Speaker 1: Mojo in the morning show. So Lydia, we understand has
Speaker 1: been flirting back and forth through the DMS with a boy.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: So there's this guy that I've spoken to in the past,
Speaker 3: Like when we first met, we would hang out sometimes
Speaker 3: with mutual friends. We kissed a few times, but we've
Speaker 3: never been on like a formal date. And this was
Speaker 3: like in my early twenties. Well, now that I've been
Speaker 3: recently single, I'm like, well, let me circle the block
Speaker 3: on him. He's been posting stuff on social media and
Speaker 3: so I slid up on one of his stories and
Speaker 3: we were talking over the weekend and then he's just
Speaker 3: stopped replying to me out of nowhere.
Speaker 1: Wait, so go back for a second. You're you're racing
Speaker 1: fast through this thing. I know you want to Yeah, don't. Yeah,
Speaker 1: slow down just a little bit because you're I sometimes
Speaker 1: have to really hear things, like three times. So you
Speaker 1: started talking to this guy back in your early twenties.
Speaker 1: Now you're in your what mid twenties, late twenties seven,
Speaker 1: So it's been how many years now since you talked
Speaker 1: to this five years? Five years? And you decided you
Speaker 1: were going to circle back or he circled back I
Speaker 1: was going to circle back, and so what was your
Speaker 1: text or what was your DM to him?
Speaker 2: To circle back?
Speaker 3: I was just saying like, hey, how are you. It's
Speaker 3: been a long time, Like he posted a selfie of
Speaker 3: him in his new car that he got, and so
Speaker 3: I was like, Flori, he drives a.
Speaker 2: Caddy a caddy and I used.
Speaker 3: That as my way because he doesn't post on social
Speaker 3: media that much, so I use that as.
Speaker 2: My ind And what did he respond?
Speaker 3: And he responded He's like, hey, it's been a while,
Speaker 3: like miss you.
Speaker 4: And I was like, okay, perfect, Wait he said miss you.
Speaker 2: He did miss me, So you say then to miss you?
Speaker 2: What did you say?
Speaker 3: I was like, miss you too, and then I was like,
Speaker 3: miss that kiss that we shared?
Speaker 1: Oh you trying to get okay, wow, that's actually pretty forward.
Speaker 1: I missed that kid.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And then he just went off with it like
Speaker 3: he was flirting back and forth with me. We were,
Speaker 3: you know, sharing some things about the first night that
Speaker 3: we met, and it's been like nothing sent.
Speaker 1: Can we ask you what happened on the first night
Speaker 1: or was it something that's too personal teme.
Speaker 3: No, it's fine. We met at a club. We got
Speaker 3: to know each other a little bit. His cousin is
Speaker 3: best friends with my best friend, and so after we
Speaker 3: were getting to talking and having a couple of drinks,
Speaker 3: we started kissing at the table that we were sitting at.
Speaker 3: And ever since then we followed each other on social media.
Speaker 3: We've dmmed back and forth. I've had boyfriends in between
Speaker 3: the times, so we haven't spoken.
Speaker 5: What was the last like, what was the last the
Speaker 5: very last text that was set or whatever?
Speaker 3: He sent me a message saying good morning and I
Speaker 3: said good morning back to him, and then he never
Speaker 3: responded to me.
Speaker 1: How long has it been since the last five am yesterday?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 4: Relax, Maybe he just doesn't want to come on too strong.
Speaker 5: I feel like if he came out and said good
Speaker 5: morning first, that's a promising sign to me.
Speaker 6: Really yeah, let's ask like the bare minimum, let's ask
Speaker 6: the listeners.
Speaker 2: What if he.
Speaker 4: Didn't care, he wouldn't have said anything.
Speaker 2: What do you guys think?
Speaker 1: Do you think that Lydia needs to respond back or
Speaker 1: do you think that do you think that she should
Speaker 1: play it cool? I mean, this is interesting. So this
Speaker 1: is a guy that she shared time with.
Speaker 2: Do you feel like he's the one that got away?
Speaker 2: Is that why?
Speaker 6: You reached out or are you just in a stage
Speaker 6: where he was dealing with somebody. Now you're done with
Speaker 6: that person and you still got that sexual energy, like
Speaker 6: I need to just bounce on to somebody else and
Speaker 6: then you hit him up.
Speaker 3: I think that anytime him and I would talk, it
Speaker 3: was mainly about the first time we met, because we
Speaker 3: haven't gotten anything off of it.
Speaker 4: So you just want to see if there's anything there, right.
Speaker 3: But he's so shy, he really is, Like it took
Speaker 3: him a long time through the whole night that we
Speaker 3: were hanging out to even make a move.
Speaker 5: If he's shy, I mean, that could explain a lot
Speaker 5: too of why he's not being super forward or I
Speaker 5: don't know, chatty.
Speaker 1: Uh eight four to four Mojo Live eight four four
Speaker 1: sixty sixty five six' five four. Eight my first thing
Speaker 1: THAT i would do is like What kevin, Said what
Speaker 1: did you? Say you got a? Chill is that what you're? Saying,
Speaker 1: yeah JUST i. Relaxed, YEAH i THINK i think it's
Speaker 1: only been twenty four. Hours that would be my first.
Speaker 1: Thing but if it gets past, nine if it gets
Speaker 1: past if it gets past the twenty nine, hours then
Speaker 1: what does she?
Speaker 2: Do it still too how?
Speaker 1: LONG i don't know if it's what if we're days
Speaker 1: or even weeks.
Speaker 6: Away if it's, weeks that's. Clear, yeah that's saying a
Speaker 6: lot without having to say. Anything, lydia you like this?
Speaker 2: Guy? Huh is it a? Question is this guy got?
Speaker 2: Hair there's a lot of. Hair every TIME i ever.
Speaker 1: Talked to her about guys that she's, with this guy
Speaker 1: got hair because some of these guys don't have any.
Speaker 2: Hair some of these guys have. Hair you gotta take a.
Speaker 2: Trip what's, Up? Brian how you? Doing not much, kidding,
Speaker 2: BUDDY i gotta tell you.
Speaker 3: Something i'm listening to a little comments you were gonna
Speaker 3: say about, Uh.
Speaker 6: LYDIA i was, like, man you need to calm.
Speaker 2: Down and my, Friend i'm asking the. Question she, said
Speaker 2: something happened the first. NIGHT i wanted to know if
Speaker 2: it's WHAT i.
Speaker 3: Thought we just got to do a second day to
Speaker 3: day from, THAT i know we're doing it right.
Speaker 1: Now we'd be great if we could get him to
Speaker 1: come on with. Us that would be even better than
Speaker 1: just us asking what do you think she should? Do
Speaker 1: should she send him another message or?
Speaker 2: Wait She i'd wait.
Speaker 6: A little bit, longer maybe like child tomorrow and then shoot.
Speaker 2: Something, yeah, okay, yeah.
Speaker 1: You want to be a pick, me you.
Speaker 3: KNOW i don't want to sound thirsty at.
Speaker 2: All, Hey, mark what's? Happening BUT i Am.
Speaker 6: Ledia lydia needs to reach.
Speaker 7: Out wasn't her cousin or who's the best friends.
Speaker 6: With his with his?
Speaker 7: Friends?
Speaker 3: Yeah so my best friend and his best friend are.
Speaker 2: Cousins reach out and see if any reach out and
Speaker 2: see if.
Speaker 1: Anything ben, SAID i doubt.
Speaker 3: It he's not going to talk about. That there's no.
Speaker 1: Way, well you can also find out what's going on
Speaker 1: in his life, too based on reaching out to.
Speaker 2: Them is what that? Is that also what you're? Thinking, yeah.
Speaker 1: EXACTLY I i think that this is, uh this is
Speaker 1: good to see That lydia's out there having.
Speaker 2: Fun what's, Up? Amanda what do you? THINK i Think
Speaker 2: lydia should go for it and send him a message right?
Speaker 2: NOW i Think lydia should should be the aggressor in
Speaker 2: the situation and go for what she.
Speaker 1: Wants do you Think lydia should start sending him? Nudes?
Speaker 2: Hey?
Speaker 7: Whatever take not.
Speaker 4: Even, That.
Speaker 1: Amanda you're not a good. Friend there's sposed to be
Speaker 1: a good friend here and he supposed to be protective Of.
Speaker 1: Lydia what's, Up christina High, HI i.
Speaker 7: Think lydia needs to be. Patient, YEAH i think. THAT
Speaker 7: i think that in five, years especially if he's already
Speaker 7: got like a shy, demeanor he's probably contemplating. Things you,
Speaker 7: know it didn't work out the first, time but obviously
Speaker 7: there's something there or else he would have never responded
Speaker 7: to begin.
Speaker 1: With, yeah but by the, way why why did it
Speaker 1: not work out the first?
Speaker 5: Time?
Speaker 2: Lydia?
Speaker 3: Oh we weren't going to take each other serious after? That?
Speaker 2: Okay? Yeah do good things come to those who? Wait
Speaker 2: or is it?
Speaker 1: Absolutely we had a sales manager here one time that
Speaker 1: you used to tell the sales department good things never
Speaker 1: come to those who. Wait you got to be the.
Speaker 1: Aggressor AND i thought that that was actually a great.
Speaker 6: Comment sometimes sometimes great things come to those who.
Speaker 2: Wait then other times it is just the.
Speaker 4: Leftovers BUT i think she should wait just one we're, Day, denise.
Speaker 2: What do you? Think?
Speaker 7: HEY i was just, saying maybe he really didn't read.
Speaker 1: It maybe somebody else read. It oh, gosh somebody is
Speaker 1: actually answering for. HIM i don't think we're all going,
Speaker 1: no that's not the, case because we don't want that
Speaker 1: to be the. Case but no guys letting, anybody what's Up,
Speaker 1: tony how you, Doing?
Speaker 2: Buddy Good, Mojo.
Speaker 4: Lydia if he's a shot, guy she might have to
Speaker 4: be a little thirsty.
Speaker 2: Man his, Chill. Lydia lydia wants somebody to tell her
Speaker 2: to be thirsty.
Speaker 3: Anyway she just don't want to say.
Speaker 2: It that's, All.
Speaker 1: LYDIA i just answer, then just respond to him saying.
Speaker 3: The second text, AGAIN i would do. It he's not doing, That.
Speaker 3: Lydia that's your.
Speaker 2: Problem it is my. Problem culture culture. Up let me
Speaker 2: tell you.
Speaker 3: What if he was actually, interested he would keep going
Speaker 3: like he would keep the conversation. Going he would ask
Speaker 3: me to go.
Speaker 2: Out but you, said he's a say guy he texted
Speaker 2: you this morning and say good.
Speaker 7: Morning that's probably that was probably hard enough him to do.
Speaker 6: That.
Speaker 1: Anyway the difference Between lydia And beyonca Is bianca would
Speaker 1: already be at his house knocking on the.
Speaker 2: Door IF i didn't think that's a.
Speaker 3: Guy i'm gonna get that second.
Speaker 7: Kiss You you're not gonna get that second.
Speaker 2: Kiss i've been thinking about.
Speaker 3: That but that might be his. Problem you know, What
Speaker 3: i'm saying Like i'm a catch and he is. Too
Speaker 3: but if you're not going to make.
Speaker 2: Them burd, okay, okay, GOING.
Speaker 3: I just want to be like you, know you want.
Speaker 3: To but he always wants the boys to. Chase they,
Speaker 3: should they should court the.
Speaker 4: Woman these.
Speaker 1: Guys we need a class for these guys, Though. Tony she's.
Speaker 1: Right these guys are are lame these, Days.
Speaker 6: Tony they.
Speaker 2: Are, YEAH i mean, yeah but he's a shy.
Speaker 4: Guy you can't you, can't you can't.
Speaker 1: Just bring him out his here like twenty twenty and early.
Speaker 1: Thirties guys are a bunch of lame. Guys they're just
Speaker 1: sitting home playing video games all, Day.
Speaker 2: Tony that's.
Speaker 3: True this is.
Speaker 1: True all, Right well let's see what. Happens lydia will
Speaker 1: give us a second. Date Second Date update