1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:05,680 Speaker 1: Joe Shows Live. Excited about the wedding. Jed's going to 2 00:00:05,720 --> 00:00:07,040 Speaker 1: a wedding. I'm going to a wedding. 3 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:09,240 Speaker 2: I'm pumped for a lot of aspects. I'm excited for 4 00:00:09,280 --> 00:00:12,240 Speaker 2: my brother. I'm excited for my future sister in law Kayla. 5 00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 2: But something I'm excited to see baby Laney. It's gonna 6 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:17,560 Speaker 2: be a lot of fun though, and there's some things 7 00:00:17,640 --> 00:00:22,000 Speaker 2: just I'm not looking forward to at all. What's that 8 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 2: uncomfortable table conversations? And it always happens at every single 9 00:00:26,960 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 2: family gathering, whether it's a wedding, whether it's a holiday, Christmas, Thanksgiving, Birthday, 10 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 2: It's going to be worse this one. 11 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 3: Yea, it's your brother's wedding, right. 12 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:37,200 Speaker 2: You got your hand raised, Joseph. 13 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:40,480 Speaker 1: Yes, yes. Ever since I saw you write that down, 14 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 1: I have had a question. I told myself I was 15 00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:44,199 Speaker 1: gonna wait till after we talked about this, but I 16 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:47,479 Speaker 1: gotta know now because my brain Okay, uh, do you 17 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:48,360 Speaker 1: have a seating chart? 18 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:51,839 Speaker 4: No, son of a bitch, so you right? Yeah, help 19 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:52,479 Speaker 4: me out on this too. 20 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 1: No, it's not good because more than likely I won't 21 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 1: be sitting with Jet because he's family and I'm not He. 22 00:00:56,520 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 3: Said there is no seating chart. 23 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 2: There's no From what I understand, I don't think there's 24 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 2: a seating chart. 25 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 1: Are you sure you wouldn't see it more than likely 26 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 1: until the day of the wedding, unless your brothers asked 27 00:01:09,880 --> 00:01:10,319 Speaker 1: or anything. 28 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 2: Don't. I don't know if there's a seating chart or not. 29 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 1: Well, let's get back to what we were talking about, 30 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 1: because I need the help to go with the more conversation, 31 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 1: small talk, all that stuff. 32 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:23,920 Speaker 2: So the one thing that kind of I shouldn't say 33 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 2: frustrates me. But one thing I'm worried about happening is 34 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 2: one of those conversations where some family members have different political, 35 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 2: political decisions or views or whatever. Some of them have 36 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 2: different religious reviews. Of course you're super woke. Oh yeah, 37 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:44,679 Speaker 2: that's tied I shirts and blue hair and ear piercing. 38 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 2: That's me. I just don't want one of those conversations 39 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 2: to ruin one of the moment, be not the focal point. 40 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 2: But I don't want people to look back at my 41 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 2: brother's wedding and be like, can you believe so and 42 00:01:55,960 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 2: so brought up that at the wedding. I want this 43 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 2: day for Kayla and Luke, my brother and my sister 44 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:05,760 Speaker 2: in law. I want that to be a day about them. 45 00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 2: And I know that there are some people who they 46 00:02:09,240 --> 00:02:12,600 Speaker 2: will start talking about Trump this and Biden that, and 47 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 2: I don't want any of that. And I just think 48 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:17,360 Speaker 2: there are certain things you can't bring up at the 49 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:20,880 Speaker 2: family dinner table, just in general, like we're there to 50 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:23,919 Speaker 2: celebrate love, We're not there to celebrate like, oh, do 51 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:27,400 Speaker 2: you know how many people are alligator alcatraz? I'm I 52 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:29,400 Speaker 2: want to play a drinking I want to play a 53 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:32,520 Speaker 2: drinking game with some of my relatives. How many times 54 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 2: will certain people say that? 55 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 4: All right? So I'll count for you. 56 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 1: I'll help you count on that eight hundred and four 57 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:41,720 Speaker 1: and the ninety three ninety three. What I got to 58 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:44,239 Speaker 1: know is who do I need to avoid at the wedding? 59 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 1: Because I love your family, I genuine I've known Jed 60 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 1: since high school. I love the Shillings. I haven't met 61 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:55,520 Speaker 1: a bad egg. I love Country Jed. 62 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, my cousin will, he'll be here tomorrow. 63 00:02:58,400 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 1: I love every one. But there are certain people you 64 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 1: got to avoid, right And I want to know right now, 65 00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 1: who is that problem starter in your family? Who is 66 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:14,519 Speaker 1: the one that's got a lot of drama attached to him. 67 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 1: My cousin Antonio was that guy for when he was 68 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:21,919 Speaker 1: like younger, he was kind of the crazy cousin. Now 69 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 1: he's he's I think, in my opinion, the most respected cousin. 70 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:32,520 Speaker 1: Things change, who is the controversial one though? Now I 71 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:35,840 Speaker 1: got an uncle who's always consistently causing problems, and I 72 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 1: think he does it on purpose because I think he 73 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 1: thinks that's funny. But I got an uncle that you know, 74 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 1: when he's around, something abouts to happen. Okay, okay. I 75 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:47,800 Speaker 1: got an aunt who tends to be a little bit 76 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 1: too opinionated with things that they say, and then it 77 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 1: really really bothers. 78 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 3: Other things changes the mood. 79 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 4: Eight hundred and four Ohn nine ninety three, ninety three, Ashley, 80 00:03:58,920 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 4: you got a lot of people in your family, I know. 81 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 3: And I'm trying to the specific. 82 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 4: Problem starters, like do you have two family members? 83 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 5: I want to say problem starters, But we know, we 84 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:09,839 Speaker 5: know when my cousin April is around. 85 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:10,839 Speaker 3: It's going to be a crazy time. 86 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 4: Something's gonna happen. 87 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:14,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, something is gonna happen where we're either gonna laugh, cry, 88 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 5: or it's just gonna be a memorable moment. But what 89 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 5: I want to know is, because Jed is going to 90 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:23,359 Speaker 5: this wedding this weekend, does Jed have family members that 91 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:25,599 Speaker 5: he wants to make sure you don't speak to because 92 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:28,279 Speaker 5: he knows, like, oh God, if Joe speaks to this person, 93 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 5: it's going to be trouble. 94 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 4: I want to meet the militia guy. 95 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 2: Oh, he's not invited. He has actually been. I think 96 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 2: he's been kind of what do you call it in 97 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 2: the Amish community, shunned. He's been shunned from the family 98 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 2: for quite some time. I've tried to get in contact 99 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 2: with him because I'd love to interview him and hear 100 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 2: his thoughts on a lot of. 101 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 1: Jed consistently says, you're in a militia on the radio, 102 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:52,920 Speaker 1: what are your thoughts? 103 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 3: He's actually I'm a banker. 104 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 1: Keep thinking about who you want me to avoid, Okay, 105 00:04:57,600 --> 00:05:01,760 Speaker 1: if there is anyone. Okay, Julia, your wedding was right 106 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:03,279 Speaker 1: after the election. 107 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 6: Day, It sure was, and we have people from all parties, 108 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 6: and I said, this is my wedding. No one's going 109 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 6: to talk about that. I said it a little bit 110 00:05:13,120 --> 00:05:15,719 Speaker 6: more brash than I would say it on the radio, 111 00:05:15,960 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 6: but you can imagine the colorful language that I met 112 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 6: at bride would say right before her wedding. So, Jed, 113 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:24,920 Speaker 6: if you do hear anyone talking, I'm going to say 114 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 6: it to your job tell them to shut up. And 115 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 6: it's not about that. Today is not the day, and 116 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:33,320 Speaker 6: they can take it offline another day because you're the 117 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 6: big brother and you're strong and you can fight. 118 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:39,040 Speaker 2: Them or I'll kick their Yeah, right, you want. 119 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:43,359 Speaker 6: To probably no fighting, Probably no fighting physically at the wedding, 120 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 6: but like the next day you could fight them. 121 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you, Julia Chrisa. 122 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 1: Yes, I you have some ground rules that Jed should 123 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:56,320 Speaker 1: lay out totally. 124 00:05:57,240 --> 00:06:03,600 Speaker 7: First off, no talking religi or politics with family or friends. 125 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:06,280 Speaker 7: It's just totally a bad idea. It's always going to 126 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 7: end in an argument. Someone's always going to get offended. 127 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 7: It's just not a good idea general rule of them. 128 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:15,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean the religious part I'm not too worried 129 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 2: about because most of us are Christian or Catholic. Yeah. 130 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 2: The politics part is just like so divisive and I 131 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 2: don't understand why it's got to be brought up. And 132 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 2: it's everything you see on social media too. It's like 133 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:26,919 Speaker 2: every time I go on TikTok or every time I 134 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:29,159 Speaker 2: go on Instagram, it's like, quit pushing this subjection. 135 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 5: I know he's talking politics and religion. I just feel 136 00:06:32,520 --> 00:06:34,039 Speaker 5: I don't know why my mind is set on this, 137 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:36,360 Speaker 5: but I just feel like as the older sibling, I 138 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 5: feel like you're not annoyed with people coming to you 139 00:06:39,560 --> 00:06:41,040 Speaker 5: and say, hey, when are you having a baby? When 140 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 5: are you gonna get married? Your younger brother is already 141 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:45,480 Speaker 5: married with a baby, Like, I feel like that's more 142 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:48,160 Speaker 5: of the questions that they'll probably be asking you, and 143 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 5: that will irrit take the hell out. 144 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 2: Of med sEH. I don't get annoyed with those questions 145 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:54,200 Speaker 2: because I think that they're all right questions to ask 146 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 2: for certain family members because they don't know a lot 147 00:06:56,360 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 2: about my life. 148 00:06:56,960 --> 00:07:00,920 Speaker 1: But anyone says, hey, I think you're gonna dialogne but 149 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 1: you had sucked. 150 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:06,240 Speaker 2: Oh sorry, damn. 151 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 1: He is two that which is another reminder that if 152 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 1: you want an uncensored version of the show, you can 153 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 1: watch us on YouTube and twitch live every morning. 154 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:19,560 Speaker 4: Madison, Hello, by. 155 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:24,600 Speaker 1: Jed's brothers getting married. We're going to the wedding this weekend. 156 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:27,640 Speaker 1: I'm super excited about it. We're talking about those in 157 00:07:27,680 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 1: the family though, that could start a problem. There's always 158 00:07:30,880 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 1: like that, problems h a family member. Who is that Madison? 159 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:36,360 Speaker 2: My uncle? 160 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:40,360 Speaker 8: Actually, you can't really tell him about any family events. 161 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:42,960 Speaker 8: He likes to hit the bottle a little too much, 162 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 8: if you know what I mean. 163 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:49,400 Speaker 5: Okay, sometimes, don't get me wrong. 164 00:07:49,440 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 8: He's a fun time, but he just he pushes boundaries 165 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 8: a little much. He's actually gotten my brother arrested. 166 00:07:57,320 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 3: How did he do? 167 00:07:58,360 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 4: Dude? 168 00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 1: My uncle almost got me in trouble too, like that 169 00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 1: story right after Madison. 170 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 8: So he was going around town to all of the bars. 171 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 8: I'm from Nebraska. I live in winter Haven now, but 172 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 8: I'm from Nebraska. We live in a Yes, we live 173 00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:15,560 Speaker 8: in a tiny, tiny little town, so everybody knows everybody, 174 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:19,240 Speaker 8: and all of the bars know everybody. And my uncle 175 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 8: was going bar to bar talking about my brother's financial status, 176 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 8: or his job status, or just about him in general, 177 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 8: just doing a bunch of stuff because he was drunk 178 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 8: and you know, wasn't watching his mouth. And my brother's 179 00:08:32,920 --> 00:08:35,080 Speaker 8: friends told him like, hey, this is what's going on. 180 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:37,679 Speaker 8: So my brother went to my uncle's house and they 181 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:42,439 Speaker 8: got into a heated exchange. My uncle swung on my brother. 182 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 8: But mind you, my uncle is he's sixty two years old, 183 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 8: my uncle is and my brother is thirty. So when 184 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 8: my brother got swung on, he swung back, and my 185 00:08:56,360 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 8: uncle is the one that ended up pressing charges for us. 186 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:02,920 Speaker 8: All ended up sitting in jail over the weekend. It 187 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:05,200 Speaker 8: was a Friday night, so my brother couldn't even see. 188 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 4: The judge until Monday. 189 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:08,559 Speaker 8: And that was the first charge of my. 190 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:11,679 Speaker 3: Brother ever got first, is. 191 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 8: The last charge first and last? Yes, But yeah, so 192 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:22,080 Speaker 8: now the whole family just kind of disowned him after 193 00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 8: that and ever since then, he's actually done worse things. 194 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 8: But since it's so rough on the family, I'd rather 195 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:30,320 Speaker 8: not get into all that. But yeah, he's definitely the 196 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 8: black sheep and he's been disowned by most of the family. 197 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:40,439 Speaker 2: For your story about how your uncle got you in trouble, Joe. 198 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:42,720 Speaker 1: Well, real quick. Emory's eleven years old, and she wants 199 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 1: to call out her grandma. Hi Emory, Hi, Hi cutie. 200 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:53,880 Speaker 1: Your grandma's the problem. 201 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:55,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, why. 202 00:09:56,640 --> 00:09:59,640 Speaker 9: Because she always takes me and my cousins at on. 203 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:04,200 Speaker 9: But she's like no, no, no, like she always showed 204 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:07,080 Speaker 9: so much favoritism, and she's like, you could have a gatorade, 205 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 9: but you can't have a gatorade because I know you're 206 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:12,160 Speaker 9: soaked dry with that vague mouth of years. 207 00:10:12,200 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 6: Okay, sorry, go ahead. 208 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 3: Oh not Grandma Emery. 209 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:19,920 Speaker 4: Where does she get off? What is her deal? 210 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 6: I have no idea. She's crazy. 211 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:26,680 Speaker 4: Last question for you, don't I. 212 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:28,080 Speaker 6: Don't want at my wedding. 213 00:10:29,240 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 4: You're already thinking about your wedding. You're eleven years old. 214 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:34,559 Speaker 3: She's a girl. I'm just a girl. 215 00:10:36,160 --> 00:10:37,680 Speaker 8: I'm watch. 216 00:10:40,679 --> 00:10:45,520 Speaker 1: Last one, last question that I gotta know what's the best? 217 00:10:46,760 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 4: Oh? 218 00:10:47,679 --> 00:10:50,200 Speaker 6: Uh blue? Dark blue? 219 00:10:51,080 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 5: And you know she's right because she didn't say the flavor. 220 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:54,600 Speaker 5: She's at the color. No one says the flavor. 221 00:10:54,760 --> 00:10:57,839 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, I just say, get me the yellow one, 222 00:10:57,880 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 1: give me the red one, and they say yellow? What 223 00:10:59,400 --> 00:11:01,520 Speaker 1: do you mean grey? They I don't know the og. 224 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 1: I like the og Emery had a great day and 225 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:15,400 Speaker 1: tell everyone. I say hi, But Grandma, my Lena, Hello, Hi. 226 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:18,680 Speaker 1: One last one, you say you are the problem person 227 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:19,439 Speaker 1: in your family. 228 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:22,559 Speaker 2: I know why. 229 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:27,800 Speaker 10: So my family is all Latin They're from Peru, and 230 00:11:27,840 --> 00:11:33,320 Speaker 10: if you know anything about Hispanic and Latinos, they're well yes, 231 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:38,439 Speaker 10: but we're also a lot of them are Catholic, and 232 00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:40,640 Speaker 10: I'm gay, I'm gay. 233 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 1: Bowser, so they maybe they get a little grossed out 234 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:49,520 Speaker 1: or something. 235 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:51,360 Speaker 4: What's their deal? What's their problem? 236 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:56,200 Speaker 10: Well, my grandmother doesn't like acknowledge it at all. She 237 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:57,880 Speaker 10: told me that she doesn't like that and not to 238 00:11:57,920 --> 00:12:00,199 Speaker 10: talk to her about it when I came out out 239 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:04,680 Speaker 10: to her. My mom knows, and she's kind of okay 240 00:12:04,760 --> 00:12:08,520 Speaker 10: with it. She just doesn't like me, you know, showing 241 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 10: any affection to my girlfriend. 242 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:12,679 Speaker 5: Say, when you bring girlfriends around, do you show affection 243 00:12:12,720 --> 00:12:17,040 Speaker 5: and how do they react? 244 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:20,680 Speaker 10: I I've only been around my mom with my girlfriend, 245 00:12:20,720 --> 00:12:24,760 Speaker 10: and my grandfather, like my mom's dad. My grandfather does 246 00:12:24,880 --> 00:12:34,600 Speaker 10: not care at all. He likes my girlfriend. He thinks 247 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:38,200 Speaker 10: she's very cool. My mom gets a little touchy. But 248 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:43,360 Speaker 10: my mom's also not an affectionate person at all. But 249 00:12:43,440 --> 00:12:46,520 Speaker 10: I've always been very affectionate, even with like my friends, 250 00:12:46,520 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 10: Like I'm very huggy, I'm very like like touchy with 251 00:12:49,640 --> 00:12:54,360 Speaker 10: my friends, my family, everyone. But yeah, so I don't 252 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 10: super enjoy questions of family times. 253 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 4: I mean, I can imagine. 254 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:05,000 Speaker 10: I think the only one that's not close family that 255 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:10,120 Speaker 10: that knows is my like uncle twice removed or whatever. 256 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:12,360 Speaker 3: But do you care if he knows. 257 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:14,040 Speaker 8: No, I don't. 258 00:13:13,920 --> 00:13:16,320 Speaker 10: He actually found out my accident. He's like, yeah, my Lena, 259 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:16,600 Speaker 10: I don't. 260 00:13:16,640 --> 00:13:17,079 Speaker 8: I don't care. 261 00:13:17,520 --> 00:13:18,440 Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, cool. 262 00:13:19,640 --> 00:13:22,280 Speaker 10: He saw like I posted something on my Instagram story 263 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:22,920 Speaker 10: and I forgot that. 264 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:27,440 Speaker 3: He followed me, Oh you're already out, then, girl, welcome out. 265 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:30,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, at least we know grandpa's coming to the wedding. Yeah. 266 00:13:30,640 --> 00:13:30,840 Speaker 7: Yeah. 267 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 1: Grandpa's like, hey'll walk you down the aisle. 268 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:35,240 Speaker 4: I'll go wherever you want. 269 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:40,640 Speaker 1: He'll even love it, My Lena, listen keeping you and 270 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:43,360 Speaker 1: they'll they'll come around to it. 271 00:13:44,600 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 10: Oh yeah, eventually, that's the that's the goal. 272 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:50,640 Speaker 7: That's it's very interesting to hear the why no. 273 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:51,400 Speaker 10: You getting a point? 274 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:53,640 Speaker 6: Friend? 275 00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:55,359 Speaker 4: Never how about gross? 276 00:13:55,400 --> 00:13:59,880 Speaker 1: Thanks Milena, We we love you, and thank you for 277 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:02,240 Speaker 1: you and calling in and being so open. 278 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:03,640 Speaker 4: And they'll come around to it.