, you know, so 58 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:45,799 Speaker 4: like some really great qualities, but there were a couple 59 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:48,799 Speaker 4: of things that like really turned me off pretty immediately. 60 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 3: Okay, So, like halfway through. 61 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 4: Dinner, he just like casually, like offhandedly mentioned that he 62 00:02:57,520 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 4: doesn't believe in having. 63 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:05,239 Speaker 3: Mirrors and it's how having I'm sorry, mirrors. He has 64 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 3: no mirrors in his house, no mirrors. 65 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:10,679 Speaker 4: In his house like at all. And I was like, oh, interesting, 66 00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 4: like why and he was like, oh, well, because they 67 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 4: invite ego, and I've you know, I'm not interested in 68 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 4: developing too much of an ego, and so I've removed 69 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:23,120 Speaker 4: every reflective surface, like not even just mirrors, but like 70 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:26,800 Speaker 4: any kind of reflective glass. Like I can understand if you, 71 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:29,240 Speaker 4: like I don't know if you're self conscious or. 72 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:31,440 Speaker 3: Whatever, but like or if you're a vampire. 73 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 4: Well right, and so you know, he said all that, 74 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 4: and I'm like laughing, thinking it's a metaphor at first, 75 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 4: and I'm like, yeah, yeah, of course, like nobody wants 76 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 4: to have a big ego, like I understand, and he 77 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 4: was like no, no, no, no, no, Like this is like 78 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 4: it's not a metaphor, Like I truly I haven't owned 79 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 4: a mirror in three years. Like, well, that's what I'm wondering. 80 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 4: I'm like, honestly, that's pretty impressive because he's an attractive guy. 81 00:03:57,880 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 4: But he was like, I only check my appearance using 82 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 4: my phone camera when it's like absolutely necessary. 83 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 3: That is wild, and. 84 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 4: I was and I just it felt so weird, like 85 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 4: like you you were saying. I was like, is he 86 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 4: a vampire? 87 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 2: Right? 88 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:18,479 Speaker 4: Like what's like what's going on? But I, you know, 89 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 4: I shook it off and I was like, Okay, maybe 90 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:22,560 Speaker 4: this is just like a weird fluke, like yeah. And 91 00:04:22,640 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 4: then a little later in the dinner, we're talking about 92 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:29,279 Speaker 4: past relationships, which is always like kind of a dicey thing, 93 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 4: but he casually just like dropped into the conversation that 94 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:37,600 Speaker 4: that he once showed up unannounced at his ex's workplace 95 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 4: to fight for closure. 96 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:43,920 Speaker 3: That's what he said, fight for closure, Like those are 97 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:44,719 Speaker 3: his words. 98 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:46,440 Speaker 4: And so he just like shows up an announced and 99 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:48,840 Speaker 4: he was like no, you know, it wasn't like aggressive, 100 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 4: it was just it was passionate. And then he followed 101 00:04:52,960 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 4: that up and he was like, you know, sometimes grand 102 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:57,280 Speaker 4: gestures are necessary. 103 00:04:57,760 --> 00:05:00,040 Speaker 3: Okay, seems like that just like. 104 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 4: Very very so that really weirded me out. 105 00:05:05,920 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 3: Okay, I feel weird now. 106 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 1: But the thing about second date update is that it 107 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:14,719 Speaker 1: Maddox is actually listening right now and oh yeah. 108 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 3: So Maddics are you there? 109 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:17,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm here. 110 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:20,360 Speaker 3: Okay. So what's this with the no mirrors thing? 111 00:05:21,400 --> 00:05:24,040 Speaker 2: I don't have mirrors because I'm confident in myself. I'm 112 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:28,120 Speaker 2: not a vain person. I don't need to constantly be 113 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:29,400 Speaker 2: looking at my image. 114 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 4: It's healthy, there's there's healthy, but then there's like like 115 00:05:36,080 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 4: like anti reflection, like this is like a little psychotic. 116 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:42,960 Speaker 2: Honestly, it's not psychotic at all. It proves that I'm 117 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:44,200 Speaker 2: confident in myself. 118 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:48,479 Speaker 1: Let's shift from psychotic to sociopath a little bit here. 119 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:52,680 Speaker 1: What about just showing up at your ex's work that's 120 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:53,279 Speaker 1: weird to me? 121 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:56,040 Speaker 2: Okay, No, it's not weird at all. I did not 122 00:05:56,120 --> 00:06:00,360 Speaker 2: cause a scene. I was very respectful. I needed answers. 123 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:03,280 Speaker 4: Okay, but you can't just you showed up at her 124 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:07,880 Speaker 4: workplace like that is such an invasion of somebody's privacy. 125 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:10,920 Speaker 2: No, it's not. It's proof of commitment. 126 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 4: No. No, I think it shows escalation honestly, and I 127 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:17,680 Speaker 4: think it's really aggressive. 128 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 2: It's an act of me being evolved. 129 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 4: No, it's an act of you being a total stalker. 130 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 2: No, I'm not a stalker. Okay, it sounds like you're 131 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:31,880 Speaker 2: just really adverse to my passion, and then I'm. 132 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:34,839 Speaker 4: Min, I think, yeah, yeah, I think honestly, I think 133 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:37,600 Speaker 4: that that is what's happening. I think you're really intense 134 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 4: and I think it really turns me off. 135 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 3: If I'm being honest, is this why we say no 136 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 3: second date? 137 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:46,480 Speaker 4: Or I mean, yeah, I said that at the very beginning. 138 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:50,039 Speaker 3: Sure you're right, You're right, So okay. 139 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:50,919 Speaker 4: I'm going to double down on that. 140 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:58,000 Speaker 3: Sounds good, Everybody, hang on. That was not gonna work anyway.