1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:02,960 Speaker 1: Live and local every morning just for you. 2 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 2: The Joe Show is live on NTLZ. 3 00:00:06,519 --> 00:00:11,560 Speaker 3: Is The Joe Show and eight hundred and four oh 4 00:00:11,640 --> 00:00:17,040 Speaker 3: nine ninety three ninety three. I want to know you 5 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:20,840 Speaker 3: know what you think about this, because there's a part 6 00:00:20,840 --> 00:00:24,440 Speaker 3: of me that's like, well, absolutely, I couldn't agree more, Ashley, 7 00:00:24,520 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 3: I love this. There's also a part of me that's like, well, 8 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 3: hold on one second, that's not fair, and that's kind 9 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 3: of like almost entitled to assume. I'm getting married next year. 10 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:38,200 Speaker 3: My fiance and I are currently planning the wedding, getting 11 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 3: the list together, all of that. We're actually going to 12 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 3: send out Save the dates fairly soon. Now, Ashley, you said, 13 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 3: anyone and everyone that I put on that invitation list, 14 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 3: every single person I send an invitation to, even if 15 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 3: they can't go, is required to give me a gift. Yes, 16 00:00:56,440 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 3: I don't know. 17 00:00:57,120 --> 00:01:00,400 Speaker 2: They need to either zell you or send you a 18 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 2: car with some cash in it, maybe have an Amazon 19 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 2: wish list and they buy something for you. Guys, but yeah, 20 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:10,280 Speaker 2: if you have thought of this person to be a 21 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 2: part of your wedding and unfortunately they can't come, so 22 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:14,759 Speaker 2: they're not spending money on a flight they're not spending 23 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:16,520 Speaker 2: money on a hotel. You're not spending money on up 24 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:18,759 Speaker 2: a plate for them. They can get you a small, 25 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:23,680 Speaker 2: nice gift because what if I can't attend, you're gonna 26 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:24,399 Speaker 2: expect to give for me? 27 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:27,319 Speaker 3: No, yeah you would. No, I'm not going. 28 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 2: You know you should just because I can't make it, 29 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 2: because I don't know, maybe something came up, my dog 30 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:34,319 Speaker 2: got sick, couldn't make it your wedding, So I gotta 31 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 2: get you a gift. 32 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:38,680 Speaker 3: Have to a lot of state. 33 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 4: Seeing Joe on this one, I'm sorry. I feel like 34 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 4: if I don't show up to the wedding, you don't deserve. 35 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 4: You don't If I'm not present, you don't deserve. 36 00:01:44,959 --> 00:01:47,200 Speaker 2: How many invites have you gotten for a wedding and 37 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 2: you who did not fly back for the wedding. I 38 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:51,760 Speaker 2: have been invited to motial weddings and baby showers and 39 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 2: I still send a gift. 40 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 4: I don't send the gift. Wow, have it last two 41 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 4: weddings I've gotten invited to, I've declined in No. 42 00:01:57,840 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 2: One of my good college friends. You just had a 43 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:01,920 Speaker 2: ba shower two weeks ago. I couldn't make it, so 44 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 2: of course I went on her baby shower list and 45 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 2: I got her some diapers. We'd have to send a. 46 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:11,919 Speaker 3: Gift eight hundred and four oh nine ninety three ninety three. 47 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 3: What do you think? 48 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:13,800 Speaker 5: You know? 49 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 3: We had this conversation too, not not this exact one, 50 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:19,960 Speaker 3: but it was like, do you invite rich people to 51 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 3: the wedding and hopes to be a good gift. The 52 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 3: only reason why I'm not doing that is because one, 53 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 3: well there's multiple. The first one is it just doesn't 54 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 3: seem genuine. I feel bad inviting someone just for the 55 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 3: sole purpose of getting a gift. And there are you know, 56 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:40,240 Speaker 3: not like rules and regulations, but there is a way 57 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 3: that we've been picking who gets invited and who doesn't. 58 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 3: They've got to know the both of us. They have 59 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:48,080 Speaker 3: to have spent you know, a good amount of time 60 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 3: with the Bolls, both of us. Like this, we're breaking 61 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:55,240 Speaker 3: down the relationships to like, you know, do we see 62 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:59,800 Speaker 3: ourselves being friends with these people in five years if 63 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:04,239 Speaker 3: there was a moment oh wow, I mean, because there's 64 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:06,519 Speaker 3: a lot of people and we kind of gotta get 65 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 3: it down. The other one is if we were in 66 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 3: trouble or if we've gone through anything, would these people 67 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:14,919 Speaker 3: help out? And you know, not to get too much 68 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:16,960 Speaker 3: into it, but we did kind of go through uh, 69 00:03:17,080 --> 00:03:19,839 Speaker 3: something pretty serious a couple of years ago, and there 70 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 3: were people that were there and there were people that weren't. 71 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:24,119 Speaker 3: You better believe we thought about that as we put 72 00:03:24,160 --> 00:03:27,880 Speaker 3: together the invitation list. What else, what else? 73 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 4: What else? 74 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 3: What else? What else? Well and then and then it's like, okay, 75 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 3: well if those people, if these rich people don't fall 76 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 3: under that category, like do they get an invitation? I 77 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:39,200 Speaker 3: mean people significant others aren't getting invitations. There are gonna 78 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 3: be a lot of people who are solo invites. And 79 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 3: if you got an issue with it, don't come seriously 80 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 3: because these I'm telling you guys off the air, I'll 81 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:50,840 Speaker 3: tell you how much these plates are. Ain't nobody worth 82 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 3: the amount of money that I got to pay for 83 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 3: these stupid players. But that's the case with the gifts. 84 00:03:57,080 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 3: They better be given like they got to give even 85 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 3: more than that, but would be an expensive gift. 86 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, but the people who possibly say they're gonna come 87 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 2: and don't show, you can get your money back from 88 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:05,839 Speaker 2: the people who didn't show but gave you money. 89 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 4: Just make sure you bring a gift for seat too. 90 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 4: By the way, because how many times. Do people get 91 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 4: gifts at weddings that are so not useful? 92 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 2: Dahn, that's right, Or a gift card there's no money 93 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 2: on it. 94 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:21,880 Speaker 3: Also, just get me a lightsaber, Megan, Hey, hey, what 95 00:04:21,960 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 3: do you think? 96 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:28,120 Speaker 6: I think if it's someone you talk to regularly, then 97 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 6: you owe them a gift. But if it's like a 98 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:32,919 Speaker 6: random friend from college you haven't talked to in years, 99 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:36,559 Speaker 6: that's just inviting you for the present, then they don't desert. 100 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:39,279 Speaker 2: What if it's the CEO of our company and we 101 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:40,880 Speaker 2: can send it via. 102 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 7: Bob's got you're gonna need a gift. 103 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:45,040 Speaker 6: You're gonna need to butter that up. 104 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, oh, he gave. 105 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:47,479 Speaker 2: One from me. 106 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 3: I mean it'd be great, it'd be cool if he 107 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 3: was just there to have his presence felt. 108 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:55,360 Speaker 2: But did he send one to Ryan Seacrest? We've had 109 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 2: conversations with him. 110 00:04:56,400 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 3: I'm not sending one to Ryan. He would go, who 111 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:03,240 Speaker 3: is this? I'm no, he's got Elvis got big things 112 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 3: going on and it. 113 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:06,839 Speaker 2: Doesn't involve don't get that correct? 114 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 3: Okay, Well, these people barely know me. They care about me, 115 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:11,719 Speaker 3: so they're not gonna. 116 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 4: Know for sure cares about it. 117 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:16,039 Speaker 3: I know, but he's got he falls under the category 118 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 3: of this guy's got a lot of things going on, 119 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:20,719 Speaker 3: and I'm the last thing he's thinking about. Why would 120 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 3: he come like that? No, I saw him not sending 121 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 3: an invitation to get his money. He's done more than 122 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 3: enough for me. Can Hey, Hi, what do you think 123 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 3: about this whole If you get an invite to the wedding, 124 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:34,600 Speaker 3: you're required to get a gift, even if you're not going. 125 00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 7: Yeah, I disagree one hundred percent. Like, I don't even 126 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:39,120 Speaker 7: think if you show up to the wedding you have 127 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 7: to bring a gift. When I got married, I was 128 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 7: just happy that so many people were able to show 129 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 7: up and spend time with us, Like, I didn't expect 130 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:53,479 Speaker 7: a single person to bring me anything. Like if people did, 131 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:54,279 Speaker 7: I was shocked. 132 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:57,080 Speaker 1: Honestly, I want it. 133 00:05:57,160 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm going to be like, you know what. You 134 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:01,760 Speaker 3: know what I think about, and I'm a bad person 135 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:03,719 Speaker 3: of this. I went to my cousin's wedding last year. 136 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 3: Two of them. I didn't get them a gift. I 137 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 3: just didn't think about it, And I feel really bad 138 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:11,279 Speaker 3: about that. So I hope that they don't get me 139 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:12,560 Speaker 3: gifts because that's not fair. 140 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:14,040 Speaker 2: Why don't you just send them a gift right now. 141 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:16,160 Speaker 3: I can't send them a gift a year and a 142 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:19,280 Speaker 3: half later, although I kind of want to. Yeah, an, wait, 143 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 3: now that I think about it, she might need more 144 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:22,800 Speaker 3: now than they did that. Yeah, but then if I 145 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 3: send it to him now and then they don't give 146 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 3: me a gift, I'm gonna be ultramant. I'm gonna start 147 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:30,920 Speaker 3: eating these people. You know what I mean. It's up, Katie. 148 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:33,279 Speaker 1: Hey, how you doing this morning? 149 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:35,359 Speaker 3: Listen, I get to talk to you. So life is 150 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 3: fantastic Katie as well. That says everyone I invite to 151 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:40,880 Speaker 3: my wedding must be giving me a gift. What do 152 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 3: you think? 153 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:42,719 Speaker 5: Oh? 154 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:46,080 Speaker 1: So, I think I'm very traditional on that and I 155 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 1: don't think they require to send in a gift. But 156 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 1: a lot of times people do feel that you need 157 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:54,600 Speaker 1: to send something. So when we didn't have some family 158 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:56,799 Speaker 1: that could make it, they would send in. 159 00:06:57,080 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 2: Like a check. 160 00:06:57,600 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 1: Like I had an uncle that couldn't make it. He 161 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 1: sent me like a thousand dollar checks. 162 00:07:01,240 --> 00:07:01,600 Speaker 3: Damn. 163 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:03,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, but that's your Yeah. 164 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:05,200 Speaker 3: Wait, I need that. See, I need that in my. 165 00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:06,480 Speaker 7: Life, I know. 166 00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:10,120 Speaker 1: And even and even the like my husband was a 167 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 1: law enforcement then, and even the people we invited that 168 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 1: couldn't make it because they were like on night shift. 169 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 1: They showed up in full uniform with cards and gifts 170 00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 1: and flowers at the reception. 171 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 7: Yeah it was great, shot. 172 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:32,320 Speaker 1: Right, It's not as great as pracked up to be. 173 00:07:32,360 --> 00:07:36,360 Speaker 3: I promise Katie, you're the greatest. Thank you so much 174 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 3: for calling and we appreciate you. One last one, Rebecca. 175 00:07:41,360 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 5: Hi, good morning, good morning. 176 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:43,400 Speaker 3: What do you think? 177 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 5: Well for small congratulations, I listen all the time. I 178 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 5: think your relationship is so cute, but you. 179 00:07:56,080 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 2: Go ahead. 180 00:07:58,320 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 5: I just heard that and I was like kind of floored, Like, 181 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 5: if you go to a wedding, you have to give 182 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 5: a gift, Like they're paying through your meal and they 183 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 5: just paid for this huge extravagant thing. If you don't 184 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 5: want to go to their wedding, that's a little bit 185 00:08:12,640 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 5: more dicey, Like I don't think they are owed a gift, 186 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 5: but I mean you're supposed to. Your gifts should at 187 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 5: least equal the cost of your meal from what I understand, 188 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 5: But I. 189 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 3: Mean that with the invitation of bill and be like, hey, 190 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:29,320 Speaker 3: your plate is this much? 191 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:32,839 Speaker 5: Oh no, I mean definitely don't do that. 192 00:08:32,920 --> 00:08:34,200 Speaker 7: But I don't know. 193 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:37,839 Speaker 5: I think like people I just learned this year you're 194 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:39,760 Speaker 5: supposed to give a shower gift and. 195 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:40,439 Speaker 1: A wedding gift. 196 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:44,719 Speaker 5: I literally didn't know that. So there's like wedding etiquette 197 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:47,680 Speaker 5: you're supposed to follow. Whether or not people our age 198 00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 5: getting married or doing it is another question. But I 199 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 5: think if you go to a wedding, you should at 200 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:54,120 Speaker 5: least cover the cost of you. 201 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:57,920 Speaker 4: Also, why is there not a groom shower? Don't you 202 00:08:57,920 --> 00:09:00,160 Speaker 4: think it's a little uh. 203 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:03,320 Speaker 3: Well, there is a groom shoot most of our days. 204 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 3: All right, Rebecca, you're the best. I'll talk to you later. 205 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:10,839 Speaker 3: And how about this the last question? Just something to 206 00:09:10,920 --> 00:09:12,599 Speaker 3: chew on and maybe we talk about this at a 207 00:09:12,679 --> 00:09:17,959 Speaker 3: later date. Yeah, chew on this. We're not doing kids 208 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:22,000 Speaker 3: at the wedding because why would we do that? Yeah, 209 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:25,080 Speaker 3: do they have to give me a gift? If they're 210 00:09:25,400 --> 00:09:30,319 Speaker 3: they have to pay for childcare that night? Like I said, chew. 211 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 5: On that. 212 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:36,200 Speaker 4: FLC. 213 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:38,360 Speaker 3: This is the Joe Show.