1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: Welcome to another episode of I Tell You What. Who's 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:06,480 Speaker 1: this person that's dated for four months and no smoochy swich? 3 00:00:06,519 --> 00:00:09,320 Speaker 2: I guess somebody complaining online about the fact that they've 4 00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:12,000 Speaker 2: been dating somebody for four months and they're just not 5 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 2: getting the vibe that they want to kiss. So they 6 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:17,479 Speaker 2: haven't kissed yet, and she's wondering, what do I do? 7 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:19,800 Speaker 2: Is this normal? Are they not really into me? She 8 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:22,400 Speaker 2: feels like everything's going pretty well. They seem to vibe 9 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:25,599 Speaker 2: well and get along well, but they just haven't kissed yet, 10 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 2: and so she's wondering what's normal these days? Do you 11 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 2: kiss someone on the first date, the second date when 12 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 2: you get married, which obviously is not as common. Generally 13 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 2: people kiss before then, but some people do wait until 14 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 2: their wedding day to kiss, and so. 15 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:41,559 Speaker 3: Wild that still happened? 16 00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 2: You always not often, but you see stuff pop up 17 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 2: I feel like online where you see articles, Yeah, because 18 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:50,280 Speaker 2: it's so uncommon. 19 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 3: They waited until their wedding. 20 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 2: Yes, so I'm just curious what you guys did, and 21 00:00:55,960 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 2: then also what other people have done. So you just 22 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 2: talk back on the iHeart radioplo us. No, when do 23 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:02,280 Speaker 2: you kiss someone for the first time? 24 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:04,480 Speaker 1: I think that the longer you wait, the better. I 25 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:06,760 Speaker 1: waited a while. I came out of a relationship and 26 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:08,959 Speaker 1: I was laying the kabashtan on relationships. So I'm like, 27 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:11,199 Speaker 1: I'm not going to kiss anybody have a relationship until 28 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 1: the beginning of the year, and it was like July 29 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:16,200 Speaker 1: or something, and then stuff came into my life, but 30 00:01:16,240 --> 00:01:19,400 Speaker 1: it still took weeks, if not months. I would get 31 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 1: that corroborated here in a second. What about you Doves? 32 00:01:22,200 --> 00:01:23,920 Speaker 1: I went quick. I went after the first date. 33 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:26,160 Speaker 2: After the first date, so like, were you still on 34 00:01:26,240 --> 00:01:26,800 Speaker 2: the first date? 35 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:29,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah. It was like yeah, yeah, she was 36 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 3: going home and we're buy her car and laid a 37 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:34,959 Speaker 3: big old smooth job. Okay, did you wake up next door? 38 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 4: No? 39 00:01:36,200 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 2: I went home next thing to think about it, though, 40 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:41,039 Speaker 2: what about you? So Hathorne and I kiss after our 41 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 2: second date, and honestly, it probably would have gone on 42 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 2: longer than that, because for me, I'm kind of shy 43 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 2: about that stuff. Honestly, I know I sound like some 44 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 2: kind of weirdo that would not be shy about that, 45 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 2: but I am. And so I did not give him 46 00:01:54,640 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 2: like kiss me vibes for the first date and then 47 00:01:58,200 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 2: so we hugged on the first date. 48 00:01:59,280 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 3: That's it. 49 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 1: I wonder if my wife remembers all this the same 50 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 1: way that I do. I mean, it was a while, 51 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 1: you guys, win a long time we did. We did 52 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 1: a long time. Yeah, we waited a long time. I 53 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:13,440 Speaker 1: think because I told you yes, she said, you know, 54 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 1: thank you she is and I didn't want to screw 55 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 1: this one up like all everything else, I do, you know? 56 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 3: So why not? 57 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:24,640 Speaker 1: Well, we're waiting for Kimille Newman to call us up 58 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 1: at eight six six win Cable two. You're on the 59 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 1: clock for a minute to win it. 60 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 2: Wife, Yeah, let's do it. 61 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:30,960 Speaker 1: She remembers it the same way I want to if 62 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:32,640 Speaker 1: she I know where we first kissed. I wonder if 63 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:38,080 Speaker 1: she remembers were we first kissed? Hi, steph h Hey, 64 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:40,520 Speaker 1: do you remember how long it took like weeks if 65 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 1: not months, for me to kiss you or you to 66 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 1: kiss me? 67 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 3: If you recall correct? Yeah? 68 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 4: Correct? 69 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 1: And do you remember where I first kissed you? Well, 70 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 1: that was the first kind of un official kiss. 71 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 3: That was a peck. 72 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 1: That was Adam Wes's wedding. But after that, though, when 73 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 1: I when I reassembled and we actually had a first 74 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:05,120 Speaker 1: real kiss, Yeah, why the background went as I came 75 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 1: over to help you because your car went out. 76 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 4: You didn't have a flashlight. Go and find where the 77 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 4: breaker box was. 78 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 3: Truth. Now, do you remember anything said that night upon 79 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 3: kissing you? 80 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 5: You mean, other than that I looked at like your 81 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 5: brother in the moonlight. 82 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 3: I just wonder if remembering things right. 83 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 1: Thank you? 84 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:22,519 Speaker 3: I love you. 85 00:03:24,160 --> 00:03:24,919 Speaker 5: I love you too. 86 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:26,520 Speaker 3: Here we are years later. 87 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 2: It all work so great. 88 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. Absolutely, keep me on my toes. I love you. 89 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 3: I love you. 90 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 1: You have a great favoritebody. Yeah, Steve, I mean Steph, 91 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 1: I love you. 92 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 2: Now tell her that she looked like your brother. 93 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 3: Steve's my brother. I don't know. 94 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 1: She had this litch. She was smiling like my brother. 95 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 1: I kiss her. I'm like, you can't remind me of 96 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 1: my brother. It was really weird. I don't know why 97 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 1: it just happened. 98 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 2: Did you say that before or after you laid your 99 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 2: lips upon her lips? 100 00:03:57,520 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 3: I want not make this too graphic. It was after. 101 00:03:59,760 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 3: It was after, Yeah, because I was nervous so you 102 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 3: would be good before she was gonna go. 103 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:08,360 Speaker 2: Listen, let's break this down. Okay, So the skin of 104 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 2: your lip, we have to go talk to the skin 105 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 2: of her lips, and this is this beautiful moment. You're 106 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 2: kissing your. 107 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 1: Feet under the moonlight, under the moonlight, It's like, beautiful. 108 00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:18,200 Speaker 1: She came to She came to help me because I 109 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:20,360 Speaker 1: didn't know where the breaker box was. I never knew 110 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 1: where it was, and you was in d y guy 111 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 1: at the time, and I couldn't find it. I had 112 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 1: no flashlight. 113 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 2: And you've been connecting with her over the last several months, 114 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:28,479 Speaker 2: and you're like, I think. 115 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:30,719 Speaker 3: She's the one, and so beautiful came over and saved me. 116 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:33,280 Speaker 2: And then the first thing that you said to her 117 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 2: is that she looked like your brother. 118 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:36,040 Speaker 3: No, the first thing I said to her was high, 119 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:37,040 Speaker 3: my name's Chris. 120 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:39,160 Speaker 1: Too. 121 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 3: Really well, yeah, you mean after the kiss? 122 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 2: Why do you know? Yes? 123 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 5: Kiss? 124 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:44,840 Speaker 3: Yes? 125 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:46,480 Speaker 2: The first thing you said after you. 126 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:48,600 Speaker 1: After the kiss, Yeah, I said, I said, you kind 127 00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 1: of remind me of my brother. And she just kind 128 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:52,880 Speaker 1: of looked back and had a weird look like you 129 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:54,520 Speaker 1: just kind of looked like Steve a little day. 130 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:54,839 Speaker 5: Dude. 131 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 2: She's been putting up so much since the beginning. 132 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 3: Together because of honesty. Okay, you honestly out to hear too. 133 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:08,279 Speaker 2: I don't know what the deal with the world yeah, 134 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:09,160 Speaker 2: this just makes it worse. 135 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 1: I should get out of this bit before he getting still, 136 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:13,159 Speaker 1: before you're on the couch till bag. 137 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, she never does that. She knows me. We have 138 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:19,960 Speaker 3: a really we have a wonderful relationship. 139 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:22,560 Speaker 2: Of course you do. Yes, Yes, I just think it's 140 00:05:22,600 --> 00:05:24,600 Speaker 2: so funny that that's the first thing that you said. 141 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 3: I don't know why I said I get nervous. 142 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:26,280 Speaker 4: I do. 143 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 1: I have no idea why I say weird things. Sometimes 144 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:32,039 Speaker 1: you've known me, right, you can totally see that, right. 145 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:33,040 Speaker 1: What do I call you? 146 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:33,840 Speaker 3: Sometimes? 147 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:35,400 Speaker 2: What are you an orange? 148 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:35,719 Speaker 3: Yes? 149 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:37,880 Speaker 1: Sometimes you look at you and you look like an onion. 150 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:39,279 Speaker 1: So I look at you and I point at you, 151 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 1: and what do I say? 152 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:40,680 Speaker 2: Onion? 153 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:41,040 Speaker 3: Onion? 154 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:43,920 Speaker 2: He's just randomly middle of nothing. He'll just say onion. 155 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:45,920 Speaker 3: Yeah. Sometimes she has her hair up and she looks 156 00:05:45,920 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 3: like an onion. Onion. Here, hold on, let me point 157 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:52,839 Speaker 3: a dusk meatball. I'll take you. 158 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:55,600 Speaker 1: That kind of looks like a meatball. Meatball over there, 159 00:05:55,880 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 1: I'll take it. You do want to say about me. 160 00:05:58,800 --> 00:05:59,159 Speaker 2: I don't know. 161 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 1: You just look like a little scruff, a scruff scrub. No, 162 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:05,479 Speaker 1: I like this sponge sitting next to the sink. 163 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:10,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's been sitting there for like six months. Yeah, 164 00:06:10,400 --> 00:06:12,160 Speaker 2: the scrub daddy, that's just whittled down. 165 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:17,719 Speaker 3: Who's your scrub daddy? No? 166 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 2: No, no, no no. 167 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 3: Talk back in the Iheat radio. 168 00:06:19,960 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 4: App So to talk about the kissing. My husband and 169 00:06:24,120 --> 00:06:28,839 Speaker 4: I didn't kiss until after six months, but that's also 170 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 4: because he went off to basic training. We started dating, 171 00:06:32,279 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 4: he disappeared. We didn't talk but by letter for about 172 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 4: six months, and then we had our first kiss when 173 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:38,360 Speaker 4: I met him. 174 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:40,839 Speaker 1: I'm wondering if she was dialing in from the space station, 175 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:43,600 Speaker 1: would an airplane that sounded kind of like it. 176 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 3: Here's another Hey, good morning guys. And to answer your question, 177 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:49,680 Speaker 3: I think you. 178 00:06:49,839 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 5: I think it's perfectly fine to kiss someone on the 179 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:52,719 Speaker 5: first date. 180 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 3: You know, you gotta test drive the car before you 181 00:06:54,960 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 3: buy it. All right, have a good day. Came I 182 00:06:57,320 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 3: choose My country. 183 00:06:58,680 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 2: Says that all the time. Yes, because women love being 184 00:07:02,440 --> 00:07:03,839 Speaker 2: referred to as cars dumbs. 185 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 1: How many old dodges did you go through before you 186 00:07:07,040 --> 00:07:08,640 Speaker 1: finally met the rolls Royce? 187 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 3: It's like a car? How many? How many ten toes? 188 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:11,560 Speaker 1: Was that? 189 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 3: His name was? 190 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 2: Like a used car dealership? 191 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 3: Yeah? 192 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:19,360 Speaker 2: You how do you find so many women willing. 193 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:23,320 Speaker 3: By the way, I'm shaken shook his head. Maybe no, 194 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:23,920 Speaker 3: they were. 195 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 1: Not start No, no, no, no, no, I'm shocked that 196 00:07:29,440 --> 00:07:30,240 Speaker 1: was coming out of my mouth. 197 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:31,560 Speaker 3: Sometimes I forget the MIC's on. 198 00:07:31,960 --> 00:07:35,520 Speaker 5: Lauren, been married about coming up on five years, been 199 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:40,240 Speaker 5: gathered ten plus first date. Yes, wee kissed. However it 200 00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:43,240 Speaker 5: was supposed to be a one night stand until ultimately 201 00:07:43,360 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 5: later in the evening I told my wife, no, if 202 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:49,360 Speaker 5: you want to continue this, I'd like to get to 203 00:07:49,840 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 5: know each other more. Have a good day. 204 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 3: Wow, it's a good guy right there. 205 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:56,720 Speaker 2: Oh wow, man, morals either that? 206 00:07:57,960 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 3: Either that or whiskey. 207 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 6: Bit kiss my fiance on her first day. Don't buy 208 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:08,120 Speaker 6: used car, that's your test driving? 209 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:09,280 Speaker 3: Another one? Another one. 210 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:10,400 Speaker 2: I don't say that. 211 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 6: But see it's got a little do with have confident 212 00:08:15,080 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 6: yearing yourself too. Our first one is on our first 213 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:22,120 Speaker 6: date and we've been together for thirty years after we 214 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 6: got engaged two months after, so must have been a 215 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 6: fair kiss. 216 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:26,680 Speaker 5: Man. 217 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was gonna say, dude, you must be a dynamoe. 218 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 2: That's awesome. Good for you, dude. 219 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:33,079 Speaker 3: Let's take one more. 220 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 6: Did Sam just say she kissed her cousin on the 221 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:37,440 Speaker 6: on the second date. 222 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 1: What hey, Okay, Yeah, there's some context to that, because 223 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:43,600 Speaker 1: this guy listens way more than many. 224 00:08:43,679 --> 00:08:46,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a deep cut. Yeah, because Hawthorne and I 225 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:49,560 Speaker 2: are moms. Both have the same maiden name, and it 226 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 2: is not a common name. 227 00:08:50,920 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 3: It's not a Johnson Eric no. 228 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 2: And we found out about this on the first date. 229 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:57,440 Speaker 2: So here's me right after that doing a deep dive 230 00:08:57,559 --> 00:09:00,440 Speaker 2: on ancestry dot com to see if there's any kind 231 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:01,959 Speaker 2: of relation, which there's not that. 232 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:02,679 Speaker 3: I can know. 233 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:05,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, that you can find and it's far enough fact 234 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:06,920 Speaker 2: that it's not a thing. 235 00:09:07,640 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 3: Did you try ancestry dot com? 236 00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:12,240 Speaker 2: I did. I did not, but I refuse to do 237 00:09:12,280 --> 00:09:13,480 Speaker 2: the DNA test just in case. 238 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 3: Did you do twenty three? And me and him twenty three? 239 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 3: And we twenty three? And weik that's better. 240 00:09:21,040 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 1: Well, thanks for listening to this episode of I Tell 241 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:26,040 Speaker 1: You What, or you'll find more on the iHeartRadio app 242 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:27,199 Speaker 1: and anywhere you get your podcast. 243 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 3: Please rate, review, subscribe, download chair and like. Thank you.