WEBVTT - The Date That Changed Everything 

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<v Speaker 1>All right, it's Mojo in the Morning show. This is

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<v Speaker 1>going to be an interesting week or it has been

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<v Speaker 1>an interesting week. And it's wild because is there a

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<v Speaker 1>date that kind of changed everything for you? And do

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<v Speaker 1>people observe bad anniversaries like they observe good anniversaries? And

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean by that is a year ago this week.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually it's a year ago. I think it was yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to figure the days out because we talked

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<v Speaker 1>about it yesterday on our podcast, Chelsea and I did.

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<v Speaker 1>Was when Chelsea found out she had cancer. So it

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<v Speaker 1>has been a year, believe it or not, since Chelsea

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<v Speaker 1>was diagnosed and they told her that she had had

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<v Speaker 1>cancer and was going to have to have surgery. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's wild because we had a conversation about this on

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<v Speaker 1>our We Don't podcast, which will be out today, and

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<v Speaker 1>the conversation really got real because just before we taped

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast, Chelsea had talked about how she was having

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<v Speaker 1>some kind of feelings about how things have been and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, what the last year has been like, and

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<v Speaker 1>just to kind of give you what it's like, she

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<v Speaker 1>has to go every sometimes thirty days to ninety days,

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<v Speaker 1>depending on what the test is and get tested for

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<v Speaker 1>the rest of her life because the form of ovarian

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<v Speaker 1>cancer that she had more than likely will come back,

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll come back somewhere else. So it's not a

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<v Speaker 1>matter of if, but it will be when, and so

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<v Speaker 1>she's got to stay on top of that. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of changed her. You know, now we're just scary

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<v Speaker 1>seeing doctors a bunch of Yeah. But it was wild

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<v Speaker 1>though that a year at this time that that was

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<v Speaker 1>the case. Here's where it got really interesting. Luke said

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<v Speaker 1>to us, he's our youngest, our baby son. He said

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<v Speaker 1>to us, he goes, yeah, I remember you told me

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<v Speaker 1>on August the seventh. He remembered the actual date that

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<v Speaker 1>Chelsea had reached out to him, and specifically she told

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<v Speaker 1>the boys on that day that it was cancer. I

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<v Speaker 1>wonder sometimes, like do you do you look at those

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<v Speaker 1>dates as you know, because I know that people go

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<v Speaker 1>through bad stuff sometimes you know, it's not health related,

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<v Speaker 1>it's you know, we just talked about divorce and stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>or you go, you lost a job a year ago,

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<v Speaker 1>that you lost a job the day.

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<v Speaker 2>Addicts got clean is a good one.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like, yeah, like that's that to me is

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<v Speaker 1>like a good celebration. Definitely should celebrate that.

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<v Speaker 3>You want to know, it's a weird one for me,

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<v Speaker 3>and like I couldn't. I couldn't even tell you, like

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<v Speaker 3>what the day was that my divorce was finalized or

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<v Speaker 3>anything like that. I was supposed to get married, Thank

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<v Speaker 3>God I didn't. Like this was years and years and

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<v Speaker 3>years and years and years and years years ago when

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<v Speaker 3>I first rained the show, and that day to me

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<v Speaker 3>is like a really and I am so darn happy,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I have no feelings about that whatsoever.

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<v Speaker 2>But for some reason, all.

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<v Speaker 3>Just twenty second it's still like I wake up at

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<v Speaker 3>that morning, I'm like, Oh, it's just a really weird.

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<v Speaker 3>Why that date sticks.

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<v Speaker 4>Out to me?

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<v Speaker 2>I have no idea, Yeah, it's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean listen, I mean that that is you know,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a date that was a monumental.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe because we turned it into an I don't party, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and had shirts made and stuff with that date.

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<v Speaker 2>That that's why it sticks out. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>But June twenty seven, two thousand, he's gonna come up

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<v Speaker 5>with twenty five. I lost my best eater, Oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 5>who I'm not going to say her name? Oh speaking

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<v Speaker 5>what I was like trying to figure out twenty twenty five.

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<v Speaker 4>I was the last day, Oh God, topics over RP.

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<v Speaker 4>So if you if you get a chance, because I.

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<v Speaker 2>Feel like I'm being naive right now this is a

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<v Speaker 2>sexual reference.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, I thought that's what it was.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just thank you Anna for the handmotion.

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<v Speaker 1>It to go back to this moment that Chelse and

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<v Speaker 1>I were having this conversation in the podcast, and one

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<v Speaker 1>of the things that she had said was she actually

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<v Speaker 1>brought up three things I really didn't even realize over

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<v Speaker 1>the last year that she's kind of dealt with because

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<v Speaker 1>I will say this to you, you don't realize what

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<v Speaker 1>things are like until you realize that those things potentially

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<v Speaker 1>aren't going to be there anymore. Like it's one of

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<v Speaker 1>those things where you just take things for granted. You

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<v Speaker 1>take everything for granted, you take your health for granted.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was it was wild to hear her talking

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<v Speaker 1>and telling me about what she felt were like the

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<v Speaker 1>three worst days that she had over the last year,

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<v Speaker 1>because honestly, I didn't know she actually was going through

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<v Speaker 1>those days, but it was. It was pretty interesting. But

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, So listen, do I buy her gift?

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<v Speaker 1>Do I get her or something? Here now, do I, you.

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<v Speaker 5>Know, take her somewhere and spend some time with Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>don't buy or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't buy.

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<v Speaker 5>That's that's what could have potentially been. The thing that

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<v Speaker 5>she lost was the time you all shared together things,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, how to win a different direction. It definitely

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<v Speaker 5>would be counting.

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<v Speaker 1>It definitely has made I think our family like appreciate

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<v Speaker 1>the time that we have together, especially the boys like

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<v Speaker 1>Luke spent the whole day yesterday with us, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it was kind of it was it was nice to

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<v Speaker 1>be able to have him and get you know, his

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<v Speaker 1>undivided attention kind of you know, talking about life and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>So what's going on? Hey Tony, how it's Mojo? What's happening?

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<v Speaker 4>I just wanted to tell KF. Well, he definitely knows

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<v Speaker 4>how to get around. I'm gonna dump that.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we'll go my way around.

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<v Speaker 4>Now, do you.

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<v Speaker 1>This guy?

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<v Speaker 5>I lose yours?

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<v Speaker 2>You still got her.

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<v Speaker 5>I still got her.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe she's the same one, you know, but it up

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<v Speaker 2>maybe you guys, it's unreal.

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<v Speaker 3>This is supposed to be a nice.

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<v Speaker 1>No it's not.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not.

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<v Speaker 5>No, it's now I'm just getting calls of yeah, thanks,

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<v Speaker 5>Vin appreciate it through buddle, through

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<v Speaker 1>No derail, derail