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Speaker 1: Welcome to another episode of Tell You What You're At

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Speaker 1: thirty four weeks.

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Speaker 2: Thirty four weeks technically as of tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, and what's the uh, what's the line? Like,

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Speaker 1: where's the like the safe line is there? Like? I

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Speaker 1: mean ideally, I know you want to go the full

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Speaker 1: one hundred and eighty weeks.

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Speaker 2: Right, I think around like twenty four or twenty five

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Speaker 2: weeks they consider it a.

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Speaker 1: Good let's go, ye, spot that thing out this morning.

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Speaker 2: I'd rather not a week.

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Speaker 3: Later than when Lina was born. She was thirty three

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Speaker 3: and a half.

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Speaker 2: I remember you telling me that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's just crazy to me because to me, it's

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Speaker 2: like Lena was such a beautiful, fully developed little human being,

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Speaker 2: and so I just can't can't even my head around

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Speaker 2: the fact that that's currently inside.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so it is mind boggling to me.

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Speaker 1: Maybe there's two in there.

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Speaker 2: I don't think so. I think that at this point

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Speaker 2: they probably one. Yeah, they probably would have picked up

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Speaker 2: a see.

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Speaker 1: Would it be kind of cool though? That would you

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Speaker 1: still hear these days even after all the ultrasounds and stuff.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's is just people trying to make the internet.

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Speaker 2: It'd be amazing it would be amazing. I'd be happy.

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Speaker 2: I think that'd be what I mean, what a blessing.

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Speaker 2: But it's it would be quite a surprise. I do

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Speaker 2: stress out. I think Hawthorne's whole side of the family

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Speaker 2: actually my side of the family too, because I we

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Speaker 2: don't know the gender, so I often say they or them,

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Speaker 2: and so people are like, are you having twins? I

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Speaker 2: have to explain, like, no, we just don't know boy

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Speaker 2: or girl. Sometimes I feel bad saying it, and then

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Speaker 2: when I do accidentally say him or she or whatever,

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Speaker 2: people are like, oh, so it's the boy. They're like

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Speaker 2: the girl, Like, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I just so let me ask you this, if you

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Speaker 1: were to have twins, just say, let's get back to

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Speaker 1: that for a second. Do you get you get double

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Speaker 1: the time off?

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Speaker 2: Then no, it actually specifies that, and why wouldn't you Well,

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Speaker 2: because it's considered one I can't remember process.

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Speaker 1: It's one pregnancy.

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Speaker 2: It's one event. They have some word for it. I

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Speaker 2: can't remember what it is, but it's like one something event.

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Speaker 1: Again one uh one show. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I do feel like if you have multiples, at least

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Speaker 2: an extra week, I.

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Speaker 1: Would think they would there shouldn't be something in the

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Speaker 1: bylaws about that.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't have to be double, but.

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Speaker 1: We'll think about it. I mean, you've got one, you know,

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Speaker 1: you get one done, maybe one isn't crying, then the

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Speaker 1: other one picks up. And I'm not saying that they

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Speaker 1: do that, but they do a lot of times. Twins,

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Speaker 1: you know, they're right in line with each other. Not always, though.

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Speaker 1: What's the likeliness of having both of them completely entertained,

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Speaker 1: whether they're sleeping or reading or everything at the same time.

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Speaker 1: One gets sick the other doesn't that kind of stuff,

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Speaker 1: you know, I mean, you would think that you get

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Speaker 1: a little more, there'd be a little more alleviation.

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Speaker 2: I think that parents of multiples are superheroes because it's

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Speaker 2: a lot at least if you have one. I mean,

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Speaker 2: it's between you and your partner, if you're so blessed

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Speaker 2: hopefully be doing this.

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Speaker 3: As yeah, and even playing field. Or if you have triplets,

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Speaker 3: you're like, okay, we're oh my gosh.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if you have triplets, it's just automatically outnumbered.

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Speaker 1: But you're in zone coverage.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: If I was having triplets, I don't know what we

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Speaker 2: would do. I mean, we would just do it. You

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Speaker 2: would just figure it out, of course, But.

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Speaker 1: Well, imagine Octomom. Yeah, I mean, let's get back to that.

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Speaker 1: How was that fifty sixteen years ago? Seventeen years ago?

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Speaker 1: Those kids are now those kids have to be close

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Speaker 1: to eighteen years old.

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Speaker 2: So she gave birth to them in two thousand and nine,

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Speaker 2: So you were about right on.

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Speaker 1: Actually, why would I know that?

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Speaker 2: But I don't know why would you know that?

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Speaker 3: You love the TV show?

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Speaker 1: No, I didn't watch it at all, No, but I

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Speaker 1: was I was very might be something different. I was

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Speaker 1: if there was a TV I was very curious by

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Speaker 1: the whole thing. Yeah, you know, I mean there was

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Speaker 1: so much surrounding it, and then so many people, you know,

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Speaker 1: going after for this, that and the other thing. And

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Speaker 1: if I'd be like, can everybody, I don't really remember

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Speaker 1: all the backstory and everything, you'd be like, I just

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Speaker 1: had eight children. Can you just leave me alone?

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Speaker 2: Right right?

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean? I got enough on my

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Speaker 1: plate right now. I don't need interviews?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, crazy she had, did you? Okay, maybe you guys

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Speaker 2: already knew this. I just it's been a long time

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Speaker 2: as I've looked up Octomom. But she already had six kids.

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Speaker 2: Before she had her octoplets, So she had fourteen kids.

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Speaker 3: Her name Kate.

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Speaker 1: Uh no, that was a different show. Yeah, it's a

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Speaker 1: different show. It was Kate plus eighty, Kate plus eight, Okay, different.

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Speaker 2: Eventually they kicked on in to the curb and it

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Speaker 2: was just Kate plus eight. Yeah, yes, but uh.

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Speaker 3: Kate plus eight and a big check.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: Maybe not.

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Speaker 2: Octomom's name was Natalie. That's crazy. She was implanted with

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Speaker 2: twelve embryos through IVF.

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Speaker 1: Why the eight of them stuck?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Why what about twelve?

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Speaker 1: What do you can do with nothing? Maybe eight? I

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Speaker 1: mean yeah, eight?

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Speaker 3: Maybe have a football team?

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, because he got a backup. Yeah, then he

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Speaker 1: got a kicker, exactly. Yeah, you got eleven plus a kicker,

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Speaker 1: You got an offense defense. You'd have to kind of

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Speaker 1: play both both sides of the field there.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, how did she do this? That's crazy. I

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Speaker 2: don't even because I think she was a single mom.

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Speaker 1: Dude, she was. I screw up, I screw up the name.

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Speaker 1: I have two. Even this weekend they were home. I

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Speaker 1: even called one of them Aaron. Aaron. I did that twice,

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Speaker 1: two times. What they do? Oh they do? My kids?

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Speaker 1: They know, they just they used to. Now they're just

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Speaker 1: like whatever. I remember, it was funny. Lenda especially thought

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Speaker 1: it'd be fun to call me Chris for a while

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Speaker 1: when he was about two. I get home and he's like,

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Speaker 1: Hi Chris, Like listen, I'm Da Da, And we're gonna

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Speaker 1: stick with that for a while because I'm having fun

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Speaker 1: in this stage right now. I'm not going to turn

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Speaker 1: you into a twenty year old right now, okay, And

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Speaker 1: I'll always be dad, all right, but right now I'm Dada.

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Speaker 1: All I went from Dada. I get home from work

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Speaker 1: and Steph was like, oh, hi Chris, bah blah blah

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Speaker 1: blah blah. And then Lenda's like eating something at the table,

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Speaker 1: Hi Chris, that's adorable. It was that same time. I

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Speaker 1: mean we laughed. But and then of course you laugh

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Speaker 1: around your kids, as you know, and then they're like, okay,

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Speaker 1: I found something, and they just abuse it. Yeah, then

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Speaker 1: the other one starts doing it, you know, that kind

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Speaker 1: of thing. But yeah, well, well let's just start with one.

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Speaker 1: We got one little child brewing in there. We don't

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Speaker 1: know who exactly yet, ye you know, little boy, little

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Speaker 2: Bruin be a little surprised.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yep.

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Speaker 2: I remember the first day that I went from or

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Speaker 2: the first time that I said called my dad dad

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Speaker 2: instead of Data, because I grew up calling him data.

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Speaker 2: I remember calling him dad and he's like, would you

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Speaker 2: call me? Yeah, it was like I called your dad.

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Speaker 2: He was like, that's just that's that's your name, and

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Speaker 2: he was like, you've never called me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I remember I did the same thing. Seems like yesterday.

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Speaker 1: I was saying to him, like Data. I still sometimes

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Speaker 1: when I text him at night, I'm like, love Data.

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Speaker 1: I meanlly, I know, I just need to But that

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Speaker 1: was the zone. Man. Yeah, it was such a zone.

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Speaker 1: It was just a great time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I love the zone that you guys are in right now.

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Speaker 1: But man, and I don't want to you know this,

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Speaker 1: this is obnoxious. I hate it hearing it is when

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Speaker 1: I was doing it too at this stage. But it

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Speaker 1: just flies.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: When you have kids, all of a sudden, it's like boom.

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Speaker 1: It's like you're it's just like time goes on steroids. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: That's the best way I put it is is that

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Speaker 3: your life just hits fast forward while theirs is going

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Speaker 3: pretty much.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because you're sitting there going man, I can't wait

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Speaker 1: to turn twenty one and drink and it takes forever. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, that's what I was like, you know, I

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Speaker 2: Then all of a sudden, everything just starts flying.

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Speaker 1: It's like, just get to twenty one, man, I want

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Speaker 1: I can't get there fast enough. And then you get there,

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Speaker 1: it's like crap. I've been drinking for a few years

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Speaker 1: and that was fun. It's more fun getting to the

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Speaker 1: bars when I couldn't, you know.

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Speaker 2: I think it's tough. It's like as soon as you

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Speaker 2: that out of that high school college age especially, it

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Speaker 2: just seems like everything goes faster, and every life event

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Speaker 2: it's like goes faster and faster and faster. And I

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Speaker 2: don't know if it's because we get into such a

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Speaker 2: routine every day. Everything just seems to go so fast.

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Speaker 2: And then, like I've heard, like I've heard, and I

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Speaker 2: believe it with kids, it just goes even faster.

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