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Speaker 1: Intern in your morning show.

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Speaker 2: Happy Wednesday, friend, Welcome to the show, intern, John is

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Speaker 2: my name, Sauce? Hello, Rose, Hi, Hi, Eric's here, Hoodie

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Speaker 2: severa as well A nine ninety three three eight attacks

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Speaker 2: the M's rub at Why miss Radio? Happy New Year's Eve?

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Speaker 1: Happy New Year's Eve?

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Speaker 2: Look at that two years he made it. If you

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Speaker 2: have plans tonight, I'd start hydrating now. If you don't,

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Speaker 2: it's even better. You just go home. And I was

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Speaker 2: talking to our friend Evan about he listened to York.

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Speaker 2: I was like, you couldn't pay me twenty thousand dollars

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Speaker 2: to go Time Square football Drone? No, especially like seeing

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Speaker 2: the ball in person.

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Speaker 1: It's just like, Oh, that's also when you hear people

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Speaker 1: about how they wear diapers and stuff like that does

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Speaker 1: not don't be fine?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And then being the cold and you're surround by

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Speaker 2: other people. Nah, I'm good. I'd rather be at home.

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Speaker 2: I wanted this real quick. The uh This pet insurance

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Speaker 2: company put out the most common things pets swallow and

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Speaker 2: how much it costs, because nothing better than the when

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Speaker 2: you see them do something. This is going to be expensive. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: the top five things do swallow money made the list

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Speaker 2: sticks is at four.

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Speaker 1: I guess, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Sure, clothes at three, and a lot of people call

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Speaker 2: them by underwear being eaten by dogs.

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Speaker 1: Dogs and socks.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, toys or toy parts okay, yeah, and then candy

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Speaker 2: and chocolate makes the list.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they had their they like their sweets.

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Speaker 2: The average bet bill, that bill for a dog swallowing

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Speaker 2: something is twenty five hundred dollars lot. Yes, long. For cats,

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Speaker 2: it's money office supplies, hair ties and accessories. Toys are parts.

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Speaker 2: Number one thing for cats being swallowed is string.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I guess they're probably playing with them.

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Speaker 2: They say. The average it's cost for cats is nineteen

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Speaker 2: hundred dollars. For if it's a sock, the average cost

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Speaker 2: for a dog to get that fixed forty four hundred dollars. God,

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Speaker 2: that is it's not great. Okay yeah for cats. For strings,

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Speaker 2: the average cost is twenty five hundred dollars.

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Speaker 1: That's a lot.

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Speaker 2: It's always the worst too, because they're like, well, if

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Speaker 2: you go the emergency vet, they bend you over and like, well,

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Speaker 2: do you want us to do this test?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Do you want us to do this test? I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I'm not the medical expert.

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Speaker 1: It is so I remember my cat growing up, my

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Speaker 1: dowsing pistachios and oliver. He swallowed one of the pistachios

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Speaker 2: I can't even imagine.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how much it was because I was

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Speaker 2: But yeah, you still our child. I am absolutely. Let

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Speaker 2: me get to this for your Wednesday and minutes. Is

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Speaker 2: the universe telling you to bail? It's intern Johnny Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: Appreciate you at hanging out on intern john in your

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Speaker 2: morning show. I thought this was interesting. The psychologist is

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Speaker 2: talking about the subtle ways the universe tries to warn

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Speaker 2: you somebody is bad news. I think at some point

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Speaker 2: with your friends warn you about them. Oh yeah, So

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Speaker 2: generally speaking, your friends like out for each other. If

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Speaker 2: to avoid the person, that could be a way of

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Speaker 1: Because your friends will like they have your best interest

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Speaker 1: at heart, if they're your true friends, so they don't

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Speaker 2: Well, I've always believed like if your friends and family

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Speaker 2: either way, do you want to risk it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean if it's like always bringing a negativity

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Speaker 2: The more you hang out with them, the worse your

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Speaker 2: At this part, well, even if like you're doing like

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Speaker 2: Well what it shouldn't really matter to you. Literally, I've

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Speaker 1: It's sort of like like someone not drinking or trying

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Speaker 2: They say, sometimes he never shows us the signs of

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Speaker 2: subtle ways that includes their own behavior. Do you find

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Speaker 2: that makes us sense. If you're happy hanging out with them,

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Speaker 2: you get the the gut feeling your relationships only temporary.

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Speaker 2: There was a woman who escaped Bundy and those like friends,

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they just all also had those friendships that

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Speaker 2: When you know they can't help you. There's nothing they

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Speaker 1: So you should just end it because I don't know.

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Speaker 2: And by way, this isn't just romantic to this friendship

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Speaker 1: When I went with my friend of Cancuon, I was

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Speaker 2: And that's like the it's like I'm just trying to

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Speaker 1: And I don't know, I'm trying to survive. I know.

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Speaker 1: I think it was awful.

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Speaker 2: Everybody has that.

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Speaker 1: It's like it's not even worth yeah arguing No. I

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Speaker 1: make the most of it. I spent my harder money

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Speaker 2: Sure, yeah, the last one above, All strange coincidences keep

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Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, I mean this kind of goes back to

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Speaker 2: Oh Man, Butter Burger is so good. And they have

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Speaker 2: They're not everywhere. I know they're in Nashville, but I

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Speaker 2: go White Castle fellas it is not. Yeah, it's okay.

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Speaker 1: I think it's just because the movie made it so lucky.

441
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Speaker 2: And as I said before, they went there because they

442
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Speaker 2: were high as hell. That's why they went there. So

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Speaker 2: I would love to get years of attacks nine ninety

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Speaker 2: three three eight. It's intern Johnny Marshaw. I do something

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Speaker 2: that tried right, real quick. It's intern john in the

446
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Speaker 2: Morning Show. I'm going to try so Theara sent me

447
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Speaker 2: this how to know you're more accomplished than the average

448
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Speaker 2: person for psychology. I do think every now and then,

449
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Speaker 2: because you get stuck on social media and you see

450
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Speaker 2: everybody who apparently is going all these trips and has

451
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Speaker 2: all this cash and it's happy. You go, am I

452
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Speaker 2: just the biggest idiot of all time? What I mean

453
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Speaker 2: starting off the bat with you honor your commitments.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's good. I mean a lot of people don't

455
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Speaker 1: do that.

456
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Speaker 2: So now I do think I've realized this the last

457
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Speaker 2: couple of years. People don't realize the value in keeping

458
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Speaker 2: your word and how quickly it takes to destroy that.

459
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Speaker 2: It takes years to build trust in ten seconds for

460
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Speaker 2: it to be gone. I think some people sacrifice their

461
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Speaker 2: word just for a couple of seconds of like comfort,

462
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Speaker 2: and then it's like, yeah, I don't forget people lot

463
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Speaker 2: to me. Yeah I know you're ass doesn't, Shelby, My

464
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Speaker 2: mother certainly doesn't. Oh my mom will tell you. Somebody

465
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Speaker 2: hurt my feelings in the first grade. Yeah, I don't

466
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Speaker 2: even know. So. They say commitments drive their lives, as

467
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Speaker 2: it does the need to follow through with it. That's why.

468
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Speaker 2: That's why this is such a good thing to have

469
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Speaker 2: basically great commitments, and you ever take fulfill these contracts

470
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Speaker 2: and live with integrity. Yes, I think that's true. It's crazy,

471
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Speaker 2: it's a rarity. Do you know what I mean? Like

472
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Speaker 2: following through with things? Yeah, write down.

473
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Speaker 1: Your goals, Okay, I do you think that's important? Just

474
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Speaker 1: so you can like see like where you're at and

475
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Speaker 1: even like your goals can change too, and that's okay,

476
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Speaker 1: but then it's like cool to see where you feel

477
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Speaker 1: like you are.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they say. The big thing is like it's the

479
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Speaker 2: writing down sets the reality of motion and also as

480
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Speaker 2: easy attract so you can look and be like, Okay,

481
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Speaker 2: this is exactly what I want to do.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I think that's true. We all have people who say

484
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Speaker 2: their goals and just don't do anything about it. I

485
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Speaker 2: think it's cool having it written down to makes it

486
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Speaker 2: almost real. Yeah, where it's like now I have an

487
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Speaker 2: actionable thing to do. They say creating goals helps you

488
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Speaker 2: fall more deeply in love with life.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's fair.

490
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Speaker 2: I mean you also need things to look forward to. Yeah, sure,

491
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Speaker 2: like life can suck sometimes, but like if the goal

492
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Speaker 2: is on a lose an extra pound or to clean

493
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Speaker 2: something up, like if there is a bit of like

494
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Speaker 2: a dopamine hit.

495
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Speaker 1: It is also cool when you see your friends, like

496
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Speaker 1: on social media, share their goals, which sometimes it can

497
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Speaker 1: seem like it's flexing. But I've been following like one

498
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Speaker 1: of our friends, Emily and Louisville, like her weight loss journey.

499
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Speaker 1: She posts day She's like, I'm almost about to reach

500
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Speaker 1: another goal, and I'm like, that's just so cool. I

501
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Speaker 1: love that.

502
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Speaker 2: I have a highlight Instagram story outside of Madison Square

503
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Speaker 2: Garden in New York that says, one day I'll be

504
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Speaker 2: on stage here. Okay, when that happens, that's gonna be

505
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Speaker 2: the biggest flex in my life.

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Speaker 1: I mean that's pretty dope.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like the the Yeah, just because then it's

508
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Speaker 2: something I always look forward to. You prioritize non negotiables, Okay.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

510
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Speaker 2: So they say many people burn out or quit because

511
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Speaker 2: the neglect or their need to maintain high energy levels. Yeah,

512
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Speaker 2: they say we become so focused on target we fail

513
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Speaker 2: to care for what we need to do most our

514
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Speaker 2: energize selves. Yeah, I like that a lot.

515
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Speaker 1: I do think that it's like very easy, especially if

516
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Speaker 1: it comes to like working out and stuff, to just

517
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Speaker 1: start putting it off, like a few days here and there,

518
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Speaker 1: until it becomes like sure a thing. So I think

519
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Speaker 1: that just you know, trying to say to a routine

520
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Speaker 1: and like it also makes you feel good when you're

521
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Speaker 1: done with it.

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Speaker 2: Well, I would add to that sauce if like you

523
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Speaker 2: are just to doe the weight loss thing, the journey,

524
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Speaker 2: if you are trying to like eat cleaner, maybe you're

525
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Speaker 2: doing like a dry month of not drinking and then

526
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Speaker 2: your friends are pushing you, if you're able to be

527
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Speaker 2: like no, this is my.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I do think that's a good example.

529
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Speaker 2: I hate when people do that. Yeah, if he said, hey,

530
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Speaker 2: I'm not drinking, why what the hell do you care?

531
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Speaker 1: Does it matter?

532
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Speaker 9: Or they like try to trick you into getting it

533
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Speaker 9: drunk or something.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, you find a way to enjoy things means

536
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Speaker 2: you're doing more than the average person. Do.

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Speaker 1: I do agree with that like, if you can just

538
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Speaker 1: enjoy life and enjoy like little things and get excited

539
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Speaker 1: about it, that's fun.

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Speaker 2: It's an interesting point. They say, it's not about thinking positively,

541
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Speaker 2: it's about acting less with the burden of negative thoughts

542
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Speaker 2: that hold us back.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but they say we gain unfair advantage when we

545
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Speaker 2: become intolerant of doubtful thoughts instead turn to the present. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I would say, like the one person I can call

547
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Speaker 2: him right now, I know if he answers the phone,

548
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Speaker 2: he's gonna sound happy no matter what. H Yeah, call real.

549
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Speaker 1: Quick, and he's just the happiest person ever.

550
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Speaker 2: He probably has like the best life just because everything

551
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Speaker 2: he does he's just so happy about. Yeah, anytime I

552
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Speaker 2: call it, hopefully answers. He has a he has a child,

553
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Speaker 2: So there's that. He's just so, hey, Hey, what are

554
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Speaker 2: you doing. That's makes Well, we're on the air, we're

555
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Speaker 2: talking about happy people. I was talking about how you

556
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Speaker 2: always sound happy.

557
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Speaker 1: Oh thanks, man, I feel pretty happy.

558
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Speaker 2: Must be nice. We love you all right. Well that's awesome, guys.

559
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Speaker 2: Want I just want to show the fans are happy.

560
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Speaker 8: Oh thank you everyone.

561
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Speaker 2: I hope you're happy too. This might be raining outside

562
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Speaker 2: but it should be smiling in your heart. You brother,

563
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Speaker 2: you too.

564
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Speaker 9: You literally cannot be unhappy about him, Like he does

565
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Speaker 9: shine so brightly that you can can't help but.

566
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Speaker 2: Absorb it was joking on everything. Yeah, I think he's

567
00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:08,000
Speaker 2: a fine example of the worst situation. He's like, I'm

568
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Speaker 2: gonna be happy. Yeah, he's gonna be.

569
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Speaker 1: Happy to be like, yeah, it sucks, but it sucks.

570
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Speaker 2: Okay, it's gonna be huge. I like this one too.

571
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Speaker 2: You practice self compassion yeah, okay.

572
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think because you it's so easy for you

573
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Speaker 1: to be compassionate towards other people, but it's why is

574
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Speaker 1: it so hard to do that to yourself?

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Speaker 2: Oh there's Yeah. I've said to friends in the past

576
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Speaker 2: that if you treat others like you treat yourself, you

577
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Speaker 2: have zero friends.

578
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Speaker 9: This is such a big thing for me, Like as

579
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Speaker 9: a parent, Like I'm constantly giving myself grace because I'm

580
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Speaker 9: learning how to be a parent.

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Speaker 2: Yeah the moment.

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Speaker 9: So I'm like, I'm like, I give myself grace, like okay,

583
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Speaker 9: Like it's okay.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. There's times like if I've had a long night

585
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Speaker 2: and then like I don't want to go to the

586
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Speaker 2: gym after the show, I'm like, hey, I'm not letting

587
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Speaker 2: anybody down if I don't go to the gym. Yeah,

588
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Speaker 2: like affect the job, Yeah, I'll do. Okay, let's do

589
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Speaker 2: too real quick. You restoke the inspiration fire.

590
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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: I kind of like that. They say determine. People are

592
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Speaker 2: always looking for ways to be inspired. They don't wait

593
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Speaker 2: for inspiration, they create it. I kind of yeah, I

594
00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:12,560
Speaker 2: like that. It's kind of cool. And the last one,

595
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Speaker 2: you take notes of your wins.

596
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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, I think it's important just so you can

597
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Speaker 1: look back over it and like actually like enjoy it.

598
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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I know. I get so much heat for

599
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Speaker 2: the photos on the wall of my house of like

600
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Speaker 2: the comedy tours. I don't mind, but I know, like

601
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Speaker 2: for me personally, I know how much work those tug

602
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Speaker 2: yeah scene, So for me it's like, yeah that those

603
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Speaker 2: are like the the when you go to like a

604
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Speaker 2: cap One arena and the banners are hanging the ceiling.

605
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Speaker 2: It's like, yeah like that, Yeah, they put the work in.

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Speaker 1: It's important to celebrate yourself. Let your big wins.

607
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Speaker 2: Also, we'll celebrate your baby.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, come on, let's go to.

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Speaker 2: Text interns Johnny Morning Show and on Wednesdays we do

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Speaker 2: a playlist playoff me versus Sauce versus Rose. It happens now.

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Speaker 2: I hope you having a fantastic New Year's Eve. Appreciate

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Speaker 2: you hanging out. Interns you down in your morning show.

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Speaker 2: Seven thirty five this morning gots your five sauce tickets.

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Speaker 2: They're coming to a CFG Bank arena in twenty twenty six. No,

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Speaker 2: seven thirty five is Cardi B a forties five sauce.

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Speaker 2: I'm making sure you guys paying ten Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: yeah totally so seven thirty five Cardi B eight forty

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Speaker 2: got your five sauce tickets all right here on interns,

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Speaker 2: John in your morning show, we'll do it. Playlist playoff

620
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Speaker 2: in minutes the biggest songs of the year, real quick too.

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Speaker 2: They played out a study of the white lies we

622
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Speaker 2: tell most often in relationships, according to research. Again, I'm

623
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Speaker 2: not saying this is happening necessarily anybody's relationship, but there

624
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Speaker 2: we go. For women, the top one lies is snoopy

625
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Speaker 2: on your partner. Okay, okay, fifty seven percent women have

626
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Speaker 2: lied about doing that.

627
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Speaker 1: Oh I'd like creeping on them online?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, are going through the phone checking locations.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to your phone, but I will I

630
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Speaker 1: will research you.

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Speaker 2: That's fair. Again with the phone thing, my rule has

632
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Speaker 2: always been like, if you go through the phone and

633
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Speaker 2: you find nothing, will that cure your anxiety or is

634
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Speaker 2: your answer going to be I just didn't find it exactly.

635
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Speaker 2: If the answer is I just didn't find it, get

636
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Speaker 2: the hell out.

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Speaker 1: But I've been relationships where I've wanted to and it

638
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Speaker 1: was so unhealthy at that point when I wanted to,

639
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Speaker 1: So I felt like that was more than enough for

640
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Speaker 1: me to be like, this is probably not great.

641
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Speaker 2: But I'm saying like, if you go through the phone

642
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Speaker 2: you don't find anything, if your reaction isn't oh thank

643
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Speaker 2: god sense relief reactions though it's really hidden, then you

644
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Speaker 2: don't get that.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, it's like, if you're already at that place,

646
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Speaker 1: it probably isn't. Like for you, it's probably great.

647
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Speaker 2: Second live is feeling insecure about the relationship, so you lie.

648
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Speaker 1: About that, yeah, especially like I think now, like actually

649
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Speaker 1: really any time in dating, I think that it is

650
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Speaker 1: normal to feel insecure at the beginnings. You're like, I like, what, like,

651
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Speaker 1: you know, it's just all over the place.

652
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Speaker 2: Having feelings to somebody else. That's not.

653
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Speaker 1: It's not great. I don't feel like that's a way

654
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Speaker 1: lie either.

655
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Speaker 2: And then intimate satisfaction with her partner is also honest

656
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Speaker 2: about that. Yeah, especially because like most dudes aim the

657
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Speaker 2: police like dog like most dudes want to be known

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Speaker 2: as like the stud. Yeah, if you tell him you

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Speaker 2: need to he needs to read the pledge of allegiance

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Speaker 2: forwards and backwards, he'll probably.

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Speaker 1: Do it because like your body, you got the handbook. Yes,

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Speaker 1: for both parties. Idea, both parties need to be open

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Speaker 1: about that because it's like they don't know. We have

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Speaker 1: different anatomy.

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Speaker 2: Agreed for dudes, the most big biggest lines we're snooping

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Speaker 2: on the partner, Okay, we are sure using adult videos okay, sure,

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Speaker 2: admitting to his intimate fantasies.

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Speaker 1: Okay, sure that that depends. I would say, share with

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Speaker 1: some of some of the things I've heard, I'm like

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Speaker 1: an adult share.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then accurately describing the frequency of relations.

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Speaker 1: Sure, yeah, okay, I guess so we.

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Speaker 2: Love your thoughts. That's a weird way of phrasing that.

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Speaker 2: I feel.

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Speaker 1: That's what I was like I am. That throws me off,

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Speaker 1: but I'm not.

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Speaker 2: A nine ninety three three eight text It's Intern Johnny

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Speaker 2: Morris Show the playlist playoff Internshohn in Your Morning Show

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Speaker 2: Top Songs of twenty twenty five. It was difficult. There

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Speaker 2: was a lot of songs this year. There were Olivia

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Speaker 2: Dean was nice, like third like Runner und for me

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Speaker 2: because Manni has just been so good. Yes girl, yes,

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Speaker 2: like finally somebody gets me, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Finally Absolute Banger, Saws had Ordinary, No Broke Boys, man Child.

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Speaker 2: You want to vote for Saucy? Text Sauce not nine

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Speaker 2: three three eight. Rose had opal Light, Golden and anxiety.

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Speaker 2: You wanna vote for her? Text? Rose nine nine three

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Speaker 2: three eight. I had apt love me not back to friends?

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Speaker 2: Who will vote for me? Text? John Tonight nine three

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Speaker 2: three eight Let's go in Chevy Chase Bianca, good morning,

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Speaker 2: good morning, you heard the playlist? You want to vote for? Who?

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Speaker 2: Okay and why Sauce? Which one of her songs did

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Speaker 2: it for you?

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Speaker 3: My favorite?

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Speaker 2: Ordinary?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Bianca, thank you for listening. To have a great day,

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Speaker 2: of course. To guys in Clarksburg, Brianna, good morning, good morning,

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Speaker 2: you heard the playlist? You want to vote for? Who?

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Speaker 2: I want to vote for? Rose Okay and Why? Rose?

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Speaker 2: Which song? Did it for you? Hello?

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Speaker 8: Yep?

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Speaker 2: Why do you want vote for Rose?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 8: Because I love Taylor Swiss?

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Speaker 2: Okay, fair enough? All right? Can I put you in

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Speaker 2: hold one second? Sure, let's go and Waldorf Ta good

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Speaker 2: morning morning. Before we get to your vote, I need

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Speaker 2: to know what was the last concert you saw in person?

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Speaker 2: Tough question.

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Speaker 1: I hate that question.

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Speaker 2: It's tough. Is a tough question. It is toughs Fie.

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Speaker 2: Let's just let's move on, Tia. You heard the playlist?

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Speaker 2: You want to vote for? Who I actually want to

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Speaker 2: vote for?

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Speaker 1: You?

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Speaker 4: John?

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Speaker 2: Thank you? There we go? And why me?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Honestly I want because he's the best. Thank you for listening.

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Speaker 2: You to hold one second if you are going out tonight,

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Speaker 2: and make sure to be safe. Obviously, get uber, get

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Speaker 2: a lyft get Eric will come pick you up if

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Speaker 2: you want. He's uh, he's got broad shoulders, right Eric,

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Speaker 2: get on those shoulders. He will carry you wherever you go.

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Speaker 2: Got your Cardi B tickets coming next Hey, easily going

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Speaker 2: to be one of the biggest shows of twenty twenty six.

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Speaker 2: Cardi B's coming to Capitol One Arena. We want to

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Speaker 2: get you in Thanks A loud nation call or nine

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Speaker 2: you are in eight seven in seven nine four sixty one.

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Speaker 2: Good luck? Why I get to this the check in

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Speaker 2: in a second? What did you see in their room?

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Speaker 2: I thought this was kind of interesting real quick. If

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Speaker 2: you're going on vacation soon, a new study, the majority

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Speaker 2: of dog owners say the best part of vacation is

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Speaker 2: what saws again dog.

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Speaker 1: Owners when they get to see their dog again.

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Speaker 2: Correct.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if the dog's not with you, then what what

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Speaker 1: you're a dog owner?

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Speaker 2: What you have a puppy? Like maybe getting a break

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Speaker 2: and like not having to get up early to go

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Speaker 2: out and dog.

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Speaker 1: That out loud?

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Speaker 2: I mean it is it is. They are a chore.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 2: Is like that you're not a chore.

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Speaker 1: There are responsibility, which is also chore.

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Speaker 2: No, you have to do uh? They say people constantly

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Speaker 2: worry about their dog while their away. I'll be honest.

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Speaker 2: When I bring Skittles doggy daycare, he's far too excited

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Speaker 2: for my liking, Like I want to look sad, like dad,

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Speaker 2: can police come with? But he's like, get me out

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Speaker 2: of here. Like he makes it seem like he comes

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Speaker 2: from a bad home.

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Speaker 1: He's going to see his friends.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but then like at least on the flip side.

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Speaker 2: When I pick him up, he's also like, hey, yeah,

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Speaker 2: get out of here. Yeah, It's like he forgets how

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Speaker 2: nice he has it. It's like I try to bring

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Speaker 2: him in for scared straight, but he's like, I kind

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Speaker 2: of like hanging out here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I like it here.

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Speaker 2: And then, like a lot of dog parents, I spend

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Speaker 2: far too much time watching the video feed to be like,

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Speaker 2: I must want to make sure he's there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, is having good time? Is rising?

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Speaker 2: He just runs in the corner by He just runs

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Speaker 2: in the corner just kind does that. And then, whereas

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Speaker 2: Chewy would, I told the story of the comment Georg

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Speaker 2: Chewi convinced one of the workers at the doggy daycare

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Speaker 2: that he needed to be held, and so this young

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Speaker 2: girl like was this carry him around and it's like,

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Speaker 2: we're so sorry about He's fine. He's just like that's

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Speaker 2: just what he does.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you you walk right into it.

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Speaker 2: They say, the average dog owner starts missing their dog

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Speaker 2: just forty three minutes into vacation.

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Speaker 1: Do they miss me?

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Speaker 2: I would say, I guess for me. Then vacation starts

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Speaker 2: once he land and you're like, you've checked in the

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Speaker 2: destination because like, I don't think about the dog while

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to get to the airport or the hotel.

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Speaker 2: Like once once vacation starts, like you're checked in, you

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Speaker 2: see back down then it's yeah, I think then.

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Speaker 1: Does you know where I am? Does he know what's

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Speaker 1: going back?

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Speaker 2: They also say twenty four percents are thinking about their

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Speaker 2: dog as soon as they walk out the door. Okay, sure,

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Speaker 2: that is the worst. When you look back and they're

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Speaker 2: just staring at it, You're like, homes.

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Speaker 1: Please forgive me, I'll be back. I'm so sorry right.

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Speaker 2: There, I'm so sorry. And then the pet owners missed

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Speaker 2: their dog and average at thirteen distinct times per day

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Speaker 2: went away.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because I think that, especially when you have a pet,

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Speaker 1: you are used to them being around you, so like

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Speaker 1: when they're not there, you're like, oh no.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's a huge like where they go yeah,

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Speaker 2: or you drop food in the hotel, you're like, oh,

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Speaker 2: they'll pick it up. They go, oh no, my asses

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Speaker 2: got picked up their life right now. That is like

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Speaker 2: when you realize how big of a slab you are. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: when like you has got all the dog will get it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: oh no, no, no, it's just me by myself. It's

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Speaker 2: intern Johnny Mary Show. Need check in on intern Johnny

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Speaker 2: your morning show, our chance to hear from you, hear

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Speaker 2: about your life. Here about your story. So today I

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Speaker 2: want to know what did you find in their room

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Speaker 2: or what did you see in their room? Could be

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Speaker 2: somebody you were dating, could be them on the app,

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Speaker 2: could be a friend. Whatever. Nine ninety three three eight

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Speaker 2: to text DM's rope and at why Miss Radio, I

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Speaker 2: will start. I was talking to a girl, no big deal,

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Speaker 2: went back to her place, no big deal. It was

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Speaker 2: very excited, like this is me, very nice. Go into

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Speaker 2: her bedroom, like this is gonna be it. They're like

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Speaker 2: lined up around her closet was a bunch of dudes

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Speaker 2: shoes in varying sizes. And and by the way, she

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Speaker 2: was like five feet she's not wearing size eleven men's

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Speaker 2: shoes astually not. But it wasn't just like it was

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Speaker 2: like eleven, not different. Sometimes she collected shoes like if

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Speaker 2: that was like a a trophy. Do you know what

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Speaker 2: I mean now that she's a murderer, Did you have

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Speaker 2: a husband and like a teenager who's not here, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that kind of vibe. I was, I'm probably gonna yeah,

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Speaker 2: get at all re quick forgot my gona go water

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Speaker 2: my lawn. You know saw us? How about you? What

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Speaker 2: did you see in somebody's room?

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Speaker 1: I know this is like a red flag, red flag.

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Speaker 1: But he had a lot of coloring books and they

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Speaker 1: weren't like the cool adult coloring books. They were like

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Speaker 1: the old man's coloring books. And this is like where

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Speaker 1: I also had to draw the line because I obviously

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Speaker 1: like went through them when he was in the bathroom.

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Speaker 1: But you know how, like I don't know why. It

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Speaker 1: reminds you a pizza hut, like you color like they're

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Speaker 1: things that they put on the table. Absolutely, and my

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Speaker 1: friends and when were kids, like we'd outline it, like

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Speaker 1: the lines and just make it like really dark and

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Speaker 1: shaded in really light. And that's how he colored them.

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Speaker 1: And it really bothered me.

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Speaker 2: But that's how he's supposed to color, isn't it.

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Speaker 1: No, he was outlined where the lines are get like

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Speaker 1: really dark blue and then he's like shade it lighter.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, ew, at least he was good. Sure,

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Speaker 1: it was just weird.

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Speaker 9: I was hanging out with a group of friends and

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Speaker 9: one of the friends we went to their house.

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Speaker 1: They it was it was a guy and he.

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Speaker 10: Had a Costco size selection of handloation in his bathroom,

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Speaker 10: like on the counter, and I was like, this is

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Speaker 10: you realize this is weird?

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Speaker 2: Right? It was a lot of lotion. I was like, yo,

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Speaker 2: it's been not a good look for you.

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Speaker 1: I'm okay.

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Speaker 2: I would love to hear yours. What did you see

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Speaker 2: in their room? Nine ninety three three eight to text

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Speaker 2: DM's open at WYMOS Radio. They check it on intern

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Speaker 2: John in your Morning show. I cannot wait for these.

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Speaker 2: They check it on intern John in your Morning show.

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Speaker 2: What did they have in their place? Nine nine three

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Speaker 2: three eight to text dms are open at YMS Radio.

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Speaker 2: Let's go in Bethesda, Amy, Good morning, Hey, how are

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Speaker 2: you Jill Wells? This is a man we met off

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Speaker 2: of Hinge. Correct, Yeah, okay, so we match on Hinge.

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Speaker 2: We hit off. You go back to his place the

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Speaker 2: first time and what does he have?

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Speaker 7: He has so many pictures with his ex everywhere?

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Speaker 2: Okay, just like how long was he single for?

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Speaker 11: I think he's been single for a couple of months,

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Speaker 11: Like they've been together a long.

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Speaker 7: Time, and it was like his high school sweetheart and stuff.

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Speaker 7: But this wasn't like his parents' house and stuff was

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Speaker 7: left over. This was like his apartment. Oh, he'd been

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Speaker 7: single for at least a couple months, and there were

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Speaker 7: just like prom photos and graduation photos and family photos

878
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:17,240
Speaker 7: and they.

879
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 2: All have her in them. Okay, And do we think

880
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:22,520
Speaker 2: it was a case where she printed it off for

881
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:24,000
Speaker 2: him and he just left it up or do you

882
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:30,279
Speaker 2: think it was like a man's touch if you will, She.

883
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:34,000
Speaker 7: May have like put him up, but he really should

884
00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:36,520
Speaker 7: have taken him down before he started bringing people home.

885
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:38,640
Speaker 2: No, for sure. Okay, can I put you in hold

886
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:39,160
Speaker 2: one second?

887
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 7: Yeah?

888
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:42,080
Speaker 2: Saw, so that'd be a deal breaker.

889
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:45,880
Speaker 1: Absolutely. You don't don't even finish talking. That's weird. Yeah, Hisa,

890
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:48,880
Speaker 1: I've still in your room, like not physically, but like

891
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:50,760
Speaker 1: her presence is still everywhere.

892
00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:53,520
Speaker 2: Yeah. And that's one of those things where I can't

893
00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 2: defend that because you see it every day. It's not

894
00:36:56,120 --> 00:36:57,839
Speaker 2: like you've forgot about it.

895
00:36:57,880 --> 00:36:58,040
Speaker 4: Is it?

896
00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:01,480
Speaker 1: Trying to move on, heal and everything. I don't think that, like,

897
00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:03,439
Speaker 1: of course you're gonna have memories with this person. Maybe

898
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:05,960
Speaker 1: you have a picture somewhere with you still together. But

899
00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:08,680
Speaker 1: I think that if it's physically in your bedroom especially

900
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:11,000
Speaker 1: and you're just you can it's just there I don't

901
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:14,080
Speaker 1: think that's gonna help you. No, I don't disagree, especially

902
00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:16,640
Speaker 1: when it comes to dating somebody else. So I would

903
00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:18,919
Speaker 1: not not continue to hang out there.

904
00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:22,920
Speaker 2: Now let's go in Rockville. Megan, good morning, Hey, good morning.

905
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:27,560
Speaker 2: So you met this man on bumble correct, Yes, okay,

906
00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:29,520
Speaker 2: And we talked to him for a couple of weeks.

907
00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 2: Finally went to his place. First time we go there,

908
00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:33,200
Speaker 2: we see what.

909
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:39,200
Speaker 1: A bunch of like cat paraphernalia, like.

910
00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:43,560
Speaker 12: You know, like a litter box and scratching posts and

911
00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:47,600
Speaker 12: like cat bet like all these cat things. Yeah, which

912
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:50,120
Speaker 12: is fine if you have a cat. But he didn't

913
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:51,080
Speaker 12: have a cat.

914
00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 2: Did he have a cat at one point or like

915
00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:54,879
Speaker 2: maybe I could?

916
00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:58,920
Speaker 12: No, No, I was I like saw it was like,

917
00:37:58,960 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 12: oh where's your cat?

918
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:01,800
Speaker 6: He was like, oh yeah, no.

919
00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:02,759
Speaker 1: No I don't. I don't have a cat.

920
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:05,640
Speaker 12: I thought about getting one but but just didn't didn't

921
00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:09,759
Speaker 12: do it. And I was like, oh, okay, recently he's

922
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:12,480
Speaker 12: like no, when he moved into the apartment, which was

923
00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:16,400
Speaker 12: like a year before, he just left all the cat crap.

924
00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:20,400
Speaker 2: Did he act as if you're asking a crazy question,

925
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:24,120
Speaker 2: because to me, it's like what the hell he did?

926
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:26,839
Speaker 1: He like didn't understand why it was odd at all.

927
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:31,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, all right. Was he at least hot enough

928
00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:33,400
Speaker 2: to get away with her? Or no?

929
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:34,560
Speaker 1: No, no, he was there?

930
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:38,160
Speaker 2: All right? Can I put you in hold one second? Yeah? Look,

931
00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:40,440
Speaker 2: I usually try to defend the fellas.

932
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:45,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, dude, was he planning on getting one?

933
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:48,440
Speaker 2: Yeah? He had, I mean that's yeah. He had everything

934
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:51,080
Speaker 2: ready to go and then he just couldn't follow through.

935
00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:52,960
Speaker 2: What are we doing, mab.

936
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:56,600
Speaker 1: He's still I don't know that a shelter if you're

937
00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 1: not gonna eat, Yes.

938
00:38:57,760 --> 00:39:00,759
Speaker 2: Let's go in shan Tilly, Mariah, good morning, Good morning.

939
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:01,719
Speaker 6: How are you doing well?

940
00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:03,840
Speaker 2: Thank you? So you met this guy off a bumble.

941
00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 3: Yes, so I thought we saw each other a couple

942
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 3: of times. And then I went to his house and it.

943
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:14,200
Speaker 4: Was crazy because he had all these.

944
00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:16,640
Speaker 7: Fight beer boxes on the walls.

945
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:20,280
Speaker 2: I got a bunch of them, like, oh, like college

946
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:22,319
Speaker 2: style where you finished the case and then you put

947
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:25,640
Speaker 2: up on the wall for decoration. Yeah, yeah, exactly.

948
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:28,919
Speaker 3: So I was a little worried about that, and then I,

949
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:31,480
Speaker 3: you know, I started asking questions, but I found out

950
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:33,640
Speaker 3: they will holes in the walls.

951
00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:34,040
Speaker 8: Oh.

952
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:35,799
Speaker 1: From one of the boxes was coming to hole.

953
00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:40,359
Speaker 3: Okay, So apparently he can't control his anger and when

954
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:41,720
Speaker 3: he mess up when a game.

955
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:42,840
Speaker 1: He punches the wall.

956
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:46,880
Speaker 2: Oh no, and wait was this? I mean roughly? How

957
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 2: old is this guy?

958
00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:49,560
Speaker 8: Uh?

959
00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:51,799
Speaker 3: Mid to late twenties.

960
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:54,520
Speaker 2: Okay, so old enough to know better on both accounts,

961
00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:57,200
Speaker 2: having the beer stuff and then punch holes in the

962
00:39:57,200 --> 00:39:58,000
Speaker 2: wall for Xbox.

963
00:39:58,800 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 3: Yes, he's not a case.

964
00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:04,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, can I put you in whold one second? Look?

965
00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:07,400
Speaker 2: I'm an avid video game guy myself. Yeah, never in

966
00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:10,040
Speaker 2: my adult life. I also don't think in my childhood

967
00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:12,600
Speaker 2: life have I thrown a controller or punched the wall

968
00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:13,520
Speaker 2: that is?

969
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:14,239
Speaker 1: Yeah?

970
00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:16,680
Speaker 2: And if that's the case, brother, Lie, say there was

971
00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:19,680
Speaker 2: a bug and you had I think that's more acceptable

972
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:21,720
Speaker 2: than yes.

973
00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:24,840
Speaker 1: I don't know. Yes, I think he should. He should

974
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:27,000
Speaker 1: try thera if he If he's listening.

975
00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:28,920
Speaker 2: Yes, let's go in Canton Alison, good morning.

976
00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:30,359
Speaker 10: Hey guys, love the show.

977
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:31,279
Speaker 8: Thanks for having me.

978
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:35,160
Speaker 2: Thank you. So you met this man actually in the wild?

979
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:36,959
Speaker 8: Yeah?

980
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:40,720
Speaker 2: I met him at a bar. Okay, and so we vibe.

981
00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:42,759
Speaker 2: And how many dates do we go on before we

982
00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:44,279
Speaker 2: went back to his place the first time?

983
00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:48,920
Speaker 6: I three?

984
00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:50,960
Speaker 5: I think we went on like three dates okay.

985
00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:53,320
Speaker 2: And so like, yeah, clearly we're vibing.

986
00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:57,359
Speaker 5: Yeah for sure. I mean he was a great guy,

987
00:40:57,640 --> 00:41:00,319
Speaker 5: he was good looking, paid for dinner or yeah.

988
00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:03,240
Speaker 2: Yeah. So you go back to his place and he has.

989
00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:10,279
Speaker 7: What he had photos, like framed photos of his mom.

990
00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:14,839
Speaker 2: All over his bedroom. Okay, is mom still with us?

991
00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:15,560
Speaker 2: Or is mom?

992
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:20,319
Speaker 9: That's kind of like what my question was is.

993
00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:22,440
Speaker 6: I was like, Wow, your mom is like staring at

994
00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:27,440
Speaker 6: us every yell. Yeah, she's very much still with him

995
00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:28,319
Speaker 6: or with us.

996
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:30,520
Speaker 2: And yeah, it.

997
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:32,160
Speaker 1: Was just kind of creep me out.

998
00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:36,320
Speaker 11: Photos from like back in the day, oh until like

999
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:37,760
Speaker 11: like this past Mother's day.

1000
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:40,879
Speaker 2: Like current photos. Okay, yeah, that's that's a tough one

1001
00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:42,279
Speaker 2: to get over.

1002
00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:47,000
Speaker 11: I swear to god, there was probably fifteen photos in

1003
00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:47,439
Speaker 11: the room.

1004
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:47,879
Speaker 1: Yep.

1005
00:41:48,080 --> 00:41:50,480
Speaker 2: All right, Okay, can I put you in hold one second?

1006
00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:52,440
Speaker 7: Yeah?

1007
00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:56,120
Speaker 2: How about in rest in leslie? Good morning, Good morning.

1008
00:41:56,239 --> 00:42:00,240
Speaker 2: So you were kind of living in sin with a coworker.

1009
00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 2: Was this our first time hanging out outside of work

1010
00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:05,280
Speaker 2: or had we hung out a little bit before.

1011
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:08,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, we'd hung out a little bit before.

1012
00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:11,240
Speaker 2: Okay, And so the first time we go to his place,

1013
00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:13,040
Speaker 2: what do we see there?

1014
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:15,879
Speaker 1: I saw more?

1015
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:18,080
Speaker 6: It was like a CBS or something like that. There

1016
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 6: was lotion everywhere.

1017
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:25,120
Speaker 2: All I saw like individual bottles or less like on

1018
00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:26,360
Speaker 2: the walls.

1019
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 6: Oh, no, individual bottles just everywhere, like I don't know

1020
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:33,480
Speaker 6: where he's shopping or I mean, we have a lifetime supply.

1021
00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:37,240
Speaker 2: So how many Like what's the maximum amount of distance

1022
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:38,720
Speaker 2: between bottles? Like how many feet?

1023
00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:42,520
Speaker 5: I mean there wasn't really.

1024
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:44,680
Speaker 6: Much space between It was like a shrine.

1025
00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:46,320
Speaker 2: Did he live by himself?

1026
00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:48,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, by himself?

1027
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 6: And I got to tell you he did not have

1028
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 6: the softest skin.

1029
00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:55,560
Speaker 2: I mean he was kind of a scally Okay, yeah

1030
00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:59,000
Speaker 2: that I mean, it's that's a tough one to have,

1031
00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:02,239
Speaker 2: as dude have everywhere. That's a tough look. Okay, can

1032
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 2: I put you in hold my second? Yeah, I would

1033
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:08,960
Speaker 2: love to hear yours over text nine three three eight.

1034
00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:12,439
Speaker 2: DM's are open as well at Windless Radio. Need check

1035
00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:15,279
Speaker 2: it an intern joun in your morning show. Appreciate you

1036
00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:18,080
Speaker 2: hanging out on this Wednesday, Happy New Year's Eve. It

1037
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:21,480
Speaker 2: is interns Joun in your morning show. I got the

1038
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:25,440
Speaker 2: second biggest second date update coming in minutes. Let me

1039
00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:26,560
Speaker 2: get to this first though.

1040
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:27,080
Speaker 3: Though.

1041
00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:29,279
Speaker 2: This is interesting, especially because I know folks have like

1042
00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:33,759
Speaker 2: resolutions and that kind of stuff, which I don't really do. Yeah,

1043
00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:35,480
Speaker 2: I don't think it's I think it's more performative than

1044
00:43:35,480 --> 00:43:36,960
Speaker 2: anything else. So it works for you.

1045
00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:37,279
Speaker 1: Good.

1046
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:40,319
Speaker 2: But the lies about success you need unlearned before you

1047
00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 2: hit forty. Now we're all children, so we're far away

1048
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:45,440
Speaker 2: from that bad. Fine, we have plenty of time starting

1049
00:43:45,480 --> 00:43:50,839
Speaker 2: with success means constant hustle. Okay, So there's always been

1050
00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:53,560
Speaker 2: that kind of adage that working harder and longer on

1051
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:54,960
Speaker 2: the least success.

1052
00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:55,359
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1053
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:58,360
Speaker 2: Stanford University has study out this year saying that productivity

1054
00:43:58,440 --> 00:43:59,880
Speaker 2: drops after fifty five hours.

1055
00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:02,800
Speaker 1: I mean yeah, because I think they're just on auto pilots.

1056
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:05,719
Speaker 1: Who so you're not even just Yeah, I definitely agree

1057
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:06,000
Speaker 1: with that.

1058
00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:07,719
Speaker 2: Well, I thing you get burned out. Yeah, that's just

1059
00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:09,439
Speaker 2: kind of the And also I think that it goes

1060
00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:11,520
Speaker 2: back to the person who posts so much there hustling

1061
00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:14,320
Speaker 2: online probably isn't doing it that much. Probably do except

1062
00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:17,920
Speaker 2: for us. Yeah know what I'm saying. Successful people always

1063
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:18,720
Speaker 2: feel confident.

1064
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:21,120
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know, because I mean I think that

1065
00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:24,799
Speaker 1: a lot of successful people are also pretty you know, insecure.

1066
00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:28,759
Speaker 2: Not them call myself a huge success. I would say

1067
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:30,600
Speaker 2: my insecurity is the reason why I work so hard,

1068
00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:33,200
Speaker 2: and then it's just yeah, yeah, that's kind of like

1069
00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:37,839
Speaker 2: they say, confidence doesn't always come first action. Does even

1070
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:41,840
Speaker 2: the top executives feel like imposters differences they act anyway?

1071
00:44:42,160 --> 00:44:44,920
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, like fair. The next lie is that

1072
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:46,080
Speaker 2: money equals success.

1073
00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:48,960
Speaker 1: Okay, don't I don't disagree. I don't. I don't agree

1074
00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:49,279
Speaker 1: with that.

1075
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:50,319
Speaker 2: What do you mean?

1076
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:52,040
Speaker 1: Because I mean, like, if you if you want to

1077
00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:54,200
Speaker 1: feel like some financially secure, that's one thing, But I

1078
00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:55,880
Speaker 1: don't think that that should drive your success.

1079
00:44:56,120 --> 00:44:58,439
Speaker 2: Yeah. I think if you can be have a million dollars,

1080
00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:01,320
Speaker 2: but if you hate your job, is that successful?

1081
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:04,200
Speaker 1: I know, yeah, you're not happy with your life. Yeah,

1082
00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:06,400
Speaker 1: because you hear people that just like are driven by

1083
00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 1: money and then they close themselves off so they don't

1084
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:09,880
Speaker 1: have anyone at all in their life anymore.

1085
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so I don't. I don't love that you

1086
00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:15,560
Speaker 2: must follow a linear path. I think this is huge.

1087
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 2: They say, school, job, promotion, marriage, house. This quote ladder

1088
00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:23,279
Speaker 2: of success is outdated. Yeah, I definitely agree with that. Yeah,

1089
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:25,680
Speaker 2: I say people have a career, start businesses in their

1090
00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:28,640
Speaker 2: forties and fifties, take sabbaticals to recharge. I think that

1091
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:31,400
Speaker 2: all makes yes. Yes, The next lies you can have

1092
00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:34,400
Speaker 2: it all at once? Okay, okay, They say. The phrase

1093
00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:37,600
Speaker 2: having it all sounds empowering but sets up in possible expectations.

1094
00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:40,360
Speaker 2: No one can balance a thriving career, pitch, a perfect family,

1095
00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 2: growing health, and spotless home all ones.

1096
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:46,400
Speaker 1: Absolutely, especially because like I think that if you, I

1097
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Speaker 1: actually just.

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Speaker 2: Lost my trade hot well they're saying that almost. They

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Speaker 2: say the key is seasoned. Sometimes your career grows. Sometimes

1100
00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:55,480
Speaker 2: relationships to true balance isn't about equal Thoma's about conscious

1101
00:45:55,480 --> 00:46:00,120
Speaker 2: trade offs. Yes, that makes sense. Saying yes creates more opportunity.

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Speaker 1: Don't do that, John, you need to write that downy.

1103
00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:06,960
Speaker 1: You you it has worked out for you, absolutely, But

1104
00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:10,280
Speaker 1: I think that you also you want to be there,

1105
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:11,680
Speaker 1: very loyal. You want to be there for your friends.

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00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:14,400
Speaker 1: Also sometimes I think they because you show up at

1107
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:17,320
Speaker 1: all the really important moments. But there's also some moments

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00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:19,879
Speaker 1: that I don't think that. I think you just overexpend yourself. No, No,

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00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:23,320
Speaker 1: I definitely. So I'm just saying like, hey, yes.

1110
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 2: So they have this great line every yes cost energy,

1111
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:29,760
Speaker 2: every no protects focus.

1112
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Speaker 1: Oh wow, I like that that down.

1113
00:46:33,120 --> 00:46:35,360
Speaker 2: Break that down too. If cruise ass or meetings, and

1114
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:37,880
Speaker 2: I need to protect my focus. Yeah, sorry, respectfully, I

1115
00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 2: need to protect my phone. Yes, so, thank you so much.

1116
00:46:41,320 --> 00:46:44,680
Speaker 2: They'll do two more, success happens in public. That's a lie.

1117
00:46:44,800 --> 00:46:47,160
Speaker 1: I don't think so. And that's like a bad thing

1118
00:46:47,200 --> 00:46:48,680
Speaker 1: to think because then it's just going to add to

1119
00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:50,760
Speaker 1: you trying to flex on the internet and looking weird.

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Speaker 2: Well, and they say the most transformative success stories often

1121
00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:57,400
Speaker 2: happen quietly private breakthroughs, heal relationships, and trunk confidence. Absolutely,

1122
00:46:57,760 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 2: visibility is not validation, especially because you're doing it for yourself,

1123
00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:03,560
Speaker 2: not for that, which is kind of goes back to

1124
00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:06,359
Speaker 2: like the New Or's resolutions, like if you're doing it

1125
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:09,360
Speaker 2: just to publicly make yourself a good person, it's not

1126
00:47:09,400 --> 00:47:09,920
Speaker 2: really worth.

1127
00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:11,200
Speaker 1: It first exactly. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: The last one is success is a destination. They say

1129
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:16,680
Speaker 2: that's one of the biggest lies. They say, it's not

1130
00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:19,160
Speaker 2: a place he or eye at, it's a state you cultivate.

1131
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:21,719
Speaker 1: Oh so you're just like basically a nullipilight the whole way.

1132
00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:22,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, kind of.

1133
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:25,760
Speaker 9: Yes, I've ever heard anybody say success is a destiny.

1134
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:26,640
Speaker 1: I don't think so either.

1135
00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:28,560
Speaker 2: Well, I think it's like the idea of like if

1136
00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:30,360
Speaker 2: you aren't happy to be convince yous of if I

1137
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:34,440
Speaker 2: just get this task done, everything's going to be okay. Yeah,

1138
00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:36,080
Speaker 2: like that kind of vibe and then you get then

1139
00:47:36,080 --> 00:47:38,359
Speaker 2: you get to that task and that that happiness. Doesn't

1140
00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:40,040
Speaker 2: just try to like the light switch and just say, oh, okay,

1141
00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:41,640
Speaker 2: I guess I didn't do that.

1142
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:43,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it. I just think that you just

1143
00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:44,520
Speaker 1: need to enjoy the ride.

1144
00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:46,960
Speaker 2: Sure in the moment, if you want to add some

1145
00:47:47,040 --> 00:47:49,920
Speaker 2: nine ninety three three eight text got the biggest second

1146
00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:52,319
Speaker 2: date update in minutes on an intern Johnny Morning Show

1147
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:55,600
Speaker 2: on intern john in Your Morning Show. Dating in twenty

1148
00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:58,440
Speaker 2: twenty five isn't a word poopy. It's just whether you

1149
00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:01,080
Speaker 2: meet somebody in person where you online. It's just a

1150
00:48:01,120 --> 00:48:03,439
Speaker 2: lot of not good. So that's why when you think

1151
00:48:03,520 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 2: something is going well and you think there's a vibe

1152
00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:08,200
Speaker 2: and they stopped talking to you, we try to see

1153
00:48:08,239 --> 00:48:13,520
Speaker 2: exactly what's going on. Marco, good morning, Good morning. So

1154
00:48:13,719 --> 00:48:16,520
Speaker 2: let's kind of walk through this. You and Felicia first

1155
00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:20,560
Speaker 2: met or became aware of each other. How we metched

1156
00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 2: on hinge? Actually? Okay? And what about Felicia made her

1157
00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:25,839
Speaker 2: stand out on the dating apps?

1158
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:30,640
Speaker 13: I mean she was just like I mean obviously really pretty,

1159
00:48:30,680 --> 00:48:34,400
Speaker 13: but also you know, super funny and warm, and you know,

1160
00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:36,160
Speaker 13: we just hit it off, like right from the bet,

1161
00:48:36,239 --> 00:48:39,360
Speaker 13: even even before we met, just over texting.

1162
00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 2: Gotcha. And it's one thing I wanted to clarify real quick,

1163
00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:45,879
Speaker 2: just reading your email, you had said that you had

1164
00:48:45,920 --> 00:48:49,200
Speaker 2: plans fall through. So your first date, you guys went

1165
00:48:49,239 --> 00:48:50,920
Speaker 2: to the Caps game last Wednesday?

1166
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:55,560
Speaker 13: Correct, Yeah, I mean a buddy about tickets, but he

1167
00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:57,600
Speaker 13: ended up having a work thing and.

1168
00:48:57,560 --> 00:48:58,319
Speaker 2: He couldn't make it.

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00:48:58,760 --> 00:49:02,359
Speaker 13: Okay, And actually, yeah, exactly, so it actually worked out.

1170
00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:03,160
Speaker 2: I had a spare.

1171
00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:08,640
Speaker 13: Ticket and yeah you know I mean yeah Clay Hockey.

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00:49:08,719 --> 00:49:12,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, real quick, the question, did you explain to

1173
00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:14,239
Speaker 2: her that you and a buddy had bought tickets? Because

1174
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:16,440
Speaker 2: I would be worried if it was like you hit

1175
00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:17,920
Speaker 2: her up on Wednesday, Hey, do you want to go

1176
00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:19,640
Speaker 2: to the game that you had another girl and that

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00:49:19,680 --> 00:49:20,839
Speaker 2: fell through? Do you know what I mean?

1178
00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:23,279
Speaker 4: No, No, she knew.

1179
00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:25,320
Speaker 2: I explained the situation to her and she was totally

1180
00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 2: cool with it. Okay, So our first time senior persons

1181
00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:32,320
Speaker 2: at the CAFs game. How did things go? It was

1182
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:35,560
Speaker 2: really great. You know, we met up for drinks beforehand.

1183
00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:40,280
Speaker 2: That was fun. When did the game? Got some food?

1184
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:45,319
Speaker 13: Super overpriced by the way, Yeah, yeah it is. But

1185
00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:48,040
Speaker 13: the whole I mean, the whole day was really really fun.

1186
00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:51,759
Speaker 13: And I mean, you know then after that, you know,

1187
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:54,080
Speaker 13: we went to dinner on Friday night, Nice.

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00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:59,440
Speaker 2: Sue twice and for eight hours. Yeah, yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 13: So you know, from my perspective, things seemed to be

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Speaker 13: going really well. We made plans to see each other

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Speaker 13: again this week. But uh, you know, since we since

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Speaker 13: we went out, I haven't heard from her, okay since

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Speaker 13: that Friday.

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00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:16,799
Speaker 2: So and so I'm me cut you off. But so

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00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:22,000
Speaker 2: dinner on Friday, you picked her up, correct, that's right, open,

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Speaker 2: you opened all doors, you pay for dinner.

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Speaker 8: I did, Yes.

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Speaker 2: After dinner we dropped drop of her place, kissing the cheek.

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Speaker 13: A little bit more than that, we actually kissed. We

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Speaker 13: actually kissed after the hockey game and then kissed again

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Speaker 13: after dinner.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So it was it's everything is certainly trending to

1203
00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:42,640
Speaker 2: we're going to romance town.

1204
00:50:45,360 --> 00:50:47,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, you know I thought so.

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Speaker 13: I was, you know, I was pretty stoked and I

1206
00:50:49,440 --> 00:50:50,640
Speaker 13: thought things were going really well.

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Speaker 2: And you've not heard from her since last Friday. Correct, Yeah,

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00:50:55,200 --> 00:50:56,640
Speaker 2: you know, after I dropped her off.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, she hasn't replied to my text and you know,

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00:51:00,520 --> 00:51:01,880
Speaker 13: I called her one time, but I'm not trying to

1211
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:02,719
Speaker 13: blow up her phone right now.

1212
00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:04,920
Speaker 2: I got so let's do this. Let's call her and

1213
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:07,799
Speaker 2: try and get her on because I'm curious to and yeah,

1214
00:51:08,080 --> 00:51:22,279
Speaker 2: first date to a capskin playoff hockey is that's fantastic day. Hello, Hi,

1215
00:51:22,440 --> 00:51:27,839
Speaker 2: calling for Felicia. Please girl, it's intern John. I got

1216
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:29,880
Speaker 2: Sauce and Rose here as well. Can I talk to

1217
00:51:29,920 --> 00:51:32,840
Speaker 2: you on the show real quick about something? It's something bad.

1218
00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:39,080
Speaker 2: I've seen like two minutes of your time. Okay, I

1219
00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:41,360
Speaker 2: don't worry. We're doing a second date down date. I

1220
00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:43,239
Speaker 2: have somebody on the other line, Marco. If you want

1221
00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:52,359
Speaker 2: to say hello, Marco, say hello. Nailed that and so

1222
00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:54,920
Speaker 2: here we are, Felicia. Marco reached out to us. He

1223
00:51:54,960 --> 00:51:57,680
Speaker 2: had told us you guys matched on Hinge went to

1224
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Speaker 2: a Caps game last Wednesday, wait to dinner last Friday,

1225
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:03,680
Speaker 2: had a little smooch at the end of the night

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00:52:04,040 --> 00:52:05,760
Speaker 2: in that I was supposed to hang out this week.

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00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:07,560
Speaker 2: He is not her from you, So we're trying to

1228
00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:09,759
Speaker 2: see your side of the story. And see where you're at.

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Speaker 11: Okay, Well, yes, we did go to the game and

1230
00:52:17,920 --> 00:52:22,160
Speaker 11: dinner and everything was fun. We I thought we had clicked,

1231
00:52:24,320 --> 00:52:27,080
Speaker 11: but I was just really turned off by the fact

1232
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Speaker 11: that it didn't seem like he was very serious. How So,

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00:52:33,560 --> 00:52:37,080
Speaker 11: So Saturday, I'm actually hanging out with my roommate and

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00:52:37,080 --> 00:52:39,280
Speaker 11: and she had told me she had matched with Marco

1235
00:52:40,080 --> 00:52:42,239
Speaker 11: and they were making.

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Speaker 2: On hinge uh huh uh huh. Also meet up interesting okay,

1237
00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:55,640
Speaker 2: and so I imagine Marco is not the most common

1238
00:52:55,680 --> 00:53:00,640
Speaker 2: of names. Okay, so are both let me ask you this.

1239
00:53:00,680 --> 00:53:03,360
Speaker 11: Well, she told me she had matched with a Marco

1240
00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:05,600
Speaker 11: and I said, that's so funny because I've been going

1241
00:53:05,640 --> 00:53:07,120
Speaker 11: on dates for a guy named Marco.

1242
00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:09,200
Speaker 1: Okay, and she showed me his profile.

1243
00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:12,960
Speaker 2: I knew it was the same Marco. Okay, So sleepy question, Fleisha,

1244
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 2: Are you still on dating apps? No?

1245
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:18,960
Speaker 11: Because I thought the date went well, so I wasn't

1246
00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:20,520
Speaker 11: actively using my dating apps.

1247
00:53:20,719 --> 00:53:25,319
Speaker 2: Okay, Marco, your thoughts.

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Speaker 13: I mean we'd only been on a couple of dates

1249
00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:30,120
Speaker 13: and I didn't even know what was your roommate.

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00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:33,600
Speaker 2: So yeah, I mean, the odds are it is one

1251
00:53:33,600 --> 00:53:35,000
Speaker 2: of those things, like one of the odds, but tip

1252
00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:36,919
Speaker 2: to be fair though, Okay, I'm gonna put you guys,

1253
00:53:37,000 --> 00:53:39,080
Speaker 2: because I got a bunch of thoughts on these Are

1254
00:53:39,120 --> 00:53:42,160
Speaker 2: you team Marco or team Felicia? Eight seven seven nine

1255
00:53:42,520 --> 00:53:46,759
Speaker 2: four six state one to call, text second date up

1256
00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:51,240
Speaker 2: States and I turned John second date update on intern

1257
00:53:51,360 --> 00:53:55,360
Speaker 2: John and Your Morning Show. We talked to Marco and Felicia.

1258
00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:57,960
Speaker 2: They matched on hinge a few weeks ago, went to

1259
00:53:58,000 --> 00:54:01,640
Speaker 2: a Caps game last Wednesday, went to a dinner on Friday.

1260
00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:04,399
Speaker 2: He thought things were going well. I guess she wasn't

1261
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:07,200
Speaker 2: thrilled that he also matched with her roommate. It seems

1262
00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:09,960
Speaker 2: like after they matched and was talking to the roommate

1263
00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:12,920
Speaker 2: as well. Whose side do you on? Eight seven seven

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00:54:13,000 --> 00:54:15,000
Speaker 2: nine ninety five four six s eight one to call,

1265
00:54:15,320 --> 00:54:17,279
Speaker 2: nine ninety three three eight to text. Let me ask

1266
00:54:17,320 --> 00:54:19,640
Speaker 2: you this sauce you are in the dating field if

1267
00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:22,000
Speaker 2: you had the apps? Would you be upset if you

1268
00:54:22,040 --> 00:54:23,600
Speaker 2: went out with a guy on a Friday and you

1269
00:54:23,680 --> 00:54:26,720
Speaker 2: found out that Saturday he was messaging one of your friends.

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00:54:26,920 --> 00:54:28,839
Speaker 1: I would not, just because of the dating pool here,

1271
00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:31,440
Speaker 1: especially so small, but also it's dating and it was

1272
00:54:31,480 --> 00:54:34,000
Speaker 1: only two dates and we're not exclusive and that's what

1273
00:54:34,080 --> 00:54:37,080
Speaker 1: you have the app for. And my therapist, I mean

1274
00:54:37,120 --> 00:54:39,400
Speaker 1: she she is her PhD. She says you should not

1275
00:54:39,440 --> 00:54:41,960
Speaker 1: be just focusing on one person anyway when you started dating,

1276
00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:44,560
Speaker 1: because then you tend to get an attachment to them

1277
00:54:44,600 --> 00:54:45,880
Speaker 1: that you that might not be healthy.

1278
00:54:46,760 --> 00:54:48,919
Speaker 2: Almost like you like, I'm this is the only person

1279
00:54:48,960 --> 00:54:51,040
Speaker 2: I'm talking to you. I'm so invested. I'm gonna make

1280
00:54:51,080 --> 00:54:51,600
Speaker 2: it work.

1281
00:54:51,520 --> 00:54:54,240
Speaker 1: Especially if like you're newly like gett a dating and everything.

1282
00:54:54,400 --> 00:54:55,920
Speaker 1: You might not really know what you like, so you

1283
00:54:56,000 --> 00:54:58,400
Speaker 1: might just end up fixating on somebody that might not

1284
00:54:58,520 --> 00:55:00,839
Speaker 1: just be for you. And that's okay. So I've always

1285
00:55:00,840 --> 00:55:03,040
Speaker 1: said with dating, like you you can casually date. It's

1286
00:55:03,080 --> 00:55:05,200
Speaker 1: not like I don't mean like hooking up with people.

1287
00:55:05,320 --> 00:55:07,840
Speaker 1: I mean like casually diggating multiple people get to know

1288
00:55:07,840 --> 00:55:08,239
Speaker 1: what you like.

1289
00:55:08,360 --> 00:55:09,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's fair.

1290
00:55:09,120 --> 00:55:11,600
Speaker 1: So it's only two dates. Yes, they kissed, but I

1291
00:55:11,640 --> 00:55:14,560
Speaker 1: wouldn't go home and delete my dating apps after two

1292
00:55:14,640 --> 00:55:17,080
Speaker 1: dates if I like, they hadn't even had a conversation

1293
00:55:17,120 --> 00:55:18,279
Speaker 1: about how they felt about each other.

1294
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:21,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you know, with with hinge and stuff,

1295
00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:25,440
Speaker 2: you can get somewhat specific. But also it's not like

1296
00:55:25,600 --> 00:55:28,320
Speaker 2: there's a good chance you and your roommate have similar interests.

1297
00:55:28,360 --> 00:55:28,920
Speaker 2: I assume.

1298
00:55:28,960 --> 00:55:31,640
Speaker 1: So I've said tons of people that my friends have

1299
00:55:31,800 --> 00:55:34,160
Speaker 1: matched with. It says, the dating pool here is very small.

1300
00:55:34,160 --> 00:55:36,680
Speaker 1: I don't think people realize how small it is. It's

1301
00:55:36,719 --> 00:55:38,839
Speaker 1: also just like they didn't have a conversation. You don't

1302
00:55:38,840 --> 00:55:40,520
Speaker 1: really know each other that well after two dates. Why

1303
00:55:40,560 --> 00:55:42,120
Speaker 1: would I go back and delete that.

1304
00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:45,240
Speaker 2: I think that's fair. Yeah, let me go on. Ashbourn's Julie, good.

1305
00:55:45,080 --> 00:55:52,520
Speaker 1: Morning, Good morning girl, Felicia. Wow, I need to calm down.

1306
00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:56,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean in the in the nineties, in

1307
00:55:56,840 --> 00:56:02,319
Speaker 3: my heyday when I was thin and look really good.

1308
00:56:03,480 --> 00:56:05,319
Speaker 2: We're just talking about this the other day, Like god,

1309
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Speaker 2: Julie looks so good. Definitely the most beautiful Julian Ashbourn.

1310
00:56:08,320 --> 00:56:09,680
Speaker 2: The we know we're just talking about this.

1311
00:56:11,320 --> 00:56:12,960
Speaker 1: Thank you, no, thank you?

1312
00:56:13,239 --> 00:56:16,279
Speaker 5: Yeah, absolutely, But yeah, three or four guys on the go,

1313
00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:18,560
Speaker 5: and I didn't tell them about each other.

1314
00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:21,080
Speaker 3: It wasn't any of their business until you get serious

1315
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:22,359
Speaker 3: and have that conversation.

1316
00:56:23,360 --> 00:56:25,320
Speaker 4: She needs to just calm down.

1317
00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:27,800
Speaker 1: And I think he dodged a bullet.

1318
00:56:28,200 --> 00:56:31,040
Speaker 2: Sure, yeah, I don't. Just Julie, thank you for listening.

1319
00:56:31,080 --> 00:56:34,319
Speaker 2: To have a great day. Thanks by. If we're just

1320
00:56:34,320 --> 00:56:36,319
Speaker 2: talking to Ashbourne weekly they called us like, who's the

1321
00:56:36,320 --> 00:56:39,200
Speaker 2: best looking person asburn like Julie and they're like, oh,

1322
00:56:39,280 --> 00:56:40,680
Speaker 2: I mean yeah, we knew that. You want to make

1323
00:56:40,719 --> 00:56:42,840
Speaker 2: sure rose your thoughts with second day update.

1324
00:56:43,120 --> 00:56:46,080
Speaker 9: I think if he intentionally sought out the roommate or

1325
00:56:46,120 --> 00:56:47,000
Speaker 9: the friend.

1326
00:56:46,960 --> 00:56:49,440
Speaker 14: Or if he had met the roommate her friend and

1327
00:56:49,480 --> 00:56:52,080
Speaker 14: then that's with them, that would be a more glaring

1328
00:56:52,160 --> 00:56:56,240
Speaker 14: red flag than just randomly kind of a coincidence matching

1329
00:56:56,360 --> 00:56:57,160
Speaker 14: with your roommate.

1330
00:56:57,320 --> 00:57:00,759
Speaker 9: Yeah, it's only two dates in Yeah, yeah, I mean

1331
00:57:01,160 --> 00:57:04,600
Speaker 9: I think maybe because it was so close to home,

1332
00:57:04,640 --> 00:57:06,880
Speaker 9: it was more like like how could you do this

1333
00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:07,480
Speaker 9: to me?

1334
00:57:08,400 --> 00:57:10,719
Speaker 1: But I don't think that was intentional now.

1335
00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:12,879
Speaker 2: I think to that point too, it'd be different if

1336
00:57:12,960 --> 00:57:15,120
Speaker 2: like he matched with you and asked for the information

1337
00:57:15,160 --> 00:57:17,600
Speaker 2: of your hot friend in the photo I found your

1338
00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:18,920
Speaker 2: friend Instagram and then we.

1339
00:57:19,000 --> 00:57:22,160
Speaker 9: Picked her up at her apartment or whatever, saw the

1340
00:57:22,240 --> 00:57:24,920
Speaker 9: roommate and then saw the roommate on the dating and

1341
00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:27,080
Speaker 9: was like, ooh, let me swipe on her because I

1342
00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:27,880
Speaker 9: thought she was hot too.

1343
00:57:27,960 --> 00:57:30,120
Speaker 2: That would be a red flag, no doubt. Let me

1344
00:57:30,160 --> 00:57:32,560
Speaker 2: go in the dirty Bernie Tiffany good morning.

1345
00:57:33,560 --> 00:57:34,400
Speaker 8: Bye, good morning.

1346
00:57:34,520 --> 00:57:36,000
Speaker 2: What do you want to say that with a second

1347
00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:36,720
Speaker 2: day up date? Girl?

1348
00:57:38,280 --> 00:57:42,680
Speaker 8: So I think that Felicia should have asked him about

1349
00:57:42,720 --> 00:57:47,520
Speaker 8: it when she, you know, the roommate had told her

1350
00:57:47,680 --> 00:57:50,120
Speaker 8: that she had dated a Marco It went out on

1351
00:57:50,160 --> 00:57:53,240
Speaker 8: a couple of dates, and maybe she should have gave

1352
00:57:53,360 --> 00:57:57,880
Speaker 8: him like a chance to explain himself with that situation.

1353
00:57:58,800 --> 00:58:03,280
Speaker 8: But also he shouldn't have been on dating apps if

1354
00:58:03,320 --> 00:58:04,360
Speaker 8: he was trying to be.

1355
00:58:04,680 --> 00:58:06,200
Speaker 1: Exclusive with Felicia.

1356
00:58:06,760 --> 00:58:08,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I may I should have asked him

1357
00:58:08,360 --> 00:58:10,520
Speaker 2: to you like, where he how far along Heath saw

1358
00:58:10,920 --> 00:58:13,120
Speaker 2: the process too. I think that's probably a fair point.

1359
00:58:13,160 --> 00:58:16,000
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's I agree with that one hundred percent.

1360
00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:19,120
Speaker 2: Tiffany, thank you for listening. Have a great day.

1361
00:58:19,400 --> 00:58:20,160
Speaker 8: Thank you too.

1362
00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:24,800
Speaker 2: By Yeah, dating is it's horrendous. It's just it's not

1363
00:58:24,920 --> 00:58:28,720
Speaker 2: a fun fun thing. I can't say this on the air,

1364
00:58:29,520 --> 00:58:33,160
Speaker 2: no hold on, No, so I did. I did, like

1365
00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:35,640
Speaker 2: and ask me anything thing. You guys will laugh at

1366
00:58:35,680 --> 00:58:39,479
Speaker 2: this because somebody asks if I hold on, how many

1367
00:58:39,480 --> 00:58:42,040
Speaker 2: of these I do? And I was like, that's never

1368
00:58:42,120 --> 00:58:44,680
Speaker 2: my life happened. But because they heard I just texted

1369
00:58:44,720 --> 00:58:46,720
Speaker 2: you to they heard somebody say that I was like,

1370
00:58:46,760 --> 00:58:49,200
Speaker 2: I don't know who's saying that. They've never met me?

1371
00:58:49,840 --> 00:58:55,680
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, like that would ever have and like if

1372
00:58:55,680 --> 00:58:57,520
Speaker 2: you do whatever, I don't have the poise for that.

1373
00:58:57,680 --> 00:58:58,760
Speaker 2: I don't have the confidence.

1374
00:58:59,040 --> 00:59:03,760
Speaker 15: Like when my friend told me not just that, I

1375
00:59:03,800 --> 00:59:07,720
Speaker 15: don't think you would know that that the other people

1376
00:59:07,800 --> 00:59:10,720
Speaker 15: would be interested in that idea, even if they told

1377
00:59:10,760 --> 00:59:11,640
Speaker 15: you blank.

1378
00:59:12,200 --> 00:59:14,200
Speaker 2: What do you mean I think there's only one of men?

1379
00:59:14,400 --> 00:59:17,240
Speaker 2: How's that gonna work? Yeah? I was like, that's not

1380
00:59:17,720 --> 00:59:22,200
Speaker 2: that's not true. But that's also like dating, because like

1381
00:59:22,680 --> 00:59:24,320
Speaker 2: I don't know. I was like, this is why dating sucks.

1382
00:59:24,360 --> 00:59:26,120
Speaker 2: That's not if you were.

1383
00:59:26,880 --> 00:59:28,080
Speaker 1: I could hear all day talking.

1384
00:59:28,160 --> 00:59:31,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's what it is. Anyway, if you want to

1385
00:59:31,040 --> 00:59:32,959
Speaker 2: do a second date out date d ms were open

1386
00:59:33,120 --> 00:59:36,960
Speaker 2: at y MS Radio. It's Internshohn in your morning show.

1387
00:59:37,600 --> 00:59:39,520
Speaker 2: I thought this was funny too, this is trending. The

1388
00:59:39,680 --> 00:59:42,240
Speaker 2: celebrities and nobody hates. I want to go through and

1389
00:59:42,240 --> 00:59:44,240
Speaker 2: see if we agree. I mean, they're all pretty far.

1390
00:59:44,520 --> 00:59:46,720
Speaker 2: Like Hosier made the list.

1391
00:59:46,960 --> 00:59:49,919
Speaker 1: I think, yeah, that giant King, Yeah, he's just doing

1392
00:59:49,920 --> 00:59:50,680
Speaker 1: his thing.

1393
00:59:50,720 --> 00:59:53,040
Speaker 2: Macaulay Culkin, Yeah, I think that's cool.

1394
00:59:53,160 --> 00:59:55,000
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, we still think I was a kid,

1395
00:59:55,000 --> 00:59:56,520
Speaker 1: but then you see him with like Brenda song, You're

1396
00:59:56,560 --> 00:59:57,240
Speaker 1: like I love you.

1397
00:59:57,360 --> 00:59:59,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think the Morning talks as an adult, like,

1398
00:59:59,880 --> 01:00:02,400
Speaker 2: I that's funny. He was at a wrestling event months

1399
01:00:02,400 --> 01:00:03,840
Speaker 2: ago and they showed him on the screen and like

1400
01:00:03,880 --> 01:00:06,760
Speaker 2: the arena went crazy. I'm like, that man deserves a

1401
01:00:06,840 --> 01:00:07,400
Speaker 2: standio ation.

1402
01:00:07,560 --> 01:00:09,560
Speaker 1: He just seems like a lovely person. And the way

1403
01:00:09,600 --> 01:00:11,360
Speaker 1: he talks about I know, I keeps saying Brenda song.

1404
01:00:13,080 --> 01:00:16,240
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, they're an amazing look couple. Steve Irwin made

1405
01:00:16,240 --> 01:00:21,400
Speaker 2: the list. Absolutely okay. Mark Hamill played Luke Skywalker. Oh yeah,

1406
01:00:21,440 --> 01:00:23,840
Speaker 2: he's getting a little bit grumpy old man in his lady.

1407
01:00:23,840 --> 01:00:25,120
Speaker 2: I feel like he's kind of always been like a

1408
01:00:25,120 --> 01:00:28,000
Speaker 2: little browdy. Yeah. John bon Jovi made the list.

1409
01:00:28,040 --> 01:00:28,600
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, same.

1410
01:00:28,800 --> 01:00:30,680
Speaker 2: Remember he's saying that woman like a couple of years ago,

1411
01:00:30,680 --> 01:00:32,640
Speaker 2: who was about to jump off a bridge and Randley

1412
01:00:32,680 --> 01:00:34,600
Speaker 2: bon Jovi walks up. He's like, hey, don't.

1413
01:00:34,400 --> 01:00:36,080
Speaker 1: Don't do this. Also, he's a granddad.

1414
01:00:36,160 --> 01:00:38,120
Speaker 2: Now it's true, it's true.

1415
01:00:38,120 --> 01:00:38,640
Speaker 1: I love him.

1416
01:00:39,160 --> 01:00:42,000
Speaker 2: Willie Nelson made the list. I mean yeah, will I

1417
01:00:43,320 --> 01:00:46,240
Speaker 2: Tom Hanks, sure, I've heard a lot of people don't

1418
01:00:46,280 --> 01:00:48,880
Speaker 2: like him. Really, yeah, I think Tom Hanks is the

1419
01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:50,600
Speaker 2: first person that may just take COVID seriously.

1420
01:00:50,800 --> 01:00:52,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. That's a good point.

1421
01:00:52,720 --> 01:00:54,760
Speaker 2: Tom Hanks, Like, whoa this.

1422
01:00:54,720 --> 01:00:56,880
Speaker 1: Is for some reason, I think Tom Hanks. I think

1423
01:00:56,920 --> 01:00:59,160
Speaker 1: castaway Tom Hanks forever, Like that's my.

1424
01:00:59,240 --> 01:01:02,200
Speaker 2: First thought of him and Wilson's story. For sure.

1425
01:01:02,360 --> 01:01:04,760
Speaker 1: No, it's just I'm like, I think I'm yelling Wilson,

1426
01:01:04,840 --> 01:01:07,280
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I just I feel connected to you.

1427
01:01:07,960 --> 01:01:13,000
Speaker 2: Bob Ross made the list, Dug absolutely absolutely. Harrison Ford

1428
01:01:13,160 --> 01:01:16,560
Speaker 2: made Yeah, he's gotten salt here in a funny way.

1429
01:01:16,600 --> 01:01:19,440
Speaker 1: But he's hilarious. I want him in my grandpa.

1430
01:01:19,560 --> 01:01:21,160
Speaker 2: There's an interview with him. Somebody asked Hi about the

1431
01:01:21,160 --> 01:01:22,440
Speaker 2: new Star Wars movie. He's like, did you do it

1432
01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:24,040
Speaker 2: because you missed the franchise? He goes, no, it was

1433
01:01:24,080 --> 01:01:28,040
Speaker 2: the money. Yeah that's amazing. And it's the other guy

1434
01:01:28,080 --> 01:01:30,439
Speaker 2: to interviews like I have our frame photo and he goes, oh, yeah,

1435
01:01:30,440 --> 01:01:32,320
Speaker 2: so do I it's in my room and he stares

1436
01:01:32,360 --> 01:01:35,720
Speaker 2: at the guys. So good. So Angela Bassett made the list,

1437
01:01:35,880 --> 01:01:37,120
Speaker 2: legend for sure.

1438
01:01:36,840 --> 01:01:37,040
Speaker 1: Sure.

1439
01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:38,600
Speaker 2: Yella Davis made the list.

1440
01:01:38,800 --> 01:01:43,120
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, Yola Davis. Paul Rudd, Oh yeah, that's too.

1441
01:01:43,440 --> 01:01:44,960
Speaker 2: They don't had this on you, but I'd say Ed

1442
01:01:45,040 --> 01:01:46,400
Speaker 2: Sheeron probably should be on that list.

1443
01:01:46,560 --> 01:01:48,000
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, definitely if you don't like.

1444
01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:49,520
Speaker 2: Ed Sheeron, and that says way more about you than

1445
01:01:49,520 --> 01:01:50,040
Speaker 2: anybody else.

1446
01:01:50,080 --> 01:01:52,000
Speaker 1: I don't disagree. I love that Sharon.

1447
01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:54,200
Speaker 2: Number one celebrity of any Guess who it is Sauce.

1448
01:01:54,640 --> 01:01:56,480
Speaker 1: For some reason, I keep thinking Ma stone By, No,

1449
01:01:56,480 --> 01:01:57,680
Speaker 1: it's on Emma Stone.

1450
01:01:57,440 --> 01:02:00,200
Speaker 2: Oh, she should be on that list too, though. The

1451
01:02:00,240 --> 01:02:02,800
Speaker 2: Signs guy, I would say built, Yeah, both those are good.

1452
01:02:02,920 --> 01:02:04,280
Speaker 2: Yeah for sure. Rosey had a.

1453
01:02:04,280 --> 01:02:07,720
Speaker 1: Guest Jennifer Lawrence no one, Yeah, good one.

1454
01:02:07,840 --> 01:02:09,920
Speaker 2: I would add in the same Louill band Jack Harlowe

1455
01:02:09,920 --> 01:02:11,640
Speaker 2: probably like everybody kind of like, yeah.

1456
01:02:11,440 --> 01:02:16,320
Speaker 1: He just seas in his own lane, little boy, I

1457
01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:17,000
Speaker 1: think that's fair.

1458
01:02:18,320 --> 01:02:22,160
Speaker 2: Number one goes to the legend the Goat, mister Rogers.

1459
01:02:23,760 --> 01:02:25,560
Speaker 1: I remember we saw the movie.

1460
01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:29,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll say this, it's harder to think of anybody

1461
01:02:29,080 --> 01:02:33,480
Speaker 2: above Miss Rodgers. Like, okay, that's pretty Solis Present Company excluded,

1462
01:02:33,520 --> 01:02:33,880
Speaker 2: of course.

1463
01:02:34,320 --> 01:02:37,920
Speaker 1: About the Mike guy, that the boss, the dirty jobs

1464
01:02:37,920 --> 01:02:42,320
Speaker 1: guy Micro Micro Yeah yeah, I like, yeah, he's a

1465
01:02:42,360 --> 01:02:44,360
Speaker 1: Baltimore but boy, I feel like he should be on there. Stack.

1466
01:02:44,560 --> 01:02:49,720
Speaker 2: I don't disagree, so Intern Johnny Marshaw, can it be

1467
01:02:49,720 --> 01:02:53,880
Speaker 2: an amazing night out? Five seconds of summer CFG Bank Arena.

1468
01:02:53,920 --> 01:02:56,640
Speaker 2: We want to get you in collar nine eight seven

1469
01:02:56,760 --> 01:03:01,680
Speaker 2: seven nine four six eight one. Good luck John's Game

1470
01:03:01,720 --> 01:03:04,920
Speaker 2: of the Day. Next thing, Let's do it John's Game

1471
01:03:05,160 --> 01:03:07,480
Speaker 2: of the Day. You'd like to have fun, have some

1472
01:03:07,560 --> 01:03:10,120
Speaker 2: hajas and some he hees. This is the time for you.

1473
01:03:10,240 --> 01:03:16,280
Speaker 2: Rest of the show, no serious, no fun. Solborate news

1474
01:03:16,320 --> 01:03:19,480
Speaker 2: and weather on the tens, but this time funzies. You

1475
01:03:19,480 --> 01:03:21,760
Speaker 2: want to play nine ninety three three eight attacks DM's

1476
01:03:21,760 --> 01:03:23,920
Speaker 2: open at WYMUS Radio. We're gonna do the eight bit

1477
01:03:24,000 --> 01:03:26,480
Speaker 2: game where I play you a song, a popular song,

1478
01:03:26,840 --> 01:03:28,680
Speaker 2: and it comes out in the style of a Nintendo

1479
01:03:28,960 --> 01:03:31,200
Speaker 2: song if you like the old school game Boy edition.

1480
01:03:31,520 --> 01:03:34,360
Speaker 2: While we're getting you in, hold Sauce versus Rose first Sauce,

1481
01:03:34,400 --> 01:03:36,440
Speaker 2: you were up, I will play it, let it simmer,

1482
01:03:36,480 --> 01:03:38,720
Speaker 2: and then I'll ask you to name that song. Are

1483
01:03:38,760 --> 01:04:06,360
Speaker 2: you ready? Yes, here we go. It is a classic. Yeah,

1484
01:04:06,360 --> 01:04:08,400
Speaker 2: I would say that version still holds up.

1485
01:04:08,480 --> 01:04:10,040
Speaker 1: But that was a little confusing. I was like, I

1486
01:04:10,120 --> 01:04:13,760
Speaker 1: don't think this is current. Is it last? Christmas?

1487
01:04:14,960 --> 01:04:18,280
Speaker 2: Yaas that's one of those songs where you don't realize

1488
01:04:18,320 --> 01:04:19,840
Speaker 2: how old it is. Yeah, this song is probably thirty

1489
01:04:19,880 --> 01:04:22,760
Speaker 2: years old, but it's still like timeless. We'll still be

1490
01:04:22,800 --> 01:04:23,640
Speaker 2: playing it in thirty years.

1491
01:04:23,640 --> 01:04:27,040
Speaker 1: I've read Christmas, so I'm like, soho, who is this?

1492
01:04:27,400 --> 01:04:27,440
Speaker 8: Like?

1493
01:04:27,560 --> 01:04:28,480
Speaker 1: What else did William do?

1494
01:04:29,280 --> 01:04:29,400
Speaker 3: Uh?

1495
01:04:29,600 --> 01:04:30,120
Speaker 2: Jitterbug?

1496
01:04:30,320 --> 01:04:30,760
Speaker 4: No? Yeah?

1497
01:04:30,800 --> 01:04:32,240
Speaker 2: They jitterbug? Yeah?

1498
01:04:32,960 --> 01:04:33,160
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1499
01:04:34,040 --> 01:04:34,760
Speaker 2: Rose you're up?

1500
01:04:34,800 --> 01:04:35,240
Speaker 11: Here we go?

1501
01:04:35,440 --> 01:04:40,880
Speaker 2: Here's your song? When it's similar a little bit here?

1502
01:05:04,320 --> 01:05:07,600
Speaker 1: Have no idea the song, but I cannot think of

1503
01:05:07,640 --> 01:05:08,200
Speaker 1: the name of it.

1504
01:05:08,360 --> 01:05:09,440
Speaker 2: Can you think of the artists?

1505
01:05:09,560 --> 01:05:09,600
Speaker 8: No?

1506
01:05:10,240 --> 01:05:13,720
Speaker 2: He says his uh name in every song.

1507
01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:15,960
Speaker 1: Jason Derulo and the song is.

1508
01:05:18,440 --> 01:05:18,919
Speaker 8: So hot.

1509
01:05:19,680 --> 01:05:20,920
Speaker 1: I would not know the title of that song.

1510
01:05:20,960 --> 01:05:22,920
Speaker 9: I could not think of like I try to think

1511
01:05:22,920 --> 01:05:25,840
Speaker 9: of like the lyrics, I could not think of the lyrics.

1512
01:05:25,880 --> 01:05:29,040
Speaker 2: But I'm like, I know the tune song slaps the slap.

1513
01:05:29,160 --> 01:05:30,520
Speaker 2: I will do a couple more of the guys that

1514
01:05:30,520 --> 01:05:32,360
Speaker 2: don't play with you on the phone, Sauce, You're up?

1515
01:05:32,840 --> 01:05:41,080
Speaker 2: Can you name this song? One of the greatst songs

1516
01:05:41,760 --> 01:05:42,720
Speaker 2: I ever written?

1517
01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:50,120
Speaker 1: It always reminds me of Big Love though that old

1518
01:05:50,200 --> 01:05:56,600
Speaker 1: show on AHBO. It's just like their interest songs.

1519
01:06:12,120 --> 01:06:14,479
Speaker 2: Sauce can you name that song it's.

1520
01:06:14,400 --> 01:06:16,280
Speaker 1: The Beach Boys. Is it called God only knows?

1521
01:06:17,200 --> 01:06:22,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, listen what this one there is. I was always

1522
01:06:22,280 --> 01:06:26,040
Speaker 2: surprised I have One Direction covered this song number one. Again.

1523
01:06:26,320 --> 01:06:29,240
Speaker 2: The fact that nobody's cover gy knows it's like pop

1524
01:06:29,320 --> 01:06:30,440
Speaker 2: wise is kind of crazy.

1525
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Speaker 1: I feel like there's a lot of Beach Boys songs

1526
01:06:32,280 --> 01:06:33,040
Speaker 1: that could be just like.

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01:06:33,920 --> 01:06:36,120
Speaker 2: A little bit if the boy bands make a real

1528
01:06:36,160 --> 01:06:38,400
Speaker 2: world comeback. Yeah, like just do the Beach Boys catalog. Ye,

1529
01:06:38,520 --> 01:06:40,920
Speaker 2: it'll be fine. Rose, you the last one that we'll

1530
01:06:40,920 --> 01:06:42,600
Speaker 2: play with you on the phone. That sounds weird to

1531
01:06:42,600 --> 01:06:44,120
Speaker 2: stay out loud, but you understand here we go.

1532
01:06:44,400 --> 01:06:55,960
Speaker 1: Okay, oh yeah, I listened to this on my way

1533
01:06:56,000 --> 01:06:56,720
Speaker 1: to work this story.

1534
01:06:57,720 --> 01:07:23,120
Speaker 2: I mean banger Rose, but he named that song that

1535
01:07:23,360 --> 01:07:23,880
Speaker 2: is blink.

1536
01:07:24,640 --> 01:07:25,120
Speaker 3: I missed you.

1537
01:07:32,360 --> 01:07:32,640
Speaker 1: That was.

1538
01:07:32,720 --> 01:07:34,680
Speaker 2: I went to see them two years ago. I've always

1539
01:07:34,720 --> 01:07:37,600
Speaker 2: heard mixed reviews of their live shows. But they are hilarious.

1540
01:07:37,680 --> 01:07:38,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like, they're so fun.

1541
01:07:38,920 --> 01:07:42,640
Speaker 2: So they again. I think the encore is the most

1542
01:07:42,680 --> 01:07:44,920
Speaker 2: cliche thing of music, where you don't play your biggest song.

1543
01:07:44,960 --> 01:07:47,160
Speaker 2: All right, we're done. So Mark Hoppus, they had not

1544
01:07:47,240 --> 01:07:49,560
Speaker 2: play all small things. He goes, all right, we're done.

1545
01:07:49,640 --> 01:07:52,280
Speaker 2: Then he takes one steps and we're back. All the

1546
01:07:52,320 --> 01:07:56,240
Speaker 2: small things. Yeah, that's how the game works in Hamden. Sarah,

1547
01:07:56,280 --> 01:08:00,480
Speaker 2: good morning, Good morning. I'm doing well. You competent in

1548
01:08:00,520 --> 01:08:01,120
Speaker 2: your abilities?

1549
01:08:02,440 --> 01:08:02,680
Speaker 1: Yes?

1550
01:08:03,200 --> 01:08:05,440
Speaker 2: I think I all right, Sarah, here we go. Here

1551
01:08:05,520 --> 01:08:18,080
Speaker 2: is your game boy version of a song? Sarah, what

1552
01:08:18,240 --> 01:08:22,640
Speaker 2: song is it? Oh?

1553
01:08:22,720 --> 01:08:23,000
Speaker 1: My god?

1554
01:08:23,479 --> 01:08:25,519
Speaker 3: But I know, I know it's But what's the name?

1555
01:08:26,680 --> 01:08:29,439
Speaker 2: I know the name? Are taking sau shap you out.

1556
01:08:31,240 --> 01:08:34,280
Speaker 1: Like it's the kid is.

1557
01:08:38,320 --> 01:08:42,840
Speaker 2: Sara? You're west? Can I put you hold one second?

1558
01:08:43,840 --> 01:08:44,040
Speaker 8: Sure?

1559
01:08:44,240 --> 01:08:48,160
Speaker 2: Thank you? Game of the day answered in your morning show.

1560
01:08:48,720 --> 01:08:51,120
Speaker 2: Sometimes you go through something you have nobody to talk

1561
01:08:51,200 --> 01:08:52,920
Speaker 2: to you, so you ask for a friend.

1562
01:08:53,040 --> 01:08:53,400
Speaker 4: We do it.

1563
01:08:53,560 --> 01:08:55,680
Speaker 2: Next, hang up. Appreciate you hanging out on this New

1564
01:08:55,760 --> 01:08:58,160
Speaker 2: Year's Eve. Hopefully you have a safe night to night.

1565
01:08:58,200 --> 01:08:59,920
Speaker 2: I would say, as always, get bangs and call you.

1566
01:09:00,520 --> 01:09:03,920
Speaker 2: I think that the best advice I can give you

1567
01:09:04,720 --> 01:09:07,719
Speaker 2: is send that risky text and then get the bangs

1568
01:09:07,880 --> 01:09:10,280
Speaker 2: and then go like a bunch of old photos of

1569
01:09:10,360 --> 01:09:11,320
Speaker 2: your ex and social media.

1570
01:09:11,400 --> 01:09:12,400
Speaker 3: I'm not right.

1571
01:09:12,680 --> 01:09:14,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's it. That's what I'm gonna do

1572
01:09:14,479 --> 01:09:16,200
Speaker 2: for sure. Yeah, yeah, and go like all of Eric's

1573
01:09:16,200 --> 01:09:19,400
Speaker 2: old photos and Eric exciting anything you missed some today's

1574
01:09:19,400 --> 01:09:20,920
Speaker 2: show if you miss us talking about the weird things

1575
01:09:20,960 --> 01:09:23,680
Speaker 2: you saw in somebody's room or the biggest second date

1576
01:09:23,800 --> 01:09:26,360
Speaker 2: update and get the podcast. Just search interns down in

1577
01:09:26,360 --> 01:09:29,080
Speaker 2: your morning show wherever it gets your podcasts and asking

1578
01:09:29,200 --> 01:09:31,880
Speaker 2: for a friend coming in minutes. This is wild too

1579
01:09:32,080 --> 01:09:35,560
Speaker 2: real quick and you. Study found that almost seven to

1580
01:09:35,760 --> 01:09:40,320
Speaker 2: ten workers report at least one symptom of burnout. Okay,

1581
01:09:40,360 --> 01:09:42,920
Speaker 2: don't think that's surprising. I can tell when it's coming

1582
01:09:42,960 --> 01:09:45,519
Speaker 2: for me, Like why I creatively a mush and get

1583
01:09:45,520 --> 01:09:48,280
Speaker 2: a little bit crabby. It's like I just everything I

1584
01:09:48,360 --> 01:09:49,360
Speaker 2: still wanted to do todaymore.

1585
01:09:49,600 --> 01:09:51,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can tell too, So I start to like

1586
01:09:52,000 --> 01:09:54,720
Speaker 1: mentally just like freak out and spiral, Yeah, because they

1587
01:09:54,800 --> 01:09:56,839
Speaker 1: just like will come out nowhere where I'm just so drained.

1588
01:09:57,000 --> 01:10:00,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, that's her. So they say seventy seven say

1589
01:10:00,439 --> 01:10:02,960
Speaker 2: they're having symptoms like exhaustion or feeling unmotivated.

1590
01:10:03,120 --> 01:10:03,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, that makes sense.

1591
01:10:03,960 --> 01:10:06,080
Speaker 2: It's like a constant fight or flight where eventually it's

1592
01:10:06,200 --> 01:10:08,760
Speaker 2: like if you're in the fight, your body is going

1593
01:10:08,800 --> 01:10:10,519
Speaker 2: to be exhausted, like you've been in a battle for

1594
01:10:11,080 --> 01:10:11,639
Speaker 2: a long time.

1595
01:10:11,840 --> 01:10:14,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, especially like with everything. I feel like the world

1596
01:10:14,280 --> 01:10:16,040
Speaker 1: has just changed so much. So it's like I don't

1597
01:10:16,040 --> 01:10:19,160
Speaker 1: feel like we get as many like big wins as

1598
01:10:19,240 --> 01:10:21,080
Speaker 1: like you know, our parents generation maybe. And I'm not

1599
01:10:21,520 --> 01:10:23,479
Speaker 1: saying that as like necessarily like I'm complaining. I am

1600
01:10:23,520 --> 01:10:24,759
Speaker 1: just saying it's just very different.

1601
01:10:25,080 --> 01:10:27,200
Speaker 2: They say seventy two percent gen X say the same.

1602
01:10:27,640 --> 01:10:31,240
Speaker 2: Sixty two percent of gen Z say that. Thirty percent

1603
01:10:31,320 --> 01:10:34,840
Speaker 2: babymers say they're burned out. They also say sixty eight

1604
01:10:34,880 --> 01:10:36,960
Speaker 2: percent of gen Z say they don't feel supported and

1605
01:10:37,080 --> 01:10:40,639
Speaker 2: balancing mental health and work. Okay, sixty one percent millennials

1606
01:10:40,680 --> 01:10:43,840
Speaker 2: say the same thing. They say less than half a

1607
01:10:43,960 --> 01:10:46,400
Speaker 2: gen Z millennial workers say they're personal well being with

1608
01:10:46,479 --> 01:10:47,440
Speaker 2: above average.

1609
01:10:47,600 --> 01:10:50,400
Speaker 1: Okay, I mean like things are a little impressy.

1610
01:10:51,240 --> 01:10:54,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that's fair. Yeah, And life's expensive and

1611
01:10:54,880 --> 01:10:56,760
Speaker 2: it's not getting it's a little easier, which I.

1612
01:10:56,800 --> 01:10:59,000
Speaker 1: Do those think that, Like I'm all about mental health

1613
01:10:59,040 --> 01:11:01,120
Speaker 1: and having mental health days. I think those are so important.

1614
01:11:01,360 --> 01:11:03,679
Speaker 1: But I do think that, like because now that's becoming

1615
01:11:03,720 --> 01:11:06,080
Speaker 1: more regular. I have have friends that have like used

1616
01:11:06,120 --> 01:11:08,439
Speaker 1: it in the not the way it's intended, Like they're

1617
01:11:08,520 --> 01:11:11,160
Speaker 1: they're using it during it like a time or like

1618
01:11:11,360 --> 01:11:13,120
Speaker 1: it's just it's just like they're over using it and

1619
01:11:13,200 --> 01:11:16,439
Speaker 1: it's not it's like gonna it's gonna basically take away

1620
01:11:16,840 --> 01:11:18,320
Speaker 1: what people are trying to make better.

1621
01:11:18,400 --> 01:11:20,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, they wount drinking and they're gonna call the next

1622
01:11:21,000 --> 01:11:21,599
Speaker 2: day of mental health.

1623
01:11:21,880 --> 01:11:24,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, or like they're taking it during like a time

1624
01:11:24,439 --> 01:11:26,280
Speaker 1: that you like absolutely already knew that you could not

1625
01:11:26,360 --> 01:11:27,920
Speaker 1: take off. And then it's like they're gonna take that

1626
01:11:27,960 --> 01:11:30,639
Speaker 1: away for everybody else that's actually using it, and they're

1627
01:11:30,680 --> 01:11:34,080
Speaker 1: just using it because they didn't actually ever intend to

1628
01:11:34,439 --> 01:11:36,040
Speaker 1: like use it for their mental health.

1629
01:11:36,160 --> 01:11:38,680
Speaker 2: That's like the work from home thing, had we not

1630
01:11:38,800 --> 01:11:40,800
Speaker 2: abused it would probably still be more common.

1631
01:11:40,960 --> 01:11:41,240
Speaker 1: Probably.

1632
01:11:41,320 --> 01:11:43,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, people who were buying those mouse clickers that make

1633
01:11:43,720 --> 01:11:44,360
Speaker 2: it something you're.

1634
01:11:44,240 --> 01:11:46,599
Speaker 1: Busy, yes, exactly, the posting about it all wine.

1635
01:11:48,320 --> 01:11:50,479
Speaker 2: You gotta go back to works. Well, yeah, you're posting

1636
01:11:50,600 --> 01:11:53,960
Speaker 2: videos and baking cookies and and not. Yes, like again

1637
01:11:54,200 --> 01:11:57,040
Speaker 2: the people here who are working two jobs. Yeah, yes,

1638
01:11:57,120 --> 01:11:59,080
Speaker 2: now you have to come to the office. Yes, you

1639
01:11:59,160 --> 01:12:00,840
Speaker 2: proved we couldn't handle you know what I mean.

1640
01:12:01,000 --> 01:12:01,160
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1641
01:12:01,520 --> 01:12:04,240
Speaker 2: They also say seventy percent of your manager is eighty

1642
01:12:04,320 --> 01:12:06,479
Speaker 2: percent managers off for all report burnout as well.

1643
01:12:07,720 --> 01:12:08,080
Speaker 5: Amazing.

1644
01:12:08,160 --> 01:12:11,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Intern Johnny Mary sounding, maybe you don't want

1645
01:12:11,320 --> 01:12:13,679
Speaker 2: to ask the people in your life for advice because

1646
01:12:13,720 --> 01:12:16,720
Speaker 2: it involves them. That's why we do asking for a

1647
01:12:16,800 --> 01:12:20,640
Speaker 2: friend on Internshoon Good Morning Show, because somebody listening has

1648
01:12:20,720 --> 01:12:23,920
Speaker 2: been in your shoes. Fake name Ashley, good morning bye.

1649
01:12:24,240 --> 01:12:28,639
Speaker 2: So your question involves a friend's bacherette party. And before

1650
01:12:28,640 --> 01:12:30,920
Speaker 2: we get into this, how close of a friend? Like

1651
01:12:30,960 --> 01:12:31,920
Speaker 2: will you be in the wedding?

1652
01:12:34,040 --> 01:12:34,200
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1653
01:12:34,439 --> 01:12:36,800
Speaker 2: I am in the wedding, right, gotcha? Okay, And so

1654
01:12:36,880 --> 01:12:37,360
Speaker 2: what's going on?

1655
01:12:39,760 --> 01:12:41,439
Speaker 8: Well, so this.

1656
01:12:41,640 --> 01:12:44,240
Speaker 5: Friend, like she's a planner, you know, which is great

1657
01:12:44,280 --> 01:12:46,640
Speaker 5: because she's planning her own bacherette party and no one

1658
01:12:46,720 --> 01:12:49,759
Speaker 5: really has to do anything else. But it's in Miami,

1659
01:12:50,439 --> 01:12:54,519
Speaker 5: and she's everything everything scheduled.

1660
01:12:54,120 --> 01:12:56,960
Speaker 2: To tease, so like like eight activities a.

1661
01:12:57,040 --> 01:13:02,080
Speaker 5: Day, like over activities, therapian higher thing, and it's just

1662
01:13:02,200 --> 01:13:04,200
Speaker 5: it's gonna cost a lot of money but also just

1663
01:13:04,320 --> 01:13:07,920
Speaker 5: like a lot of energy, and my job is really

1664
01:13:07,960 --> 01:13:11,280
Speaker 5: demanding right now, Like I'm wondering if I can tell her, like, hey,

1665
01:13:11,600 --> 01:13:15,479
Speaker 5: I can do like half of the activities and pay

1666
01:13:15,520 --> 01:13:17,960
Speaker 5: for half of those, but I can't do the others.

1667
01:13:18,280 --> 01:13:20,880
Speaker 2: You know, Gosh is that like okay to say, and

1668
01:13:21,040 --> 01:13:22,920
Speaker 2: so it's Miami, right.

1669
01:13:25,160 --> 01:13:29,200
Speaker 5: In Miami, like in the brickle, like you know it is.

1670
01:13:29,439 --> 01:13:34,400
Speaker 2: Okay. Do you think that others in the bridesmaid party

1671
01:13:34,479 --> 01:13:36,599
Speaker 2: are also feeling the same way that it's a little

1672
01:13:36,640 --> 01:13:41,080
Speaker 2: bit too much? And okay they are and I talked

1673
01:13:41,080 --> 01:13:43,400
Speaker 2: to most of them. Yeah. Do you think this is

1674
01:13:43,439 --> 01:13:46,120
Speaker 2: something where they would all come together and you all

1675
01:13:46,200 --> 01:13:48,320
Speaker 2: bring this up? Or is it something where they're kind

1676
01:13:48,320 --> 01:13:50,479
Speaker 2: of looking at you like, girl, you gotta be the one.

1677
01:13:53,240 --> 01:13:53,640
Speaker 8: I don't know.

1678
01:13:54,439 --> 01:13:56,960
Speaker 5: I think everyone's looking for someone else to bring it up.

1679
01:13:57,040 --> 01:13:58,680
Speaker 5: But we all sort of brought it up to each

1680
01:13:58,680 --> 01:14:01,080
Speaker 5: other at the same time after we all got off

1681
01:14:01,120 --> 01:14:01,320
Speaker 5: of a.

1682
01:14:01,400 --> 01:14:03,280
Speaker 3: Call, like we all.

1683
01:14:05,280 --> 01:14:12,320
Speaker 5: Like, oh god, yeah, yeah, okay, we're all feeling it,

1684
01:14:12,479 --> 01:14:14,280
Speaker 5: but everyone's waiting for the other person to bring it

1685
01:14:14,400 --> 01:14:16,679
Speaker 5: up because nobody wants to be like they downer.

1686
01:14:17,200 --> 01:14:19,200
Speaker 2: It makes sense, Okay, can I put you in hold

1687
01:14:19,240 --> 01:14:24,000
Speaker 2: one secondly? What would you do if your fake name

1688
01:14:24,200 --> 01:14:28,400
Speaker 2: Ashley nine nine three eight detext DM is Robantlimus Radio.

1689
01:14:28,920 --> 01:14:31,599
Speaker 2: It's asking for a friend on interns, John in your

1690
01:14:31,640 --> 01:14:34,920
Speaker 2: morning show. Asking for a friend on interns, John in

1691
01:14:35,000 --> 01:14:37,960
Speaker 2: your morning show. We just talked a fake name, Ashley.

1692
01:14:38,200 --> 01:14:41,439
Speaker 2: She is involved in a good friend's batcherette party. I

1693
01:14:41,520 --> 01:14:45,240
Speaker 2: guess friend is an avid planner, so every minute of

1694
01:14:45,400 --> 01:14:48,599
Speaker 2: every second, of every breath of the trip is planned.

1695
01:14:48,760 --> 01:14:52,040
Speaker 2: They're going to Miami. Ashley wants to know. Can she

1696
01:14:52,200 --> 01:14:55,479
Speaker 2: tell friend yes, I will go. Yes, I'll be supportive,

1697
01:14:56,040 --> 01:15:00,320
Speaker 2: although I'm not gonna do every single activity because gone

1698
01:15:00,400 --> 01:15:03,840
Speaker 2: by expansive nine nine three eight. The text DM's open

1699
01:15:03,880 --> 01:15:06,559
Speaker 2: at Wymous Radio. While we're getting you on hold a sauce.

1700
01:15:06,600 --> 01:15:10,000
Speaker 2: I know you famously retired from bridal parties. Although you

1701
01:15:10,240 --> 01:15:13,240
Speaker 2: say that yes, yeah, your thoughts.

1702
01:15:13,240 --> 01:15:15,760
Speaker 1: I personally, as someone who has been a maid of honor,

1703
01:15:15,840 --> 01:15:18,559
Speaker 1: I do think it is the maid of honors duty

1704
01:15:18,800 --> 01:15:22,240
Speaker 1: to approach the bride because when I was made of honor,

1705
01:15:22,360 --> 01:15:24,479
Speaker 1: the bride cannot make up her mind. So I planned

1706
01:15:24,560 --> 01:15:27,960
Speaker 1: three different bachelorette parties and then oh my like, and

1707
01:15:28,040 --> 01:15:30,080
Speaker 1: then she got mad at me. And that's fine that

1708
01:15:30,120 --> 01:15:32,680
Speaker 1: we're not friends anymore. But like, I think that you

1709
01:15:32,800 --> 01:15:34,679
Speaker 1: just have to have open communication with the bride, because

1710
01:15:34,720 --> 01:15:36,759
Speaker 1: that's what I had to do. And it is difficult

1711
01:15:36,800 --> 01:15:38,800
Speaker 1: because I know that they're busy planning their own stuff,

1712
01:15:38,880 --> 01:15:40,720
Speaker 1: so they want you to help, but it sounds like

1713
01:15:40,800 --> 01:15:42,920
Speaker 1: this bride is already planning all of our stuff. And

1714
01:15:43,040 --> 01:15:45,840
Speaker 1: if everybody's already saying like this is a lot. Because

1715
01:15:45,880 --> 01:15:47,960
Speaker 1: even there's a bacherette party I was invited to a

1716
01:15:48,040 --> 01:15:51,200
Speaker 1: while ago, that every it was the same thing. Everything

1717
01:15:51,320 --> 01:15:54,040
Speaker 1: was planned the entire time, and there it became so

1718
01:15:54,240 --> 01:15:56,200
Speaker 1: expensive besides the fact that it was on the other

1719
01:15:56,240 --> 01:15:59,120
Speaker 1: side of the country that I wasn't good enough friends

1720
01:15:59,120 --> 01:16:01,519
Speaker 1: with everybody else in the But then even when people

1721
01:16:01,560 --> 01:16:03,400
Speaker 1: were there, I was still in this one group chat

1722
01:16:03,560 --> 01:16:05,200
Speaker 1: where the bride was not in that people are like,

1723
01:16:05,240 --> 01:16:07,479
Speaker 1: this is so expensive, but no one and I did

1724
01:16:07,560 --> 01:16:08,720
Speaker 1: not end up going to it, so it was just

1725
01:16:08,800 --> 01:16:11,960
Speaker 1: too expensive. But if someone had brought it up and

1726
01:16:12,040 --> 01:16:13,640
Speaker 1: I and it's and those girls were all in like

1727
01:16:13,720 --> 01:16:15,960
Speaker 1: a click, I think that the maid of honor needs

1728
01:16:16,000 --> 01:16:16,519
Speaker 1: to bring it up.

1729
01:16:16,920 --> 01:16:17,920
Speaker 2: I think that's probably fair.

1730
01:16:18,000 --> 01:16:19,479
Speaker 1: And if if they're a maid of honor that's not

1731
01:16:19,560 --> 01:16:21,320
Speaker 1: her personality, that's okay. Just you guys need to have

1732
01:16:21,400 --> 01:16:23,519
Speaker 1: a group chat where you bring it up before, because

1733
01:16:23,640 --> 01:16:26,360
Speaker 1: like you already have, but someone needs to talk to her,

1734
01:16:26,680 --> 01:16:28,519
Speaker 1: like someone needs to be the one to go and do.

1735
01:16:28,560 --> 01:16:31,560
Speaker 2: It, especially because like Miami's a lot if you're not

1736
01:16:31,680 --> 01:16:33,920
Speaker 2: taking time off for work, like a week. And I

1737
01:16:34,040 --> 01:16:35,920
Speaker 2: still say the best bachelor party's ever been on my

1738
01:16:36,000 --> 01:16:38,160
Speaker 2: brothers in New Orleans because like the Friday was just

1739
01:16:38,240 --> 01:16:41,559
Speaker 2: a chill day Saturday with fishing, hoodies, bachelor party. There

1740
01:16:41,640 --> 01:16:45,280
Speaker 2: was like events like WrestleMania, but during the day you

1741
01:16:45,360 --> 01:16:47,479
Speaker 2: can kind of do whatever. Yeah, because like I think

1742
01:16:47,520 --> 01:16:49,400
Speaker 2: we tend we get there. It's like when you go

1743
01:16:49,520 --> 01:16:51,320
Speaker 2: to the grocery store hungry, like I got way too

1744
01:16:51,400 --> 01:16:53,120
Speaker 2: much food, Like you will plan so watch like, oh

1745
01:16:53,200 --> 01:16:54,080
Speaker 2: it's so much energy.

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01:16:54,120 --> 01:16:57,040
Speaker 1: Then it's like yo, nah, because like half the people

1747
01:16:57,040 --> 01:16:58,639
Speaker 1: aren't gonna want to do it when they're there anyway,

1748
01:16:59,000 --> 01:17:01,560
Speaker 1: especially if they're drinking and hungover. So I would just say, like,

1749
01:17:01,800 --> 01:17:03,120
Speaker 1: you want to have fun and enjoy your time, but

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01:17:03,200 --> 01:17:04,000
Speaker 1: not be rushed.

1751
01:17:03,840 --> 01:17:05,920
Speaker 2: To do all this stuff, and that people like not

1752
01:17:06,040 --> 01:17:07,599
Speaker 2: need you to take a day off when they get.

1753
01:17:07,479 --> 01:17:09,920
Speaker 1: Back, because sometimes even with the one that I didn't

1754
01:17:09,960 --> 01:17:12,280
Speaker 1: go to, there is not enough time for the girls

1755
01:17:12,320 --> 01:17:14,559
Speaker 1: to even get ready. So that was like the biggest complaint,

1756
01:17:15,000 --> 01:17:16,680
Speaker 1: and so people are like, how are we going to

1757
01:17:16,760 --> 01:17:18,880
Speaker 1: go from the beach to not getting ready and then

1758
01:17:18,960 --> 01:17:20,439
Speaker 1: going to dinner, like the way it was all planned.

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01:17:20,439 --> 01:17:22,400
Speaker 1: So anyway, that's just something I would someone needs to

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01:17:22,439 --> 01:17:24,960
Speaker 1: do it. Rose your thoughts, Yeah, I would agree.

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01:17:25,120 --> 01:17:27,320
Speaker 9: I feel like if you're good enough friends to be

1762
01:17:27,600 --> 01:17:29,760
Speaker 9: in the bridal party, you should be able to just

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01:17:29,880 --> 01:17:30,800
Speaker 9: have that conversation.

1764
01:17:31,080 --> 01:17:33,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I not not in a gang up way.

1765
01:17:34,160 --> 01:17:36,840
Speaker 9: Just know what if somebody has to volunteers tribute to

1766
01:17:36,920 --> 01:17:39,800
Speaker 9: have that hard conversation, but like it needs to be

1767
01:17:40,000 --> 01:17:42,240
Speaker 9: done because other Like I feel like, no matter what,

1768
01:17:42,760 --> 01:17:45,280
Speaker 9: the bride is going to have certain expectations for her

1769
01:17:45,400 --> 01:17:47,439
Speaker 9: bachelorette party because she is planning it.

1770
01:17:47,760 --> 01:17:49,800
Speaker 1: She's expecting everyone to do it. And if you go

1771
01:17:50,040 --> 01:17:51,840
Speaker 1: into it and say like, oh, yeah, I'm.

1772
01:17:51,680 --> 01:17:54,600
Speaker 9: Not going to do that before like having a conversation,

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01:17:55,360 --> 01:17:57,519
Speaker 9: then she's going to be even more disappointed. Like if

1774
01:17:57,600 --> 01:18:00,559
Speaker 9: you go into it already setting her expectation like, hey,

1775
01:18:00,680 --> 01:18:02,439
Speaker 9: not everyone is gonna be able to do all of

1776
01:18:02,560 --> 01:18:03,320
Speaker 9: these things.

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01:18:03,720 --> 01:18:05,280
Speaker 1: You should be able to do all of them and

1778
01:18:05,400 --> 01:18:07,720
Speaker 1: maybe like have a couple of people for each thing.

1779
01:18:08,000 --> 01:18:10,800
Speaker 9: That should be more accepted. That way, she has fun

1780
01:18:10,880 --> 01:18:12,240
Speaker 9: still and does all the things she wants to do,

1781
01:18:12,360 --> 01:18:15,880
Speaker 9: but not everyone has to be involved. Yeah, Miami's expenser exactly.

1782
01:18:16,880 --> 01:18:20,640
Speaker 9: Let's go in aplis Liz, good morning, Good morning. So

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01:18:20,840 --> 01:18:24,439
Speaker 9: you heard asking for a friend as a former bride yourself,

1784
01:18:24,600 --> 01:18:25,480
Speaker 9: your thoughts.

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01:18:28,080 --> 01:18:31,960
Speaker 6: Just like less activities for the bridesmaids, Like the fun

1786
01:18:32,040 --> 01:18:33,200
Speaker 6: should just be natural.

1787
01:18:33,320 --> 01:18:36,360
Speaker 1: There shouldn't be all this like plans, like routine like

1788
01:18:36,760 --> 01:18:37,799
Speaker 1: like stuff.

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01:18:37,920 --> 01:18:38,120
Speaker 11: You know.

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01:18:39,000 --> 01:18:41,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I guess like it's nice to have probably

1791
01:18:41,760 --> 01:18:44,040
Speaker 2: like set events like if we're gonna do like dinner,

1792
01:18:44,560 --> 01:18:47,000
Speaker 2: do our hair, but making it like a almost like

1793
01:18:47,040 --> 01:18:49,880
Speaker 2: a treasure hunt of fun is the recipe for disaster.

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01:18:51,479 --> 01:18:54,240
Speaker 11: Right, like I mean, yeah, absolutely, when you have too

1795
01:18:54,320 --> 01:18:56,680
Speaker 11: many plans like Okay, we're gonna go here and do

1796
01:18:56,840 --> 01:18:59,080
Speaker 11: this and then this is gonna happen, it's just like.

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01:18:59,200 --> 01:19:04,160
Speaker 6: Too much time a personality ye ride, you know, yeah

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01:19:04,240 --> 01:19:04,800
Speaker 6: that makes sense.

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01:19:04,880 --> 01:19:06,680
Speaker 2: Okay, thank you so much for listening to have a

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01:19:06,720 --> 01:19:07,120
Speaker 2: great day.

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01:19:08,320 --> 01:19:09,479
Speaker 3: Absolutely, thank you too.

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01:19:10,280 --> 01:19:13,759
Speaker 2: Let me go out in Hamden and Brittany, good morning morning.

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01:19:14,160 --> 01:19:17,439
Speaker 2: So you were in a similar spot with you planned

1804
01:19:17,479 --> 01:19:18,599
Speaker 2: your own bachelrette party.

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01:19:18,680 --> 01:19:19,040
Speaker 8: Is that fair?

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01:19:21,000 --> 01:19:24,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, My friends aren't the best planners. They're more spontaneous.

1807
01:19:24,400 --> 01:19:26,280
Speaker 4: So I wanted to make sure that all our bases

1808
01:19:26,320 --> 01:19:28,519
Speaker 4: were covered, all our I gotted tease cross.

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01:19:28,600 --> 01:19:30,680
Speaker 2: You know, gosh, what do you want to stay with?

1810
01:19:30,720 --> 01:19:31,479
Speaker 2: Asking for a friend?

1811
01:19:32,800 --> 01:19:35,559
Speaker 4: Okay, So I think that she should definitely speak up

1812
01:19:35,680 --> 01:19:38,320
Speaker 4: because when I was planning all my stuff, you know,

1813
01:19:38,479 --> 01:19:40,160
Speaker 4: of course it's my wedding, so I want to do

1814
01:19:40,200 --> 01:19:41,640
Speaker 4: what I want to do, but I also want my

1815
01:19:41,680 --> 01:19:43,400
Speaker 4: bread needs to have a good time, you know. And

1816
01:19:43,479 --> 01:19:46,719
Speaker 4: I feel the same way here. I mean, my native

1817
01:19:46,760 --> 01:19:48,799
Speaker 4: honors spoke up and she was like, listen.

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01:19:48,640 --> 01:19:50,280
Speaker 1: Girl, like, you need to slow your role.

1819
01:19:50,479 --> 01:19:53,200
Speaker 4: We got this like, I know you want certain things

1820
01:19:53,240 --> 01:19:56,559
Speaker 4: a certain way, but we don't want to do thirty

1821
01:19:56,600 --> 01:19:57,400
Speaker 4: different activities.

1822
01:19:57,479 --> 01:19:59,280
Speaker 5: We want to do like one or two things and then.

1823
01:19:59,400 --> 01:20:03,519
Speaker 2: You know, get it. Yeah, to that point, if nobody knows,

1824
01:20:04,200 --> 01:20:07,040
Speaker 2: if the bride doesn't know everybody isn't happy, how is

1825
01:20:07,080 --> 01:20:08,880
Speaker 2: she going to exactly exactly?

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01:20:08,960 --> 01:20:10,760
Speaker 4: And I'm sure if the bride knew that all her

1827
01:20:10,760 --> 01:20:13,680
Speaker 4: bridesmaids were unhappy, she would definitely just so sales to

1828
01:20:14,080 --> 01:20:14,800
Speaker 4: make them solve.

1829
01:20:15,479 --> 01:20:18,120
Speaker 2: Sire yea, that makes sense. Thank you so much for listening.

1830
01:20:18,120 --> 01:20:18,720
Speaker 2: To have a great day.

1831
01:20:19,720 --> 01:20:20,559
Speaker 4: Thank you guys so much.

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01:20:20,560 --> 01:20:22,920
Speaker 2: I love you guys, well, love your thoughts over text

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Speaker 2: nine nine three three eight. If you want to do

1834
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Speaker 2: an asking for a friend. Dms are open at Wymous Radio.

1835
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Speaker 2: It is intern John in your Morning show. Don't forget

1836
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1837
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1838
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1839
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1840
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1841
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1842
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Speaker 2: show wherever you gets your podcasts. I want to get

1843
01:20:50,160 --> 01:20:52,960
Speaker 2: to people lining on dating apps. Next, we love getting

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Speaker 2: intern John in your Morning Show. I want to get

1848
01:21:04,720 --> 01:21:07,800
Speaker 2: to lying on dating apps in a second quickly too.

1849
01:21:07,840 --> 01:21:11,080
Speaker 2: I thought this was interesting. They put together a study

1850
01:21:11,120 --> 01:21:17,160
Speaker 2: about the most unmissable moments in life. It is thanks Sas.

1851
01:21:17,560 --> 01:21:20,120
Speaker 2: I'm glad you also think so. So overall, I say

1852
01:21:20,120 --> 01:21:24,439
Speaker 2: people experience five unforgetable moments each year, five that you

1853
01:21:24,520 --> 01:21:28,439
Speaker 2: will remember forever. Okay, can be can be positive, can

1854
01:21:28,560 --> 01:21:30,840
Speaker 2: be negative, But like five big ones and that's probably fair.

1855
01:21:30,840 --> 01:21:35,640
Speaker 2: I suppose when you look back at like a year, Okay, I'm.

1856
01:21:34,800 --> 01:21:36,719
Speaker 1: Like trying to think of mine. I'm like, what's happened?

1857
01:21:36,840 --> 01:21:41,240
Speaker 2: Well, the top ones they ranked being proposed to opposing

1858
01:21:41,240 --> 01:21:44,720
Speaker 2: to somebody, I would hope that. Sure, this is most

1859
01:21:44,800 --> 01:21:47,560
Speaker 2: cherious moments in life in general. So being told I

1860
01:21:47,680 --> 01:21:49,840
Speaker 2: love you and saying it back, Oh yeah, it is

1861
01:21:49,960 --> 01:21:52,680
Speaker 2: pretty adorable. Driving a car on your own for the

1862
01:21:52,760 --> 01:21:57,840
Speaker 2: first time. Oh yeah, that is very absolutely witnessing a

1863
01:21:57,960 --> 01:22:01,360
Speaker 2: child's first words ever, Oh, I guess I did with Colby,

1864
01:22:01,439 --> 01:22:03,439
Speaker 2: but I was eight. Well, when Eric started speaking in

1865
01:22:03,479 --> 01:22:06,400
Speaker 2: full sentences, we were all like, oh my god, We're

1866
01:22:06,479 --> 01:22:09,800
Speaker 2: like oh and shed a tears. It was beautiful. It

1867
01:22:09,840 --> 01:22:13,880
Speaker 2: was beautiful writing full sentences yet with punctuation. He's absolutely good.

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01:22:13,920 --> 01:22:14,960
Speaker 1: You've just learned eye before you.

1869
01:22:16,040 --> 01:22:18,800
Speaker 2: So yeah, that's fair. Falling in love for the first time,

1870
01:22:19,200 --> 01:22:21,720
Speaker 2: yeah cute, and then realizing it's not gonna last.

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01:22:25,880 --> 01:22:26,960
Speaker 1: Sorry, that was really nice to.

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01:22:27,000 --> 01:22:30,519
Speaker 2: Find him over it. Child's first day of school, Yeah,

1873
01:22:31,000 --> 01:22:37,679
Speaker 2: I bet last goodbye to a loved one. Oh, holding

1874
01:22:37,760 --> 01:22:40,200
Speaker 2: the keys to your first place for the first time,

1875
01:22:40,680 --> 01:22:42,720
Speaker 2: that is a pretty big moment. I bet.

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01:22:42,920 --> 01:22:43,120
Speaker 8: Yeah.

1877
01:22:43,760 --> 01:22:44,800
Speaker 1: I've never bought up anything.

1878
01:22:44,960 --> 01:22:47,040
Speaker 2: Even the apartment though, like the first apartment by yourself

1879
01:22:47,200 --> 01:22:48,360
Speaker 2: was like, Okay, I'm an adult now, I.

1880
01:22:48,360 --> 01:22:50,280
Speaker 1: Actually don't remember that. I remember the first apartment I

1881
01:22:50,320 --> 01:22:52,040
Speaker 1: moved out of because I was like devastated because I

1882
01:22:52,120 --> 01:22:54,519
Speaker 1: loved it so much. The one I helped, Yeah, it

1883
01:22:54,600 --> 01:22:55,760
Speaker 1: was like the most like it was just like so

1884
01:22:56,160 --> 01:22:57,920
Speaker 1: the most bare minimum, basic apartment, but I was like,

1885
01:22:57,960 --> 01:22:58,559
Speaker 1: I love this place.

1886
01:22:59,200 --> 01:23:04,479
Speaker 2: Was watching your baby take the first steps? Yeah, sure again.

1887
01:23:04,600 --> 01:23:06,640
Speaker 2: We were just talking Eric before the show about how

1888
01:23:06,720 --> 01:23:10,200
Speaker 2: he sometimes we towards mcl taking steps. He's gotta be careful.

1889
01:23:10,280 --> 01:23:13,720
Speaker 1: That actually did happen, soil goose And.

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01:23:13,760 --> 01:23:16,000
Speaker 2: Then the number one is holding a newborn baby for

1891
01:23:16,080 --> 01:23:20,200
Speaker 2: the first time. It's adorable. Do you want to add

1892
01:23:20,240 --> 01:23:22,599
Speaker 2: some nine nine three three eight attacks in turn? Johnny

1893
01:23:22,600 --> 01:23:25,400
Speaker 2: Moore Show. I also don't find this that's surprising. According

1894
01:23:25,400 --> 01:23:28,200
Speaker 2: to a new survey, a quarter of online daters are

1895
01:23:28,280 --> 01:23:31,920
Speaker 2: hiding something. Okay, gotta be way more than that, probably

1896
01:23:32,040 --> 01:23:34,479
Speaker 2: like half. So we're doing research on it, and they

1897
01:23:34,479 --> 01:23:36,040
Speaker 2: asked a bunch of people who are on dating apps,

1898
01:23:36,080 --> 01:23:40,880
Speaker 2: whether it's using old photos, stretching, how old tall they are, sauce,

1899
01:23:40,880 --> 01:23:42,600
Speaker 2: what's the biggest lie somebody has told you.

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01:23:42,680 --> 01:23:44,120
Speaker 1: On dating app, biggest lie.

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01:23:44,439 --> 01:23:46,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, or if you realize they're a lying about something.

1902
01:23:46,479 --> 01:23:48,360
Speaker 1: I found out, like I've found out before that people

1903
01:23:48,560 --> 01:23:53,000
Speaker 1: are in open relationships okay, or there's in a relationship

1904
01:23:53,000 --> 01:23:54,800
Speaker 1: in general and they're lying even about that.

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01:23:55,000 --> 01:23:57,320
Speaker 2: That's fair. They said. Nearly two thirds of people have

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01:23:57,479 --> 01:24:00,599
Speaker 2: matches somebody that later learns shared misleading information. Yes, okay.

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01:24:01,000 --> 01:24:03,320
Speaker 2: Forty two percent found about it through action talking to

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01:24:03,400 --> 01:24:06,519
Speaker 2: the person. Yeah. Twenty one percent discovered after using external

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01:24:06,600 --> 01:24:09,960
Speaker 2: verification tools like Google or like the k search we

1910
01:24:10,160 --> 01:24:13,679
Speaker 2: did to put people like find wild stuff with payse searches,

1911
01:24:13,720 --> 01:24:17,080
Speaker 2: and like divorces. Remember there's a guy like a gal

1912
01:24:17,120 --> 01:24:19,880
Speaker 2: who like the day before like he was in therapy

1913
01:24:19,920 --> 01:24:21,639
Speaker 2: with his ex wife as soon to be an ex wife,

1914
01:24:21,640 --> 01:24:26,040
Speaker 2: which is crazy. Yeah. When press to explain why they

1915
01:24:26,040 --> 01:24:28,639
Speaker 2: weren't honest, thirty five percent said privacy concerns.

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01:24:28,720 --> 01:24:31,160
Speaker 1: There's no way, no, they just are like hot, they

1917
01:24:31,240 --> 01:24:33,679
Speaker 1: just want to Yeah, like there's this new era of themselves.

1918
01:24:33,720 --> 01:24:35,439
Speaker 2: I guess I'm gonna lie about how I look so

1919
01:24:35,560 --> 01:24:37,280
Speaker 2: you can't tell who I am when we see each

1920
01:24:37,280 --> 01:24:40,120
Speaker 2: other in person because of privacy. Duh that's why my

1921
01:24:40,280 --> 01:24:41,839
Speaker 2: dating app for privacy.

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01:24:41,880 --> 01:24:42,800
Speaker 1: I mean, that's what that's what you do.

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01:24:43,080 --> 01:24:43,280
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1924
01:24:43,840 --> 01:24:47,559
Speaker 2: Twenty eight percent blame their fear of rejection. Okay, eighteen

1925
01:24:47,640 --> 01:24:50,559
Speaker 2: percent deliberate deception. Well, it's it's all deliberate.

1926
01:24:50,720 --> 01:24:53,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're choosing not to disclose somethings, so.

1927
01:24:54,040 --> 01:24:57,320
Speaker 2: It's pretty deliberate as a result. Fifty four percent feel

1928
01:24:57,400 --> 01:25:01,120
Speaker 2: now doing a independent background shack is routine stepp online dating. Yeah,

1929
01:25:01,600 --> 01:25:02,880
Speaker 2: or at least have the friend they will do it

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01:25:02,960 --> 01:25:03,120
Speaker 2: for you.

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01:25:03,360 --> 01:25:06,240
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I don't disagree with that. I don't

1932
01:25:06,479 --> 01:25:08,479
Speaker 1: try to go too over the top on a first date.

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01:25:08,680 --> 01:25:10,680
Speaker 1: It's after I've already met them, so what do you

1934
01:25:10,680 --> 01:25:12,960
Speaker 1: won't even do the Google search or like in like

1935
01:25:13,040 --> 01:25:14,960
Speaker 1: that for the first date. It kind ofpends. It depends

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01:25:15,000 --> 01:25:17,400
Speaker 1: on how how I'm feeling about them. If I seem

1937
01:25:17,920 --> 01:25:20,800
Speaker 1: more comfortable with them, I probably won't, But I don't know.

1938
01:25:21,080 --> 01:25:22,680
Speaker 1: It really just depends on my mood at the time.

1939
01:25:23,080 --> 01:25:25,120
Speaker 2: If the vibe is off and something doesn't seem right,

1940
01:25:25,200 --> 01:25:26,840
Speaker 2: that you'll like check and be like hey.

1941
01:25:27,040 --> 01:25:29,280
Speaker 1: Sometimes you just get that that inkling like oh this

1942
01:25:29,400 --> 01:25:32,120
Speaker 1: is too good to be true or something, and I

1943
01:25:32,640 --> 01:25:35,160
Speaker 1: it's very easy to just like you know, state what

1944
01:25:35,320 --> 01:25:37,680
Speaker 1: you're looking for. Also if you have kids, and like,

1945
01:25:37,840 --> 01:25:40,280
Speaker 1: I don't care if you have kids. It's not hard

1946
01:25:40,360 --> 01:25:43,360
Speaker 1: to disclose though, that you have children on the app.

1947
01:25:43,400 --> 01:25:45,080
Speaker 1: You don't have to post them that. You can check

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01:25:45,120 --> 01:25:47,120
Speaker 1: the box on every app at this point. And so

1949
01:25:47,200 --> 01:25:49,439
Speaker 1: I've had a lot of guys that have kids and

1950
01:25:49,640 --> 01:25:51,720
Speaker 1: I'm just like, they'll be they'll bring it up later.

1951
01:25:51,760 --> 01:25:53,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, that's a weird thing to not have.

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01:25:54,920 --> 01:25:56,400
Speaker 2: I want to date the girls Like, oh, did I

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Speaker 2: mention I have a five year old? I go no,

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Speaker 2: I feel like that's not like, go, I have a

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Speaker 2: gluten intolerant. That's like, that's a last child that you birth.

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Speaker 1: This always throws me of because it's like, why are

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Speaker 1: you hiding your children from you know, the day. I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I just think that's not great. You don't

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Speaker 1: need to introduce them, but a last let them know

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Speaker 1: what they're walking them to, Like, you don't have to

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Speaker 1: post a kid. You just literally check the box that

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Speaker 1: you have children, and that's fine.

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Speaker 2: The Lady dating expert from Hilly says you should be

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Speaker 2: from basic information for decimagent. I think that's uh.

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Speaker 1: I do agree with that.

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