1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:01,840 Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning and we were back from 2 00:00:01,840 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: the weekend with second date up date. Let's just go 3 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:06,320 Speaker 1: ahead and get started, bringing our guy, Darius Son, who's 4 00:00:06,360 --> 00:00:09,559 Speaker 1: been waiting patiently. Darius, good morning, Hey, good morning. Tell 5 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:13,119 Speaker 1: me about your date. The girl's name was Leanne and yeah, 6 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:16,599 Speaker 1: you guys are in the South Bay. So what happened, Like, 7 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:17,440 Speaker 1: what did you do on the date? 8 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:20,840 Speaker 2: Well, you know, I met her at like a Vietnamese spot. 9 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:23,160 Speaker 2: I can't remember the name of it, but it was 10 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:29,480 Speaker 2: it was in San Jose, Okay. She showed up looking amazing. Okay, man, 11 00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:32,440 Speaker 2: her look was crazy, and we had like a like 12 00:00:32,479 --> 00:00:35,680 Speaker 2: a really fun time talking. Like we talked about everything, 13 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:38,280 Speaker 2: like from growing up in the Bay, food, travel, you 14 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:40,440 Speaker 2: name it. We're just talking about it. 15 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:42,240 Speaker 1: This is like a dream scenario. 16 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:45,080 Speaker 2: I'm like I had I had a really good time, 17 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 2: uh huh. And because I think if I could put 18 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:51,239 Speaker 2: it in in a way, it just felt it felt easy, right, 19 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:52,199 Speaker 2: it felt very. 20 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 1: Sure, going, very posed right Okay. 21 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 2: And then you know, when we was wrapping up the night, 22 00:00:56,960 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 2: we saw like this, like this street vendor and like 23 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 2: we ended up sharing like a cup of fruit on 24 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 2: the sidewalk. 25 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:04,200 Speaker 3: So it was like a big. 26 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 2: Romantic type thing going on, and I love the fact 27 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 2: that she was like low maintenance, you know what I'm saying, Like. 28 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 1: Sure, very easy, inexpensive. I'm just kidding, I'm just guess terrible. 29 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 1: I'm kidding. 30 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 3: Bockets broke. 31 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:19,119 Speaker 2: So I was good. 32 00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 1: How did it end? Did you all kiss or what? 33 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 3: No kiss? 34 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 2: But we did hug hugged, and I keep it very respectful. 35 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 2: I text her when I got home and I told 36 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:32,040 Speaker 2: her I had a great time and I wanted to 37 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 2: see her again. So she replied good night, and she 38 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 2: said she had fun too, And the next day nothing vanished. 39 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:46,559 Speaker 1: Like literally nothing, literally nothing. So so ghosts, Okay, well, 40 00:01:47,680 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have you on the line when we call her. 41 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 1: So all I ask is that you mute your phone 42 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:54,920 Speaker 1: so she doesn't hear you. But we'll try to get 43 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: some answers. I'll ask her how she thought the date went. Okay, okay, 44 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 1: let's figure are some things out. Go ahead and meet 45 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 1: your phone. I'm gonna give her a call. Okay, all right, 46 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 1: all right, go ahead and listen in. 47 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:13,000 Speaker 3: Hello. 48 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 1: Hi is this Leanne? Yeah, Hi, it's it's Marcus calling 49 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 1: from start one one three from the morning show. Oh, hi, Hi, 50 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 1: how are you? 51 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 3: I'm good? How are you good? 52 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 1: Do you have a second to be on the radio? 53 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:31,680 Speaker 1: Do you listen to the show? 54 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 3: This is about Darius, isn't it? Oh? Wow? 55 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 1: Yes, yes it is. Welcome to Second Date Update. Do 56 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:48,320 Speaker 1: you want to you want to be on? Are you okay? Sure? Great, 57 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 1: Let's go ahead and bring them on Darius. Good morning? 58 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 1: Are you there? 59 00:02:54,320 --> 00:02:54,680 Speaker 3: Hey? 60 00:02:54,919 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 1: Hey, so Leanne, I figure you know why we're calling. 61 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 1: Did you ghostar on your date there? And if so, 62 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:06,120 Speaker 1: just tell us why did he screw up somehow? What happened? 63 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 3: Well? Okay, I mean, yes, yes I did ghost him, 64 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:17,360 Speaker 3: but I mean the date started out really great. I 65 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 3: mean I really. 66 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 4: Did enjoy talking to him, and he seemed really nice 67 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:26,520 Speaker 4: and you know, interesting, and you know, things were going great. 68 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 4: And then after dinner later that night. 69 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:36,200 Speaker 3: That's when you know, things changed a little bit and 70 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 3: that caused my opinion of him to change. Well, we 71 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 3: went out just walking after dinner and there was a 72 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:48,160 Speaker 3: street vendor. He was, you know, selling fruit, so I 73 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 3: had some. So I was getting getting some of the 74 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:56,080 Speaker 3: fruit and he said it was like five dollars five bucks, 75 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 3: So like I gave him ten so I could get 76 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 3: changed back. And so this is where the issues started happening. 77 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 3: Was he started negotiating with the street vendor, and it 78 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 3: was not like like normal negotiating. It was like pretty aggressive. 79 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:19,719 Speaker 1: Like negotiating the price, yeah, for. 80 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 3: Like five bucks, and it was like pretty like it 81 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:25,599 Speaker 3: was a pretty big flip from like the nice, joky 82 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:28,719 Speaker 3: guy that I had just spent time with earlier, and 83 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:31,160 Speaker 3: now all of a sudden, he was like super serious 84 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:35,919 Speaker 3: and aggressive and he was like five dollars for a 85 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:38,719 Speaker 3: little cup, like you can do better than that. She's overpaint, 86 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 3: like it was. He's like he got into his face, 87 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:44,799 Speaker 3: and I mean I didn't really care about the five bucks. 88 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 3: It was just fine. I mean it's not that much. 89 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:49,719 Speaker 3: Plus I had already paid the guy, so I don't 90 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:54,359 Speaker 3: understand why he was still negotiating with him, and like 91 00:04:55,920 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 3: it just upped me the wrong way, and like it 92 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 3: kind of just like I don't know, like I walked 93 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 3: away from it thinking that is this like how our 94 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:09,040 Speaker 3: future is going to be. Like he's going to be 95 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:13,279 Speaker 3: haggling people over like ten cents for like every single 96 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 3: little thing, you know, arguing with the waiter or like 97 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:23,480 Speaker 3: anything like that, and it's just it got really really awkward, 98 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:28,480 Speaker 3: and I I did not want to continue seeing him 99 00:05:28,480 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 3: after that. 100 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:32,279 Speaker 1: I see, Darius, are you catching this? 101 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 2: I'm catching it? And I honestly, I thought I was 102 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:39,160 Speaker 2: helping her out, like I grew up haggling at markets, 103 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 2: you know, with with with with my family, and I 104 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 2: thought I was savored us some money. 105 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 3: I didn't. 106 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:46,279 Speaker 2: I didn't think it was a big deal like that, 107 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 2: like it was just like a quick negotiation. 108 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 3: I don't know. It wasn't quick. It was embarrassing. 109 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm gonna try. We've got some clarity here, Darius, 110 00:05:57,440 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 1: if you if you backed off on that a little bit, 111 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 1: just knowing that that it bothers the lady Leanne, could 112 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:04,920 Speaker 1: we get a second date, maybe another try, a second shot? 113 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 3: Yeah? 114 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 1: No, okay, is that a hard no? Never mind? 115 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:12,840 Speaker 3: Never mind? Yeah, that's that's a hard no. No, absolutely not. 116 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:15,840 Speaker 1: Hang on, not even sure why I asked it. I'm 117 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:17,880 Speaker 1: gonna quit while I'm ahead. The second date update