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Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning, and we are back with

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Speaker 1: second date update. This is our dating segment trying to

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Speaker 1: help people find love. If you go on a first date,

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Speaker 1: you get ghosted, you call me and then we will

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Speaker 1: have you listen in while I call your date and

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Speaker 1: try to figure out the situation. That's why Ross is here.

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Speaker 1: Let's bring Ross on.

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Speaker 2: Hello Ross, Hey, thanks for taking my call.

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Speaker 1: Always dude, let's talk about your date. I want to

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Speaker 1: talk about Kelly because I understand she has disappeared, So

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Speaker 1: run me through it. What did you guys do on

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Speaker 1: the first date?

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Speaker 2: Well, we went to dinner. We went downtown Campbell. It

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Speaker 2: was it was great. It was really really nice, and

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Speaker 2: we were laughing a lot. Yeah, time overall, conversation was flowing.

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Speaker 2: And then we even were talking about where we should

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Speaker 2: go for the second date. So I thought, hey, you

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Speaker 2: know this is a great light right yeah exactly, but

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Speaker 2: then nothing, just completely ghosted. Haven't heard from her since,

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Speaker 2: so I just want to know what happened.

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Speaker 1: And downtown Campbell is like the perfect setting, like personally,

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Speaker 1: I love little sushi, confidential and maybe some gelato.

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Speaker 2: Exactly. Yeah, it wasn't like a bar date or a

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Speaker 2: copy date. You know, this is a pretty good date,

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Speaker 2: I thought, so.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, a right, go ahead and meet your phone.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna give her a call. Here we go, Okay, cool. Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: I'm looking for Kelly. Please. This is Kelly Kelly. It's

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Speaker 1: Marcus calling from Star one one three. How are you hi?

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Speaker 3: I'm good.

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Speaker 1: Good morning. Do you listen to our show in the morning?

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Speaker 3: But no, no, I don't.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So we do a segment called second Date Update,

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Speaker 1: and basically, like if you went on a date and

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Speaker 1: somebody feels like they got ghosted, I call their date

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Speaker 1: to get like an eval if you will, like an evaluation.

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Speaker 1: It's like, maybe why you might have ghosted? So I

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Speaker 1: got sent your phone number. Well, one of our listeners,

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Speaker 1: his name is Ross, he said, you guys had a

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Speaker 1: pretty solid dinner in Campbell, but he's feeling and like

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Speaker 1: maybe you are no longer interested. He did say you

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Speaker 1: talked about a second date. But I'm just wondering, did

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Speaker 1: my guy screw up somehow or have you just been

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Speaker 1: busy or what's the what's the skull?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: So how was the date?

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Speaker 3: I mean, it was a good date, Like it really

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Speaker 3: was a good date.

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Speaker 1: Okay, everything was.

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Speaker 3: Going well, and it was fine up until after we

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Speaker 3: finished eating, okay, but he, you know, he looked at

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Speaker 3: my plate and he asked if I was going to

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Speaker 3: finish my fries, and I said I wasn't, so you know,

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Speaker 3: I slid them over, and that's not a big deal. Like,

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Speaker 3: that's not a big deal, right, But then he noticed

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Speaker 3: the couple at the table next to us getting up

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Speaker 3: and their basket still had onion rings in it, okay,

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Speaker 3: and so he actually like he flagged down the server

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Speaker 3: and he asked if they were done with them, and

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Speaker 3: I kind of just froze, okay, And I think even

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Speaker 3: the server thought he was kidding, because he like kind

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Speaker 3: of laughed, but he definitely wasn't. And so there was,

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Speaker 3: you know, another table that had left behind like half

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Speaker 3: their pizza, and he asked if it was going to

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Speaker 3: be in the trash. The server said yes, and so,

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Speaker 3: you know, Ross asked if it would be weird if

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Speaker 3: he took it.

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Speaker 1: Did he wait? Hold on, So he took the onion

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Speaker 1: rings and the pizza.

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Speaker 3: He took the onion rings and the pizza. I was

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Speaker 3: kind of hoping the server would say no, but instead

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Speaker 3: they just kind of stood there and looked confused.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so all right, So here's the other part of this,

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Speaker 1: and now I really need him on the phone. Ross

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Speaker 1: is actually listening in Ross, I need you, Oh Ross, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what are you doing here?

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Speaker 2: So here's the thing. So, food waste drives me absolutely crazy.

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Speaker 2: It's my biggest pet peeve. I hadn't made that clear,

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Speaker 2: you know, on the date. And those people were all

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Speaker 2: those people who I took, you know, their leftovers. They

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Speaker 2: were finished with the food anyway, So like, why would

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Speaker 2: I throw away perfectly good food. It was good food

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Speaker 2: at the restaurant too.

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Speaker 3: Russ, it like it was their food though.

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Speaker 2: Like they were done with it. So like once you

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Speaker 2: throw something out, it's the same with like if you

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Speaker 2: throw something in your dumpster and put it on your curb,

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Speaker 2: that's no longer like your property. You're abandoning it. So

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Speaker 2: that's it's free rain. And if it's good food, that's

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Speaker 2: gonna go in the trash. Like why would you why

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Speaker 2: would you want to waste food? You know, I don't

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Speaker 2: see why that would be a good thing.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, Well, so here's the part that I haven't

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Speaker 3: talked about yet.

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Speaker 1: Oh great, Like when.

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Speaker 3: We were getting up and leaving the restaurant, we walked

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Speaker 3: by a table where a family had just gotten up,

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Speaker 3: and he didn't even pause. He just reached over, grabbed

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Speaker 3: a mozzarella stick off of their plate and popped it

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Speaker 3: in his mouth and he just kept walking.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, but it was untouched.

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Speaker 1: Russ. Were you drunk?

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Speaker 2: No, I mean I had like a drink during dinner.

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Speaker 2: But again, it was a perfectly good mozzarella stick. I

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Speaker 2: mean again, the food of this place was really, really good.

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Speaker 2: I think that's what you're probably not understanding. And listen,

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Speaker 2: people have said, oh, that's gross before, But what I

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Speaker 2: think is gross is wasting perfectly good food and other

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Speaker 2: people starving all over the world. So like, why would you?

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Speaker 2: I mean, you're encouraging me to throw away perfectly good food,

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Speaker 2: which I think is just kind of nasty to be

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Speaker 2: honest with.

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Speaker 3: You, Well, here's the thing, Okay, I don't care if

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Speaker 3: it came with a notarized certificate, like you don't eat

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Speaker 3: mystery mozzarella off a stranger's table.

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Speaker 2: Wasn't mystery mozzarella. They didn't touch it. It was in

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Speaker 2: the same place on the plate where it was first plated.

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Speaker 1: So like, I didn't even dip it in the asace

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Speaker 1: at the end of the day, and Kelly backed me

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Speaker 1: up on this. Ross. You can do this on your

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Speaker 1: own time. If you're on a date with someone you

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Speaker 1: want to impress them. This is not impressive behavior.

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Speaker 3: Correct. Like I I wasn't on a date. I was

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Speaker 3: watching someone like Forage through a restaurant.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so no second date, right, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Just no, no, no second date?

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Speaker 1: Sure, all right, hang on, hang on, Yeah you can't.

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Speaker 1: I don't wow. Second date Update