WEBVTT - Is That a Compliment? 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.720 Kevin was more socially active yesterday than he's been in 0:00:02.759 --> 0:00:07.240 the history of Kevin's life, and not one socially active 0:00:07.280 --> 0:00:10.200 event that he did he shared with Mojo in the 0:00:10.240 --> 0:00:14.000 Morning at all. He had tom Izzo and loop Azo on. Yeah, 0:00:14.080 --> 0:00:18.000 he did a ton of Pistons stuff, And I'm like, 0:00:18.000 --> 0:00:20.960 wait a second, we have to beg him to post 0:00:20.960 --> 0:00:23.520 something on Mojo in the morning when we all have 0:00:23.680 --> 0:00:24.560 our select time. 0:00:25.239 --> 0:00:27.720 I just realized last night was so sweet one day. 0:00:28.600 --> 0:00:30.920 Indeed, Yeah, you guys look great by don't both you 0:00:30.920 --> 0:00:31.760 guys look really. 0:00:31.600 --> 0:00:33.960 Good that except for some lady named Carol on Facebook. 0:00:34.000 --> 0:00:37.680 But Carol just sounds like she would write a mean comment. 0:00:37.920 --> 0:00:41.479 She said, uh, they do not look good. Something like 0:00:41.640 --> 0:00:44.640 Anna's baggy pants and Lydia's boobs. 0:00:45.280 --> 0:00:47.000 She said, my boobs look ridiculous. 0:00:47.200 --> 0:00:48.880 They are ridiculous, and I could. 0:00:49.040 --> 0:00:50.800 I just wish I had your boobs for one day 0:00:50.920 --> 0:00:52.560 so I knew what it was like one day. 0:00:52.880 --> 0:00:55.480 Keep in mind, I've had got I. 0:00:55.480 --> 0:00:57.840 Know your boobs are a boom in last night? 0:00:58.680 --> 0:01:01.319 Does she not also realize is that baggy pan thing 0:01:01.440 --> 0:01:01.640 is in? 0:01:02.800 --> 0:01:05.280 She she looked like an older woman. Hope you're doing great. 0:01:05.360 --> 0:01:06.080 If listening. 0:01:06.160 --> 0:01:08.759 Oh gosh, well, Carol, you know what, if you can't 0:01:08.800 --> 0:01:11.120 say something nice, don't say something at all, please, Carol, 0:01:11.200 --> 0:01:13.559 And we we won't get it. We won't get into 0:01:13.600 --> 0:01:18.479 your game. But Throwback throw Down tomorrow. Kevin Shannon are 0:01:18.520 --> 0:01:22.400 tied at four wins. Uh in the Throwback throw Down, 0:01:22.520 --> 0:01:25.360 Anna Mike with a couple of wins just a little bit. 0:01:25.520 --> 0:01:27.960 I'm tied with Mike. I feel like I made it. 0:01:28.040 --> 0:01:30.880 That's good. And Mike's actually won a couple of years 0:01:30.920 --> 0:01:31.240 in a row. 0:01:31.319 --> 0:01:31.399 Ye. 0:01:33.160 --> 0:01:36.080 Speaking of that, what we talked about with the Carol Lady, 0:01:36.200 --> 0:01:39.680 it's Mojo in the Morning Show. Anna wants to know 0:01:40.680 --> 0:01:44.240 if this is a negative thing to say to somebody 0:01:44.400 --> 0:01:47.440 or is this a compliment somebody said something to you 0:01:47.480 --> 0:01:48.520 And uh huh. 0:01:48.600 --> 0:01:50.880 So a guy slid up on one of my stories 0:01:50.920 --> 0:01:55.360 on Instagram and his comment to me was, wow, you 0:01:55.600 --> 0:01:59.720 got so hot, And to me, all I heard was 0:01:59.840 --> 0:02:03.320 you used to be ugly and now you're hot. But 0:02:03.400 --> 0:02:06.360 I was like, he probably was trying to say something nice. 0:02:06.440 --> 0:02:08.920 I have changed a lot since I met him, like 0:02:09.000 --> 0:02:11.640 five years ago. I used to be a little heavier, 0:02:11.639 --> 0:02:14.560 I used to have blonde hair, so I really I 0:02:15.240 --> 0:02:16.519 didn't take it as a compliment. 0:02:16.840 --> 0:02:19.840 Is is that a Is that not a compliment if 0:02:19.840 --> 0:02:21.520 somebody says that to you because they are saying to you, 0:02:21.600 --> 0:02:22.720 whow you look amazing? 0:02:23.840 --> 0:02:26.280 You got you got so yeah? 0:02:27.680 --> 0:02:30.840 Yeah. Is it just as bad if he would have said, 0:02:30.960 --> 0:02:32.240 oh my god, you look so hot? 0:02:32.600 --> 0:02:34.400 No, that would have been fine. Why did he have 0:02:34.480 --> 0:02:36.320 to say got like that. 0:02:37.840 --> 0:02:38.639 There was a comparison. 0:02:38.800 --> 0:02:41.280 Yeah, but remember this, if he said you look so hot, 0:02:41.360 --> 0:02:43.320 it's almost the same exact thing when you fully think 0:02:43.360 --> 0:02:47.000 about it, because he's looking at you completely different. I'm 0:02:47.000 --> 0:02:48.840 not gonna but I'm not gonna lie to you, guys. 0:02:49.080 --> 0:02:50.800 There are some times where I look at you guys 0:02:50.800 --> 0:02:53.040 and you're like, eh, you know whatever. And then I 0:02:53.040 --> 0:02:55.200 look at you guys sometimes and I'm like, you guys 0:02:55.240 --> 0:02:57.639 look really good, Like I never really even thought about you. 0:02:57.560 --> 0:02:59.120 Like that, you know, And I would just say you 0:02:59.200 --> 0:03:00.840 look you look pretty like. 0:03:01.080 --> 0:03:01.680 I don't know. 0:03:02.280 --> 0:03:03.399 I don't know that was back. 0:03:03.560 --> 0:03:05.639 I don't know, because I do, like, I think it 0:03:05.720 --> 0:03:08.520 is a compliment to say to somebody like, oh, you've 0:03:08.520 --> 0:03:11.280 had a I don't know, a glow up. I said 0:03:11.000 --> 0:03:13.040 I said this to us recently. I'm like, dang, he 0:03:13.120 --> 0:03:15.639 was looking at Old I call him the fat west Era. 0:03:16.000 --> 0:03:17.359 We were looking at the fat west Ara. I'm like, 0:03:17.400 --> 0:03:20.440 you've had yeah, you've had a glow up. But I 0:03:20.440 --> 0:03:22.480 guess that's the same thing as what this guy said 0:03:22.520 --> 0:03:22.840 to you. 0:03:23.080 --> 0:03:27.120 Of How about yesterday when Zach said, oh, man mooge, 0:03:27.600 --> 0:03:30.160 you've lost a lot of weight, and I do that 0:03:30.200 --> 0:03:32.120 whole thing. I'm going, wait, so you're saying that I 0:03:32.200 --> 0:03:33.840 was fat, but you. 0:03:33.800 --> 0:03:34.960 Woul acknowledge that you were. 0:03:35.080 --> 0:03:36.080 I know, but I'm just trying to make. 0:03:36.040 --> 0:03:39.480 Him feel Okay. I've said this before. I don't know 0:03:39.480 --> 0:03:41.600 how I feel about this. When people say, oh my gosh, 0:03:41.600 --> 0:03:45.160 you're so much prettier in person, that too, so I'm like, 0:03:45.480 --> 0:03:48.600 are my social media photos really that ugly? 0:03:49.480 --> 0:03:51.760 By the way, posting you never know. 0:03:51.960 --> 0:03:53.880 It is funny when people do come up to us 0:03:53.960 --> 0:03:56.520 and they'll say things to us that they probably would 0:03:56.520 --> 0:03:58.960 never say to anybody else, but they'll go, oh my god, 0:03:59.440 --> 0:04:02.080 you're so much bigger in person, Like that's a bad way, 0:04:02.440 --> 0:04:03.880 you're so much smaller in person. 0:04:04.080 --> 0:04:07.119 Something similar happened last night. There were some mortgage guys 0:04:07.120 --> 0:04:09.160 sitting next to us at the Pistons game, and Lydia 0:04:09.200 --> 0:04:10.760 and I were talking to them and they said, you're 0:04:10.800 --> 0:04:13.480 way too pretty pretty for radio, which in my mind, 0:04:13.520 --> 0:04:15.040 I was like, why are you hating on radio? 0:04:15.320 --> 0:04:17.280 Like you could be pretty and being radio. I get it. 0:04:17.440 --> 0:04:19.800 You know you don't see your face on radio. 0:04:19.600 --> 0:04:21.760 But nowadays you do because everything's do. 0:04:22.240 --> 0:04:25.479 Go back to go back to the booby talk here 0:04:25.480 --> 0:04:28.599 for a second and in the Carol Lady doing it. 0:04:28.839 --> 0:04:31.000 You wouldn't think that a woman would be the person 0:04:31.080 --> 0:04:34.360 that would be the negative on something like that. 0:04:34.480 --> 0:04:37.200 Yeah you would, Yeah, you would. Women are so cruel 0:04:37.200 --> 0:04:39.880 to other women sometimes, Yes, I would think it would 0:04:39.880 --> 0:04:43.680 have been one of our dumb guy okay o, our 0:04:43.720 --> 0:04:46.240 fave salesperson, Angel just texted me and she said, what 0:04:46.320 --> 0:04:49.280 about when somebody says to you. 0:04:48.440 --> 0:04:52.320 You haven't changed a bit? Is that a compliment or not? 0:04:53.320 --> 0:04:56.279 Honestly know, I don't because then I'm like, oh. 0:04:56.200 --> 0:05:00.120 I definitely want to look better than I looked in 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:01.360 high school or college. 0:05:01.600 --> 0:05:03.960 Right, See, I think that you haven't changed a bit 0:05:04.120 --> 0:05:06.000 is good you should, especially as I get older. I 0:05:06.040 --> 0:05:08.960 want I don't want to feel like I am older 0:05:09.040 --> 0:05:11.920 and look older, like if somebody says that or man, 0:05:12.000 --> 0:05:13.880 you look good for your age. Is another one too, 0:05:13.920 --> 0:05:16.520 that people will say for your age. Yeah, you people 0:05:16.560 --> 0:05:17.359 will say that to you. 0:05:19.040 --> 0:05:20.400 Well, like, I'll take that compliment. 0:05:21.320 --> 0:05:23.359 Kay. I was out it with somebody yesterday that was 0:05:23.400 --> 0:05:25.920 sixty two. They told me they were sixty two. I'll 0:05:25.920 --> 0:05:27.760 talk about it later and so you find out who 0:05:27.800 --> 0:05:29.400 it is. But they were, They said that there were 0:05:29.400 --> 0:05:31.520 sixty two. I'm not gonna lie to yet. I thought 0:05:31.600 --> 0:05:35.000 they were. I thought they were like I thought forty. Honestly, 0:05:35.040 --> 0:05:38.600 I thought that they were just about fifty years old. Yeah, wow, Yeah. 0:05:38.680 --> 0:05:40.720 Eight four to four Mojo Live. Eight four four sixty 0:05:40.720 --> 0:05:44.120 sixty five sixty five four eight is our telephone number. Uh, 0:05:44.320 --> 0:05:46.720 the text lines are going crazy here right now. 0:05:46.880 --> 0:05:48.320 Secret sounds still No. 0:05:49.120 --> 0:05:52.960 Two four eight Carol's an a hole. Another two four 0:05:53.000 --> 0:05:55.880 eight from Lauren Carol is an a hole. So there's 0:05:55.880 --> 0:06:02.640 two different Carols and a holes. Heather Heather flat chested, 0:06:02.760 --> 0:06:07.880 Carol is hating and you rock those boobs? Lydia. What's up, Amanda? 0:06:07.920 --> 0:06:08.440 How you doing? 0:06:09.720 --> 0:06:10.120 I'm good? 0:06:10.160 --> 0:06:12.960 How are you fantastic? Tell me? What are your thoughts 0:06:13.040 --> 0:06:16.040 on this? When Anna was said and what was it again. 0:06:15.839 --> 0:06:17.360 That the guys got so hot? 0:06:17.480 --> 0:06:19.279 You got so hot? What do you think about that. 0:06:20.760 --> 0:06:23.359 I can see it both ways, and I think like 0:06:23.560 --> 0:06:26.599 how I would personally interpret it would depend on my 0:06:26.800 --> 0:06:29.479 mood that day, because like, if you put in the 0:06:29.560 --> 0:06:33.040 work to get hot, I might be like, oh, thanks, 0:06:33.080 --> 0:06:35.479 like you notice the effort that I put in. But 0:06:35.680 --> 0:06:38.400 I also see where Anna's coming from. But I hate 0:06:38.440 --> 0:06:42.320 when people say, oh, you look tired. Why as a 0:06:42.400 --> 0:06:46.719 society are we so comfortable with saying that to people? 0:06:46.839 --> 0:06:50.000 That's so rude And it's like, oh, well, I'm just 0:06:50.040 --> 0:06:50.880 concerned about you. 0:06:51.440 --> 0:06:53.880 Yeah, what if they're saying about What if they're saying 0:06:53.920 --> 0:06:56.200 because they're worried about your health? Like what if that's 0:06:56.200 --> 0:06:58.240 the case, Well. 0:06:58.160 --> 0:07:00.799 Then like if you're not my mom, don't worry. 0:07:01.279 --> 0:07:04.880 I want your hour, okay, Okay, are you feeling Yeah, 0:07:04.920 --> 0:07:05.520 Like before I. 0:07:05.440 --> 0:07:07.839 Would say you look tired, I've had somebody come up 0:07:07.880 --> 0:07:09.600 to me one time and say that you look pale, 0:07:09.760 --> 0:07:12.720 like you look like like like you look like like sickly. 0:07:13.360 --> 0:07:14.160 Right, yes, I know. 0:07:15.640 --> 0:07:17.920 You look pale to be like you're oh my god, 0:07:17.960 --> 0:07:19.320 you look like you're about to pap. 0:07:19.120 --> 0:07:20.720 Out, like are you okay? 0:07:21.000 --> 0:07:23.640 Which like also I'm a very pale person and people 0:07:23.640 --> 0:07:25.600 tell me that all the time, and I'm like, no. 0:07:25.720 --> 0:07:26.320 Like, that's with me. 0:07:26.640 --> 0:07:28.920 But if I'm like at work and someone's like, oh, 0:07:28.960 --> 0:07:32.440 you look tired, what what goal are we having her? 0:07:32.920 --> 0:07:37.160 What the purpose? Justanks, Amanda, talk to you later, thank you. 0:07:37.880 --> 0:07:40.600 What's going on, Stacy, Hi, it's Mojo in the morning. 0:07:41.920 --> 0:07:47.160 Good morning, good morning. So so I just had to laugh. 0:07:47.360 --> 0:07:50.440 It's kind of a joke in my family that I 0:07:50.440 --> 0:07:53.120 have a best friend and I've known her since I 0:07:53.200 --> 0:07:57.400 was in middle school and I'm fifty five right now. 0:07:58.200 --> 0:08:01.680 She will always introduce me by saying to people she 0:08:01.960 --> 0:08:03.040 is beautiful now. 0:08:03.080 --> 0:08:04.160 But you should have seen. 0:08:04.000 --> 0:08:08.520 Her kid, Oh my god, were you and I? 0:08:08.560 --> 0:08:10.480 And it was And I got to the point where 0:08:10.480 --> 0:08:12.560 I was like, if you do that again, I'm literally 0:08:12.600 --> 0:08:15.920 gonna punch you, because first of all, it's not true. 0:08:16.080 --> 0:08:19.680 I just have more confidence now, and I even I 0:08:19.720 --> 0:08:22.520 can verify my children's see pictures. They're like, we don't 0:08:22.520 --> 0:08:24.880 know what she's talking about, mom. And the fact that 0:08:24.920 --> 0:08:28.520 she feels like she can say that every time is crazy. 0:08:28.560 --> 0:08:30.440 And she still says that even after I threatened to 0:08:30.440 --> 0:08:31.080 punch herself. 0:08:31.840 --> 0:08:32.839 That's yea. 0:08:32.960 --> 0:08:35.280 And I love you, guys, and I'm so happy that 0:08:35.360 --> 0:08:35.679 for that. 0:08:35.640 --> 0:08:38.520 Woman, that one that was awesome. She was amazing. Yeah, 0:08:38.559 --> 0:08:39.839 she's so cool, wonderful. 0:08:40.080 --> 0:08:42.760 You make my day every day. I love you. 0:08:43.000 --> 0:08:44.520 I miss you on Saturdays. 0:08:45.320 --> 0:08:47.360 Oh, well, we love you, but we're not working on 0:08:47.400 --> 0:08:48.160 a Saturday. 0:08:48.520 --> 0:08:50.320 No, I don't want you to work on a Saturday. 0:08:50.320 --> 0:08:52.080 I can miss you podcast. 0:08:52.200 --> 0:08:54.040 Listen to the podcast and you can get caught up 0:08:54.040 --> 0:09:00.120 with us. What's up page, How you doing? We're doing? Okay, 0:09:00.120 --> 0:09:01.080 what's going on with you? 0:09:03.080 --> 0:09:03.400 Yeah? 0:09:03.400 --> 0:09:06.440 So after I gave birth, I had someone say to. 0:09:06.360 --> 0:09:11.320 Me, wow, you look really good, like you bounced fat. 0:09:11.480 --> 0:09:14.080 I saw a friend that just had a baby and 0:09:14.160 --> 0:09:17.520 his wife looked amazing, and I said to one them, 0:09:17.520 --> 0:09:20.320 I go, I go, oh my god, you guys look amazing. 0:09:20.920 --> 0:09:22.679 Because I didn't want to just pinpoint it on her, 0:09:22.720 --> 0:09:24.960 but he's always looked the same. But I wanted to 0:09:24.960 --> 0:09:27.560 say to her because it is amazing after somebody gives 0:09:27.600 --> 0:09:30.520 a birth. How some people don't even look like they 0:09:30.559 --> 0:09:31.080 gave birth. 0:09:31.800 --> 0:09:34.640 It's a really easy compliment to give, just say, oh 0:09:34.720 --> 0:09:38.640 my gosh, you look amazing. It's the qualifier of for 0:09:38.840 --> 0:09:39.600 just having a baby. 0:09:39.760 --> 0:09:42.680 Right. That always got to me, Oh gosh, Mallory, what's 0:09:42.679 --> 0:09:43.079 going on? 0:09:44.679 --> 0:09:49.000 Hi? I work in an outpatient lab. So I see 0:09:49.080 --> 0:09:51.400 older people all the time who are not afraid to 0:09:51.400 --> 0:09:53.880 say what they're thinking. And the amount of times of 0:09:54.000 --> 0:09:56.680 how a patient say to me, Wow, you're really pretty 0:09:56.679 --> 0:09:57.560 for a chubby girl. 0:09:57.800 --> 0:09:59.520 Oh my god? 0:10:01.120 --> 0:10:05.760 Was it an old patient? Sometimes they're just out of pocket? 0:10:05.880 --> 0:10:09.280 I swee you go that is so wow? 0:10:09.360 --> 0:10:11.959 That is so you're not afraid to say anything. I've 0:10:11.960 --> 0:10:14.440 had a patient tell me, yeah, you should really start 0:10:14.480 --> 0:10:19.119 thinking about waxing, and I'm like, god, wow. 0:10:19.280 --> 0:10:19.840 So should you? 0:10:20.200 --> 0:10:22.480 That's nuts. What did you have happened to you two 0:10:22.480 --> 0:10:23.400 weeks ago, Melissa? 0:10:24.720 --> 0:10:24.920 Yeah? 0:10:25.080 --> 0:10:27.920 Not an old acquaintance tell me that the extra weight 0:10:28.080 --> 0:10:29.000 looked good on me? 0:10:29.840 --> 0:10:30.480 What? 0:10:30.480 --> 0:10:31.120 What? 0:10:31.600 --> 0:10:33.360 Why would somebody say that? 0:10:33.400 --> 0:10:35.600 Did you make it known you were Were you trying 0:10:35.600 --> 0:10:36.200 to gain weight? 0:10:37.320 --> 0:10:37.400 No? 0:10:37.760 --> 0:10:40.360 Well she knew me when I was forty pounds less, 0:10:40.920 --> 0:10:43.520 and I think I had a really screwed up look 0:10:43.520 --> 0:10:45.600 on my face. And she goes, oh, no, the extra 0:10:45.640 --> 0:10:47.400 weight makes the wrinkles smooth out. 0:10:47.600 --> 0:10:50.560 Oh double sword. 0:10:51.080 --> 0:10:52.720 I would have punched. 0:10:52.360 --> 0:11:00.880 Her, but oh my gosh. More, what's up, Morgan? 0:11:02.480 --> 0:11:02.720 Hey? 0:11:02.760 --> 0:11:05.520 How are you guys? We're good, Morgan. We're just dumbfounded 0:11:05.520 --> 0:11:07.559 by what these people are saying. What's going on? 0:11:07.960 --> 0:11:09.520 Yeah, people have audacity. 0:11:09.679 --> 0:11:12.040 I always get oh, you're so pretty for a dark 0:11:12.040 --> 0:11:12.640 skinned girl. 0:11:12.760 --> 0:11:16.280 Oh jeez, what does that mean. That's crazy. 0:11:16.440 --> 0:11:19.040 It's like the backhead of this comment, like, that's not 0:11:19.080 --> 0:11:20.960 a comment, that's not a compliment. 0:11:22.080 --> 0:11:25.800 Oh god, well, you know what, It could be worse. 0:11:25.920 --> 0:11:28.800 It could be that Lady Carol that's in our in 0:11:28.880 --> 0:11:31.240 our instagram? Is it an instagram that she posts this book?