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Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning and we are back from

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Speaker 1: the weekend with second date update. Let's just bring Blake

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Speaker 1: on right now. Blake, are you there? Hey, guys, hey

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Speaker 1: man here, Hey, fan of the show, welcome.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So I met this amazing girlnd Hinge. Her name

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Speaker 2: is Jessica, and we went on a dinner date a

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Speaker 2: couple of weeks ago fancy spot over in Walnut Creek.

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Speaker 1: I was just gonna ask, what part of the bay

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Speaker 1: you're in, so like downtown one Oh, yeah, okay.

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Speaker 2: That's right. Anyway, I thought it went really, really well.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, she's been, uh, she's been ghosting me since

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Speaker 2: this happened, or I should say this has happened to

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Speaker 2: me before. And obviously it's you know, confusing, but I've

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Speaker 2: been able to, you know, let me shake it off

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Speaker 2: and get back out there. But for whatever reason, I

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Speaker 2: don't know, this time is Yeah, it's harder. I thought

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Speaker 2: she was so cute and I felt like it was

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Speaker 2: going really well, and I would just really love some

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Speaker 2: clarity here. You know, maybe there's like a totally reasonable

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Speaker 2: explanation for why she's you know, been unable to respond.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Online day's got to be right. Also, yeah, no.

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Speaker 3: It's a series of unfortunate events.

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Speaker 1: My friend, my well, you literally just named my autobiography.

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Speaker 1: Go ahead and go back on you. Let's let's give

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Speaker 1: Jessica a call. Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, Jessica,

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Speaker 1: this is she. Hey Jessica, it's Marcus calling from Jar

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Speaker 1: one on one three from the morning show. Uh hi, Hey,

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Speaker 1: do you have a sec to chat?

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Speaker 3: Sure? I what is this about? So?

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Speaker 1: I work for iHeartRadio for Star one on one three.

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Speaker 1: Do you don't happen to listen in the morning?

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Speaker 2: Do you?

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Speaker 4: Sorry?

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Speaker 1: Now that's fine. So we do a segment on our show.

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Speaker 1: It's called Second Date Update, and literally a dating thing

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Speaker 1: where two people go on a date and then somebody

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Speaker 1: feels like they got ghosted, so we call their date

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Speaker 1: to figure out, frankly, where they screw it up. And

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Speaker 1: I got your phone number from a guy that took

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Speaker 1: you out recently in Walnut Creek. His name is Blake,

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Speaker 1: and I would love to get your thoughts on the date.

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Speaker 1: He's feeling like you ghosted. I'm not saying you did.

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Speaker 1: How did it go for you? Do you mind talking

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Speaker 1: for a second the year?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: This is so bizarre. It's random, weirdly appropriate?

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Speaker 3: Sure, why not?

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Speaker 1: Thank you?

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Speaker 3: Whatever?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, how did it go?

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Speaker 3: Well? I didn't call him back, so I'm not.

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Speaker 1: Great, right, Okay, let me rephrase the question, why did

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Speaker 1: you ghost him?

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Speaker 3: Look, he was fine the first, like, you know, a

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Speaker 3: few minutes of the date, and then his whiskey arrived

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Speaker 3: and it was just very very weird.

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Speaker 1: He was good for two minutes.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, basically I don't know, like.

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Speaker 1: What what happened when the whiskey got there.

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Speaker 4: So the whiskey gets there, he picked up the glass.

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Speaker 4: He held it up to the light, I guess to

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Speaker 4: see if he could see through the cube of glass.

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Speaker 3: And then he started critiquing it like he was a

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Speaker 3: judge on the Great British Bake Off or something.

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Speaker 1: It was a very weird you said, glass, Do you

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Speaker 1: mean the ice? He was critiquing the ice.

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Speaker 3: He was critiquing the ice. Everything about the ice.

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Speaker 4: It was to quality, it was the wrong shape, wasn't

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Speaker 4: melting too quickly.

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Speaker 3: It was very very weird. Then he flags down the

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Speaker 3: server to ask about the ice. He wants to know

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Speaker 3: if they had directional freezing, and the server just looked

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Speaker 3: at him like a deer, and he had no idea

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Speaker 3: what he was talking about. The server didn't care, and

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Speaker 3: he just kept going and asking about it.

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Speaker 1: Am I a nerd if I know exactly what he's

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Speaker 1: talking about? Probably? So, so what did the server? What

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Speaker 1: did the server do?

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Speaker 3: Server listened while he started explaining what directional freezing is.

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Speaker 3: You know, directional freezing is when you freeze the water

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Speaker 3: from one direction so there's no air bubbles, and then

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Speaker 3: they all get pushed on one side.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 3: He flay into the ice melts moore slowly. So that's

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Speaker 3: I guess better for the whiskey, Like it doesn't have

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Speaker 3: as much it's more diluted, you know, so it's a

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Speaker 3: better cocktail.

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Speaker 1: What did the server do?

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Speaker 3: They just stood there. Finally they were like, I'll go

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Speaker 3: at the bartender, which they were busy.

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Speaker 1: Right, it didn't have to be a thing. You made

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Speaker 1: it a thing pretentious.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, it could have been. It could have

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Speaker 3: been more like a less pretendious thing.

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Speaker 1: Sure. So here's the other part about this is that I've

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Speaker 1: actually got I've got Blake listening in right now. Oh,

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Speaker 1: we're trying to turn this into a teachable moment. So

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Speaker 1: so Blake, Hey, Jeffria, surprise.

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Speaker 2: I I assure you I wasn't trying to show off.

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Speaker 2: I am be pretentious. I genuinely thought the server might

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Speaker 2: find it interesting.

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Speaker 3: No, did you look at his face? Where your eyes open?

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Speaker 4: I don't know?

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Speaker 3: This is a guy works order to do his job.

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Speaker 3: He didn't.

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Speaker 2: I haven't worked at a high end restaurant. He should

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Speaker 2: know that clear ice is often, you know, the most

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Speaker 2: overlooked part of a good cocktail. It's just domain. I

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Speaker 2: was just trying to relate to him.

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Speaker 3: And that's not pretentious. That's not pretentious, Like I'm.

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Speaker 2: God forbid a guy have interest.

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Speaker 1: Gosh, okay, look man.

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Speaker 3: Him.

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Speaker 1: I actually own a clear ice cube tray, so I

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Speaker 1: get it. But I don't know. I don't know that

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Speaker 1: it's the best. I don't know if it's the best

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Speaker 1: fodder for a first date. Like you got to kind

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Speaker 1: of read then, didn't we?

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Speaker 3: But I'll say this, I like to be knowing so

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Speaker 3: much about clear ice, nothing about him, Like I couldn't

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Speaker 3: tell you like anything about all it's all we talked

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Speaker 3: about on the.

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Speaker 2: First What you try this again? What if we try

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Speaker 2: this again and we talk about literally anything other than cocktail.

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Speaker 2: I can talk about literally may.

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Speaker 3: Do anything else besides try this again.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you know what, and for effort, my man shot

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Speaker 1: is shot. I was not expecting that, so that's a

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Speaker 1: full no.

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Speaker 3: I'm not interested.

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Speaker 1: Okay, no second date. You got it. You got it.

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Speaker 1: You guys hang out here. Sorry, dude, hang on, hang on,

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Speaker 1: no move is self awareness is key, I'm telling you anyway.

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Speaker 1: Second date update