1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,320 Speaker 1: Variety from the two thousands, the nineties and today it's 2 00:00:02,440 --> 00:00:03,480 Speaker 1: Star one O one three. 3 00:00:03,800 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 2: It's Marcus. It's Friday, good morning. We're doing second date 4 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 2: date on y'all know how we do it? I forgot 5 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:13,160 Speaker 2: to do so there's a gentleman holding his name also Marcus. 6 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 2: I'm going to try not to confuse myself right now. 7 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:16,120 Speaker 2: It's going to be touching. 8 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 1: Go Marcus, are you there? 9 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm here. 10 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 1: So let me explain second date up there real quick 11 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:22,440 Speaker 1: before we start. So Marcus went on a date with 12 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 1: a lady named Jade. You DM me because she has 13 00:00:24,720 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 1: ghosted and the date sounds pretty cool. What we'll do 14 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 1: eventually is call Jade and have Marcus on the line, 15 00:00:30,080 --> 00:00:32,159 Speaker 1: have him listen in and try to figure out if 16 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:34,960 Speaker 1: he did something wrong or if she's just been busy, 17 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 1: or if there was some sort of miscommunication that has 18 00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:38,879 Speaker 1: caused him to ghost her. 19 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 3: So are you ready? Yeah? 20 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:43,240 Speaker 1: So let's lay it out, like how did you guys meet? 21 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:45,519 Speaker 1: And then what how did how was the date? Like 22 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 1: what happened? 23 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:49,839 Speaker 3: So you know, I was doing an online thing founder 24 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:51,920 Speaker 3: on one of the little dating apps. We're out in 25 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 3: Salmontaylo area, and like after you're outlet say, let's let's 26 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 3: go to bars some drinks. You know, maybe eat a 27 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 3: little appetizer or something. Keep it light, keep it super light. 28 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 3: I don't want to go all out, you know. I 29 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:08,959 Speaker 3: just gradually worked my way into it. Who have a fun? 30 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:11,759 Speaker 3: You know, everything was like cool with drink. Some pool 31 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 3: were laughing. She's banning her eyes at me. You know, 32 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:18,119 Speaker 3: we shared some fries. I felt like we were really quickened. Okay, 33 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:20,120 Speaker 3: you know, I don't know if I farted. I don't 34 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:22,960 Speaker 3: know what happened, but I just know that she ghosted 35 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 3: in the wind like a fart. 36 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:26,240 Speaker 1: I love the metaphor. I'll tell you what. We're going 37 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 1: to regroup for a song and then we will give 38 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:30,399 Speaker 1: her a shout, and like I said, we'll see what's up. 39 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 1: Hopefully we can get you a second date. Can you 40 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 1: hang on the line. Yeah, Well, variety from the two thousands, 41 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:37,959 Speaker 1: the nineties, and today star one on one three. It 42 00:01:38,080 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 1: is Marcus and we're in the middle of second date update. 43 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 1: I think this is the first time in the ten 44 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 1: year history of second eight update we have somebody named 45 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 1: Marcus who is called in about his date. So, as 46 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 1: I said about ten minutes ago, I'm going try not 47 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 1: to confuse myself. Marcus. Are you ready to call Jade? 48 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, let's do it. 49 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 1: Okay, So we're gonna try to figure out why she ghosted. 50 00:01:57,440 --> 00:01:59,560 Speaker 1: Go ahead and meet your phone. I'll see what she 51 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 1: says about your date. Here we go, Hello, I might 52 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 1: speak to Jade. Please speaking Hi, Jade, this is Marcus. 53 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 1: I do a radio morning show for iHeartRadio out of 54 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 1: San Francisco on Star one O one three. I don't 55 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:27,919 Speaker 1: suppose you listen to you. I've heard you before, Okay. 56 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:31,400 Speaker 1: I appreciate that pretty name, by the way. First of all, sidebar. 57 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:34,240 Speaker 1: Second of all, So we're wondering if you might go 58 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 1: on the air with me real quick. I would love 59 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:39,520 Speaker 1: to talk to you about a date you've been on recently. 60 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 1: We're doing second Date Update. 61 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:44,640 Speaker 4: Oh gosh, okay. 62 00:02:43,320 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 1: Have you heard second Date Update? 63 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:47,120 Speaker 3: I've heard it before. 64 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 1: Okay, but well, here we are. Do you want me 65 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:56,240 Speaker 1: to bring Marcus on now or later? 66 00:02:57,400 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 4: Oh it's Marcus. Okay, it's up to you. 67 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 1: Okay, fine, Marcus. 68 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 3: Either Yeah, I'm here, Okay. 69 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: I mean, listen, we're all adults, so let's try to 70 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:16,040 Speaker 1: figure this out. Jade, Marcus. Okay, we can do that. 71 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:22,799 Speaker 4: Too, right into it. Okay, I think you're a nice guy, Marcus. 72 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:26,799 Speaker 4: I really do like I like you. It was just 73 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:30,360 Speaker 4: a few things that kind of were I'm not gonna 74 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:32,239 Speaker 4: say red flags, but just kind of this is a 75 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 4: little weird, a little weird, okay, just progressively got more 76 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 4: weird as it went on. 77 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 1: What happened? 78 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 4: Okay, Well, first of all, we went out for drinks, 79 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 4: and every time we sipped he would say cheers to us, 80 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 4: and I just was like, this is our first day, 81 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 4: you know. I mean maybe it was like a quirky thing, 82 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 4: and that's fine that you do that, but I just 83 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 4: I don't know. It was little little odds after a drink, 84 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 4: the cheers to us, after every sup. It just was 85 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 4: kind of that part was just a little positive. That's fine. 86 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 3: I could have got over that part, right, Marcus. 87 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:17,920 Speaker 4: Well Radio Marcus, Okay, So I could have got over 88 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 4: that part, no problem. I could have got over that part. 89 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:22,080 Speaker 1: Were you still into it at that point? Like you 90 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:24,359 Speaker 1: hadn't ridden him off yet? Had you not all the 91 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 1: way off? 92 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 4: You know, I understand, you know with online you never 93 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 4: know what you're gonna get. The problem really is that 94 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 4: at that point it just got stupid, Like I just 95 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:36,279 Speaker 4: was like, Okay, what are we doing here? What do 96 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 4: you personally feel like? He told me that he was 97 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 4: technically between leases, which to me is like borderline homeless. 98 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 4: I just didn't know I was signing up for dating 99 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:49,600 Speaker 4: a hobosexual, which that's fine where he's at. 100 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:50,960 Speaker 3: What now, a. 101 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:53,479 Speaker 4: Hobosexual? 102 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:54,279 Speaker 1: What does that mean? 103 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:58,040 Speaker 4: I mean, if you just break it down, he's just 104 00:04:58,200 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 4: trying to get some I don't know if he's trying 105 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:02,000 Speaker 4: to find some place to live. I wasn't trying to 106 00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 4: be that lady. 107 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 3: Okay, I don't get it. That hobo sexual. 108 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 4: Basically means that he told me admitted to me, which 109 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 4: I don't respect. That he's been crashing in his ex 110 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:13,560 Speaker 4: girlfriend's spare bedroom because he doesn't have a place to go. 111 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 4: And I just am not trying to date somebody to 112 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:18,960 Speaker 4: be the next place that he has to go. Like, No, 113 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:20,800 Speaker 4: I didn't want to do that. That was too much 114 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:21,039 Speaker 4: for me. 115 00:05:21,240 --> 00:05:23,279 Speaker 3: Got it, South, Clint, Get in my own place. 116 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 1: How come you don't have your own place, Marcus, It's weird. 117 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:26,719 Speaker 4: You know. 118 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 3: I had a little situation. She needed help for me, 119 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:32,160 Speaker 3: so I was trying to help out. But the same time, 120 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:35,840 Speaker 3: like I'm trying to get my credit rate and the 121 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 3: pocket is a little tight because I'm in between jobs too, 122 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 3: So I'm in between jobs and in between leases. Wow, 123 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:46,599 Speaker 3: so I'm just in between uh huh. But yeah, look 124 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 3: it's on the horizon. 125 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:52,240 Speaker 4: That's fine. I respect that, but also like, I'm not 126 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:54,360 Speaker 4: trying to be in a relationship with somebody that is 127 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:57,160 Speaker 4: not established, Like you should probably focus on your stuff 128 00:05:57,200 --> 00:05:58,159 Speaker 4: and not trying to date me. 129 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 1: I could do both, Okay, not with me, all right, Okay, 130 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:03,840 Speaker 1: if you. 131 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:06,359 Speaker 3: Ever came over to the spare room, it's totally fun. 132 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:10,440 Speaker 4: I'm not okay with that. That's actually really weird. And no, 133 00:06:10,839 --> 00:06:11,920 Speaker 4: I'm not that type of girl. 134 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:15,360 Speaker 1: Sorry, fair enough, hang on, there was a lot of 135 00:06:16,520 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 1: a lot of loose ends. Second date updates seven oh 136 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 1: five weekday mornings.