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Speaker 1: story that relates, just text call me to us and
Speaker 1: we'll we'll get you on the show. Shannon and her
Speaker 1: husband Wes are always wonderful with each other, except for now.
Speaker 1: Shannon has changed. She says, I am tired of always
Speaker 1: trying to help you and you're not helping yourself.
Speaker 4: I actually quit. I am submitting my official notice right now,
Speaker 4: and I know he's listening. I think he's listening. He
Speaker 4: better be listening. You quit, wit, Why are you quitting that?
Speaker 2: Well?
Speaker 4: He told me to hold him accountable when it comes
Speaker 4: to sugar, so I feel like he's a healthy guy
Speaker 4: in general. I'm using air quotes, but he has the
Speaker 4: worst sweet tooth. And admittedly I have junk food, a
Speaker 4: lot of junk food all over the house.
Speaker 2: I am bad with it, my kids are.
Speaker 4: Bad with it, and I've busted him so many times
Speaker 4: with like Reese's peanut butter hearts, chocolate covered pretzels, I
Speaker 4: made brownies on Sunday, all the cookies. He went out
Speaker 4: to Whole Foods and bought what he calls healthy pop tarts,
Speaker 4: which there's really no such thing. And he's asked me,
Speaker 4: please hold me accountable. I really kind of want to,
Speaker 4: you know, get back on track with the way I'm
Speaker 4: eating and training and all of those things. And so
Speaker 4: when I say something to him about it, like I
Speaker 4: see him eating you know, missus Tate's cookie if you
Speaker 4: ever had those, very popular in our house, I'm like, hey,
Speaker 4: you told me to tell you know, you told me
Speaker 4: to tell you not to eat it. Don't eat that,
Speaker 4: And he will come up with some excuse as to
Speaker 4: why it's okay. Well, I'm about to work out the
Speaker 4: I don't know sugar, I need the It's gonna be okay.
Speaker 4: Last night, I legit chased him out of the kitchen
Speaker 4: and into the basement because I saw him grab something
Speaker 4: from like I call our treat pantry and put it
Speaker 4: in his mouth really fast and ate it. And I
Speaker 4: went downstairs. I could see he still something with his hand.
Speaker 4: I'm like, you told me to hold you accountable, and
Speaker 4: then you make me chase you, and I go show
Speaker 4: me your hand, and before he even put out his hand.
Speaker 4: He stuffed the rest of it in his mouth and
Speaker 4: ate it. I'm like, I'm done. You asked me to
Speaker 4: help you, you fight me on it.
Speaker 2: That's it, no more. I don't care anymore. You guys
Speaker 2: have an interesting life. By the way, why because.
Speaker 5: You guys are both skinny people and you worry about that.
Speaker 5: It's not about being skinny. It is about how he
Speaker 5: fuels his body. That's a really important thing to him,
Speaker 5: not so much to me. So he asked for somebody
Speaker 5: to hold him accountable. But then he doesn't want to
Speaker 5: do it, so I'm not doing it anymore.
Speaker 2: So he is hiding in the basement eating his food.
Speaker 2: He cheats. But he asked me to do one thing,
Speaker 2: he does completely another.
Speaker 1: How many now, how many? How many of these cookies
Speaker 1: is he?
Speaker 4: I have no idea, like, well, you know how many?
Speaker 1: I don't care. So wait, so you buy a big
Speaker 1: package from Costco. Why are you buying them? Then?
Speaker 2: If he doesn't want.
Speaker 1: Because want them, well too bad the rest of us do.
Speaker 1: I can't have stuff like that in the house. I
Speaker 1: have to literally, you know, uh say no, it's not
Speaker 1: allowed to be in the house.
Speaker 4: Well, just because one person doesn't want to eat. It
Speaker 4: doesn't mean the rest of us have to suffer. Yeah,
Speaker 4: so I'm still buying they.
Speaker 1: Are, But what if you got to eat the whole thing?
Speaker 1: Once you start? Is no stopping?
Speaker 2: They like then, like a thing? Is it?
Speaker 1: The ones that taste very buttery? But they're like yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: So quick quick question. If this were alcohol he was
Speaker 1: sneaking and he was an alcoholic, would you still be
Speaker 1: drinking your alcohol around the house and having him red? No,
Speaker 1: you would not. You would probably get rid of all
Speaker 1: the alcohol that's deep, and you wouldn't quit on him.
Speaker 3: This is.
Speaker 2: Alcoholism right now. He needs help, Let him have He
Speaker 2: was like, ohbes on my six hundred pound life. But
Speaker 2: this is just him trying to work like I don't
Speaker 2: have no people ask for help. Doesn't want my help anymore.
Speaker 1: Problem you little caesars getting six Listen. I have sympathy
Speaker 1: for them because I've been there before. You ain't never been.
Speaker 1: I've been getting eighty I was, I was, yeah, but
Speaker 1: real quick, I want to go to the hide in
Speaker 1: the food thing. It's nice to know that that people
Speaker 1: who are, you know, good looking like West hide from
Speaker 1: eating from their signition, from eating it I understand because
Speaker 1: that sounds like this. I always said, that's the sign
Speaker 1: of a fat man. But that is not the sign
Speaker 1: of a fat man because he ain't fast inner fat kid.
Speaker 1: And as they made maybe he got an inside West
Speaker 1: used to be fat.
Speaker 2: See he did. Yeah, having ever heard me talk about fat?
Speaker 2: We've never seen a fat picture? Yeah, I want to.
Speaker 2: I want to see it too. At West with the
Speaker 2: frosted tips.
Speaker 1: Fat West, And he frosted his tips too. He didn't
Speaker 1: try to hide being fat. Like, here's just the meaning.
Speaker 1: Hold on, Mary, what's going on?
Speaker 2: How you doing?
Speaker 3: I'm pretty good. I can so relate to Shannon because
Speaker 3: I'm a diabetic and I have.
Speaker 6: To bring my a one c down.
Speaker 3: That is the hardest thing to do is to not
Speaker 3: go and get that special brownie.
Speaker 6: That's not a special special, but a special brownie.
Speaker 2: That cake wonderful. Yes, so you have to.
Speaker 1: So do you ever, like, uh, sneak it and have
Speaker 1: to hide it from your family they ate it or
Speaker 1: do they know you ate it because you end up
Speaker 1: passing out probably from a diabetic goma.
Speaker 6: No, I don't need that much. No, but don't, No,
Speaker 6: I don't, I don't. I mean, you know, everybody needs.
Speaker 3: That piece of chocolate or that candy cane or something
Speaker 3: like that.
Speaker 2: My favorite Mary is, my favorite Marry is.
Speaker 1: I've pulled the West before where I'm getting ready to
Speaker 1: go to bed. Chelsea's already, you know, brushing her teeth
Speaker 1: and getting ready, probably already in bed, watching like you know,
Speaker 1: Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. And I come walking in
Speaker 1: the room and she goes, what were you doing out there?
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I was taking care of the dogs.
Speaker 1: And she's like, the dogs are in here? What were
Speaker 1: you doing out there? And I smile, and I got
Speaker 1: eminem peanuts in my in my mouth, you know, from
Speaker 1: eating them. I'll hide in the pantry and eat stuff.
Speaker 1: This is this is stuff.
Speaker 2: Like it is frustrated. That's when he does it too.
Speaker 4: It's so frustrating that when you ask for help and
Speaker 4: then I find him in the damn basement stuffing his
Speaker 4: face with cookies.
Speaker 1: So you saying that you quit quit from helping them?
Speaker 1: Are you what happens if Fat West comes back?
Speaker 2: Then you love tips?
Speaker 1: Would you here's a hypothetical question for you, Would you
Speaker 1: guys love each other if you guys both let each other,
Speaker 1: let yourselves go.
Speaker 4: I wouldn't be getting I wouldn't have gotten married to
Speaker 4: him if that were the case, that I would stop
Speaker 4: loving him if he, you know, gained weight.
Speaker 1: That would do you think he would love you if
Speaker 1: you got it? Like if you all of a sudden
Speaker 1: became fat, Channing, Have.
Speaker 2: You ever been fashioned? Not really? I mean I've been
Speaker 2: a hundred pounds.
Speaker 1: If you were one hundred pounds heavier than you are today,
Speaker 1: do you think that Wes would love you or would
Speaker 1: he tell you that you need.
Speaker 2: To lose weight?
Speaker 4: Oh, he'd probably tell me. Would Yeah, he wouldn't, and
Speaker 4: he wouldn't be mean about it. He would just you know,
Speaker 4: come up with some sort of way to get me
Speaker 4: to eat healthier and go to the gym with him.
Speaker 2: He would like what if you got a haircut like
Speaker 2: you did was a little girl? You the is iconic.
Speaker 2: My parents hated me.
Speaker 1: Okay, Kevin, what would you do if you married if
Speaker 1: you married a girl if she got one hundred pounds? Well,
Speaker 1: you like fit girls as it is not, But if
Speaker 1: they were really different between think and fat, Like in
Speaker 1: Barbaraca they say it's a difference between a woman with
Speaker 1: a big ass and a big ass woman.
Speaker 2: A difference. What would you do? What would you do?
Speaker 2: Would you say something to you know?
Speaker 1: What's interesting is like you can't always see the person
Speaker 1: gaining weight almost until it's too late. Yeah, right, Like
Speaker 1: even when you live in your life you look at
Speaker 1: me and be like, damn, when did I gain.
Speaker 4: These twenty five I would hope that most people in
Speaker 4: a loving relationship wouldn't be like your you got fat.
Speaker 4: Instead you say it in a way Okay, no.
Speaker 2: Because that's the relationship I would have with my partner.
Speaker 1: My partner now like hopefully we could have those kinds
Speaker 1: of conversations where I'd be.
Speaker 2: Like, you get in the middle of the night, would
Speaker 2: you stick her with an oze pic you would ye.
Speaker 2: I'm like, we got bad, But this is spider bitches,
Speaker 2: So what's going on, VICKI, how you doing?
Speaker 7: Oh my god, you guys are cracking me up.
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 7: I had to band sugar from my house because my
Speaker 7: husband would always bring it. But he's one of those
Speaker 7: that can eat a couple of cookies or a don't up.
Speaker 2: And I was the type that like.
Speaker 7: If there's a package of cookies there, every time you know,
Speaker 7: you walk into the kitchen, you walk out of the kitchen.
Speaker 2: Yeah, can I tell you something? I almost and you.
Speaker 7: Have to take it.
Speaker 3: I'd make him you have.
Speaker 1: To work truck, Yeah, ChEls. If you look at our
Speaker 1: pantry what it used to be to now what it is,
Speaker 1: because you know we're both trying to be healthy.
Speaker 2: We do not have food in our house.
Speaker 1: Our son comes home from college and he, no joke,
Speaker 1: has to like leave and go to the shell station
Speaker 1: down the street to go get stuff or he has
Speaker 1: the door to ask.
Speaker 7: My daughter stops at the grocery store on our way
Speaker 7: home for breaks and summer stuff because he ain't here.
Speaker 1: You want it's Yeah, it used to be a funhouse
Speaker 1: we had now no longer a funhouse.
Speaker 2: We got rid of all the fun mirrors. What's going on?
Speaker 5: Uh, Tiffany high I I texted in saying that my
Speaker 5: husband would tell me to lose weight, but it's.
Speaker 6: Not exactly the same. He wouldn't be like upset, but
Speaker 6: I have severe health issues, so he would get on
Speaker 6: me extremely bad, telling me to lose weight.
Speaker 2: How are you now?
Speaker 6: I got really sick and I lost this on a way,
Speaker 6: So now he tells me the opposite to gain weight back.
Speaker 2: Interesting? What did you have happened to you, Tiffany, Are
Speaker 2: you okay?
Speaker 6: I wasn't able to eat anymore.
Speaker 8: My esophagus got too small and clothed, so I was
Speaker 8: on a eating tube and went from like two hundred
Speaker 8: pounds down to about one sixty in a month.
Speaker 2: And a half. Oh my goodness, Wow, are you gonna
Speaker 2: be okay?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 6: I'm uh well, I'm on stricter medication and things now,
Speaker 6: so I'm back to being like one seventy five and
Speaker 6: I'm healthy, but I'm five eleven.
Speaker 2: So do you like your boy?
Speaker 3: Uh?
Speaker 6: Yeah, you like sicker girls like you like some fit
Speaker 6: but sticker.
Speaker 1: So wow, Well we're hoping for for everything'll be okay.
Speaker 2: Janet, what's up?
Speaker 1: Hey?
Speaker 3: I think West has a legit food addiction. I'm a
Speaker 3: psychologist and I've worked with people that have just a
Speaker 3: bad relationship.
Speaker 1: With food because I use food for comfort, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? Like, that's my thing. Is is that
Speaker 1: something that Wes does? Is he?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 2: I don't think so. Or is it just a sugar
Speaker 2: just once like sugar at the end of the night.
Speaker 3: You know, it's the hiding that is the key piece,
Speaker 3: the hiding part. You have to hide what you're doing
Speaker 3: from your partner. You have to run to the basement
Speaker 3: and hurry up and stuff it in your face so
Speaker 3: that the person doesn't catch you. So it's the secrecy part.
Speaker 3: Hiding in the pantry mojo not good.
Speaker 1: Does Shannon have anything to worry about with Wes doing this?
Speaker 1: Hiding in the basement thing is the next level. We
Speaker 1: have to call him to see where he's going to
Speaker 1: send a dozen free donuts.
Speaker 2: Hi, this is Bob.
Speaker 1: I'm calling from from donuts bloom dot com and I
Speaker 1: want to know where you'd like to send a dozen
Speaker 1: free powdered sugar donuts. No, but I will say this
Speaker 1: to you. When I stress is one thing. Stress is
Speaker 1: a big deal with me. Like if I'm unhappy, I eat.
Speaker 1: If I'm happy, I eat. If I'm not happy, I eat,
Speaker 1: I eat. Whenever I have anything like, I use it
Speaker 1: for comfort. It's a comfort for.
Speaker 3: Me, so exactly, and you understand exactly why you do it.
Speaker 3: I don't know if Wes knows why he's doing it.
Speaker 3: But the key piece is Shannon's not going to uh
Speaker 3: try to hold him accountable because that's his job.
Speaker 2: She quit.
Speaker 1: Kind What kind of a wife, isn't it?
Speaker 3: Well? No, because that was really passive, aggressive way of
Speaker 3: trying to get her to I mean, it's like a kid,
Speaker 3: don't eat the girl scout cookies. You're going to ruin
Speaker 3: your dinner. You know, It's that kind of thing. She
Speaker 3: it's good that she stopped. He just needs to figure
Speaker 3: out why he needs to fight it if it's not
Speaker 3: affecting his health. I think that's the key piece.
Speaker 1: Janet's a psychologist on the phone with us right now.
Speaker 1: That's interesting. Thank you for thank thank you for the
Speaker 1: call here right now. You know what this, this whole
Speaker 1: conversation makes me want to do is get Tate's chocolate
Speaker 1: chip cookies.
Speaker 2: Go get them. Where do I get them? Manere? I
Speaker 2: guess Croker, Casco, wherever cookies are sold. Where? All right,
Speaker 2: we're done for what's that, Janet?
Speaker 3: Nothing I was saying. I was going to say a
Speaker 3: long time, second.
Speaker 1: Time, welcome, Thank you, We appreciate it. Thanks for keeping
Speaker 1: us straight, Janet, we appreciate you.
Speaker 3: All righty, take care of yourself