Speaker 1: Smo Joe in the morning.
Speaker 2: So on the We Don't podcast they do with Chelsea
Speaker 2: this week, we talked about how I'm doing on giving
Speaker 2: Chelsea my undivided attention. It got very real about Chelsea
Speaker 2: feeling like she is second to a lot of things
Speaker 2: in her life when it comes to me, and it
Speaker 2: talks about how there's many times, in matter of fact,
Speaker 2: a very you know majority of the time, she feels
Speaker 2: underappreciated by me because I focus on work and I
Speaker 2: focus on, you know, things going on that are not necessary,
Speaker 2: like I take her for granted. And I think we
Speaker 2: all do this in our relationship. We know that the
Speaker 2: ones that we love and that love us will be
Speaker 2: there for us.
Speaker 1: We'll put up with the most.
Speaker 2: And honestly, it's not fair and I get it and
Speaker 2: I feel horrible about it. So long story short, if
Speaker 2: you go listen to that podcast, it gets really amazing
Speaker 2: because I cannot believe the response that we got. We
Speaker 2: got a ton of people reaching out yesterday talking about
Speaker 2: how they could relate to it. So last night I
Speaker 2: said to Chelse, I go, hey, what do you want
Speaker 2: to do? And she goes, Hey, let's get together and
Speaker 2: let's do something good. Like just the two of us
Speaker 2: get away from the house for a few hours. Said okay, perfect.
Speaker 2: So we decided that we were going to go out
Speaker 2: and we were going to go to eat. So we
Speaker 2: go to eat, and I don't know if this ever
Speaker 2: happens to you. Have you ever been out to eat
Speaker 2: where you wanted to have one on one time with somebody,
Speaker 2: either you were on a date or you were with like,
Speaker 2: you know, a family member or whoever, and you constantly
Speaker 2: were getting interrupted by the people that worked at the restaurant.
Speaker 1: Have you ever had that happen to like, leave me
Speaker 1: the hell alone.
Speaker 2: So we were on the date and the people at
Speaker 2: the restaurant were really awesome, but it was our time together.
Speaker 2: I put my phone literally away, I turned it off.
Speaker 2: I didn't have it out at all. She had hers away.
Speaker 2: We're just there talking and every time we'd get into
Speaker 2: a conversation, the way or waitress would come up to us.
Speaker 2: Then another person would come up to us, and it
Speaker 2: would get to a point and they started asking you
Speaker 2: how you're doing, what's going on, you know, which is
Speaker 2: all stuff that I normally would like if it was
Speaker 2: just a regular date and not a specific date where
Speaker 2: we're going to try to spend time together.
Speaker 3: Were they talking to you because they knew you were
Speaker 3: mojo or they were just being social.
Speaker 2: A couple of people just talked because they knew and
Speaker 2: then a couple of people came up because they knew
Speaker 2: that it was you know, they were I think they
Speaker 2: were just being friendly.
Speaker 1: Okay, and that's just how they do it.
Speaker 2: But you notice it more absolutely when you're in a
Speaker 2: situation where you're trying to actually spend time together.
Speaker 4: If it is someone you know, a waiter or a waitress,
Speaker 4: is it bad form to like acknowledge why you're there
Speaker 4: and if they could please like give you a little time.
Speaker 1: See, I don't know why I can't do that.
Speaker 2: I can't die, even though that is the right thing
Speaker 2: to do, and like you want to do that, I
Speaker 2: just can't.
Speaker 1: Like it's not coming out. I could not say to them, hey,
Speaker 1: we're on a date and we are. I wanted to say, hey,
Speaker 1: we did a podcast talking about spending time together.
Speaker 2: No, you know what I mean, and I would I
Speaker 2: couldn't do it, Like I am not a confrontational person,
Speaker 2: and so I kind of just let it go and
Speaker 2: I looked over at Chelsea at one point and I
Speaker 2: think she was kind of like, Okay, well this is
Speaker 2: really not as good as it was last week when
Speaker 2: we went out. And we went out last week on
Speaker 2: a date, it was awesome. This staff kind of like
Speaker 2: was awesome, Like they took our order, they brought our order,
Speaker 2: we paid the bill. We didn't see them at all
Speaker 2: the whole time, and they sat us in a it
Speaker 2: was kind of an empty restaurant, so they sat us
Speaker 2: in a corner of the restaurant where literally nobody was
Speaker 2: around us. So this time we're there and there's a
Speaker 2: ton of people. You know, there's a lot of people like, hey,
Speaker 2: what'd your order?
Speaker 1: What's going on?
Speaker 2: I thought it was almost kind of like a comedy
Speaker 2: bit for a while. So I want to ask this question,
Speaker 2: what interrupted the date? Eight four Mojo Live eight four
Speaker 2: four sixty six five six by four eight. It can
Speaker 2: be an over zealous, talkative waiter or waitress or server,
Speaker 2: whoever it was. It could be the people that you
Speaker 2: were sitting by, you know, that were vocal. Could be
Speaker 2: the kid in the booth next to you pounding on
Speaker 2: the booth. It could honestly be like a friend or
Speaker 2: a family member that shows up.
Speaker 1: I'm the worst at this. We've had it before where
Speaker 1: we've gone.
Speaker 2: Out to go eat and it's specific for us just
Speaker 2: to spend time together like our anniversary, and neighbors will
Speaker 2: be there that we haven't seen it ever.
Speaker 1: They're like, oh my god, where did you guys come from?
Speaker 1: You know? And then they're like should we do?
Speaker 5: Should we together?
Speaker 1: Yes? And you don't know how to say no. Man.
Speaker 4: I remember one time I was on a date. This
Speaker 4: is like an early brunch type of vibe. We woke
Speaker 4: up early, went out, grab some food, grab some mimosas.
Speaker 4: The mimosas are are flowing. It's not the beginning of
Speaker 4: the date, but it's kind of like we're not near
Speaker 4: the inn at that point.
Speaker 1: The waiter is amazing.
Speaker 4: He's come over, he's checked on us, all these types
Speaker 4: of things. He switches out one plate, goes to grab another,
Speaker 4: and knocks my glass. The mimosas literally are spilling down
Speaker 4: my pants and I'm just sitting there looking like I'm
Speaker 4: looking at him looking at me like and he's apologetic,
Speaker 4: but I'm like, brow gott.
Speaker 1: To see her with the soggy draws the whole rest
Speaker 1: of the time.
Speaker 2: It ruins the whole Yeah, what's up, Hi, Kelly?
Speaker 1: How you doing?
Speaker 5: Hi? Mojo? I was telling Lydia, I think it would
Speaker 5: be great if they had like little do dot disturb
Speaker 5: signs on the table and then he wanted a drink,
Speaker 5: you could flip it over and it says need drinks
Speaker 5: or need knee napkins or something. So then it's like
Speaker 5: they come and they do your orders and then they
Speaker 5: kind of leave you alone until you say you need them,
Speaker 5: just like kind of like when they have the red
Speaker 5: and green for those Mongolian.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the Brazilian steak house. Yes, Yes, that's brilliant, Kelly.
Speaker 2: That is a great idea. That's really awesome. Yeah, Kiki,
Speaker 2: what's up?
Speaker 1: Kiki?
Speaker 3: Hi?
Speaker 5: First time, long time. So there's a brewery in Ferndale.
Speaker 6: That my boyfriend and I go to all the time.
Speaker 7: And it's a family friendly.
Speaker 5: But there was one time where.
Speaker 7: We haven't had a lot of like alone time.
Speaker 6: You know, life got busy.
Speaker 8: So we went out on a date.
Speaker 7: And there was kids like all throughout the brewery and
Speaker 7: this one kid kept like bouncing up a loon like
Speaker 7: right next to us, kind of kept like hitting our
Speaker 7: table things like that, and like, I love kids, but
Speaker 7: like not when I'm trying to, you know, have like
Speaker 7: a date night afterwork.
Speaker 2: But yeah, that's Kids can be a pain in the
Speaker 2: ass at restaurants when they're not at your table, but
Speaker 2: they practically are jumping on you, you know what I mean.
Speaker 7: Like sometimes parents use it as like, Oh, we want
Speaker 7: a date night, but don't want to get a babysitter.
Speaker 1: You're the babysitter.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what's up, Mike, How you doing good?
Speaker 1: What's going on?
Speaker 8: Oh? Not a lot.
Speaker 5: I was just listening to that.
Speaker 9: I listen to you guys every day. I'm a first
Speaker 9: time caller, but I was thinking about what you were
Speaker 9: saying about loone time in the restaurant. It's a hospitality business.
Speaker 9: That's what they do, and it might not be the
Speaker 9: best place to go for a long time, just the thought.
Speaker 2: Now, I get it, and I understand that they got
Speaker 2: a business to run, But the problem is they sat
Speaker 2: there and wanted to have not a hospitality thing.
Speaker 1: They just wanted to keep on talking. You know, I
Speaker 1: get it.
Speaker 2: Well, I understand that that's nice, and I should have
Speaker 2: probably said something like Chelse would love for me. I
Speaker 2: think Chelsea would love to be married to the guy
Speaker 2: that goes Hey, excuse me. I'm trying to spend time
Speaker 2: with my wife. We'll talk at another time. I think
Speaker 2: she would love if I stood up and did something
Speaker 2: like that. The problem is I am such a coward
Speaker 2: when it comes to that. It's just not my personality,
Speaker 2: you know. And I probably should have like Kevin would
Speaker 2: have done that. Maybe no, you wouldn't. Kevin would have
Speaker 2: done it in a way that would have made you
Speaker 2: go that guy's a jerk. But I kind of like him,
Speaker 2: you know.
Speaker 3: So Kay Sinnat, who's a streamer. I've seen him streaming
Speaker 3: before and people approach him when he's eating and he'll
Speaker 3: always say, like, I appreciate it. I would love to
Speaker 3: talk to you when I'm done eating. Then we can
Speaker 3: have a conversation. We can take pictures, which I think
Speaker 3: is smart.
Speaker 2: He gets away with that not being called out for that. Yeah, Kylie,
Speaker 2: what's up?
Speaker 5: Hey?
Speaker 8: Sorry?
Speaker 10: Hold on, I tested it, and I was I'm wondering
Speaker 10: if there's a way you guys can like call the
Speaker 10: restaurant before him. I don't know what restaurants you go
Speaker 10: to and ask for like a private booth or an
Speaker 10: intnet setting, you know what.
Speaker 2: Listen, I sat in the wrong spot. I actually we
Speaker 2: sat up against at the bar, but but we did it.
Speaker 2: We did it in a way of you got just
Speaker 2: us sitting there and I could look at her, and
Speaker 2: we sat in an area where there really wasn't anybody around.
Speaker 2: But you're right, I probably should have done that. I
Speaker 2: should have said, hey, do you have like a like
Speaker 2: a private area. The problem though with that is then
Speaker 2: I think that they think we're going to do something
Speaker 2: kind of weird do each other? Do you mean I
Speaker 2: don't know anything with the higher table? Yeah, excuse me?
Speaker 2: Do you have like a separate room with a lock
Speaker 2: on it?
Speaker 1: Hey? Jackson, what's going on?
Speaker 5: Hey?
Speaker 9: Guys, So I was out with this girls. I was
Speaker 9: taking her out, trying to break up with her, and
Speaker 9: then the jackquad next to us decided to propose.
Speaker 2: To I don't know, wait, that's that's so funny. So
Speaker 2: you're going to break up with her? And at what
Speaker 2: point were you about to do it? When all of
Speaker 2: a sudden the thing happened with them with the engagement.
Speaker 9: Uh, the witch just comes over and should take anything else?
Speaker 9: And I was just going to be like, hey, can
Speaker 9: I get like like two separate like the goat orders
Speaker 9: that my came's look last meal. But as she comes over,
Speaker 9: this guy just sticks down. I thought he drops something
Speaker 9: and I saw him get on his knee.
Speaker 1: Ash, So did you break up? Or did you wait? Oh?
Speaker 9: I had to wait till I dropped her off.
Speaker 2: Wait were you paying for the full bill? You better
Speaker 2: have paid for it? You were breaking up with her?
Speaker 4: Of course, no bad reviews out here, That's how he
Speaker 4: was going to break up with her views.
Speaker 1: Wow, what's up star? How you doing?
Speaker 9: Okay?
Speaker 6: Good?
Speaker 8: How you doing?
Speaker 5: Guys?
Speaker 8: So I was a server for thirty years and sometimes
Speaker 8: I could just tell when people are you know, for
Speaker 8: the conversation or they wanted to be left alone, you know.
Speaker 8: So I to go up and say, hey, you know,
Speaker 8: if you guys need something, just you know, wait to me,
Speaker 8: get my attention and I'll be happy to come over.
Speaker 8: And they absolutely love that, and I would.
Speaker 5: Just leave him alone.
Speaker 2: That's actually great. It's really good on your part. You
Speaker 2: understand what's going on. What's up, Jordan?
Speaker 1: How you doing?
Speaker 8: Hi? I'm good?
Speaker 1: How are you good? The uninterrupted date? Yeah?
Speaker 11: So I was. I texted in because of the person
Speaker 11: earlier saying like they do not disturb sign They actually
Speaker 11: do that at the Bubba Gumps restaurant.
Speaker 2: I've not been to a Bubba Gumps, but I've seen
Speaker 2: a million of them. They have what do not disturb
Speaker 2: sign there, so on.
Speaker 11: Top of where they're like napkins and condiments and stuff
Speaker 11: would be, there's multiple signs and one will say like
Speaker 11: stop for at stop and it's red and your server
Speaker 11: will come over, or if you're good, it says like
Speaker 11: run Forest run.
Speaker 8: It's really cool.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's actually awesome and very creative. Run
Speaker 2: Forest Run, Chelsea, last call? What's up?
Speaker 6: Hi? So first time, long time and one time I
Speaker 6: was atching's Dearborn with my fiance say, and I guess
Speaker 6: the table behind us was also on a date, but
Speaker 6: it was the husband and his side chick, and the
Speaker 6: wife and her sister came in in the middle and
Speaker 6: caused a whole scene and jumped the side chick in
Speaker 6: the restaurant and then again in the parking lot.
Speaker 2: Oh no, did they just happen upon them or they
Speaker 2: were following these guys.
Speaker 6: It seemed like they were following them because she kind
Speaker 6: of knew exactly. She came in really hot, into the restaurant,
Speaker 6: all hot, so it seems like they were following them.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's funny because I I wanted to go to
Speaker 2: PF Chang's yesterday. I was like, hey, let's go to
Speaker 2: PF Changs. And the last time that Chelsea went to
Speaker 2: PF Changs, it didn't sit well. She was like not
Speaker 2: into it at all.
Speaker 1: Yeah,