WEBVTT - Second Date Update: She Could Only Order Chicken  

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<v Speaker 1>Just the second date update module in the morning. Why

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<v Speaker 1>are you not getting a call back after you went

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<v Speaker 1>on a date. We're going to find out right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Dominic is on the phone with us right now, getting ghosted,

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<v Speaker 1>and why are you getting ghosted? Dominic? What happens?

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<v Speaker 2>Hello?

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, how you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>Hey?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm dom man.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you good? Dominic? You're getting ghosted? And I

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<v Speaker 1>want to know what's going on. What was the date

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<v Speaker 1>all about?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. We met on hand and we went

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<v Speaker 3>to a restaurant and.

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<v Speaker 1>You haven't talked since the night out that since the

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<v Speaker 1>dinner that you guys had.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, radio silence.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I any indications of maybe a part of the

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<v Speaker 1>conversation did you guys, did you guys feel like things

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<v Speaker 1>went good with each other? Like, did you guys talk

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<v Speaker 1>with each other?

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<v Speaker 3>And I think it was fine.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we had a good vibe. All right, let's

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<v Speaker 1>find out what's going on. Carly is on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>with us right now, Dominic, say hi to Carly.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh Hi, Carly, Hey, Hey.

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<v Speaker 1>Carl Le Dominics on here and he seems like a

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<v Speaker 1>nice guy. But we're wondering what's going on? Are you

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<v Speaker 1>just busy? And that's why you're not calling him back.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I just I don't really know that we're totally

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<v Speaker 4>for each other.

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<v Speaker 1>What makes you think that, Well, he doesn't.

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<v Speaker 4>Really have like a consistent job, Is that true.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a freelance photographer.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a gig economy.

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<v Speaker 3>I go from job to job, but work, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>it comes in busily at times.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you pay your bills? Yeah, for the.

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<v Speaker 3>Most part, I could tell you I take care of myself.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, and Carly, you don't think that that seems like

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<v Speaker 1>a occupation.

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<v Speaker 4>I just don't think that he's going to be able

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<v Speaker 4>to provide for me in the way that I would

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<v Speaker 4>want him to.

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<v Speaker 1>Was there indications of this just from conversation?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Like on the date we went to a steakhouse

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<v Speaker 4>and he was just mentioning how everything was so expensive

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<v Speaker 4>at the restaurant and how he's just trying to save money.

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<v Speaker 4>It just felt like a little cheap to me.

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<v Speaker 1>So you you are looking for somebody that has a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit more of a stable income. That's not somebody

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<v Speaker 1>that's looking at the menu and saying, I'm not ordering

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<v Speaker 1>this because I can't afford it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean, I'm just I'm used to having guys

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<v Speaker 4>buy anythings. I just didn't even feel comfortable at the dinner,

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<v Speaker 4>like ordering a steak, like I got chicken, Like I

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<v Speaker 4>just saw something cheap.

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<v Speaker 1>Who paid for the meal?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, he did pay for the meal.

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<v Speaker 1>I've paid for the meal.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's be clear.

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<v Speaker 1>Who decided to go to the steakhouse.

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<v Speaker 3>I decided to go to the steakhouse.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's be clear. Would she have been okay if she

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<v Speaker 1>ordered a steak?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, of course, so I always think she should be presuming.

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<v Speaker 4>So so why were you saying stuff like that? That's

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<v Speaker 4>what I don't get?

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<v Speaker 3>Then, well, I just think you know better to to

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<v Speaker 3>have a dollar then to spend a dollar, even if

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<v Speaker 3>I have a million dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Guess but on a date, that's just not really what

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<v Speaker 4>I'm looking for.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like, and I want to be clearing this

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<v Speaker 5>because some people could have the same thought process that

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<v Speaker 5>I have, and I want to give you a fair chance.

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<v Speaker 1>What's what's her? What's your name? Carly? Carly? You aren't

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<v Speaker 1>looking to be taken care of? Are you? Like, you're

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<v Speaker 1>not looking for a sugar daddy? Or are you?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just used to being taken care of in relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're looking. You're used to guys or people that

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<v Speaker 1>you're out with being able to kind of spend on

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<v Speaker 1>you unlimitedly.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me.

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<v Speaker 3>Spend on the date. Did I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>Pay for the date?

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<v Speaker 4>Right?

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<v Speaker 6>I think I know where you're going, keV, And please

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<v Speaker 6>correct me if I'm if I'm not right. But if

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<v Speaker 6>if she's looking for like a sugar daddy and somebody's

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<v Speaker 6>going to shower her with gifts or something, I'm going

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<v Speaker 6>to have one reaction to. Right if she's just looking

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<v Speaker 6>like I kind of get the idea of like he

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<v Speaker 6>doesn't really have a job job, and she wants something

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<v Speaker 6>a little more secure. I can understand more so that

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<v Speaker 6>thought process and sympathize with that more so than I

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<v Speaker 6>want somebody who's going to take me to the nicest

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<v Speaker 6>restaurants and buy me the greatest gifts and drive fancy.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I'm used to going to those restaurants, like

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<v Speaker 4>I'm used to dating people who are able to take

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<v Speaker 4>me to those places.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you make good money?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I take care of myself that I want

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<v Speaker 4>to be taken care of.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Dominic, this job that you have, you don't live

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<v Speaker 1>like in your parents' basement or anything. Like that, like

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<v Speaker 1>it's not like one of those things like you live

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<v Speaker 1>on your own, do you have a like a decent.

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<v Speaker 3>I have a nice place. I don't want to tell

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<v Speaker 3>tales out of school, but you know, after the date,

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<v Speaker 3>we went back to my place and we made out

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<v Speaker 3>for a little bit, and it didn't seem like like

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<v Speaker 3>did my place seem like I didn't know how.

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<v Speaker 1>To take care of my wa So carly, you guys

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<v Speaker 1>go to eat, you order the chicken, you guys pay

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<v Speaker 1>the bill, or dominic pays the bill. You say that

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<v Speaker 1>he's not, you know, the guy, that he's gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>able to afford it, but you still went back to

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<v Speaker 1>his place and you guys made out at his house

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<v Speaker 1>or or his apartment or wherever he was.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I wasn't totally sure at the end of

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<v Speaker 4>the day, like if he was as cheap as I

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<v Speaker 4>thought he was. I mean, his his apartment's nice, Like

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<v Speaker 4>it's nice. It's just not you came home super nice

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<v Speaker 4>yet No, I mean, I mean it's your apartment is fine,

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<v Speaker 4>Like it's a fine apartment.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, hang on one second, let me grab some

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<v Speaker 1>calls here and see what listeners think. I'm gonna voice

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<v Speaker 1>this guy's uh the first caller here in my did

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<v Speaker 1>I thought they wanted voice the guys or no they didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I don't need to voices guys. You Zena? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you there? Zena?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>I am right, Zena. You wanted to comment on this?

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<v Speaker 1>What did you want to say?

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<v Speaker 7>And my opinion, it sounds like she's a bit of

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<v Speaker 7>a gold digger. I mean, come on, like you are

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<v Speaker 7>used to being lavist and taking care of like, let's

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<v Speaker 7>be honest, it's twenty twenty five gold digger ruling a

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<v Speaker 7>little bit. You get what you get and you don't

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<v Speaker 7>throw at this a fit. I mean, sometimes the best

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<v Speaker 7>relationships come out of struggles.

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<v Speaker 1>True. And how is the chicken? Uh? Steven? What's up? Steven? Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>Stevia definitely sounding materialistic? Yeah, run dominated. What would you

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<v Speaker 1>do if you were on a date with this girl?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I would tell her to kick rock split the bill?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, Kayla? What do you think it's Mojo

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning?

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<v Speaker 7>Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>I just think she's kind of persnicketty. She's just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of coming off his mug and like I just I

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not agreeing with it. And as a.

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<v Speaker 4>Woman, coming you know, coming from a woman, I just

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<v Speaker 4>I just don't agree with that, you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>because I mean, you know, it's just not cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, thank you for the call. Like it. We've gotten

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<v Speaker 1>gold Digger, We've gotten U Danica. What's up? It's Mojo

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. You're on with Dominic and Carly doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>sound like they got a match. What'd you want to say?

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<v Speaker 2>Hey? So, I don't understand how Carly expects a man

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<v Speaker 2>who she's never met and he has never met her

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<v Speaker 2>friend and a huge amount of money on her I

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<v Speaker 2>mean it's the first date. I think he's better off,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I understand, uh, you know, he doesn't have

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<v Speaker 2>a stable job or whatever. But she's sounding rude.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I say this? I think, Dominic, you did make

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<v Speaker 1>a mistake. And because I'm gonna be one of the

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<v Speaker 1>only people you So I saw here on the thing

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<v Speaker 1>that you took her to Ruth Chris for dinner. So

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<v Speaker 1>you take her to a nice place. So you go there.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a good steak place. You take her there, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you start talking about trying to save money and

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<v Speaker 1>doing all the rest of this stuff. Why not take

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<v Speaker 1>her to a place you know that's maybe a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit more affordable, you know what I mean? Like why not?

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<v Speaker 1>But no, you don't have to go Arvey's. But why

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<v Speaker 1>not take her somewhere that that is a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>easier to ease into, Like why bring her to to

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<v Speaker 1>the baller place?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I think maybe in the messages that we sent, I

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<v Speaker 3>got some sort of vibe that she was the type

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<v Speaker 3>who wanted these types of things more than I could choose.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that was a mistake. Be yourself, man, Carmela. What's up? Carmela?

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<v Speaker 7>Hey?

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<v Speaker 4>How are you guys?

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<v Speaker 1>Good? What's going on?

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<v Speaker 4>I just wanted listening to everything, and you know what,

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<v Speaker 4>she's standing true to herself.

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<v Speaker 1>There's nothing wrong with that.

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<v Speaker 4>She is not a gold digger. She's not wasting his time.

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<v Speaker 2>She tried it, it.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't work, Okay, and be honest. Yeah, hey Carmela, Yeah, Carmela,

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<v Speaker 1>let me ask you a question. How much is it

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<v Speaker 1>going to cost me to take you out on a date? Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>You can't afford me?

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<v Speaker 1>That's my kind of girl. Hold on a second, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even urry to somebody like that. I like that, Carmela,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the greatest. Take care of yourself, and she's out Dominic.

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<v Speaker 1>Be yourself, buddy. I'm telling you and and and shout

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<v Speaker 1>out to Dominic too in his photography business. We want

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure you get some good business with that, Carly.

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<v Speaker 1>There is Yeah, there is a lid for every pot. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lid for every pot. And some of them

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<v Speaker 1>are diamonds. And some of them don't make just chicken,

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, you ever eat at I'm staking place

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<v Speaker 1>and order of chicken. It's good, Ruth, Chris is great.

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<v Speaker 1>They pour butter all over their Is it better than Choos? Honestly, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it is not better than London. I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 1>say yes or no. But there are times and places

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<v Speaker 1>for all of them.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, Ruth Chris, if you listen and throw me at dinner,

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<v Speaker 5>all right, and if they say that they'll do it.

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<v Speaker 1>We're taking Dominic with all right. This is the whole

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<v Speaker 1>of the thirty. On the thirty go back fro down,

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<v Speaker 1>second date update and more of the roses. This is

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<v Speaker 1>Mojo in the Morning.