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Speaker 1: Well variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today

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Speaker 1: it's a star one on one three it's Marcus in

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Speaker 1: the morning of this time once again for second date update.

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Speaker 1: If you've ever been ghosted on a date, this is

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Speaker 1: for you. After Dauber one, you get ghosted, we call

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Speaker 1: your date to figure out what exactly happened. Specifically, I'd

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Speaker 1: like to get you a second date, but let's at

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Speaker 1: least get some answers. Let's say, how to Rachel. Good morning, Rachel, Hey,

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Speaker 1: how are you good? How are you saying?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 3: I'm just like confused. You know, I don't know why

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Speaker 3: I got coasted.

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Speaker 1: I understand you got a little fancy met up with

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Speaker 1: this guy Brian in Danville for cocktails. Yeah, let's run

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Speaker 1: through the date. Maybe we can get some clues. How

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Speaker 1: did it go? What happened?

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Speaker 3: I mean, it was all just so easy, Like we

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Speaker 3: literally went to this quiet little bar. We just sat down.

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Speaker 3: It's like easy conversation. We talked about our pets, we

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Speaker 3: talked about like the favorite comfort shows, the office for me,

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Speaker 3: and you know, just things like that. It went easy.

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Speaker 3: There's nothing else I could say. He was a really

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Speaker 3: cool guy. I just I left ceiling there, like, wow,

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Speaker 3: that was like a low pressure. Yeah, it was just

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Speaker 3: like really nice. You know, it's actually really really nice.

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Speaker 4: How many times have you replayed the date in your head?

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Speaker 1: We do it every time, every time. Yeah, no, I know.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well I'll figure it out for you. We're

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Speaker 1: gonna have you mut your phone and then we're gonna

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Speaker 1: call Brian. We're gonna try to figure this all out.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, sounds good, Thank you, got it.

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Speaker 1: Hang on the line. It's Marcus in the morning, and

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Speaker 1: we've got Rachel on the phone. She went on a

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Speaker 1: date with a guy named Brian there in Danville and

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Speaker 1: it was just drinks. Rachel, you're still there. Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: said it felt real low pressure, like.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just like real low pressure, easy flowing, like we

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Speaker 3: were just kind of like in it, you know, we're

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Speaker 3: in the value. Yeah, it was good.

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Speaker 1: And he's ghosted, so let's figure this out. Go ahead

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Speaker 1: and mute, and let's give him a call.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Hello, is this Brian?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is Brian.

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Speaker 1: Brian. This is Marcus calling from Star one O one three.

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Speaker 1: Good morning.

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Speaker 2: Is too from where.

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Speaker 1: It's Marcus calling from Star one on one three. It's

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Speaker 1: a radio station out of San Francisco. I don't suppose

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Speaker 1: you ever listened to.

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Speaker 2: No Did I win?

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Speaker 1: Number one question? Number one question? No, dude, we're doing

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Speaker 1: a something. I wonder if you might be able to

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Speaker 1: be on the air with us for a couple of minutes.

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Speaker 1: So we do a segment on the show called second

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Speaker 1: Date Update. And I got your phone number from a

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Speaker 1: lady who you took it a date recently. Said she

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Speaker 1: had a great time, said it was very low pressure,

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Speaker 1: very easy, would love to go out again. And I'm

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Speaker 1: wondering if you have a minute to talk about your

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Speaker 1: date with Rachel. All right, Yeah, did you ghost because

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Speaker 1: she's feeling kind of ghosted.

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Speaker 2: A yeah, I did I go to.

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Speaker 1: Okay it happens. Yeah, did something go sideways or did

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Speaker 1: she do something happened? Why?

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Speaker 2: She is a really awesome she's a very sweet girl.

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Speaker 2: We had a good time. It's very chill, but it's

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Speaker 2: stuff started happening and the meat that was really weird. Okay,

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Speaker 2: you want me to go into it, let me tell you.

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Speaker 1: Please hold on, let me sit down.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sit down because it was I don't know, it

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Speaker 2: was rooms are and go all right? So you know,

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Speaker 2: we were just hanging out show and everything was really great.

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Speaker 2: Then their bartender asks, like, what we wanted? So I

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Speaker 2: got an old fashioned neat it's my drink, and without

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Speaker 2: which I was like, that's so cool, Like I don't

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Speaker 2: And I went on, this keeps.

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Speaker 1: Happening, all right, what keeps happening?

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Speaker 2: This this this echo, It's just this echo is like

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Speaker 2: was like, what is happening? We're talking? I said, I

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Speaker 2: you know, I just white knucklet stare right ahead when

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Speaker 2: what it was weird? You know what didn't sound mocking,

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Speaker 2: It wasn't obvious.

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Speaker 1: It was just and it wasn't like.

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Speaker 2: At first I thought it was. I was just like, oh,

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Speaker 2: I was like, I was like, am I crazy?

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Speaker 2: But it was happening over and over again. It was

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Speaker 2: like a parrot, you know. And then finally at the

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Speaker 2: going on? But the third time, you know, she repeated it,

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Speaker 2: same wording, same tone of everything. You know, I started

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Speaker 2: just said, well I did?

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Speaker 2: I probably said okay, I said are you what are

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Speaker 2: you doing? Are you copying me? And she just laughed

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Speaker 2: and said that's just how I connect my mirror energy.

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Speaker 2: That didn't make me feel better and just made me

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Speaker 2: It's like it didn't feel like chemistry anymore. I felt

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Speaker 5: Okay, well okay, yeah, so part of this, Brian, is

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Speaker 5: some notes Rachel, what is going on?

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Speaker 3: Honestly, I didn't realize I was doing that. I just

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Speaker 3: make like I mirror sometimes and like it just makes

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Speaker 1: So is this is a calculated move then not really.

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Speaker 3: It's just it's just like if I'm feeling the vibe

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Speaker 3: and you know, I just like mirror what's happening, and like,

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Speaker 3: what's the energy that's putting out? Is to cut out?

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Speaker 1: And Brian, did you enjoy the date otherwise?

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Speaker 2: You know? It was it was cool, but that was

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Speaker 2: it was too unsettling and I couldn't you know, it too.

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Speaker 2: It really took me out of it to be honest

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Speaker 2: with you, you know, and you're you.

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Speaker 4: Know, I don't.

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Speaker 2: I'm not questioning your sincerity, you know. I'm sure that

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Speaker 2: you felt those things. It just it's, uh, you know,

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Speaker 2: I want to get to know someone, you know, I

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Speaker 2: just don't want to hear my own personality bounce back

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Speaker 2: at me. And that's what it felt like.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, well let me try something here, Rachel. I

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Speaker 1: feel like we've got a little bit of self awareness here.

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Speaker 1: I mean, this is exactly what second date updates for. Okay,

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Speaker 1: maybe we don't do the copying thing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, of course.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to tell you how to be like.

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Speaker 1: I feel weird doing.

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Speaker 2: That, but I want to be weird for me. All

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Speaker 2: I want, and all I've wanted dating at all, is sincerity.

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Speaker 2: That's it.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to chalk it up to Ner. Can we too, Brian?

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Speaker 1: Can we get a second date and we listen to

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Speaker 1: me like, I'm going.

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Speaker 2: To be there? Absolutely? You know what, Rachel, you were great.

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Speaker 2: Every other thing was great, and so you know whatever,

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Speaker 2: let's let's go out again. That so good.

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Speaker 1: I love it. This is happening. Oh my god, I'm

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Speaker 1: not even ready, hold on, I got to get the

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Speaker 1: cow bell of destiny? Where is it? Okay, what happened?

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Speaker 1: We'll see you guys from around two at some point.

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Speaker 1: Keep us posted, okay, congratulations, all right, hang on, very exciting.

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Speaker 1: I love it all right. Second date up date back

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Speaker 1: tomorrow morning after seven o'clock