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Speaker 1: Fair and Faarah Tampa Accident Attorneys. All Right, I love

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Speaker 1: Valentine's Day. I like it for a couple of reasons. One, obviously,

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Speaker 1: my fiance and I get to hang out, have some fun,

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Speaker 1: and it's like kind of an excuse to, like, you know,

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Speaker 1: we'll play video games. A new Mario game came out yesterday,

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Speaker 1: so we're gonna play a bunch of Nintendo Switch. But

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Speaker 1: I also just love, like I love the excuse to

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Speaker 1: eat like candy and you know, like heart shape pizza

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Speaker 1: and all that stuff. So let's talk about a little

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Speaker 1: bit of love, and we're actually I'm sprinkling love throughout

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Speaker 1: the show also maybe heartbreak as well. But right now,

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Speaker 1: I want to know where'd you meet your lover? Eight

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Speaker 1: hundred four nine ninety three ninety three countext it in

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Speaker 1: ninety seven seven two zero. The reason why I want

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Speaker 1: to know this is is, Katie, you say that people

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Speaker 1: are recommending singles go to Costco.

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Speaker 2: They are, and I thought that was, like, this is

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Speaker 2: brilliant because you can, you know, get your errands done,

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Speaker 2: but also you don't have the stress of dating apps,

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Speaker 2: so like while you're at Costco. You kind of just

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Speaker 2: like scope the scene and see if there's someone who's

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Speaker 2: cue and by themselves, and then you can go up

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Speaker 2: and strike up a conversation.

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Speaker 3: Jet goes there all the time.

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Speaker 4: Here's the thing, Ashley, So Katie, you go to the

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Speaker 4: same one I do? I think, which is right off

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Speaker 4: a linebar or whatever?

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Speaker 3: What's the women like there?

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Speaker 4: Most of the women that are there are married and

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Speaker 4: have children. I don't know this would be see that's

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Speaker 4: the thing is maybe the singles are going at a

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Speaker 4: different time, but most of the people I see are

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Speaker 4: all the blue hair crowd or it's single or single

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Speaker 4: or possibly even married moms.

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Speaker 5: Don't if you go early, that's where the single are

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Speaker 5: the moms and you know the kids are going because

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Speaker 5: the kids are up early.

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Speaker 3: So we just go into the store to get it.

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Speaker 1: But of here, but what time should I go?

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Speaker 6: Then?

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Speaker 4: If I want to meet girls at Costco.

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Speaker 3: Someone who's like working and they don't have to pick

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Speaker 3: up their kids, like gigantic thing of paper towels.

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Speaker 5: Exactly, and Jett will be there to help her grab

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Speaker 5: that gigantic thing of paper towel.

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Speaker 3: Can I reach that for you?

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Speaker 1: Katie? Your fiance and you. You guys met that work

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Speaker 1: we did. He worked for ninety three three FLZ, worked

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Speaker 1: for iHeart.

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Speaker 3: Yep, he was my engineer.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember the first time because you guys weren't together,

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Speaker 1: I think you were with someone else, right or no,

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Speaker 1: because you were in while he worked there, you were

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Speaker 1: in a relationship at some point, right, Was there ever

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Speaker 1: like overlap or anything like that.

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Speaker 2: No, there was like a space of single Katie.

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Speaker 1: So during that time, like when you first meet him.

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Speaker 6: Then.

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Speaker 1: The only reason why I bring that up is like,

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Speaker 1: when you first met him, did you go, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I kind of want to be with him or was

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Speaker 1: it like a slow roll?

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Speaker 2: It was kind of a slow burn, but in the

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Speaker 2: sense that I always I always was laughing when I

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Speaker 3: I always felt safe. A friendship. Yeah, okay, this is

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Speaker 3: something more, Yes, exactly, it's nice.

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Speaker 1: You guys remember the first time you kissed?

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Speaker 3: I do real it was after Gasparilla. Ah, what happened?

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Speaker 3: Old building? You're just like, oh, you're hot.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yep, but this is before he actually to be

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Speaker 1: Together, by the way, shout out to the old building.

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Speaker 1: That's where I asked Alica to be my girlfriend.

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Speaker 3: That is so funny.

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Speaker 1: It was like a late Friday night that I took

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Speaker 1: her to the radio station. I don't even know why

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Speaker 1: and then we made sweet love under the table.

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Speaker 3: We didn't.

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Speaker 1: I met Alyssa at Ashley and Jed were there, introduced

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Speaker 1: by Ali Neglio, salesperson best friends with Alyssa. We met

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Speaker 1: at something tin no uh uh DJ Jamie Ferra DJ's

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Speaker 1: at the one and Eboor Copper Shaker in Saint Pete there,

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Speaker 1: but then we went hung out at uh the Beach

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Speaker 1: Bar Forget Anything PCI. I DM her because Caddies has

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Speaker 1: I'm a guy and you gotta find ways to slide in.

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Speaker 1: She wants to picture the cup. This was after already

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Speaker 1: know I DMed. I go, where do you get that cup?

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Speaker 1: Literally said Caddies right on it. She goes, hey, why

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Speaker 1: don't you come out. We're gonna go uh to PCI

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Speaker 1: and then we went and uh, you know the rest

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Speaker 3: Are you just spitting mad game.

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Speaker 1: No, she actually was the one that said. We were

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Speaker 1: driving home after because I had she was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: let me pick you up. So I went to pick

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Speaker 1: her up, and you know, we're going to the beach.

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Speaker 1: She walks out on a bikini and literally I'm looking

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Speaker 1: at him like, oh my god, I love it. I

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Speaker 1: love Tampa. We got that. We got that sexiest women

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Speaker 1: She was kind of getting over a breakup. I was

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Speaker 1: was talking about her ax, I was talking about mine.

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Speaker 1: We're like kind of like talking about that. And then

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Speaker 1: we got to the beach, I just said, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: went to Kylie, her best friend's house, after to eat

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Speaker 1: spaghetti and Kylie had made like spaghetti dinner for everyone.

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Speaker 1: And then we were on the couch and we were

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Speaker 1: playing like different music videos, comparing music videos and we

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Speaker 1: back and we were on the Gandy Bridge and she

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Speaker 1: was like, are you doing anything? Like now? Do you

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Speaker 1: like what's going on? And it was on Memorial Day,

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Speaker 1: but I'll drop you off and she's like, well, can

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Speaker 1: I come over. I'm like sure, I guess. I didn't

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Speaker 1: I think she wants to make out, and then we made.

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Speaker 3: Out and then and then yeah that's right, sweet.

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Speaker 1: Hey Caleb, we made out.

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Speaker 7: No, not you me?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hey you met your significant other at your best

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Speaker 1: friend's son birthday party?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Do tell more.

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Speaker 6: So she actually started watching my son, which is in

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Speaker 6: the car nowur on the way to school. And we're

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Speaker 6: first time callers, right, Caleb.

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: So yeah, and her son is actually three weeks older

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Speaker 6: than Kylea. So they grew up together, and it was

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Speaker 6: about two years ago her you know, best friends sons

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Speaker 6: her brother, which ended up not meaning to be like that,

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Speaker 6: but it ended up being the best thing that could

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Speaker 6: have ever happened to me and my kids.

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Speaker 1: How exciting is it too, though, that now like you

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Speaker 1: get to even be closer with your friend you know?

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, I mean even before I would always still

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Speaker 6: go to her house for holidays, birthday parties.

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Speaker 9: So if you don't want to go, that's fine.

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Speaker 10: I'm still going.

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Speaker 6: That's my best friend, and her son is still my

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Speaker 6: best friends. They're still best friends and they're seven now.

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Speaker 1: If you ever have issues with them, because we all

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Speaker 1: get issues every once in a while, you don't go

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Speaker 1: to your friend about like her brother, right or do

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Speaker 1: you no?

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Speaker 6: Because she don't want to hear it, and I ain't

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Speaker 6: trying to I ain't trying to tell her.

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Speaker 1: I'm smart, all right, Kayla? I love that. And by

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Speaker 1: the way, great call you and your son better call

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Speaker 1: him more after what's your son's name?

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Speaker 8: I like?

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Speaker 1: Kaylab All right, guys, we'll talk to you later. Hey, Tammy,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Good morning. Are our phones on a delay.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm talking to people and they're responding

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Speaker 1: like I feel like I'm in like the news. I'm

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Speaker 1: on Fox News right now. Hey, we're kicking it out

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Speaker 1: to Ashley.

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Speaker 3: It's the fog outside. Hey, coming back to you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hey, Tammy, Tammy, where'd you meet your significant other?

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Speaker 7: So I am.

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Speaker 10: I viewed with him and.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, so I was in work release, getting out of

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Speaker 8: doing a little bit of time in prison, and he

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Speaker 1: I applied for a job. No way, I accepted the offer.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I accepted the offer, and seven years later was

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Speaker 8: still together, right, Jose, I just.

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Speaker 7: I'm working guys right now.

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Speaker 8: But listen, I just wanted to let you know it's

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Speaker 8: it's not like that show, you know, like after prison

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Speaker 8: all this, and that he's a really really good guy.

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Speaker 8: I was, you know, in for a little bit, so

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Speaker 8: my intentions were probably you know, smashing dash hitting quit

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Speaker 8: or something like that. He was such a gentleman, he

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Speaker 8: was such a good, great guy to me.

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Speaker 3: Well, you know, did you think about it?

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Speaker 10: He was real Excuse me, did you ever.

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Speaker 3: Think about smashing?

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Speaker 1: She thought about it.

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Speaker 6: Absolutely.

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Speaker 8: He was such a good guy and he got a

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Speaker 8: lake house. When I got out, we had.

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Speaker 5: Got I got a lake house, My baby, don't never

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Speaker 5: crash and dash my guy, Jose.

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Speaker 1: Tammy, I love you.

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Speaker 8: I don't want to give him a shout out. Man,

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Speaker 8: he's just he's just an awesome person. Man.

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Speaker 7: Not a chance, Tammy.

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Speaker 1: I love that too. I love I love a good

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Speaker 1: reformed criminal too.

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Speaker 3: What did you do well?

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Speaker 8: I didn't say nothing about reform.

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying, allegedly, what did you do?

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Speaker 8: You know I'm stuffed stuff I wasn't supposed to. How

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Speaker 8: about that?

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Speaker 1: It sounds good, Tammy. What are you gonna do?

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Speaker 7: Tammy?

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Speaker 1: Love you? Thank you for calling in and uh one

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Speaker 1: making a smile and two sharing your love story.

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Speaker 3: Don't get caught next time because you said you may reform.

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Speaker 8: That part that part. I love you, Jose, Jose.

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Speaker 1: Someone had to say, all right, Tammy, we'll talk to

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Speaker 1: All right, relyve on Tampa Bay's number one and only

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Speaker 1: Ashley checking your new coworkers Facebook and LinkedIn account? Well yeah,

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Speaker 5: Uh so this isn't me? And I thought it was

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Speaker 5: I'm like, yeah, we always search our coworkers before, like

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Speaker 5: That's why a lot of my friends they don't have

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Speaker 1: Do you guys follow our coworkers, some of them, all

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what's the criteria?

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Speaker 4: Because they're just It goes back to what Katie said.

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Speaker 5: Like why don't got to be a Facebook friend?

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Speaker 1: I don't check my Facebook friend requests. Oh I don't

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Speaker 1: I can't tell you last time I was on it.

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Speaker 1: I go on Instagram, but I don't check my notifications.

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Speaker 1: I'd follow everyone. I want everyone to, especially the salespeople. Honey,

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Speaker 3: Gotta like it.

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Speaker 1: So I don't want to f that up. But I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't like now. I kind of

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Speaker 1: Well, as we do this, let's pick up carry in? Hey,

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Speaker 1: Hi, carry in? Carry in?

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Speaker 1: Well, Ashley reset.

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Speaker 5: The topic because yeah, So one of my good friends,

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Speaker 10: Now, see, not for me, I'm not going to do

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Speaker 10: I am one of those people that if I find

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Speaker 3: It's so funny hit the tea.

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Speaker 5: It's like you want to block them before even meeting them.

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Speaker 10: Exactly because you know everybody at work they got they

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Speaker 3: That is hilarious. It's always better to be in the know.

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Speaker 10: You're right, you right exactly.

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Speaker 3: Basically, detectives fine them before they find you.

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Speaker 10: Girl, girl, right, that's.

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Speaker 1: A good day.

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Speaker 10: You two thing.

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Speaker 3: Man, I can't believe you don't like just like look

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Speaker 2: I don't like friends them right away unless like ReVibe

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Speaker 5: Four mutuals and now you want to be friends or

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Speaker 3: Is that why? That's what the streets interesting? I like

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Speaker 3: you know? And I was just like, wait, what how many.

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Speaker 1: Farm thirty two thirty thirty four friend requests? Oh no,

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Speaker 1: It's just oh no, hold on that for someone.

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Speaker 5: Steve, I told you they use Facebook. No one uses

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Speaker 1: I got to go through this more. I followed Katerina.

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Speaker 3: She's on Instagram.

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Speaker 5: AI, Matt will be on Instagram's.

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Speaker 1: Name Matt what's his name? I don't know, mccuster. More.

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Speaker 1: Well, now I feel really bad. There is a lot.

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Speaker 7: No, I mean I got a fever.

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Speaker 7: You both me up. But you know, I said, what,

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Speaker 1: Right, this is a real thing with Jewels because he'll

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Speaker 7: Yes, yes, it's that. And I'm gonna tell you what

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Speaker 7: And then homegirl went and posted pictures of herself on

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Speaker 7: And they showed me the video and I was like,

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Speaker 7: I will never ever put my coworkers or my friends.

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Speaker 5: Yes, they said, you can only add coworkers who've done

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Speaker 1: But Jewels, you've even said to me, like you're like, yeah,

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Speaker 7: I like, I'm sorry. Like I know they'd be like, hey,

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Speaker 3: Because you ever, I don't want to be friends set

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Speaker 5: I think maybe because social media is now fun, but

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Speaker 3: You don't want to socialize with them.

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Speaker 5: You want to get your job done and get out

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, that's a bit bunny.

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Speaker 3: It is.

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Speaker 5: You will easily get so annoyed with each other because

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Speaker 5: you see each other all day Monday through Friday and

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Speaker 5: then Saturday to Sunday.

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Speaker 4: It is okay, Joe different, No, no, no, we're not, Ashley.

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Speaker 4: I get the point that you're trying to make. Though

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Speaker 4: we live a very we have a very unique job

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Speaker 4: where it's like, I mean, we get to talk and

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Speaker 4: have fun for four years, and whereas other people the

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Speaker 4: jobs that they have stuffy, it's miserable. Like I think

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Speaker 4: about my dad who just retired. It's like he's an accountant.

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Speaker 4: What the hell are you going to talk about over Friday?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you go home and be with my family, But.

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Speaker 7: Work, we talk about poop, go to the bar, and

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Speaker 7: be like, wow, that sort was amazing.

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Speaker 1: Jewels cleans Jules. I don't feel good as well, so

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna get home pretty quick. And since you're home too,

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Speaker 1: we're playing Fortnite. Yeah yeah, I'll text you when I

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Speaker 1: get home. Uh, and you need to rest, so you're

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Speaker 1: getting on Fortnite too.

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Speaker 3: That's rest.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if that's rest.

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Speaker 3: What ask my workout?

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Speaker 5: Workout I'm taking, I know, and then a fat grumpy.

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