WEBVTT - 9am Hour - Starface 0:00:00.440 --> 0:00:02.240 I want to run something by you and see whether 0:00:02.279 --> 0:00:04.880 this is good advice or not. So and and I'm 0:00:04.920 --> 0:00:07.440 not trying to embarrass my son Carson, but he would 0:00:07.480 --> 0:00:10.360 like to have a partner. And he hasn't really had 0:00:10.360 --> 0:00:11.879 a girlfriend in a very long time. He's had a 0:00:11.880 --> 0:00:13.920 couple of dates here and there. And I'm like, man, 0:00:14.240 --> 0:00:15.840 when I was your age, I was already a father. 0:00:15.960 --> 0:00:18.080 He's twenty four years old, and I'm like, Carson, have some kids. 0:00:19.840 --> 0:00:23.639 So he said, it's harder than you think, Dad, And 0:00:23.680 --> 0:00:26.759 I said, oh, I'm sure it is. And for example, 0:00:26.760 --> 0:00:28.960 he had a date one time with a If you 0:00:29.040 --> 0:00:31.320 know Carson, don't tell him that I'm talking about him 0:00:31.360 --> 0:00:34.080 on the radio. He'll be pissed. So he had a 0:00:34.159 --> 0:00:36.920 date one time in La with a girl who spoke 0:00:36.920 --> 0:00:40.159 almost no English. He picked her up, they drove to 0:00:40.200 --> 0:00:42.120 the movie theater. She fell asleep during the movie and 0:00:42.120 --> 0:00:45.680 then fell asleep on the way home. J Arklesi, well, 0:00:46.800 --> 0:00:48.559 I think she was just like, I don't know, just 0:00:48.640 --> 0:00:52.440 wasn't working out. And so and another one he dated 0:00:52.479 --> 0:00:54.280 for a couple of weeks. So I said, you know 0:00:54.320 --> 0:00:57.160 what you're doing. I said, you're trying to date girls 0:00:57.160 --> 0:01:01.680 that are pretty. He's like, well, yeah, And I said, 0:01:01.720 --> 0:01:04.480 you're a good looking guy. I said, date a couple 0:01:04.560 --> 0:01:09.399 of girls that are not classically pretty. Why, I said, 0:01:09.400 --> 0:01:12.160 because they're fun. Because they're not about, like, you know, 0:01:12.720 --> 0:01:15.800 doing an hour worth of makeup before they go. They're 0:01:15.840 --> 0:01:18.440 willing to like get rib sauce on their face while 0:01:18.480 --> 0:01:20.640 you take them to dinner. Take some girls that are 0:01:20.680 --> 0:01:22.720 out that are the look for girls that are like 0:01:22.720 --> 0:01:25.479 a little bit more. They'll be very happy that you're 0:01:25.520 --> 0:01:29.360 taking them out. And Carson's a good looking kid, I said, 0:01:29.400 --> 0:01:33.000 find somebody who's a little bit more average looking, and 0:01:33.040 --> 0:01:34.640 they'll be very happy to be going out with you, 0:01:34.680 --> 0:01:36.320 and they're not going to be looking over your shoulder 0:01:36.440 --> 0:01:39.440 at another guy that also might be trying to woo 0:01:39.520 --> 0:01:43.240 them at the same time. And Susan said, don't tell 0:01:43.319 --> 0:01:46.600 him that. Don't tell him to data girl that's plain. 0:01:46.840 --> 0:01:49.240 I said, I dated so many plain girls back in 0:01:49.280 --> 0:01:52.680 the day, and they were tons of fun. They were 0:01:52.760 --> 0:01:56.720 low maintenance, They would you know, I don't know, they 0:01:56.720 --> 0:01:59.600 were just fun. You guys are giving me a stone face, 0:01:59.720 --> 0:02:01.600 like you're just waiting to rip into me. 0:02:01.720 --> 0:02:04.880 No, I'm waiting to hear everything until I say something. 0:02:04.680 --> 0:02:06.400 And that was it. And and he's kind of like, 0:02:06.480 --> 0:02:09.519 you know, I said, they're they're they're low pressure on you. 0:02:09.639 --> 0:02:11.760 I said, you never have to marry any of these girls. 0:02:12.240 --> 0:02:14.600 Just go out and practice a little bit. Because he's 0:02:14.639 --> 0:02:16.639 kind of out of practice in the whole dating thing. 0:02:17.280 --> 0:02:20.520 And I'm like, man, I said, we all need somebody 0:02:20.520 --> 0:02:24.240 at that age or any age to like share confidences with, 0:02:24.480 --> 0:02:27.920 you know, like I'm like, I'm really worried about my 0:02:28.000 --> 0:02:31.079 job or God, my dad's really pissing me off or whatever. 0:02:31.080 --> 0:02:33.960 You're gonna have somebody to share confidences with. And sometimes 0:02:33.960 --> 0:02:35.760 that's your girlfriend or your boyfriend. You're dating. 0:02:35.800 --> 0:02:37.799 Advice to your son, Carson, who's my saying that age 0:02:37.840 --> 0:02:40.160 twenty four is to find a plane, find a couple 0:02:40.160 --> 0:02:42.400 of playing girls to get back into it. Do you 0:02:42.440 --> 0:02:45.120 suggest that he does maybe marry one of these playing 0:02:45.120 --> 0:02:48.240 girls if he like this is the one. 0:02:48.639 --> 0:02:51.640 No, because it's like he does want to have a 0:02:51.680 --> 0:02:52.320 family someday. 0:02:52.400 --> 0:02:52.600 Yeah. 0:02:52.639 --> 0:02:54.640 Yeah, but it's like, you know, you have to marry anybody. 0:02:55.280 --> 0:02:57.440 Just go stop looking for girls that look like an 0:02:57.440 --> 0:03:00.399 Instagram model. True, because those girls are gett and tons 0:03:00.440 --> 0:03:02.040 of offers all over the place. Go for the girl 0:03:02.080 --> 0:03:02.840 with bad Hackney. 0:03:03.919 --> 0:03:04.880 They should be so lucky. 0:03:05.520 --> 0:03:06.040 What do you mean? 0:03:06.160 --> 0:03:09.720 That's the way I'm hearing it, which is probably just 0:03:09.760 --> 0:03:13.600 me being cranky, but like, oh well, Carson, you've got 0:03:13.600 --> 0:03:15.240 a date a plain girl, because they should be so 0:03:15.320 --> 0:03:17.120 lucky to have somebody as good looking as you. No 0:03:17.160 --> 0:03:19.320 one wants to date them, and they're fun. They have 0:03:19.400 --> 0:03:20.760 to have a personality, and I. 0:03:20.760 --> 0:03:23.919 Worry about that as the interpretation, but my experience has 0:03:23.919 --> 0:03:29.720 been that they are just more fun. They're just more 0:03:29.800 --> 0:03:31.680 they let their hair down, they're just you know, And 0:03:31.720 --> 0:03:35.920 I could be wrong, but they're just more fun and 0:03:36.080 --> 0:03:38.520 less high maintenance. I just I wanted to run it 0:03:38.560 --> 0:03:40.440 by you guys, and I'm getting the stony wall from 0:03:40.440 --> 0:03:43.480 Bailey over here and the stony wall from Jenny over here. 0:03:43.720 --> 0:03:45.400 I'm not trying to give you this stony wall. 0:03:45.440 --> 0:03:46.920 Like I said, I just wanted to hear the full 0:03:46.960 --> 0:03:50.480 story before I chimed in. My thing is that I 0:03:50.520 --> 0:03:52.320 don't really think it's okay to frame it in the 0:03:52.360 --> 0:03:56.320 way that you're framing it. I think it's okay to say, hey, 0:03:57.200 --> 0:04:00.920 maybe just look for someone with a really awesome personality 0:04:00.960 --> 0:04:02.520 and don't make it about looks period. 0:04:02.600 --> 0:04:04.720 Because I mean, I don't know. 0:04:04.800 --> 0:04:06.920 You go like, there are people I've dated that I 0:04:06.960 --> 0:04:10.800 didn't really feel attracted to them right away, but I 0:04:10.840 --> 0:04:12.880 got to know them as like a friend first, and 0:04:12.920 --> 0:04:17.039 I love their personality, and then they became attractive to me, 0:04:17.240 --> 0:04:20.159 even though they might not be everyone's like top pick 0:04:20.200 --> 0:04:22.680 of attractiveness, you know. So I think it's more of 0:04:22.720 --> 0:04:25.919 a framing it in a way, not so focused on 0:04:25.960 --> 0:04:29.599 the looks, more on like, hey, find someone with a 0:04:29.640 --> 0:04:32.799 funny personality that like in their bio of their dating 0:04:32.800 --> 0:04:34.360 profile they sound funny. 0:04:34.160 --> 0:04:36.320 Because what if he comes home for things given He's like, Dad, look, 0:04:36.360 --> 0:04:38.040 I bought this plain girl Michelle. 0:04:37.760 --> 0:04:42.120 Home, and Michelle's like, what, well, I don't know, it 0:04:42.279 --> 0:04:45.440 just it just I don't know. When I was his age, 0:04:45.920 --> 0:04:48.400 I was never focused on what anyone looked like. 0:04:48.560 --> 0:04:51.719 I mean, sure, no, you'd answer the radio dial up line. 0:04:51.760 --> 0:04:53.840 You'd be like, oh you're you're a female cool, come 0:04:53.880 --> 0:04:54.920 on down the station. 0:04:55.720 --> 0:04:58.320 Guilty, Yeah, And they'd show up at the front door 0:04:58.320 --> 0:05:01.400 and I'd be like, I don't I janitor, I don't 0:05:01.520 --> 0:05:04.880 I know, I don't know. And I never focused like, 0:05:04.920 --> 0:05:07.400 I mean some of the girls that some of the 0:05:08.960 --> 0:05:11.120 some of the people that I dated were it was 0:05:11.600 --> 0:05:13.120 it was a bonus if they were attracted. 0:05:13.240 --> 0:05:18.320 Yeah, I didn't care, and they seem to like me 0:05:18.560 --> 0:05:22.840 because I was got some concert tickets back in the day. 0:05:22.920 --> 0:05:24.760 I got him a free concert ticket taking to Lionel 0:05:24.800 --> 0:05:28.440 Richie Lord. Okay, the only other. 0:05:28.320 --> 0:05:30.839 Thing I'll say about dating for Carson is that he 0:05:31.000 --> 0:05:33.560 is dating in a whole different beast of a society 0:05:33.600 --> 0:05:36.800 than I think any of us will ever sat La 0:05:37.000 --> 0:05:41.080 is just La so different. I mean I have friends 0:05:41.120 --> 0:05:43.320 that like have dated out there, and also they don't 0:05:43.560 --> 0:05:45.720 They don't have as much pressure out there to date 0:05:45.800 --> 0:05:47.719 and like be married by the time you're like thirty 0:05:47.720 --> 0:05:50.839 and having kids. They're like way more chill about, Like, hey, 0:05:51.080 --> 0:05:53.280 you're forty and your single, No big deal, you know. 0:05:53.720 --> 0:05:56.800 So I feel like there's less societal pressure out there 0:05:56.880 --> 0:05:59.240 to get in a serious relationship at a younger age. 0:05:59.360 --> 0:06:01.880 But also I've just heard horror stories. I feel like 0:06:01.920 --> 0:06:04.640 anytime I hear a horror story on TikTok, it always 0:06:04.640 --> 0:06:06.360 has to do with someone dating in La. 0:06:07.400 --> 0:06:11.280 Really. Yeah, I mean, Carson's very down to earth and 0:06:11.320 --> 0:06:13.240 he's a very He's a sweet soul. He really is 0:06:13.279 --> 0:06:14.880 just a sweet soul. And I'm like, You've got so 0:06:14.960 --> 0:06:17.440 much to offer. You've got a job, you've got a car, 0:06:17.839 --> 0:06:22.400 you're a good person, you take care of yourself. He's 0:06:22.400 --> 0:06:23.960 got a lot to offer, but I think that he's 0:06:24.160 --> 0:06:30.159 just doesn't believe in himself that much. You know. It's like, no, 0:06:30.240 --> 0:06:33.799 you really have a lot to offer, so go go girls. 0:06:34.080 --> 0:06:36.160 No of course they do, but that's why I'm telling him, 0:06:36.200 --> 0:06:38.560 don't overlook the playing girls because they have a lot 0:06:38.600 --> 0:06:39.200 to offer too. 0:06:40.320 --> 0:06:41.839 Yeah, I think he should. 0:06:41.960 --> 0:06:45.000 He should do some kind of like community thing instead 0:06:45.000 --> 0:06:47.680 of trying to meet girls just like on apps and 0:06:47.720 --> 0:06:51.880 stuff like, go out and do something, because I mean, 0:06:51.920 --> 0:06:54.239 he's in La, so there's gonna be a billion singles 0:06:54.279 --> 0:06:56.600 events if he can go to an in person singles event, 0:06:56.600 --> 0:06:59.560 because as you said, Carson, he is very handsome, I 0:06:59.560 --> 0:07:01.960 think cars and is a handsome guy. But he's also, 0:07:02.080 --> 0:07:04.880 as you have said a million times, super shy, super shy, 0:07:04.920 --> 0:07:07.640 and so like he can continue being shy and being 0:07:07.640 --> 0:07:10.840 on the apps and instead of making like the plain 0:07:10.960 --> 0:07:13.680 girls kind of like, well, I guess I'll settle for 0:07:13.760 --> 0:07:17.679 a plane girl just to be able to date around. Instead, 0:07:17.720 --> 0:07:20.960 he should work on himself and his personality and be 0:07:21.000 --> 0:07:21.640 a little. 0:07:21.360 --> 0:07:24.080 Bit more gregarious. Yeah, I try getting out. 0:07:24.280 --> 0:07:26.360 Yeah, No, you're right, And I've told him that, I'm like, man, 0:07:26.400 --> 0:07:30.920 you are so quiet, I said, I don't want to 0:07:31.000 --> 0:07:34.040 hurt his feelings. So if you know, Carson, don't tell 0:07:34.080 --> 0:07:36.760 him we're talking about this. But it's like, man, you've 0:07:36.800 --> 0:07:39.160 got to have like, you know, I was shy when 0:07:39.200 --> 0:07:40.440 I was his age, but I would learn how to 0:07:40.480 --> 0:07:43.600 turn it on, right, like, hey, let's go to the arcade. 0:07:43.760 --> 0:07:44.000 Yeah. 0:07:44.040 --> 0:07:46.600 And I think if he's only meeting girls on dating apps, 0:07:46.600 --> 0:07:50.200 then he's not being challenged to change himself to me 0:07:50.440 --> 0:07:51.400 less shy. 0:07:51.560 --> 0:07:53.600 You know, I don't know. I just you just worry 0:07:53.600 --> 0:07:55.720 about your kids and you just want him to have 0:07:56.680 --> 0:07:58.720 the best, you know something. You know, Like I said, 0:07:58.720 --> 0:07:59.960 I was a dad by his age. 0:08:00.440 --> 0:08:01.880 Yeah, but was that a good choice? 0:08:02.080 --> 0:08:02.600 Six times? 0:08:02.680 --> 0:08:03.120 Yeah? 0:08:03.200 --> 0:08:05.920 I mean you know, in hindsight, yeah. 0:08:05.560 --> 0:08:07.000 Six times once removed. 0:08:09.560 --> 0:08:12.600 Anyway, don't misinterpret what I'm saying. I'm not saying anything that. 0:08:13.280 --> 0:08:15.840 Don't read anything into this that I'm saying that like 0:08:16.080 --> 0:08:18.320 playing girls are less worthy. That's not what I'm saying. 0:08:18.720 --> 0:08:23.400 I'm saying. Just don't aim so high and looking for 0:08:23.480 --> 0:08:25.559 a you know, one hundred and ten pounds side zero 0:08:25.760 --> 0:08:33.480 Instagram model. Find somebody who's more normal and average. Does 0:08:33.520 --> 0:08:34.280 that sound awful? 0:08:34.720 --> 0:08:37.240 I think it's I get where you're trying to get to, 0:08:37.520 --> 0:08:39.800 because I understand that. I think that a lot of 0:08:39.840 --> 0:08:42.160 people just get on a dating app and everything is 0:08:42.160 --> 0:08:43.480 about looks right off the bat. 0:08:43.360 --> 0:08:45.200 Of course, because that's what the first thing is, you 0:08:45.240 --> 0:08:46.080 see exactly. 0:08:46.480 --> 0:08:49.120 Yeah, So I think that most people, yes, they are 0:08:49.280 --> 0:08:52.240 going off of looks and they don't really read into 0:08:52.280 --> 0:08:54.720 their profiles as much. So I understand that, Like I 0:08:54.720 --> 0:08:57.920 think a lot of people are probably going for people 0:08:57.960 --> 0:09:01.640 that maybe are a little bit more attractive, and they 0:09:01.720 --> 0:09:06.240 don't consider anyone else who isn't super hot. And I 0:09:06.280 --> 0:09:09.720 do agree that Carson should challenge himself to not go for. 0:09:09.840 --> 0:09:12.280 Just the hot girls. But I would just say. 0:09:12.240 --> 0:09:16.240 Not to say go for a Plaine girl, Say just like, hey, 0:09:16.320 --> 0:09:18.720 stop going for the hot graand model who looks like 0:09:18.840 --> 0:09:20.480 they're going to ask you to pay for her nails 0:09:20.480 --> 0:09:22.720 by date two, Like that's how I would. 0:09:22.520 --> 0:09:23.760 Probably get that kind of money. 0:09:23.960 --> 0:09:25.840 Well, they're just saying, so tell him that he does 0:09:26.080 --> 0:09:28.480 have that kind of money, he can't afford her. So 0:09:28.840 --> 0:09:31.320 move on to someone who looks a little bit more 0:09:31.520 --> 0:09:33.200 fun and chill and likes to have. 0:09:33.120 --> 0:09:36.360 A beer, right or the challenges go beyond like if 0:09:36.400 --> 0:09:39.040 you think there, if you don't think that they're hot, 0:09:39.120 --> 0:09:42.680 instantly still click into their profile to see what they're about. Yeah, 0:09:42.720 --> 0:09:45.319 So like the looks part, take that and make it secondary. 0:09:45.520 --> 0:09:48.000 So cause even if I mean maybe she's super duper hot, 0:09:48.040 --> 0:09:50.600 I don't want to judge the super duper hot girl either, like, oh, 0:09:50.640 --> 0:09:51.720 she's gonna be high maintenance. 0:09:51.760 --> 0:09:52.720 Well maybe she's just hot. 0:09:52.840 --> 0:09:55.040 No one, Well I mean that, and that's very true. 0:09:55.040 --> 0:09:56.960 There's a caveat right there. It's like there's some super 0:09:57.000 --> 0:09:59.840 duper hot girls that are very chill. They love to 0:09:59.840 --> 0:10:02.680 do like I don't know, fun stuff. They love to 0:10:02.720 --> 0:10:04.720 get like down and dirty. By that, I mean like 0:10:04.760 --> 0:10:07.000 they might go like a muddon. You might find a 0:10:07.040 --> 0:10:09.360 super hot girl that likes to go mutton and likes 0:10:09.360 --> 0:10:12.760 to drink grain belt while watching the Packers game, you know, trash. 0:10:12.880 --> 0:10:16.160 Yeah, excuse me, that sounds like a dream for me. 0:10:18.840 --> 0:10:20.520 All right, Sorry if I made you mad, I'm not 0:10:20.559 --> 0:10:23.880 there was my not my intention to be politically correct here. 0:10:24.440 --> 0:10:27.400 I'm just trying to figure out what advice to give Mike. 0:10:27.559 --> 0:10:29.079 This is why I wanted to run it by you guys, 0:10:29.480 --> 0:10:33.800 And as always, you guys are honest with me. You 0:10:33.800 --> 0:10:34.360 should go to a. 0:10:34.280 --> 0:10:36.240 Pitchure friend Los Angeles. I just looked it up. There's 0:10:36.280 --> 0:10:39.040 a chapter in Los Angeles period. Is that the one 0:10:39.160 --> 0:10:40.679 that's when I went to like all summer long? 0:10:40.720 --> 0:10:42.680 But does Cartson have to make like a power pot 0:10:42.840 --> 0:10:45.440 just go and watch, go and watch and then like 0:10:45.520 --> 0:10:46.280 walk up to women. 0:10:46.320 --> 0:10:48.840 Wouldn't you also say that it's more heavily women pitching 0:10:48.880 --> 0:10:51.439 with Yes, so that probably is more in his benefit 0:10:51.600 --> 0:10:54.080 because it'll be way more female there. 0:10:54.400 --> 0:10:56.520 And there's probably a million others like break the Bubble. 0:10:56.800 --> 0:10:59.120 Stephanie always talks about to break the Bubble events, and 0:10:59.160 --> 0:11:00.719 I'm sure there's a break the Bubble la. 0:11:00.920 --> 0:11:02.000 Is that the same kind of thing? 0:11:02.080 --> 0:11:02.320 Yeah? 0:11:02.720 --> 0:11:04.800 Yeah, there's so many different, like because people are sick 0:11:04.840 --> 0:11:07.200 of apps, so they have all these some cool different 0:11:07.240 --> 0:11:11.080 like singles, events, things that you can do now yeah, 0:11:11.120 --> 0:11:11.760 all over the place. 0:11:11.760 --> 0:11:13.320 Okay, well, thanks for that. I appreciate the input. 0:11:13.440 --> 0:11:15.000 I'll make a list for you to send to him. 0:11:15.040 --> 0:11:16.760 I will tell you one thing he does not like 0:11:17.200 --> 0:11:19.760 dating advice or anything from his dad. 0:11:19.800 --> 0:11:21.760 What about from me. Should I send it to him? 0:11:22.240 --> 0:11:24.880 I think it would go really really well. Yes, he 0:11:25.000 --> 0:11:27.080 go buddy to see if you were younger, If you 0:11:27.120 --> 0:11:29.439 were ten years younger, ew and Carson would be great 0:11:29.440 --> 0:11:31.880 because you're chatty and talkative. And I think somebody who's 0:11:31.880 --> 0:11:34.320 shy love somebody who's chatty and talkative to fill those 0:11:34.320 --> 0:11:35.120 awkward paces. 0:11:35.320 --> 0:11:37.240 Yeah, but then would I only be talking to myself? 0:11:37.280 --> 0:11:39.640 Would I actually be enjoying his company or just enjoying mine? 0:11:40.320 --> 0:11:43.960 You enjoy your own company, I do, I do around. 0:11:43.800 --> 0:11:45.920 R What did we get wrong? What did we get right? 0:11:45.960 --> 0:11:47.959 All right, thank you for the input. I appreciate it. 0:11:47.960 --> 0:11:51.640 It is k d WB. The Daily Bailey is coming 0:11:51.720 --> 0:11:54.600 up next. Song is too short. There's no time for 0:11:54.600 --> 0:11:56.199 a DJ to go to the bathroom or have a 0:11:56.240 --> 0:11:58.360 smoke during that song. We're going to play longer songs 0:11:58.360 --> 0:12:00.480 on the show. Oh well, that's what I'm going to 0:12:00.520 --> 0:12:02.480 do during twenty twenty six, play longer songs when go 0:12:02.480 --> 0:12:03.080 on to smoke break. 0:12:03.960 --> 0:12:05.720 We should do that because otherwise Dave just lights up 0:12:05.760 --> 0:12:08.360 a cigarette in the studio. Yeah, like, screw you, guys, 0:12:08.520 --> 0:12:10.480 I need my cigarette. 0:12:10.559 --> 0:12:13.200 I disabled to smoke. Detectors and don't worry about it 0:12:13.240 --> 0:12:16.920 is fine. 0:12:19.000 --> 0:12:22.120 I have a list of how you can romanticize winter 0:12:22.440 --> 0:12:27.000 after Christmas, thank God, because winter is long and Christmas 0:12:27.080 --> 0:12:29.520 is magical and we miss it when it's gone. So 0:12:29.600 --> 0:12:33.720 here's how you can continue romanticizing the winter season after Christmas. 0:12:33.800 --> 0:12:35.319 Number one, keep. 0:12:35.120 --> 0:12:39.400 The twinkle lights. Warm lighting equals instant, cozy, and calmer 0:12:39.480 --> 0:12:42.400 nervous systems. There's no rule you have to take them down, so. 0:12:42.480 --> 0:12:43.160 Keep them up. 0:12:43.800 --> 0:12:50.079 Number two, hibernate on purpose, maximizing having no plans in January. 0:12:50.120 --> 0:12:53.640 Lower your expectations, to lower your pace. We're all animals, 0:12:53.960 --> 0:12:57.480 after all. Rest is not isolation, it's restoration, which sounds 0:12:57.520 --> 0:12:58.520 like something Jenny would say. 0:12:58.720 --> 0:12:59.439 Yes yes. 0:13:00.320 --> 0:13:03.800 Number three, make dates with sunlight and plan for the 0:13:03.840 --> 0:13:07.080 gloomy days, so even a minute with your face in 0:13:07.120 --> 0:13:10.520 the sun counts. And on gray days, use a sun lamp. 0:13:10.840 --> 0:13:12.800 I've always wanted a sun lamp and I've never gotten one, 0:13:12.840 --> 0:13:16.559 but Amazon, I should just get one. And then also 0:13:16.600 --> 0:13:19.240 a reminder to take your vitamin D vitamins. If you don't, 0:13:19.480 --> 0:13:23.600 you should get taken every day. Sunnight, good amazing. Number four, 0:13:24.000 --> 0:13:27.719 Christmas may be over, but whimsy can continue to stay. 0:13:27.840 --> 0:13:31.120 You can cut out, you know, paper stars, garlands, celestial corners. 0:13:31.200 --> 0:13:35.280 Let your home glow because winter is the season of night. 0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:36.280 That's what it says. 0:13:36.320 --> 0:13:37.960 Here is the season at night. 0:13:38.040 --> 0:13:42.199 Sounds pretty much because after Christmas and the holidays are over, 0:13:42.240 --> 0:13:42.840 it's just winter. 0:13:43.000 --> 0:13:45.040 It's dark, man, So it's dark, okay. 0:13:45.120 --> 0:13:49.080 Number five, Lean into cooked foods and cozy drinks. 0:13:49.040 --> 0:13:51.079 Soups, stews, hot. 0:13:50.880 --> 0:13:53.600 Chocolate and you know, eggoes. I don't know, whatever you 0:13:53.600 --> 0:13:56.720 want to make that's warm, I tell you seriously. 0:13:56.800 --> 0:13:59.720 A crock pot. Yeah, it fills the whole house up 0:13:59.800 --> 0:14:02.960 with something delicious smelling, and it's usually kind of hearty. 0:14:03.200 --> 0:14:05.440 You know. One of my favorites is chicken and dumplings 0:14:05.480 --> 0:14:07.720 in the crockpot. Really really easy to make with those 0:14:07.760 --> 0:14:10.280 refrigerator pills, wary biscuits, they're super easy to make. Oh 0:14:10.320 --> 0:14:11.880 that sounds really really good early yeah. 0:14:12.080 --> 0:14:13.959 Yeah, and so say hey, lean into those cooked foods, 0:14:13.960 --> 0:14:14.880 cozy drinks and things. 0:14:15.520 --> 0:14:16.080 Number six. 0:14:16.240 --> 0:14:19.600 Let fresh air in daily, even if it's freezing. Crack 0:14:19.640 --> 0:14:21.880 a window for a few minutes. Your body and brain 0:14:22.000 --> 0:14:22.640 will think. 0:14:22.560 --> 0:14:24.200 It's hard enough to do to cariboo and roll my 0:14:24.240 --> 0:14:26.680 window down three inches to order my coffee. 0:14:26.920 --> 0:14:32.160 No, no, Okay, number seven, it's citrus season. Two oranges, lemons, 0:14:32.200 --> 0:14:33.840 grapefruit are meant for winter. 0:14:34.040 --> 0:14:37.200 You can juice them, zest them, or put the peels 0:14:37.240 --> 0:14:40.240 in simmer pots on the stove. So again, your whole 0:14:40.280 --> 0:14:42.480 place owns smell delicious. 0:14:42.680 --> 0:14:46.000 So those are some ways that you can continue to 0:14:46.080 --> 0:14:47.320 romanticize winter passes. 0:14:47.360 --> 0:14:51.920 Thank you for that, Papa. Much Motivational Monday on kd WB. 0:14:52.080 --> 0:14:53.920 This is a different one. I found this and it's 0:14:53.920 --> 0:14:55.760 not really motivational. I just thought it was really interesting 0:14:55.800 --> 0:14:58.040 to see what you guys think. Thirteen things to do 0:14:58.120 --> 0:15:02.120 alone at least once in your life. Here we go. 0:15:02.760 --> 0:15:06.800 Eat at a nice restaurant by yourself. Learn to enjoy 0:15:06.840 --> 0:15:10.200 your own company instead of needing an audience. I've done 0:15:10.200 --> 0:15:11.920 that many times. You go up to the bar, the 0:15:11.960 --> 0:15:14.800 bartender she's usually friendly and they you know. You get 0:15:14.800 --> 0:15:17.840 better service at the bar sometimes, and you can watch 0:15:17.880 --> 0:15:22.040 TV while you're doing them. Spend a weekend in silence. 0:15:23.000 --> 0:15:26.360 Watch how loud your mind really is. Take a long 0:15:26.440 --> 0:15:30.160 walk with no phone. I always do that. Take a 0:15:30.240 --> 0:15:32.040 long while, I don't get on the phone, well, I 0:15:32.360 --> 0:15:32.920 do listen to. 0:15:35.040 --> 0:15:35.360 Something. 0:15:37.040 --> 0:15:40.200 Go to the movies alone. Stop waiting for permission to 0:15:40.280 --> 0:15:43.760 enjoy life. Sit in a cafe for hours observing people. 0:15:44.160 --> 0:15:45.960 It teaches more about life than books. 0:15:46.320 --> 0:15:47.760 That's a little creepy. 0:15:50.240 --> 0:15:51.920 There's a girl at the table in the back and 0:15:52.000 --> 0:15:56.640 she's just lurking, staring at people. Yeah right, Face a 0:15:56.720 --> 0:16:02.000 problem without asking anyone for advice. Trust yourself. That's a 0:16:02.000 --> 0:16:06.080 hard one. We love to get advice. Should I do this? 0:16:06.520 --> 0:16:09.320 Should I do that? Let me ask Bailey, Let me 0:16:09.360 --> 0:16:14.800 ask Jenny. Travel somewhere without planning everything. Learn to adapt 0:16:14.800 --> 0:16:19.880 instead of control. Go to a gym alone. Prove discipline 0:16:19.920 --> 0:16:21.760 doesn't need company. I do think that most people do 0:16:21.800 --> 0:16:22.560 go to the gym alone. 0:16:22.600 --> 0:16:25.040 Yeah, like, I feel like it's less people who go 0:16:25.120 --> 0:16:26.520 with someone. Right, you, guys, I want to go to 0:16:26.600 --> 0:16:27.120 the gym together. 0:16:27.880 --> 0:16:32.520 Yeah right. Spend a night without touching your phone. And 0:16:32.560 --> 0:16:34.960 that doesn't mean sleep without touching your phone. That means 0:16:35.040 --> 0:16:38.160 an evening starting at six pm or so without touching 0:16:38.160 --> 0:16:44.080 your phone. Try something you're scared of. Fear loses power 0:16:44.600 --> 0:16:49.600 when faced alone. In case it's a little weird, cry 0:16:49.640 --> 0:16:53.600 without hiding it. Honesty with yourself is the beginning of growth. 0:16:53.920 --> 0:16:55.440 I like some of those, and some of those are 0:16:55.440 --> 0:16:57.960 a little bit weird little woo woo little. I like 0:16:58.040 --> 0:16:59.520 some of those, like go to a movie or a 0:16:59.600 --> 0:17:00.680 restaurant by yourself. 0:17:00.760 --> 0:17:02.320 Yeah, I dontuff all the time. 0:17:02.720 --> 0:17:04.800 Definitely like the sit in a cafe and stare at 0:17:04.840 --> 0:17:08.159 people for hours. 0:17:08.600 --> 0:17:10.200 That was just a little bit weird. 0:17:11.840 --> 0:17:14.120 Motivational Monday on Katie But you be, Vonn's gonna sterve 0:17:14.160 --> 0:17:16.040 the pot. Coming up in a second, and we'll wrap 0:17:16.119 --> 0:17:18.760 up Dave's dirt and then check on the soup brackets 0:17:18.760 --> 0:17:20.800 to see how that's coming along. Yeah, all coming up 0:17:20.800 --> 0:17:25.720 next on KATIEWB. The Dave Ryan Show on KATIEWB and 0:17:26.359 --> 0:17:29.560 Bone is here to stir the pot for the first time. 0:17:30.240 --> 0:17:31.760 I think it's the first time in the year, isn't 0:17:31.760 --> 0:17:33.639 it in the first time on the air. Okay, Yeah, 0:17:33.720 --> 0:17:34.280 let's do it. 0:17:34.440 --> 0:17:38.200 Cinnamon apple sauce is better than regular apple sauce. I've 0:17:38.240 --> 0:17:40.479 had so much time to go back and forth about this. 0:17:40.520 --> 0:17:42.040 I got my wizarm teeth out over the break, so 0:17:42.080 --> 0:17:45.879 I've been on a strink mashed potato smoothie apple sauce diet. 0:17:46.520 --> 0:17:49.080 Regular apple sauce is just plenty. It's a bit sour, honestly, 0:17:49.160 --> 0:17:51.720 kind of bitter. Okay, Oh, Okay, you. 0:17:51.680 --> 0:17:52.640 Know what, I agree with you. 0:17:53.080 --> 0:17:55.639 The cinnamon apple sauce is top tier apple sauce. 0:17:56.440 --> 0:17:57.240 Here's a hot take. 0:17:57.280 --> 0:17:59.679 If you're eating any apple sauce and you don't have 0:17:59.680 --> 0:18:03.240 a spoo, just take the lid, fold it in maybe 0:18:03.240 --> 0:18:05.320 a half or a fourth, and use the lid. 0:18:05.359 --> 0:18:07.560 As you're just talking about the snack packs, not obviously 0:18:07.640 --> 0:18:08.840 the jar of apple sauce. 0:18:08.560 --> 0:18:12.199