WEBVTT - Why Did Cody Ghost Jen After the Encore?

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<v Speaker 1>Well variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today

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<v Speaker 1>it's a star one on one three morning.

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<v Speaker 2>It's Marcus time once again for second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's do this. We're trying to bring people together. Has

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<v Speaker 1>not been a successful week. I'm not gonna lie. This

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<v Speaker 1>is a hell of a lead up. Jen's on the phone. Hi, Jen, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you're the one though. I do think you're

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<v Speaker 1>the one. This is gonna work. I just feel like

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna get you a second date. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>this is gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I just want to meet the one fore.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I understand if you're just joining the show. The

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<v Speaker 1>way this works is Jen went on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>a guy named Cody, and then he has ghosted. Now

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna tell us about the date. Here in a second,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna call Cody with you on the phone on

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<v Speaker 1>mute so we can't hear you, and we're all just

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<v Speaker 1>going to try to figure out if something went sideways

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<v Speaker 1>or if he's just been busy or what.

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<v Speaker 2>So, how did you guys meet? And then what did

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<v Speaker 2>you do for your first date?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so we actually met at a bar.

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<v Speaker 4>I was doing this Grandma crawl and I was in

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<v Speaker 4>my grandma outfit and you.

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<v Speaker 2>Were doing a one. Now a grandma what is that?

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<v Speaker 5>Like?

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<v Speaker 4>We're a group of like women, we dress as grandma's

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<v Speaker 4>and it's around Halloween time, so we bar hopped through town.

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<v Speaker 1>You know why that's crazy is just this week I

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<v Speaker 1>was talking to my producer about grandma hobbies that you

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<v Speaker 1>should pick up and she does them all crochet like scrapbooking,

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<v Speaker 1>so like.

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<v Speaker 3>Baking cookies, cakes. Definitely.

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<v Speaker 1>Can we just id okay, can we just agree that

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<v Speaker 1>grandma's are bosses?

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<v Speaker 2>Like for real?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I don't see why anybody would hate.

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<v Speaker 3>On grandma's Like that is actually a red flag.

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<v Speaker 4>So when I met Cody, he was very open minded

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<v Speaker 4>and like that's one of the main reasons why we

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<v Speaker 4>got along.

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<v Speaker 3>We just had a very chill and free spirited vibe.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh huh.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I met the bar with his friend. We

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<v Speaker 3>got each other's numbers, and he asked me.

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<v Speaker 4>Out to go to a concert and so we did

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<v Speaker 4>that a few weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, indoor or outdoor, I don't know if it matters,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm just curious.

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<v Speaker 4>It was outdoors, okay, Yeah, the energy was electric.

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<v Speaker 3>I even brought my own tambourine.

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<v Speaker 6>And okay, I just don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>He hasn't talked, like texted me for like a while now,

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<v Speaker 4>so I guess I'm wondering, like did I do anything wrong?

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<v Speaker 3>Or like what happens? Like where did he go?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you did you? What did you guys do after

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<v Speaker 2>the concert? Did you did anything else happen? Like what

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<v Speaker 2>happened at the end? Kiss or hugger?

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<v Speaker 4>We didn't kiss, but we did hug and it was

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<v Speaker 4>a pretty strong one.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, you know what, like when there's a good hug. Sure,

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<v Speaker 3>Sincere I.

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<v Speaker 2>Felt like that, and he is ghosted.

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<v Speaker 3>I would say so that he's since so, like.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, you know the drill, We're gonna have you

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<v Speaker 1>mute your phone and we will try to get some answers.

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<v Speaker 1>Hopefully I can get you a second date. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>cross my fingers, Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean hopefully he's alive.

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<v Speaker 2>You're the second person to say that this week. Oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I also I also hope he's alive, but we'll

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<v Speaker 1>find out after this song. It's a second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Star one oh one three, Star one O one three.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Marcus. We're doing second date Update. I've got Jen

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone, and she was telling me a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of things. Jen, you were telling me not only about

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<v Speaker 1>your date with Cody, who ghosted and we are going

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<v Speaker 1>to call him, but also about this Grandma crawl that

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<v Speaker 1>you and your girlfriends went on.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's how I met Cody.

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<v Speaker 4>And also the tradition that you're like, this is my

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<v Speaker 4>fourth year doing Grandma crawl.

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<v Speaker 2>And yeah, like you literally dress up his grandma's and

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<v Speaker 2>go drinking.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, and we also twork so uh yeah, like we

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<v Speaker 4>we love to like get the energy up.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah people in the bar.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I did not have twerking Grandma's on my bingo card,

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<v Speaker 1>but like the visuals alone are stunning. Okay, let's get

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<v Speaker 1>back to business. Go go ahead and mut your phone

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<v Speaker 1>and we're gonna call Cody.

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<v Speaker 2>Here we go. Hello, Yeah, can I speak to Cody please?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh yeah, let's see.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Cody. My name is Marcus. I do a morning show,

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<v Speaker 1>a radio show for iHeartRadio out of San Francisco on

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<v Speaker 1>Star one on one three. Do you have a second

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<v Speaker 1>to be on the radio with us? Have you ever

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<v Speaker 1>heard the show?

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<v Speaker 7>No? I'm sorry, No, I'm sorry, All.

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<v Speaker 2>Good, bro, I'm sorry if I woke you up too,

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<v Speaker 2>by the.

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<v Speaker 7>Way, Yeah, sure, Is it like a survey or something.

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<v Speaker 5>No.

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<v Speaker 1>So I got floated your phone number from a girl

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<v Speaker 1>who listens to my show, and she went on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with you recently, and she's feeling like you're ghostinger,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're just trying to figure out like if she

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<v Speaker 1>did something wrong or something go sideways, or maybe you've

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<v Speaker 1>just been busy.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. And if you have a couple seconds

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<v Speaker 2>to talk about the date, I'd love to get your perspective.

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<v Speaker 1>Her name is Jen. Are you comfortable talking about your

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<v Speaker 1>date with Jen on the air?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Sure, okay, thank you. So how did it go? Did

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<v Speaker 2>you ghost?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>I guess technically I did.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, but she's really hot, you know, uh okay, smile.

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<v Speaker 8>And you know when we first met us, you know,

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<v Speaker 8>she's really funny and like just all like an old

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<v Speaker 8>lady and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>She said, you guys kind of had the same vibe,

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<v Speaker 1>like the same kind of energy.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, I would not say that, Okay, Yeah, her vibes.

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<v Speaker 7>A little much.

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<v Speaker 8>So well, we went to this like concert thing like this,

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<v Speaker 8>like I don't festival or whatever, and she got.

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<v Speaker 7>So hammered off white claws, which I didn't even really

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<v Speaker 7>know was possible. She had like two or three and

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<v Speaker 7>she was just like just suic a super mess.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 7>She's like yeah, yelling at the band, and you know,

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<v Speaker 7>she had the tambourine. She was just like playing offbeat.

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<v Speaker 8>Like throughout every song okay. And I was just like

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<v Speaker 8>embarrassing man Like, she was like flirtering her words.

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<v Speaker 7>And like she kept you know that bit when people

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<v Speaker 7>yelled free bird, like try to get people to play

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<v Speaker 7>free bird.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, yeah, she's doing that like way past the point

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<v Speaker 6>of it being funny.

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<v Speaker 7>And she kept she kept asking me to like film

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<v Speaker 7>her for her TikTok Hot Girl hang okay, And it

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<v Speaker 7>was just so it was so much to be.

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<v Speaker 2>Honest, that's her TikTok.

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<v Speaker 7>And then I looked it up and the hot Girl hanged,

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<v Speaker 7>it's not even a thing.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, it doesn't even exist, okay, Cody.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So actually Jen's on the phone, Cody, she's listening in

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<v Speaker 1>whire is like I said, trying to make this a

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<v Speaker 1>teachable moment. Sorry for sneaking up on you is.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, Hey, can I like sure, hot.

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<v Speaker 5>Girl, I am going to make that little movement myself,

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<v Speaker 5>like so it's funny how like I feel like you're

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<v Speaker 5>kind of doubting what I can make, but it's I'm

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<v Speaker 5>gonna start that, So it's gonna be a trend from me.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, can we talk about the other stuff?

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<v Speaker 1>Though, didn't feel obnoxious to you at all with the

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<v Speaker 1>tambourine and the and the shouting and the free bird

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<v Speaker 1>and then miss a lot of stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't see how I was obnoxious. Like we're at

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<v Speaker 3>a concert.

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<v Speaker 4>It's outdoor, right, so like we're all here to have entertainment,

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<v Speaker 4>and like if you're there being stuck energy, how is

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<v Speaker 4>that fun?

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<v Speaker 3>Right? Like what do you.

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<v Speaker 8>Want to But I'm all for people having fun.

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<v Speaker 7>Everybody wants able to enjoy the concert or whatever. Like

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<v Speaker 7>people are moving away from us, like.

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<v Speaker 8>The band kept like looking over like with these weird looks.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I think the band loved me. Actually, so I don't.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm pretty sure they're actually trying to get security.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, you guys, I don't think this is

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<v Speaker 1>a match, so I'm gonna call it.

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<v Speaker 2>Hang hang on, you you too? Hang on? Okay, Uh

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<v Speaker 2>that was a lot. Uh second date update, it's