WEBVTT - Dad Jokes Got Him Ghosted 

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<v Speaker 1>It's Marcus and we're doing second date update. We're back

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<v Speaker 1>with it. The way it works is if you get

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<v Speaker 1>ghosted after a first.

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<v Speaker 2>Date, I'll call your date with you on the phone

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<v Speaker 2>and we'll try to figure it all out in real time.

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<v Speaker 2>Typically I've got you on mute, so I get the

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<v Speaker 2>info and then hopefully you get the second date. So

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<v Speaker 2>let's bring on, Nate.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm here.

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<v Speaker 4>How are you good?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you doing?

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<v Speaker 3>You're doing all right, I'm doing okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to talk about your date obviously with Sienna

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<v Speaker 2>down there in San Jose. Yeah, I understand that you

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<v Speaker 2>that you met online. What did you do on your

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<v Speaker 2>first date? Because I guess she's ghosted.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, haven't.

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<v Speaker 3>Haven't heard back from her since our date, which I thought.

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<v Speaker 3>We had a great time. It was it was really fun.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, we went room for steaks and during OJ's

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<v Speaker 3>and you know, there was this It was kind of

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<v Speaker 3>fun because there was this wedding party in the back

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<v Speaker 3>and so the whole vibe of the.

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<v Speaker 5>Of the place was just electric.

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<v Speaker 3>So without without really being a part of that wedding party,

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<v Speaker 3>we were just having a great time.

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<v Speaker 1>You were playing by proxy.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, yeah, basically, you know at one point at groom,

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<v Speaker 3>when Cambines tried to offer a shot, say, it was

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<v Speaker 3>just really a fun atmosphere, Okay, why not. The conversation

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<v Speaker 3>was great, Like really, there wasn't any dull moments, no pauses.

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<v Speaker 3>We both come from big families, so like we had

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<v Speaker 3>so much sibling drama for sure about which was really fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah we're both like horror movies. I don't know, we've

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<v Speaker 3>neither of us know how to whistle right, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>And yeah, yeah it was fun. It was just a

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<v Speaker 3>fun that. I thought the chemistry was really good. I

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<v Speaker 3>thought we had a connection, okay, and.

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<v Speaker 5>Just genuinely surprised to not have heard back.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me try to figure it out. So what we'll

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<v Speaker 2>do is we'll call Sienna, Like I said, we'll have

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<v Speaker 2>you on the phone muted and let's see if we

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<v Speaker 2>first order. I've got my guy Nate on the phone,

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<v Speaker 2>and he and Sienna went to Original Joe's in Santose,

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<v Speaker 2>Oh Jays for some stakes. I love the part about

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<v Speaker 2>being there with a wedding party. Nate, Are you still there?

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<v Speaker 3>Nate?

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to make sure we're all cute.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I'm here.

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<v Speaker 2>And so you guys got offered shots by one of

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<v Speaker 2>the groomsmen, and so it's fun.

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<v Speaker 1>But she is ghosted, so let's call her. Let's figure

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<v Speaker 1>this out, all right, go ahead and go on mute.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go. Okay, all right, hello, Hi, may I

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<v Speaker 1>speak to Siena? Please speaking?

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<v Speaker 4>Who's this?

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning?

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<v Speaker 2>It's It's Marcus from Star one on one three. I

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<v Speaker 2>do the I do the morning show on Star. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't suppose you listen, do you?

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<v Speaker 4>I haven't no, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So radio show, I'm wondering if you have a second

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<v Speaker 1>to be on the air. Okay, sure, Oh thanks.

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<v Speaker 2>We're doing this segment called second Date Update. And I

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<v Speaker 2>got floated your phone number by a guy that listens

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<v Speaker 2>to our show, and he says, you guys went on

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<v Speaker 2>our first date. He's feeling like you ghosted. So I'm

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<v Speaker 2>trying to figure out do you do something wrong or

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<v Speaker 2>what happened. I'm wondering if you could talk about your

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<v Speaker 2>date with Nate.

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<v Speaker 1>How was it? How was it for you?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I would say this is kind of strange, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean he said it was strong, he said

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<v Speaker 1>it was good.

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<v Speaker 6>It started off well until he pulled out a pocket

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<v Speaker 6>knife to cut his steak.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, who travels around with cutlery?

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<v Speaker 1>He brought his own knife.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, and I thought that was I thought that was

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<v Speaker 6>very strange and sure, Yeah, and you know, he kept

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<v Speaker 6>making a lot of dad jokes even though I told

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<v Speaker 6>him that, you know, I'm not into that, and I

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<v Speaker 6>would like that, you know, to just just talk without

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<v Speaker 6>him just being on you know, constantly, like.

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<v Speaker 4>Just talk like a regular person.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, do you know?

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<v Speaker 6>Like the the big moment that really pushed it over

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<v Speaker 6>was when the bill came and he asked loudly if

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<v Speaker 6>they offered first.

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<v Speaker 1>Date discounts to this to the server.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I just really turned me off.

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<v Speaker 2>Sure, I can imagine. Well, a big part of this

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<v Speaker 2>is that that Nate is actually on the phone. He's

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<v Speaker 2>actually listening right now, and now I have questions.

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<v Speaker 1>Nate, are you there? Yeah, yeah, I'm still here, Nate,

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<v Speaker 1>Sienna Siena, Nate. So, Nate, this is a lot. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you really bring your own pocket knife?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean, yeah, yeah, Okay, I see how that's

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<v Speaker 3>kind of strange, but that's just I mean, that's how

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<v Speaker 3>I grew up. I grew up with a with a

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<v Speaker 3>dad that we we built stuff every day. He would

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<v Speaker 3>say he called his uh, he called his knife his pants.

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<v Speaker 3>So when we'd leave works that you got your pants on,

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<v Speaker 3>and that meant did you have your blaid on you?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you're not. You're you yourself camping.

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<v Speaker 3>But I always have a blade on me.

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<v Speaker 6>So I just have a knight.

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<v Speaker 5>It's one of my favorite new knives, and I was

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<v Speaker 5>just using it. I didn't realize it was gonna be

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<v Speaker 5>such an issue.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, see how that's I mean, you're going to a

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<v Speaker 6>steakhouse they have knives.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, no, I I do see that, I get it.

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<v Speaker 3>I you know what, honestly I kind of thought it

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<v Speaker 3>maybe it was quirky. It's just definitely who I am.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. And then I mean, were you were you firing

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<v Speaker 1>off the jokes.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm gone.

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<v Speaker 5>She's not wrong about that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know, I think I was nervous and that

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<v Speaker 3>was just nervous energy coming out.

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<v Speaker 5>She did mention it actually a couple.

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<v Speaker 3>Of times for me to quit and my mouth just

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<v Speaker 3>didn't have a filter. My brain thinks in puns sometimes

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<v Speaker 3>do I get nervous? And then you know with the

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<v Speaker 3>wedding party and they were coming through and.

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<v Speaker 5>Just it was very joky, and I slipped right into it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, that's that's just my bad. I I

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<v Speaker 3>could have done better on that front.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, And then apparently you're cheapest date imaginable.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, come on, that's funny.

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<v Speaker 5>I just thought that was funny, and it's true. You

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<v Speaker 5>never do know unless you ask.

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<v Speaker 1>I've gotten discounts.

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<v Speaker 3>Before verasking that you just you never know.

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<v Speaker 1>Not on the first date.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually, I mean, that was a ridiculous thing to ask.

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<v Speaker 2>See any he really likes you, he seems apologetic. Could

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<v Speaker 2>we go for a second date like.

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<v Speaker 1>I do over now that we've got some self awareness.

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<v Speaker 3>No,