WEBVTT - They Want Anna to Join an Open Relationship

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<v Speaker 1>It's Mojo. In the morning, we're gonna talk about Anna

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<v Speaker 1>and meeting somebody that wanted you to be part of

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<v Speaker 1>what an open relationship? Is that right? I think? How

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<v Speaker 1>did this come about?

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<v Speaker 2>I was outside this weekend and on Friday I met

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<v Speaker 2>a man organically.

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<v Speaker 1>We were out at a bar.

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<v Speaker 2>Like it wasn't someone sliding into my DMS. This was

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<v Speaker 2>like real life, and we kind of hit it off,

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<v Speaker 2>like we were talking all night.

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<v Speaker 1>I liked him a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>He was very cute, successful, and we exchanged numbers. And

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<v Speaker 2>then Saturday afternoon we were talking on the phone and

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<v Speaker 2>he says, all right, like before I officially take you

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<v Speaker 2>out on a date, like I have to tell you something.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, oh gosh, here it comes. And he tells

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<v Speaker 2>me that he is in an open relationship and he

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<v Speaker 2>has a partner, a female and a daughter with her,

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<v Speaker 2>and he just wanted to make sure I was okay

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<v Speaker 2>with that, which I'm not okay with. But I did

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<v Speaker 2>some digging because I was like, this is interesting to me,

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<v Speaker 2>like I don't hear about these things a lot. And

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<v Speaker 2>I find out that this is more of like a

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<v Speaker 2>Nick Cannon situation where she does not his partner does

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<v Speaker 2>not date anyone else, but he is allowed to date

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<v Speaker 2>and uh, you know, go out with other women. And

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<v Speaker 2>she's fine with it, Like he was telling me, if

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<v Speaker 2>it will.

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<v Speaker 1>Is she really? He said, so that's.

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<v Speaker 2>What I said. I was like, there's no way she's

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<v Speaker 2>cool with it, and he said that listen, like we

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<v Speaker 2>can all three go out if you want to meet her.

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<v Speaker 2>You can go out and get coffee with her, Like

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<v Speaker 2>she is totally okay with this, and I would love

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<v Speaker 2>for you to meet her.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta do it. No, you gotta do it just

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you exactly, just to get her perspective.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to set up for the coffee.

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<v Speaker 2>She's already not interested, Like I not do it because

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<v Speaker 2>she's interested.

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<v Speaker 1>Do it? You can sit out and talk to this

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<v Speaker 1>a woman and understand.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And then he told me all about her, like

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<v Speaker 2>this woman seems like a badass, like also super successful,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm just like, why is she okay with this?

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<v Speaker 2>And he's like, she she's comfortable with me providing for

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<v Speaker 2>her and like we love each other, but I just

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<v Speaker 2>know that I need more than one person. And he's like,

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<v Speaker 2>she's even open to me having children with other women.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, Okay, I know this. I mean, I know it's

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<v Speaker 1>a thing. We've talked about it before. I always have

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<v Speaker 1>heard people in those kind of relationships it's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like we can bring them in, but they've got to

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<v Speaker 1>bring him into the relationship for each other. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I've also heard people that say the like the whole

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<v Speaker 1>Nick Cannon thing where you have multiple kids with multiple people.

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<v Speaker 1>I've not heard many women that would put up with that.

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<v Speaker 1>Is I once it comes, once it goes to financial

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<v Speaker 1>potentially me you supporting a child that's not your child.

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<v Speaker 1>I would think that most women would say quality time.

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<v Speaker 1>You think your kid's not going to get the attention that.

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<v Speaker 2>They deserve well, and you exactly like I That's what

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<v Speaker 2>I told him. I just know that I need all

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<v Speaker 2>the at I want to be the priority and like

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<v Speaker 2>our family. But he's still very persistent. Even after I

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<v Speaker 2>told him like I don't think I could do that,

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<v Speaker 2>He's like, Okay, do you mind if we just like

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<v Speaker 2>talk and build a friendship and see where it goes.

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder if there's two things I have on this one.

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<v Speaker 1>Number one, is this really his setup or is he

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<v Speaker 1>a married guy flirting with a girl at a bar

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<v Speaker 1>saying if you look me on social media, you might

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<v Speaker 1>see another person. I'm gonna try to explain that he

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<v Speaker 1>wants them to talk. Well, let's truly see if he

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<v Speaker 1>really wants them to talk. If you say, yeah, let's

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<v Speaker 1>talk to her, call her right now. The second thing

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<v Speaker 1>is what kind of self esteem does a woman have

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<v Speaker 1>knowing that she is not the one, she's one of the.

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<v Speaker 2>Ones because she's fine with it, Like you, can.

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<v Speaker 1>You think that's a high self esteem or low self

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<v Speaker 1>confident woman, or like you should go ahead. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's somebody that's I don't know. I would I would

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<v Speaker 1>say the opposite. Okay, interesting, but let's talk to her.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's call he got his number, let's call him up.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd love to have these people call up. I think

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<v Speaker 1>you got to go to lunchto or coffee or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>I am just interested in the dynamic, Like this is

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<v Speaker 2>very interesting to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Read of meataglasses. Yeah, hey, Derek.

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<v Speaker 3>Was doing this because he was actually trying to get Derek.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me let me first intro you. Let me let

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<v Speaker 1>me first say hello to you. Derek. What's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>What's your comments on this?

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<v Speaker 3>So my comment on that is like, honestly, like I

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<v Speaker 3>was approaching stuff like that in Houston. And it was

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<v Speaker 3>really weird because what it was an older man came

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<v Speaker 3>to me in a bar and pointed out a younger

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<v Speaker 3>female like she was like really his younger and then

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<v Speaker 3>he was trying to get me to go out with her.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I found out they were married. So wait,

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<v Speaker 1>the guy came to you Like that would weird me

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<v Speaker 1>out if all of a sudden some guy comes to me.

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<v Speaker 1>I guarantee he has a chair.

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<v Speaker 3>He just started like talking about this chicken like in

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<v Speaker 3>the corner like that, Like I'm new to Houston. I

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<v Speaker 3>was like twenty four to twenty five years old. I was, ayah,

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<v Speaker 3>she's gorgeous. I'm down there. I'm seeing one in big

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<v Speaker 3>city and everything like that, and like he just kept

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<v Speaker 3>on talking about that check and I was like, man,

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, yeah, there's more girls like this, Rodney,

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<v Speaker 3>I might have a fun time in Houston, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>And he goes, well, that's actually wife and you know

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<v Speaker 3>she's actually looking to go out on a date with

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<v Speaker 3>you and everything like that cause she saw you walk in.

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<v Speaker 1>Man. Oh man, that's what happened. I'd get nerve, I'd

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<v Speaker 1>get booby stomach.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought I thought it was a joke. At first,

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<v Speaker 3>I thought, oh damn, I walked into a swinger bar

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<v Speaker 3>or something like that, because I, like, you know, New

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<v Speaker 3>Big City.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know.

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<v Speaker 3>And uh, at first I was like kind of weird

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<v Speaker 3>it out. But I actually did go on the date

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<v Speaker 3>with her. Wow, and uh, actually really cool, really great.

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<v Speaker 3>But at that time of my life I was wanting more,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I wanted to have like a wife and kids.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never been buried.

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted the white and kids like that. After I

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<v Speaker 3>went on a date with her, I said, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>this is really cool and all that stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, but I don't think I could do

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<v Speaker 1>it either. So you went on a date with her? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I did. Wow. How far did he get? Did leave

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<v Speaker 1>with each other?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Did he check in during the date, like while you

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<v Speaker 1>guys were together.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, he might have checked in with her because like

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<v Speaker 3>she would looking at her bone and here and there

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<v Speaker 3>and stuff like that. Boy he was he was an

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<v Speaker 3>older guy and she.

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<v Speaker 1>Was a younger woman.

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<v Speaker 3>And then what it was that I guess he couldn't

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<v Speaker 3>provide for her in some ways that he wanted.

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<v Speaker 1>What way are we talking? Yes, listen, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>I provide in ways like that for Chelsea. But I

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<v Speaker 1>let me some other dude go in there. That's craziness,

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<v Speaker 1>what a what a story, Derek weird it now?

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<v Speaker 3>And I ended up leaving the lower But I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Could you imagine this at time? Oh my god, Joe's

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<v Speaker 1>in an open relationship? Are you a male or female? Joe?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm female and very queer.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, so Joe, you open your How open are

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<v Speaker 1>you and your relationship?

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<v Speaker 4>So I'm in a committed relationship. I have a fiance.

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<v Speaker 4>We each have two biological children. We have lived together

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<v Speaker 4>for a couple of years, raising our family together, and

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<v Speaker 4>we have an open relationship and we give each other.

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<v Speaker 5>Freedom to to go and to do those things.

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<v Speaker 4>And you know, it's not it's not a self esteem issue.

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<v Speaker 4>If anything, it's it's really more of I respect myself

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<v Speaker 4>and yourself so much to go out and have your

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<v Speaker 4>own freedom, and we trust communication and honesty. And you know,

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<v Speaker 4>you can have a love of your life, but you

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<v Speaker 4>might have more than one, or you might just have fun.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's nice to how many people can you actually love?

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<v Speaker 1>I want to know, Joe.

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<v Speaker 4>I think that it could be whatever is right for

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<v Speaker 4>you and as many kinds of.

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<v Speaker 1>Love and how do you choose who you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>stay with that night?

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<v Speaker 4>So I have there's any forms of polyamory, open relationships,

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<v Speaker 4>and everybody does it in a different way. There's names

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<v Speaker 4>for them in terms from the polyamorous community is actually

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<v Speaker 4>really huge in Metro Detroit. My form of polyamory is

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<v Speaker 4>that I have my primary relationship with my family and

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<v Speaker 4>then uh, I'm allowed to see other partners. My fiancee

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<v Speaker 4>can see other partners and we just kind of seed

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<v Speaker 4>from there and talk about it. If we meet somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>And do you have children?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, so the one the one you're yep, so

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<v Speaker 4>we have we don't have shared children together. My partner

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<v Speaker 4>is actually a transman, so we're both you know, we

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<v Speaker 4>have our own biological children them as a family. And

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<v Speaker 4>so there's actually a name, so when you're willing to

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<v Speaker 4>meet the other person's partner, it's called kitchen table Polly,

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<v Speaker 4>and it just means that you know, yes, we date separately,

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<v Speaker 4>but you're welcome to know the other people in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>Real quick job. Do the kids find it to be

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<v Speaker 1>a thing that's confusing or no?

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<v Speaker 5>So for us, our children can meet people that we're seeing,

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<v Speaker 5>but we don't actively PDA in front of the children.

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<v Speaker 5>So it's just here's a person that comes over, and

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<v Speaker 5>this and that and which.

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<v Speaker 1>In the so they never see you guys. Are they

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<v Speaker 1>never see you guys physically touching.

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<v Speaker 4>The intimate with other people.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just what works for us.

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<v Speaker 4>But there are plenty of people out there who actively

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<v Speaker 4>do allow their children to see that their parents are

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<v Speaker 4>in an open relationship. And part of that is you

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<v Speaker 4>don't teaching them. You know that this is okay. There's

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<v Speaker 4>so many forms of relationships, but it's not I'm not Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I got a quick question. Is there a way you

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<v Speaker 1>can get all of them to be a Mojo in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning listener? Like we need more listeners. I like

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<v Speaker 1>the people in these relationships. Having all these people that

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<v Speaker 1>are there you could actually be a benefit to us.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you get them all to listen to the podcast

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<v Speaker 1>today with you on there?

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<v Speaker 5>I'll miss it.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll message some people and I'm actually called in about

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<v Speaker 4>being in an open relationship before.

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<v Speaker 5>And I think people.

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<v Speaker 4>Need to know that it's just it is good, a

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<v Speaker 4>preferred thing. And so myself and my fiance we came

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<v Speaker 4>from fifteen year monogamous marriages that didn't work out, and

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<v Speaker 4>sometimes you know, when you live your life committing to

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<v Speaker 4>this one person, when you come out of that, you're like, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a multifaceted person and that didn't work for me.

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<v Speaker 4>That's just.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel I think Chelsea would be okay with it too.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think she would want to take part, but

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<v Speaker 1>I think she'd be okay with it. Anybody that you

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<v Speaker 1>know had to put up with me. Joe, please get

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<v Speaker 1>them all to listen.

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<v Speaker 4>I appreciate you letting me to the side of the

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<v Speaker 4>other half.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for educate.

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<v Speaker 1>Appreciate you. Thank you, Joe. Hold On ninety day fiance

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<v Speaker 1>Dana ninety day Dana's on with us right now? You

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<v Speaker 1>had something? Would not? You know Chelsea too well? Dana? Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>what is your thing for Anna? What do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to say, Donna?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just I would really like for Anna, just out

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<v Speaker 4>of curiosity.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's let's do this date man and then and then

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<v Speaker 3>report back to us, like maybe Thursday or Friday.

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<v Speaker 1>Second date, second date? You got a deadline? Should I okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Let's just say if I do go through with this,

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<v Speaker 2>do you think I should just meet up with the

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<v Speaker 2>girl or should I bring him with?

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<v Speaker 1>Because he said he could do the girl. Why I

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<v Speaker 1>said both both the girl. I feel like I'm a sister.

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<v Speaker 2>Wife at that point, like just out with my man

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<v Speaker 2>and his woman and me.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I love it. I love it. It's

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<v Speaker 1>the second day, second date. Second all right, take care

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<v Speaker 1>of yourself,